The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
Waoooo on point but those men with pride and ego still remains who d choose to be till d enter grave. May God see d loving and caring women's through in Jesus name amen.
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
Mine has never apologized though I've caught him a number of times, this time has told me that he's going to call a lawyer so we can sign for an open relationship, I told him it can never happen, by the way I do no longer cook for him & if I go out I spend the whole day @ the mall & find him sitting in the couch waiting for me 😂😂😂
Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced. To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence. Once you are there you are above him.
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts. I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically. Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
Hallelujah am in abroad, but my husband has a pregnated agirl But l told him to choose who to marry and ge was busy crying lsaid u cry crocodile tears . Thank you for the knowledge ❤❤
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
Mine asked me to invite him with the lady for a conversation. I told him am not part of their love affair. I dropped it and since then 2017,he can't fulfil his conjugal rites. He never sleeps out,but I zipped my mouth and shut myself. Our relation ends at the grave.I have a better husband,my lord.
Why block your glory on this earth over a useless man?? Divorce in the Bible is only permissible if either partner engages in an adulterous relationship outside of marriage. The more he sleeps with women, he connects you with souls, severe that bondage!!
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
What i know with cheating husband is that the wife cannot change him however much she tries.change is a choice,a personal decision just like it is cheating. My advice for wives....you can choose to live with your cheating husband or leave. Period
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
My husband is cheating on me live and he knows i know na sasa ameniambia amequit na my problem is am 5months pregnant, advice please what am i going to do surely?? It hearts
i just got this video very late. i already left my house wit my child. I am tired of his lies, ignorance,drink, spending money out. do you have any suggestion for money.
That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.
All those tips are spot on! They actually work. Ignore him, love yourself and develop yourself. Tried and tested 💯☑️
Thanks for this cos mine never changed.ge even follows married women
Practice self love 💕 ❤
There are those who are not ignorable, the worst thing is when he wants intimacy by force
@@anazialovelyn5429😊😊😊😊 pp
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Cheating is a choice not a mistake 😢
Exactly. They always planned it
Cut off the benefits
No extra care
Extra key on the table
No extra pleasure
Go out often looking your best
I support this 💯
Don't bend too low for the side chick.Ignore the other woman
If you cut off benefits , he will continue going to look for them out there
Narcissists don't care. They feel happy when you cry 😢
You are right
Pathological liars, victim playing, love bombing, gaslighting, they're good at that. Narcissists are real 😈
That's so true
The best way is stop asking, nagging, ignore him,love yourself,look good,work on building up yourself and trust God in the process,it will kill him. By the time you will move out,it will not hurt you but him
These tips are so helpful, wise counsel indeed
Very very true
The only smart way is to LEAVE HIM🙄🙄🙄 people like that never change, you keep forgiving and you end up with endless STDs and low self respect
I agree
Exactly 😊
EXACTLY....ONLY SOLUTION IS TO MOVE ON...
True
So true
Waoooo on point but those men with pride and ego still remains who d choose to be till d enter grave. May God see d loving and caring women's through in Jesus name amen.
This are very practical lessons. Every married woman needs to see this.
How I wish I had known this earlier.
I thank God for delivering me from narcissit's life. 😊
Please summon this man to men conference to explain why he's selling men out.
I love all the points ! But crying for a cheater is a no for me !
You've never been there, you don choose to.... But tears go,.. Eventually
@mperisannmuthoni9086 don't cry in front of him it will make him more fulfilled
Also me I can't. Shiaaa so that he all feels good. Never
Not all, demons(narcissists) will never apologize infact they do it openly to frustrate you.
Exactly dear
Sure
Very true
Very true
In my opinion the last point is a big NO crying will ruin all your work, it's better to wait when he eventually comes for a conversation then you tell him it hurts, not cry to him, a man that cheats does not regard your emotions what makes you think that crying about what he did will make any difference.
true
Exactly, d more u cry d most he enjoys it
Best thing is love urself & kids d more & pray to God to deliver him
Such men will tell you why are u crying? Are u a baby?
@@loladeyetunde5536yes exactly. Ex husband told me that. I left him for good. He now realize he lost a real wife but too late. Years gone. I moved on.
It depends on the man you are with.....some men never cry
If a man cheats on you,just give other men a chance. Omo don’t die with misery
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Or AIDS 😅
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😂😂😂😂😂 kabisa
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A stray dog will never hear the hunter's whistle .
Mine has never apologized though I've caught him a number of times, this time has told me that he's going to call a lawyer so we can sign for an open relationship, I told him it can never happen, by the way I do no longer cook for him & if I go out I spend the whole day @ the mall & find him sitting in the couch waiting for me 😂😂😂
His facing Karma.. enjoy girl
Traditionally to curb cheating, polygamy was practiced.
To my thoughts all these points means that you start building up your own emotional independence.
Once you are there you are above him.
This is it.
The only drug of choice is abandoning a cheater.
You will come to embrace this precious advice and apply it to your life.
