I've been studying my whole life to understand what others are thinking and why they think in certain ways. I've figured out whether someone likes me off the bat or not, and I've never really acted upon it. Oh well.
after watching so many of these psych2go videos... i can confirm... I still have NO IDEA if my crush likes me back because she's been giving SO MANY MIXED SIGNALS
here is a tip. Give up. Shes just playing with you, and waiting for you to make one single fatal mistake, which will be her golden oppertunity to dump and ghost you.
Yes. I just met a girl most recently and as we were getting to know each other, I did notice that she was looking at me quite a bit and had her legs aimed towards me while sitting next to me. I did find myself friend zoning her though since we just met and I didn’t want to give her wrong signals by looking at her straight in the eye while talking.
@@mrsiracha7717 Aro is short for arromantic, wich is people who don't experience romantic atraction (or at least not in the same way everyone else does)
0:31 - 1. They don't try to be near you Vs they do 0:56 - 2. Eye contact conversation vs from afar 1:26 - 3. Compliments sweet vs flirty 2:09 - 4. Dress their best vs Dress casual 2:49 - 5. Talk about crushes with you vs Annoyed when you do 3:31 - 6. Don't try to be alone with you vs They often try to be alone with you
0:00 intro 0:32 1. They don't try to be near you Vs they do 0:57 2. Eye contact conversation vs from afar 1:27 3. Compliments sweet vs flirty 2:09 4. Dress their best vs Dress casual 2:49 5. Talk about crushes with you vs Annoyed when you do 3:31 6. Don't try to be alone with you vs They often try to be alone with you 4:06 outro
My (ex)girlfriend dumped me a few months ago. when school started back up, I noticed she started talking to me like we were still together so it gave me the impression that she was trying to lead me on still. A lot of what was mentioned in this video is what she has been doing/saying so I think this will help me truly figure things out with her. Thanks a lot
You gotta stay vigilant though, its best if you could have some bounderies first if you're unsure about it cause it is still a possibility that she just wants to be just friends with you rather than wanting you two be back in a relationship.
@@mrsiracha7717 we broke up back in late May/ Early June. We had a Summer Band Camp in late July and school started a week after. She didn’t talk to me much during band camp but as soon as school started, she started talking to me like nothing happened.
@@Nashkurr Absolutely, I’m at the point where I can live without dating her despite still having love for her. Just wanted to know what I’d be getting myself into if I tried to slowly get back with her that way I don’t end up embarrassing myself in the end haha
@@justaidoni Understandable, i mean i can tell that you ended your relationship with her in a civil manner so there's a chance that she either considers that possibility or just being polite/friendly, it just depends on how you interpret it since people have different perspective when they socialize with someone. If i were you, I'd rather ask and let her tell it to me directly if she's interested in getting back together or not, rather than being subtle about it. People are too complicated and to generalize exes with what they want with their past partners is not always 100% accurate and this causes misunderstandings if it continues, but this video is a good basis for self awareness I guess, so take notes just incase it matches.
I've recently confessed to my close friend at school, and I got rejected. It was ok at first, we agreed to still be friends, but as time goes on, the more painful I feel knowing that we'd never cross the barrier of "being friends". As I dig deeper, I find out that their rejection was mainly because they were probably still upset by their previous relationship at the time of my confession. Now we still chat normally, I enjoy every moment with them, but when I'm alone I just feel hurt by my thoughts. Could anyone give me some advice on my case? Also, to anyone reading this, have a great day!
@Nightmare4 may she rest in peace. Your strength inspires us brother. May you be the best, have the best, and achieve the best in life. Good luck friend.
Now that you gave it some time, you should think about it do you actually like the person or not, and think of your life with that person. Even though this is actually coming from a 6th grader, I have watched a lot of drama shows so I kind of know what you are going through. Also the person that rejected you just lost a great opportunity to have such a nice and kind person as their love of their life, and as you said that the person was going through a previous relationship break-up so maybe he/she might like you back and their mind is just not thinking right at that moment! So this is all the advice I can give you right now but I hope you have a great day!
You've done what you could. Now its time to let go. If they change their minds, they will let you know. Live your life the best you can and you will attract people who deserve your love :) Dont tell yourself any sweet lies. Face it head on. They will most likely end up with someone else in half a year anyway. So be prepared for that. Dont let it put you down. Be strong
I wish I had seen this last year. I thought my friend who I liked had a crush on me and when I told her my feelings she friendzoned me and I was totally heartbroken. It actually took me awhile to get over it. I’m almost 20 and I’ve been single my whole life and I thought someone finally had the same feelings towards me and as you can imagine that really hurt.
Single your whole life? Almost 20? 👀 My brother in Christ, you are Just getting STARTED! Now is the time to date often with the intent to Learn, meet nice people who can become good friends, and if need be... (try not to) make mistakes (but learn from them). Be upfront though, if you meet a girl who seems nice (but not someone you're falling head over heels for) then ask them if they'd be interested in dating for practice, don't lead them on. They could teach you a lot, it could be good for both of you to come out of your shell and help eachother blossom and each be more prepared for someone special. It's best to make minor, or even big mistakes and learn from them early while talking to girls who will move on and find happiness without much trouble, than to find someone special and blow it because you are not prepared. Important things to note: Love can Grow. You may not initially feel much for date friends, but overtime little things about them may start to grow on you and you will care for and even sometimes miss them long after they are gone. That's okay, these are also good things to take time to work through/get used to Early in life. Don't judge these girls or hold bitter feelings, (that won't be attractive when you Do meet 'the one' later) because that won't help you become able to love Yours unconditionally when the time comes, and this will allow you to see more positives in time as you do look back; you may find things to be fond memories that one day take precedence over the cringy mistakes we've made. We are guys, we will make them, but don't be tooo afraid to either; the right girl might find you cute and endearing for some of your Perceived 'flaws' (things that aren't really wrong, just not as great as you wish you were) However, when you do have real flaws, you must take responsibility and work on them. The cycle of personal improvement and progression goes ever on and will never cease; onward and upward!
