Last year i used to watch ur videos and i applied ur no contact rule,those days are the worst day and most difficult days in my life but i didnt give up and after 7 months i guess it was working,she came back and now we r together again.
@@darthdad1198 Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love... I know of man who can attract back your ex within 48hours.. He was the one who brought back my ex within 48hours ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him
To all of you going through a breakup, we are in this together. I used to be a mess, and through hard work, through these videos, I have gotten stronger. We can all become better!
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Not the point bro. We need to get them back. Of course working with ourselves and getting better matters but that’s not the point. The main focus is getting them back.
My Ex frantically called and texted me out of the blue after 10 mos. of no contact ! So startled ! thought about speaking to her for a moment ! Wanted me back and me to come over ! told her that i would think about it ! decided i didn't want her anymore ! Even though i had no one else , I had healed and moved on ! Never thought i would ever be able tell her that ! thanks Coach Lee
Some of coach Lee’s words are painful to hear but this coach has got me through the worst of it. I listened to him everyday for 2 months and without him, I wouldn’t have been able to keep NC- he put me off the idea of reaching out and I’m glad I listened to him. 3 months after breaking up, I got a long love email from my ex. He reached out just like coach Lee said he would probably do, and I’m glad I didn’t reach out. Trust NC and trust coach Lee. Thank you for everything Coach
@@ch76504 day 45-70 is when all the separation anxiety comes into play. I’ve learnt this from the coaches I’ve been listening to, specifically coach Lee. I predict it’s going to be likely you will hear in this time frame. Good luck to you
@@quirkyquester no- nothing happened after the email. I ended up emailing 6 weeks later and same with the ‘I miss you’ emails but nothing after them.. I’be been back in NC since January. I’m not reaching out again.
@@Enigma32174 I’m on day 37. Has been the hardest time but I’m still not gonna give in because I didn’t break us and well he wanted this so I gotta respect it and give it to him. This is like out 5th breakup but I’ve ALWAYS stayed in contact in the past. This is the first time I do NC from the jump
I almost got my ex back! Thank you Coach Lee! I'm still not out of the park yet but she invited me over last night and we hung out for a WHOLE 24 hours straight. She went from saying she was not sure and telling me to keep my distance in the bed to calling our outing for pizza a DATE the next night AND posting it on social media. By the end of our first "session" I caught her nestling her head on my shoulder whole we watched a movie together. She realized what she was doing and pulled back but I could tell she was trying hard to keep her composure. You saved my love life. I really didn't want to have to go through the trouble of finding someone else. There are so many other fish in the sea but only one with her genome. We are all one of a kind! I love her just as much as I love this channel!! You taught me so much . I will still buy the breakup kit because I still believe I could use it while her and I continue to grow and I NEED to support you for what you did for me, you ROCK!
Im sure you hear this every single day but i just want to thank you. You helped me through a very difficult time.. i dont know how i found you but you literally changed my life in a matter of months. I truly appreciate you
I followed Coach Lee's advice. It worked. I was with someone for 4 months. She broke things off. I reached out after 67 days of no contact. She was thrilled to hear from me, and explained she only broke up because I had been neglecting her. I realized I had been too distant and we promised to communicate more and share more affection. Back together 6 months now and never happier!
We’re the same situation.I thought we will fix the problems that we had after break up but looks like it’s getting worst.he reached out first on his birthday and pledged to comeback and I’m happy to accept it but going the same situation before so sad.
I remember binge watching all of your videos when going through my break up, its been 3.5 months since my breakup and I feel 100% better and over my ex, I realised many things, such as how badly I was being treated. I have now just started dating a new girl who is honestly amazing, she truly cares about me and I can be myself around her, its honestly very great, and shes showing me what its like to be in a healthy relationship where I am heard and am able to communicate how I feel without getting shutdown, manipulated and gas lighted. Thank you so much coach Lee for all the help and helping me a lot. And yes during this period of my breakup and no contact my ex did reach out to me after 7 weeks.
Today is day 30 of NC . I haven’t heard from him at all not once since the break up and I haven’t reached out to him or broken no contract. I started no contact the day of break up and never begged. This has been a really hurtful experience. I will never reach out to him if he doesn’t contact me. As the days go on I’m starting to feel like I don’t care as much anymore because of how he did me . I was really good to him almost to good. I never got an explanation nothing. All he said was he can’t be with me and he was sorry, I asked what was the reason because the day before on Mother’s day he told me how beautiful I was and how lucky he was to have me. This doesn’t feel like love at to hurt someone like that. He never even told me why. I told him he hurt me but good luck . That was it . I miss him but I had to realize maybe I don’t need him . I don’t know what the future holds. I can say I don’t cry anymore.
YES, it's extremely painful and without an explanation makes you feel soooooo used and unloved! But, you're getting stronger...good for you! I'm praying God heals your pain!
Almost going on 60 days of no contact. Through out no contact i kept my ex on social media so he can see how good im doing. Finally decided to move on, since he seemed happy and that he was clearly moving on. I deleted pictures, and did all the necessary things to “Move on” When i finally made the decision. That same day i get a text after almost 2 months. I responded, kept it casual and short, but also friendly. I didn’t continue the conversations but he wanted more and we continue to text through out the day. My suggestion for everyone is to move on. Move on with your life, don’t think about the person, go out, stay busy, and level up as an individual. Mentality, physically, spiritually and financially. Not just at surface level. But really change in real life. It makes you feel god as a person and also to the point that you don’t even want them anymore. And they will come back.
My ex is contacting me trying to get with me im so happy and this is what I've always wanted.... is something I would have said a few months ago... looking how she once treated me I can say this... it seemed like I was just some dog getting kicked by the owner and still going back... I'm happy im over her but im even more happy that I look at myself as the prize. Im sure no one will read this but hopefully one person does and I hope they understand no man, or woman is the prize you are and treat yourself as such dont ever forget this. We tend to forget we also have value and if the relationship fails then you are a failure. You're not and you are not going through any of this alone just look at the comments a lot of people, different backgrounds different colors of life different ages ranging from teens to seniors and they all have said so far it hurts but they are slowly getting over it... remember you're the prize learn to treat yourself as such
it's been 2 month and a half, my ex seems to be happy with her rebound. I would like to thank you Coach Lee for getting me through the initial stages, had been watching your videos religiously and helped me with the anxiety. Thought i did made several mistakes but after watching your videos am doing no contact and will be working on myself. i have at this point lost all hope but will not reach out :). Thank you for getting me through one of the toughest time of MY life that i have experienced till date.
thank you so much coach lee 🙏😭. This is my 4th week doing no contact. You let me review our relationship. I realized one thing that I was the only one who's doing the work in our relationship and I was blinded by my love towards her. I don't want the way she treated me because there's no sense of urgency. While I always put her first and prioritized her and I'm not getting the same effort. I love my self so much and I will take care of my heart m, because feeling lonely, sad, lost and being dumped is a scary experience. Moving forward I'll make sure to focus on my self and goal love life will be just a bonus if it comes🙏 thank you coach🙏❤️
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I just want to say thank you! My ex has been in contact during no contact and he apologized and he regrets breaking up with me he wants me back and we are meeting for the first time in one month after the breakup! I knew he would come back because of our relationship but you videos gave me so much confidence!!! I regained my strength and i worked so hard on myself and my happiness! So thank you for your soothing and calming videos filled with truth!
I am in week 6 of no contact and Coach Lee I have you to thank SO MUCH because your videos always pop up, right when I need them most. ❤ You have such an incredible talent of talking so sympathetically, understanding, smooth and in such a calming manner. I know there is no way that I could be this strong without your guidance, knowledge and support!! As each day passes, my faith in him coming back to me grows but I am also becoming stronger and stronger each day because you have helped me understand him!! I am convinced that after he comes back and when we do get back together, we will both be much stronger and our relationship will be unbreakable because of all of this. And this is why I am such a firm believer that things happen for a reason. There is a purpose to this journey. ❤
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It’s been close to a month and I’m debating if I even want her at this point. She’s just played games and tried to make me jealous and that just pushes me so much further away.
I hear you, people try to make people jealous and its immature but also its their way of dealing with it, shes struggling if shes trying to make you jealous also loves you
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Boys and girls , be strong and remember one thing if they loved you , they will come back , dont begg and plead its most stupid thing what you can do . I make it si can you but it depends on you and your ex no contact work only if you are 100 % following rules and if your ex really loved you ! Its not just about you , you cant manipulate someone to love you , but if they didnt and doesnt love you , take yourself out and enjoy life , what is mesnt to be yours it will be yours
Surprisingly i feel numb. It's been 17 months and maybe i can't forgive my ex if she reaches out now. Like, really, you had to process it 17 MONTHS to realize you need me?
