6 Signs You Have DEFEATED the Narcissist

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    6 Signs You Have DEFEATED the Narcissist//Do you ever feel like you have actually defeated the narcissist? How do know when narcissists are ready to collapse or just about ready to give up? This is especially important when you are negotiating with narcissists. Watch this video to find out 6 of the most important signs!
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  • @RebeccaZungEsq
    @RebeccaZungEsq  2 роки тому +75

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  • @benoitlevesque9609
    @benoitlevesque9609 2 роки тому +236

    You have really defeated a narcissist when you no longer care about defeating the Narc.

    • @angelaknox
      @angelaknox Рік тому +11

      I guess it depends on how they mean "defeated". To me it means he's finally going to leave me alone

    • @NoWitTwit
      @NoWitTwit Рік тому +7

      He can’t leave you alone, until you decide he no longer bothers you. Imagine if he never physically came around again because he moved to another country and cut off all contact with you, but he’s still visiting you in your mind. It all starts and ends with YOU.
      Empower yourself once again, to disable his power and influence. You are the answer. You are in control. You will have your peace of mind because you have decided you are worth it.

    • @amimipower2929
      @amimipower2929 Рік тому

      BOOOOMMM

    • @kaspersanders4511
      @kaspersanders4511 Рік тому +1

      Wrong when the snake attacks, you stand up like a g. They will back down like a clown

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 2 роки тому +750

    When you defeat the narcisist the fear disappears and you get back to yourself. It is like being born again. Feels absolutely great. You do not care about them at all.

    • @carmeldoolan3474
      @carmeldoolan3474 2 роки тому +10

      Defeat? Some men (usually men) stop at nothing. The cruelty only increases. How can your fear disappear when he will stop at nothing?

    • @KATLABELLE1
      @KATLABELLE1 2 роки тому +4

      @Claire DePaulo HEEHA ! ME TOO !
      FREEEEEDOM ! and PEACE .... Yummmmmmm

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 2 роки тому +8

      So true about that & you,re better off without them

    • @bonniekonjevich7574
      @bonniekonjevich7574 2 роки тому +8

      @@carmeldoolan3474 Give it time and love yourself.

    • @nancythornton2947
      @nancythornton2947 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly 💯

  • @MichibellaD.C.
    @MichibellaD.C. 2 роки тому +361

    1st They start love bombing you
    2nd The flood of texts
    3rd They start doing weird outlandish things until collapse
    4th personally you’re no longer triggered
    5th you’ve manipulated them by taking your ego out of it
    6th You no longer have any FEAR

    • @freedom768
      @freedom768 2 роки тому +13

      Omg I didn't realise I defeated the narc, thank you

    • @ultimateoptimist5217
      @ultimateoptimist5217 2 роки тому +40

      7th you saved your sanity, mental and physical health and opened the door to a nice/sane/healthy person to come into your life

    • @femiqueen5855
      @femiqueen5855 2 роки тому +3

      I have defeated him finally

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 2 роки тому +5

      The signs of defeat should act as a deterrent,if negotiations don't point to it,they don't need you to know,to admit defeat will defeat the purpose,if you need to cover some new ground,you could be sabotaged with subtle tactics,your thoughts feel confused or bamboozled,their tricks won't work if your aware of it,you study how predictable there actions and words are,you'll see the cracks in their evil strategies,They get weird and crazy because they've been noticed,you weren't triggered like you used too,focus on yourself and feel that you defeated the narciisist💥✔️

    • @DKSE123
      @DKSE123 2 роки тому

      It would be nice , if it really worked like that but it doesn't & prolly won't ever

  • @bmoremom8458
    @bmoremom8458 2 роки тому +219

    When they stop liking or devaluating you as a person, you know you are a threat to their false self. Because you are not easily manipulated and don’t feed them supply (attention, adoration or adulation).

    • @rebeccazung7870
      @rebeccazung7870 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @christophercox7406
      @christophercox7406 2 роки тому +17

      They never really liked you anyways when you were with them, you just thought they did. Ive heard Narcs talk dirty about there current friends.

    • @Respect2theFallen
      @Respect2theFallen 2 роки тому +7

      Yup. I hate feeding someone's ego just for the sake of their gratification. I like actually lifting people up who need it not desire,crave, and demand it. I've noticed this person seemed to demand it a little after I met them but didn't know exactly what a narc was so didn't see the signs then got involved & shit went south quick.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 2 роки тому +3

      Facts

    • @ecunningham2062
      @ecunningham2062 2 роки тому +2

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @waynescaller8833
    @waynescaller8833 2 роки тому +581

    When you defeat the narcissist it's like a brand new fresh air and your stress with dealing with the narcissist goes away and god will bring back your soul back to ware it was before you met the narcissist

    • @RLH9265
      @RLH9265 2 роки тому +7

      amen!

    • @telmoprl1963
      @telmoprl1963 2 роки тому +12

      God with a BIG G not that little god, that little god will just bring them back

    • @jeffreytalley4056
      @jeffreytalley4056 2 роки тому +2

      ABSOLUTELY 💯

    • @abbeydawes5786
      @abbeydawes5786 2 роки тому +1

      I hope so

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 2 роки тому +2

      @@telmoprl1963 It's "El", not even "Gawdriel", the second fallen angel, who loves these translations that serve the ones you referred to, so very well. Think, dig deeper, especially with the audacity to correct and or teach others stuff you know so little about!

  • @shrillytemple1654
    @shrillytemple1654 2 роки тому +436

    Their face when you’re not afraid anymore and treat them like everybody else. Ha!

    • @babss2285
      @babss2285 2 роки тому +27

      Oh yes they hate that

    • @goldilocks3593
      @goldilocks3593 2 роки тому +14

      … yup 😂 !

    • @PrettyToez07
      @PrettyToez07 2 роки тому +15

      Interesting statement!

    • @veenaseetharaman2226
      @veenaseetharaman2226 2 роки тому +2

      Ha ha ha

    • @kendraheard8240
      @kendraheard8240 2 роки тому +10

      Omg...I was at the car wash and did tht to a narc I've been no contact with... Ha!...let me tell u he looked like he seen a ghost like he couldn't believe he was actually witnessing it...sweet VICTORY!!!!!...IM SOOOO PROUD OF MYSELF AND FEEL SOOO EMPOWERED...GOD BLESS U ALL

  • @anitanorth9879
    @anitanorth9879 2 роки тому +162

    I got out, lived my life happily ever after and forgot that jerk ever existed. Winning!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  11 місяців тому +2

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh 2 роки тому +70

    When you can love yourself again and live...that is the number one sign you have defeated them!!!

