7 Rules For Getting Back Together With Your Ex

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  • Опубліковано 22 лип 2024
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    Coach Lee reveals 7 rules for getting an ex back after they broke up with you. If you have been broken up with and want your ex back, each of these rules will provide you insight into how to do that and how to avoid making mistakes that could prevent you from such a reunion. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at: myexbackcoach.com/emergency-b...
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  • @DeepPoeticSociety
    @DeepPoeticSociety 2 роки тому +218

    Lord, protect this man at all costs! Thank you for all of your wisdom and encouragement

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problemsI can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

    • @peternall6566
      @peternall6566 Рік тому

      What a beautiful thing to say ❤

  • @kim-mareelliott2902
    @kim-mareelliott2902 2 роки тому +216

    "Earn you back" key to value being recognized and not being taken for granted. 👊Another powerful video.

    • @aronchas
      @aronchas 2 роки тому +2

      @@ucheabuchi7251 bullshit

    • @markmckay6437
      @markmckay6437 2 роки тому +2

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

    • @markmckay6437
      @markmckay6437 2 роки тому +1

      Wha ts Ap p👆

  • @henryhoward9474
    @henryhoward9474 Рік тому +48

    Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @henryhoward9474
      @henryhoward9474 Рік тому +1

      @@JefferyMiers Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @henryhoward9474
      @henryhoward9474 Рік тому +1

      @@JefferyMiers Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Рік тому +2

      Henry, PLEASE LISTEN TO COACH LEE, AND MY STORY. LEE HELPED ME. I was engaged to be married for 5 years. He had no intentions of getting married. He lied to me, and was very mean. We broke up, and I ended up in the Hospital with stomach problems. Thank God I'm still around. I found Coach Lee and I binge listened to him for 2 weeks or more. I finally got the picture. I started feeling better about myself. I made new friends and started going out. I gained the weight back bcse I lost 35 lbs in the Hospital, and I'm only 5'4"..Stay with Lee...Make an appointment to speak with him. He will help you. As for me, TIME helped me get over him. There is someone out there for both of us. You will be fine. God bless you. Hugs...❤️💙⚘️

    • @sharondelacruz705
      @sharondelacruz705 Рік тому

      @@henryhoward9474 🙏😇

    • @silviosarunic3234
      @silviosarunic3234 Рік тому

      she was NOT love of your life…. just some bitch who doesn’t care.

  • @paschan
    @paschan 2 роки тому +145

    7:28 It's pretty similar to what my boxing coach told me 20 years ago: "It's better to know how to fight and never have to use it than getting jumped and not knowing how to defend yourself".

    • @tom02061997
      @tom02061997 2 роки тому +10

      "Its better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war"

  • @Dickey1996
    @Dickey1996 2 роки тому +143

    Stay strong everyone! I know times are probably tough and things suck right now but you can all do this! 🙌🏼

    • @hanamimi5300
      @hanamimi5300 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks! It’s tough yes!

    • @hanamimi5300
      @hanamimi5300 2 роки тому +1

      @@gracelady6874 oh really how ?

    • @hanamimi5300
      @hanamimi5300 2 роки тому +3

      @Wasiu Owolabi my ex came back yesterday by him self 🎉🎉

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому +1

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @dingiswayomakukula4118
    @dingiswayomakukula4118 2 роки тому +58

    Guess what coach Lee, my Ex who broke up with me about 6months ago just reached out today. Funny because am falling in love with someone else. No contact really works. Thank you sir

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @freakynikki08
    @freakynikki08 2 роки тому +80

    Thanks for yet another insightful video, Coach Lee. You're our light during dark times. In 3 days, it's supposed to be our 3rd anniversary. Although I did hear from him last Christmas, I'm choosing to fully let go of him and the relationship now. I feel like he won't ever want to get back together and it's just hard clinging to even a tiny flicker of hope. The earlier I accept it's truly over, the better for my peace of mind and sanity. On our supposed anniv, I'll be writing a "closure letter" and will burn it along w/ the everlasting rose he gave me.
    Wishing everyone else luck on their journey and I hope y'all find peace & happiness, with or without your ex.

    • @hanamimi5300
      @hanamimi5300 2 роки тому +1

      You are doing fine ! Thanks for sharing !

    • @chevy2583
      @chevy2583 2 роки тому +4

      The breakup was the most difficult experience in my life.

    • @mrinmoydey1993
      @mrinmoydey1993 2 роки тому +4

      Be strong... don't break urself for anyone...

    • @kathyglass2922
      @kathyglass2922 Рік тому

      Burn that rose. Torch it.

  • @tansz8092
    @tansz8092 2 роки тому +29

    Coach Lee is always so comforting and supportive in his videos! Great advice!
    I so appreciate this channel!!
    Coach Lee cares!

  • @hongsonly9258
    @hongsonly9258 2 роки тому +13

    I only watch Coach Lee channel. You seem like a enthusiasm coach i have never seen. No talk a lot about irrelevant topics, directly forward to the main problems. You are a real psychologist

  • @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
    @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 2 роки тому +11

    Coach Lee always on hand to support everyone .... God bless you mightily Sir! 🤗💜

  • @SAB-ex7de
    @SAB-ex7de 2 роки тому +9

    Standing ovation for coach Lee. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @brandonohara4122
    @brandonohara4122 Рік тому +12

    One thing I would like to touch on about the improving yourself part is that not only should we do it for those reasons he stated but we should also do it because that next relationship that you're in, your next partner deserves to have the best version of yourself possible. With my relationship my ex was still broken from the day I met her and that should have been a red flag. Not even a knock on her but it's the truth