I know you’re in pain, but it gets better. You don’t want to hear it right now, trust me, I know, but it gets so much better. You deserve so much better, and you don’t know it yet, because your confidence, ego and trust have been very temporarily shut down. But that again, is only temporary.
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Thanks for another video, Coach Lee! It’s been a little over 3 months, and even though I still miss him and our relationship, I feel that I am stronger and in a better place than I was a few months ago. NC has definitely helped me see that I am stronger than I thought. Although a part of me still wish that he comes back one day, I know I will be fine if he doesn’t. Thank you for supporting us through the insights you share in your videos!
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How do u maintain NC? Did you block him everywhere including WhatsApp? Have you disappeared totally for last 3 months???? How was that journey? I just started and it's day1 of NC 😢
If you go no contact on a woman who has lost attraction to you for whatever reason she will most likely not come back. You gotta figure out a way to raise attraction subtly, if she will even still respond to you. Attraction from woman is how they feel, and how you make them feel. Her walls will be up, but it can be done. She will either rebound or monkey branch so she will be busy with the new guy. It’s difficult but can be done if the relationship didn’t have a big argument or cheating or yelling. If you give her the breakup and then slowly raise her attraction it can be done. The key is getting her to meet face to face and then be playful and make her laugh or excited. This will cause her to feel attracted to you sexually. You escalate from here and then get her feeling good around you. This is the way when dealing with woman.
Coach, as of today I’ve came to acceptance that my ex is never coming back..she broke it off in December bur I began no contact in February.. since then she’s reached out a couple times, not in a way to get back together but in ways of her thanking me & jus being random I guess being curious.. but every time I try to ask to see her she would make excuses or say she’ll see how she feels. We dated 6 years btw.. but As of today I’m letting go completely.. thank you coach for your videos I truly appreciate it & can say they helped along my journey. I will continue to watch & support cause listening to you speak just eases my mind. Thanks again.
@@MTPtostife Your story breaks my heart. Sounds almost exactly the situation I am in with my ex. 5 years ended in March.. she still has every single picture up on her social media accounts. Has reached out a couple of times during no contact to ask how I'm doing. Decent conversations but nothing too exciting. Mostly about the stuff she never seems to come get. I feel for you, Sammy. I'm glad you were able to move forward. I truly don't know if I ever will be able to.
@@brandonfrangione1201 thanks for responding, but yes the reach outs just lead me into confusion, she’s not giving me much to work with. I thought the same thing as you Brandon! I’m getting better day by day, it’s like my brain is getting use to not having her around & it’s not as hard as it use to be. I believe I’ve found peace & you will too!
Trust Coach Lee's content, in phase one of no contact my ex- girlfriend came back after two and a half months. We started talking for a while then all over sudden there was silence from the both of us. Started phase two of no contact and after two months she came back today. Will take it slowly Thanks a loooot Coach Lee.
I'm having horrible time right now,not only because of the breakup, but also because of loss of my family member, who passed away 2 days ago... My ex after reaching out several times, got silent, he doesn't care of me, what is cruel. I live alone in flat and cry everyday, because of everything what happened during these last 2 months. I draw a lot, what makes me calm...
Currently in 2 weeks of no contact. I truly believe this girl and I had something special, I love her to death. We were together for a year and 7 months
Same goes for me dude.. 1 year and 6 months and told me she didn't want relationship to focus on herself and lost feelings. With covid too this relationship was rough.. Hopefully we both get our ex back she means the world to me. Best of luck dude 👍
It's been 9 months since we broke up for the first time. We got back after 4 months but we broke up again a month later. It's been 5 months now. I lost hope in getting back together. He's obviously moved on. But i wanna thank coach Lee for everything. His videos were the only thing that would comfort me and make me relax.
I would like to see Lee discuss the stages that WE should expect as WE do NC, to the point when they come back. Once you stop thinking about them, you stop the flow of energy to them from you. This allows an "energy Opening" for them to be able to return to you.
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Oh wow it worked for a second time?? I'm on my second breakup and hoping he comes back.. it's almost been 4 weeks tho and I'm losing hope. How long did they take to get back to you?
@@naiko6700 it took 3 months, but really... Work on yourself and do it for you. I changed my mindset and now I "control" the relationship because now I know my worth and im actually growing.
@@romeroll 3 months of NC? they reached out to you? Can I ask the reason for the breakup? For me, it was mostly my behaviours that hadn't changed much and he said he felt the same as the first time he broke up with me and said he didn't believe I could change. Mutual friends have said after the second time, if it's over, it's over. And I feel like my ex is really firm on not coming back so idk why I still have hope.. we loved each other so much, I just needed help. I really want to change, I've reflected a lot and came to many realisations and I truly believe he and I can have something amazing together, but we both have to really want it. But I'm feeling as time goes on he's slowly forgetting me and his feelings for me.. I've contemplated reaching out to him after 45 days but tbh I'm afraid to...
Every time she reaches out during my no contact, just to test the waters, Im coming to your videos to stay strong and not open my true feelings for her.
I'm a new subscriber and I've been watching alot your videos and it's really helping me get by from a recent breakup. Thanks coach lee. Your the best!!!
I regret to say that my I haven't heard from my ex in almost 8 months. I'm moving on though, and am doing alright in life even though some days I still miss her. Thanks yo you I was able to move on and think rationally about the situation. Exes do come back, just not mine, and that's okay.
I had one come back after two years! We are still in the talking stages. She’s making believe she’s playing hard to get but it seems it’s all up to me if I want her back or not
Happy for you Carlos. I sincereley Hope my ex does not go back to her former husband She recently divorced😄, He treated her like sh*t And we fell in love with each other. But Now She Is taking a break. Just be careful not to do the same mistakes.
Thank you coach ❤️💙😊 my ex gf reached out to me 💯by using no contact rule and she now value of me and appreciate me 🙂🌈🦋 I'm blessed to have you ❤️❤️💫💫✨✨
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I was sick of being in limbo. Its been 7 months...I can’t care anymore. If I keep this up, I’m going to feel pathetic...which I am already tired of feeling.
I only lay down and listen to u coach. I already watch a lot of ur videos after i come across ur video since day 1. Simply makes my heart at peace whenever i feel breaking down. Im calm. Im hurting but im no longer sure if i still want him back.
Ok dude your good but I get it. He kept the mat that has our last name on it. However I'm no longer desperate 😃 I have moved on with God first and put it in his hands I believe in my faith he will be back once he aligns himself with Gods will as I'm doing the same and growing in myself both spiritually and educationally as I grow and yes pray . I trust God ultimately and have learned to let go and not push
my ex dumped me after 3 years. then kept me around teasing the idea of getting back together and said he misses me. until he met someone else 2 months later... all i got was a 5 minute "wish you the best" phone call. im extremely lonely, no friends, my family lives overseas. the pain is unbearable. how do give up hope and how do i survive the grief period all alone?
Hi, I’m the same, isolated which makes me think more about the relationship. My advice is to focus on things you enjoy, exercise will improve your mindset. Be strong, you will be happy again.
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I started by taking more walks , exercise, built more time for work, talked to friends (work)went out when time permitted. Relax .. you don’t need someone all the time .. consider it a break away.. then months pass and you’ve made it through
It’s been 3 weeks and I decided to break it to do one final message that said that I understood I was immature during the break up and that I’m going to respect that she doesn’t want me in her life anymore. Then she apologizes and starts hitting up my phone now.
So, in 2018, I broke up with my ex girlfriend. I didn't give the no contact rule a chance for a long time, because I couldn't imagine life without her being in it. But in 2020, I finally decided for my own mental health, it was good to employ the no contact rule and so I did. But this year I finally started talking to her again. I am new and improved and in a better place mentally and emotionally. I've been talking to her since Monday. Right now, I am just trying to build up a friendship with her and if it goes into a relationship again, then I am open to it. But for right now, I am okay with just being her friend. I'm not gonna push for a relationship. 'Cause if I told her how much I wanted her back right away, I think we would stop talking. But I am thinking after a while, we might be able to rekindle things. Who knows, though?
When I was in a hard time........ From Bottom of my heart,,,,,,,, definitely coach lee helped me through these stufff I ever needed....... God bless you leee... Love you so much❤❤❤❤❤❤
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@@Kaysobeautiful I feel you girl.. 3 weeks of NC today and yesterday I was really tempted to break NC but I watched some of these videos and kept myself busy. Stay strong! 💜
@@vanitysmurf5145 going into the fourth , he’s always had me blocked on Facebook since the beginning of our relationship ( we broke up before and he blocked me ) anyways after 2 1/2 weeks of no contact he unblocks me and watches my stories here and there so I guess that was curiousity stage. Can’t say it gets better as each day passes but I’m standing my ground.