  • @idk-df5hy
    @idk-df5hy 2 роки тому +423

    Defeating a narcissist is literally the best feeling

    • @pjf3837
      @pjf3837 2 роки тому +17

      It's as good watching them defeat themselves.

    • @ginacasey7013
      @ginacasey7013 2 роки тому +6

      Yes it is!!!!

    • @420Brothelsprout
      @420Brothelsprout 2 роки тому +12

      Its like you are a fresh new person with the weight of the world and all stress lifted.

    • @idk-df5hy
      @idk-df5hy 2 роки тому +1

      @@420Brothelsprout mhm, definitely

    • @aidentoons
      @aidentoons 2 роки тому +6

      NPD is not the "abuser disorder" NPD is not the "toxic" disorder NPD is not the "can't love anyone" disorder NPD is not the "unhealthy relationship" disorder NPD is not the "I love drama disorder"

  • @RLH9265
    @RLH9265 2 роки тому +307

    Defeating the damn narc is the BESTEST feeling in the world! I really have been noticing NO MORE FEAR!

    • @keith4239
      @keith4239 2 роки тому +5

      I feel bad about feeling good about even small victories. I did love my partner, regardless of if it was reciprocal. The dichotomy is challenging
      .

    • @RLH9265
      @RLH9265 2 роки тому +9

      It is super sad. My narc never gave me the chance to truly love him. What ever there was, was ALL trauma bond. It took me months after I left to vomit so much conditioning thinking that matured into trauma bond.
      I don't have a mean bone in my body. But boy, the narc triggers it and makes you feel like it.
      I felt that way also about feeling good about small victories - but some where you need to reach to God (or who ever you consider is your maker) and ask for healing. He is the only one who can do deep healing that is beyond us. And you will learn to walk in your own authenticity.

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 2 роки тому +3

      @@keith4239 of course we do. We are born to love, thrive and be happy! So... that's never been the issue! Has it?!

    • @keith4239
      @keith4239 2 роки тому +1

      @@RLH9265 Hi. Not sure who my maker may be, but I seem to have an input into how I am molded as we go. The deep healing? Time, time, time......

    • @HighSpeedNoDrag
      @HighSpeedNoDrag 2 роки тому +3

      Never ever Underestimate them and once you let your guard down or claim victory, the aftermath could end miserably.

  • @milalopes4923
    @milalopes4923 2 роки тому +78

    #5 worked out well for me. When I accidently picked up a hoovering phone call from the ex narc, I maintained cordial. I allowed him to speak to me and answered his prying questions. He even boldly told me about all the ways that he was stalking me. I lead him to believe that he "won" and that he got away with all the unreported physical violence and abuse toward me. After we hung up, I immediately changed my phone number and was lucky enough to be able to move a few months later. He tried to "friend" me on social media, but I blocked him. That was years ago and my life has been peaceful ever since.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @muhammadwahiduzzaman6766
      @muhammadwahiduzzaman6766 5 місяців тому +1

      Proud of you!

  • @Archer335
    @Archer335 2 роки тому +105

    Knowledge is power.
    The more we understand about them, the more power we have.
    And with narcissists, we really need that power!

    • @sylviagarrett1130
      @sylviagarrett1130 Рік тому +2

      No Fear

    • @Archer335
      @Archer335 Рік тому

      Sylvia Garrett,
      Correct. 👍🏽

    • @TheHydred
      @TheHydred Рік тому +1

      Dead on

    • @Archer335
      @Archer335 Рік тому

      Hydred Makabali,
      Thanks. 👍🏽

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому +1

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @jeffreytalley4056
    @jeffreytalley4056 2 роки тому +116

    No fear. Went to court. The narc thinks that they won because I didn't get a monetary judgment. I watched your videos about going to court with a narcissist and prepared. They had no idea that they were going to be publicly exposed as the Covert narcissist they are in court. Watching the narcissist squirm as they had to answer questions in court that exposed them was priceless! Thr judge saw them for what they are. I'm sure they don't want that to get out but their flying monkeys and everyone else they lied to will eventually learn the truth. Hell, they may even see this post and put 2 and 2 together 😃 You're an absolute blessing Rebecca! Thank you and may you always be blessed!!!!!

    • @Corinna_Schuett_GER
      @Corinna_Schuett_GER 2 роки тому +3

      I very much hope this will also happen on Wednesday in Germany, Heidelberg. Waiting to see my narc mother crumble before the judge. I'm a little nervous though but looking forward to. 😁👍

    • @pamelabrown8936
      @pamelabrown8936 2 роки тому +1

      My narc daughter episode cost me 15k before it's over.

    • @MrFredsAdventures
      @MrFredsAdventures 2 роки тому +1

      How did court go?

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 місяців тому

      this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home

  • @420Brothelsprout
    @420Brothelsprout 2 роки тому +103

    Holy crap!!! So I defeated my narcissist sooner than I realized. 😀

    • @janeskey5042
      @janeskey5042 2 роки тому +5

      Good for you! Congratulations!

    • @meridaphoenix4036
      @meridaphoenix4036 2 роки тому +2

      Good for you

    • @ladyv5655
      @ladyv5655 2 роки тому +1

      I realize that I defeated my narcissist even before I understood NPD.

    • @420Brothelsprout
      @420Brothelsprout 2 роки тому +1

      @@ladyv5655 it actually turns out I didn't defeat my narc back then. About 4 months ago I made another attempt at zero contact and I've been able to hold it since then. I went to a rehab and got out a couple weeks ago and as soon as I was back she easy trying to contact me. I have to to random drug tests alot and the first one I did when I got back she texted me a few hours later saying she saw my name on the list. Well lol there were 4 lists on names out. Then later that day her mother sent me a FB friend request and I ig ired that too the a couple days later my ex sent me a FB request. Now I get ppl I don't know sending me requests but I see my ex in their friends list. Fricken flying monkeys...

    • @ladyv5655
      @ladyv5655 2 роки тому +1

      @@420Brothelsprout , it's got to drive her crazy that you don't respond.😂 More evidence that your are killing this!

  • @ErumEhmad20
    @ErumEhmad20 2 роки тому +86

    No fear! It's even more liberating when you've defeated an entire cult of narcissists :)

    • @evelynjane4546
      @evelynjane4546 2 роки тому

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,....

