Yes.... Exactly this happened on our last evening together. I was so enjoying the evening. We had been out with family (mine) and i was feeling good. Singing along a bit with the radio. Then he came to distroy my good feelings asif i was not allowed to feel good... And then he went upstairs. Angry with me. Went to bed. Another silent treatment. That's when i knew it was over. I went to my place. I lived (still live) next door. The hard period of untangling began. It took me a long time, very long. Push pull... It drove me crazy. More silent treatments... I started reading about narciscism.... Went in therapy. Now i am free again 😊 He still lives next door. Now he has a relationship with the lady that lives on the other side of me 😮😂 What a soap....
He hated to see me happy. He couldn’t understand the closeness I had with old friends and my children. I am a huge goofball and love to laugh. It took a long time to retrieve that part of myself. I think it was that personality trait that attracted him. But who really knows. They make no sense
OUTSTANDING! Joe. Thank you 🙏 “Succeed in silence” - Joe B. House Where nothing is stirring in the Cluster B peripheral eyes, Everything is growing and rising in The Empaths life! Cheers ☕️!
I was so happy, doing my worship flags with the grandchildren. The grandchildren were clapping and enjoying our time together. We were so happy! It felt like I was in heaven. Then, Boom, Narc went into a rage fit! Screaming, yelling and making false accusations. Children then started crying. I was crushed. But, God has me in the palm of His hand. I have moved on. This video is 100% correct.
You know with time you simple ignore that person. I did and yes they always get very angry... Just let them. I am a relaxing person and nobody can force me to things I don´t want. It is that simple. You have to set boundaries and say no and you will get rid of such a person. And you will be glad because you don´t need such an energy vampire in your life.
When I saw the covert narcissist I told him things that had happened because I didn't want him to mess it up for me. But I'm over that creature now. The first 🚩flag was pretty much it for me.
Looooooove to find a new video from you Joe ! I am definitely in my sweet spot ! and no narcs , no attacks , just peace and joy ! 😊 Thank you !!! 🤗❤ 13.4K 👍👍👍
I’ve never heard that saying, but it’s so unique I ❤️ it👈🏻 Don’t allow them to take away your integrity, your honestly and your beauty. They will secretly try their dam-nest to do JUST THAT👈🏻 RUN FOR THE HILLS IF YOUR DATING A COVERT NARCISSIST. It’s no walk in the park. It will change you forever. They feed off chaos 👈🏻👈🏻🤯🤯🤯👈🏻
"Succeed in Silence" I love❤this, Joe. Also, getting better at not over-sharing with people. This is something I've done since a little girl. I'm a newer, improved, educated, resilient, awakened, stronger version. Going through the Narcissistic relationship has opened my eyes to so much, its unbelievable.
No contact felt like me learning to ride a bike n weeks of wobbling im now on week nine n feel a bit more in control of myself thank god when I look back I don’t know how I’ve coped yippeee for today was a good day
I have the same way,trying to not share too much soon. I shared with narcissists but it's rare, it's not projects they can copy and they can't access. I have A to E plan nobody knows exactly details and some are secrets. I tell about some dreams,simple goals. I can cross activities. Poker face is good against envy, it looks like some good sigma's defense. A pleasure to be disliked, the kindest is sometimes the wildest.
They are leeches during that time. But that is sooo true, and then they try and ruin ever bit of your life. Just wipe it away, like a natural disaster so it be a tornado, a hurricane or a massive flood. I have lived it for 7 years, no contact 3 years 2 months.🫤👈🏻
Mine has sign that said, “They whisper in your ear that a storm is coming”, and her reply was “I am the storm”. She loved that sign and I am sitting here thinking, why would you want to be known as the storm in anyone’s life?
The wife found her favorite saying that was placed on a sign at a craft show. “If mama isn’t happy, no one is happy.” That was her motto and she lived it. Her mission in life was to make everyone as miserable as her. After ten years, she left us.
Be unreadable and unpredictable, that's narc repellent.
Be unavailable to them.
"Succeed in silence."
-Joe B. House
No weapon formed against me shall prosper.
Yes.... Exactly this happened on our last evening together. I was so enjoying the evening. We had been out with family (mine) and i was feeling good. Singing along a bit with the radio. Then he came to distroy my good feelings asif i was not allowed to feel good... And then he went upstairs. Angry with me. Went to bed. Another silent treatment.
That's when i knew it was over. I went to my place. I lived (still live) next door.
The hard period of untangling began. It took me a long time, very long.
Push pull... It drove me crazy. More silent treatments...
I started reading about narciscism.... Went in therapy. Now i am free again 😊
He still lives next door. Now he has a relationship with the lady that lives on the other side of me 😮😂
What a soap....
