Not really. I mean if you like a person why would you answer like you're guilty for liking them? In some situation, the instinct you're talking about applies on when they are guilty/embarrassed for liking someone or they don't have any thoughts on having a relationship just yet.
Do people with the guts to ask that question actually exist? I have never seen or even imagined someone ever asking that question to someone. Who goes “do you have a crush on me?” Irl? I’ve only ever seen that in animes and stuff.
Timestamps 1). They ask about your relationship status 0:36 2). They express their care through preening 1:04 3). They lean towards you 1:39 4). Nothing can come between us 2:09 5). They have nicknames for you 2:32 6). The way they're texting changes 3:02 7). They flirt with you 3:35 8). You can feel your friendship changing 3:58 Hope this helps you out.💙💙💙💙
Be still careful. Some people are naturally caring. Some others like to flirt... or are seducers. Especially online, since they feel safe. Once you ask for things to get real, like meeting, you might be sorely disappointed.
ik this comment is a year old, but have u heard about alterous attraction? it is basically neither entirely platonic nor romantic but also both at the same time
@@iawgnialhuukadnas don't feel bad, I'm swimming through these a year later too. As someone with DID, I find the term name endearing. Both and different at the same time
Platonic love is one of the strongest types of love, while romantic love is one of the weakest types of love. When a guy and a girl are best friends, they won't date or be in a romantic relationship with each other since they know it wouldn't work since they are too close. That proves that romantic love is inferior to platonic love. The best feeling for many girls is being able to have platonic guy friends that are like brothers to them. Most girls prefer having platonic guy friends over a boyfriend/husband. Many girls would choose their platonic male best friend over their boyfriend/husband and give more importance to them. Most girls seem to be more comfortable being around their platonic male best friends than they are being around their boyfriends/husbands. People are closer to their platonic best friends than they are to their romantic partner. People usually love their platonic best friend more than their romantic partner. Platonic love is actually real, while romantic love is fake. Romantic relationships are actually a downgrade compared to platonic relationships.
Hey don't completely give up though. Ik that as an introvert love is difficult cause interactions can be uncomfortable but sometimes love really is a great thing.
Watching this video while dating the guy who was practically my best friend for over a year before we started dating, realizing both of us did so many of these
That’s really cute! I’m glad to hear your relationship started off as friends before you both turned it into a relationship! How is everything going now?
My best friend did literally all of these and I did them back, yet I still wasn't sure if the feelings were reciprocated or if it was a joke. We've been dating for about 5 days and are in a happy relationship! 🥰 we even figured out that we started liking eachother on the same exact day!
I’m actually in a situationship with someone right now so a lot of these are accurate. We both know we’re more than friends but we haven’t made our relationship official yet. Hopefully it’ll happen
Some people (like myself) are just really dense when it comes to people liking us, as we think we are worth less or not good enough to date some people. Just tell him.
Though no person comes to my mind, and I'm single, this does make me just think of my cat. Though he does not talk in Human, he communicates in cat, Often sitting close, looking intensely at me, wanting my attention often. x
Kittys wanting food!!!! The ONLY time my baby rubs against my leg is when she's wanting fed. Saying that when a cat stares intensely and blinks slowly apparently this means they love u. Cute.😻
My best friend since highschool and I have had on and off feelings for eachother since we met. She's super open about her feelings for me and it kinda just makes me feel crappy. Cuz I don't feel the same way anymore. We both value our friendship alot but I think I value it too much to have a relationship potentially ruin it. Still glad that I at least have a friend as close as her🙏
if you did reciprocrate her feelings i'd tell you to just go for it cause eventually you'd probably regret not doing so but unfortunately thats not the case :(
When I thought my friend liked me I just straight up asked him. If you are really friends then they should be forgiving of an awkward question like that. So go ahead and just ask them.
That's good or bad depending on the individual person Also just cuz u have all these signs doesn't mean u HAVE to be more friends maybe the other person is just really friendly Either way check
I have had a crush on like 2 or 3 people in high school. And I'd always block my feelings out by making best friend sort of relationship between us. I become their wingman, to cut my feelings off completely. I know it won't ever work out and I have a lot of insecurities, and that is why I have never confessed to them. I have become so good at suppressing my feelings, it surprises me. The name of the person I used to have a crush on, now a good friend of mine, starts with S. I know I am late lol.
this is meeee!!!! I can't be friends with guys, cause I'm just a naturally very kind, and awkward person, and they always mistake it for flirting. And in reality, the last thing I'm thinking about is being more than friends with them.
I can just agree with the last one. I had to explain to some of my friends that we are not a couple. It seems like even our parents think that. I DON'T KNOW!
Thanks for this cute video 😚 Well I have realized that: 1. Nobody has this kind of relationship with me (bummer) 2. I was doing all of them (except the last one and the flirting part) with all of my friends😳🤣
i do all these things with her, and she knows i fell in love with her too cause i eventually decided to tell her everything and it broke my heart and still does tbh but we’re still best friends, and there was this tension in the air but we decided it’s okay that she knows about my feelings even though i won’t ever have her, for us what was more important is that our friendship doesn’t end cause of a stupid thing like that but i would do ANYTHING to make her mine
Currently started having feelings for one of my close HS guy friend I've known since 6th grade (I'm a Freshman) and ive been kind of getting closer and doing all of these signs, and he has too in which everytime we have class together he automatically sits next to me even when his friends are in the room too. We would get in trouble alot for talking during study hall and laughing, but it was honestly worth it. Even though others from our friend group were in the room, it would always be him and I during that time. Recently, like probably twoish months ago when it was still a bit warm out, he started to avoid me and only talk to me like one day, but only with texting. It would suck because he would ignore me days on end, and I would see him online all the time. So, when I told my friend about it which she obviously knows now that I like him, even though she probably figured I did because she is apart of our friend group, she talked to him about it infront of me when we hung out a couple days ago. We all chatted jokingly about him ignoring me though, but I could see in his eyes he felt a little guilty when we looked at eachother. I am talking to him more now, but it just seems like all of him isnt fully there which is very concerning. I am not sure what is going on, but he still gives all of these signs whenever we talk now, so it's very hard to read him when he gives off more-than-friends when we sit in our study hall together, then avoids me the next day. Is there any way you could possibly make a video about this? I'm sure I'm not the only one that deals with these kinds of signs, and of course mixed signals. It would be nice to get the message out there for the others that are very confused!