    • @evelynjane4546
      @evelynjane4546 2 роки тому

      +2349154661736⏯⏯⏯⏯

    • @2blackcatz426
      @2blackcatz426 2 роки тому +6

      Yep my family ha ha funny not😝

    • @jamisona.5639
      @jamisona.5639 2 роки тому +3

      Boss!!!

    • @phoenixrisingharley
      @phoenixrisingharley 2 роки тому +2

      i have 5 very close around me, varying types and degrees, i feel equipped now to survive. lol im not terrified anymore thanks to all the videos i have watched and comments i have read. :)

  • @BlackCoffeeee
    @BlackCoffeeee 2 роки тому +34

    Beginning to think about what I wanted was a huge sign for me that I was free. For years I was programmed to exclusively think about them and their needs. I hadn't had an independent thought for years. Narcissists are mind parasites and I'm happy to be healed.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  11 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @belamanzano9035
    @belamanzano9035 2 роки тому +143

    I FINALLY GOT THE JUDGE TO GRANT ME A RESTRAINING ORDER

    • @new_beginings3214
      @new_beginings3214 2 роки тому +5

      Me too !!!!

    • @belamanzano9035
      @belamanzano9035 2 роки тому +2

      Mr???? I am vegan remember

    • @belamanzano9035
      @belamanzano9035 2 роки тому +3

      More evidence thanks!:)

    • @MamaBudz
      @MamaBudz 2 роки тому

      Cheers!

    • @susanazinger2525
      @susanazinger2525 2 роки тому +1

      You be lucky ! What do you do when the judges are just as bad as the narc. you're trying to rid yourself of ? (Serious question )

  • @Cayuse2009
    @Cayuse2009 2 роки тому +129

    No FEAR! I knew I was defeating my narcissist X-wife when she called me while we were still working through the divorce and she wanted to go on a second honeymoon to the same place we went when we got married. I've been keeping to my vow of NO CONTACT for over 2 years now! She goes through money like water and I am preparing for her to blow the $350,000 she got from me and try and get back together again. Ain't going to happen!

    • @Missy_561
      @Missy_561 2 роки тому +10

      They always live in the past and they always revert back to what works or worked in your case and mine I have a few narcs some family member and a narc delusional couple neighbors .....match made in HELL they will always try the same things watch for the patterns they're so predictable... it's such a convoluted topic but stay no contact they really never do change sending positive vibes your way

    • @annemurphy8074
      @annemurphy8074 2 роки тому +11

      @@Missy_561 Never accept the hoover attempts.

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 2 роки тому +4

      MY BFF married the same Jezebel demon almost destroyed him Please Please don’t they will poison ☠️ you eye drops anti freeze for insurance Just watch a day of Deadly women and Snapped 👺☠️🚨📺 Its Mind boggling

    • @melchizaldek4946
      @melchizaldek4946 2 роки тому +1

      💪💪💪

    • @jameshughes3241
      @jameshughes3241 2 роки тому +2

      Keep the no contact going change your email and phone if you have to good luck im going through a divorce with one now so know what you went through thanks for sharing your story.

  • @lisainthestudio
    @lisainthestudio 2 роки тому +61

    NO FEAR! The best part is when you can identify their behaviours as they happen, and you're not triggered or bothered. When you don't feel the need to take the bait and respond to them. When all the things they've threatened you with or held over your head no longer have any power. The huge feeling of a massive weight being lifted off your shoulders because they can't control or manipulate them anymore.

    • @villasoka884
      @villasoka884 2 роки тому +3

      Suck the oxygen. No fear? Is that because you are in the driver's seat now? Just rearview vision in the mirror, as you drive away! Great stuff!

    • @susanazinger2525
      @susanazinger2525 2 роки тому +2

      I'm at that point right now ! Damn near killed me getting here ...But I have renewed faith in myself and I get a little stronger every day . It was really scary where my narc. abuser had me ...

    • @lorrainejones8427
      @lorrainejones8427 2 роки тому

      So true.

  • @ronimure1649
    @ronimure1649 2 роки тому +11

    NO Fear enjoying my new freedom at age 71 after 50 years of fuzzy memories thanks to you and others on you tube its never too late to live again.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому +1

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @victory9015
    @victory9015 2 роки тому +29

    i have all my family narsissists. So i have defeated them already. When narsissists can't get anything from you, they just disappear from your life. I have no fear and my anxiety gettin evreyday less and less.
    Very good!

    • @geraldfriend256
      @geraldfriend256 2 роки тому +1

      Sadly true.Called my sister out and she is going no contact.On me.Bullies are cowards.I took her favorite punching bag away and she's PISSED.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @susanwhite6761
    @susanwhite6761 2 роки тому +57

    After watching this video I can truly say I defeated the narcissist in my life! WINNING! Everything she threw at me I didnt react or respond. It would deflate her every time so she would try something else to see if she could break me down. I never thought I was the crazy one. I just kept thinking "something is not right..." Looking back, Im proud of myself for stopping all contact. The best decision Ive made for myself!

    • @shirleyharting405
      @shirleyharting405 2 роки тому +2

      Congrats!! 😊

    • @MikeJones-vk2vq
      @MikeJones-vk2vq 2 роки тому

      Facts I did the same thing and was jus happy I ain’t go
      For the bs it was really entertaining for me bcuz I already understood her an the motive so
      It was pretty easy to handle it … I told her I wanted out with the bs, she tried to pour bleach on me and Comet.. she then started cutting up my clothes while trying to throw me stuff out.. I jus kinda laughed cause I kno she was trying to get an reaction out me she wanted me to physically put my hands on her but i didn’t she was even madder lol… she even told me she wish I die after she couldn’t get a reaction I jus kept it 2getha bc she knows I was supposed to rock her jaw!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @charlesrobbins2208
    @charlesrobbins2208 2 роки тому +26

    It felt good to say "don't bother" when I was told that she would be back in the morning. "You're a waste of my time." When she started to defend herself and raise her voice I just asked her to shut the door as she left. So far, so good. This reminds me of a 12 step program. 3 days clean.

    • @2blackcatz426
      @2blackcatz426 2 роки тому +3

      May the force be with you

    • @charlesrobbins2208
      @charlesrobbins2208 2 роки тому +2

      @@2blackcatz426 Thanks man.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @desertangelfish140
    @desertangelfish140 2 роки тому +61

    LMAO 🤣😂🤣. When they run in the opposite direction and avoid you! !!! I consider that a personal win! I greatly enjoy my peace, sanity and alone time. 🤭🖕😁

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 2 роки тому

      Prickly pear,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌷🌹🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!