@@Kaysobeautiful I am on week 3. He didn't block me on socials but he stopped watching my stories which is odd because before he never missed a single one. I feel like he has thrown himself into his work and plays video games in his spare time. I'm so sad. With each passing day I feel like he is very stubborn and he wouldn't want to give me false hope so even if he felt like reaching out, he probably wouldn't. This really makes me question if I should break NC after maybe 5 weeks in because I'll be wrapping up some important assignments by then and might be able to approach him from a less emotional and more logical way. But then watching videos that say to not break NC makes me wonder if I should or shouldn't. My ex is a fearful avoidant. Atleast that's what I think. We broke up because he felt too overwhelmed by my affection and felt like we were going too fast. Its weird because he was the one to ask me to be his girlfriend. We were under lockdown a lot on and off so our fights and arguments would happen virtually a lot. We dated for a couple of months. I know him since Jan 2021. In my last conversation with him he said he was not in the headspace to deal with me and talk about our break up and that he doesn't feel like talking to me and doesn't see it changing anytime soon. I made a mistake and ended up sending him a 3 page long letter the same day when he was clearly asking for space! To which he didn't respond. Now I'm in NC from like 3 weeks and I hear crickets! Idk what I'm gonna do.
I done 1 month no contact after being dumped and my ex reached out, big talk of getting back together, kisses and amazing chats, after 6 days she went back to normal
I have days where I feel strong and other days where I’m about to lose my marbles. We were together 2 years and he said he lost feelings and doesn’t see a future. (Also I’m assuming our age difference played a role worrying his family won’t accept that I’m older.) It’s been 9 days NC. I know I’ll bump into him in August as his company is scheduled to renovate our family home. It makes me nervous thinking about seeing him and being rejected again.
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I've never clicked on a video that fast😅 please do a video on what it means when my ex said during the break up, as he broke down hysterically all over me, and starting saying things like , "let's see what happens, maybe now isn't our time, let's work on each other and see what the future holds and maybe our paths cross again". I'm so confused😔 love you coach lee, thanks for all the advice 🙏
@@andreadickinson3076 thanks for the feedback! I was surprised when he was so emotionally affected by this, he was hysterical and broke down and started saying all these things and I was like what is happening??? Tomorrow will be day 34 of no contact 🥲
He’s basically stringing you along just in case his new relationship doesn’t work out. Basically your a bench warmer. Trust me, if he was really feeling you, he will never have broken up with you.
@@B1GK1NG the thing is, I initiated the break up, but I had just over reacted and then he wouldn't take me back and said there was too much negativity and there was no hope to fix it, then when I left he broke down and started saying all that. I have no idea who's supposed to reach out to who 😅
That’s my case now so I still watch coach lee because he’s a great person I don’t want my ex back I’ve changed my number and deleted all my social media as well since my ex was known to spy on them periodically life’s more peaceful now
6.5 months post break-up, 5 months after no contact, I texted her - I suggested a phone call. She agreed, as long as it's only a friendly call. W'ell talk in the near future in a few days, when she has the time.
Day 4 of no contact, she really sincerely wanted to be friends and even said ‘I don’t want you completely out of my life’ but I politely rejected, saying I don’t want to just be friends, I want to be your boyfriend, and to reach out to me if she ever changes her mind. 2 and a half years together, talking every single day, we honestly had a great relationship too so I hope after I stick with this no contact she can realise what we had together was great and realise she made a mistake. Thank you coach Lee for your help I will not break no contact and every time I feel like doing it I will watch your videos here and on the emergency break up kit. ❤️
I’m going through the same thing. Let me know how you go. I’m on day 6 of no contact after two weeks of begging :/ . In a women btw, I never realised how many men’s are on here. Saddens me.. if I ever had a man who doesn’t ever want to lose me , I’ll be forever grateful
@@maylackbeauty wow, literally the same thing! 2 weeks here for me too before I sent the last message reaffirming I don’t just want to be her friend. It’s sad isn’t it, feels like you lost your other half :( I hope after 3 months of NC she reaches out but if not I have to accept it’s done, or as coach Lee says reach out a final time. I wish you luck, will let you know ❤️❤️
@@Sam-hl3km sending strength and courage your way . I hope by the end of the journey we either get a chance to rekindle things with our ex or we realised we are actually okay without them. It’d get easier though right now it’s hard for us to see that. Idk if you believe in god but if you do, praying helps wonders.
Do you have an update. I know this was post was from a while ago so i thought id ask. I’m 12 days of NC after 3 weeks of begging. We were best friends for 2 years. Went to school dances in high school as friends. Started dating in college. She still wants to be friends but I want more than that.
64 NC days and it has been hard. Today i dreamed with her, and always that it happens it put me really down. I think has no come back. She will never call me, cause she is mentally very strong. And i wont reach her out as well, cause i wish to be loved the way i love her. I mean: She wasnt a prize she was was someone i really deserved, cause im a good man. The more days passe the more i miss her. Her smile, her voice, her smells, her little body, hands and so. She was my foxy. I miss her so much, i think of her every single day and i think i will never like anyone the way i like her. I have been refusing invitations to going out to other girls, cause nothing seems atractive by me. I dont know what to do. Sometimes that little devil over my shoulder says: Come on man! Call her and say how much u love her huh? I have been strong till now, but its has been soooo dificult for me. Im really depress. When and if i overcome this fase i will como back here to tell u about it.
I've learned so much by going no contact! He finally contacted me but it wasn't what I wanted to hear. It was all about him, how he missed my sexy body ( even though we've never had sex) and he ended it with a funny comment, about, yet, again, my body! Geez the man is nuts! Not sure I would even want to go back with him....it's not a possibility, anyway....he's married! I love how much stronger I've become, Thanks Coach, Lee, you're awesome!
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Exes don’t come back when they cheat on you. They cheated for a reason. I’m good thou after 3 months I’m at a way better place now then it was 3 months ago.
Have been following Coach Lee since my breakup. Yes, he called, good conversation, but very casual. Not sure what is going to happen. I know he is dating, so I have chosen to remain no contact. If he initiates contact fine, but I will stay no contact. I cannot act like all is forgotten.
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I just bought your breakup kit, I love you ! But I need 1 to 1 coaching, please lmk will you open again for a phone call, my situation is very difficult
I’m not doing individual coaching at the moment but I highly recommend my longtime colleague Coach Ken and you can book a call with him at dotheyloveme.com. He is OUTSTANDING at helping people get an ex back. I have NEVER recommended another coach before but he is really that good. -Lee
Is there a possibility for a couple to come back together if they are taking it serious, but they mentioned that at some point they imagined seeing you and her with a family and with children? I wish this was a terrible nightmare that I could wake up from and never deal with this. Appreciate the help.
Hey everyone. Can no contact work a second time? The first time she seemed anxious, and within 2 weeks we started talking again. She said she couldn't sleep etc. We were talking for a month again, I let her come. We slept by the phone every night (long distance). She even told me at one point that she misses me and wants to see me this summer. After that within 1 week she went cold and told me she was just using me and she feels terrible about it, she doesn't need me anymore and we should meet other people. She's thankful tho. I said I understand but I disagree, but If that's what she wants in order to get better than I'm fine with it. So now I'm in no contact again only for 2 days. Any suggestions?
Damn I'm in the same boat, broken up twice. He came back after 5 days but I've realised we went back into it too fast. After 6 months he breaks up with me again. It's been almost 4 weeks now in no contact and since the breakup. It was mostly to do with me, he didn't think I could change even though he didn't want to lose me, he said I can't work out. At first I was so sad and really wanted him back and wanted to prove I can change but now I'm just not sure anymore. I do want him but this history we have is messy and I'm not sure that even if we get back together that we'll be fine and can work on things together and stay together permanently coz there will be scars...
Definitely not just you. He’s a very attractive man. When I was with my ex I never looked at other men in that way. I think this means I’m finally moving on ☺️
Wow day 30 for me today, not a peep from her since breakup! But i do feel stronger, still miss her but realising she just wasn’t the right person for me.
@@jasonarokiaraj9817 wheres the proof? I’ve been watching this coach and a few others for months...they say it works but I haven’t seen proof. I have done everything right except buy some expensive program...
