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  • Опубліковано 13 лют 2024
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  • @GreatScotts
    @GreatScotts  3 місяці тому +82

    Happy Valentine’s Day 💖

    • @djdingwall1
      @djdingwall1 3 місяці тому

      Happy Sweeties Day

    • @Satch5150clf
      @Satch5150clf 3 місяці тому +1

      Happy Valentine’s Day. ❤️ Shaye got roses…I’m completely jealous.

  • @alicia10387
    @alicia10387 2 місяці тому +46

    I love that Shay told you not to wait, that is so loving. Shows how much Shay loved you then and clearly still loves you now.

  • @saraferguson1156
    @saraferguson1156 17 днів тому +6

    I was raised Mormon and everything you talked about is giving me flashbacks 😂😂 I left the church because I didn’t feel like I fit in. Not for the same reasons as Shaye, but I still didn’t fit the typical/ideal “Molly Mormon” image. I’m not romantically/sexually attracted to either men or women, or really anyone. I’ve always been this way but just in the last year or so I’ve really embraced this and realized this is who I am. I’ve always questioned Mormonism and had doubts, and I’ve never aspired to the traditional female role: homemaker, mother, quiet, dainty, etc. I’m the complete opposite. I’m loud, crude, outspoken and I have no plans to be married. I never got any major pushback or criticism because of this but I always felt out of place. So much so to the point that around COVID when everything shut down I decided not to go back to church when things went back to normal. And now here I am. I’m still struggling with my decision and feeling isolated and out of place but I’m slowly working towards accepting my decision and who I am in this new chapter of my life. Thank you guys for this video. It was very sweet and eye opening

  • @alisoni7
    @alisoni7 3 місяці тому +59

    The roses/tulips exchange is my favorite... I'm glad you found your people so early in life.

  • @marieneu264
    @marieneu264 3 місяці тому +107

    14:11 Yes! We need a part two about the dating and when she came home from her mission!!!! Please!

  • @davidmicheletti6292
    @davidmicheletti6292 3 місяці тому +133

    As someone who gas been married for 50 years and also shares intersex gender development my marriage has been wonderful

  • @carolwrigglesworth9013
    @carolwrigglesworth9013 3 місяці тому +67

    How beautiful and what a journey. You know what Id like to see/hear is Shaye playing something on the piano that goes for more than a couple of minutes. Big piano fan.

  • @smeyer6960
    @smeyer6960 Місяць тому +8

    "My love for Shaye isn't very pure, either..." is the most wholesome teen journal entry ever, especially considering the 22 years you've shared since! 😇 💕

    • @GreatScotts
      @GreatScotts  Місяць тому +4

      😂

    • @smeyer6960
      @smeyer6960 Місяць тому +2

      @@GreatScotts I met my forever person in 2002 as well, and the thing that we always give to each other is unconditional acceptance, no matter how other people may judge our choices as individuals or as a couple. Our story unfolded very differently than yours, but we get a lot of, "Really? She did WHAT? And you are okay with it? Hmm. How...unconventional." Some people will never understand us, but we really don't care what anyone thinks! I'm relating so much to your story, even though our stories are so different. Love is love! 🌈 ❤

  • @KristyRadio
    @KristyRadio 3 місяці тому +32

    8:30 the moment according to Shaye made me cry 😭 absolutely beautiful ❤️

  • @romerome2711
    @romerome2711 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you so much for your videos, both of you!. I have recently started my transition and your channel has been a beautifully realistic view, seeing your family grow through this wonderful experience brings hope!

  • @jeffsinclair4412
    @jeffsinclair4412 2 місяці тому +5

    Hi Scotts, I have been following you for awhile. I have enjoyed watching your family and your growth. I have mentioned before how so much of what you have said about your journey is really familiar to me. This evening I watched a couple of the older videos from when you first came out to when you had your ffs. When listening to both of you answer questions it just was really thoughtful and affirming. In a world where our journey is being used by bad faith actors for their own gain, it`s reassuring to listen to a positive message about being ourselves. I hope you all are well and extremely happy. Love Marie

