Top ways to stop obsessing over the narcissist
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- Moving on is best for your mental health #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissist
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They're the cruel messenger who lets you believe you've won big on the lottery. They let it sink in whilst you mentally start spending the money, they then pull the rug from under you but you want to keep reliving that feeling of feeling rich.
Great analogy! I’m so pissed at the moment. I can’t believe the things they say and do. So screwed up, my God.
@@NopeNotTodaySatan Very cruel people.
@@silentnight3235 - Indeed. Malevolent to their core. If they only knew what’s coming for them after this life. My oh my. We reap what we sow. 🤷♀️
@@NopeNotTodaySatan We sure do. I almost feel sorry for narcissistic individuals. Almost!
@@silentnight3235 - I almost felt that way once as well. I get what you’re saying. One day when I was younger (I’m 46 now) I woke up a realized that we all have the choice to be good or evil. I had a legitimate psychopathic ex step father from age 5-13. Sociopathic husband from 2001-2012 & a Covert Narcissistic BF from 2018 until this past May. We all have choices. The amount of trauma, torture & pain these individuals inflicted upon me made me a better person, a more compassionate & understanding person. I could have been like them but instead I chose to be the opposite. I know what it feels like to feel the worse pain possible but I couldn’t live with myself knowing I hurt someone like that. They made their choice. Don’t ever forget that. 💖
This is wise. Thank you, Danielle Radin, thank you so much. 🙏
As soon as you said, keep as busy as possible that’s exactly what I did
Best thing that could happen is to never see or hear from them again. No Contact means No Contact.
That is so true. You have described it so very well. You can do everything without the narcissist on your back. The freedom from the narcissistic relationship is going to give you wings to fly. It’s a feeling like no other. You have just escaped from hell on earth.
❤❤❤ EXCELLENT. 100 % TRUE. PERFECTLY EXPLAINED. MOST OF US EXPERIENCED THIS. MANY THANKS. YOU A ARE GREAT SPEAKER !
No contact in 5 years and still miss him. Thank you for this video, I will try to change the narrative in my mind.
Dang, that’s really awesome!!! Keep it up!!! Gives me motivation.
Don’t miss all the stress, trauma & chaos. Remember everything that creature did/said to you!!!! You deserved better!!! ❤
The thing was rarely home and when he was, it was torture for everyone. Finding out why he was “always at work,” pure putridity. Understanding he is disordered helped me see past the magic I believed a marriage was to be. Now, being on my own is peace from his evil.
This is very sad to hear about the person who I loved, but this is the Truth! They are empty and there is nothing there. The Mask & Mirror are gone once they Discard You!
Thank you ❤ I needed this message right now after the sudden discard. I grieve the loss of living in a nice large dream house with a nice pool and luxury travel, which I can attract without him… thanks girl and your hair is fab
I’m in the anger phase of grieving. I hate this. The pain is so deep. Hugs to you ❤
And at first you don't think you can but it takes a lot of support counseling and make all new friends and start doing new things I'm almost 2years healing and still struggling with some stuff but I am happy
Words are powerful. ThanQ.
Nobody needs a narcissist! Future fakes are fakes!
They’re frauds to their core
I find it impossible to obsess over manipulative insincere and evasive people who do not have my best interest. I attune to people’s actual essence very quickly.
This is hard to understand, and it's even harder to accept.
I’m so f’n angry for the time (years) he wasted. Especially after knowing everything that my ex husband did. Damn it.
And yes, I learned EVERYTHING I needed to learn. He lost an amazing person. Once in a lifetime type of woman.
The next one is gonna flip his world upside down, I can already see it. His worst fear is to get someone pregnant (I had a hysterectomy) bc of the “wealth” he thinks he’s getting in the future. Karmas gonna 👋 him goooooood.
I kinda feel bad for chuckling but whatever, he tortured me.
Absolutely beautiful advice !
Thank you! Been stonewalled for a month and then ignored on and off since (says he loves me to bits and wants to be with me more than anything but won’t change it until I change feeling insecure!) excuse and no accountability and deflection!
How could I possibly feel secure and have trust with a partner in and out of my life constantly so inconsistent and throwing me away and stonewalling on repeat showing me I don’t matter (over nearly 5 years) it’s broken down trust and I’m not chasing or begging to fix it. It’s hard to not accept all the blame like I usually do and realise it is his behaviour and I cannot live like this. It is emotional torture, confusion and panic.
He doesn’t show me he cares, only in inconsistent bits, and won’t talk to me or see me until I change 🥴 how can anything work like that? It’s absurd!
It can’t work!!! You fell in love with yourself. I’m grieving at the moment (in the anger stage). These people are fakes, frauds, thieves….
Hugs to you ❤
@@NopeNotTodaySatan hugs to you also beautiful thank you ❤️ I’m getting bouts of anger too instead of just upset so that’s progress in healing, I know I can’t have a future with him now with how he is, keep strong 💞xxx
@@amylouise5867 - You’re welcome & thank you as well sweet soul. We’re stronger than we realize. Remember there is light at the end of the tunnel. 💜
@@NopeNotTodaySatan thank you so much for your kind words, we definitely are stronger than we realise 🙏🏻 so validating reading and hearing from other people, wishing you healing and happiness lovely 💞xx
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