@Lisa T I’m sorry no contact may have not worked for you. Sometimes it’s just best to move on and not bother with the no contact strategy. I do believe some ex’s should be ex’s indefinitely. No contact worked for me after 22 days so I can say it does work or either I am an exception.
coach lee thought us that silence is always the best thing you can doo. everything else is second best. Thx coach lee, we love you. post something new soon, maybe something about love vs. attraction
Coach lee, she reached out after 6 months of strict no contact... she posted some links(songs) and then texted / and asked if we can talk. I really don't know what to do now... Do I reply to her straight away? what do I say to her?? Please help
thank you coach lee. i watch most of your videos just to relieve from a heartbreak, but i guess it's not enough. if i could talk to you one on one though, i was so dumb hoping that my ex will comeback even she's ignoring me or she's trying not to see my messages thru facebook messenger. hoping for her to comeback hurts me i was so immature guys i'm sorry, we broke up 5 days ago
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@@Denimchicken." I miss you too " that's exactly what she looking for but she won't get it.let her suffer the pain of dumping him. "Thank you" is more than enough and keep her wanting to know more about him and to never sooth her pain😈
I guess maybe just say, “thank you, I hope you doing well. :) “ that’s it and don’t rush to respond back to her moving forward. Try limit the amount of text you send as well. Keep the conversation short but also open..
@@Redouku I’m a women so when I get a response like that i don’t take it as they are actually thanking me it’s more like “awwwe that’s nice but anyways” . It’s not a thank you thank you, more like thank you, next
Coach Lee, I'm a big fan of your knowledge and content, I was able to see my ex for 3 dates but I did something wrong and because of I was afraid of rejection I wasnt able to get physical with her and we just stop talking and doing research I know it was for that. It would be great that you do a video talking about the importance of getting physical again with them. Greetings from México
I'm not sure how to respond. It's been two weeks of no contact and he's contacting me wanting to go back to the way things were. I'm not sure I want to now. We got into an argument two weeks ago and he just stopped talking. We were both upset. I was finally able to explain to him where I was coming from and he apologized. But I'm worried this could happen again. It was over something stupid but neither of us were geo what we needed. I don't want someone bailing out on me when things get tough. I felt like he just dropped me. Now I'm not sure I want him back. That was complete torture those two weeks.
I'm sorry to say that this is the case, not all of them come back. However, this could be a blessing in disguises some one more suitable is out there and now you have all these tools to use incase this other relationship has issues.
I have been working so hard on myself since December 7. I begged and pleaded with her from November 14 when she started acting cold and distant. I was in no contact from December 7 to june 5th. I waited for her all they way to june 5th to reach out and nothing. So I decided I have nothing to lose so I reached out on june 5th with hi how is everything with you. I got ghosted no response no nothing. I feel so worthless I will continue to work on myself and hit the gym and one day find someone better than you. Life sucks sometimes😔
I'm struggling with no contact, not because I can't, but rather I am close with her daughter and keep finding myself at their place. It's been almost 6 weeks since we broke up and we haven't had any considerable time apart. She pulls back at me we I try to maintain distance and gives a lot of mixed signals. She's apparently 'seeing' someone too which makes even less sense me being there.
Hey coach. My ex reached out during NC to apologize. I had a casual, upbeat and friendly conversation with her. Took some responsibility for my actions myself, showed her I'm doing well, remembered some details about her and it was very amicable. The convo was dying after a few texts so I ended it and told her it was nice to hear from her. She asked me how the dating scene is going for me to which I responded that I'm focusing on work, and family for now. I have been in NC since. As far as next steps, shall I wait till she reaches out a second time? Ps. Can I please send you a copy of the convo so you can tell me whether I did a good job being cordial, friendly and not over pursuing? I'll pay you for this
Can you do a good topic on when we have to break up with THEM bc they don't see your value and if you know of anybody being broken up with and realize THEY have been broken up with bc they take you for granted and how THEY feel when THEY realize they're the ones hurting you. And THEY need to shape up or WE walk! All these videos talk about us being broken up with. But I wanna know if they feel remorse for taking us good ppl for granted. Some topics on UA-cam discuss "when they realize you had enough" but it's like 2 min long. I need a good topic on how they feel when we break up with them for constantly hurting us. But they don't dump us. Skip the "relief stage" cause they didn't realize we had enough!
No contact and moving on works. For me it worked, after watching these videos with the hope of getting my ex back, after begging I went no contact. 2 month in I have found someone else. She tried to get back with me for 2 years of my relationship with the new girl, never took her back. Well.. the new girl started to act out too much so I have decided to end it and apply the no contact in the position of the dumper. I’m not sure if it will work the same and maybe I might have to be stronger this time only to send a message that I’m ready to walk away if you don’t see your flaws. Either she will come back more attracted then ever or she will move on I know that I was not happy with her and I’m offering her the gift of missing me.
Last year i used to watch ur videos and i applied ur no contact rule,those days are the worst day and most difficult days in my life but i didnt give up and after 7 months i guess it was working,she came back and now we r together again.
Happy for you ☺️
Congratulations buddy! Hoping mine comes back she’s pregnant with are baby
@@darthdad1198 Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love... I know of man who can attract back your ex within 48hours..
He was the one who brought back my ex within 48hours ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him
Wow 7 months is along time. I’m happy for you.
After 7 months of no contact? Wowww
To all of you going through a breakup, we are in this together. I used to be a mess, and through hard work, through these videos, I have gotten stronger. We can all become better!
Cheers Friend. Stay Positive.
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Not the point bro. We need to get them back. Of course working with ourselves and getting better matters but that’s not the point. The main focus is getting them back.
My Ex frantically called and texted me out of the blue after 10 mos. of no contact ! So startled ! thought about speaking to her for a moment ! Wanted me back and me to come over ! told her that i would think about it ! decided i didn't want her anymore ! Even though i had no one else , I had healed and moved on ! Never thought i would ever be able tell her that ! thanks Coach Lee
Some of coach Lee’s words are painful to hear but this coach has got me through the worst of it. I listened to him everyday for 2 months and without him, I wouldn’t have been able to keep NC- he put me off the idea of reaching out and I’m glad I listened to him. 3 months after breaking up, I got a long love email from my ex. He reached out just like coach Lee said he would probably do, and I’m glad I didn’t reach out. Trust NC and trust coach Lee. Thank you for everything Coach
That's awesome! I'm in 2 months of NC and still no word from my ex. Hoping I hear from his soon
@@ch76504 day 45-70 is when all the separation anxiety comes into play. I’ve learnt this from the coaches I’ve been listening to, specifically coach Lee. I predict it’s going to be likely you will hear in this time frame. Good luck to you
@@Enigma32174 u got back together?
@@quirkyquester no- nothing happened after the email. I ended up emailing 6 weeks later and same with the ‘I miss you’ emails but nothing after them.. I’be been back in NC since January. I’m not reaching out again.
@@Enigma32174 I’m on day 37. Has been the hardest time but I’m still not gonna give in because I didn’t break us and well he wanted this so I gotta respect it and give it to him. This is like out 5th breakup but I’ve ALWAYS stayed in contact in the past. This is the first time I do NC from the jump
I almost got my ex back! Thank you Coach Lee! I'm still not out of the park yet but she invited me over last night and we hung out for a WHOLE 24 hours straight. She went from saying she was not sure and telling me to keep my distance in the bed to calling our outing for pizza a DATE the next night AND posting it on social media. By the end of our first "session" I caught her nestling her head on my shoulder whole we watched a movie together. She realized what she was doing and pulled back but I could tell she was trying hard to keep her composure. You saved my love life. I really didn't want to have to go through the trouble of finding someone else. There are so many other fish in the sea but only one with her genome. We are all one of a kind! I love her just as much as I love this channel!! You taught me so much . I will still buy the breakup kit because I still believe I could use it while her and I continue to grow and I NEED to support you for what you did for me, you ROCK!
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Your in a great position because my ex hasn’t even reached out to me after 50 days NC
@@kevinotero1077 but how long have y’all been talkin before
Any update?
Congratulations. How long did it take?
Seeing that we are all here coz of our broken hearts. Let's all just start dating one another lol. 😁
Right!!! Might as well til we get our ex's back🤣🤣🤣
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Hahaha nice idea
lol good idea
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Im sure you hear this every single day but i just want to thank you. You helped me through a very difficult time.. i dont know how i found you but you literally changed my life in a matter of months. I truly appreciate you
Great. Enjoy your life.
I second this
I followed Coach Lee's advice. It worked. I was with someone for 4 months. She broke things off. I reached out after 67 days of no contact. She was thrilled to hear from me, and explained she only broke up because I had been neglecting her. I realized I had been too distant and we promised to communicate more and share more affection. Back together 6 months now and never happier!
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Good to hear!