As much as it hurts, it's best to move on but don't worry about a thing when the time is right, you'll eventually find someone with similar interests as you do. It just takes time. Also, it's okay to be single because I too have been single for quite a long time, so you're not the only one 🙂
As someone socially stunted, I do many of these things without even crushing on the person. No wonder people tell me my natural demeanour is just flirty.
@Sneaky Squid So how do you act when you're around someone you like? I'm currently crushing on this girl I see sometimes she's always very playful and happy and smiles at me but I think that's just her personality. How are we supposed to know if someone like that is interested in us? Because if that kind of stuff happened from anyone else that would definitely be a sign of interest.
@@Woeisme2 Honestly it depends on the person but personally, I make extra effort to be closer to someone and even physically touch them in a socially appropriate way. It's not like I don't do these things with people I'm interested in platonically but yeah...idk it's hard to explain. My advice is to start reciprocating those flirty vibes and see how receptive she is.
I’ve been dating my crush for nearly a month now and 3-4 months ago, we talked about past crushes. It came up naturally and we both made it clear that we didn’t have a crush on anyone. Although, we both agreed that our past crushes taught us to never fall in love 😂 Well, we were talking to our crush about past crushes and casually hinting we’re single while making sure it didn’t sound like an open offer 😂
With my boyfriend, we were coworkers then eventually close friends for about two years, and there were always physical barriers. I'd come over to his place to watch stuff and there is always a pillow between us. Honestly, I took that as a sign he didn't like me at all. I'm shocked that he was trying to not scare me lol.
Ugh lucky. I like my coworker and sometimes I find him looking at me and he quickly turns away. I've talked to him a few times and everytime we have he always smiled and spoke softly but I honestly can't tell if he is into me or not😭
i have a guy i've started liking for a while (i liked around three years ago but it faded when i knew he liked a friend when she left school, i didn't thought of him as anything more than friends during online classes but started liking him again after going back to school after the pandemic), we have been friends for a lot of years and i think he recently started feeling the same way, he is always close with me, finds ways for our hands to always be touching, he tries to be where i am, never uses his phone while being near me, pats me and plays softly with my hair when im sad and lets me lay down in his shoulders and even recently when he went to a trip he bought me a big cute plush of a animal that us and our friends joke that its name starts the same as mine, and a large etcetera of other things... but i still think that he may just act nice since we are are the ones who relate more ofter (yes im an overthinker😞) i want to tell him that i like him and i've already set a date to tell him that would be in our graduation but i was also thinking about doing it in valentines because i don't know if he will stay in the same school we are at right now but im really afraid of rejection because i dont want to lose his friendship if he doesn't like me back and i like him so much that i spend a lot of time like a fool trying to find confidence in all the love related psych2go videos i can find but still can't,, please if someone can help me i'll really appreciate it😭😭 edit: he confessed to me today!!!
Well I definitely think that sounds like he is interested in you, especially if that isn’t something he did before! Sounds like a great guy and be sure not to let him slip away, take the chance while you have it. If your school holds dances, asking if he wants to go with you there can be a way to kinda hint that you like him, unless he asks you first 😉 😁
Pretty sure you're there already. He might need some time to consider, so don't expect him to give you an answer right then and there. Make sure you let your feelings be known though. Life taught me that you will usually be left with regrets if you don't see something through. Even a rejection is a lot better than having to crawl through the hell that follows after too much hesitation. So yeah, make sure to organize your feelings and confess to him.
@@MrYamiBakura you're right its even more scarier that i don't get the chance to tell him, takes for the advice i'll take the chance when i get it thank you so much!🤧
+Psych2GoTv *Thanks for a set of things to notice (friend crush):* 0:32 (1) Proximity? (no yes) 0:57 (2) Distance for eye contact (close far) 1:27 (3) Style of compliments (sweet flirty) 2:09 (4) Dress (casual deluxe) 2:49 (5) Conversation on crushes? (yes no) 3:32 (6) Duet time alone? (no yes)
2:05 I’ve never felt more called out in my entire life, told my best friend who I’m head over heels for that their eyes were like orbs of chocolate comfort and that I could stare into them for hours lmao.
I never had a crush either, but I love romance and I write many love stories so I watch these because they help me know what a crush feels but most importantly looks like; this way, I can write more realistically :D
Hmmm, you might just need someone to vibe with. Nothing overtly serious/romantic or immediately obvious, but one day I hope that you are pleasantly surprised by something like this happening Naturally.
Thanks to this video I’ve noticed that she is always trying to be around me, at one point she chose to sit next to me over one of her friends. I really hope the feelings are reciprocal. Please keep making more videos like this, they help me so much!
As someone who's an intimate, awkward stare, flirty, always nice dressing, crush blabbermouth, person who prefers one-on-one's over groups... I must be really confusing for my friends lol
Couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. Especially with the complicated connection I have with my crush. Or past crush I believe. But I think it’s just being friendly at this point with these signs.
I really struggle with determining when people have feelings for me and so I've led more than my fair share of folks on... so this video is very helpful thank you!
I always appreciate the content in these videos but I have to tell you, I seriously love the animation in these videos!! I never knew how much I like this animation better than using random people in the video. I have severe ptsd and I have found that I get more focused on the random people than the content in the video and it’s all but impossible for me to remember what I just heard. With your visuals in your videos being animated, I can completely follow along and get the message along with the expressions that match! Please keep the animated videos attached to the postings! Thank you SO much!! 🙏❤️
On a side note, there's a big difference between liking someone and loving someone. Check if they treat you as just a crush or as their partner (bf/gf/wifey/husbando/ whatever it may be). Side note on a side note; I check this channel out while doing something and listen to topics that interest me while doing the "important stuff" and I actually become more productive, so yep, thanks and will definitely recommend.