  • @curtisbeasley3443
    @curtisbeasley3443 Рік тому +3

    These videos are gold. They make a ton of sense and im sure they work. But the more of these videos I watch, the more I decide that I dont even want my ex back anymore. 💪

  • @SpaceMel00
    @SpaceMel00 2 роки тому +14

    I'm finding that this is a time for me of a lot of growth. I hope that people watching this really think about that part - working on yourself as it helps anxiety to go way down. My anxiety level is now a lot lower since I'm taking my mom's advice that there could be someone else right around the next corner. Don't make them your only option. I want to do a lot of things but the omicron has made everything on hold. But I am going to go for a walk pretty soon and I've lost 8 lb so far. I'm so happy to see a new video and I and thankful for all the videos you're putting out Coach Lee.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

    • @brandonohara4122
      @brandonohara4122 Рік тому

      I agree
      Isn't it exciting what's around the corner? Working on yourself and self care is pivotal
      How are you doing now? Give me a life update.
      Last thing I said to my ex was "Happy birthday" over text and that was it she responded thank you Brandon. I get stronger everyday plus I really don't want her back. 💯
      She was too emotional and broken.

  • @ughhhh123456789
    @ughhhh123456789 2 роки тому +7

    Coach Lee's steps always work and it's like magic haha but every time they reach out I'm always over them which is kind of a blessing in disguise

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @ethanmcgraw2692
    @ethanmcgraw2692 11 місяців тому +1

    Everytime i start to spiral out of control in my mind I come here and coach Lee helps ease my mind thank you so much sincerely

  • @Mandycapetown
    @Mandycapetown 2 роки тому +32

    I've been doing this and I must tell you my ex has been sending me photos of him and I as in memories. I really want him back. 7 years together and he discarded me a year ago. Please pray 🙏

    • @YahLoverDOMMY13
      @YahLoverDOMMY13 2 роки тому +3

      I'm in the same boat girl and it's been 8 months now and it still hurts so bad. I can't keep us and our family out of my head. Doesn't help we have two kids together. I'm just sick with grief and I miss my family so much and I'm really suffering. It's rough. All k want is them back.

    • @helenan866
      @helenan866 4 місяці тому

      Update??

    • @Mandycapetown
      @Mandycapetown 4 місяці тому

      @@helenan866 my life is good . We did not get back together. Thank goodness. It’s been 3 years now and I’m so over him. 🤍

  • @artistempress
    @artistempress 2 роки тому +14

    Quite frankly, I was skeptical about this whole subject.
    Only what you say is from experience and reasonable, you also help people to stop making a fool of themselves long term.
    I appreciate that.
    I've examined your videos and though not all applies to my situation, just being given knowledge that I did not have parents to impart to me, is priceless.
    I cannot tell you how much time you have saved me on wasting my time and energy on.
    You are an awesome human being.
    God bless you Coach Lee.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @anupdut138
    @anupdut138 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you , really simple but good advice. I am going to follow all the steps, I am on step 4 making my self better .

  • @agneskorondi5551
    @agneskorondi5551 Рік тому +2

    Coach Lee is powerful talented anylizing the problems of the human heart and soul,and mind
    And he have a very peaceful ,and calming tone of his voice

  • @davincivanderwaals
    @davincivanderwaals 2 роки тому +9

    Great coach 🔥My ex gave me a breadcrumb during the new year but since I had watched most of your videos I didn't get into the trap✌️🤝🔥

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @damianlebuda2845
    @damianlebuda2845 2 роки тому +39

    I gave her a space, I said I disagree with her decision, but I respect that. I'm in NC. I feel like I dated avoidant. I try to live in the present moment, but I feel anxious often.
    I think she may not reach out never however - I always initiated texting. She texted me however, she knows I'm hurt and said "sorry" the day she broke up with me and recently for whatever reason.
    I'm not chasing her. I am dedicated to improving myself, by setting up the new business, having new hobbies and moving to new house, and even more importantly trying to understand her needs.
    I'm strong believer in the law of attraction and I believe I'll be okay no matter what. Thank you Coach Lee for this video. It gives me a strength to stay in no contact.

  • @jannlewandowski5540
    @jannlewandowski5540 2 роки тому +15

    When I broke up with him, he cried and even though I was dying inside, I couldn't take it anymore. You NEVER give a woman an engagement ring if you have no intentions of getting married. When I ran into him accidentally, he looked like he lost about 20 lbs, and he looked awful. He was with his rebound, and totally ignored me. I acted like I didn't see him looking at me, and I just kept walking. He married her immediately. I'm fine now, but I went thru he'll. Thanks to you, Lee, I feel like a new person. BTW, neither one of us begged or pleaded for another chance. I know I was used, I just didn't see it coming....

  • @footballmore8645
    @footballmore8645 2 роки тому +30

    It’s amazing how good the no contact rule works! I feel stronger every day and I’m not even shore I want my ex back. I’ll just wait if she contacts me and if not its also okay because i know how strong I am.

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @alexparkinson9409
    @alexparkinson9409 2 роки тому +6

    Hi coach lee, me and my partner have been together 4 years next month.. we lived together for 10 months and had a big row over finances, we split and then got back together for 3 weeks, he was saying things like “we are meant for each other” and “I didn’t worry about getting back together as I knew it would happen sooner or later as we are made for each other” he called me out of the blue and said “I’m sad with myself and don’t think I will get better but I love you more than anything” it’s been 3 weeks with no contact and have heard nothing as I wanted to give him space. I am honestly so confused and believe he will come back but he’s never held out this long.. he’s honestly my best friend and the 3 weeks we had were so lovely.. I hope he realises. Thank you for giving me strength!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @drexindelacruz705
    @drexindelacruz705 2 роки тому +6

    It's hard especially when I know there's someone else making her happy now. Feels like something is eating me up slowly and it sucks.

