When a man cheats . He does nothing to earn your trust. Instead he becomes better and get new skills into cheating. He just becomes better at hiding it.
A man without God can’t change. If he cheats once, he will keep doing this over and over. A cheating spouse is toxic. You can’t be in a relationship where your spouse is unfaithful. HELLO!
I think you are right, my boyfriend has spent the all work break in other province with his new girlfriend, when I call he cuts ,when I text he can't text back, when he called he complained that I don't trust him and it's not what I think
Trust and loyalty is important in any relationship, I realise I wasn't being paranoid or crazy and most times it's better to go with your instincts. Thanks for keeping to the confidentiality agreement CYBERLOGICS_ very reliable and professional
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again.
@@siripurapukusumanjali1289 you cannot change him or anyone else! If he doesn't see the value in maintaining character and valuing you then that's that
The feeling of not being worth is a sign that someone is not worth in the relationship, the universe showing you that someone is not worth and I don't think is the person that got cheated unless you deserve from being a horrible person if not who is u worth is the person who cheater ... gets your facts straight don't let no one put you down!
You can’t change reptiles but we aren’t forcing to be with them, just leave the relationship that’s unhealthy for you heart and soul without those two no one is stronger.
My "christian" husband who also was a preacher turned out to be a serial cheater an liar.I walked out of a 36 yr marrige.Then he had a life changing heart attack....God will not be mocked
Currently going through my partner cheating on me while I was about 2 months postpartum after having our daughter. He’s admitted to it happening twice but I don’t believe that it didn’t happen more than that. It’s literally the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life. The ultimate betrayal. Ive always wanted my daughter to have both parents together like I did my whole life but I’ve now come to realize that doesn’t mean it has to be with her father if it’s toxic. I’m now in the stage of taking time and healing, trying to move on. God give me strength 🙏🏻
My husband has been emotionally distant and had 4 emotional affairs and denied them. I left him and thought I was done for good. I slept with someone else and made things worse. Then I came back and my husband knows and things are hard, but we will still be living together. What's sad is he's still denying what he did, bc I feel he feels what I have done he is pardoned.. all was wrong and we r broken, but I have never been this way and have learned through loneliness I chose the devils way and gained nothing. I cannot take back what I did, but can be honest and hope my husband's walls break down more and he ends up telling me what I already know. Also him being an alcoholic maybe we both never will really know what happened on his end which is scary as well. If it's God's will, then he will change both our hearts and bring our marriage back, if not God will provide for both of us separately.
Its hard to come out of heartbreak.My husband cheated me after 32 years of marriage.I loved and cared for him from bottom of heart . I am shocked,and going through a deep pain.
I honestly don't believe a man will never or has never cheated. Even the best most responsible husband can cheat if offered a chance to appease his selfish desires, especially if they don't think they'll get caught
The honorable man(!) will never cheat or lie. He is a rare find. Though, again , the honorable man clothed in honor down to his soul will always be honorable. Never settle for the weak minded man. Ever. ❤️
It's hard to get over cheating. It's even harder (and useless) to remain in the relationship. Better to run as far away as possible and allow yourself to have quality human beings that have morals, values and respect approach you.
Same, was pregnant caught him, kept there for my child, gave birth, baby died. Sign from God? I haven't yet recovered from both instances, don't know whether am mourning the baby or my husbands ways. Its 2month since burial so I haven't yet even made up my mind. I want to leave tho
Every woman my husbsnd cheated with knew me, an knew my husband was married he still cheated an the whores he choose 2 cheat with still cheated with him. Some men r dogs.
I still cant fathom how other women can forgive cheating husband. I know its hard because wife can face financial struggles after separation or divorce. Especially with kids involve. Being cheated on means a chance for you to find love somewhere else. Or just be finally happy with yourself again. For real. I might be wrong but women deserve to be truly happy after cheating.
Going through this now, I’ve packed and left my husband of 13 years who cheated and during a time I needed him most when my father was dying and that betrayal and non support broke my heart 6 different ways and I’m not getting even, I’m being cordial because of the kids but I’ve kept my distance. Living with a friend because I can’t stand being around him right now, and I’ve let God just lead the way. Take this anger lord because just two weeks ago I didn’t see my marriage ending now I never know what will happen the next min. I’ve left home and I visit and bring the kids with me for a piece of mind and now I’m looking at places because I at this moment, don’t feel like we can come back from this because my trust is burned and I just need to be alone for now. I’m too hurt and confused to contribute right now.
I’m a strong woman (38) but the loneliness I feel if I think of leaving my bf is crippling. I didn’t stand for cheaters in my 20’s , I could easily move on. But the alone factor is what’s making me stay 😞
I have gone through these comments and l feel so much for any woman going through this. It is quite scary the world we live in right now with these red pill men who think cheating is their right as men. I pray that every woman can find love and acceptance in God and within herself before she finds it in a man.
Trust and loyalty is important in any relationship, I realise I wasn't being paranoid or crazy and most times it's better to go with your instincts. Thanks for keeping to the confidentiality agreement CYBERLOGICS_ very reliable and professional
Really...?❤then you are the best man...but I grew up listening A man can never be loyal....😔 it's one of my biggest insecurities....I wish someone clear my insecurity....
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Answer from an overcomer> just be as quick as you can and forgive!!!!! And do not get bitter/ have high expectations and walk in faith/ love yourself and make sure you are better then you were before the break up!!! Inside out/ just make sure you are the best of yourself without hatred without gossip without bitterness/just go into prayers and make sure you do not do anyone wrong/ even pray for that cheating @guy@ and stop saying he is yours....Just cut off all contacts and save yourself from worsed.
This is excellent advice for someone who is sincerely apologetic & able to mature from past mistakes and move forward. But if you’re married to a habitual or pathological liar…you need to accept the fact that you had red flags long before now…and that the only way out is to separate yourself from the deception & ongoing toxicity, altogether. As much as it hurts, when it’s time to divorce….do it or you will subtract from your own self worth, peace and genuine happiness! Sorry.
Am really hurt and sometimes I feel like he doesn't love me, he lies about everything and also a cheat, I think d best way to free myself from this pain, is by divorcing him😭😭😭😭
Hey Vanessa, I know how painful this must be. I am sorry to hear about this Vanessa and I know the heartbreak that comes with this. If the lying and the cheating is damaging you and your emotional/mental wellbeing then I think the best step is to move on and focus on healing yourself.