    • @desertangelfish140
      @desertangelfish140 2 роки тому +1

      @@christianpulisic7784 Thank you! And, no I am not with a narc! 😉

    • @CoffeeRaven
      @CoffeeRaven 2 роки тому +2

      I love that. A narcissist at work completely avoided me and stopped talking to me. I showed no emotion or didn't react. I moved on like nothing happened. Come to find out later that everyone thought he was uncomfortably weird at work. I thought it was just me. Happy he quit and found another job.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @Anna.Mason151
    @Anna.Mason151 2 роки тому +68

    They usually leave before they loose because they are not strong people… and they cannot withstand the bad weather the indignity the shame the public dump on their ego or anything they might have inflicted on you or anyone else they are not responsible for….Sometimes they will make themselves suddenly busy with something or someone else so they have an excuse and they will 100% be rubbishing your name the whole way (and it will feel like water off a ducks back) because they are the poor victim….. but guess what you are not and thats when you know.

    • @rebeccazung4934
      @rebeccazung4934 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      .........................................
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @joellenwalker9830
      @joellenwalker9830 2 роки тому +2

      Their public shame is why you leave them in surprise! It knocks them so off guard that they end up with some of that nasty trauma the have been handing you!

    • @reinalynbumanlag1789
      @reinalynbumanlag1789 2 роки тому +1

      I dated a guy who is narcissist he kept on playing victim, cheating and feeding me lies that he doesn't have other girl but his other girl messaging me, he's trying to manipulate me because he wants me to stay but when I told him that I knew the truth and leave me alone because im f*cking done he got mad and blocked me.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @laurakellyl
    @laurakellyl 2 роки тому +22

    Who what where and when! I really don't know what happened. I just woke up one day and he no longer existed for me. I spent a lot of time soul searching and praying. I realize that he filled some sick need of mine (that I wasn't aware of). Won't say I wasn't deeply hurt but I'm healed and completely over him. I've been told he was very hurt by my leaving the relationship. I don't believe he can be hurt by anyone or anything just upset because I woke up and I was the one to walk away. Ladies or gentlemen (because it happens to men too) keep a strong hold on your heart.

    • @garymcmanus9946
      @garymcmanus9946 2 роки тому +2

      Yes it does happen to men...toxicity is pretty universal.

    • @handoverfist5013
      @handoverfist5013 2 роки тому +1

      My Narcs had Trump Derangement Syndrome. Said I was too white to be Hispanic and wanted me to call them the N word But I piveted and called them a Cunt. 😊

  • @angeladantonio5526
    @angeladantonio5526 2 роки тому +7

    I just defeated my very first narcissist and it literally was THE best feeling to sit there across from him at the same table, look him dead in the eyes, and say, "You have no idea how little I give a shit about what you are saying and doing right now, and I just realized I don't give a shit about how you feel anymore either. You can't trick me anymore. I know your games. You don't get to play your games with me anymore and that is going to SUCK FOR YOU." And I knew I defeated him that exact moment when I felt literally nothing towards anything he was saying or doing. He finally gave up on me, too, just about a week and a half ago. He stopped trying to pull me back in because I wasn't giving him anything anymore. I stopped being an energy source for his manipulative narcissistic tactics. And oh, does it feel good!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @stefaniamirri1112
    @stefaniamirri1112 2 роки тому +45

    Never had fears around them.. I had rage.. Enormous rage..

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 2 роки тому +1

      Stefania Mirri,You got a lovely smile 😊

    • @krzysztoflaskowski6110
      @krzysztoflaskowski6110 2 роки тому +3

      Me too...i never had no fears of them...just pure rage

    • @geraldfriend256
      @geraldfriend256 2 роки тому +4

      But if they see they angered you, it thrills them.You've probably seen that.

    • @somanyinsights1670
      @somanyinsights1670 2 роки тому

      Same here

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @SiphiwoTitise
    @SiphiwoTitise 2 роки тому +47

    No fear, not emotionally triggered. Thanks to you Rebecca Zung. I finally broke free from my narcissist.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @janeskey5042
    @janeskey5042 2 роки тому +35

    I’m looking forward to the day when I’m not emotionally triggered anymore ! I feel like it’s within reach but I’m not quite there yet…

    • @rebeccazung7870
      @rebeccazung7870 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @cestmagnifique7932
      @cestmagnifique7932 2 роки тому +2

      me too! I actually can't stand talking to my narcissist, but it's a close family member, so I don't feel like zero contact, just gray rock.. but they still trigger me during minimal contact 🙄

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @susanclark3025
    @susanclark3025 2 роки тому +23

    No more fear, I know my truth, and my power!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @adaytripp
    @adaytripp 2 роки тому +36

    Just survived my second relationship with a narcissist and feel so dumb. After the first one I thought I knew better. 😭

    • @jameshughes3241
      @jameshughes3241 2 роки тому +5

      Its difficult to tell i didnt even know what a narc was till 3 years ago it usually starts with sweet talk love bombing your the best your great ect too much too soon listen to your inner dialogue if red flags appear question it good luck.

    • @ultimateoptimist5217
      @ultimateoptimist5217 2 роки тому +11

      Sometimes it takes a few narc relationships to get a hang of it...don't lose hope.

    • @Ytdeletesallmycomments
      @Ytdeletesallmycomments 2 роки тому +11

      Dont feel dumb. That is what they want. They come in many forms and with different tricks. Focus on the i survived it before and never ever ignore the tiniest red flag ever and your gut. 🥰

    • @kylej741
      @kylej741 2 роки тому +4

      Traded in a narcissistic mother for a narcissistic spouse. Batting 1000. I should buy a lottery ticket now.

    • @adaytripp
      @adaytripp 2 роки тому +2

      @@kylej741 I'm so sorry

  • @lamaryoder10
    @lamaryoder10 2 роки тому +16

    She final quit harassing me after 2.5 years. He boyfriend left her of 2 years and at first I thought she was focusing on harassing him. But no, she’s using heroin and meth and is stealing from many people. This is one more of the reasons I left her because of her pill problem. Now she is proving me right. Thank God I got out of that situation before she was using drugs full time. Talk about a narcissist crash! In 2.5 years she went from signing in the choir and hiding her cheating and drug habit too full fledged addict and thief.
    Rebecca thank you for your constant updates. You gave me direction and understanding.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd 2 роки тому +33

    I feel blessed that God allowed me to ACCEPT that I am STRONG and a SURVIVOR after I defeated my narcissistic bf of 15 years

    • @GenerationX1984
      @GenerationX1984 2 роки тому +3

      I'm not tolerant enough to put up with anybody for 15 years. Maybe that's why I'm still single.
      Also it wasn't God who helped you. You helped yourself. That was all you! 👍

    • @shantellcobb7067
      @shantellcobb7067 2 роки тому +1

      ❤️💪🙌

    • @shahadah1451
      @shahadah1451 Рік тому +1

      @@GenerationX1984 I don't think it is a good idea to leave out God's part.