I can relate.
Ive blocked mine and told him I do not have contact with exes!
This is why I make it a point to never let my guard down.
Sooo true, NEVER EVER LET YOUR GUARD DOWN 😮
Wow, the light bulb went on for me when watching your channel. Once you know..... You go
He's Very good..💪
He hated to see me happy. He couldn’t understand the closeness I had with old friends and my children. I am a huge goofball and love to laugh. It took a long time to retrieve that part of myself. I think it was that personality trait that attracted him. But who really knows. They make no sense
OUTSTANDING! Joe. Thank you 🙏
“Succeed in silence” - Joe B. House
Where nothing is stirring in the Cluster B peripheral eyes,
Everything is growing and rising in The Empaths life!
Cheers ☕️!
Thank you!!
@@joebhouse Thank you 🙏 Joe.
Amen ❤❤
Yes, the discard came when we just remodelled our home completely. They just cannot stand to see you happy or something.
Yes. The most recent narc let me know that "he was much, much, much, much, much, much better than me." That is literally what he said. 😏
🤦🏻♀️
I’m a narc detector. They crack me up trying to neg be passive aggressive or sabotage. As subtle as a red neon light
I was so happy, doing my worship flags with the grandchildren. The grandchildren were clapping and enjoying our time together. We were so happy! It felt like I was in heaven. Then, Boom, Narc went into a rage fit! Screaming, yelling and making false accusations. Children then started crying. I was crushed. But, God has me in the palm of His hand. I have moved on. This video is 100% correct.
So sad 😰
But good you have moved on 🌸🌸🌸
You know with time you simple ignore that person. I did and yes they always get very angry... Just let them. I am a relaxing person and nobody can force me to things I don´t want. It is that simple. You have to set boundaries and say no and you will get rid of such a person. And you will be glad because you don´t need such an energy vampire in your life.
I needed encouragement in this area!! I appreciate your wisdom here. Thank you!!!
Yup i was one month to finishing yoga certification and the narc. broke my hand...in bed because I wanted to cuddle.
When I saw the covert narcissist I told him things that had happened because I didn't want him to mess it up for me. But I'm over that creature now. The first 🚩flag was pretty much it for me.
Looooooove to find a new video from you Joe ! I am definitely in my sweet spot ! and no narcs , no attacks , just peace and joy ! 😊 Thank you !!! 🤗❤ 13.4K 👍👍👍
I’ve never heard that saying, but it’s so unique I ❤️ it👈🏻
Don’t allow them to take away your integrity, your honestly and your beauty. They will secretly try their dam-nest to do JUST THAT👈🏻 RUN FOR THE HILLS IF YOUR DATING A COVERT NARCISSIST. It’s no walk in the park. It will change you forever. They feed off chaos 👈🏻👈🏻🤯🤯🤯👈🏻
❤ thankyou. Your voice is soothing me. I feel like I found a friend. Please keep making videos for us 🙏
Succeed in silence. That should be a bumper sticker or the name of a song
"Succeed in Silence" I love❤this, Joe. Also, getting better at not over-sharing with people. This is something I've done since a little girl. I'm a newer, improved, educated, resilient, awakened, stronger version. Going through the Narcissistic relationship has opened my eyes to so much, its unbelievable.
No contact felt like me learning to ride a bike n weeks of wobbling im now on week nine n feel a bit more in control of myself thank god when I look back I don’t know how I’ve coped yippeee for today was a good day
The truth is maddening but true.
I have the same way,trying to not share too much soon. I shared with narcissists but it's rare, it's not projects they can copy and they can't access. I have A to E plan nobody knows exactly details and some are secrets. I tell about some dreams,simple goals. I can cross activities. Poker face is good against envy, it looks like some good sigma's defense. A pleasure to be disliked, the kindest is sometimes the wildest.
They are leeches during that time. But that is sooo true, and then they try and ruin ever bit of your life. Just wipe it away, like a natural disaster so it be a tornado, a hurricane or a massive flood. I have lived it for 7 years, no contact 3 years 2 months.🫤👈🏻
❤Succeed in Silence❤ Well said!
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🙏🌺❤
Mine has sign that said, “They whisper in your ear that a storm is coming”, and her reply was “I am the storm”. She loved that sign and I am sitting here thinking, why would you want to be known as the storm in anyone’s life?
Narcissists seek to destroy your life. Nothing is off-limits to them. They love chaos and drama.
The wife found her favorite saying that was placed on a sign at a craft show. “If mama isn’t happy, no one is happy.” That was her motto and she lived it. Her mission in life was to make everyone as miserable as her. After ten years, she left us.