We’re the same situation.I thought we will fix the problems that we had after break up but looks like it’s getting worst.he reached out first on his birthday and pledged to comeback and I’m happy to accept it but going the same situation before so sad.
I remember binge watching all of your videos when going through my break up, its been 3.5 months since my breakup and I feel 100% better and over my ex, I realised many things, such as how badly I was being treated. I have now just started dating a new girl who is honestly amazing, she truly cares about me and I can be myself around her, its honestly very great, and shes showing me what its like to be in a healthy relationship where I am heard and am able to communicate how I feel without getting shutdown, manipulated and gas lighted. Thank you so much coach Lee for all the help and helping me a lot. And yes during this period of my breakup and no contact my ex did reach out to me after 7 weeks.
Good luck buddy, really happy for you !
Today is day 30 of NC . I haven’t heard from him at all not once since the break up and I haven’t reached out to him or broken no contract. I started no contact the day of break up and never begged. This has been a really hurtful experience. I will never reach out to him if he doesn’t contact me. As the days go on I’m starting to feel like I don’t care as much anymore because of how he did me . I was really good to him almost to good. I never got an explanation nothing. All he said was he can’t be with me and he was sorry, I asked what was the reason because the day before on Mother’s day he told me how beautiful I was and how lucky he was to have me. This doesn’t feel like love at to hurt someone like that. He never even told me why. I told him he hurt me but good luck . That was it . I miss him but I had to realize maybe I don’t need him . I don’t know what the future holds. I can say I don’t cry anymore.
Praying for you
Day 71 for myself, keep at it
YES, it's extremely painful and without an explanation makes you feel soooooo used and unloved! But, you're getting stronger...good for you! I'm praying God heals your pain!
You won. He lost someone unique. I hope you will find someone who is worthy to know you and more.
The moment you start feeling good and meeting others, trust me, he'll be knocking on your door.
Almost going on 60 days of no contact. Through out no contact i kept my ex on social media so he can see how good im doing.
Finally decided to move on, since he seemed happy and that he was clearly moving on.
I deleted pictures, and did all the necessary things to “Move on”
When i finally made the decision. That same day i get a text after almost 2 months.
I responded, kept it casual and short, but also friendly. I didn’t continue the conversations but he wanted more and we continue to text through out the day.
My suggestion for everyone is to move on. Move on with your life, don’t think about the person, go out, stay busy, and level up as an individual. Mentality, physically, spiritually and financially. Not just at surface level. But really change in real life. It makes you feel god as a person and also to the point that you don’t even want them anymore. And they will come back.
You Will Get A Call Or Text From Your Ex Wanting You Back..
REACH OUT TO THE SPELL CASTER ON WHATSAPP
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What did you decide on? Or are you still working it out?
My ex is contacting me trying to get with me im so happy and this is what I've always wanted.... is something I would have said a few months ago... looking how she once treated me I can say this... it seemed like I was just some dog getting kicked by the owner and still going back... I'm happy im over her but im even more happy that I look at myself as the prize. Im sure no one will read this but hopefully one person does and I hope they understand no man, or woman is the prize you are and treat yourself as such dont ever forget this. We tend to forget we also have value and if the relationship fails then you are a failure. You're not and you are not going through any of this alone just look at the comments a lot of people, different backgrounds different colors of life different ages ranging from teens to seniors and they all have said so far it hurts but they are slowly getting over it... remember you're the prize learn to treat yourself as such
Dog is right .. proper description how I felt .. so disappointed how I let someone do this to me .. I am more than that ..
Felt like a dog too, so if the person wants to come back let him/her earn you, just see if the can buy you at the price.
it's been 2 month and a half, my ex seems to be happy with her rebound. I would like to thank you Coach Lee for getting me through the initial stages, had been watching your videos religiously and helped me with the anxiety. Thought i did made several mistakes but after watching your videos am doing no contact and will be working on myself. i have at this point lost all hope but will not reach out :). Thank you for getting me through one of the toughest time of MY life that i have experienced till date.
We all learn it the hard way. Smile and enjoy your day.
How is it now?
How are things going
How is it now?
Her loss man
Even if I don't want to get back with my ex again.Im still going to watch your vids as support
thank you so much coach lee 🙏😭. This is my 4th week doing no contact. You let me review our relationship. I realized one thing that I was the only one who's doing the work in our relationship and I was blinded by my love towards her. I don't want the way she treated me because there's no sense of urgency. While I always put her first and prioritized her and I'm not getting the same effort. I love my self so much and I will take care of my heart m, because feeling lonely, sad, lost and being dumped
is a scary experience. Moving forward I'll make sure to focus on my self and goal love life will be just a bonus if it comes🙏 thank you coach🙏❤️
I just want to say thank you! My ex has been in contact during no contact and he apologized and he regrets breaking up with me he wants me back and we are meeting for the first time in one month after the breakup! I knew he would come back because of our relationship but you videos gave me so much confidence!!! I regained my strength and i worked so hard on myself and my happiness! So thank you for your soothing and calming videos filled with truth!
Congratulations 🎉
I am in week 6 of no contact and Coach Lee I have you to thank SO MUCH because your videos always pop up, right when I need them most. ❤ You have such an incredible talent of talking so sympathetically, understanding, smooth and in such a calming manner. I know there is no way that I could be this strong without your guidance, knowledge and support!! As each day passes, my faith in him coming back to me grows but I am also becoming stronger and stronger each day because you have helped me understand him!! I am convinced that after he comes back and when we do get back together, we will both be much stronger and our relationship will be unbreakable because of all of this. And this is why I am such a firm believer that things happen for a reason. There is a purpose to this journey. ❤
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Update?
Are you guys together ?
Update?
Update???
It’s been close to a month and I’m debating if I even want her at this point. She’s just played games and tried to make me jealous and that just pushes me so much further away.
I hear you, people try to make people jealous and its immature but also its their way of dealing with it, shes struggling if shes trying to make you jealous also loves you
Move on bro, trust me its the best thing ever
Don't play her games
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The moment they say its over, just kick them off before any more nuisance and dramas...... Never look back again.... Period.
It's so nice to know I am NOT the only one going through this shitty time in my life 💖
❤BE STRONG EVERYONE!❤
Boys and girls , be strong and remember one thing if they loved you , they will come back , dont begg and plead its most stupid thing what you can do . I make it si can you but it depends on you and your ex no contact work only if you are 100 % following rules and if your ex really loved you ! Its not just about you , you cant manipulate someone to love you , but if they didnt and doesnt love you , take yourself out and enjoy life , what is mesnt to be yours it will be yours
i started watching last week and started the no contact rule just got a call of her crying trying to explain herself thanks coach lee🙏🏾
Surprisingly i feel numb. It's been 17 months and maybe i can't forgive my ex if she reaches out now. Like, really, you had to process it 17 MONTHS to realize you need me?
I know you’re in pain, but it gets better. You don’t want to hear it right now, trust me, I know, but it gets so much better. You deserve so much better, and you don’t know it yet, because your confidence, ego and trust have been very temporarily shut down. But that again, is only temporary.
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Thanks for another video, Coach Lee! It’s been a little over 3 months, and even though I still miss him and our relationship, I feel that I am stronger and in a better place than I was a few months ago. NC has definitely helped me see that I am stronger than I thought. Although a part of me still wish that he comes back one day, I know I will be fine if he doesn’t. Thank you for supporting us through the insights you share in your videos!
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Hello, has he ever texted you? It’s been a year now how is it between yourself and him? If you don’t mind me asking
How do u maintain NC? Did you block him everywhere including WhatsApp? Have you disappeared totally for last 3 months???? How was that journey? I just started and it's day1 of NC 😢
If you go no contact on a woman who has lost attraction to you for whatever reason she will most likely not come back. You gotta figure out a way to raise attraction subtly, if she will even still respond to you. Attraction from woman is how they feel, and how you make them feel. Her walls will be up, but it can be done. She will either rebound or monkey branch so she will be busy with the new guy. It’s difficult but can be done if the relationship didn’t have a big argument or cheating or yelling. If you give her the breakup and then slowly raise her attraction it can be done. The key is getting her to meet face to face and then be playful and make her laugh or excited. This will cause her to feel attracted to you sexually. You escalate from here and then get her feeling good around you. This is the way when dealing with woman.
Coach, as of today I’ve came to acceptance that my ex is never coming back..she broke it off in December bur I began no contact in February.. since then she’s reached out a couple times, not in a way to get back together but in ways of her thanking me & jus being random I guess being curious.. but every time I try to ask to see her she would make excuses or say she’ll see how she feels. We dated 6 years btw.. but As of today I’m letting go completely.. thank you coach for your videos I truly appreciate it & can say they helped along my journey. I will continue to watch & support cause listening to you speak just eases my mind. Thanks again.