    • @GenerationX1984
      @GenerationX1984 Рік тому

      @@shahadah1451 If God actually cared he'd be an egomaniac and that's an attribute of weak mortals.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому +1

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @carollampman9897
    @carollampman9897 2 роки тому +15

    No fear because I have God backing me up!

    • @ladyv5655
      @ladyv5655 2 роки тому +1

      No fear, but sometimes when somebody mentions my narc ex, I feel a sense of disgust for him and disappointment that I was duped by him, even for a relatively short time.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @colleenmohan6653
    @colleenmohan6653 2 роки тому +48

    Best way to defeat a narcissist is not living with them.. you have a better chance of doing it.. I'm currently doing it.. and it's way much Better and feel a bit of ease....

    • @Unblahyourself_
      @Unblahyourself_ 2 роки тому +2

      Even if you don't live with them, they can still hurt you, if you allow this, of course. It's better if you don't escape from them, but show them, that what they're trying to do to you, means nothing, absolutely nothing, just yawn and go on with your happy life. 😀

    • @resilient8788
      @resilient8788 2 роки тому +1

      The financial repercussions of having had one live with you can last years after they've been gone though. It got so bad I had to have his squatter ass evicted from my home and he still wouldn't leave for 5 more months. Apparently squatters have rights. Thank God we weren't married. He's aging out so he had to find new supply ( as a caveat, she is barfly) (oh ya, I didn't just deal with a covert narcissist, but an alcoholic too)) of which he was quick to get engaged which happens to be literally half his age...

    • @DW-ui9hg
      @DW-ui9hg 2 роки тому +1

      If you can get away

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @sarahreyes6473
    @sarahreyes6473 2 роки тому +50

    No fear, just high blood pressure.

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 2 роки тому

      Do what a dog would know to do at such moments. Lie down, on the ground!

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 2 роки тому

      I had hbp with this evil demon and lost my unborn baby but the b.p healed am working on my mental health

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 2 роки тому

      @@aselyne5631 sorry Lyne. It would be so good if they could address the root and not just cover up symptoms!

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 2 роки тому +1

      @@theresefournier3269 Yes narcissist can bring us some wierd diseases we have to fight for ourselves

    • @garymcmanus9946
      @garymcmanus9946 2 роки тому +1

      Holy shit that is resonating with me today!!

  • @paulesp06
    @paulesp06 2 роки тому +59

    FEAR! After a good 6 years I reached a point of no fear, and then after my ex saw me w/my new partner, something *very* strange happened. We were in the theater very coincidentally, he was sitting right in front of me. I said hello to him and he looked *very* uncomfortable. This was over a decade after we had finished. He RAN out of there after the show, and never whatsapped or emailed me ever again. Strange thing is that the ultimate victory is served when u no longer care, and u almost feel sad for them.

    • @laurieknight5945
      @laurieknight5945 2 роки тому +1

      Irene

    • @laurieknight5945
      @laurieknight5945 2 роки тому +3

      Irene if you leave them or stay with them you live with pain and suffer any way so leave them and use that pain and suffering to be getting rid of them so you can live again.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @MsKK909
    @MsKK909 2 роки тому +17

    When they try to hoover you, you’ve defeated them……. You clinch the deal by keeping No Contact impenetrable.

    • @MsKK909
      @MsKK909 2 роки тому +1

      @humpty
      Not sure I follow you….. are you saying that you don’t recommend No Contact?

    • @MsKK909
      @MsKK909 2 роки тому +5

      @humpty
      You do realize, don’t you, that the regime of No Contact applies only to the Narc abuser, right? You don’t become a monk or a hermit…. You can still communicate with the non-abusive, supportive people on your life. No Contact with a Narc abuser is the ONLY way to cut off the supply he/she craves….. anything less keeps you in the abuse cycle. We all want and need to be included, but to leave yourself open to more abuse to be included by a Narc is just masochistic.

    • @rebeccazung7870
      @rebeccazung7870 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @MsKK909
      @MsKK909 2 роки тому +5

      @humpty
      No matter what you call it, if No Contact with a Narc abuser is not upheld, and you leave the door open for yet more abuse, the rest is just semantics.

    • @pamelabrown8936
      @pamelabrown8936 2 роки тому +2

      I have learned not to respond to comment ingnore their drama episodes. They hate not pushing your emotional buttons. I just go silent.

  • @mitz2368
    @mitz2368 2 роки тому +5

    I do not wan't to win. I wan't the narclssist to get boored with me, to loose interest, to leave me alone.

  • @kristikola777
    @kristikola777 2 роки тому +14

    Woohoo I think I did all of these within a 24 hour period. I took a chance and chatted offline with a youtube acquaintance and it was a covert narc. Your videos popped up and confirmed all my suspicions thank you! So good to know I'm healed and wiser now and a narc slayer! They go from underestimating me to being mortified by me in record time now haha! Serves 'em right!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @macxpert3588
    @macxpert3588 2 роки тому +22

    When I finally defeated my narcissistic wife (now ex-wife) she went nuts and totally lost it. She trashed our home and took as much of my stuff as she could including some very heavy tools, car polish right down to my coffee machine and coffee cup warmer. Stuff she would never use but took just to upset me.
    The judge was not impressed with her and ordered her to pay me the full cost of the repairs I had to make to our house in order to sell it. She made the divorce insane and went through three lawyers. Each one got to a point where they refused to act for her. Happy now I'm rid of her and I got custody so of the children so life is good again.

    • @MrsNsf74
      @MrsNsf74 2 роки тому

      I am glad you came out sane and won. Sounds like what I am going through. Stay strong

    • @aimane3375
      @aimane3375 2 роки тому

      Damn you living the good life 😎 happy for you 💪

    • @madanreddy6970
      @madanreddy6970 2 роки тому

      Similar situation. Could you help me with tips for custody.

    • @macxpert3588
      @macxpert3588 2 роки тому +1

      @@madanreddy6970 Depends where you live. The family courts are biased against men so it will be tough. In my case I was the primary care giver and I could prove it. My eldest daughter was 13 almost 14 at the time and she was at the age where she could tell the court who she wanted to live with. She said she wanted to live with me so her custody was a slam dunk. Custody of my younger daughter went to me as well because the court would not split the kids up, and because I was the primary care giver.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @hellodenise9612
    @hellodenise9612 2 роки тому +52

    I finally put everything together and now I can move on. I was stuck because I was so confused? And yes once I figured it all out he started the love bombing again and I totally went gray rock. I also want to say I had some spiritual healing which help me to see clear and be strong!