I am living with one and I did almost of your points, he is still a liar
You're lowering your value
Pray for his salvation
Let him pray for himself
Pray for God to transform his heart but focus mostly on taking care of yourself dear
@@ooyeniyi5300hope he's praying for her salvation too. We are called to obey them and be submissive yet they are not our gods.They need to know their mistakes. That's why we need to look for money money money money money you will see the difference
This is so unfair what if he infects you with hiv😢you are with him all in the name of marriage
Exactly, all the time u still waiting for him to understand, HIV boom 🤯🤯
At this point u can't be intimate with him
Best punishment LEAVE !!.before he brings you all the skunk from outside !!
May God help us women o
Some women dey take things I knew of someone who her husband has been cheating years back even before I married till now the woman is still there and the man refuse to change till tomorrow,and the way thus woman carry him for head,even this man went extra miles to the extent of sleeping with his friend daughter and they dated till the lady got married,there is no how to handle a man who cheats as far as am concerned
PLEASE NOTE: These tips DO NOT apply when dealing with a narcissistic man.
I agree with you
Very true
True so how can you deal with this kind of man please help me
💯 Thanks for sayn this haki😢
Also a demon possesd one 😂 .
My Dear Friend you are referring to a professional man. Family Background plays a role. If a man comes from Family of polygamy, unfortunately a woman has no say. Personality also plays a role. I appreciate your advice, very educational, thank you ❤
This is magic and the advise here is very very underrated!!! This needs to get out to the world.!!! Thankful I came across the video! Bless you
Good advice from the elder, trust your God and love your self
When are we having part 2 of these lessons please?very educative .Thanks so much Pastor and Rev.Akama
This is really helpful as I regained my composure after watching the video. before watching it though I was really depressed am was about doing the wrong things thank you so much for your counselling
Oh,sorry, I've been there I know it hurts.
I've ever done such tactics and it works though as Rev. Has put it after some rime u see it again with again somebody seems new.some usually have a wife and another woman periodically.
Masculine dominating world gave them an upper hand.
This lessons are poweful.Thanks for educating us women.Thanks Rev.
Hallelujah am in abroad, but my husband has a pregnated agirl
But l told him to choose who to marry and ge was busy crying lsaid u cry crocodile tears . Thank you for the knowledge ❤❤
Once a cheater always a cheater
Absolutely.
@@ifeomasandra6086not true
I believe that too
This man has given the best advise ever
This is so educative and it really works. Thank u for this episode
if the fear of God is to both the man and the woman one cannot cheat being contented shuld be the key since the holy spirit of God is in you; we shld not justify a mistake which is forbidden even by God ; Remeber the judgement is there and cant be removed from book of judgement ; the commandment says do not practice adultery
Very true dear
Wao this is really very strong medicine to my soul going to put all this into consideration thanks very much sir
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Rule number one after you find out he's cheating heal at the crime scene then leave from his house to your future husband when he least expected it 😅😅
Looking for one ready
I like it@@jaspatty
A Narcissist can never beg you
Especially a religious narcissist, they are the worse
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@@ayerinsarahoseyemi4376Religious narcissist are the worse set of narcissist, I dont wish any woman
Narcissist are soooooo heart🤞🤞🤞
Less
This is the best medicine ever 💯 👏
Mine asked me to invite him with the lady for a conversation.
I told him am not part of their love affair.
I dropped it and since then 2017,he can't fulfil his conjugal rites.
He never sleeps out,but I zipped my mouth and shut myself.
Our relation ends at the grave.I have a better husband,my lord.
Why block your glory on this earth over a useless man?? Divorce in the Bible is only permissible if either partner engages in an adulterous relationship outside of marriage. The more he sleeps with women, he connects you with souls, severe that bondage!!
Have not understood
She is no longer sleeping with him
She is no longer sleeping with him
She is no longer sleeping with him
No tears for a narcissistic person
That cry is a no no for me
Sounds like he's saying the truth about how to deal with men. But, women need patience in deploying these tactics.
Sir I cought my own husband with multiple exhibits but he couldn't apologize.He was with more than one woman out there.When I cut off the benefits started accusing me of having Men outside him.Until his sister's sister in law came serving him food on my table to my husband😢😮 absurd right.
They're supporting what he's doing and if it happens to them they won't clap hands and dance
Am happy for the best advice for my soul.I stopped talking about that long time
Just file for divorce… this is not worth it
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Abi ooo😂😂😂
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Yeah if you can afford it.
Ooooh waw...this is so wonderful,,the best advice ever thanks and may God bless you 😊
If I hadn’t texted his GF and asked what was the nature of her relationship with my husband, to get silence in return, he’d still be denying it. I will never regret doing that. I had to know the truth, and he was never going to tell that to me. So I bent too low.
Good job ❤
Thank you from today am gonna do what you have taught me now, God bless you
I wish I knew this some years ago, very informative 👏🏾
Wonderful message truly, i have ever used these tricks and they worked for me
Thank for this , i started feeding better in my marriage after watching this. God bless your union
Kick the cheaters out of your life. Divorce him.
It only works for those who are financially stable
Some men even if u cut off extra pleasure he will never change from cheating. Some men just have cheating in their DNA
Exactly I can wash my clothes as long you still check for children's
I downloaded and have to come back after watching to say a big thank you for your tip of solution. They truly work.