for some people, mixed signals is essentially confirmation they like you lol. One of my friends is super friendly with everyone-she hugs, holds hands, etc. But ever since she developed a crush on one of our friends, she started avoiding him in the hallways and occasionally ghosting him online. Different people show romantic interest differently, but mixed signals can sometimes mean they like you; they’re just nervous being around you bc of that :)
@@tesseract138 Thank you for the information! I told one of my friends who goes to another school the same thing last night, and she said, "Girl, he literally likes you, go for it." So, seeing a complete stranger say the same thing, and all of my friends basically- I'm just extremely terrified, I might actually tell him I like him now. Thank you so much for responding! ♡
My best friend showed these signs at one point years back so i risked it and asked them out! It didn't gonwell and they told me to never talk to them again. Wasn't sure what i did wrong so i left them alone like they asked. Years later they apologized and wanted to be friends again. We became best friends... again. It was great we even became roomates. Became close again. I again mentioned feelings and she left.... again. Honestly it was my fault that 2nd time. I shouldn't have said anything
Honestly I also used to have a crush on my best friend… I confessed and it didnt change a thing. Like if your friend was a true one, they would’ve maybe tried to look over the fact that you like them? Or maybe if theres awkwardness going on they would've tried to solve the issue with you together? you know like best friends do..
Dually noted and addressed. Now that they have been made clear to be I shall ensure to not repeat the mistakes. Remember kids, no one can hurt you of you don't talk to anyone.
🦋🦋🦋 I've had too much drama between my friends and me. The fact is I've noticed a lot of people flirting with me.... And alot of them have these signs. It's now a little awkward 😅 🦋🦋🦋
@@Psych2go yes.... I did date one of my friends, and in the relationship I didn't do as well as I did with being friends. My behavior was different... But I am in a new relationship trying to do better and be a better partner with my new partner. I am changing my behavior to be the best person I can be... 😅😊
I feel quite different now. I just hung out with my wife-to-be because she wanted to. Being with her was "meh". But she grew on me. It wasn't until 20 years with her that I actually felt love for her. Until then, she was this person I lived with, trusted, and cared for. But actually feeling love. /shrug Even at this point, the thought of her leaving me doesn't scare me. I'd wish her the best. I guess this is why I'm aromatic and aplatonic. I enjoy being with her, I care for her, I want her to be happy, but I don't feel a need to be with her. But it's nice when we are.
@@mongoofe6294 She knows this is how I've felt. I'm a fairly straight-forward kind of person. She knows I've always cared for her and that's all that really matters to her.
I felt like we were just friends for a while... and then something shifted and he's been very shy and nervous around me. He still finds ways to flirt, but I can tell something has changed. Like he has realized he has feelings, and I have just realized that too. But we are so shy and scared to make moves because this is new. Ugh I don't know what to do
I flirt a little bit with a girl friend of mine but I already stated to her that I only see her as a friend and that I already have a crush on someone else. But I am proud of myself for having the confidence to flirt which I have never done in over 5 years.
“6. The way their texting Changes.” Well, yes, their texting has changed, they stopped texting so frequently and now are being short. 👀 That’s good, right?? 😂😂😂
Im the toxic crush, I'll send them custom quizzes that're like "What's your favorite Stellaris empire?" And include questions about crushes, and afterwards spy on all their answers
There are a lot of things I want to point out IF this in the "terms of wanting to be a couple" Cuz almost all of the examples are applicable to friendship. Even friends want to know your relationship status (like you want to know more about them so you dig information), invade your personal space, make sure they are properly cared off, and call you nicknames.... I also do this to my friends since I like them so much I give what they deserve to get from me. I don't immediately push them out of their comfort zone, I slowly reach out and drag them with me. So if you really want to know what the person feel about you, you should consider asking them... Prioritize communication because in relationship other than love, you should focus on stability. If you're still not sure what they feel about you, then know how you feel about that person. I feel that it's kind of awkward and it just builds up negativity if you're that worried how its going to ruin your friendship. Anyways, if they are REALLY important to you then you'll make an effort on maintaining that friendship even if they confessed or you confessed.