    • @rachaelgordove877
      @rachaelgordove877 2 роки тому

      I am in the same situation..

    • @hellodenise9612
      @hellodenise9612 2 роки тому +1

      @@rachaelgordove877 Well alot has changed for me since 7 months ago. Its been 2 months since I moved out. The 5 months of living there were horrible. Just emotionally draining. Now I live with my elderly mom which has been hard but it's good! No more drama! I still have days where I miss him really bad but I just talk to myself and say REMEMBER what it was like! REMEMBER how mean he was!
      Tell me whats going on?

    • @phoenixrisingharley
      @phoenixrisingharley 2 роки тому

      me too, so confused. i dont lie, and i couldnt understand the lies from the narc that they knew i knew were not true, that really is confusing, its all confusing until it is spelled out to us, I am so thankful to people like Rebecca for making these videos.

    • @hellodenise9612
      @hellodenise9612 2 роки тому

      Update: Moved out Dec 23, 2021. He ignored me. Cold to me if we talked. One night, been out with friends and had a few drinks. Went over to his apartment and told him I missed him. (Dumb) He says, I'm good. I've moved on". Ok fine. I leave feeling like the dumbest lowest creature ever. Now I know. I decide I'm over it. Great! Month later with no contact he comes over crying and hates being alone! He didnt get the job offer he was counting on so he wants to tell me he is so sorry. And I guess he wants to get back togethe? No plan or ideas on what we would do??? Im so confused??? Month later, acts like nothing happened. I didn't take him serious. I know he just needed me for support for that moment. Life goes on. We talk every now and then. I'll give him a few dollars if he needs gas. I really don't have any feelings for him other than just someone I know. I'm thankful. Weird thing is I'm so depressed. I am more depressed than I have ever been in my life. Am I feeling the after effects of this relationship or what? I really feel like I wouldn't care if I died today?

    • @hellodenise9612
      @hellodenise9612 2 роки тому +1

      @@phoenixrisingharley He would say I was crazy when I was throwing things because I was so so mad and confused!! I did look and sound crazy but it all stopped when I figured it out. He enjoyed seeing me go crazy! It validated that I cared about him. That is sick!

  • @kaylamson5161
    @kaylamson5161 2 роки тому +21

    Thank you so much, I’m dealing with this rn. It is so true! I feel no fear. I’ve been reading my Bible and praying a lot where I have been strengthened . God bless!

    • @sarahalexander1946
      @sarahalexander1946 2 роки тому +1

      God bless you stay strong x

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @crencottrell7849
    @crencottrell7849 2 роки тому +149

    #6 is key for me 😅 narcs tend to be aggressive/exhibit aggressive body language, as if they're trying to intimidate you...annoying and bully-ish indeed.

    • @PrettyToez07
      @PrettyToez07 2 роки тому +1

      #6 is key for me also!! You're correct!!

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 2 роки тому +4

      They are always testing you to see how much Abuse you will tolerate... Leave block change your # they are extremely dangerous ☠️🚨

    • @crencottrell7849
      @crencottrell7849 2 роки тому +22

      @@lovewhitey2027 what angers me is as soon as you act aggressive towards them and they can't handle it, they become cowardly/vindictive "victims" 🙄

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 2 роки тому +1

      @@crencottrell7849 24/7 👺🤬

    • @iamwhatyouareyouarewhatiam6613
      @iamwhatyouareyouarewhatiam6613 2 роки тому +6

      They most definitely do act like that way! Never ever "be-leive" these people but trust in what their words, actions and vibration tell you. Their inner make-up is so shifty. They lie, blame shift, project and many other manipulative abilities far greater and more skillful than the lower tiered counter parts. The greater narcs / master manipulators are extremely careful with their words and will listen to you first before they choose their manipulative ploy. We must be careful ... while loving ourselves at the same time.

  • @patricialee1537
    @patricialee1537 2 роки тому +59

    I feel my spidey senses tingling still, saying - "activate the boundaries". My work narc still has me a little. No Fear is the next step!!!

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud 2 роки тому +4

      Yes, me too. Victory is ours one step at a time.

    • @patricialee1537
      @patricialee1537 2 роки тому +3

      @@Richard-vq7ud Hope you are doing okay!

    • @HighSpeedNoDrag
      @HighSpeedNoDrag 2 роки тому +5

      No fear could be a potential major league mistake. Never Underestimate the Narc and keep your guard UP non stop.

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud 2 роки тому +6

      @@HighSpeedNoDrag great point, never let your guard down around these monsters

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud 2 роки тому +4

      @@patricialee1537 yes! Thank you. We are not alone and in this battle together!

  • @onoriodejuliet5677
    @onoriodejuliet5677 2 роки тому +4

    The fear or bad feelings dissappear. You feel refreshed, thee love you think you have for them disappear. All you begin to see or imagine was their wicked and mean attitude.It was so crazy, frustrating to be with a narcissist.. They send you texts to devalue you or make you feel something is wrong with you. Thank God I did the unexpectable by setting myself free..

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @mynewlife1911
    @mynewlife1911 2 роки тому +8

    Looking back it’s so crazy how scared of them we were. You’re literally scared about something that has to do w them every day if you’re w a narc. Happy to be out of it all! Be safe out there and take good care of you❤️

    • @shantellcobb7067
      @shantellcobb7067 2 роки тому

      Same to you ❤️💪🙌

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @MyFatheristhaKing
    @MyFatheristhaKing 2 роки тому +16

    Sending this to someone who needs it..THANK YOU! NO FEAR!! AMEN!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 місяців тому

      this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home

  • @butterfly7624
    @butterfly7624 Рік тому +8

    This is 100% spot on, having dealt with a handful of narcissists(a handful too many in my opinion 🤣). It's actually quite humorous to watch them basically crumble and use all of their tactics because they're desperate because they know I've figured them out and they can't control me. The scary part is the level to which some narcissists will escalate. And they can think they've won but in the end, I know that Karma and natural consequences will come to them and I've witnessed it.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 місяців тому +1

      this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 2 роки тому +22

    So true, our last conversation lasted about 3 mins, he was ALL over the place just rattling off, I gave him NO emotion NO fuel, NO energy, I said...you still playing the victim, good bye

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @AA-qp6cw
    @AA-qp6cw 2 роки тому +12

    This is therapy :) I think I’ve been brainwashed after hearing it like 100 times lol . I’ve defeated the narcissist;)

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @plutointheeighth6194
    @plutointheeighth6194 2 роки тому +15

    No fear!, (they probably fear us because we are the stronger, smarter ones and now we know all their little tricks and narc antics).