LEAVE HIM!!! Don't stay with a cheater!! Don't give them another chance in my honest opinion. Especially once they kissed, or had sex with the other person. RESPECT YOURSELF AND SAY GOOD BYE TO HIM! Then let yourself heal. Divorce is an option, you are no forced to be with someone who showed you that they don't care about you
I totally agree with you, I had to spy on my ex wife phone to get more evidence. Can't thank the above name enough, he literally gave me complete access to my ex phone without her knowing. @ZionsSong
I must be honest that the act of revenge I took made me feel better. A man will never forget getting beat-up by a woman 1/2 his size in public while others watched, laughed & didn't help him. Im not saying what I did was right, but it did give me satisfaction.
This happened to me today my husband was texting another woman and I felt like I was worthless. I got so upset that begged him not to leave and when he left i started cutting myself like I used to when I was little. Now that I think of it I feel stupid for crying for a man who doesn't deserve to be with me.
I am sorry for what you've been through. You are worth it Sis! If he ever left you for another woman, he is the one with the issue because he cheated. You will move on too just like the rest of us who were also been cheated on.
So sorry that happened. But please brush yourself off, dress up, exercise, do your hair, get new clothes or fix up the ones you have. Do things that interest you...invest in you and your wellbeing. This is what I'm going to do! Not letting this man steal my worth! Fix your crown queen 👑 Your life is precious! Someone loves you! Someone is depending on you. Treat yourself better today ❤❤
I did the same thing. I ripped my hair out how do I get help? I have a baby and I love my son so much I don't want to get in trouble. I need to get over this. This made all the hurt from when I was a child come out
You cant fix it if the person who cheated won't admit to cheating and ask for forgiveness and may continue to cheat on you, you have to except that it's over and move on with your life if you're married divorce him life is to short to live it in MISERY.
How are u grateful for the video if your husband denied everything? Which means this video obviously wasn't the fix. And this coach solution didn't work.
The pain of discovering infidelity is like no other. My husband of 27 years cheated on our marriage for at least 1 year with his married coworker. MY FAMILY AND I DISCOVERED THEIR AFFAIR WHO.E WE WERE ON OUR FAMILY VACATION! His mistress was following us! She was in her home in Salmon Arm Canada and we were in NEW ORLEANS! SHE WAS FOLLOWING WHERE WE WERE AND WHAT WE WERE DOING!!
How in the world do I even try to get over this pain!? It’s been 10 months that my husband cheated and left me for a younger woman. I hearts desire is to reconcile our marriage, but he’s out there living his best life and acts like I do not exist. I don’t know how to fight for my marriage or if I should even try to? I just need this pain to stop.
Why should anyone stay with a cheater? They don't care about your feelings or else they never would have cheated in the first place. I have never know a cheater who didn't cheat again and again. they may be sorry they did it but it won't stop them from doing it again. I have been with 3 different cheating men. All of them I tried these things with in this video to try to work it out. All of them cheated again. One of them I didn't leave until after the 5th time he cheated on me. They don't stop. They just get get more clever on how to hide it so you won't find out. Yes, you love them but they don't love you back the same way or they wouldn't cheat. Leave them and save yourself years of heartache. There are people like you out there that won't cheat. I finally found one and we have been together for 14 years now with no problems like that. Once they have cheated you will never trust them again. You will always wonder why they are so late getting home from work or why they spent 4 hours at the hardware store buying a hammer or why they sit in the bathroom for an hour texting. Why their phone is locked, why they have cologne in the car, why they get up a leave the room when their phone rings, why they don't want dinner that night after getting home late. The list goes on and on and you know all the things I am talking about. Don't put yourself though all the pain and heartache. Leave and then throw yourself into making yourself happy. Find a job you love. Find a fun hobby, Go out with friends. Go on a road trip even if its for the weekend and take someone with you. You will run into a person that you can be happy with that respects you and cares enough to not want to hurt you. You deserve that.
I have been cheated over and over , over the years. I almost lost my life for keeping it all to myself. I've learn not to do that and I'd beg people going through it not to keep it to yourself. Talk to a therapist or friends
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I made the same mistake over and over again, I never told anyone about the problem. Rather always covered up for him to keep his `family-man´ image intact. Even I nearly lost my life, have definitely lost my mental peace and well-being though. I´ve left him but still I cannot think of loving anyone else. It is just him on my mind. It´s hard to forget him but I know I should never ever let him back.
@@ramaneeskitchen2165 I was in a relationship for 6 happy years so I thought when my partner cheated on me I found his recite in his bag what he bought her I was distraught couldn't understand why he done this to me he had everything with me
Pain that keep in crushing your entire system. I always pray God to please take away the pain in my heart because i cant take it anymore My heart is already full
I feel you completely right now. He tried to tell me I suggested things, in other words it’s my fault. I never would. I know I’m not crazy or stupid. I just don’t know how to not want to seek revenge.
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I try to take things for what they are my bf of 4 years is cheating on me found a POF app on phone , im not gonna fight him about it just blocking his number and moving on
my husband cheated on me while i was on my 8month of my pregnancy and I thought he will change after I caught him. But after I gave birth about a month he left us for that girl he hang out when I was still pregnant🥺 I suffered panick attacks, anxiety, post partum and traumas after that🥺
My husband told me his ex was sweet in bed yet they have a kid together. He lied me he never loved her that he got her pregnant by mistake.i feel very very bad whenever I remember that.
1. Get a skilled divorce lawyer. And yes, no revenge, no using kids. Judges hayride that. 2. Get a private detective to obtain evidence of cheating. 3. Have an exit/escape policy that focuses on your bodily well bing and your. financial position. 4. Only communicate with the cheater if your lawyer is present and it is recorded. 5. Do no try to reconcile before the divorce is final. If you want him later, you can get remarried. Forgiveness does not mean no consequences. 6. Don’t protect his reputation. No need to broadcast it. No need to hide it. You did not ruin his reputation, or shame him…he did. 7. Never be alone. Ever.
a lot of people say once you cheat you’re always a cheater but the devil is a liar 🤥 if you can mention God you must know God can clean anyones heart and heal anyone and can answer our prayers. a cheater is confused or just wants a poly relationship and feels that they cannot openly have that and they can. if you believe in God don’t condemn others and believe the best not the worst
I’ll just stay in my room and be mad about what I’m mad about and try and figure out how to not be mad about what I’m mad about cause I’m really mad. Lol.