My highschool story(a little long) Like in my highschool there was a really cute guy..So one fine day I was having my exams and so according to roll number I was sitting with my crush's male best friend, I remember when I kept my head down on the table my crush who was sitting a little far away from me (in another column)did the same so he was basically mirroring me and I was like OMG😯 and his best friend who was sitting with me he was continuously looking and observing both of us left and right and I could actually see that he was mirroring me and this happened for four times in 3 days he was mirroring me all the time my crush even teased me in a healthy & funny way for my wrong answer in paper after the exam was over and I couldn't think that whether he likes me or not but I think I am too late to think about it now and I was so happy but now my high school has ended😭♥️ •For those who know why he did that pls leme knowww...but it's late🥺💕 Thank u for reading my story so patiently ❤️
@@palaksri7908 😳❤ That was so cute...Let me tell you what I think. It actually depends on the person because if he was just that kind of person, the type that likes to play with people to see their reaction because it's entertaining, then he might just want to tease you to see how you react. It's not a bad trait, but you can get wrong signals sometimes. There's also a situation where he liked you so he mirrored and teased you during that time. However...here's the catch even if he liked you, he didn't took the step to initiate to ask you out so he probably wasn't ready to be with you. I think you are also wasn't ready, because you won't be commenting this if you confessed 🤭. Don't worry about the missed opportunities. You can just treasure your sweet experience with your crush. ❤😊
My highschool crush storyyyyy I remember we had our exams🙂 And I was sitting next to him at a distance of around 50cm with no one in between us❤️ And we had our first exams in which we were supposed to write essays, applications etc. Basically a paper which requires no cheating..but i remember very well that after completing his paper he looked at me and without uttering a single word he signaled at me asking if I needed any help and trust me that day I fell for him even harder!!!🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️ Next day we had our literature paper and we had objective questions...😃 I knew all the answers so i was busy completing my paper and in the last 5 min i looked at him and signaled whether he wants to ask something And he made such a cute puppy face🥺🥺🥺 because he didn't knew a lot of answers so one by one i told him the answers with fingers😂😂 And after the exams were over There was a girl behind him to whom he had asked the answers just to confirm..and that girl told different answers from mine....but my crush didn't questioned me anything❤️...and when we stepped out of the examination hall he confirmed the answers with his friends....and hell yesss all my answers were correct I was in the parking area taking my bicycle out to go to home then he came in the parking area to take his bicycle with his group of friends and as soon as he noticed me he shouted "Palak has helped me with so many questions" and I looked at him And then he said "thank you" In front of all his friends and school mates I being a very shy girl Silently said "Welcome"🙈🙈🙈 But i still don't know about his feelings nevermind highschool ended I just consider myself a common girl whom he was nice to,cause he is nice to everyone especially girls🙂❤️ 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 Thank you for your opinions 🤠
There's the thing. He knows that I like him and I've even asked him do I have a chance. He said yes. He sometimes texts me first (sometimes when i text first he doesn't anwer but that's fine) and usually it's just a small talk like " hi hi are you okay how is your day going", but we've talked anout deeper things too like our dreams etc. We've also talked in school once but it was just a simple "hi". He acts all stressed and kinda anxious around me, but I often find him looking at me from afar and we make eye contact pretty often. I know he's a honest introvert (I am too) and he would tell me if I would be annoying, but he never did.
I really did feel happy hearing my name from someone else today! I suddenly woke up and feel more seen now, thankyou! i really needed that and appreciated it Psych2Go
Okay….number two….I disagree, I know people that help make sure you look nice, even if it’s lint . I do it with all my friends and family as a way to show that I care about them, and they do it to. It became normal in my life. Again, it may not always be the case.
I have a question, are these signs this guy I’ve became recently close with likes me? I’m not a lovey person and I’ve never really been interested in it 1- Texts me first often 2- Invites me to group chats or to meet his friends 3- Whenever I’m not at an event, he tells me things that make it seem like he wanted me to go, how I would have lots of fun and we could spend time together 4- Compliments my outfits 5- very funny! 6- I’ve been having tough times and he allows me to vent and I let him vent. So we’re like eachothers support in a way 7- offers me food
I feel like I'm too good at hiding my feelings whether good or bad... Because, I don't inhibit any of these characteristics to my crush at all I try to not look into their eyes because I feel unstable when I do. I don't try having any mutual touches, I don't even often have that with my besties or Parents I don't have the courage to flirt or even talk to them normally even though we are close friends I feel that butterfly and that smile creeps into my face when I talk to them but I don't show it at all It's complicated, I'm complicated
1: yes the person is trying to tell me my crush but i was to scared to tell😭 3:Hmm im not sure but yes i am try to get close into them❤️ 5:Yep but not all the time🥳 6:Hmmmm hardly talk in online but in real life✨ 7:Uhh yeah🥴 8:Mhm we are slowly getting close but im just waiting the perfect time🎉
Years ago my best friend told me she had feelings for me… I told her I would think about it and the subject never came up again.. I think about it all the time and I’ve reminded her of it before and she told me she forgot but I doubt it.. she is completely obsessed with me and she tells me that I’m all she can think about in school and that I come up in every conversation and everyday she does those match maker quizzes with me as the other partner… the bad thing about this is I’m aroace I absolutely adore her but I don’t know how to deal with the attention and I don’t know what to do.. right now my plan is to get married to her platonically and she can have romantic feelings I wouldn’t mind spending the rest of my life with her and even adopting kids.. what do you guys think I should do? So far I just consider her my girlfriend and we already (jokingly) made plans to marry each other when we get older even though to me we are just friends.. I would do anything to keep this friendship but I’m unsure if it’s mutually platonic anymore. Lol this turned into a long long rant
As a fellow aroace, that can either turn out great or horribly. I've heard of people getting platonically married, but usually there is no romantic feelings between the two. They usually just saw each other as really close friends. So unless you're ABSOLUTELY SURE with your friend being fine with the idea of you two getting married despite the absence of romantic feelings you have for her, I don't recommend it. It can deeply hurt the both of you and become very messy. Either way, it's your life so talk to her and see what works.
Maybe you should discuss the possibility of a queer platonic relationship with your friend where you have platonic or possibility alterous attraction (not necessarily) and she has romantic attraction if you feel comfortable to do so, because maybe then you could outline your particular relationship in the way it is sort of between a platonic or romantic relationship? Not trying to tell you what to do but then maybe you could both have more clarity on what the relationship is and means so that decisions like getting married would come with more awareness of the situation.
This is the first time I encounter the words "Aroace" Did you talk about her about your current situation? Explained it to her in a way she understand your condition? Like tell her the things you wouldn't be able to do. I'm not sure if she's the type who would understand, but if you think she couldn't then... move on to what do you think. CAN and WILL you be able to spend your whole life with her? Despite the arguments and misunderstanding you'll have in the future? Think about it deeply no need to rush, these thoughts and your answer will determine your possibility continuing your relationship. IF you want to stay friends, I advise you to just reject her. You adore her but COULDN'T handle it... so what's up with you holding her back to move on. If one rejection isn't enough then continue rejecting her until she gives up. Sorry for being harsh, I just want to point out that in a relationship, a person SHOULD be able to handle their relationship and WILL be able to compromise or live with their partners' flaws.