I dont really compliment people that much unless i genuinely mean it, so me in a discord call say "You laugh is Pretty cute....." in a very quiet voice is literally the biggest giveaway that i like my crush
If she sees this -- Yes, I like you. I really do. You (my crush) are the only person who's exactly a soulmate to me, too. Our first meet-up showed that and you have at least 4 of these signs on me.
Can I suggest a vid idea :"What to say, or do, when you are afraid of telling someone you love, or have a crush on, your feelings for fear they might misunderstand, freak out and/or shun you away." I mean u don't have to but... It would help.
I know i’m just a friend. I have to be realistic with myself. However that doesn’t mean that I will not lose hope. We are still young and our family’s are forming relationships. I’m glad he only sees me as a friend for now though, it leaves a lot of room for us to grow our relationship as we become adults. I care about him very much, I wasn’t initially attracted to him, but the day we met it just clicked. We compliment each otherwise so nicely, it’s crazy.
Dear Psych2Go, For all that you are, for everything you do, for all that you've done, just for making my life more magical, you have my unconditional support... 🧡
I always felt like my best friend had feelings for me when we first met. He waited until everyone left before he came to talk to me. I often catch him staring from far away but he has trouble keeping eye contact when he is talking to me. I asked him about it and he says he gets shy in front of a beautiful woman and tells me to not always be so charming, I just take it as a joke.
My crush is my best friend, and she knows about my crush on her, but she’s straight. My feelings are forever unrequited, lol We are very close friends, even call each other Waifus, so she has most of these signs, but not all of them. QwQ
bruh i had a crush on my bsf and had these signs but then she ended up dating my opposite gender and obviously don’t like me but we are still friends and i accidentally told her i used to like her during a argument and she said the same lmfao
Lol ive been in that position before, and it destroyed me. It wasn't a nice situation, it even became worse but i didn't even notice until i started therapy. We're not close anymore fortunately
My friend: "I wish I could date somebody JUST LIKE YOU!" Me: "I am single and I am interested IN dating you!" My friend: "Can't be just stay friends?" My reaction- Fed up being taken for granted and taken advantage of SO I just stop talking to my friend COMPLETELY.....AFTER ALL it isn't like this relationship IS GOING anywhere!! And Never talk to them again!!
It’s been a while since I’ve been here, and I’m happy to see the channel is almost at 10M subscribers! On the topic of the video, I just found out my crush was just a friend without telling her I actually liked her, so that was decent. My heart also was beating unhealthy fast, probably like 185-200 I’d guess. I didn’t really feel sad about it, so that’s cool, but now I feel like I ruined the friendship, so I’ve been down for a few days.
This is INSANELY helpful (even a year later) but i now learned that someone has a crush on me they fit all the categories and 5 mins ago the told me :D
Super fun watching these kinds of videos and connecting these sorts of details to fictional characters talking to the player :) makes me feel like i'm wanted
This is literally proof that I'm 'that one friend' who's crushing. 😭✋️ My crush shows some of these signs but not many,,, I'm pretty sure she's in love with her best friend so-
I wouldn’t say that about her being in love with her girl-friend, unless she is a self proclaimed lesbian lol. Signs that girls like each other are wayy different than the signs that a girl liking a boy may be. Normal girl- friends will exhibit almost all of these signs, even though they dont like each other :) hope this helps and i hope you get the one you are after
Literally, since I know one of my friends, I started thinking ''What if she...?'' ''Will she...?'' ''Why does she...?'' And I still don't have the answer.
What if she tells me about her day randomly? We haven’t talked in a week but… think the feeling is mutual, great feeling since it seems like she’s opening up a bit and being vulnerable
As someone who is currently going through this crisis…this was perfectly timed. Has this been done with crushes who are long distance? Because that’s also part of my situation.
3:39 they be having a seizure. This helped as I am entering that stage where I actually find girls attractive and not "Stinky poos" as author Jeff Kinney once put it.
Bruh I flirt with everyone and physical closeness is just something I do. Also like the way my friends and I say hello to each other as we pass each other in the halls at school is just to stare at each other and wiggle our eyebrows and/or shoot a lil snap gun thing.
I don't move barriers between us I don't like eye contact I don't usually give compliments I dress casual around them. I do put effort into my look though, but I do that with everyone so it's nothing special. We talk about our crushes with eachother, but I do sometimes get annoyed when she's only talking about that one person We do hang out together a lot I treat them as a friend, but I've liked them for quite a while (strong feelings)
If your somewhere and they walk up to you with a friend but change sides of the friend to stand in the direction your body is pointing is that a sign/thing
Hey nice vid! Does it count if we just have like 3 months since we met each other, also we don't hang out very often, but when we do, its always just the two of us. One day she even told me if I wanted her to skip a class so we could just go for a talk. And every time we get togheter other people seem to just go away and let us alone. She also invites me to lunch and every time I ask her out she is pretty responsive, she also seem to like everything i like, she also have complimented me a couple of times and noticed every single change i make to my appearance, heck she even knows my second name even when i dont tell anyone i have a second name!. But theres a little problem where i think she is just being nice and polite with me, and that is the fact that she recently told me she just got a new boyfriend. Also weird because when im with her she dont really like to talk about him and when i talk about him she says that she accepted him because he is nice, but bothing more after that. I dont usually see her too often, so we just text each other, she says that shes bored and i tell her to dont worry im gonna make time to see her, so she says that yes whenever i want to hang out she is gonna be there, man this is so confusing. From my perspective i think she is just being nice with me. But the fact that she doesn't want me to even know her boyfriend exists I see it as weird. And also the fact that she just worries about how my day and my life is going on like we were life time friends, when we just met a few months ago and dont even hang out that much. Hehe
In our country its really normal for friends to jokingly flirt each other or used such words for gf or bf on their friends. So just great now i have more confusion 😃
@@lucoa460 really? But i wonder in my province all these people call each other "bhe" or something like that, they even say "hey kiss me on the cheek" on a joking way, my friend on Taytay Rizal said she experienced the same too🤷
Ya, it's clear that he doesn't like me🙂. He has loved a girl for some 6 years until he got to know that she doesn't like him that way. I really don't know how a person can distinguish between whether we really like someone or we are just friends. Anyways, he doesn't like me and that's it. It will really be difficult for me to move on from him cause he's an awesome guy mostly girls would like.