    • @rebeccazung4934
      @rebeccazung4934 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      .........................................
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

  • @rubymcclain5078
    @rubymcclain5078 Рік тому +4

    My narcissist won. I give up. I was physically hurt so he wins. But now it’s over. I’m in mourning for the years of emotional trauma, verbal abuse etc. So I may have been physically hurt but now I’m trying to mourn my loss and know that it’s finally over.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @nicholecornes1915
      @nicholecornes1915 6 місяців тому

      😢baby i know you think you lost something right now but look at all of us who are in your situation..it took time for us to get out of this demonic fog but we are getting out of it! Pray see your doctor! Groom yourself LOVE yourself

  • @browneyedgirl4285
    @browneyedgirl4285 2 роки тому +6

    I used to get hysterical 😩 over my narc cuz he was so good at making me cry 😢, but now when he says stuff I don’t bat 🦇 an eyelash……. I don’t have time for games anymore

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому +1

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @jaunessiaporter6057
    @jaunessiaporter6057 2 роки тому +11

    No Fear! I JUST did a reading about 2 hours before seeing this with this as the message!!! Synchronicity!🙌🏽 Divine Alignment!🌟✨💫Thank you!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @andywilkerson4314
    @andywilkerson4314 2 роки тому +4

    No fear! Thank you so much Rebecca, you’ve helped me so much after realizing I was with a narcissist the last 9 years. No more supply from me! No fear

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  11 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

  • @leftykeys6944
    @leftykeys6944 2 роки тому +6

    When my brother's removal as trustee becomes permanent and he no longer has access to, or control over, my money, I will no longer have any reason to fear him.

  • @endtimeservant8531
    @endtimeservant8531 2 роки тому +5

    When they are afraid to even look at you as they will meet your eyes of TRUTH which will UNDRESS their NAKEDNESS ie life of evil. They are now intimated by your honesty and integrity. No more tippy toeing around them if you happen to still be living around them, and you FREE and HAPPY.

    • @paigezimmer3709
      @paigezimmer3709 2 роки тому +1

      I had this experience. When I was figuring out my narc in one discussion we were having, I was asking some questions and he wouldn't look at me at all. I asked him (respectfully) if he could please look at me while we were having the discussion. He said, "No, just keep talking." I see now that I was intimidating him (just by being a normal person) because I was removing his mask.

    • @jeanetteshawredden5643
      @jeanetteshawredden5643 2 роки тому +2

      Yes your "eyes of Truth" will undress their games, lies, you SEE who they "really are" and they are EXPOSED... and they absolutely hate that !!!

  • @jeanannbierlein3375
    @jeanannbierlein3375 2 роки тому +8

    NO FEAR! This is a fabulous feeling!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @anns9549
    @anns9549 2 роки тому +3

    I’m at this point now! It took nearly 5 years to get here I honestly don’t feel triggered by his madness anymore. It’s all about my peace now. Then my exit plan.

  • @helensophia2900
    @helensophia2900 2 роки тому +41

    Love this lady! I always feel so empowered after watching her videos.Such a great example of womanhood.

    • @jennifermalky5265
      @jennifermalky5265 2 роки тому +2

      Amen to that!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  11 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

  • @lyndaslocs
    @lyndaslocs Рік тому +1

    Thanks for providing this wonderful material.

  • @kathleenalexander2022
    @kathleenalexander2022 2 роки тому

    They addressed so many issues lots of people had with the narcissists and that makes me extremely happy to know that he is really listening to their community like they did so many years ago. Thanks *Leapnotch*

  • @spikefivefivefive
    @spikefivefivefive 2 роки тому +8

    When the narc mother is defeated: "Boy, you just know everything, don't you?"

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @fitness34seven88
    @fitness34seven88 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you my dear narcissists. You made me wiser and more cunning.

  • @RedPitBull
    @RedPitBull 28 днів тому

    No fear. Just joy and happiness that I am no longer shackled to Mr. Legend in His Own Mind.!

  • @bomolzan5991
    @bomolzan5991 28 днів тому

    NO FEAR!!! NO MORE FEAR. SHE CAN'T HURT ME ANYMORE! Today is the first day!

  • @miamichiefs
    @miamichiefs 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you! Love this. No more fear!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @joshuaescalante1273
    @joshuaescalante1273 2 роки тому +3

    No fear and it feels amazing. Thank you Rebecca!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  11 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

  • @juliamikhaylova8235
    @juliamikhaylova8235 2 роки тому +2

    Great video! Thank you.

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 2 роки тому

      Julia Mikhaylova,You look stunning,hope you are not with a narc

  • @lufefeplatyie9784
    @lufefeplatyie9784 2 роки тому +2

    "NO FEAR"
    I'm all most there!!!

  • @daianmata5945
    @daianmata5945 2 роки тому +5

    No " FEAR " , THANK YOU !
    PRAISE YAHUAH!!!

  • @MCVazable
    @MCVazable 2 роки тому +23

    No fear! Thank you Rebecca you are amazing 🥰

    • @rebeccazung4934
      @rebeccazung4934 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 2 роки тому

      Madalena Vaz,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  11 місяців тому

      You got this! 💪

  • @jacquelinefroehle5868
    @jacquelinefroehle5868 Рік тому

    Great Video and thank you Rebecca !!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Місяць тому

      Thank you..hope you could join me in my FREE webinar 😊
      >>> www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

  • @iamdawnmwilliams
    @iamdawnmwilliams 2 роки тому

    You are spot on with this video. The accuracy!