@@kurisitiina256 I did explain it to her and I’m pretty sure she understood. I’m pretty sure I could stand spending the rest of my life with her. I’ve already known her my whole life and we have never had any huge disagreements but yes I think it would be best to reject her when the time comes. So far I’m gonna keep her as a friend and if the subject comes up again I will try and show her I’m not up for it. She hasn’t brought it up in a serious matter since I told her I’m aroace so I doubt it would come up seriously again.
J (he’s my boyfriend 🥰) Before we started dating some of our friends though we were siblings so we started to act like it. But it slowly developed into something more 😊 and now I’m happier than ever with him❤️❤️❤️
My strange nickname for my crush is Emo Telitubi. ALR, LET ME EXPLAIN. So we were in gym one time, and we were out on the playground for gym. He was playing catch or something with his friends. I went over by him with my two friends Aaliyah and Giana, wich since that day I started growing apart from them, wich were not gonna talk abt. But he had his shirt over his head, and he was calling himself an Emo Telitubi. So ever since then, I’ve been calling him Emo Telitubi😂
I feel like a girl that you have as a best friend makes you get a crush on her. As a girl same goes around if you have a boy as your best friend. If it comes to same genders together either as a boy or girl, you don’t have a love relation ship but rather a close friendship
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I’m just delusional at this point 💀
182 likes and no comment lemme fiix that 😊
If youre delusional then i must be high 💀
YESSSS
Your pfp says so XD
Saaaame 😂
It’s kinda a instinct to say no when that person asks you if u like them, even if you do like them
IKR, I did the same when this guy asked me out, and I said no (and I now regret it ;-;)
im a lithromantic so yeah
Not really. I mean if you like a person why would you answer like you're guilty for liking them?
In some situation, the instinct you're talking about applies on when they are guilty/embarrassed for liking someone or they don't have any thoughts on having a relationship just yet.
@@demonpg4164 u can just ask them yourself again
Do people with the guts to ask that question actually exist? I have never seen or even imagined someone ever asking that question to someone. Who goes “do you have a crush on me?” Irl? I’ve only ever seen that in animes and stuff.
Alternative Title:
8 signs it was all in your head
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My biggest problem is I can't tell if someone is flirting with me or not. So I just assume they are friendly with everyone.
Same
same ong
same
My biggest problem is that I show zero affection to another person other than my family, therefore I will be a sad lonely bastard my whole life.
Same
Timestamps
1). They ask about your relationship status 0:36
2). They express their care through preening 1:04
3). They lean towards you 1:39
4). Nothing can come between us 2:09
5). They have nicknames for you 2:32
6). The way they're texting changes 3:02
7). They flirt with you 3:35
8). You can feel your friendship changing 3:58
Hope this helps you out.💙💙💙💙
Thanks my dude
Thank you ^^
Thank you! ❤
You're the best!!
9). Get a friend first ;-;
Be still careful. Some people are naturally caring. Some others like to flirt... or are seducers. Especially online, since they feel safe. Once you ask for things to get real, like meeting, you might be sorely disappointed.
Thanks, this helps me a lot! And other’s..❣️
So true.
@MellowLikesYou nice 4 u! But it’s not that easy 4 everyone right! (Remember that) i mean this in a nice way.. :)
But he subtly expressed his intentions to see me irl multiple times (we’re from the same town but met online)
It feels like we’re stuck in a limbo of being something more than friends but less than being romantic
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ik this comment is a year old, but have u heard about alterous attraction? it is basically neither entirely platonic nor romantic but also both at the same time
@@iawgnialhuukadnas don't feel bad, I'm swimming through these a year later too. As someone with DID, I find the term name endearing. Both and different at the same time
Platonic love is one of the strongest types of love, while romantic love is one of the weakest types of love. When a guy and a girl are best friends, they won't date or be in a romantic relationship with each other since they know it wouldn't work since they are too close. That proves that romantic love is inferior to platonic love.
The best feeling for many girls is being able to have platonic guy friends that are like brothers to them. Most girls prefer having platonic guy friends over a boyfriend/husband. Many girls would choose their platonic male best friend over their boyfriend/husband and give more importance to them. Most girls seem to be more comfortable being around their platonic male best friends than they are being around their boyfriends/husbands.
People are closer to their platonic best friends than they are to their romantic partner. People usually love their platonic best friend more than their romantic partner. Platonic love is actually real, while romantic love is fake. Romantic relationships are actually a downgrade compared to platonic relationships.
As an introvert giving up on love has been the best decision I have ever made.
Amen brutha
Hey don't completely give up though. Ik that as an introvert love is difficult cause interactions can be uncomfortable but sometimes love really is a great thing.
It's giving romantic killer anime vibes
wish i could give up on love T-T
@@sleepyneko2850 lol
Watching this video while dating the guy who was practically my best friend for over a year before we started dating, realizing both of us did so many of these
That’s really cute! I’m glad to hear your relationship started off as friends before you both turned it into a relationship! How is everything going now?
@@Psych2go going great! Haha talking about moving in together in about a year!
Aw so cute!!!
@@Psych2go do u have discord ? I wanna ask something about my crush
@@wifphoria mhm! The discord is in the channel about page
(I had to literally check this to make sure)
My best friend did literally all of these and I did them back, yet I still wasn't sure if the feelings were reciprocated or if it was a joke. We've been dating for about 5 days and are in a happy relationship! 🥰 we even figured out that we started liking eachother on the same exact day!
I want this to happen to me
OMG , I am so happy for you
@@Twilife tysm 🫶
awwwwe,congrats :)
@@chosenonepo7999 same
Best friends to lovers is the best kind of love ❤ because besides the surface they understand you for you just beautiful 🦋
For the first 17, ive never wanted a relationship and now as an 18 year old these videos changed my mind. This video warmed my heart..
