The confusion is to get the victim to feed supply/boosts. Chasing, begging, and pleading for answers from Nark. Victims blow up phones by texting and calling non stop. Feeds Narkys self esteem and ego og being ALL SUPERIOR ALL POWERFUL..
Joe, I’m through the trauma bond, reached the point of indifference, and I still like hearing your perspectives on this disorder. Borderlines and Narcs act similarly. Both are super freaking dangerous. I’m glad I’m still young and have learned this lesson. Thank you Joe!
Borderlines are basically failed Narks or Narcissist Light. It's like Nark but not quite. Had a Nark and BL chasing me simultaneously. Nark was easy to see seen it before. But BL didn't know about til researched...
They want you to feel abnormal so they can feel normal. These are lost people don’t try to make sense with these covert narcissists you’re fighting a lost battle.
Joe, you speak with such clarity of perspective. 👍🏼👏🏼🙌. I am so thankful to have found your incredible channel. You are making a big difference in my thoughts and here I am in my middle 60s finally figuring out these types of people 😐.
I’ve been killing it with no contact with my ex narc. No contact since 1-17-24 and I ignored 2 Hoovers. Your content has been a big part of my healing. You are a God send. Thank you so much.
Good day, Joe! 😊Great video today💯😁 So very true, our clarity & realization is what we need to focus on the path and OUR life. It's so imprtant to keep these toxic people far away and/or grey rock. I had quite a few toxic people in my life, family & bf's not build me up, put me down, tell me I will fail, criticize my dreams, make assumptions that were not true and try to keep me from pursuing my dreams & career. Didn't happen and they couldn't break me down. They don't want you happy(because they aren't obviously), they WILL take you down & destroy you IF you let them. They don't like when you realize all that has happened & everything becomes clear & you're focused on the path and YOUR life. Like you said before joe, "It's so important to cut the cord with these people."💯
Understood and you are right… albeit some of my own doubting of what I know is true comes from myself, and not trusting my intuition. But when I am certain of something I tend to hold on to it like a dog with a bone so to speak. I am not the most patient person either 😇
This message was SO GOOD! It gave me soo much clarity. It was divinely timed too. I was ruminating on something a possible narcissist said to me. I spoke about something I wanted and then they were trying to ask me why I wanted that color. And then tried to insist I get a different style, that it’s more favored, yet they have item and it’s not that style. And I was just frustrated how when I talk to this person they are constantly invalidating the things I personally want, like it’s not good enough. But they are free to live however they want and their style to me is definitely something I’m not a personal fan of whatsoever. Yet they will give tips from experts and but you don’t see them taking that advice in their own lives. I also had a Narc one time help me clean my room, which now I know was to monitor and observe what I have. And I cleaned off my desk and put 3 photos of myself and family at the top and they were telling me I should take them down because it looks too cluttered. I’m not defensive so I just said no, I like them. But I thought about it later, they have the mostttt cluttered room and desk. (probably bc they didn’t want me to have reminders of my own autonomy!) *So you really have to pay attention to critical people if they even practice what they preach, or they are just trying to confuse you from your own growth and authenticity.*
WOW ! 😯 I missed premiere of new ''magic of Joe'' ! I just stopped waiting for it . Thank you for adding one more fantastic video, we will be watching it many times ! 🤗❤
@@Sarah_sunshine14 yes he is.. and so are you. I've learned so much through the pain.. one of my favorite lessons is that sometimes it's complete strangers who are there for you and understand what happened. No matter what they did, they didn't break us!! The sunshine is beautiful!
My ex wife is a narcissist and so is my mom and guess what they are best friends my ex wife now lived with my mom with my daughter as well you have to gain discernment when you go no contact or low contact and run into them they will tell you all the great things other people are doing in hopes you feel jealous and spill everything you got going on, DONT, keep all your moves to yourself so they can’t send you the evil eye and evil energy and foil your plans
Yeah 100 grand drops into my bank account on the regular--give me a break with that one. You say it like it is a common example that anyone would relate to their own life. That's where you lost me. Setting my mind right never did a damned thing to help me cope with the narcissists in my life. You know what did? Cutting them out of my life--completely. Maybe I'm not caffeinated enough to follow your thought process here. This made almost zero sense to me. Guess I'm not the target audience.
The confusion is to get the victim to feed supply/boosts. Chasing, begging, and pleading for answers from Nark. Victims blow up phones by texting and calling non stop. Feeds Narkys self esteem and ego og being ALL SUPERIOR ALL POWERFUL..
Joe, I’m through the trauma bond, reached the point of indifference, and I still like hearing your perspectives on this disorder. Borderlines and Narcs act similarly. Both are super freaking dangerous. I’m glad I’m still young and have learned this lesson. Thank you Joe!
Borderlines are basically failed Narks or Narcissist Light. It's like Nark but not quite. Had a Nark and BL chasing me simultaneously. Nark was easy to see seen it before. But BL didn't know about til researched...
My dream died hard but I don’t miss being relegated to that of a doormat.
Same. A discarded footstool.
They want you to feel abnormal so they can feel normal.