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @dongweonshin7777
    @dongweonshin7777 2 роки тому +11

    1. Accept breakup
    2. Dont show pain
    3.
    4. Improve yourself
    5. Dont fall for breadcrumbs
    6. Dont reunite over text
    7. Move slowly

  • @kenf.2413
    @kenf.2413 2 роки тому +6

    Impressive from the beginning dear coach Lee. 1. Giving the dumper the Break Up. So true!

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @alexandraness1388
    @alexandraness1388 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you coah Lee so much for everything. You're the best coach ever ❤ and I don't want my ex back anymore. His loss 😊

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @sarahernanparis7098
    @sarahernanparis7098 2 роки тому +6

    Always BEST support and advice. Thanks coach, and Happy new year 😘

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @diontaeknox574
    @diontaeknox574 2 роки тому +15

    Me and my ex didn’t get back but I’m stronger because of you..we was good and then we turn but besides the outcome of us I’m stronger I remember who I am n I’m happy at who I’m becoming so THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING 💯💯✊🏾✊🏾

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @derrickbailey4125
    @derrickbailey4125 2 роки тому +2

    Thankyou coach lee words of (encouragement) from the one and only!!!!!!

  • @TheeBaldEaglee
    @TheeBaldEaglee 2 роки тому

    You posted this video just after breakup. Thanks alot❤️

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @Songs-ls2pr
    @Songs-ls2pr 2 роки тому +9

    You’re the best coach and I can’t tell you just how much I appreciate your perspective tips ...and empathy too. God bless you Coach Lee.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @perseepassacaille
    @perseepassacaille Рік тому +1

    Well, since the breakup early December, I've been through different stages and started watching your videos by the end of January when I started NC. I think I should have listened more carefully to your advices because when she reached out 2 months later, I totally freaked out and did every possible things that you don't recommend doing. Last time she talked to me was April 21st and said "Be realistic, get a grip and forget about me" after saying that there will be no second chance. Haven't heard from her since, don't see her online on WhatsApp anymore, she didn't even read my two last messages (pictures) so I suppose she's gone forever now. I fucked it all up by not listening to you and rushing into it, too bad for me, nevertheless thanks for your videos, you've helped me understanding a lot of things, hope that will help in my future relationship.

  • @ozzy_mondo8791
    @ozzy_mondo8791 Рік тому

    Watching these videos makes me realise that my ex was trying to get back in contact after 2 and a half months and then realised a week later that I was in a new relationship so backed off. I am looking at these videos for the current breakup I am going through

  • @ryanharris9895
    @ryanharris9895 2 роки тому +1

    Wise beyond his years.

  • @veronicalugo8730
    @veronicalugo8730 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing quote!!

    • @kasimusuleiman4754
      @kasimusuleiman4754 2 роки тому

      Hey , are you trying to attract or win back your ex , specific person ( SP ) , restore a broken relationship / marriage or banish a third party from your relationship💕💕💕💕

  • @denisetinto9538
    @denisetinto9538 2 роки тому +1

    Great advice 👍

  • @nickvue9656
    @nickvue9656 2 роки тому

    I wish I would've watched this earlier, hopefully it's not too late to start applying these tips.

  • @marcc910101
    @marcc910101 2 роки тому +20

    Im new to this channel and seeing you describe the first feelings we get when we get dumped, us begging and trying to bargain is exactly what i did. I will try no contact after i pick up my stuff from our old place tommorow, if she comes back good if not ill learn to love myself for who i am and not get walked on

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

    • @melp5879
      @melp5879 Рік тому +1

      Update?

    • @kingwisehyper4144
      @kingwisehyper4144 Рік тому

      Update?

  • @kokytiti7090
    @kokytiti7090 2 роки тому +1

    Brilliant video

  • @serenity-ll6mw
    @serenity-ll6mw 2 роки тому +3

    Been in no contact for 3 months now (except him breaking NC for Christmas). I don't think he's coming back anymore, it's been too long.

  • @jwwikwkww4155
    @jwwikwkww4155 2 роки тому +1

    Took me everything to not contact her after after 15 days of no contact. Thanks for the video

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

  • @getawaywithpam
    @getawaywithpam 2 роки тому +1

    Your words are really seriously comforting and make sense

  • @larryjohn2882
    @larryjohn2882 2 роки тому +4

    Coach Lee I can’t even explain how much he help me it’s crazy I been a better me when I let go and better myself now my ex won’t stop contacting me I play it cool for days

  • @lyphan8192
    @lyphan8192 Рік тому

    It’s been a week for me no contact, it’s hard… it hurts but I can’t chase anyone that doesn’t want to be with me and made it clear he doesn’t care. He said “I don’t have the right mental state to care about someone or be in a relationship” which I feel like was a bullshit excuse… but I gotta be strong. Maybe it’s too soon to expect him to contact me who knows if he’ll ever reach out 😢 we were best friends and he said he “loved me” I tried to plead a couple days after the breakup but decided to give him what he so badly wanted. He really took me for granted… These videos help so much. Thank you coach Lee

  • @Ladysepy99
    @Ladysepy99 2 роки тому +1

    Complements for the new year Coach 🤗

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

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  • @katiakay
    @katiakay 2 роки тому +1