I’m actually in a situationship with someone right now so a lot of these are accurate. We both know we’re more than friends but we haven’t made our relationship official yet. Hopefully it’ll happen
Maybe try talking about it in the future for them or now if you feel confident, if all these signs are accurate then its a really good sign :)
I wish for the best for both of you m8 ❤️🔥
Waiting for the update even if it takes months 🙃⌛
Wish you both the best and and dude just ask her out alr hehe
Dang I feel that
"they ask about your relationship status"
No need. They already know. They will almost always know
i genuinely couldn’t make it more obvious i like him
Ikr
Yep
Some people (like myself) are just really dense when it comes to people liking us, as we think we are worth less or not good enough to date some people. Just tell him.
Me realizing that I've been doing most of these subconsciously with my crush
GULP.
@@Psych2godid u know that I can gulp so loud in quiet places it sounds like a fart 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LITERALLY SAME
How to feel alone in 10 min or less
ALT title.
@@Psych2goFRRR
Though no person comes to my mind, and I'm single, this does make me just think of my cat. Though he does not talk in Human, he communicates in cat, Often sitting close, looking intensely at me, wanting my attention often. x
Kittys wanting food!!!! The ONLY time my baby rubs against my leg is when she's wanting fed. Saying that when a cat stares intensely and blinks slowly apparently this means they love u. Cute.😻
My two cats love me more than any human has ... and it's not just for food.
The only true love in this world is that of a pet. Humans are fake as hell.
Hahahaha
My best friend since highschool and I have had on and off feelings for eachother since we met. She's super open about her feelings for me and it kinda just makes me feel crappy. Cuz I don't feel the same way anymore. We both value our friendship alot but I think I value it too much to have a relationship potentially ruin it. Still glad that I at least have a friend as close as her🙏
if you did reciprocrate her feelings i'd tell you to just go for it cause eventually you'd probably regret not doing so
but unfortunately thats not the case :(
Do it, this is your sign to do it
@@ok_epic😢
When I thought my friend liked me I just straight up asked him. If you are really friends then they should be forgiving of an awkward question like that. So go ahead and just ask them.
I clicked on this but I then I already realized we were more than friends 😭😭😭
Good for you cuz some people are lonely
Please check
That's good or bad depending on the individual person
Also just cuz u have all these signs doesn't mean u HAVE to be more friends maybe the other person is just really friendly
Either way check
I have had a crush on like 2 or 3 people in high school. And I'd always block my feelings out by making best friend sort of relationship between us. I become their wingman, to cut my feelings off completely. I know it won't ever work out and I have a lot of insecurities, and that is why I have never confessed to them. I have become so good at suppressing my feelings, it surprises me. The name of the person I used to have a crush on, now a good friend of mine, starts with S. I know I am late lol.
Same i always do this am i doing it wrong
Please do a video on how to stay positive and learn to love yourself when you live with toxic parents ❤
Sure! So how to self love when the environment is not the best?
Agreed
@@Psych2go yes please! And thanks for the reply ❤
the thing is i unconciously do most signs to my best friend 💀
watching psycho's videos are like having a conversation with a good old friend 😭💗
What if my friendliness is mistaken as more than friendliness.
HOW DID YOU FIND ME?!
Okay, fat mood.
🤣 dude I get the opposite and everytime I try to just be friends they think im flirting
this is meeee!!!! I can't be friends with guys, cause I'm just a naturally very kind, and awkward person, and they always mistake it for flirting. And in reality, the last thing I'm thinking about is being more than friends with them.
@@BooksForLife_ Dude I did end up getting a girlfriend but it got me into a whole drama thing that was really annoying.
This video is so wholesome. But I'm afraid it's giving me a false hope😔
I can just agree with the last one. I had to explain to some of my friends that we are not a couple. It seems like even our parents think that. I DON'T KNOW!
Thanks for this cute video 😚
Well I have realized that:
1. Nobody has this kind of relationship with me (bummer)
2. I was doing all of them (except the last one and the flirting part) with all of my friends😳🤣
Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here❤️
Yeee
here
thank you veeeerry much
Let me have it
Thanks:D!
Friends are a treasure you'll never have again.
-Me Who Randomly Thought That in A Shower Minutes ago 2022
i do all these things with her, and she knows i fell in love with her too cause i eventually decided to tell her everything and it broke my heart and still does tbh but we’re still best friends, and there was this tension in the air but we decided it’s okay that she knows about my feelings even though i won’t ever have her, for us what was more important is that our friendship doesn’t end cause of a stupid thing like that but i would do ANYTHING to make her mine
Currently started having feelings for one of my close HS guy friend I've known since 6th grade (I'm a Freshman) and ive been kind of getting closer and doing all of these signs, and he has too in which everytime we have class together he automatically sits next to me even when his friends are in the room too. We would get in trouble alot for talking during study hall and laughing, but it was honestly worth it. Even though others from our friend group were in the room, it would always be him and I during that time. Recently, like probably twoish months ago when it was still a bit warm out, he started to avoid me and only talk to me like one day, but only with texting. It would suck because he would ignore me days on end, and I would see him online all the time. So, when I told my friend about it which she obviously knows now that I like him, even though she probably figured I did because she is apart of our friend group, she talked to him about it infront of me when we hung out a couple days ago. We all chatted jokingly about him ignoring me though, but I could see in his eyes he felt a little guilty when we looked at eachother. I am talking to him more now, but it just seems like all of him isnt fully there which is very concerning. I am not sure what is going on, but he still gives all of these signs whenever we talk now, so it's very hard to read him when he gives off more-than-friends when we sit in our study hall together, then avoids me the next day. Is there any way you could possibly make a video about this? I'm sure I'm not the only one that deals with these kinds of signs, and of course mixed signals. It would be nice to get the message out there for the others that are very confused!
for some people, mixed signals is essentially confirmation they like you lol. One of my friends is super friendly with everyone-she hugs, holds hands, etc. But ever since she developed a crush on one of our friends, she started avoiding him in the hallways and occasionally ghosting him online. Different people show romantic interest differently, but mixed signals can sometimes mean they like you; they’re just nervous being around you bc of that :)
@@tesseract138 Thank you for the information! I told one of my friends who goes to another school the same thing last night, and she said, "Girl, he literally likes you, go for it." So, seeing a complete stranger say the same thing, and all of my friends basically- I'm just extremely terrified, I might actually tell him I like him now. Thank you so much for responding! ♡
@@literallyyourrealmother good luck and keep us updated
@@tesseract138 I will! If I dont chicken out that is! I will push myself into it!!