This is the common problem most of the women's r facing..At present time I feel that marriage is a very bad decision...because after marriage each one of us facing one or other issue regarding relationships..on one is satisfied...so why I should spoil it while life after this...it will be better if we spent our time with oneself n find out what really we want to remain happy throughout the life...once we get married we r stuck in many emotional family dramas n responsibility..n have to live depressed life..so enjoy it one life rather run after this uncertain life in relationships
Thank you I am going through this phase now just as I was thinking of leaving him since it’s very painful for me to accept and forgive him your video came up to me . I’ll do as you say thanks again
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My live in boyfriend of 8 years got busted yesterday, he was searching on google for a woman he cheated on me with 6yrs ago. He likes to drink so I poured out most of his apple crown royal and replaced it with water, bbq sauce, soy sauce (for color) and orange juice...does that count as revenge 😎✌️ If so guess I flunked lol.
What are you do when they continue to hide things, tell you it's none of your business you're not their mother blah blah blah. what do you do when they don't make the appropriate steps to build that trust, I guess that's when you know you really got to go.
My partner cheated on me because we are unable to get pregnant we were so pose to get check out if there is any problems and he toke this woman in our home to have sex while I was at working ,I found out because she texted me to say she is pregnant and she makes him happy and pictures in the bed them out together she went as far as leaving underwear at the house ,I was so broken but God has been my peace .
Thanks so much my brother and your team for helping couples in their relationships the most dangerous game in our lives please women let's not force ourselves in relationships which doesn't work if we want our relationships to work it must be both of us not only 1 person let's be careful of third-party in our relationships or marriages 💖
Thank U Sir for a good advice 👍😇 but my hubby's behaviour is strange there is NO TRUE LOVE OR CARE FOR ME from the day WE R married & same towards OUR KIDS👩👧👦 which hurts ME a lot 😟
I hear exactly what you're saying learned my husband of 26 years being cheating for 23 of those year..we too have kids...how did I miss the signs. Stay strong..
I loved every single advice you told. I have already done all the things you mentioned not to do. And I have seen all the results too. He burnt my heart.
I definitely sought revenge. I cheated back. It made me feel a little bit better and felt like i didnt just get ran over. He cheated so many times. But i didnt know yet. And theeeennnn he threatened to leave me. I had to even the score to not feel completely cheated. Cheating is not even in my character but i did it out of spite. Ill be remaining Celibate until i get remarried again if i even do. Clearly so many dont respect and value marriage even if they say they do. Divorce makes marriage so obsolete. If you can opt out of a til death do us part vow. What's the freaking point.
I am nine months pregnant and because of my insecurities I am just troubling my baby .My husband finds more intrest in chat webs I have deleted more than twice bt he find chatting apps more convincing so he keeps on downloading .I left my parents n siblings .my family was against our love n now every single day I regret y I chose this path
I'm truly sorry to hear about what you've gone through. Unfortunately this happens quite too often now a days. It is important for you to set healthy boundaries and to make sure that this doesn't impact your self-esteem and self worth. His negative actions are not a reflection of you but of the poor choices and lack of character on his end. We are here to support you and help you heal.
What do you do if the relationship has always had lies and it has grown into more poor behavior over a few years . When you give the other person enough time to make it better and they don’t then start trying to get attention from other women now and go out to the bars by himself . How much expectance and time to make things better should there be . I have not changed myself , I have not done anything different or anything against him . I don’t go out , I take care of everything , and don’t have friends at this point that I talk with . This has turned into a one sided relationship where I communicate all the time and he doesn’t .
For someone who has been cheated on before I would say a relationship built on lies will eventually collapse. Cheating and lies are not something you should compromise on. Leave as soon as possible for your own well being. The more you stay the more it's going to hurt and the more he'll make you look stupid for forgiving him
My soon to be x is definitely and narcissist ontop of that, he cheated and I have physical proof and text messages. He’s very vile and abusive and that’s why I left him. I’m 350 miles away and refuse to go back. This is my time to repair all the damage and thank god, we have no kids together. I wish you all the best.
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I got married in 2015 to an 8 yrs older man. I trusted him, I liked him and I married him. But since the marriage he’s been cheating on me for his ex and prostitutes. He’s alcoholic he takes drugs. I’ve a 5 yrs old daughter. I’m raising her right but I’m completely broken and shattered. I have lost my life and he didn’t even care. It hurts more than anything.. and I don’t know what to do :(
My husband is being very dishonest with me. It’s as if everyone around me is laughing at me because of my marriage. He tells others his half truths/omissions yet he continues to lie to me and abuse me. It has broken the trust and I don’t even know if we can be friends after the breakup. I don’t think I ever did anything to him to deserve such horrible treatment from him. I only tried to help him yet his goal is to try to hurt me. It’s as if he is blaming me for his sins. I can’t trust him with my children either.
My husband of 30 years is a serial cheater. And liar. Trust went out the window a long time ago. I stay for our son. My son's happiness is more important to me than my own.
I just found out my husband cheated for the second time. The first time was 2019 and I forgave him for the kids sake. I jsy found out a few weeks back he cheated again and the sad part of everything was that i suspected something was off but due to the fact that he lied i believed him until the wife of the other women phoned me. Its still so raw and I have supa mixed emotions I feel like divorcing him at this point but I can not tell you how much the kids love him. I threw him out when I found out and for the 2weeks he was gone they were sad and broken along with me and kept asking for him. He is now begging me back. He is even seeing a psychologists and was diagnosed with bipolar and heavy depression. I went with hm for a session friday. He is now trying to save our marrigae he is working so hard on convincing me that he is sorry ect. But im now so done and over him my trust is broken and beaten. I neva suspected he would do it a sec time cos this time we had no probs at all. I am praying for God to give me some kind of miracle in how I can solve this so my kids can heal and have their dad but for now i feel supa supa sad and I cannot forgive him. WHAT DO I DO?????
Trust yeah I sure do trust him I trust him to lie to me I trust him to cheat I trust him to be disloyal I trust him to be just who he is and I’m sick of him
I am watching this because, I thought I have a perfect man. He has been cheating on me before and after he proposed to me and our wedding is in 2months. He told me everything I couldn’t have suspected anything…. I am really broken but I still talk to him and act normal but I really don’t know what to do…
He sworn that he has changed, he talked to few people in church about it.. They were mad at him too but I think he is really sorry about it but that Trust can never be like before.