    LOVE THIS

  • @1972miller1
    @1972miller1 2 роки тому

    4 1/2 months since she left after a 2 yr LDR and moved closer when poof gone. I love and miss her but I have been in nc and broke it a couple of times. I begged cried all the no no’s and today I just said f it I look too good and value myself too much for someone to walk out. Not my loss and I wish things were different but you will never ask too much from the right person and I'm low maintenance but when trust is broken it's hard to gain back. I've been blocked the whole time so whatever makes her happy. Next chapter begins today. I'm not concerned if she comes back because if leaving is the option and I didn't have a part in the decision then it will just happen again. When you go from being the only to just an option it's a price to pay. Thanks coach

  • @keepgrowing9941
    @keepgrowing9941 2 роки тому

    Yey! Another vid. Thanks, Coach. Done liking the video.
    Attendance Check: PRESENT 🙋🏻‍♀️☺️

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @DarthViper
    @DarthViper 2 роки тому +5

    7 years. We have a 4 year old. She broke up June 3rd. I got her back for 2.5 months. She broke up again. I begged for months. We have to go to mediation for our son. It's now been 7 months. I'm 2 weeks no contact. Probably too late. She's probably not coming back. I just feel like dying. She is the love of my life and I don't want this for our child. So much pain. So many tears. 7 years. I am just lost...

    • @TommieTudeski
      @TommieTudeski 2 роки тому +1

      Hi @darth Viper. How are you now?Hold on. Find the strenght within you.

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

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      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

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  • @jamarsam9217
    @jamarsam9217 2 роки тому +2

    Got to love coach lee my first dating coach

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @0x01sudipta
    @0x01sudipta 2 роки тому +1

    You are awesome lee Sir💙

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @YoutubingJason
    @YoutubingJason 2 роки тому

    My ex ended things because of massive jealousy issues and trust issues she has. Even though I’ve never had eyes for anyone else while I was with her, even seeing girls commenting on my Instagram posts would drive her crazy. She says she’s not ready for a relationship, and blocked me on Instagram and we haven’t spoken in weeks now. Towards the end, I got super clingy because I really wanted to show her I only wanted her. Not sure where her emotions stand, she’s absolutely going through her relief stage right now. These videos are helping me get through NC so so much.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @ae9929
    @ae9929 2 роки тому +2

    It will hurt months and months later when you think about them and how they didn't wish you a merry Christmas, a Happy new year, etc. His methods are so you work on yourself- and if they come back, they come back. Don't get your hopes up unless you have mutual friends, live in the same vicinity where you would bump into each other. My ex and I were an hour apart-- no mutual friends.

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

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  • @nisothegreat592
    @nisothegreat592 2 роки тому +8

    Coach can you please do a video on exes who come back after no contact and breakup again with you right away pleeaase im lost now and i don’t know what to do mine literally broke up with me one week after we got back together

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  2 роки тому +7

      I have content on that in my Emergency Breakup Kit. I will talk about that in a future video most likely.

  • @AngiePyott
    @AngiePyott Рік тому +1

    A new one here, Coach Lee. My ex and I recently got back together after 30 YEARS of no contact. He’s just broken up with me again after 3 months. Help me 😢

  • @orlandofox756
    @orlandofox756 2 роки тому +5

    You got me my ex back LONG DISTANCE and changed the entire relationship dynamic. My ex is working so hard to prove himself to me now. Hes sending me money and planning his return for March 2022. THANK YOU

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

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  • @donhansum
    @donhansum 2 роки тому +9

    I deleted my ex in social media

  • @killian5388
    @killian5388 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Coach Lee for your endless insight…. I feel like I am dealing with a unique situation since I have a unique very “different” kind of man. But trying to tell myself we are all human and prone to the same human instincts. Do you have any advice when it comes to bridges being totally burned with both my family and his family?

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  2 роки тому +2

      For something like this you need to speak with a professional. I’m not doing individual coaching at the moment but the lead coach on my staff DOES. He is Coach Ken and you can book a call with him at dotheyloveme.com. He is OUTSTANDING at helping people get an ex back. He and I got our coaching certifications together about 18 years ago and he works directly for me. I suggest you copy and paste what you said here when you book your call. -Coach Lee

    • @eii1999
      @eii1999 2 роки тому

      @@RealCoachLee Hi Coach Lee I need your help. I was in no contact for more than 3weeks now. Then my ex reacted ♥️ on my story. I screwed up I reacted ♥️ back on one of his shared fb post. but after some minutes I removed it. Did I ruin my chance again? Pleeeease help 😭😭

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

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      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

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  • @Aaronpurves1
    @Aaronpurves1 2 роки тому +2

    Hi coach any advise on what to do with ex who has mental health issues and broke up because she needs space and needs to be happier ?

  • @kafeldom3645
    @kafeldom3645 2 роки тому +18

    I messed up, I did every step correctly up until the last. She reached out and at first I was reserved, but once we met up everything went blazingly fast. We spent the whole week together right off the bat, everything felt so amazing, but now I am noticing the first signs of it being burnt out. We had a relationship of almost 5 years before this, so I do know we're somewhat compatible. What would be the best course of action from this point forwards? I'm thinking I'll withdraw a little and start from scratch, make her earn me back.

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

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      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

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    • @brandonohara4122
      @brandonohara4122 Рік тому +1

      It's not "somewhat compatible."
      Instead It's just yall are compatible to an extent. If you stay with her sounds like you're settling. Even if she's 90% of what you want, that leftover 10 percent is settling believe it or not. I know what it feels like to WANT a woman to be the one.