As an autistic person it sucks not picking up on small things. My crush use to jump into me and give me a big hug, we always use to hang out with each other and whenever someone would mention about us dating she’d brush it off and say it would ruin our relationship All that was when I was 14 and now I’m 21 now wondering if I should of said something back then and wondering if she had a crush on me. I keep trying to make plans to meet up with her but her life is busy now and it feels like too much time has passed. She’s now also in a happy relationship after 3 or 4 bad relationships. I can’t help but thinking I could of changed her life if I had just said something years ago when we were super close.
@@ayeshxd I’ve been trying. She’s not very responsive though as my messages get left on delivered for a while. I make up excuses in my head as to why she’s not replied but it still hurts knowing how I feel on the inside about her.
Her: “Want me to put on makeup to ‘impress’ you?” -> Me: “No, you look absolutely gorgeous the way you are”. Her: *Gets absolute butterflies and becomes flattered and verbally blushes*
Do you have a crush on someone right now?
Kinda 😅
My bff-
yes
I wish😔
I think, but I have no idea. More so a soft spot
As an overthinker, this is something that comes to mind a lot
Hello there.
@@Psych2go General Kenobi
Love your pfp dude
@@owens.studios you are a bold one
@@boom_shakalaka_boomshaka I love yours too :D
My Crush: I want to be more than just your friend.
Me: So let's be best friends.
Amazing!
@@Psych2go Thank you very much for all these videos, I never skip the ads because your great job.
Lmao I've been on the other end of this scenario about 158027 times
not only that, let's be best friends forever
we’ll live in the same house, adopt some cats, grow old together, the historians will call us best frie-
I usually just think everyone’s being friendly. I’m terrible at interpreting subtle hints
That's not a bad way to about life..
@@Psych2go That’s true! I love my friends and care deeply about them. Have met lots of great people the last couple years
Me too don’t worry
I've been studying my whole life to understand what others are thinking and why they think in certain ways. I've figured out whether someone likes me off the bat or not, and I've never really acted upon it. Oh well.
@@Psych2go a question, if my crush or female bestie hits me sometimes( for fun)but doesn’t hit her other guy frnds, does she have a crush on me?
Me when a friend is being friendly: wow I think they have a crush on me
Me when someone flirts with me: Wow they are really friendly
so so real
Haha that’s so real
Fun fact: humans are less than 50% accurate at determining whether someone is flirting with them or not!
100% broooo, i always see this
frfr 😂
after watching so many of these psych2go videos...
i can confirm...
I still have NO IDEA if my crush likes me back because she's been giving SO MANY MIXED SIGNALS
Sammee😭
here is a tip. Give up. Shes just playing with you, and waiting for you to make one single fatal mistake, which will be her golden oppertunity to dump and ghost you.
@@anderstermansen130 speaking from experience? Not everyone is the same.
Bro same.
UGH SAME AND IM JUST BAD AT PICKING UP SIGNALS IN GENERAL
this is the proof I need that nobody likes me
Don't think like that. I like you💙
Start with liking yourself more than you like other people. It’s attractive
Do you want more proof or is this good enough? ;)
It’s ok just keep trying
Hey I know how you feel I'm in the same boat as you
So much is usually conveyed through the eyes. You can pick up certain vibes that way.
The eyes never lie
Oh God I did this to my squish 🤦🏻 accidently.
(Squish = platonic crush for aro people)
Yes. I just met a girl most recently and as we were getting to know each other, I did notice that she was looking at me quite a bit and had her legs aimed towards me while sitting next to me.
I did find myself friend zoning her though since we just met and I didn’t want to give her wrong signals by looking at her straight in the eye while talking.
@@eredemia5912 what's aro?
@@mrsiracha7717 Aro is short for arromantic, wich is people who don't experience romantic atraction (or at least not in the same way everyone else does)
this is the proof I need that A) I'm treating somebody like a crush and B) this somebody doesn't like me
EXACTLY
nowdays all the kindness can be specify as a general friendly behaviour
0:31 - 1. They don't try to be near you Vs they do
0:56 - 2. Eye contact conversation vs from afar
1:26 - 3. Compliments sweet vs flirty
2:09 - 4. Dress their best vs Dress casual
2:49 - 5. Talk about crushes with you vs Annoyed when you do
3:31 - 6. Don't try to be alone with you vs They often try to be alone with you
Thank you time traveler
How did you do this so fast?
One month ago?!?!? How?!
how was this a month ago😂
ONE MONTH AGO?!
0:00 intro
0:32 1. They don't try to be near you Vs they do
0:57 2. Eye contact conversation vs from afar
1:27 3. Compliments sweet vs flirty
2:09 4. Dress their best vs Dress casual
2:49 5. Talk about crushes with you vs Annoyed when you do
3:31 6. Don't try to be alone with you vs They often try to be alone with you
4:06 outro
My (ex)girlfriend dumped me a few months ago. when school started back up, I noticed she started talking to me like we were still together so it gave me the impression that she was trying to lead me on still. A lot of what was mentioned in this video is what she has been doing/saying so I think this will help me truly figure things out with her. Thanks a lot
If I may, how long ago has this happened?
You gotta stay vigilant though, its best if you could have some bounderies first if you're unsure about it cause it is still a possibility that she just wants to be just friends with you rather than wanting you two be back in a relationship.