I didn't catch him cheating but I caught him in inboxes which is unacceptable seeing as he is ALWAYS accusing me of cheating when it has NEVER been a thought in any relationship I am in. I discarded him for testing me...try that shit on the next one..I wasn't the one.
It's deflected guilt sum1 that constantly accuses their spouse is guilty of said accusation themselves I learnt this the hard way leave noelw he's taking u 4 a fool he doesn't deserve u and u deserve better x
My husband has cheated twice, caught him last year. But we have 2 kids together so I don't have the courage to leave him bcoz he's a good father for them and he makes a lot more money than I do. But the trauma, pain and hurt, and my inability to trust him again are sometimes unbearable.
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So don’t share with your support group (family, friends or family) he can cheat and destroy the family but don’t have a support system! Cheating is a character flaw! Cheaters don’t change. If they are a narcissist they won’t change but cheat again, they don’t change! Don’t try to fix this brokenness because they will do it again.
I told him stay with her, I’m done 💔😭haven’t seen him 8 months he got his things when I was at work, hurts like hell, lier cheater manipulator you can only take so much pain. When they start lying, secrets, telling you they hate you they are cheating
So what do you do if your completely done and don’t want to give him anymore chances? He is a narcissist as well and because of this on top of his cheating I’ve decided I’m done. He wants me to be ok with everything and understand. He has become very bothered that I’m not bothered by what he has done and he is bothered that I’m moving on and I’m not devastated over him. I’m pretty glad actually.I haven’t been in love with him for a very long time and I was just hanging in there because I didn’t want to hurt him.had he told me I would have been happy about it and there wouldn’t have been any drama at all. I feel so empowered now that I know I don’t have to be with him anymore. He seriously underestimated me. Lol. At least this can end without me being an asshole like he was. I also have all the evidence I’m going to need to sue him for alimony.
I hired a private investigator he found out all the dirt on my husband an his sweethearts an my husband is still lying saying it is not true. I will NEVER EVER again date a police officer!!@
It's painful on my chest and funny at the same time. He has been cheating on me and today I saw he posted He is looking for serious relationship on facebook 🤣🤣🤣🤣 WTF is this
I don't trust my husband at all. Bec he always hurts me. It's simple leave him. He's not responsible husband. Father. He never think about us. Why to hurt yourself. Best way ignore him and leave it...
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When a man cheats . He does nothing to earn your trust. Instead he becomes better and get new skills into cheating. He just becomes better at hiding it.
A man without God can’t change. If he cheats once, he will keep doing this over and over. A cheating spouse is toxic. You can’t be in a relationship where your spouse is unfaithful. HELLO!
Even if he as god he will do it again dont be fooled if he was so holy he wouldnt have done it in the first place
I think you are right,
my boyfriend has spent the all work break in other province with his new girlfriend, when I call he cuts ,when I text he can't text back, when he called he complained that I don't trust him and it's not what I think
@@brichijika5205 can you imagine? These people are heartless.
It happened to me. Unfortunately one time cheating turned into a lifetime of cheating.
Trust and loyalty is important in any relationship, I realise I wasn't being paranoid or crazy and most times it's better to go with your instincts. Thanks for keeping to the confidentiality agreement CYBERLOGICS_ very reliable and professional
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again.
Very well said and very true
@@siripurapukusumanjali1289 you cannot change him or anyone else! If he doesn't see the value in maintaining character and valuing you then that's that
M undergoing the same condition
The feeling of not being worth is a sign that someone is not worth in the relationship, the universe showing you that someone is not worth and I don't think is the person that got cheated unless you deserve from being a horrible person if not who is u worth is the person who cheater ... gets your facts straight don't let no one put you down!
You can’t change reptiles but we aren’t forcing to be with them, just leave the relationship that’s unhealthy for you heart and soul without those two no one is stronger.
My "christian" husband who also was a preacher turned out to be a serial cheater an liar.I walked out of a 36 yr marrige.Then he had a life changing heart attack....God will not be mocked
Wow
Whatever a man sow he will reap!
Exactly it happenes to me, he is so religious but the true color he is a cheater & a big liar, always keep his current location with her mistress
God will never be mocked mami😭😭😭
Currently going through my partner cheating on me while I was about 2 months postpartum after having our daughter. He’s admitted to it happening twice but I don’t believe that it didn’t happen more than that. It’s literally the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life. The ultimate betrayal. Ive always wanted my daughter to have both parents together like I did my whole life but I’ve now come to realize that doesn’t mean it has to be with her father if it’s toxic. I’m now in the stage of taking time and healing, trying to move on. God give me strength 🙏🏻
I feel the same..i found out his plan to divorce me after talking to his new girl😭
I'm going through the same thing so you are not alone.
@@leeannamaiyang5495 I’m sorry you are also going through this. We do not deserve it.
@@nedodarom944 I’m so sorry. You deserve better than that.
My husband has been emotionally distant and had 4 emotional affairs and denied them. I left him and thought I was done for good. I slept with someone else and made things worse. Then I came back and my husband knows and things are hard, but we will still be living together. What's sad is he's still denying what he did, bc I feel he feels what I have done he is pardoned.. all was wrong and we r broken, but I have never been this way and have learned through loneliness I chose the devils way and gained nothing. I cannot take back what I did, but can be honest and hope my husband's walls break down more and he ends up telling me what I already know. Also him being an alcoholic maybe we both never will really know what happened on his end which is scary as well. If it's God's will, then he will change both our hearts and bring our marriage back, if not God will provide for both of us separately.
Its hard to come out of heartbreak.My husband cheated me after 32 years of marriage.I loved and cared for him from bottom of heart .
I am shocked,and going through a deep pain.
Just caught my partner of 5 years in my car holding another girl. I’m 8 months pregnant it’s just soo painful..
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am so sorry
Ohh honey 😔 I hope you and bubs are doing okay sending all my love xx
Hun i lost my 7 months son because of a cheating lying man it's painful
Babe I'm so sorry. I'm there right now ....
I honestly don't believe a man will never or has never cheated. Even the best most responsible husband can cheat if offered a chance to appease his selfish desires, especially if they don't think they'll get caught
That's just the simple truth.