  • @emrechico
    @emrechico 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Coach Lee or guys over here. My ex broke up with me due to absurd reasons 3 months ago. I did all those mistakes in the beginning, after 2 months of meeting and talking about it i stayed in no contact for about a month. I texted her on new years eve we talked like nothing happened, it was a really nice conversation. She admitted that she miss those times with me but she doesnt need them back and she doesnt believe in 2nd chances, she said that life goes on and she is okay with things like that because its in her attitude and that she wants to start a new year with a clean shield. Im currently on 18th day of NC and i really dont know if i should forget about her and just move on or keep waiting.. Im working on myself and all those things Coach Lee mentioned but she just cant leave my head. I really appreciate anyones opinion. Have a great day.

    • @oreoluwaveronica2790
      @oreoluwaveronica2790 2 роки тому

      Dr favour helped me manifested my ex back to me within 48Hours when he left me for another lady and I got blocked
      He can also help you out too

    • @oreoluwaveronica2790
      @oreoluwaveronica2790 2 роки тому

      T e X t h m o n w a s s a p f o r h e l p,,

    • @oreoluwaveronica2790
      @oreoluwaveronica2790 2 роки тому

      ➕2349057269463⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️
      I can't believe am with my love again,,,

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

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  • @user-gn5mh2uu5x
    @user-gn5mh2uu5x 2 роки тому +3

    Tak it, live in present, accept reality, dont renind of their promises, dont show your pain, improve yourself, ignore them if its not a real message, mirror what they say, show reservation im open to that but i wantvto take one thing in a time

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @nenuhhS11
    @nenuhhS11 2 роки тому +2

    after NC for two months he told me Happy New Year. I replied dry and kind. and then I found out today, hes with a rebound(been with for 3 weeks) & he said hes serious with and that shes a good woman.. I also found out today that they got into a really bad car accident and are in the hospital. I cried and almost reached out of genuine care for him. but everyone is telling me not to and let it be and Im not even supposed to know about the accident.. idk if i should let it be or reach out to see if hes ok? he is ok, but is pretty banged up..
    also if i reach out he will know his best friend told me and I dont want to mess up anything with his friendship..

    • @CS-ru4xd
      @CS-ru4xd 2 роки тому +1

      You have pretty much answered your own questions. It's OK to be concerned but I wouldn't reach out if not for any other reason than to avoid getting his buddy in trouble. But don't worry...i'm sure he knows his best friend will put it out there and then he will HOPE that you do reach out to him so he can feel that you still care. It's a tough battle with yourself, I know...but I would still avoid reaching out.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @gmaynard1723
    @gmaynard1723 2 роки тому +2

    Hi coach Lee, I love your videos, my ex broke up with me 4 months ago, I made classic mistakes, got blocked but over the Christmas holidays she reached out and unblocked me after I sent her a card with a short but respectful note. Iv been setting a good pace and being polite and respectful but it’s going very slow with only small talk, she isn’t asking thing, iv done some amazing work and feel that if I could have a good chat with her she would be very surprised. What would you suggest? The reason for the breakup was her needing to find herself and be independent for a while as she moved state for 9 months for college. She comes back in May.

    • @shiewisdomselumun4361
      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

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      @shiewisdomselumun4361 2 роки тому

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    • @fredthomas1029
      @fredthomas1029 Рік тому

      Update?

  • @markvincentr.degrano8901
    @markvincentr.degrano8901 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks coach lee 😊

  • @DualShot
    @DualShot 2 роки тому +9

    Can you do a video that provides advice for getting an ex back in long distance situations? I've been in no contact with my LDR ex for an entire year now and I notice she's giving lots of bread crumbs on her social media posts and watches all of my instagram stories. She posts many things that have songs about missing someone in a break up and wishing they could get them back.

    • @larryclay8875
      @larryclay8875 2 роки тому

      He already explained that in this very video about "bread crumbs." Don't fall for it. If she truly wants to speak with you, she'll message you directly (as she should be). I expect my ex-fiancé to do the same. If she wants to speak with me, my phone number is always open 24/7. No excuses. Otherwise, I'm slowly ready to move on and work on improving myself.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @ShowbizAnnouncement
    @ShowbizAnnouncement 2 роки тому

    coach lee its been 2 months of no contact but he does not contact me yet. i miss and love her so much i want him to get back. what do i do😭

    • @GoldLeafPress
      @GoldLeafPress 2 роки тому +3

      That’s not even enough time! As a dumper, do not contact us! If we want you back, we’ll come back! It’s annoying! We know the game you play, “wait 30 days”…we dread that day! Because we know you’re gonna come back! I’ve had my exes reach out with random shit, it’s just annoying to the point where we WILL block you! We find you annoying more than attractive.

  • @CupofLizzy
    @CupofLizzy 2 роки тому +2

    Coach Lee, i feel like i was the obstacles at one time - as it was hard for me to let go due to the facts that we were doing business project together and he wanted to pull off. Until last December, i stopped fighting him back and decided to let to go. we havent finish our project together yet, but i handle it like a casual formal business partner. after we finish, i will implement full NC - not for him, but mostly for him. Do you think its too bad

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

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  • @lavamartin
    @lavamartin 2 роки тому

    Our breakup was vague. Like it gradually happened. Due to my depression and me being toxic (because I was very depressed at the time due to I was doing a PhD). We broke up but still staying at the same house (and still acting like couples). He said he wanted to be alone but his actions were the opposite. He recently went into a rebound. I am now in another country but am going back to that house again in 2 months (My stuff is still there and it's under both our names). I am now trying the NC but keep wondering what will/should happen when I go back to that house.

  • @underwaterboi2519
    @underwaterboi2519 2 роки тому +4

    I hope you’re right.. I can’t lose my bestfriend 😔I feel so lost.. this love I have for her means something.. I hope this no contact really works 😔💔

  • @monicawylie3985
    @monicawylie3985 2 роки тому +2

    It’s been 42 days. I’m feeling better. I realize I’m getting a lot of attention. However I’m still in love with my ex.