Don’t know if this matters, but our photos are stil together on Instagram..but she took our relationship off Facebook.
@@MTPtostife Your story breaks my heart. Sounds almost exactly the situation I am in with my ex. 5 years ended in March.. she still has every single picture up on her social media accounts. Has reached out a couple of times during no contact to ask how I'm doing. Decent conversations but nothing too exciting. Mostly about the stuff she never seems to come get. I feel for you, Sammy. I'm glad you were able to move forward. I truly don't know if I ever will be able to.
Can we please stick to this journey together? It’s been around 3-4 months of NC and I’m itching to contact her :(
@@brandonfrangione1201 thanks for responding, but yes the reach outs just lead me into confusion, she’s not giving me much to work with. I thought the same thing as you Brandon! I’m getting better day by day, it’s like my brain is getting use to not having her around & it’s not as hard as it use to be. I believe I’ve found peace & you will too!
@@TheREPTILE214 please don’t contact her, you’ve come a long way.. you got this!
Trust Coach Lee's content, in phase one of no contact my ex- girlfriend came back after two and a half months. We started talking for a while then all over sudden there was silence from the both of us. Started phase two of no contact and after two months she came back today. Will take it slowly Thanks a loooot Coach Lee.
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You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp
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I'm having horrible time right now,not only because of the breakup, but also because of loss of my family member, who passed away 2 days ago... My ex after reaching out several times, got silent, he doesn't care of me, what is cruel. I live alone in flat and cry everyday, because of everything what happened during these last 2 months. I draw a lot, what makes me calm...
I am so sorry,!GOD BLESS YOU..🙏🙏
Currently in 2 weeks of no contact. I truly believe this girl and I had something special, I love her to death. We were together for a year and 7 months
Same goes for me dude.. 1 year and 6 months and told me she didn't want relationship to focus on herself and lost feelings. With covid too this relationship was rough.. Hopefully we both get our ex back she means the world to me. Best of luck dude 👍
@@domenic1019 Thanks man, you too. Stay strong
Stay strong! Hope we get our girls back
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Same bros
It's been 9 months since we broke up for the first time. We got back after 4 months but we broke up again a month later. It's been 5 months now. I lost hope in getting back together. He's obviously moved on. But i wanna thank coach Lee for everything. His videos were the only thing that would comfort me and make me relax.
Damn I'm also on 2 breakups and it's almost been 4 weeks. I might wait a little more but after that, I'm pretty sure he's moved on by then...
I would like to see Lee discuss the stages that WE should expect as WE do NC, to the point when they come back. Once you stop thinking about them, you stop the flow of energy to them from you. This allows an "energy Opening" for them to be able to return to you.
I will recommend you a spiritual Doctor who can help you in any type of relationship issues you are facing
You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp
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Im the happiest, coach lee. Thank you for this update/upload new vid. ATTENDANCE CHECK: Present 🙋🏻♀️ ☺️🥰
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It’s been 10 months, she’s been seeing someone 4 months and I have been working on myself, and dating, life is good 👍 🌞
Lol stop counting now bro move on.
I will recommend you a spiritual Doctor who can help you in any type of relationship issues you are facing
You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp
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👋 what if this whole separation thing made me realize my worth and I don't want her anymore? 😅
Should I send her a text message?
I think no all NC will result in wanting them back, after a period of time you may decide its all good it's over n decide to look ahead... good luck
@PROSPER VILLA Should I break no contact? Because I don't want her to come back AT ALL.
@PROSPER VILLA THANK YOU
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It works guys, worked for the second time now, but you have to work on yourself, and really change things, you really need a new mindset.
How much time it took your ex to come back?
Oh wow it worked for a second time?? I'm on my second breakup and hoping he comes back.. it's almost been 4 weeks tho and I'm losing hope. How long did they take to get back to you?
@@naiko6700 it depends on person to person; some may take a few weeks and some may take a few months
@@naiko6700 it took 3 months, but really... Work on yourself and do it for you. I changed my mindset and now I "control" the relationship because now I know my worth and im actually growing.
@@romeroll 3 months of NC? they reached out to you? Can I ask the reason for the breakup? For me, it was mostly my behaviours that hadn't changed much and he said he felt the same as the first time he broke up with me and said he didn't believe I could change. Mutual friends have said after the second time, if it's over, it's over. And I feel like my ex is really firm on not coming back so idk why I still have hope.. we loved each other so much, I just needed help. I really want to change, I've reflected a lot and came to many realisations and I truly believe he and I can have something amazing together, but we both have to really want it. But I'm feeling as time goes on he's slowly forgetting me and his feelings for me.. I've contemplated reaching out to him after 45 days but tbh I'm afraid to...
Every time she reaches out during my no contact, just to test the waters, Im coming to your videos to stay strong and not open my true feelings for her.
I'm a new subscriber and I've been watching alot your videos and it's really helping me get by from a recent breakup. Thanks coach lee. Your the best!!!
I regret to say that my I haven't heard from my ex in almost 8 months. I'm moving on though, and am doing alright in life even though some days I still miss her. Thanks yo you I was able to move on and think rationally about the situation. Exes do come back, just not mine, and that's okay.
I had one come back after two years! We are still in the talking stages. She’s making believe she’s playing hard to get but it seems it’s all up to me if I want her back or not
Thank you for everything Coach Lee. My wife has returned to me. You deserve a million praises.
Happy for you Carlos. I sincereley Hope my ex does not go back to her former husband She recently divorced😄, He treated her like sh*t And we fell in love with each other. But Now She Is taking a break. Just be careful not to do the same mistakes.
Carlos- congratulations! That's great 👏🏻
Thank you coach ❤️💙😊 my ex gf reached out to me 💯by using no contact rule and she now value of me and appreciate me 🙂🌈🦋 I'm blessed to have you ❤️❤️💫💫✨✨
No need
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Hello sneha, how long were you in the no contact period ?
I was sick of being in limbo. Its been 7 months...I can’t care anymore. If I keep this up, I’m going to feel pathetic...which I am already tired of feeling.
@@peteryelizabeth6252 scammers dont count!
I only lay down and listen to u coach. I already watch a lot of ur videos after i come across ur video since day 1. Simply makes my heart at peace whenever i feel breaking down. Im calm. Im hurting but im no longer sure if i still want him back.
What's this WhatsApp all about. Surely this is scam
Those comments have been deleted but, yes, the WhatsApp love spell people are scammers.
Ok dude your good but I get it. He kept the mat that has our last name on it. However I'm no longer desperate 😃 I have moved on with God first and put it in his hands I believe in my faith he will be back once he aligns himself with Gods will as I'm doing the same and growing in myself both spiritually and educationally as I grow and yes pray . I trust God ultimately and have learned to let go and not push
Only the holy spirit can do all the power in this on any new shifting in bringing us back and feel greater and committed in his head and mine
A bit over a month of no contact and some days are still hard but I’m trusting the process
my ex dumped me after 3 years. then kept me around teasing the idea of getting back together and said he misses me. until he met someone else 2 months later... all i got was a 5 minute "wish you the best" phone call. im extremely lonely, no friends, my family lives overseas. the pain is unbearable. how do give up hope and how do i survive the grief period all alone?
Hi, I’m the same, isolated which makes me think more about the relationship. My advice is to focus on things you enjoy, exercise will improve your mindset. Be strong, you will be happy again.
@@Cuebix Thank you so much
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I started by taking more walks , exercise, built more time for work, talked to friends (work)went out when time permitted. Relax .. you don’t need someone all the time .. consider it a break away.. then months pass and you’ve made it through
Not going to lie, but you’re the best coach… hands down.
Coach Lee is a champ honestly. NC really does work, for both sides of the coin. Your info is the most authentic
It’s been 3 weeks and I decided to break it to do one final message that said that I understood I was immature during the break up and that I’m going to respect that she doesn’t want me in her life anymore. Then she apologizes and starts hitting up my phone now.
Congrats man
So, in 2018, I broke up with my ex girlfriend. I didn't give the no contact rule a chance for a long time, because I couldn't imagine life without her being in it. But in 2020, I finally decided for my own mental health, it was good to employ the no contact rule and so I did. But this year I finally started talking to her again. I am new and improved and in a better place mentally and emotionally. I've been talking to her since Monday. Right now, I am just trying to build up a friendship with her and if it goes into a relationship again, then I am open to it. But for right now, I am okay with just being her friend. I'm not gonna push for a relationship. 'Cause if I told her how much I wanted her back right away, I think we would stop talking. But I am thinking after a while, we might be able to rekindle things. Who knows, though?