Definitely
The honorable man(!) will never cheat or lie. He is a rare find. Though, again , the honorable man clothed in honor down to his soul will always be honorable. Never settle for the weak minded man. Ever. ❤️
It's hard to get over cheating. It's even harder (and useless) to remain in the relationship. Better to run as far away as possible and allow yourself to have quality human beings that have morals, values and respect approach you.
i needed to hear this
I was pregnant … told him … he cheated and I lost the child, we split, Gods plan.
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So sorry
I’m sorry
Happened to my mother and I still hate my father for it
Same, was pregnant caught him, kept there for my child, gave birth, baby died. Sign from God? I haven't yet recovered from both instances, don't know whether am mourning the baby or my husbands ways. Its 2month since burial so I haven't yet even made up my mind. I want to leave tho
There is some women who knows men have family they will still continue to be in that kind of relationship
I agree
Exactly
Yep, the worst kind of women
K
Every woman my husbsnd cheated with knew me, an knew my husband was married he still cheated an the whores he choose 2 cheat with still cheated with him. Some men r dogs.
Once a cheater, always a cheater!!
That's so true my ex boyfriends did that to me when I did absolutely nothing to them.
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I've always given this advice if you have a serial cheater" accept the behavior or leave. it's that simple" just leave.
Best advice. Don't chase. Take that trash to the curb! I needed to hear that. Thanks!
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Yes i just got rid if my narrcisst ex boyfriend Wayne who was lying and cheating on me .
@@bethanyleonalemleykottonqu7570 good job
Drop the cheat, that's the best answer. If its a narcissist, understanding wit them is absolute. Bs. Leave them alone.
Agreed!
I would like to speak to a coach
I still cant fathom how other women can forgive cheating husband. I know its hard because wife can face financial struggles after separation or divorce. Especially with kids involve. Being cheated on means a chance for you to find love somewhere else. Or just be finally happy with yourself again. For real. I might be wrong but women deserve to be truly happy after cheating.
Well said. But the hardest part is financial struggles n children
Going through this now, I’ve packed and left my husband of 13 years who cheated and during a time I needed him most when my father was dying and that betrayal and non support broke my heart 6 different ways and I’m not getting even, I’m being cordial because of the kids but I’ve kept my distance. Living with a friend because I can’t stand being around him right now, and I’ve let God just lead the way. Take this anger lord because just two weeks ago I didn’t see my marriage ending now I never know what will happen the next min. I’ve left home and I visit and bring the kids with me for a piece of mind and now I’m looking at places because I at this moment, don’t feel like we can come back from this because my trust is burned and I just need to be alone for now. I’m too hurt and confused to contribute right now.
I’m a strong woman (38) but the loneliness I feel if I think of leaving my bf is crippling. I didn’t stand for cheaters in my 20’s , I could easily move on. But the alone factor is what’s making me stay 😞
I have gone through these comments and l feel so much for any woman going through this. It is quite scary the world we live in right now with these red pill men who think cheating is their right as men. I pray that every woman can find love and acceptance in God and within herself before she finds it in a man.
Amen
Yes amen. It’s tough to be alone. But there is so much value in finding your worth in god, or a religion.
If a spouse is cheating they have no character!
SUPER WELL SAID. Cheaters are LOW-CLASS animals.
Thank you
Trust and loyalty is important in any relationship, I realise I wasn't being paranoid or crazy and most times it's better to go with your instincts. Thanks for keeping to the confidentiality agreement CYBERLOGICS_ very reliable and professional
The keep complaining everything that happen is always your fault..
I feel soo relaxed after watching this video ..no revenge no regrets its a lesson
I'm so happy to hear you feel relaxed! Thank you for watching!
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Ssme
I feel releaved and relaxed thanks bro
Im so proud of you. Can I get an advised where to start forgiving? or what to do? I keep on doudting him.
Dunno how people cheat with their partners??? I can't even cheat with my cat with another cat!!!
it hurts when your spouse cheats but it's definitely a different kind of pain when they cheat with someone in the family 😭😢😥
Really...?❤then you are the best man...but I grew up listening A man can never be loyal....😔 it's one of my biggest insecurities....I wish someone clear my insecurity....
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Ha! Thank you for making me laugh through all of this 🤣🙏🥰
Because you are a human with a brain and a heart, and cheaters are worse than animals.
You can never feel the same and the cheater needs to do the work!
Can we talk about the gaslighting from OTHERS that he gets involved making you the bad guy?
Caught my partner cheating and I am pregnant with his daughter! I am extremely hurt and never would’ve seen this coming.
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Stay strong 💪
That hurts. How are you?
I'm 5months pregnant and I saw his messages yesterday on dating sites. I have not been myself. It hurts. I have no support from family or friends
How can I deal with my husband,coz he rejected me sexually and he still say we're together am confused I need help
If he cheats on you, leave his ass.
Started seeing this guy an found out he's married an told him to leave me alone
Good for you!! Many woman are not like you. You're a good one.
@@MissesVp yes, some women would pursue t relationship even she knows the guy is married, shame on them!
Eversince i also started cheating on him am the happiest woman ever. No more hurting and by the time he gets back to him senses i will long be gone
Answer from an overcomer> just be as quick as you can and forgive!!!!! And do not get bitter/ have high expectations and walk in faith/ love yourself and make sure you are better then you were before the break up!!! Inside out/ just make sure you are the best of yourself without hatred without gossip without bitterness/just go into prayers and make sure you do not do anyone wrong/ even pray for that cheating @guy@ and stop saying he is yours....Just cut off all contacts and save yourself from worsed.
But I have a child with him
This is excellent advice for someone who is sincerely apologetic & able to mature from past mistakes and move forward. But if you’re married to a habitual or pathological liar…you need to accept the fact that you had red flags long before now…and that the only way out is to separate yourself from the deception & ongoing toxicity, altogether. As much as it hurts, when it’s time to divorce….do it or you will subtract from your own self worth, peace and genuine happiness! Sorry.
Yes. You are right.
DONT GIVE A CHEATER A SECOND CHANCE. HE WILL DO IT AGAIN. END OF STORY
I find it difficult to trust him again
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Coach Adrian
I feel the same way
Am really hurt and sometimes I feel like he doesn't love me, he lies about everything and also a cheat, I think d best way to free myself from this pain, is by divorcing him😭😭😭😭
Hey Vanessa,
I know how painful this must be. I am sorry to hear about this Vanessa and I know the heartbreak that comes with this. If the lying and the cheating is damaging you and your emotional/mental wellbeing then I think the best step is to move on and focus on healing yourself.