@@mrsiracha7717 we broke up back in late May/ Early June.
We had a Summer Band Camp in late July and school started a week after. She didn’t talk to me much during band camp but as soon as school started, she started talking to me like nothing happened.
@@Nashkurr Absolutely, I’m at the point where I can live without dating her despite still having love for her. Just wanted to know what I’d be getting myself into if I tried to slowly get back with her that way I don’t end up embarrassing myself in the end haha
@@justaidoni Understandable, i mean i can tell that you ended your relationship with her in a civil manner so there's a chance that she either considers that possibility or just being polite/friendly, it just depends on how you interpret it since people have different perspective when they socialize with someone.
If i were you, I'd rather ask and let her tell it to me directly if she's interested in getting back together or not, rather than being subtle about it. People are too complicated and to generalize exes with what they want with their past partners is not always 100% accurate and this causes misunderstandings if it continues, but this video is a good basis for self awareness I guess, so take notes just incase it matches.
I can easily notice when others have feelings for someone but not when it comes to me
I've recently confessed to my close friend at school, and I got rejected. It was ok at first, we agreed to still be friends, but as time goes on, the more painful I feel knowing that we'd never cross the barrier of "being friends". As I dig deeper, I find out that their rejection was mainly because they were probably still upset by their previous relationship at the time of my confession. Now we still chat normally, I enjoy every moment with them, but when I'm alone I just feel hurt by my thoughts.
Could anyone give me some advice on my case?
Also, to anyone reading this, have a great day!
Have a good day friend. Hope that you heal. I kinda feel ya. Got rejected by a friend too. Sucks. Still friends. Still hurts.
@Nightmare4 may she rest in peace. Your strength inspires us brother. May you be the best, have the best, and achieve the best in life. Good luck friend.
Me too I got rejected
Now that you gave it some time, you should think about it do you actually like the person or not, and think of your life with that person. Even though this is actually coming from a 6th grader, I have watched a lot of drama shows so I kind of know what you are going through. Also the person that rejected you just lost a great opportunity to have such a nice and kind person as their love of their life, and as you said that the person was going through a previous relationship break-up so maybe he/she might like you back and their mind is just not thinking right at that moment! So this is all the advice I can give you right now but I hope you have a great day!
You've done what you could. Now its time to let go. If they change their minds, they will let you know. Live your life the best you can and you will attract people who deserve your love :) Dont tell yourself any sweet lies. Face it head on. They will most likely end up with someone else in half a year anyway. So be prepared for that. Dont let it put you down. Be strong
I wish I had seen this last year. I thought my friend who I liked had a crush on me and when I told her my feelings she friendzoned me and I was totally heartbroken. It actually took me awhile to get over it. I’m almost 20 and I’ve been single my whole life and I thought someone finally had the same feelings towards me and as you can imagine that really hurt.
Hang in there! You will find a person that wants to be with you- even if it takes time, it will happen and it will be worth it. Good luck!
Single your whole life?
Almost 20? 👀
My brother in Christ, you are Just getting STARTED!
Now is the time to date often with the intent to Learn, meet nice people who can become good friends, and if need be... (try not to) make mistakes (but learn from them).
Be upfront though, if you meet a girl who seems nice (but not someone you're falling head over heels for) then ask them if they'd be interested in dating for practice, don't lead them on. They could teach you a lot, it could be good for both of you to come out of your shell and help eachother blossom and each be more prepared for someone special.
It's best to make minor, or even big mistakes and learn from them early while talking to girls who will move on and find happiness without much trouble, than to find someone special and blow it because you are not prepared.
Important things to note:
Love can Grow.
You may not initially feel much for date friends, but overtime little things about them may start to grow on you and you will care for and even sometimes miss them long after they are gone. That's okay, these are also good things to take time to work through/get used to Early in life.
Don't judge these girls or hold bitter feelings, (that won't be attractive when you Do meet 'the one' later) because that won't help you become able to love Yours unconditionally when the time comes, and this will allow you to see more positives in time as you do look back; you may find things to be fond memories that one day take precedence over the cringy mistakes we've made.
We are guys, we will make them, but don't be tooo afraid to either; the right girl might find you cute and endearing for some of your Perceived 'flaws' (things that aren't really wrong, just not as great as you wish you were)
However, when you do have real flaws, you must take responsibility and work on them. The cycle of personal improvement and progression goes ever on and will never cease; onward and upward!
As much as it hurts, it's best to move on but don't worry about a thing when the time is right, you'll eventually find someone with similar interests as you do. It just takes time. Also, it's okay to be single because I too have been single for quite a long time, so you're not the only one 🙂
@@FireRams_arisinglion coping mechanism 🙃🙃
That is how my friend feels because we told his crush he likes her but she doesn't like him and he was heart broken and mad at us. Nice name also
As someone socially stunted, I do many of these things without even crushing on the person. No wonder people tell me my natural demeanour is just flirty.
You're not alone. People often think I'm flirty when I'm trying to be friendly. But when I actually like someone I act really different too
This is how people mistaken me for being lesbian 🧎♀️
@Sneaky Squid So how do you act when you're around someone you like? I'm currently crushing on this girl I see sometimes she's always very playful and happy and smiles at me but I think that's just her personality. How are we supposed to know if someone like that is interested in us? Because if that kind of stuff happened from anyone else that would definitely be a sign of interest.
@@Woeisme2 Honestly it depends on the person but personally, I make extra effort to be closer to someone and even physically touch them in a socially appropriate way. It's not like I don't do these things with people I'm interested in platonically but yeah...idk it's hard to explain. My advice is to start reciprocating those flirty vibes and see how receptive she is.