By keeping it nice and slow, NOT RUSHING THINGS, you have a good chance. Keep up the good work..👍👍
When I was in a hard time........ From Bottom of my heart,,,,,,,, definitely coach lee helped me through these stufff I ever needed....... God bless you leee... Love you so much❤❤❤❤❤❤
No contact should be for YOU! To be able to heal, move on, and not grovel.
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I’m so heartbroken 😔 , it’s been 3 1/2 weeks of no contact. I’m so broken & it hurts so much. I was so good to him .
I can tell you that usually that is not enough time.
@@RealCoachLee it feels like forever , some days I’m good & others I break down. I hope it gets better.
@@Kaysobeautiful I feel you girl.. 3 weeks of NC today and yesterday I was really tempted to break NC but I watched some of these videos and kept myself busy. Stay strong! 💜
@@vanitysmurf5145 going into the fourth , he’s always had me blocked on Facebook since the beginning of our relationship ( we broke up before and he blocked me ) anyways after 2 1/2 weeks of no contact he unblocks me and watches my stories here and there so I guess that was curiousity stage. Can’t say it gets better as each day passes but I’m standing my ground.
@@Kaysobeautiful I am on week 3. He didn't block me on socials but he stopped watching my stories which is odd because before he never missed a single one. I feel like he has thrown himself into his work and plays video games in his spare time. I'm so sad. With each passing day I feel like he is very stubborn and he wouldn't want to give me false hope so even if he felt like reaching out, he probably wouldn't.
This really makes me question if I should break NC after maybe 5 weeks in because I'll be wrapping up some important assignments by then and might be able to approach him from a less emotional and more logical way. But then watching videos that say to not break NC makes me wonder if I should or shouldn't.
My ex is a fearful avoidant. Atleast that's what I think. We broke up because he felt too overwhelmed by my affection and felt like we were going too fast. Its weird because he was the one to ask me to be his girlfriend. We were under lockdown a lot on and off so our fights and arguments would happen virtually a lot. We dated for a couple of months. I know him since Jan 2021.
In my last conversation with him he said he was not in the headspace to deal with me and talk about our break up and that he doesn't feel like talking to me and doesn't see it changing anytime soon. I made a mistake and ended up sending him a 3 page long letter the same day when he was clearly asking for space! To which he didn't respond. Now I'm in NC from like 3 weeks and I hear crickets! Idk what I'm gonna do.
I done 1 month no contact after being dumped and my ex reached out, big talk of getting back together, kisses and amazing chats, after 6 days she went back to normal
I have days where I feel strong and other days where I’m about to lose my marbles. We were together 2 years and he said he lost feelings and doesn’t see a future. (Also I’m assuming our age difference played a role worrying his family won’t accept that I’m older.) It’s been 9 days NC. I know I’ll bump into him in August as his company is scheduled to renovate our family home. It makes me nervous thinking about seeing him and being rejected again.
Coach Lee is nearly 100% accurate.
You helped me get over my ex, thank you so much 🙏☺️
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I've never clicked on a video that fast😅 please do a video on what it means when my ex said during the break up, as he broke down hysterically all over me, and starting saying things like , "let's see what happens, maybe now isn't our time, let's work on each other and see what the future holds and maybe our paths cross again". I'm so confused😔 love you coach lee, thanks for all the advice 🙏
Is an excuse to keep you around in case his plans doesn’t work out but that relieve you have to take it away making him believe he will loose you
@@andreadickinson3076 thanks for the feedback! I was surprised when he was so emotionally affected by this, he was hysterical and broke down and started saying all these things and I was like what is happening??? Tomorrow will be day 34 of no contact 🥲
He’s basically stringing you along just in case his new relationship doesn’t work out. Basically your a bench warmer. Trust me, if he was really feeling you, he will never have broken up with you.
@@B1GK1NG the thing is, I initiated the break up, but I had just over reacted and then he wouldn't take me back and said there was too much negativity and there was no hope to fix it, then when I left he broke down and started saying all that. I have no idea who's supposed to reach out to who 😅
@@angelawheeler7693 if you are the dumper and you want him back you should reach out
Sometimes there are no stages of getting your ex back because it's hopeless and a lost cause
That is true.
That’s my case now so I still watch coach lee because he’s a great person I don’t want my ex back I’ve changed my number and deleted all my social media as well since my ex was known to spy on them periodically life’s more peaceful now
6.5 months post break-up, 5 months after no contact, I texted her - I suggested a phone call. She agreed, as long as it's only a friendly call. W'ell talk in the near future in a few days, when she has the time.
Day 4 of no contact, she really sincerely wanted to be friends and even said ‘I don’t want you completely out of my life’ but I politely rejected, saying I don’t want to just be friends, I want to be your boyfriend, and to reach out to me if she ever changes her mind. 2 and a half years together, talking every single day, we honestly had a great relationship too so I hope after I stick with this no contact she can realise what we had together was great and realise she made a mistake. Thank you coach Lee for your help I will not break no contact and every time I feel like doing it I will watch your videos here and on the emergency break up kit. ❤️
I’m going through the same thing. Let me know how you go. I’m on day 6 of no contact after two weeks of begging :/ . In a women btw, I never realised how many men’s are on here. Saddens me.. if I ever had a man who doesn’t ever want to lose me , I’ll be forever grateful
@@maylackbeauty wow, literally the same thing! 2 weeks here for me too before I sent the last message reaffirming I don’t just want to be her friend. It’s sad isn’t it, feels like you lost your other half :( I hope after 3 months of NC she reaches out but if not I have to accept it’s done, or as coach Lee says reach out a final time. I wish you luck, will let you know ❤️❤️
@@Sam-hl3km sending strength and courage your way . I hope by the end of the journey we either get a chance to rekindle things with our ex or we realised we are actually okay without them. It’d get easier though right now it’s hard for us to see that. Idk if you believe in god but if you do, praying helps wonders.
@@maylackbeauty same goes to you, let me know in 3 months or so yeah? I will pray for the both of us, wish you well 🙏🏽
Do you have an update. I know this was post was from a while ago so i thought id ask. I’m 12 days of NC after 3 weeks of begging. We were best friends for 2 years. Went to school dances in high school as friends. Started dating in college. She still wants to be friends but I want more than that.
64 NC days and it has been hard. Today i dreamed with her, and always that it happens it put me really down. I think has no come back. She will never call me, cause she is mentally very strong. And i wont reach her out as well, cause i wish to be loved the way i love her. I mean: She wasnt a prize she was was someone i really deserved, cause im a good man. The more days passe the more i miss her. Her smile, her voice, her smells, her little body, hands and so. She was my foxy. I miss her so much, i think of her every single day and i think i will never like anyone the way i like her. I have been refusing invitations to going out to other girls, cause nothing seems atractive by me. I dont know what to do. Sometimes that little devil over my shoulder says: Come on man! Call her and say how much u love her huh? I have been strong till now, but its has been soooo dificult for me. Im really depress. When and if i overcome this fase i will como back here to tell u about it.
I've learned so much by going no contact! He finally contacted me but it wasn't what I wanted to hear. It was all about him, how he missed my sexy body ( even though we've never had sex) and he ended it with a funny comment, about, yet, again, my body! Geez the man is nuts!
Not sure I would even want to go back with him....it's not a possibility, anyway....he's married! I love how much stronger I've become, Thanks Coach, Lee, you're awesome!
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I messed up yesterday, stood where I could See him, there are things I would like him to know. I was upset, couldnt talk, He was angry
Was hoping to have contact for christmas. Would like contact.
Exes don’t come back when they cheat on you. They cheated for a reason. I’m good thou after 3 months I’m at a way better place now then it was 3 months ago.
It is about 4 Months of No Contact and i am still feeling bad,realy bad.I am destroyed
Kicked in the stomach is how I feel..
it’s been 9 months since the breakup, i dont think there’s any hope left
Have been following Coach Lee since my breakup. Yes, he called, good conversation, but very casual. Not sure what is going to happen. I know he is dating, so I have chosen to remain no contact. If he initiates contact fine, but I will stay no contact. I cannot act like all is forgotten.
More tools for the tool belt, fantastic information as always!
My most favourite coach Lee; your words have comforted me so often, thank you ❤
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I just bought your breakup kit, I love you ! But I need 1 to 1 coaching, please lmk will you open again for a phone call, my situation is very difficult
I’m not doing individual coaching at the moment but I highly recommend my longtime colleague Coach Ken and you can book a call with him at dotheyloveme.com. He is OUTSTANDING at helping people get an ex back. I have NEVER recommended another coach before but he is really that good. -Lee
Is there a possibility for a couple to come back together if they are taking it serious, but they mentioned that at some point they imagined seeing you and her with a family and with children? I wish this was a terrible nightmare that I could wake up from and never deal with this. Appreciate the help.