I took the low road and got revenge. Still don't regret it to this day. Working on myself to be better.
You will regret it 😢
Angela Deal very well said! Trust is broken so it’s extremely difficult to be vulnerable to the unfathomable pain of infidelity.
LEAVE HIM!!! Don't stay with a cheater!! Don't give them another chance in my honest opinion. Especially once they kissed, or had sex with the other person. RESPECT YOURSELF AND SAY GOOD BYE TO HIM! Then let yourself heal. Divorce is an option, you are no forced to be with someone who showed you that they don't care about you
I totally agree with you, I had to spy on my ex wife phone to get more evidence.
Can't thank the above name enough, he literally gave me complete access to my ex phone without her knowing. @ZionsSong
The same with emotional cheating.
Yes
I must be honest that the act of revenge I took made me feel better. A man will never forget getting beat-up by a woman 1/2 his size in public while others watched, laughed & didn't help him. Im not saying what I did was right, but it did give me satisfaction.
Undeserved
SUPER WELL-DONE. Sorry you had to make your hands dirty touching a low-class creature.
This happened to me today my husband was texting another woman and I felt like I was worthless. I got so upset that begged him not to leave and when he left i started cutting myself like I used to when I was little. Now that I think of it I feel stupid for crying for a man who doesn't deserve to be with me.
I am sorry for what you've been through. You are worth it Sis! If he ever left you for another woman, he is the one with the issue because he cheated. You will move on too just like the rest of us who were also been cheated on.
So sorry that happened. But please brush yourself off, dress up, exercise, do your hair, get new clothes or fix up the ones you have. Do things that interest you...invest in you and your wellbeing. This is what I'm going to do! Not letting this man steal my worth! Fix your crown queen 👑 Your life is precious! Someone loves you! Someone is depending on you. Treat yourself better today ❤❤
Hi how are you now?
I did the same thing. I ripped my hair out how do I get help? I have a baby and I love my son so much I don't want to get in trouble. I need to get over this. This made all the hurt from when I was a child come out
Omg that's said I am sorry
I'm glad I stumble upon this advise, I'm trying to stay focused and just work on myself. My husband just denied everything.
I'm glad the video was helpful for you, thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
You cant fix it if the person who cheated won't admit to cheating and ask for forgiveness and may continue to cheat on you, you have to except that it's over and move on with your life if you're married divorce him life is to short to live it in MISERY.
How are u grateful for the video if your husband denied everything? Which means this video obviously wasn't the fix. And this coach solution didn't work.
The pain of discovering infidelity is like no other. My husband of 27 years cheated on our marriage for at least 1 year with his married coworker. MY FAMILY AND I DISCOVERED THEIR AFFAIR WHO.E WE WERE ON OUR FAMILY VACATION! His mistress was following us! She was in her home in Salmon Arm Canada and we were in NEW ORLEANS! SHE WAS FOLLOWING WHERE WE WERE AND WHAT WE WERE DOING!!
I need a friend that will help me forget the lies and focus
How in the world do I even try to get over this pain!? It’s been 10 months that my husband cheated and left me for a younger woman.
I hearts desire is to reconcile our marriage, but he’s out there living his best life and acts like I do not exist.
I don’t know how to fight for my marriage or if I should even try to?
I just need this pain to stop.
Get marriage counseling and then get therapy or just do both at the same time.
The world had changed..better go ahead as single mother ..than living with a cheater.....
Why should anyone stay with a cheater? They don't care about your feelings or else they never would have cheated in the first place. I have never know a cheater who didn't cheat again and again. they may be sorry they did it but it won't stop them from doing it again. I have been with 3 different cheating men. All of them I tried these things with in this video to try to work it out. All of them cheated again. One of them I didn't leave until after the 5th time he cheated on me. They don't stop. They just get get more clever on how to hide it so you won't find out. Yes, you love them but they don't love you back the same way or they wouldn't cheat. Leave them and save yourself years of heartache. There are people like you out there that won't cheat. I finally found one and we have been together for 14 years now with no problems like that. Once they have cheated you will never trust them again. You will always wonder why they are so late getting home from work or why they spent 4 hours at the hardware store buying a hammer or why they sit in the bathroom for an hour texting. Why their phone is locked, why they have cologne in the car, why they get up a leave the room when their phone rings, why they don't want dinner that night after getting home late. The list goes on and on and you know all the things I am talking about. Don't put yourself though all the pain and heartache. Leave and then throw yourself into making yourself happy. Find a job you love. Find a fun hobby, Go out with friends. Go on a road trip even if its for the weekend and take someone with you. You will run into a person that you can be happy with that respects you and cares enough to not want to hurt you. You deserve that.
Thank you
I have been cheated over and over , over the years. I almost lost my life for keeping it all to myself. I've learn not to do that and I'd beg people going through it not to keep it to yourself. Talk to a therapist or friends
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I made the same mistake over and over again, I never told anyone about the problem. Rather always covered up for him to keep his `family-man´ image intact. Even I nearly lost my life, have definitely lost my mental peace and well-being though. I´ve left him but still I cannot think of loving anyone else. It is just him on my mind. It´s hard to forget him but I know I should never ever let him back.
@@ramaneeskitchen2165 I was in a relationship for 6 happy years so I thought when my partner cheated on me I found his recite in his bag what he bought her I was distraught couldn't understand why he done this to me he had everything with me
I'm seeing a therapist now
I have been through the same thing.I agree with you.
Pain that keep in crushing your entire system. I always pray God to please take away the pain in my heart because i cant take it anymore
My heart is already full
Im so numb ....
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I feel you completely right now. He tried to tell me I suggested things, in other words it’s my fault. I never would. I know I’m not crazy or stupid. I just don’t know how to not want to seek revenge.
Love youself girl...
Same darling...same. I'm praying for you.
THE ONLY PEACE OF MIND U GET WITH A CHEAT IS GETTING HIM HER GONE FOREVER...NOW THATS THE GOOD FIGHT ...