These are lost people don’t try to make sense with these covert narcissists
you’re fighting a lost battle.
Perfect perspective, winning, time saving move.
Joe, you speak with such clarity of perspective. 👍🏼👏🏼🙌. I am so thankful to have found your incredible channel. You are making a big difference in my thoughts and here I am in my middle 60s finally figuring out these types of people 😐.
Such kind words. It's an absolute pleasure 🙏
I’ve been killing it with no contact with my ex narc. No contact since 1-17-24 and I ignored 2 Hoovers. Your content has been a big part of my healing. You are a God send. Thank you so much.
Good day, Joe! 😊Great video today💯😁 So very true, our clarity & realization is what we need to focus on the path and OUR life. It's so imprtant to keep these toxic people far away and/or grey rock. I had quite a few toxic people in my life, family & bf's not build me up, put me down, tell me I will fail, criticize my dreams, make assumptions that were not true and try to keep me from pursuing my dreams & career. Didn't happen and they couldn't break me down. They don't want you happy(because they aren't obviously), they WILL take you down & destroy you IF you let them. They don't like when you realize all that has happened & everything becomes clear & you're focused on the path and YOUR life.
Like you said before joe, "It's so important to cut the cord with these people."💯
Understood and you are right… albeit some of my own doubting of what I know is true comes from myself, and not trusting my intuition. But when I am certain of something I tend to hold on to it like a dog with a bone so to speak. I am not the most patient person either 😇
First thing I ever said to him, when I met him in fb 2020 was : “less is more”
You are so clear and wise. Sounds like you really understand this topic.
Thank you 😊
🙂👍
I love how you articulate your perspective....and your art work is visually comforting and beautiful.
Appreciate it, Joe. Your expert content is balmy and helpful in healing.
❤🙏
Great video, thank you!
This message was SO GOOD! It gave me soo much clarity. It was divinely timed too. I was ruminating on something a possible narcissist said to me. I spoke about something I wanted and then they were trying to ask me why I wanted that color. And then tried to insist I get a different style, that it’s more favored, yet they have item and it’s not that style. And I was just frustrated how when I talk to this person they are constantly invalidating the things I personally want, like it’s not good enough. But they are free to live however they want and their style to me is definitely something I’m not a personal fan of whatsoever. Yet they will give tips from experts and but you don’t see them taking that advice in their own lives.
I also had a Narc one time help me clean my room, which now I know was to monitor and observe what I have. And I cleaned off my desk and put 3 photos of myself and family at the top and they were telling me I should take them down because it looks too cluttered. I’m not defensive so I just said no, I like them. But I thought about it later, they have the mostttt cluttered room and desk. (probably bc they didn’t want me to have reminders of my own autonomy!)
*So you really have to pay attention to critical people if they even practice what they preach, or they are just trying to confuse you from your own growth and authenticity.*
WOW ! 😯 I missed premiere of new ''magic of Joe'' ! I just stopped waiting for it . Thank you for adding one more fantastic video, we will be watching it many times ! 🤗❤
Yeap the sure dooooooo .......... but others see it too
My man Joe B!! Whats up brother.. thank you for the great content as always!!
👊👊
@@joebhouse please know you've kept me upright in some very dark times... I'll forever be greatful.
So happy to have helped buddy!
@@EMGEE718ditto….hes amazing isn’t he ❤️
@@Sarah_sunshine14 yes he is.. and so are you. I've learned so much through the pain.. one of my favorite lessons is that sometimes it's complete strangers who are there for you and understand what happened. No matter what they did, they didn't break us!! The sunshine is beautiful!
Yay….lovely Joe is back ❤…Thankyou as always with your wise words…nice end to the week…🙏🏻❤️
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Ty 🕊️✨🙏🪽🫶
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Cheers!
So true Joe, thank you ❤
My ex wife is a narcissist and so is my mom and guess what they are best friends my ex wife now lived with my mom with my daughter as well you have to gain discernment when you go no contact or low contact and run into them they will tell you all the great things other people are doing in hopes you feel jealous and spill everything you got going on, DONT, keep all your moves to yourself so they can’t send you the evil eye and evil energy and foil your plans
If you’re a male, please extricate yourself from such situation by asserting yourself and your masculine
Other people are invaluable in such matters
Having any hope with a covert narcissist is a no sum game
Coverts are very veŕy "sneaky" .......... nasty 😈 demons ..........
THEY DONT EVER CHANGE & CORRUPT TO THE CORE
Thanks was waiting for your new video
Insightful as always. Thx
All around the houses but I was hoping you would answer the question. No. This is all waffle. If you put a question as a title just answer it.
Yeah 100 grand drops into my bank account on the regular--give me a break with that one. You say it like it is a common example that anyone would relate to their own life. That's where you lost me. Setting my mind right never did a damned thing to help me cope with the narcissists in my life. You know what did? Cutting them out of my life--completely. Maybe I'm not caffeinated enough to follow your thought process here. This made almost zero sense to me. Guess I'm not the target audience.
Thank you, Joe!! 😊❤
💫 Gm Joe🌞Have a great day. Nolalower9Ward ⚜️💃🏽