Being shy and not being able to confess can strain someone's mental health. Especially when they see the person they like get confessed to by someone else. If you're on the receiving end looking for clues whether the shy person likes you, this video is for you. Help make someone's life easier by confessing to them instead. :D
I am *extremely* careful in looking at my crush. I’ve relaxed about it a bit, but it’s insane how careful I am. It’s like my heart is pushing to look, but my brain is trying to hold me back.
when you're both shy people, it can be hard to tell whether you actually like each other... or just that the other person's nature is being nice and sweet towards everyone.
Me and my crush are both introverts, but she seems more introverted than me. She gave obvious signs that she liked me and I was right when I confessed my feelings for her.
@@manovonor Well, I asked her out after like 15 mins of awkward silence when she knew how I felt about her and she said "sure" Our first date was well... interesting... And our 2nd date happened yesterday and it went kind of better than the first time. We're slowly getting closer to each other overtime. She also wears a mask still and I've never really seen her without it. But, she's still beautiful to me nonetheless.
Literally the fact that these things are the things that both me and my crush go through. Like, we both got nervous around each other, we both looked at each other from afar and when we caught one staring at the other we just smiled shyly and turned away in embarrassment. Today, at school, one of my classmates said that he liked me but i shrugged it off as a joke, and then one of my friends (who is always honest) confirmed me that by asking him herself. Then, after P.E., he confessed to me and bro, he was so polite, he even apologized to me on his friends behalf who were annoying _him._ He's literally the best.
congrats! :)) huhu can't relate about friends because i don't have them? well in school. i often looks at him and him to me i remembered him looking out for my seat when somebody's there standing because he's at a left side and im in the front, i know he always stares at me but im often the one that looks away, yes i do like him ¼ bwhaha, i think he likes me because brooo who would stare that often but ill let it be fate plus it's yet the 2nd month we have more year, still goodluck to both of you!! may i ask what's your plan about him? haha
I recently confessed to my crush but was rejected. I wasn't surprised as I expected it. This is the 12th time I have failed, feels like most of them are one sided but life still goes on. To those who have crushes, don't let your shyness prevent you from confessing, even if it fail, at least they know you like them.
Confessing is supposed to only happen once after your crush rejects you. Multiple times is like being creepy around your crushes because all these attempts of try again is like refusing to take no for an answer. Getting at least 1 rejection is supposed to be enough to move on.
@Pinky Mermaid list of people who love me: -My mom Thanks for reading my comment! Seriously though, I can be happy I got someone... Maybe in the future I'll get close friends but I'll see what the future brings
As an Ambivert my shy side really comes out when I'm around someone I find attractive. So it's pretty hard to find out someones full feelings when you are even too afraid to complement them. I need to get over this.
Yeah, I struggle with non-verbal signs and social cues and am also on the spectrum. If I did end up having a crush again, I wouldn't know how to go about or how closely I would have to try and focus on non-verbal cues. Some of this is why I wish it was better to be told because I can't pick up on those cues. Multiple rejections and I've faced basically similar issue for that
1: They're very nervous; only around you. [ 0:31 ] 2: Their friends hint that they like you (and joke with them about it.) [ 1:01 ] 3: They’re a bit awkward and trip over their words; only around you. [ 1:39 ] 4: During conversations, you have their full focus. [ 2:08 ] 5: They look at you from afar, then turn away quickly in embarrassment. [ 2:46 ] 6: They don’t turn down a chance to be around you and are very kind. [ 3:16 ] Happened to stumble upon this while it was unlisted, so I wanted to leave timestamps like other people do in these videos. Have a nice day/night!
You know what? I always enjoy watching these videos especially when it's about crushes and blushing and sweaty palms around people you like. I have been crushing on someone for quite a while now, and I can't seem to find the courage to confess. I don't want to ruin our great friendship and have my heart broken again, so I get inspiration through this channel. I may not be able to confess how I really feel now, but I might. Soon. Thanks as always, Psych2Go! More contents like this, please, so I would know how to act around when we eventually meet. :D
I know the feeling. My ex and I are still friends and I wouldn’t change that for anything because they are really important to me but sometimes they give me mixed signals. One moment I’m the most approachable, fun, and respectful guy in the world who would never hurt a fly and the next I’m boring, gross, or even scary. I’m relatively sure that I’m at least slightly attractive but now that I think someone has a crush on me (and let’s be honest, have a crush on her too) I can’t really bring myself to make the first move. I’m paralyzed by the fear of making her uncomfortable and losing her friendship. Luckily Psych2Go has videos like these to boost our confidence and help us at least consider it!
I find comfort in the thought that someone as reliable as @Psych2Go is out there, uploading these contents so I could at least know how to act normal and not weird my crush out. I hope you find the courage to tell her, Nigel. I hope we all do find the courage to tell them what they mean to us.
You will be classified as demisexual. Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. They can be gay, straight, bisexual, or pansexual, and may have any gender identity. In this case, you had this long friendship with your partner and overtime, you developed crushes around that friend. That person is someone you know for a long period of time and eventually, you felt enough connection to feel attracted to your friend. You may not have the courage to confess, but the way you feel the attraction. I mean I don't see anywhere in your comments saying you can be attracted to anybody else other then your best friend. So it is understandable to feel attracted to someone closest to you because you know them the longest.