Best advice I’ve come across so far...Trying to hold everything together is so hard mahn
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He start chatting with his x and i am shaking everytime i see him talking
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I try to take things for what they are my bf of 4 years is cheating on me found a POF app on phone , im not gonna fight him about it just blocking his number and moving on
Am married for 4 months and 5months pregnant now I saw that my husband is cheating on me. My heart is breaking now
my husband cheated on me while i was on my 8month of my pregnancy and I thought he will change after I caught him. But after I gave birth about a month he left us for that girl he hang out when I was still pregnant🥺 I suffered panick attacks, anxiety, post partum and traumas after that🥺
It hurts so bad my man of 6 years cheated on me and kept on doing it after he asked for forgiveness it's a pain I can't describe 💔
He is a real trash. Hope things can get better for you soon.
Same here
4years💔🥺
😢😢😢😢
I haven't even watched this....but the best thing to do with cheating is leave. Chances are they are a narcissist and will destroy you
Just because you forgive him doesn't mean he cares if u do or not he will still cheat
My husband told me his ex was sweet in bed yet they have a kid together. He lied me he never loved her that he got her pregnant by mistake.i feel very very bad whenever I remember that.
1. Get a skilled divorce lawyer. And yes, no revenge, no using kids. Judges hayride that.
2. Get a private detective to obtain evidence of cheating.
3. Have an exit/escape policy that focuses on your bodily well bing and your. financial position.
4. Only communicate with the cheater if your lawyer is present and it is recorded.
5. Do no try to reconcile before the divorce is final. If you want him later, you can get remarried. Forgiveness does not mean no consequences.
6. Don’t protect his reputation. No need to broadcast it. No need to hide it. You did not ruin his reputation, or shame him…he did.
7. Never be alone. Ever.
Amen great tips. Never be desperate. We love people at our free will. Thank you.
a lot of people say once you cheat you’re always a cheater but the devil is a liar 🤥 if you can mention God you must know God can clean anyones heart and heal anyone and can answer our prayers. a cheater is confused or just wants a poly relationship and feels that they cannot openly have that and they can. if you believe in God don’t condemn others and believe the best not the worst
I’ll just stay in my room and be mad about what I’m mad about and try and figure out how to not be mad about what I’m mad about cause I’m really mad. Lol.
This is the common problem most of the women's r facing..At present time I feel that marriage is a very bad decision...because after marriage each one of us facing one or other issue regarding relationships..on one is satisfied...so why I should spoil it while life after this...it will be better if we spent our time with oneself n find out what really we want to remain happy throughout the life...once we get married we r stuck in many emotional family dramas n responsibility..n have to live depressed life..so enjoy it one life rather run after this uncertain life in relationships
This is true
Thank you
I am going through this phase now just as I was thinking of leaving him since it’s very painful for me to accept and forgive him your video came up to me . I’ll do as you say thanks again
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@@HappilyCommitted 😊 welcome
😞 Im in pain.. I just caught him.
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Leave him you love your self for it there are many men to take his place beautiful
Focused on the cheating, but what about lying about that and other things. Was hoping to hear about Lying specifically.
My live in boyfriend of 8 years got busted yesterday, he was searching on google for a woman he cheated on me with 6yrs ago. He likes to drink so I poured out most of his apple crown royal and replaced it with water, bbq sauce, soy sauce (for color) and orange juice...does that count as revenge 😎✌️ If so guess I flunked lol.
I just want a happy and peaceful relationship
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What are you do when they continue to hide things, tell you it's none of your business you're not their mother blah blah blah. what do you do when they don't make the appropriate steps to build that trust, I guess that's when you know you really got to go.
I totally hear you
Yea, why stick around to be disrespected, throw that trash in the trash can.
My partner cheated on me because we are unable to get pregnant we were so pose to get check out if there is any problems and he toke this woman in our home to have sex while I was at working ,I found out because she texted me to say she is pregnant and she makes him happy and pictures in the bed them out together she went as far as leaving underwear at the house ,I was so broken but God has been my peace .
My goodness... I hope you found peace ❤️
Thanks so much my brother and your team for helping couples in their relationships the most dangerous game in our lives please women let's not force ourselves in relationships which doesn't work if we want our relationships to work it must be both of us not only 1 person let's be careful of third-party in our relationships or marriages 💖
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Thank U Sir for a good advice 👍😇 but my hubby's behaviour is strange there is NO TRUE LOVE OR CARE FOR ME from the day WE R married & same towards OUR KIDS👩👧👦 which hurts ME a lot 😟
What to do if a person keeps lying and keeps cheating for years and years and you have kids with this person?
I hear exactly what you're saying learned my husband of 26 years being cheating for 23 of those year..we too have kids...how did I miss the signs. Stay strong..
I loved every single advice you told. I have already done all the things you mentioned not to do. And I have seen all the results too. He burnt my heart.
We are happy that our advice helped you!
Hello did your marriage work out ??
I definitely sought revenge. I cheated back. It made me feel a little bit better and felt like i didnt just get ran over. He cheated so many times. But i didnt know yet. And theeeennnn he threatened to leave me. I had to even the score to not feel completely cheated. Cheating is not even in my character but i did it out of spite. Ill be remaining Celibate until i get remarried again if i even do. Clearly so many dont respect and value marriage even if they say they do. Divorce makes marriage so obsolete. If you can opt out of a til death do us part vow. What's the freaking point.
its so sad, all these stories, how am i supposed to be hopeful 👀
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My husband had cheat on me, l am so sad, l don't have job and I want to raise my child without him, what can I do my friend? Please pray for me
I am nine months pregnant and because of my insecurities I am just troubling my baby .My husband finds more intrest in chat webs I have deleted more than twice bt he find chatting apps more convincing so he keeps on downloading .I left my parents n siblings .my family was against our love n now every single day I regret y I chose this path
Hang in there love for your baby. Im afraid im heading to the same route just caught a cheater 😞
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Don't worry, leave it all to God and make a life for your child , you will be their life Too.
Hang in there. I’m pregnant too & I know how this feels because I’m going through the same thing… praying for us all. These dogs don’t deserve us!!!
Are u a Naga?
He cheated, lied about his job and his finances, and used me to get money to fund his dates. We got married 2 yrs ago
I'm truly sorry to hear about what you've gone through. Unfortunately this happens quite too often now a days. It is important for you to set healthy boundaries and to make sure that this doesn't impact your self-esteem and self worth. His negative actions are not a reflection of you but of the poor choices and lack of character on his end. We are here to support you and help you heal.
What do you do if the relationship has always had lies and it has grown into more poor behavior over a few years . When you give the other person enough time to make it better and they don’t then start trying to get attention from other women now and go out to the bars by himself . How much expectance and time to make things better should there be . I have not changed myself , I have not done anything different or anything against him . I don’t go out , I take care of everything , and don’t have friends at this point that I talk with . This has turned into a one sided relationship where I communicate all the time and he doesn’t .