  • @geezergo7186
    @geezergo7186 2 місяці тому +15

    As someone who is older, and trans, and who has avoided dating and intimacy most of my adult life, out of fear of rejection (for being trans) your ❤️ story is beautiful and inspirational!
    The fact that your marriage endures and thrives, is sadly still the exception rather than the rule.
    I do however see more and more relations surviving post-transition, so I am hopeful for the future (even if it’s too late for me!)
    Thank you for sharing your story!
    True love is such a beautiful thing! ❤❤❤

    • @missdee153
      @missdee153 Місяць тому +2

      **I want to first say that I am trying very hard to use the correct wording and terminology to be respectful towards everyone, including the LGBTQIA+ community. Sometimes, I fall very short. If I do so, please let me know but there is no need for meanness. A gentle nudge is enough. **
      Stories like this makes me see that there are still couples who truly do love deeper than the surface. When I fell in love with my husband (at 16), I fell in love with the person. No matter what, I can't imagine leaving. This story is so genuine. It is beautiful. I can not love this enough!!

    • @jjcc-yr4bk
      @jjcc-yr4bk Місяць тому +1

      It's never too late for anyone or anything.

  • @josefinacoloma2851
    @josefinacoloma2851 2 місяці тому +5

    so much love!!!! I'm glad you found yourselves and extricated from mormon views. I have loved following your journey. lots of learning and heart opening moments.

  • @GuangkaZ
    @GuangkaZ 2 місяці тому +4

    Your story is beyond beautiful, so glad the algorithm took me here!

  • @uhfootballgirl
    @uhfootballgirl 2 місяці тому +7

    Yes, more stories of her return from her mission, your engagement and marriage please! ❤🎉❤🎉❤

  • @alaynazolot2440
    @alaynazolot2440 Місяць тому +2

    The ending XD I had to watch it multiple times!!! I loveeeeeee watching your videos. Shaye I couldn't be happier to see you living your life authentically. It feels like this is who you were all along and you just look so gorgeous and happy!!

  • @afrykanqwin
    @afrykanqwin Місяць тому +4

    I love them and while i know she is supportive of the wife's transition i hope she has given herself the room and space to grieve or process her sadness. Centering both peoples feelings and emotions is important. I am not saying they arent doing so clearly they love each other but in a society that promotes toxic positivity and suppressing certain emotions or fears....i do love the grace exemplified by both but its like i want to ask "how are you really doing" "did you grieve truthfully" "did you do therapy"...regardless i wish you both well...beautiful and graceful.

  • @paulashealthyliving
    @paulashealthyliving 3 місяці тому +4

    Happy valentines' day to you both. Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable.

  • @---BAM---
    @---BAM--- 3 місяці тому +26

    Shae has the most hilarious sense of humour. You two are so sweet. 💝

  • @NikaLunaWrites
    @NikaLunaWrites Місяць тому +5

    Gosh I loved this so much. Your story had me grinning ear to ear.

  • @SunnyDays1992
    @SunnyDays1992 Місяць тому +1

    This was beautifully produced. Thank you both for sharing your story ❤️

  • @Monk-eee
    @Monk-eee Місяць тому +2

    hey ladies, I am a newbie & I am SO INCREDIBLY HAPPY I found you 2, this is my 1st video I'm watching. I adore your connection & agree with Shaye that you are both so lucky to have found eachother so young, grew up together & are still in love.. Your are the true meaning of dedication & love. Also your both stunning women. Thanks for your time I so look forward to hearing more & learning more about your love as well as adventures. Kat ✌💜🙃🙏

  • @crystalmcleod2651
    @crystalmcleod2651 15 днів тому +1

    I very much enjoyed this video ❤ super well done, relatable, and candid. Thanks for sharing!

  • @natalielawyerchick
    @natalielawyerchick 2 місяці тому +3

    Animating Shaye as a girl in the flashback scene brought a little tear to my eye.