When every single thing on here points to him seeing you as a friend, but you still can’t get over him 😢
I’ve been dating my crush for nearly a month now and 3-4 months ago, we talked about past crushes. It came up naturally and we both made it clear that we didn’t have a crush on anyone. Although, we both agreed that our past crushes taught us to never fall in love 😂 Well, we were talking to our crush about past crushes and casually hinting we’re single while making sure it didn’t sound like an open offer 😂
With my boyfriend, we were coworkers then eventually close friends for about two years, and there were always physical barriers. I'd come over to his place to watch stuff and there is always a pillow between us. Honestly, I took that as a sign he didn't like me at all. I'm shocked that he was trying to not scare me lol.
Ugh lucky. I like my coworker and sometimes I find him looking at me and he quickly turns away. I've talked to him a few times and everytime we have he always smiled and spoke softly but I honestly can't tell if he is into me or not😭
i have a guy i've started liking for a while (i liked around three years ago but it faded when i knew he liked a friend when she left school, i didn't thought of him as anything more than friends during online classes but started liking him again after going back to school after the pandemic), we have been friends for a lot of years and i think he recently started feeling the same way, he is always close with me, finds ways for our hands to always be touching, he tries to be where i am, never uses his phone while being near me, pats me and plays softly with my hair when im sad and lets me lay down in his shoulders and even recently when he went to a trip he bought me a big cute plush of a animal that us and our friends joke that its name starts the same as mine, and a large etcetera of other things... but i still think that he may just act nice since we are are the ones who relate more ofter (yes im an overthinker😞) i want to tell him that i like him and i've already set a date to tell him that would be in our graduation but i was also thinking about doing it in valentines because i don't know if he will stay in the same school we are at right now but im really afraid of rejection because i dont want to lose his friendship if he doesn't like me back and i like him so much that i spend a lot of time like a fool trying to find confidence in all the love related psych2go videos i can find but still can't,, please if someone can help me i'll really appreciate it😭😭
edit: he confessed to me today!!!
Well I definitely think that sounds like he is interested in you, especially if that isn’t something he did before! Sounds like a great guy and be sure not to let him slip away, take the chance while you have it. If your school holds dances, asking if he wants to go with you there can be a way to kinda hint that you like him, unless he asks you first 😉 😁
Pretty sure you're there already. He might need some time to consider, so don't expect him to give you an answer right then and there.
Make sure you let your feelings be known though. Life taught me that you will usually be left with regrets if you don't see something through. Even a rejection is a lot better than having to crawl through the hell that follows after too much hesitation.
So yeah, make sure to organize your feelings and confess to him.
@@idklol6518 he really is...thanks a lot for the advice we're having one in a few months so i'll have it in mind to ask him when the time comes!!😊
@@MrYamiBakura you're right its even more scarier that i don't get the chance to tell him, takes for the advice i'll take the chance when i get it thank you so much!🤧
Reading that whole thing to see the edit I feel like I read a romantic short story with a happy ending
Cheeto puffs 🏆
He’s gotten the link before we all did!
Yes. YES.
Ong bro
This dude is one month ahead of us.
💀 😂
+Psych2GoTv *Thanks for a set of things to notice (friend crush):*
0:32 (1) Proximity? (no yes)
0:57 (2) Distance for eye contact (close far)
1:27 (3) Style of compliments (sweet flirty)
2:09 (4) Dress (casual deluxe)
2:49 (5) Conversation on crushes? (yes no)
3:32 (6) Duet time alone? (no yes)
This confusing for me 😂
Casual and deluxe? 😂
DUET TIME ALONE
2:05 I’ve never felt more called out in my entire life, told my best friend who I’m head over heels for that their eyes were like orbs of chocolate comfort and that I could stare into them for hours lmao.
And that's how I learned my crush doesn't have a crush on me...
Even though I don't think I'll ever have a crush or be interested in having one. This type of video is always enjoyable to watch
ohhh u arrow?
I never had a crush either, but I love romance and I write many love stories so I watch these because they help me know what a crush feels but most importantly looks like; this way, I can write more realistically :D
@@cloudie_aergia right on
Hmmm, you might just need someone to vibe with. Nothing overtly serious/romantic or immediately obvious, but one day I hope that you are pleasantly surprised by something like this happening Naturally.
Don't have one. It's more pain than what it's worth.
just watched this video and figured out I am COMPLETELY in the friend zone
Lol same
I read this comment, and remembered i have no friends
Same
I'm neither a friend nor a crush. I'm just a friend with benefits
Sounds like you're in the best position possible.
Well I’m happy your not going though anything bad :D ❤️
@@Psych2go 😮 That's what she said!
Sorry, I watch The Office a bit much...
Thanks to this video I’ve noticed that she is always trying to be around me, at one point she chose to sit next to me over one of her friends. I really hope the feelings are reciprocal. Please keep making more videos like this, they help me so much!
As someone who's an intimate, awkward stare, flirty, always nice dressing, crush blabbermouth, person who prefers one-on-one's over groups... I must be really confusing for my friends lol
Couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. Especially with the complicated connection I have with my crush. Or past crush I believe. But I think it’s just being friendly at this point with these signs.
I really struggle with determining when people have feelings for me and so I've led more than my fair share of folks on... so this video is very helpful thank you!
I always appreciate the content in these videos but I have to tell you, I seriously love the animation in these videos!! I never knew how much I like this animation better than using random people in the video. I have severe ptsd and I have found that I get more focused on the random people than the content in the video and it’s all but impossible for me to remember what I just heard. With your visuals in your videos being animated, I can completely follow along and get the message along with the expressions that match! Please keep the animated videos attached to the postings! Thank you SO much!! 🙏❤️
On a side note, there's a big difference between liking someone and loving someone. Check if they treat you as just a crush or as their partner (bf/gf/wifey/husbando/ whatever it may be).
Side note on a side note; I check this channel out while doing something and listen to topics that interest me while doing the "important stuff" and I actually become more productive, so yep, thanks and will definitely recommend.