All this is just adorable. Only thing I didn’t get is why do I have 47471 moms and why you’re one of them
You’re videos have given me so much confidence 😊 5 days ago i was depressed and having suicide thoughts, now tmrw im going to confess to my crush ❤
Best wishes❤❤✨✨
Omg pls give us an update!!!!
She said no.. but she is fine with being friends 😀
@@qas1mg4mer86 I hope you both can still maintain a healthy friendship then! 🥰
Wow, For some reason your voice is satisfying, and really comforting.
I honestly just watch your vids to hear you
My best friend showed these signs at one point years back so i risked it and asked them out! It didn't gonwell and they told me to never talk to them again. Wasn't sure what i did wrong so i left them alone like they asked. Years later they apologized and wanted to be friends again. We became best friends... again. It was great we even became roomates. Became close again. I again mentioned feelings and she left.... again. Honestly it was my fault that 2nd time. I shouldn't have said anything
Honestly I also used to have a crush on my best friend… I confessed and it didnt change a thing. Like if your friend was a true one, they would’ve maybe tried to look over the fact that you like them?
Or maybe if theres awkwardness going on they would've tried to solve the issue with you together? you know like best friends do..
Nice video, useful tips as always, keep it up!
No problem :) glad this helped! Did any of these signs apply to someone you know?
You're welcome and no, not me yet either, but we will see what happens.
Finally, now I understand the signs that she’s been giving me.
i have the biggest crush on my friend. we’re both shy and awkward 😭 we’re so perfect for eachother
a video i feel i need would be one teaching how to regain optimism at times of mental defeat
Clicked on soon as I got the notification.
Every video I come to get the answers to the question being the video title and stay for her voice. Literal ear candy
Dually noted and addressed. Now that they have been made clear to be I shall ensure to not repeat the mistakes.
Remember kids, no one can hurt you of you don't talk to anyone.
I love your videos!!❤❤❤❤ you always make me feel better! 🦋🦋
Thanks for always supporting our work! How are you doing lately?
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Couldn’t agree more ❤
Instructions unclear: I now have actual friends and healthy relationships but am no closer to knowing if people like me
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I've had too much drama between my friends and me. The fact is I've noticed a lot of people flirting with me....
And alot of them have these signs.
It's now a little awkward 😅
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Have you done anything that might do the opposite effect? lol
@@Psych2go yes.... I did date one of my friends, and in the relationship I didn't do as well as I did with being friends. My behavior was different... But I am in a new relationship trying to do better and be a better partner with my new partner. I am changing my behavior to be the best person I can be... 😅😊
I appreciate these bc I'm genuinely bad at processing whether someone's flirting sometimes. Thank you 🖤
@Rosethehelper
Been rejected 3 times this year so maybe this will increase awareness for future purposes
I look at this video and remembered my self, always keep in the dark, keep all in, stay in edge
It's fun to see stuff like this and look at my self
Sounds good how did you get out
@@racer9991 i don't know?
@@SEABoys-dt3jb wish I knew I stay numb if I can
@@racer9991 you can, but I recommend you don't
Good luck for everyone I who has a a crush on someone I do but no one would probably lower there standards so much to like me at all
we both know we are more than just friends, but haven't made it official yet.
I feel quite different now. I just hung out with my wife-to-be because she wanted to. Being with her was "meh". But she grew on me. It wasn't until 20 years with her that I actually felt love for her. Until then, she was this person I lived with, trusted, and cared for. But actually feeling love. /shrug Even at this point, the thought of her leaving me doesn't scare me. I'd wish her the best. I guess this is why I'm aromatic and aplatonic. I enjoy being with her, I care for her, I want her to be happy, but I don't feel a need to be with her. But it's nice when we are.
What would you do if she read this comment o.o
@@mongoofe6294 She knows this is how I've felt. I'm a fairly straight-forward kind of person. She knows I've always cared for her and that's all that really matters to her.
I felt like we were just friends for a while... and then something shifted and he's been very shy and nervous around me. He still finds ways to flirt, but I can tell something has changed. Like he has realized he has feelings, and I have just realized that too. But we are so shy and scared to make moves because this is new. Ugh I don't know what to do
I'd say just talk as normal, and if the opportunity arises and you feel comfortable, make a move, it doesn't have to be big
Help he just sent me a snap saying he ❤ me I’M CRYING OF JOY RN I CAN.T STOP SMILING HELP 😭😭🥰🥰
PRISCILLA THAT WAS SMOOTH
Thanks for helping us with your videos ☺️🦋
I flirt a little bit with a girl friend of mine but I already stated to her that I only see her as a friend and that I already have a crush on someone else.
But I am proud of myself for having the confidence to flirt which I have never done in over 5 years.
Ayeee, ive always been interested in psychology stuff and this channel os what i just love
My name is pog
“6. The way their texting Changes.”
Well, yes, their texting has changed, they stopped texting so frequently and now are being short. 👀
That’s good, right?? 😂😂😂
dude i get these recommendations at night time and everytime i watch these types of videos i cry myself to sleep
I'm so early that the real Slim Shady hasn't even stood up yet.
I never noticed how pretty ur voice is dayummmm
came here to find if he likes me but end up finding i like him!