  • @AndrewMarloweTV
    @AndrewMarloweTV 3 місяці тому +27

    Really enjoyed this. Its amazing that Amanda still has her diary from when you all first met. And what Shaye said about relationships and people always changing is so true

  • @lisafowler6278
    @lisafowler6278 2 місяці тому +21

    When I saw you for the first time, it was in your video “Why We Left.” A few days later I was telling my husband about your story. I will never forget that when Shay finally told you (Amanda) about his gender dysphoria, your reaction was to feel so sad that Shay had been carrying this on his own for so long. And I felt the sincerity of that-nothing like “he deceived me,” or anything about yourself-all about Shay, the person you have loved all your adult life. My husband and I were both raised Mormon and we’ve been married 35 years, together 38. I remember talking with one of my siblings about unconditional love. I said that there is nothing I could do that would cause Cameron to stop loving me. He would do absolutely everything in his power to meet me exactly where I am. If you have that, you are unbelievably fortunate, and it’s the thing I wanted for each of our 3 children, for them to find someone who loves them like that. Both of you are beautiful, inside and out, and I am sending our very best wishes for your continuing happiness.

  • @aspensugar13
    @aspensugar13 2 місяці тому +3

    A friend of mine who transitioned moved to Utah. They been married with kids many years. Kids are older and moved out now. But they've stayed together through it all. She is so very happy now. Their love is amazing. I've followed her story for a few years now. Wonder if you live close to them. Would be a great friendship going through the same things. They are both amazing people.

  • @indrinita
    @indrinita 3 місяці тому +5

    I honestly loved this video so much I watched it twice 😂😂 but what a beautiful love story! So glad you guys are a family ❤ By the way, just wanted to say you two are both beautiful women inside and out, and wow is Shaye ever a striking beauty! No wonder your children are so gorgeous.

  • @agatamazanowska6124
    @agatamazanowska6124 Місяць тому +2

    Hi Ladies, you are absolutely wonderful human beings. I've been watching your videos for a couple of days and your journey together has completely amazed me, there is so much love, commitment, acceptance and openness. I look at you and think, I would like the world to be like this. I wish all the best to your entire family.

  • @blechberrymuffin2484
    @blechberrymuffin2484 Місяць тому +5

    My twin brother is trans so this story makes my heart flutter ❤ I know he will find love

  • @sunnylilme
    @sunnylilme 2 місяці тому +4

    This is so beautiful. I'm richer for having heard this story.❤

  • @Pattie_rizzo
    @Pattie_rizzo Місяць тому +2

    The opera over reading the diary is top notch content creating. Love yall!!! lol

  • @laspatoaventurasdeana8893
    @laspatoaventurasdeana8893 3 місяці тому +4

    Shaye your hair looks amazing!!!❤

  • @lilacchocolate
    @lilacchocolate 2 місяці тому +3

    This was so incredibly sweet, thank for sharing your story with us! 🥹💕
    I’m 32 and still waiting for my first and forever love. People who get to meet theirs so early on in life, like you two, are incredibly lucky!!! 🍀💕☺️ Can’t wait for my turn 🤞🥰

  • @QurVgn
    @QurVgn 3 місяці тому +7

    Wow! I haven’t watched for maybe 6 months - and Shaye (sp?) you’re So beautiful!!! 😍😍😍 And you’re Both just beautiful inside and out. 💕

  • @orlandoromero22
    @orlandoromero22 24 дні тому +1

    The editing voice over / animations / visuals made this story one of the best. Thanx for giving us a glimpse of your life.EDIT: Definitely need a part2

  • @erzebetb
    @erzebetb Місяць тому +1

    it's so damn evident that y'all love each so much~ and that's what matters, the PERSON you love, not what 'suit' they are in. when you find that, not much else matters, and you'd best hold onto it for dear life. i'm so glad you stayed together. much love

  • @philippawood5047
    @philippawood5047 Місяць тому +1

    This is an example of soulmates. I especially loved seeing Shaye's memory of those moments, it gave such a beautiful insight into who you are.

  • @bkm2797
    @bkm2797 3 місяці тому +9

    Oh my goodness that is the sweetest story of how two hearts became one. Love the innocence and the respect, the world needs more of that for sure. Happy Valentines to true love!💕💕💕

  • @ilenehirsch2208
    @ilenehirsch2208 Місяць тому +1

    What a great story on so many levels. Full of love, courage and emotional maturity. I wish both of you continued love.

  • @FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij
    @FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij 2 місяці тому +4

    Wow you two were made for eachother! Happy you guys are still happy together yrs laterxx
    The artwork is beautiful too!!! Who did it?