For someone who has been cheated on before I would say a relationship built on lies will eventually collapse. Cheating and lies are not something you should compromise on. Leave as soon as possible for your own well being. The more you stay the more it's going to hurt and the more he'll make you look stupid for forgiving him
My soon to be x is definitely and narcissist ontop of that, he cheated and I have physical proof and text messages. He’s very vile and abusive and that’s why I left him. I’m 350 miles away and refuse to go back. This is my time to repair all the damage and thank god, we have no kids together. I wish you all the best.
I seriously feel being taken advantage of and unappreciated. I just want to know the Truth.
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Well at this point I'm not looking for long term joy , just short term kick ass.
I got married in 2015 to an 8 yrs older man. I trusted him, I liked him and I married him. But since the marriage he’s been cheating on me for his ex and prostitutes. He’s alcoholic he takes drugs. I’ve a 5 yrs old daughter. I’m raising her right but I’m completely broken and shattered. I have lost my life and he didn’t even care. It hurts more than anything.. and I don’t know what to do :(
Of course you know what to do, you are just scared to do it.
My husband is being very dishonest with me. It’s as if everyone around me is laughing at me because of my marriage. He tells others his half truths/omissions yet he continues to lie to me and abuse me. It has broken the trust and I don’t even know if we can be friends after the breakup. I don’t think I ever did anything to him to deserve such horrible treatment from him. I only tried to help him yet his goal is to try to hurt me. It’s as if he is blaming me for his sins. I can’t trust him with my children either.
My husband of 30 years is a serial cheater. And liar. Trust went out the window a long time ago. I stay for our son. My son's happiness is more important to me than my own.
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Your son will become like him. You're not doing him any favour
He left me with fractured leg with two kids in pandemic and he and his family blocked my number, he don't want to take our responsibility
How do I manage this when he repeatedly does it and will still lie 😭😭
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I just found out my husband cheated for the second time. The first time was 2019 and I forgave him for the kids sake. I jsy found out a few weeks back he cheated again and the sad part of everything was that i suspected something was off but due to the fact that he lied i believed him until the wife of the other women phoned me. Its still so raw and I have supa mixed emotions I feel like divorcing him at this point but I can not tell you how much the kids love him. I threw him out when I found out and for the 2weeks he was gone they were sad and broken along with me and kept asking for him. He is now begging me back. He is even seeing a psychologists and was diagnosed with bipolar and heavy depression. I went with hm for a session friday. He is now trying to save our marrigae he is working so hard on convincing me that he is sorry ect. But im now so done and over him my trust is broken and beaten. I neva suspected he would do it a sec time cos this time we had no probs at all. I am praying for God to give me some kind of miracle in how I can solve this so my kids can heal and have their dad but for now i feel supa supa sad and I cannot forgive him. WHAT DO I DO?????
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I'm in the same boat
I hope you found some answers
Chantall how are you now?
Same story here 😢
Trust yeah I sure do trust him I trust him to lie to me I trust him to cheat I trust him to be disloyal I trust him to be just who he is and I’m sick of him
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I can't breathe...decades of this and I ignored the red flags..he loves being superior & go have a life"
I am watching this because, I thought I have a perfect man. He has been cheating on me before and after he proposed to me and our wedding is in 2months. He told me everything I couldn’t have suspected anything….
I am really broken but I still talk to him and act normal but I really don’t know what to do…
He sworn that he has changed, he talked to few people in church about it.. They were mad at him too but I think he is really sorry about it but that Trust can never be like before.
I would just leave once a cheater is exposed it never changes .
Pls leave him. The way he was before marriage is the way he will be. If you also enable it he will keep doing it
DON'T GET MAD DARLING GET EVERYTHING!
I didn't catch him cheating but I caught him in inboxes which is unacceptable seeing as he is ALWAYS accusing me of cheating when it has NEVER been a thought in any relationship I am in. I discarded him for testing me...try that shit on the next one..I wasn't the one.
It's deflected guilt sum1 that constantly accuses their spouse is guilty of said accusation themselves I learnt this the hard way leave noelw he's taking u 4 a fool he doesn't deserve u and u deserve better x
God bless all of u who needs to watch this🥺
Thank you for your kind words!
My husband has cheated twice, caught him last year. But we have 2 kids together so I don't have the courage to leave him bcoz he's a good father for them and he makes a lot more money than I do. But the trauma, pain and hurt, and my inability to trust him again are sometimes unbearable.
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I cheated on my wife but she is always faithful and forgiving
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So don’t share with your support group (family, friends or family) he can cheat and destroy the family but don’t have a support system! Cheating is a character flaw! Cheaters don’t change. If they are a narcissist they won’t change but cheat again, they don’t change! Don’t try to fix this brokenness because they will do it again.
I told him stay with her, I’m done 💔😭haven’t seen him 8 months he got his things when I was at work, hurts like hell, lier cheater manipulator you can only take so much pain.
When they start lying, secrets, telling you they hate you they are cheating
So what do you do if your completely done and don’t want to give him anymore chances? He is a narcissist as well and because of this on top of his cheating I’ve decided I’m done. He wants me to be ok with everything and understand. He has become very bothered that I’m not bothered by what he has done and he is bothered that I’m moving on and I’m not devastated over him. I’m pretty glad actually.I haven’t been in love with him for a very long time and I was just hanging in there because I didn’t want to hurt him.had he told me I would have been happy about it and there wouldn’t have been any drama at all. I feel so empowered now that I know I don’t have to be with him anymore. He seriously underestimated me. Lol. At least this can end without me being an asshole like he was. I also have all the evidence I’m going to need to sue him for alimony.
That's exactly what I'm doing now too.
I hired a private investigator he found out all the dirt on my husband an his sweethearts an my husband is still lying saying it is not true. I will NEVER EVER again date a police officer!!@
Wow sounds like me current situation
It's painful on my chest and funny at the same time. He has been cheating on me and today I saw he posted He is looking for serious relationship on facebook 🤣🤣🤣🤣 WTF is this
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Such characterless person should be in hell
I don't trust my husband at all. Bec he always hurts me. It's simple leave him. He's not responsible husband. Father. He never think about us. Why to hurt yourself. Best way ignore him and leave it...