  • @tcbcmoto4895
    @tcbcmoto4895 2 роки тому +6

    When I left them behind I lost my fear narrissists are pure evil demons. May the bad they wish on me or mine or any good people not leave themselves ,God is great Amen 🙏❤️

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @dianeatwood1297
    @dianeatwood1297 2 роки тому +9

    When you STOP caring how the narc feels about you is when they are defeated. When they might as well be the guy on the cross town bus you will never see or talk to.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @lucymurphy2038
    @lucymurphy2038 2 роки тому +2

    It is so true. I've been through childhood narcissistic abuse and think that I have finally broken the cycle by being in relationships with narcissistic partners....🙏 so grateful for these videos and information, you should be proud of yourself!
    It's just so true that you just see their faces when you are at breaking point and on to them...it's like a 4 year old child getting caught in the biscuit tin without asking permission, before their dinner....like, I am.. BUSTED!! I saw this face last week for the first time and it was like a weight was lifted off my broken mind.
    I have been trying to break away for years and now the penny has dropped with him, he left happily and is sending reasonable texts saying he agrees etc... blah blah blah... such evil, it's frightening! I am definitely not taking this anymore from anyone in my life and now will see the signs thanks to your teaching! Xxxxx

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @jennifermonahan6235
    @jennifermonahan6235 2 роки тому +1

    No fear!! Found my voice and I am not afraid to speak out in their crap!

  • @sousababyonSquidoo
    @sousababyonSquidoo 2 роки тому +4

    No fear! This is brilliant. All of your videos. Thank you so much.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @popmonika
    @popmonika 2 роки тому +3

    I had a female narcissist at work who targeted me. Creating sustainable boundaries and limiting contact (to zero- if possible) is key to healing and getting yourself back.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @jenamirgholi6004
    @jenamirgholi6004 Рік тому +1

    i am so excited about intermingling with authentic people.

  • @dianaearich3649
    @dianaearich3649 2 роки тому +1

    My ex flooded my gmail.I would block him,he would create a new one. He would threaten me, & then love bomb me in one paragraph. He got so scary that I decided to get a restraining order. I started the process in August. My FINAL hearing is November 10th. At our last hearing he was Combative with the judge and the bailiff. I am PRAYING that I am granted a more permanent restraining order. Wish me luck.

  • @kathycroft6565
    @kathycroft6565 2 роки тому +4

    Fantastic videos. I’m living this. Went no contact via 3 year restraining order two months ago. I’m taking baby steps to move forward. Thank you!

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 2 роки тому

      Kathy Croft,You look stunning,hope you are not with a narc 😈!

    • @jackpetersen7545
      @jackpetersen7545 2 роки тому

      Kathy Croft,You are beautiful 🌷,I think you deserve better 🙏

    • @djjustice3244
      @djjustice3244 2 роки тому

      CONGRATULATIONS 🎉👏👏👏👏👏👏🎉🎉👏🎉👏🎉👏🎉👏🎉👏🎉👏🎉👏👏 GOD BLESS YOU 🙏💰🤑🤑🤑🤑💰💰🤑🤑🤑🤑💰💰🤑🤑 DJ'S FROM VENUS ♍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 DJ'S FROM MARS HERE IN DA CHAT

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @linns.179
    @linns.179 2 роки тому +5

    When the feeling of not having to deal with the eggshells comes, you’re free…

    • @oscarwilliamson1128
      @oscarwilliamson1128 Рік тому

      Linn S,You look gorgeous ❤,Hope you are not with a narcissist….

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @asgharakram
    @asgharakram 2 роки тому +2

    When they say they are deleting thier email. He said I dont want you and I said thank you I dont want you either

  • @ryanreagan6073
    @ryanreagan6073 2 роки тому +2

    When you leave them you have defeated them especially when you trash and ignore them expose them for what they are give them the smirk and move on that's complete total annihilation have no mercy on them

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @jammiecarr4321
    @jammiecarr4321 2 роки тому +10

    No fear! You are spot on Rebecca! I love you! Your attitude, your confidence, your advice & your tone. Keep doing what you do! It works!!

    • @rebeccazung7870
      @rebeccazung7870 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @necolemcdonnell319
    @necolemcdonnell319 2 роки тому +5

    When I started watching you, I promptly invested in your program. I IMMEDIATELY went from being terrified emotionally, mentally ill, and physically sick into an empowered superhuman! NO EXAGGERATION!!!! You and your program saved me. I don’t know what the ultimate outcome will be. I am confident that I will be more successful than I ever thought possible. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience through your program. What you are offering doesn’t exist anywhere else. I am very blessed because of you Rebecca. YOU ARE HELPING SO MANY PEOPLE 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315
    @yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315 2 роки тому

    You're awesome Rebecca

  • @theresadoll5374
    @theresadoll5374 2 роки тому

    Holy moly yes #6 IS IT! You’ve made it when you get there!

  • @handoverfist5013
    @handoverfist5013 2 роки тому +5

    I got my No fear t shirt. It's bright hot pink and fits well !!

  • @Lesane007
    @Lesane007 2 роки тому +5

    You are so right! When I defeated her she started with the love bombing, very nice again and did everything for me (this is also a way of manipulation and putting doubts!)

    • @shirleyharting405
      @shirleyharting405 2 роки тому +1

      Yes!! Can't do enough for you trick..I know it so well right then I knew I was winning..or I did something right 😊.. But when I finally won I guess you could say. .I felt a heavy feeling come off my chest and I didn't cry alone anymore.right then I knew I had control of me again..

    • @Lesane007
      @Lesane007 2 роки тому +1

      @@shirleyharting405 That's great to hear Shirley 💪, the heavy feeling coming off is very recognizable.

    • @richardmahema2728
      @richardmahema2728 Рік тому

      Narcissists are made in hell. Look closely you will see their horns and tail. Mine just cam back after running away coz I called her out. Now she is acting lovey dovey, cooking for me etc. But I can see through her and treat her like she doesn't exist. She greets me I greet her back. She gives me food I ignore her and do my own. She is seething inside and I don't care

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @janetfrances2802
    @janetfrances2802 2 роки тому

    Excellent video very very valuable thank you so much for your content Rebecca

  • @irenes4033
    @irenes4033 2 роки тому +2

    Rebecca thank you so much for your work!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @joellenwalker9830
    @joellenwalker9830 2 роки тому +4

    I have No fear of the narc but I don’t want to be in the same room with him. He repulses me!

    • @rebeccazung7870
      @rebeccazung7870 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

  • @liesbethdevries4986
    @liesbethdevries4986 2 роки тому +8

    Guards up though when you're interacting with narcissists.

    • @rebeccazung7870
      @rebeccazung7870 2 роки тому

      Plus-one-eight-zero-four-five-zero-five-zero-seven-three-nine....!!!
      W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E

    • @liesbethdevries4986
      @liesbethdevries4986 2 роки тому +1

      @@rebeccazung7870 I don't understand.

  • @elysuarez
    @elysuarez 2 роки тому

    NO FEAR!!! Thank you Ms. Zung!! You rock!! God bless!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  9 місяців тому

      How are you doing now? Hope you're getting your power back! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com