  • @simongoodwin5253
    @simongoodwin5253 3 місяці тому +25

    I'm so happy that you are both still together, Love is love, regardless!

  • @jennifermorris834
    @jennifermorris834 7 днів тому

    Omg the ending with the flowers cracked me up 🤣
    you guys are a real example of soulmates.

  • @dionneappuhamyge25
    @dionneappuhamyge25 Місяць тому +1

    Omg this is such a beautiful love story ❤❤❤ Hearing it brought tears to my eyes. You both make such a beautiful couple. May God always shower his blessings on both of you.

  • @repolhovoador
    @repolhovoador 2 місяці тому +1

    I would really love to know the rest of your love story 💖 thank you so much for your videos 💖

  • @darksarcasm4835
    @darksarcasm4835 3 місяці тому +7

    What a great video! Thank you! I cannot wait to hear the rest of y’all’s story!❤❤❤

  • @caitlinankney2310
    @caitlinankney2310 3 місяці тому +2

    It’s Shaye bear! Love you guys and loved this video.

  • @kimbrown419
    @kimbrown419 2 місяці тому +12

    I love your story! I think it's so wonderful and brave of both of you to share this with everyone on UA-cam!
    I started watching you about 17 months ago when you left the Mormon Church. Which I sure was hard and then transition which must have been even harder. I see this as a blessing. Native Americans called this two spirits that a person has, one Male and one Female. It's to be celebrated and I think you both have this special gift! Blessing and hope you have a wonderful life together!!

    • @THEMADHATTRESS
      @THEMADHATTRESS Місяць тому

      That is NOT what two spirit is! Stop spreading misinformation!

    • @THEMADHATTRESS
      @THEMADHATTRESS Місяць тому

      And yes I'm native American. Apache!

    • @kimbrown419
      @kimbrown419 Місяць тому

      ​@@THEMADHATTRESSCan you explain it to me then? I worked at the Ute Tribe in Northeast Utah and that is what I was told. I realize there is a lot of Diversity among different tribes. I just feel the Native Americans I have met are a lot more accepting of Gender issues.

  • @taramatheis1451
    @taramatheis1451 6 днів тому

    What a beautiful loving couple. I've already watched several videos of them - leaving the church & transitioning.. and what strikes me every time is there raw honesty and humility and ultimately that love conquers all ❤❤❤

  • @adelemichele
    @adelemichele 2 місяці тому +2

    Aww what a lovely story...you two are so beautiful. xxx
    🥰

  • @tiadavenport5465
    @tiadavenport5465 8 днів тому

    My husband and I went miniature golfing too. We've been together for over thirty-five years. All the best to you both.

  • @rnrchres
    @rnrchres 3 місяці тому +4

    Oh my goodness yes Gillbert Blythe. I see it. And I think many of us boy-crazy girls of that age and time put Gilbert at the top of our crush list.

  • @ChristiAnnePlough
    @ChristiAnnePlough 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes, we need part two!!!

  • @ruthc4458
    @ruthc4458 3 місяці тому +3

    I absolutely loved hearing your story and hope you have a part 2 soon. I’ve been following you since your first vlog and love your family. Skyler and his family got me hooked on your channel too. Love to you! ❤️

  • @user-mp4zs2by9m
    @user-mp4zs2by9m 3 місяці тому +5

    I’d love to hear more about Shaye’s mission & return home.
    You are both looking so very beautiful! Your light shines when you’re living your truth! ✨❤️✨

  • @kainoalarson5655
    @kainoalarson5655 3 місяці тому +8

    I think your story will s so inspiring. I feel so much love and you definitely make me smile when I watch your videos ❤️❤️all the best to you both

  • @nicolesi2201
    @nicolesi2201 3 місяці тому +4

    I love this story. Y’all warm my heart every time. Also lol, my ex Jill literally looks exactly like Jennifer Connelly from Labyrinth.

  • @maggiemacha5552
    @maggiemacha5552 3 місяці тому +1

    Simply sensational love ❤️

  • @AnneloesF
    @AnneloesF 3 місяці тому +1

    Awwwwww! Happy Valentine’s to you both!