Im the toxic crush, I'll send them custom quizzes that're like "What's your favorite Stellaris empire?" And include questions about crushes, and afterwards spy on all their answers
There are a lot of things I want to point out IF this in the "terms of wanting to be a couple"
Cuz almost all of the examples are applicable to friendship. Even friends want to know your relationship status (like you want to know more about them so you dig information), invade your personal space, make sure they are properly cared off, and call you nicknames.... I also do this to my friends since I like them so much I give what they deserve to get from me. I don't immediately push them out of their comfort zone, I slowly reach out and drag them with me.
So if you really want to know what the person feel about you, you should consider asking them... Prioritize communication because in relationship other than love, you should focus on stability.
If you're still not sure what they feel about you, then know how you feel about that person. I feel that it's kind of awkward and it just builds up negativity if you're that worried how its going to ruin your friendship.
Anyways, if they are REALLY important to you then you'll make an effort on maintaining that friendship even if they confessed or you confessed.
Truee
My highschool story(a little long)
Like in my highschool there was a really cute guy..So one fine day I was having my exams and so according to roll number I was sitting with my crush's male best friend, I remember when I kept my head down on the table my crush who was sitting a little far away from me (in another column)did the same so he was basically mirroring me and I was like OMG😯 and his best friend who was sitting with me he was continuously looking and observing both of us left and right and I could actually see that he was mirroring me and this happened for four times in 3 days he was mirroring me all the time my crush even teased me in a healthy & funny way for my wrong answer in paper after the exam was over and I couldn't think that whether he likes me or not but I think I am too late to think about it now and I was so happy but now my high school has ended😭♥️
•For those who know why he did that pls leme knowww...but it's late🥺💕
Thank u for reading my story so patiently ❤️
@@palaksri7908 😳❤ That was so cute...Let me tell you what I think.
It actually depends on the person because if he was just that kind of person, the type that likes to play with people to see their reaction because it's entertaining, then he might just want to tease you to see how you react. It's not a bad trait, but you can get wrong signals sometimes.
There's also a situation where he liked you so he mirrored and teased you during that time. However...here's the catch even if he liked you, he didn't took the step to initiate to ask you out so he probably wasn't ready to be with you. I think you are also wasn't ready, because you won't be commenting this if you confessed 🤭.
Don't worry about the missed opportunities. You can just treasure your sweet experience with your crush. ❤😊
My highschool crush storyyyyy
I remember we had our exams🙂
And I was sitting next to him at a distance of around 50cm with no one in between us❤️
And we had our first exams in which we were supposed to write essays, applications etc. Basically a paper which requires no cheating..but i remember very well that after completing his paper he looked at me and without uttering a single word he signaled at me asking if I needed any help and trust me that day I fell for him even harder!!!🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️
Next day we had our literature paper and we had objective questions...😃
I knew all the answers so i was busy completing my paper and in the last 5 min i looked at him and signaled whether he wants to ask something
And he made such a cute puppy face🥺🥺🥺 because he didn't knew a lot of answers so one by one i told him the answers with fingers😂😂
And after the exams were over
There was a girl behind him to whom he had asked the answers just to confirm..and that girl told different answers from mine....but my crush didn't questioned me anything❤️...and when we stepped out of the examination hall he confirmed the answers with his friends....and hell yesss all my answers were correct
I was in the parking area taking my bicycle out to go to home then he came in the parking area to take his bicycle with his group of friends and as soon as he noticed me he shouted
"Palak has helped me with so many questions" and I looked at him
And then he said
"thank you"
In front of all his friends and school mates
I being a very shy girl
Silently said
"Welcome"🙈🙈🙈
But i still don't know about his feelings nevermind highschool ended
I just consider myself a common girl whom he was nice to,cause he is nice to everyone especially girls🙂❤️
😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
Thank you for your opinions 🤠
@@kurisitiina256 thank u for your words...truly means aaaa lot!
Odd how I'm watching this without friends '_-
The Animation is soo cute!!!
Aww thank you so much :)
There's the thing. He knows that I like him and I've even asked him do I have a chance. He said yes. He sometimes texts me first (sometimes when i text first he doesn't anwer but that's fine) and usually it's just a small talk like " hi hi are you okay how is your day going", but we've talked anout deeper things too like our dreams etc. We've also talked in school once but it was just a simple "hi". He acts all stressed and kinda anxious around me, but I often find him looking at me from afar and we make eye contact pretty often. I know he's a honest introvert (I am too) and he would tell me if I would be annoying, but he never did.
its all fun and games when they flirt with you until they say they have a flirty personality...
I really did feel happy hearing my name from someone else today! I suddenly woke up and feel more seen now, thankyou! i really needed that and appreciated it Psych2Go
Okay….number two….I disagree, I know people that help make sure you look nice, even if it’s lint . I do it with all my friends and family as a way to show that I care about them, and they do it to. It became normal in my life. Again, it may not always be the case.
The more i watch pysch2go’s crush videos the more I realize my crush doesn’t like me..
Me and my friend have every thing in this video but she still friend zoned me 😢
Maybe there's a crucial sign we forgot to include o.o
She loves you in her heart but isn't ready for sex.
@@briannab5296 bro wtf
Feelings lead to pain. Best to be proudly alone.
she might be afraid to commitment
watching this makes me realize how my old crush reciprocated the feelings but that neither one of us took the first step.
I don't have this problem cuz nobody likes me more than a friend😂
Same
I have a question, are these signs this guy I’ve became recently close with likes me? I’m not a lovey person and I’ve never really been interested in it
1- Texts me first often
2- Invites me to group chats or to meet his friends
3- Whenever I’m not at an event, he tells me things that make it seem like he wanted me to go, how I would have lots of fun and we could spend time together
4- Compliments my outfits
5- very funny!