I dont really compliment people that much unless i genuinely mean it, so me in a discord call say "You laugh is Pretty cute....." in a very quiet voice is literally the biggest giveaway that i like my crush
Yeah this is accurate. This girl I’ve known for ages showed pretty much all these signs and now we’re going on a date next week
Good job! 👍.
@@thegreypath1777 Update: happily been dating for a year and 2 months now!
I really like these comparison type videos! Keep up the great work Psych2Go!❤️
Suggest next topic :)
If she sees this -- Yes, I like you. I really do.
You (my crush) are the only person who's exactly a soulmate to me, too.
Our first meet-up showed that and you have at least 4 of these signs on me.
Huh
The line " just a friend" makes me go crazy
2:45 100% agreed with this
Saw this video and finally gathered the courage to propose to my crush. She said Yesss!!! Thank you Psych2Go😇
Proposed to her? Gosh dang you went fast.
@@mrpineapple3942
This person is a player
@@CesarSaladBowl yes
watching your videos are like I'm talking with a very close friend and just chatting it's fun to binge watch all the videos
4:10 yesn't
Real asf
Can I suggest a vid idea :"What to say, or do, when you are afraid of telling someone you love, or have a crush on, your feelings for fear they might misunderstand, freak out and/or shun you away." I mean u don't have to but... It would help.
I know i’m just a friend. I have to be realistic with myself. However that doesn’t mean that I will not lose hope. We are still young and our family’s are forming relationships. I’m glad he only sees me as a friend for now though, it leaves a lot of room for us to grow our relationship as we become adults. I care about him very much, I wasn’t initially attracted to him, but the day we met it just clicked. We compliment each otherwise so nicely, it’s crazy.
She's super shy and She seems to be an introvert which would be perfect.
This actually helps me with knowing what not to do so that my crush never finds out haha
Ladies,
If he is talking to you more than he must, he probably has a crush on you.
how so? I thought some guys like to chitchat too?
Really nice consept actually!! Making comparements between opposite situations, not only a great idea but also useful and easy to apply on daily life
When they’re meeting everything in this list but I’m still scared and not willing to ask them out
i know how you feel... i have known him too long and i'm terrified.
Dear Psych2Go,
For all that you are, for everything you do, for all that you've done, just for making my life more magical, you have my unconditional support... 🧡
Shame I don't have any friends to begin with...
How about the 4 likes you just got?
@@Psych2go pity likes
@@ADMICKEY touche..
I'll be ur friend?
@@ADMICKEY as you have no likes he probably has more friends than you he has a much nicer heart to
i could listen to your voice forever
Fr
They're my comfort channel 💗
This channel is, in my opinion INCREDIBLE 😊 and I still watch it today!
i asked my friend out, who i thought was flirting with me, and turns out he was just joking lmao. we are still friends
I always felt like my best friend had feelings for me when we first met. He waited until everyone left before he came to talk to me. I often catch him staring from far away but he has trouble keeping eye contact when he is talking to me. I asked him about it and he says he gets shy in front of a beautiful woman and tells me to not always be so charming, I just take it as a joke.
My crush is my best friend, and she knows about my crush on her, but she’s straight.
My feelings are forever unrequited, lol
We are very close friends, even call each other Waifus, so she has most of these signs, but not all of them. QwQ
Ever went on a date with other women?
bruh i had a crush on my bsf and had these signs but then she ended up dating my opposite gender and obviously don’t like me but we are still friends and i accidentally told her i used to like her during a argument and she said the same lmfao
Oh man. I’m sorry to hear about that. I hope you do find a lover in the future.
Lol ive been in that position before, and it destroyed me. It wasn't a nice situation, it even became worse but i didn't even notice until i started therapy. We're not close anymore fortunately
omg same situation
As someone who currently does not have a crush. I do ALL of these things with ALL of my friends.
My friend: "I wish I could date somebody JUST LIKE YOU!"
Me: "I am single and I am interested IN dating you!"
My friend: "Can't be just stay friends?"
My reaction- Fed up being taken for granted and taken advantage of SO I just stop talking to my friend COMPLETELY.....AFTER ALL it isn't like this relationship IS GOING anywhere!! And Never talk to them again!!
It’s been a while since I’ve been here, and I’m happy to see the channel is almost at 10M subscribers! On the topic of the video, I just found out my crush was just a friend without telling her I actually liked her, so that was decent. My heart also was beating unhealthy fast, probably like 185-200 I’d guess. I didn’t really feel sad about it, so that’s cool, but now I feel like I ruined the friendship, so I’ve been down for a few days.
Good news! I didn’t ruin the friendship!
@@speedrunout4299 what happened next?
if you happen to ask that question, they see you as friend.
How certain are you on that? ;)
@@Psych2go about 95%
@@mucaravci there’s that 5% !!
@@Oopzitzgabby glass half full type i see :)
I don't agree
That's truthfully helpful and hope I can meet more nice people in future ☺️☺️
This is INSANELY helpful (even a year later) but i now learned that someone has a crush on me they fit all the categories and 5 mins ago the told me :D
Super fun watching these kinds of videos and connecting these sorts of details to fictional characters talking to the player :) makes me feel like i'm wanted
There's someone in my class that I always catch quickly looking at me, and I've never talked to them, and they've never talked to me. Weird
The hard part is when they do all these things, but they only want to be friends
This is literally proof that I'm 'that one friend' who's crushing. 😭✋️
My crush shows some of these signs but not many,,,
I'm pretty sure she's in love with her best friend so-
I wouldn’t say that about her being in love with her girl-friend, unless she is a self proclaimed lesbian lol. Signs that girls like each other are wayy different than the signs that a girl liking a boy may be. Normal girl- friends will exhibit almost all of these signs, even though they dont like each other :) hope this helps and i hope you get the one you are after
@@idklol6518 Ahh yes
This video helped me realise that I see them as a friend instead. Uno reverse.