Got “I love you, I miss you” from ex on Day 23. Now what? LOL
Hey everyone. Can no contact work a second time? The first time she seemed anxious, and within 2 weeks we started talking again. She said she couldn't sleep etc. We were talking for a month again, I let her come. We slept by the phone every night (long distance). She even told me at one point that she misses me and wants to see me this summer. After that within 1 week she went cold and told me she was just using me and she feels terrible about it, she doesn't need me anymore and we should meet other people. She's thankful tho. I said I understand but I disagree, but If that's what she wants in order to get better than I'm fine with it. So now I'm in no contact again only for 2 days. Any suggestions?
Is this still hot and cold or something more?
@@winifreddamian7646 is that ur number?.
Damn I'm in the same boat, broken up twice. He came back after 5 days but I've realised we went back into it too fast. After 6 months he breaks up with me again. It's been almost 4 weeks now in no contact and since the breakup. It was mostly to do with me, he didn't think I could change even though he didn't want to lose me, he said I can't work out. At first I was so sad and really wanted him back and wanted to prove I can change but now I'm just not sure anymore. I do want him but this history we have is messy and I'm not sure that even if we get back together that we'll be fine and can work on things together and stay together permanently coz there will be scars...
Is it just me OR do other girls find Coach Lee to be HOTT TO DEATH?!?
His VOICE and that Scruff! My Ex? WHAT EX?!? I’m on day 41!
Definitely not just you. He’s a very attractive man. When I was with my ex I never looked at other men in that way. I think this means I’m finally moving on ☺️
Wow day 30 for me today, not a peep from her since breakup! But i do feel stronger, still miss her but realising she just wasn’t the right person for me.
Six months later with some toxicity .. I hope he repaired himself and is happy with someone else
No-contact isn’t actually a game. It’s a technique that you use to make them miss you.
How often do you see on here that it really worked out?
@@lisat5666 that’s what I meant. It works out a lot.
@@jasonarokiaraj9817 wheres the proof? I’ve been watching this coach and a few others for months...they say it works but I haven’t seen proof. I have done everything right except buy some expensive program...
@Lisa T I’m sorry no contact may have not worked for you. Sometimes it’s just best to move on and not bother with the no contact strategy. I do believe some ex’s should be ex’s indefinitely. No contact worked for me after 22 days so I can say it does work or either I am an exception.
@@winniesdaughter it worked for me, too.
you are the best coach ,your videos helped me to get my ex back
Congratulations 🎉
I hate that I’m the type of person who even needs to watch these videos. Why can’t I just have a good relationship or be the one with the upper hand?!
what happend if your ex reject you by other person in 2 month after break up, it can be a rebound relation?
coach lee thought us that silence is always the best thing you can doo. everything else is second best. Thx coach lee, we love you. post something new soon, maybe something about love vs. attraction
Can u plz make a video on Ex Ghosting after a fight in a serious relationship ? 🥺
It'll help lots of Ghostees 🤧
Coach lee, she reached out after 6 months of strict no contact... she posted some links(songs) and then texted / and asked if we can talk. I really don't know what to do now... Do I reply to her straight away? what do I say to her?? Please help
These WhatsApp scammers are getting out of hand
thank you coach lee. i watch most of your videos just to relieve from a heartbreak, but i guess it's not enough. if i could talk to you one on one though, i was so dumb hoping that my ex will comeback even she's ignoring me or she's trying not to see my messages thru facebook messenger.
hoping for her to comeback hurts me
i was so immature guys i'm sorry,
we broke up 5 days ago
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How is everything now?
@@naiko6700 idk HAHA maybe i'm absolutely okay rightnow,.
It’s been two weeks of no contact now , and my ex texted me : I miss you …
She is smart and logical person, what should I reply ?
I miss you too but I hope your doing good
If she is the dumper just say " thank you "
@@Denimchicken." I miss you too " that's exactly what she looking for but she won't get it.let her suffer the pain of dumping him.
"Thank you" is more than enough and keep her wanting to know more about him and to never sooth her pain😈
I guess maybe just say, “thank you, I hope you doing well. :) “ that’s it and don’t rush to respond back to her moving forward. Try limit the amount of text you send as well. Keep the conversation short but also open..
@@Redouku I’m a women so when I get a response like that i don’t take it as they are actually thanking me it’s more like “awwwe that’s nice but anyways” . It’s not a thank you thank you, more like thank you, next
Coach Lee, I'm a big fan of your knowledge and content, I was able to see my ex for 3 dates but I did something wrong and because of I was afraid of rejection I wasnt able to get physical with her and we just stop talking and doing research I know it was for that. It would be great that you do a video talking about the importance of getting physical again with them. Greetings from México
I'm not sure how to respond. It's been two weeks of no contact and he's contacting me wanting to go back to the way things were. I'm not sure I want to now. We got into an argument two weeks ago and he just stopped talking. We were both upset. I was finally able to explain to him where I was coming from and he apologized. But I'm worried this could happen again. It was over something stupid but neither of us were geo what we needed. I don't want someone bailing out on me when things get tough. I felt like he just dropped me. Now I'm not sure I want him back. That was complete torture those two weeks.
26 days of no contact his always checking my story on fb
I messaged my ex after 9 months. She ignored that. I guess it's time to move on.
I'm sorry to say that this is the case, not all of them come back. However, this could be a blessing in disguises some one more suitable is out there and now you have all these tools to use incase this other relationship has issues.
I will recommend you a spiritual Doctor who can help you in any type of relationship issues you are facing
You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp
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Hey, my ex contacted me after no contract but she ignores a bit. She replies slowly and it's mostly dry. What do I do?
mirror the same level of energy/interest. If she dumped you and is now being weird after reaching out that's pretty cringe.
I don't have a good memory from my ex,she hurts me like heart broken 💔 if one I be with her,I never love her like before.
I have been working so hard on myself since December 7. I begged and pleaded with her from November 14 when she started acting cold and distant. I was in no contact from December 7 to june 5th. I waited for her all they way to june 5th to reach out and nothing. So I decided I have nothing to lose so I reached out on june 5th with hi how is everything with you. I got ghosted no response no nothing. I feel so worthless I will continue to work on myself and hit the gym and one day find someone better than you. Life sucks sometimes😔
thank man, your really helping. even if we dont get back what we had, i needed this
@@attahqueenruth1343 contact info?
@@bilkisuyau170 what is that
I'm struggling with no contact, not because I can't, but rather I am close with her daughter and keep finding myself at their place. It's been almost 6 weeks since we broke up and we haven't had any considerable time apart. She pulls back at me we I try to maintain distance and gives a lot of mixed signals. She's apparently 'seeing' someone too which makes even less sense me being there.
Hey coach. My ex reached out during NC to apologize. I had a casual, upbeat and friendly conversation with her. Took some responsibility for my actions myself, showed her I'm doing well, remembered some details about her and it was very amicable. The convo was dying after a few texts so I ended it and told her it was nice to hear from her. She asked me how the dating scene is going for me to which I responded that I'm focusing on work, and family for now. I have been in NC since. As far as next steps, shall I wait till she reaches out a second time?
Ps. Can I please send you a copy of the convo so you can tell me whether I did a good job being cordial, friendly and not over pursuing? I'll pay you for this
I will recommend you a spiritual Doctor who can help you in any type of relationship issues you are facing
You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp
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How did it go?
Can you do a good topic on when we have to break up with THEM bc they don't see your value and if you know of anybody being broken up with and realize THEY have been broken up with bc they take you for granted and how THEY feel when THEY realize they're the ones hurting you. And THEY need to shape up or WE walk! All these videos talk about us being broken up with. But I wanna know if they feel remorse for taking us good ppl for granted. Some topics on UA-cam discuss "when they realize you had enough" but it's like 2 min long. I need a good topic on how they feel when we break up with them for constantly hurting us. But they don't dump us.
Skip the "relief stage" cause they didn't realize we had enough!
No contact and moving on works. For me it worked, after watching these videos with the hope of getting my ex back, after begging I went no contact. 2 month in I have found someone else. She tried to get back with me for 2 years of my relationship with the new girl, never took her back. Well.. the new girl started to act out too much so I have decided to end it and apply the no contact in the position of the dumper. I’m not sure if it will work the same and maybe I might have to be stronger this time only to send a message that I’m ready to walk away if you don’t see your flaws. Either she will come back more attracted then ever or she will move on I know that I was not happy with her and I’m offering her the gift of missing me.