  • @EmmaMercury
    @EmmaMercury 2 роки тому +15

    Hey coach Lee, I'm on day 35 of no contact, we were together a few days short of 3 months LDR, my question is... Shall I wait 45 or 60 days to reach out if he hasn't contacted me? I'm worried I'm running out of time, I'm doing radio silence and I have the break up kit, is there anything more I can do? Thank you!! X

    • @Varjaatyt
      @Varjaatyt 2 роки тому +2

      Im on day 50 and ive been with her 3 months too. Still waiting, thinking about reaching out on day 70+-

    • @paschan
      @paschan 2 роки тому +15

      @@Varjaatyt I've got a little advice for you all. You know when exactly is your ex going to reach out? The day you'll totally forget his/her existence, and by then you won't want him/her back. It's just the way it happened to me. Just carry on with your lives, that's the whole purpose of no contact, forget about him/her. Nobody is worth your precious time thrown away like that.

    • @paschan
      @paschan 2 роки тому +11

      @@murderah17 Even people ask: "How much time do I have to spend in No Contact?". Answer is: "For the rest of your life as far as you're concerned."

    • @itchman2
      @itchman2 2 роки тому +2

      Like coach Lee says its not a math problem! I've been NC for 8 months after a three year LTR and haven't heard a thing. Working on me and on the road to her losing me 95%.

    • @larryclay8875
      @larryclay8875 2 роки тому +4

      @@itchman2 Wow, 8 months. I cannot imagine the pain to go through that long period. I'm on 5th month of No Contact. Feels like forever, lol. But yeah, I agree that it's best to move on and try to forget about Ex for a time being. If they want you, they'll reach out eventually. Stay strong, man!

  • @jerescot
    @jerescot 2 роки тому +1

    is it okay that I showed her the pain I was going to be in, during the initial break up conversation? I told her "I'm in peices right now but I love you and I'll always have the memories, but if this is what you want, it'll be a tough ride, but I'll say goodbye."
    left it there, and I've been in NC for a week. We did break up very briefly a month before, I did NC then, and she came back after only 3 days...though I could feel it wasn't permanent that time. this time feels more final, which is why hurts so much more.

    • @kasimusuleiman4754
      @kasimusuleiman4754 2 роки тому

      He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @suathila-os6657
    @suathila-os6657 2 роки тому

    My long distance boyfriend breaks me up last Jan.31 and it really breaks my heart,and i found some videos of Coach Lee here and it helps me to understand about break up.i applied no contact for 2 weeks we never talked after the break up.Feb. 14 he reached out saying that " hi,sorry to bother you but i hope you doing well".I didnt reply with that chat.The next day around 2am he saw me online on messenger and he messaged me saying " okay just ignor me" and thats the time that i replied him back saying that Hey! Im doing pretty good.And he kept asking me and about my son then he asked me if he can call.i didnt say yes but he called and i picked it up.then we start talking.he said sorry and missed me. I Was just happy that this time he came back to me for the 4th time.

    • @suathila-os6657
      @suathila-os6657 2 роки тому

      My ex already came back to me.thanks

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @lifeandlifeabundantly514
    @lifeandlifeabundantly514 2 роки тому +1

    Hey when are you going to start doing coaching calls again?

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  2 роки тому +2

      I’m not doing individual coaching at the moment but the lead coach on my staff DOES. He is Coach Ken and you can book a call with him at dotheyloveme.com. He is OUTSTANDING at helping people get an ex back. He and I got our coaching certifications together about 18 years ago and he works directly for me. -Coach Lee

  • @karankumarofficialid
    @karankumarofficialid 2 роки тому

    More long distance relationship ex back videos pleaseee

  • @ohmycar4987
    @ohmycar4987 2 роки тому +2

    The people's personality is very different
    Everyone has to find their own key to the other

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @larryjohn2882
    @larryjohn2882 2 роки тому +3

    Crazy coach Lee got my ex steady texting me and calling to check up on me when I stop contacting her been a week now she unblock me on social media and reaching out to check up on me

  • @poteznywarmianin5840
    @poteznywarmianin5840 2 роки тому +1

    She pulled away and I gave her space the same day she acted distanced (I didn't talk to her why she pulled away etc), she always was the one to text me first. We work together, very close. It's been almost 4 months. She still kept texting me first from time to time. But she never touches me anymore since then maybe like 10 times(gently touch). Now we don't even talk to each other. We always were returning by the same bus, sometimes we sat together (when she asked if she can sit next to me). Last week I texted her when we were in bus, that it's ridiculous what we are doing. She agreed that she feels awkwardly about all situation (she also texted that it shouldn't be solved by texting "suggesting meeting am I right?"). Next day I asked if she is free today, and she said she isn't. It come out she was playing video game (I have her on discord, we used to play together :P). Now it's awkward as it was or even worse. As i mentioned we rarely speaked at work place in last 2 months or so. She almost break her neck not to look into my eyes when she is close, although I see her glancing me sometimes. Whenever she talk with another male coworkers she looks sometimes if I'm watching, yes sometimes I do. Acting like it doesn't bother me, but ofcourse it does. What to do to spike her interest once again. (She was hella into me, she said she has butterflies etc back then in time, we never were together, but once when we were out on date, I had sex with her at her place, we didn't go out ever again). We "did" it twice by discord (cyber sex). Then she pulled away like 2 weeks later. She was very touchy with me, she had crush on me. Is there any chance to reattract her?