  • @Jewellene
    @Jewellene 3 місяці тому +5

    This was so lovely. Shay has the most grounded energy. I'm so glad you both have each other. ❤

  • @mariefaucher9658
    @mariefaucher9658 2 місяці тому +1

    Awwe while I have to say I am conflicted about transgender your love is so beautiful and can’t be denied ♥️. Also everyone has the right to be their authentic self. I just struggle with feeling like God makes us our authentic selves. God Bless yall ❤

  • @arielmcgillacuddy6640
    @arielmcgillacuddy6640 3 місяці тому +5

    That was greatl with the little glass piano. ❤️❤️ Happy Valentine’s Day!

  • @phyllisbrueckner3818
    @phyllisbrueckner3818 3 місяці тому +4

    Am loving your story! You guys are an amazing couple, great parents, and I’m so pleased you have the courage to inform those of us who really did not understand “trans” what that means. I knew “gay”, have no problem at all with them, and am now understanding trans, am happy to be educated. Thank you for your videos. Love you both!

  • @SamanthaPearson
    @SamanthaPearson Місяць тому

    You two are just the sweetest! 😊

  • @jennellmutch9985
    @jennellmutch9985 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh gosh , love the read from the diary ! I used to have them in school as well, journals all that stuff. I am a few years older than y'all and I really didn't think folks did those anymore, or they just translate it to a phone ! Lol
    You all could make a movie out of this !
    I had so hoped that one of the magazines I sent your gay parade pride day kiss would be picked up and put out there ! It was such a statement and love !
    I also see that I was taken off your UA-cam channel, I hope it was something I said or anything? Or maybe it was UA-cam ? Not sure ! Just let me know if it's issues or something. Until the next video take care !

  • @tthomas6013
    @tthomas6013 Місяць тому +1

    Ok Girl,..."Shaye is so sweet". Not,... I'm 60, and I'm laughing my butt off over here,..."Shaye is what?...Sexy". In your own writing! You both are so genuine. The way you sit and chat with each other and let us listen in, is so sincere. It's beautiful really. I'm also impressed with your Brother-in-law and his strength for standing up for truth. What a great family ❣️ By the way, I'm still laughing. Thank you for sharing the LOVE ❤️ Many Blessings.

  • @mollylysowski6656
    @mollylysowski6656 29 днів тому

    Watched u both for awhile this is the best era of u two truly beautiful watching u two blossom

  • @sarahzmom1234
    @sarahzmom1234 Місяць тому

    It's so wonderful to see your happiness!

  • @nellie1rene642
    @nellie1rene642 3 місяці тому +4

    I love you guys! you never fail to make my heart smile in a time and world climate when so few things spark joy. Thank you for sharing yourselves 😘🥰💗

  • @lindseyjohanneson6950
    @lindseyjohanneson6950 29 днів тому

    You guys have the most beautiful love story!❤

  • @akasha.goldenwolf
    @akasha.goldenwolf 3 місяці тому +12

    When you read the journal oh my gossshhhh I am crying!!!! Such a special time capsule

  • @behape_4evr
    @behape_4evr 3 місяці тому

    What a sweet story. True Love!

  • @marguerittegoetsch2303
    @marguerittegoetsch2303 3 місяці тому +5

    Loved your storyline, it was beautiful.
    Happy Valentines Day
    🏳️‍⚧️🇺🇲❤🏳️‍⚧️❤

  • @beautifulgirl219
    @beautifulgirl219 3 місяці тому +7

    Delightful. I want to hear more. I need some vicarious romance in my life. I identify with both of you. Love to you both and blessings to you and all you love. Cheers!

  • @summerlavender17
    @summerlavender17 3 місяці тому +8

    Happy Valentine's Day, you lovely lovebirds!

  • @mariefaucher9658
    @mariefaucher9658 2 місяці тому +1

    Yall are the cutest ❤

  • @its_lucifer8126
    @its_lucifer8126 3 місяці тому +3

    How romantic ❤️❤️ i loved it. I feel motivated now as i am similar to shaye

  • @PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol
    @PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol 3 місяці тому +10

    ❤ Happy Valentines Day! Thank you for sharing your love story. YES! We want to hear more! You two are precious! ❤

  • @fredericlabranche9573
    @fredericlabranche9573 27 днів тому

    Me and my wife are so in the same moment as you. We just don't post supporting and upholding encouraging vidéo like you two. You are an inspiration to us all. We should form a club to share.