6- I’ve been having tough times and he allows me to vent and I let him vent. So we’re like eachothers support in a way
7- offers me food
I just realized i myself do all these 8 things,but my crush doesn't 😪
why am I watching this he literally likes me back. we’ve literally known we like each other for over a week. he is actively flirting with me.
This is an amazing video thank you so much! My guy friend has been acting like we are more than friends and I’m too oblivious to realize it 😭
Hopefully, it's what it turns out to be. Or maybe not.
leaning towards me, preening, nothing coming between, calling me by nicknames, these are done to me by my male classmates 💀
😂
We are not even friends anymore...
I feel like I'm too good at hiding my feelings whether good or bad...
Because,
I don't inhibit any of these characteristics to my crush at all
I try to not look into their eyes because I feel unstable when I do.
I don't try having any mutual touches, I don't even often have that with my besties or Parents
I don't have the courage to flirt or even talk to them normally even though we are close friends
I feel that butterfly and that smile creeps into my face when I talk to them but I don't show it at all
It's complicated, I'm complicated
POV: You realised that you will be lonely forever
Shut
1: yes the person is trying to tell me my crush but i was to scared to tell😭
3:Hmm im not sure but yes i am try to get close into them❤️
5:Yep but not all the time🥳
6:Hmmmm hardly talk in online but in real life✨
7:Uhh yeah🥴
8:Mhm we are slowly getting close but im just waiting the perfect time🎉
How do you turn romantic feelings into a friendship? 🥰😥😍
I have no friends, not even acquaintances. I learned my lesson. Being social is not a, positive thing. It is a very negative thing.
this video makes me cry knowing i've never experienced this ;-;
This came at the best timing for me to see a little clearer if I'm acctually in love with my best friend.
I always had these problems and you are a lifesaver psych2go!🥰😍
❤❤❤
I clicked for a second and couldn’t stand listening to this voice for 5 seconds
Years ago my best friend told me she had feelings for me… I told her I would think about it and the subject never came up again.. I think about it all the time and I’ve reminded her of it before and she told me she forgot but I doubt it.. she is completely obsessed with me and she tells me that I’m all she can think about in school and that I come up in every conversation and everyday she does those match maker quizzes with me as the other partner… the bad thing about this is I’m aroace I absolutely adore her but I don’t know how to deal with the attention and I don’t know what to do.. right now my plan is to get married to her platonically and she can have romantic feelings I wouldn’t mind spending the rest of my life with her and even adopting kids.. what do you guys think I should do? So far I just consider her my girlfriend and we already (jokingly) made plans to marry each other when we get older even though to me we are just friends.. I would do anything to keep this friendship but I’m unsure if it’s mutually platonic anymore. Lol this turned into a long long rant
As a fellow aroace, that can either turn out great or horribly. I've heard of people getting platonically married, but usually there is no romantic feelings between the two. They usually just saw each other as really close friends. So unless you're ABSOLUTELY SURE with your friend being fine with the idea of you two getting married despite the absence of romantic feelings you have for her, I don't recommend it. It can deeply hurt the both of you and become very messy. Either way, it's your life so talk to her and see what works.
Maybe you should discuss the possibility of a queer platonic relationship with your friend where you have platonic or possibility alterous attraction (not necessarily) and she has romantic attraction if you feel comfortable to do so, because maybe then you could outline your particular relationship in the way it is sort of between a platonic or romantic relationship? Not trying to tell you what to do but then maybe you could both have more clarity on what the relationship is and means so that decisions like getting married would come with more awareness of the situation.
aroace genderfluid awesomeness
This is the first time I encounter the words "Aroace"
Did you talk about her about your current situation? Explained it to her in a way she understand your condition? Like tell her the things you wouldn't be able to do. I'm not sure if she's the type who would understand, but if you think she couldn't then... move on to what do you think.
CAN and WILL you be able to spend your whole life with her? Despite the arguments and misunderstanding you'll have in the future? Think about it deeply no need to rush, these thoughts and your answer will determine your possibility continuing your relationship. IF you want to stay friends, I advise you to just reject her. You adore her but COULDN'T handle it... so what's up with you holding her back to move on. If one rejection isn't enough then continue rejecting her until she gives up. Sorry for being harsh, I just want to point out that in a relationship, a person SHOULD be able to handle their relationship and WILL be able to compromise or live with their partners' flaws.
@@kurisitiina256 I did explain it to her and I’m pretty sure she understood. I’m pretty sure I could stand spending the rest of my life with her. I’ve already known her my whole life and we have never had any huge disagreements but yes I think it would be best to reject her when the time comes. So far I’m gonna keep her as a friend and if the subject comes up again I will try and show her I’m not up for it. She hasn’t brought it up in a serious matter since I told her I’m aroace so I doubt it would come up seriously again.
J (he’s my boyfriend 🥰)
Before we started dating some of our friends though we were siblings so we started to act like it. But it slowly developed into something more 😊 and now I’m happier than ever with him❤️❤️❤️
My strange nickname for my crush is Emo Telitubi. ALR, LET ME EXPLAIN. So we were in gym one time, and we were out on the playground for gym. He was playing catch or something with his friends. I went over by him with my two friends Aaliyah and Giana, wich since that day I started growing apart from them, wich were not gonna talk abt. But he had his shirt over his head, and he was calling himself an Emo Telitubi. So ever since then, I’ve been calling him Emo Telitubi😂
Wow the ending was new! 😂 I love it!🥰🥰
I feel like a girl that you have as a best friend makes you get a crush on her. As a girl same goes around if you have a boy as your best friend. If it comes to same genders together either as a boy or girl, you don’t have a love relation ship but rather a close friendship
I'm bi, life is too confusing, I've at least considered having romantic feelings for everyone I know ;_;
This is my comfort channel❤❤
We will keep posting more :)
Problem is, i went head in and just told him i liked him without thought-
Now he hates me ;-;
The preening one ! He did this to me omgggg
She did all of this and then one day suddenly ghosted me without telling me why :/