For the first point, I actually get close to people I wanna be friends with, but I get far when I like someone
Literally, since I know one of my friends, I started thinking ''What if she...?'' ''Will she...?'' ''Why does she...?''
And I still don't have the answer.
0:50 aah, so That’s when “Love doesn’t know no personal space” comes in 😂
What if she tells me about her day randomly? We haven’t talked in a week but… think the feeling is mutual, great feeling since it seems like she’s opening up a bit and being vulnerable
Thank God I have no friends, don't have to worry about crushes either!!!
Brilliant move
sometimes they like each other but they don´t dare to make the first move cause they can lose a good friend
I know my crush is never gonna watch this and think of me afterwards.. :'
Number 5-
HOW DID YOU KNOW
My crush is SUPER annoyed when I talk about my fictional crushes.
I hope my crush see this. ❤
Sometimes they can show nothing at all and still have a crush.
True some people are good at hiding it Lol
Or they're just teasing you
@@Thunderchild-gz4gc if you tease someone that could mean that you like them too though
Sometimes these signs can be ambiguous if you are very close friends.
As someone who is currently going through this crisis…this was perfectly timed. Has this been done with crushes who are long distance? Because that’s also part of my situation.
3:39 they be having a seizure. This helped as I am entering that stage where I actually find girls attractive and not "Stinky poos" as author Jeff Kinney once put it.
I didn't expect much anyway at this point but eh, trying is not so bad
Good luck!
I’m nothing to them, we’ve never had a full length conversation 🤨
Act on your feelings, else nothing will move on!
The running away really got me lol 😆 😂
Bruh I flirt with everyone and physical closeness is just something I do. Also like the way my friends and I say hello to each other as we pass each other in the halls at school is just to stare at each other and wiggle our eyebrows and/or shoot a lil snap gun thing.
I had so many crushes and none of them liked me the way I did. 😔
Felt...
What a sad world we live in huh. :(
Tell me about it.
@@Lonevessel yesss
What u mean the way u like them explain
I walk alone
I'm at peace when I'm on my own
It can be hard it can be tough
Chasing greatness can be a lonely road
I don't move barriers between us
I don't like eye contact
I don't usually give compliments
I dress casual around them. I do put effort into my look though, but I do that with everyone so it's nothing special.
We talk about our crushes with eachother, but I do sometimes get annoyed when she's only talking about that one person
We do hang out together a lot
I treat them as a friend, but I've liked them for quite a while (strong feelings)
If your somewhere and they walk up to you with a friend but change sides of the friend to stand in the direction your body is pointing is that a sign/thing
Hey nice vid! Does it count if we just have like 3 months since we met each other, also we don't hang out very often, but when we do, its always just the two of us. One day she even told me if I wanted her to skip a class so we could just go for a talk. And every time we get togheter other people seem to just go away and let us alone. She also invites me to lunch and every time I ask her out she is pretty responsive, she also seem to like everything i like, she also have complimented me a couple of times and noticed every single change i make to my appearance, heck she even knows my second name even when i dont tell anyone i have a second name!. But theres a little problem where i think she is just being nice and polite with me, and that is the fact that she recently told me she just got a new boyfriend. Also weird because when im with her she dont really like to talk about him and when i talk about him she says that she accepted him because he is nice, but bothing more after that. I dont usually see her too often, so we just text each other, she says that shes bored and i tell her to dont worry im gonna make time to see her, so she says that yes whenever i want to hang out she is gonna be there, man this is so confusing. From my perspective i think she is just being nice with me. But the fact that she doesn't want me to even know her boyfriend exists I see it as weird. And also the fact that she just worries about how my day and my life is going on like we were life time friends, when we just met a few months ago and dont even hang out that much. Hehe
In our country its really normal for friends to jokingly flirt each other or used such words for gf or bf on their friends. So just great now i have more confusion 😃
Which country is that? Sounds ideal!
which country is it?
@@Psych2go its Philippines!
@@akanoui2134 heck no. In my experience it's not. Walang ganon sa pinas hahaha
@@lucoa460 really? But i wonder in my province all these people call each other "bhe" or something like that, they even say "hey kiss me on the cheek" on a joking way, my friend on Taytay Rizal said she experienced the same too🤷
I have a crush on someone but I try to be away from them as much as possible to avoid contact. But I like them.
Ya, it's clear that he doesn't like me🙂. He has loved a girl for some 6 years until he got to know that she doesn't like him that way. I really don't know how a person can distinguish between whether we really like someone or we are just friends. Anyways, he doesn't like me and that's it. It will really be difficult for me to move on from him cause he's an awesome guy mostly girls would like.
Hey! Having a nice day?💙
You too!
As an autistic person it sucks not picking up on small things.
My crush use to jump into me and give me a big hug, we always use to hang out with each other and whenever someone would mention about us dating she’d brush it off and say it would ruin our relationship
All that was when I was 14 and now I’m 21 now wondering if I should of said something back then and wondering if she had a crush on me.
I keep trying to make plans to meet up with her but her life is busy now and it feels like too much time has passed. She’s now also in a happy relationship after 3 or 4 bad relationships. I can’t help but thinking I could of changed her life if I had just said something years ago when we were super close.
I think you should still meet up with her
Life is short
@@ayeshxd I’ve been trying. She’s not very responsive though as my messages get left on delivered for a while.
I make up excuses in my head as to why she’s not replied but it still hurts knowing how I feel on the inside about her.
@@TheMikey2207 aw is there anybody u know who knows her?
@@ayeshxd no there’s no mutual friends me and her both have :)
@@TheMikey2207 did u try calling her
Indeed I do 0:04 ; u ;
Her: “Want me to put on makeup to ‘impress’ you?”
->
Me: “No, you look absolutely gorgeous the way you are”.
Her: *Gets absolute butterflies and becomes flattered and verbally blushes*
me realizing I do this often to my crush:👁👄👁