  • @ginamorales7424
    @ginamorales7424 Місяць тому

    What a beautiful family you are 💕 truly love ❤️

  • @lisalundin3972
    @lisalundin3972 3 місяці тому +5

    I love your love story. Thank you for sharing.

  • @ladyevefan
    @ladyevefan 19 днів тому

    I love how you all edit your content such class and top notch storytelling. It’s as if we were there in the moment with you all. Love is love that is how it should be. Genitalia is only God’s way of accessorizing ❤

  • @smallfootprint2961
    @smallfootprint2961 3 місяці тому +2

    So glad your love is carrying you through these changing times. Happy Vaentine's day.

  • @IceMaverick1986
    @IceMaverick1986 7 днів тому

    We're you ever in Florence KY? Because I feel like I've seen Shaye around on their mission. Maybe it was someone thar looked like Shaye but I swear I saw Shaye in Florence in 2005, I was at the movie theater and saw missionaries walking past the window lol that theater is torn down now... it's now a Kroger. Haha 😅

    • @GreatScotts
      @GreatScotts  7 днів тому +1

      Yep, I was in Florence in 2005 🤣

    • @IceMaverick1986
      @IceMaverick1986 7 днів тому

      @@GreatScotts So I did see you! lol Hi and I hope you're having a good night! :)

  • @karynkinsella5103
    @karynkinsella5103 Місяць тому

    I love you two I think your story is beautiful ❤️

  • @UteGoldkuhle
    @UteGoldkuhle 3 місяці тому +3

    A most wonderful couple walking through life and living truth! Beautiful!

  • @lotion_laura
    @lotion_laura Місяць тому

    So beautiful! ❤

  • @MS-vi9xo
    @MS-vi9xo 3 місяці тому +3

    I love your relationship so much!

  • @crystaldills577
    @crystaldills577 29 днів тому

    I’m jus gonna say it! Sister you won the lottery lol!! No wonder you stayed! I’m not surprised at all! You are both beautiful🥰💜🥰

  • @pamelahowe1870
    @pamelahowe1870 26 днів тому

    God bless this family ❤

  • @cleojones4427
    @cleojones4427 3 місяці тому +3

    Happy Valentines Day to you both! That was BEAUTIFUL and SO SWEET!!!! Yes, what happened when she came home from the Mission?! ❤️❤️

  • @Moxi44
    @Moxi44 2 місяці тому

    Love the striped dress! Where is it from? Thanks

  • @bronwyncookson9309
    @bronwyncookson9309 Місяць тому

    Ohhhhhh how beautiful a glass piano ❤

  • @cherylduncan5158
    @cherylduncan5158 3 місяці тому +7

    Your love story is beautiful ❤

  • @biekevanriel5231
    @biekevanriel5231 3 місяці тому +7

    2 beautiful people, happy valentin's❤

  • @personofinterest8731
    @personofinterest8731 2 місяці тому +4

    I havent been this captivated by a love story for a long, long time. Thank you, how beautiful you both are, thank you! Granny from South Africa. 🇿🇦💜

  • @royjohnson355
    @royjohnson355 Місяць тому

    You are a very beautiful couple. You are each other's strength. You are each other's support. You are each other's rock. You are each other's heart. It proves that even transgender people can find love with a partner that supports them to the fullest, without any strings attached. I hope that you two stay together forever. Love is love!!

  • @kaleigh4081
    @kaleigh4081 3 місяці тому +8

    Yes! Shay absolutely looked like Gilbert Blythe! And your young journal writing reminds me so much of L. M. Montgomery's "Anne" style of writing.
    Have you written a book??

  • @milly7628
    @milly7628 3 місяці тому +2

    Another great video! Yes, please do a part 2.

  • @user-dn5zt2kf3h
    @user-dn5zt2kf3h Місяць тому

    Me encanta vuestra historia . Me gustaría ver vuestros videos subtitulados a Español . Ya que no entiendo mucho lo que decís. Gracias❤