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

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  • @aufhflskih6830
    @aufhflskih6830 2 роки тому +3

    9:30 this is the reason why i ignored her text after a month of no contact from her & mutual friends. it felt like a "breadcrumb" to see how or if i would respond. after ignoring my texts & a month of me going no contact, she texted me to say: "please call (mutual friend) they're worried sick" i wanted her to contact me to let me know that SHE cared, not some other mutual friend. so i ignored it. i have not contacted the mutual friend or anyone in our mutual circle in 2 months. had she asked me how i was doing herself, as opposed to texting on someone else's behalf, i would've responded. did i do the right thing or no?

    • @fredsystra7584
      @fredsystra7584 2 роки тому +1

      Should’ve said to mutual friend “ she can reach out to me if she needs anything” and that’s it continue no contact. Either than that you did right. Continue

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @geraldslemp6646
    @geraldslemp6646 2 роки тому

    Thanks you 😊 you have got me to see eyes wide open

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

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      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

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  • @thatboywiththefez553
    @thatboywiththefez553 2 роки тому +1

    Can you do a video about when your ex doesn’t really want to break up but feel like they have to? I got broken up with about three weeks ago and last night we kinda talked about it all. I didn’t bring it up, it just kinda happened because she was over at the house we rent together (she’s been staying at a friends house since the break up). She broke up with me because her life is too stressful with working 50 hours a week on top of being a full time masters student. By the time she was able to be with me, she had no strength left for our relationship. She had to do something to relieve some stress and losing our relationship was the best option because she can’t quit her job right now and she can’t quit school obviously. She’s beyond stressed and she told me she still loves me and she misses me and misses having me as her safety net and having me by her side for everything. But she also said that things have been a little easier since the break up even though she didn’t want to do it really. I told her I respect that and I don’t blame her for that, she needs to do what is best for her and her health. She said she likes knowing that I’m still here for her and honestly I don’t know how to proceed. Obviously I want her back but I think the timing just isn’t right. And I don’t want to mess up my chances by being too much of a friend for her, but at the same time I want to do everything I can to help her because I care about her and I want to see her happy and not so broken down

    • @kasimusuleiman4754
      @kasimusuleiman4754 2 роки тому

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    • @kasimusuleiman4754
      @kasimusuleiman4754 2 роки тому

      He is the best at fixing broken relationship restoration and attracting love💕💕💕

  • @brooksyasmine9734
    @brooksyasmine9734 2 роки тому +7

    Is there still a chance if we have broken up more than once?
    I believe we love each other very much, but we had some issues. Anyway, I'm doing no contact to make myself better and stronger.
    Thank you for your videos Coach Lee, you inspire so many people!

    • @palesamathebula21
      @palesamathebula21 2 роки тому +2

      I'm in the same situation right now, I really hope there is still a chance.

    • @KermitHands
      @KermitHands 2 роки тому +2

      Same situation. We care and love each other but something just keeps having us break up. We work on it then months later we start falling off. It doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship but we love each other so Im in a state of confusion on what to do

    • @jamespsn01
      @jamespsn01 2 роки тому +1

      Same here homies

    • @natesilvers2166
      @natesilvers2166 2 роки тому +2

      I'm on 8th time so I'd say yes

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

  • @janwaranmuzyczny9571
    @janwaranmuzyczny9571 2 роки тому +5

    What if they said that they felt like they don't feel like they love me anymore but "just got used to being together"? If they would then miss me, won't they just think that it's still not love?

    • @theseattlegreen1871
      @theseattlegreen1871 2 роки тому

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    • @shaniecegullison
      @shaniecegullison 2 роки тому

      Lol i do.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

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  • @devonmccarthy7802
    @devonmccarthy7802 2 роки тому +2

    Everything about our relationship was beautiful. Communication, in bed, talked about business, understood each other, happy, laughter everything was good but people use to tell her black men a no good.
    After 3 months she came back. We talked about getting back together but she couldn’t get over her friends, coworkers and family having an issue because I’m a black man. She told me I treated her much better than other men. Those from her own race.
    She suddenly met a guy on Facebook and in three weeks the are engaged.
    Now he’s meeting her at her job but with me she didn’t want no one see because the pressure of being with someone of my race.
    She said she want no issue with us. If I see her she want to be able to have a convo.

  • @celestenova338
    @celestenova338 2 роки тому +1

    Vented to my mom about a hard time I was going threw with my now ex and she messaged him telling him to just leave me and stop hurting me. She ranted, a week later he broke up with me and said he didn’t want to hurt me anymore 💔 I was pissed that my mom did this and I’ll never know if she had anything to do with my break up

    • @nellbell13
      @nellbell13 2 роки тому +1

      I totally know how you feel. Im sorry your mom did that. My mom texted my ex without telling me and i feel she made it worse.

  • @larsw3327
    @larsw3327 2 роки тому +27

    I've been in no contact for over a month and yesterday she actually reached out to wish me a happy birthday. I told her that I appreciate it and afterwards she started a conversation asking how I am and stuff. We talked a little until she went to sleep. I told her that I am doing fine and gave some little details about my process of improving and healing (exercising routine etc.). She was happy for me and explained her situation. Since I broadly know the circumstances in her life (she still talked to my mother + we didn't unfollow each other on social media) I really got the feeling that she somehow was exaggerating to proof something to me. Nevertheless she didn't tell me that she was missing me or some like that. I am so confused. Should I just go back to no contact, is it even working or was she just trying to be polite?

    • @larryclay8875
      @larryclay8875 2 роки тому +15

      If she didn't bring up the relationship thing with you, then it's probably that she was just being polite. At least that's how I look based on what you say. I'd just keep it cool and stay in No Contact rules if I were in your shoes.

