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Poem by Alan Robarge / When Asked, How Do We Heal?
Alan Robarge, Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist
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[@carograce4111]

".....shame is nothing more than your ancestors grief wanting to know you....." one of MANY gorgeous lines in this poem. Thank you so much

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Yes, I know how many of us feel that so deeply… wanting to be known. It echoes back to generations and generations. Thank you for connecting with the poem.

[@princessparadox1624]

I cried and let out noises of deep deep agony, it was a cathartic release, your words are beautiful. Thank you so much

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Oh thank you for sharing how moving this video was for you. I'm glad you connected with the poem and it brought you some release. I know it can be comforting when others connect with our experience. If you aren't familiar with the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships, you may like joining us. We learn so much from each other.
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[@Lisa.charlwood71]

Wow! “Do you know how to sit in the deep deep dark?” All too well, resonates profoundly- ❤- thank you ❤

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

That’s wonderful to know this deeply resonated for you. It’s great when others connect with what we share. I also would like to share about the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships, if you haven’t already heard about it. It’s so validating when others relate with our experiences - it’s how we learn so much. Thanks again for the kind comment. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@QueenAmethyst55]

If ever there was a comfort angel then you took on that role Alan. Whatever hardship befalls you, know that you touch the essence of many of your co walkers of strife. 😊

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

I appreciate the kind comment. Thank you for letting me know this video was comforting. It is wonderful to share with others who can connect with the videos. We benefit from these meaningful moments of connection. I want to share you may also like the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. When our shares are relatable it is so affirming. Thank you again for the kind feedback. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@LenkaSaratoga]

The most beautiful poem
I ever heard. LOVE IT

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Oh thank you for the kind words. I’m glad you love the poem. It’s derived from personal experience and it’s wonderful to share with others and hear that others are moved by it or that others resonate with it. I want to share also how inspiring it is to be among others exploring topics on healing like in the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. It’s validating and we learn a lot from each other. Thank you again for the kind comment. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@susannah-carolla9587]

I will come back to this again and again.

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

I’m so glad this poem connected for you.

[@odeleyea]

Thank you for sharing your voice with us all, Alan 😊

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you for valuing my sharing. It’s rewarding when others connect with what we have to share. We often have inspiring conversations in the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. We learn a lot from each other. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@maryattkisson2873]

Thank you Alan that was unbelievably and beautifully written

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

You’re welcome and thank you for kind words and for connecting with this poem. It comes from personal experiences. It’s wonderful when we can exchange in this way, it feels meaningful. I know how many of us want to feel known. I want to share that we connect over topics related to healing in the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. We learn a lot from each other. Thanks again for your feedback. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@janetones6221]

"Wanting to know you. Wanting to matter." Profound and Beautiful! Thank-you Alan 💜

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you for the kind words. Glad you connected with the poem. It comes from personal experiences and it’s wonderful to be able to share with others who can resonate. We often have conversations that feel like this in the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. It’s so affirming when others understand us. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@JeanetteMcCracken]

Always fresh.
❤

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you. Glad you like the poem.

[@vanessac1965]

Thank you ❤

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

You’re welcome.

[@aalectra]

🙏 thank you

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

You’re welcome.

[@meganh7872]

Amazing!!

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you.

[@liliana6149]

Stunning.

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you.

[@kbarak62]

So amazing

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you.

[@jaydub7386]

What part made you cry?

[@dkblue9331]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thanks.

[@kimfrederick7710]

Just beautiful. I love this and how heartfelt it is

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thank you for expressing this was heartfelt. I think it’s wonderful sharing and receiving feedback like this. Many of us want to feel seen and known. Also, I would like to share about the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. We don’t immediately realize how much others can relate with us. Thanks again. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

[@vidheyaprem]

I missed this poem. Thanks Alan 🫶

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

You’re welcome. Glad you connect with this poem.

[@knitnpaint]

Amazing. I am in the dark and the grief. There has to be an end to it.

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

I hear you. Thanks for connecting with the poem.

[@bruceprigge5212]

Thanks 🙂

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

You’re welcome.

[@travelfun3513]

nice❤‍🩹

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

Thanks.

[@chroniccopingjessicamaclean]

😢

[@AlanRobargeHealingTrauma]

I hear you.