I'm in the process of divorce because of cheating. Man don't change we have 3 children 20yrs of marriage 😢😢
If you stayed for 20yrs,why giveup now
Please, don't give up.
I will advise you follow the points listed here and you will smile at the end, May God help you Sis
My friend please don't dissolve that marriage, Jesus never threw us away despite cheatings,we have had done to Him
Pls , no divorce especially if ur d one pushing, ignore , be happy , look good for urself. Pray for ur healing & peace of mind
@@ShiruwaAnn057Its her choice,she has taken it all and she can't take it no more.
Let him find the home as cold as a freezer😂
Thanks for the tips because hey,the situation in my marriage is bad I am humbled
It's true,he closed my business and am a housewife.Now i know
Same thing happened to me
A man closes ur business, and you allow it? You women really give the men inur lives the right to really do noonsense. He has no right whatsoever to close ur business.
I have subscribed. I have learnt a lot today. I am in Harare Zimbabwe
What i know with cheating husband is that the wife cannot change him however much she tries.change is a choice,a personal decision just like it is cheating.
My advice for wives....you can choose to live with your cheating husband or leave.
Period
Even with facts, hard-core evidence he'll deny...I don't know will be a reply.
The tips work absolutely 💯. They worked for me
It really works to women who have something to build themselves with, not goal keepers
If a man cheat the good weapon is to be very smart dress well eat well and dont Show him that you re up Set yes you can feel but havea boy friend somewhere,and after few yrs move on
The best weapon is divorce papers!!!!
Skylar, what kind of advice is this? Are. you Jezebel ama?
Mind your head youre jezebel not me
And dont write me am not your Husband
@@skylarwaweru4852 May GOD ALMIGHTY deliver you.
My husband is cheating on me live and he knows i know na sasa ameniambia amequit na my problem is am 5months pregnant, advice please what am i going to do surely?? It hearts
People differ for some it works and for some it will make things worse but if he fear God he will not do it coz God is everywhere
Very right
i just got this video very late. i already left my house wit my child. I am tired of his lies, ignorance,drink, spending money out. do you have any suggestion for money.
The solution does not lie in punishing but in counseling based on facts.
Counseling who? Lol
I need a part two of this series
Let him come home to cold like a freezer 😆😆😆
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Some men who make sure you never be close to his phone! There is no way to have facts on messages
God open All doors.
I tell you,mine comes home once a wk from work and he doesn’t use a smartphone unless I contact the lady
😂😂check the phone when he sleeps.you will see facts
I got my husband with multiple facts, receipts, l, phone calls, but he never apologized.
Wow.....wow....wow wonderful. I love that sharing. God bless u so so much.
End the marriage
Period!!!!
Caught my husband last year around November BT still today I don't know how to deal with it it's hurt so much
I once tried going out as he says, weeeee the beating i got is still fresh 10years+ down the line. And that's how it ended.
It depends on personality
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂sorry but thats funny
Tell your friends not to try this at home
😂😂😂😂. It's funny. But it shows that he really didnt like you. So its better it ended.
@@rombanilondwa4488He will meet the woman that will dismember him. All women are not the same.
Kindly do one on how to punish a cheating wife.
Divorce is the only answer they have to that 😢
@@janetfoluke9426 😂😂😂 with immediate effect
@@janetfoluke9426That's unfair
No need. Once she is cheating, she has cut u off emotionally. I advise u leave if not u may die of heart attack.
How did she start to cheat?
3yrs in marriage but the man is a cheater ,we have one baby ,,am in depression what should i do any advice
My own does not come home again. He abandoned i and the kids completely.
That was me never commented or asked I would continue with my life as if nothing was happening. It ate him up at times he would say please hit me hard and would say I don't have the time for that.
Thank you so much for the teachings.Very
This man is me because these were exactly what I did when my man was womanising. And he came back to his senses.
Sure a man is family oriented, this do not apply to a covert narcissist.
But he may still be doing it hidden you won't know.
I like the facts, good teachings
Please talk about distance relationships and how to deal with cheating man
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 God bless you
Thank you so much. I just subscribed
Wow I love this God bless you sir
True no shouting, facts and option.
Cut off all benefits thanks for the tips
Thanks for a powerful teaching.
Very very True, words of wisdom 👍👍
He is not your child stop proving him just leave.He already showed that you are nothing
Very true they don't want you working am victim,i give him extra attention and no changes
Some men accept yet they are not ready to change
Not at all
Spot on!! Well done...
When your partner cheats please know that its not about you at all. Its about them and the demon of lust. So don't waste your tears please.
Amen
May God bless you man
A man like you are scares
Thanks Rev. 👍 good tips 👌
Thanks for your advice❤
This is really good!! Thank you so much❤❤
It's true, u have to be smart always
He will change thanks bro, be blessed
My husband doesn't apologize
Mine too
Oh yeah neh mine too
That’s makes 2 of us!😢
Same here
Same
Tried confronting mine and it ddnt go well
He confirmed he loved her and asked me to accept her,ive never healed 😢