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

    • @dr.oneilaakashbiswas1038
      @dr.oneilaakashbiswas1038 2 роки тому +2

      Any update?

    • @YahLoverDOMMY13
      @YahLoverDOMMY13 2 роки тому

      @@worilareiemmanuel5055 and that would be???

  • @snackpants
    @snackpants 2 роки тому +3

    Coach, can you do a video on if your partner ultimately is calling it “a break”?

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @ikor-awajisamuel2131
      @ikor-awajisamuel2131 2 роки тому

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  • @agbordaniels
    @agbordaniels 2 роки тому

    So what if you broke all these rules already but you’re back in no contact day 91 for the third time since the breakup in 2019. I must be stupid still actively counting my no contact days after all these years.

  • @MadScientist81
    @MadScientist81 2 роки тому +2

    After 17 years and a 8 yo daughter my ex broke up 4 months ago… in the begining i chased, wrote giant texts without success of course, then i started To Watch these break up vídeos, couldnt do a proper NC because we have a child but i became very distant… she sent me a message on my birthday in december and i got emotional so i repelied saying i still think about her, still want my family back and asked if she wanted To go out just to talk… she said she need more time because she still heartbroken (i fucked up so bad.. no cheating), and need to clarify her feelings about us… sometimes shes Nice, sometimes shes bitter… i dont understand… i really tried To move on and forget her but no matter how many women i date, hit the nightclubs i still have this emptyness… i truly love that woman, i truly want my family Back… any advice? Keep fighting or force my self To let go? This situation is so terrible… i hope Everybody in here find peace.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @desireeloveless5486
    @desireeloveless5486 2 роки тому

    He broke up with me December 15th for not being a good “fit”, but really because of my emotional reactions. We broke up amicably and I asked him to reconsider. He was texting me every day afterwards. I asked him to meet in person a month later since we broke up long distance on FaceTime. He had me come out to his parents for 4 days. At the end of the trip he tells me “a month isn’t long enough for someone to change” and said he was texting me just to be nice. I lost it emotionally and told him I hated him. I had been led on for a month and flew across the country for this man. I said mean things in the heat of the moment. I apologized for my reaction to the pain and mean words, that I respect his decision and went no contact ever since. It’s 11 days now. I think my emotional reaction ruined it. 😔

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @Nopkllz
    @Nopkllz 2 роки тому

    Can u make a video on topic of short term relationships 1-5 months , and what to do in that situation, will NC work, and how deal with it if it was short tearm relationship.

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @maxluccie6754
    @maxluccie6754 2 роки тому +2

    Hi there!I met this Spanish girl in Australia and we spent all of our times together for nearly 2 years. I had to return home due to my visa ending. We stayed in a LDR for 4 months. During those 4 months I became a little needy and insecure. We always talked about her moving to Canada (where I live) she agreed but I kept being pushy and I kept asking her about when she'll look into visas and so on. She said she has alot on her plate and she'll look into once she returns to Spain (in December).Anyways long story short, 5 days later she got into Spain, she broke up with me. She said she didnt want to move to Canada anymore, it was a big move, she doesn't love me anymore and do not miss me. I am 2 weeks in no contact and I see her living her life all happy.
    My question is, should I move on, wait until she comes to me or persue her?If I do persue her, should I send her a letter of accountability (for me being insecure and needy). If so, how do I finish the letter since I cant invite her for coffee for instance

    • @stanceynkgowe2709
      @stanceynkgowe2709 2 роки тому +2

      Give her time. I am also going through a painful break up. Time heals

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @iceon8312
    @iceon8312 2 роки тому +1

    Me and my ex dated for 2.5 months but we have known eachother for years as friends before we became romantic. She told me that we should go back to being friends but i declined. I told her to get in touch if she changes her mind and went straight into NC i gave her the breakup. Will no contact work for a short term relationship like this??+???+? Ive been in no contact for 3 weeks now and she has not reached out yet i feel so sad bc we had such a good time together.

  • @jafedrivera232
    @jafedrivera232 2 роки тому +3

    My ex said she missed me on New Years and she said she didn’t know why, two days later she was hugging a build a bear with my voice on it, it has been a week since it happened and now she sometimes sends mirror pics or selfies and when I don’t say anything she seems upset and when she sees me smiling she seems upset, she still has me on social media and snaps me almost right away, she still has pictures of us on social media, when we broke up she said she needed time and space and that she didn’t know what she wanted, reason for the breakup was my anger.

    • @greekmontana3008
      @greekmontana3008 2 роки тому +2

      Like he said take it slow and be reserved. She should be wanting to get back with you and eventually say “hey I want to give us another try” you just gotta hold frame and don’t let her have control

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @hendrixferdinand4736
      @hendrixferdinand4736 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @gardenofflowers8126
    @gardenofflowers8126 2 роки тому +1

    Can you make a video that talks about exes that are depressed and helpful advice on how to handle that?

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  2 роки тому

      Sounds more like you need a coaching call with my staff coach, Ken for that. Book your session at dotheyloveme.com

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @worilareiemmanuel5055
      @worilareiemmanuel5055 2 роки тому

      WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹👇

  • @flaminggaming5295
    @flaminggaming5295 Рік тому

    Coach lee, my ex and I broke up due to long distance because we had back to back study abroad semesters. She said she wants to see me again when she returns to the USA, but only to return my things. How can I still possibly facilitate a proper face to face? She returns in 4 months, is that enough time for her to change her mind and open up to a more casual face to face rather than an item exchange? Because as you can imagine I am struggling to see how her and I could actually have a productive conversation if it is solely a meeting to exchange items. Thank you for all you do!