@@isaidimapotterhead Once you get the courage to tell your crush, hope you don't complain about Psych2Go exposing you. I mean a lot of people who finally got the courage to confess did not want to accept the responsibility. Remember that once you confess to your crush, it is your decision alone and nobody else.
@@hp2546 oh I don't blame Psych2Go or anyone at all for that matter. We are no longer talking, the one I had felt a connection with. I confessed, and it did not turn out so well. Our story might not have been what I had expected it to be, but I'm sure that I'm not putting the blame on Psych2Go. They simply helped me convey.
I hope you eventually realized that if your crush isn't into you the same way you are, then they will never 'take the hint' Confess first after building good rapport, there's a chance they might develop feelings for you and if not then the greatest weight will be lifted off your shoulders
These animations depict love as something so straightforward, simple, innocent, and sweet. If only it were like this in reality and individuals who were mutually attracted did not torment each other endlessly.
I'm not sure if my crush will stumble upon this video (I think she watches quite a few of your videos!), but if she ever does, I'm leaving it here to say that I like her. She's everything in this video, but only missing 3 points as we have never met in person before since we've met online. We're also in the same community and share similar habits! So yes, if you're here, I like you by a lot.
If we can't change our looks, then we can work to face our own internal inadequacies and cultivate desirable character traits that are naturally attractive( and bring fulfillment to the self even if you remain alone). Nothing is free. Example: you want a girl who is fond of the idea of having kids? Become the kind of guy that she can look at and think "this guy will be a good father to my children, 😊" I am single, what of it? I need more time to work on not being so bitter and callous after growing up a blacksheep- so that at critical times this doesn't get the better of me and I say things to my loved ones that I will regret. It may help you too to look deep at yourself, face the truth, choose not to let it define you, then say not "I am alone" but "I need more time." It's helped me, and my increased confidence has followed as a result of the changes that I am seeing. Even if it's taken years, it's worth it, and there are even more years ahead that can be filled with a joy that I could not previously understand. Atypical neurology should also be considered. Not as a crutch, but to cut yourself slack as you learn it too. Don't beat yourself up, learn your strengths and weaknesses, write them down and keep track (since a bad night and tired brain can forget) 'Know thy enemy? Know thyself' sort of thing. Good fortune.
I NEEDED THISSSSS AAAAAAAAAAA IM SO IN LOVE GOD WERE BOTH SHY ASF. I'm constantly afraid that he doesn't like me but i adore him, his whole personality even when its a negative emotion he expresses
My crush is a weird one... We were both traumatized as kids by others picking on us about different physical features, and we have a hard time trusting people and opening up to them. I healed a lot almost right before I met him tho, so it was way easier for me to strike up conversations. For the first time in my life I felt like it could be mutual attraction between us, but he's never really made a move yet. Like, I caught him staring at me from across the room several times, and I swear to God I've never been smiled at this much in my life. He never really complimented me or anything, but most of the time he's touching me one way or another. When we walk in groups he usually walks next to me, brushing our hands together, and always looks me in the eyes. He also calls me pet names sometimes, he once basically called me "Mine"... And the funniest thing is that noone really notices anything that's happening, because our friendgroup is usually rather loud and chatty and we're the ones who just sit there and drink and don't really talk much. When I first decided to text him, he didn't seem like he wanted to have a conversation with me, but as time went on, and we met a few more times, I messaged him again, and he was visibly a lot more comfortable texting me. But he's not much of a texter, he never really talks in our groupchat either. Also, he's almost a year younger than me and like 5-7 centimetres (≈2.5-3 inches) shorter, but I really don't mind the difference. And also I have a bit of a stronger build, and I'm not really a "small" girl if you know what I mean 😅 He did say that he was insecure about his height, so that could be a reason why he didn't make any moves yet. Or he might think that people will make fun of him because I'm a big girl. I really don't know at this point. ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ Anyways, thank you if you read the whole thing, it's really long, sorry about that 😅 But yeah if you have any thoughts please let me know, I'm really lost ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ🖤
My crush and I do this. We were traumatized too, but I'm more healed than her. I am the one that starts texting almost always (1/2 times per week) She takes her time to answer and replies with short texts, but she is willing to hang out with me when I ask her like once per 2 weeks (she tells me that she want to hang out, but she doesn't make the move). I don't ask her more frequently because I don't want her to get overwhelmed. I noticed plenty of signs that she could be into me, but I'm insecure about it because trauma hits. So I'm planning to give her a letter just telling her that I like her and her personality and I just wanted to know if it's mutual. I just need to know, life us too short and I don't want to regret for not making a move
@@octane9309 When we were talking about insecurities I did mention that I always prioritize one's personality over their physical features, and I think that he's a great guy. And also I am pansexual (he doesn't know that yet), so for me it's really just his personality, aura, actions and vibes that I literally fell in love with. (I obviously notice that he's really handsome and has amazing style, but that's not why I like him this much) I think what could hold him back from making a move is most likely the public and what they'd think about a couple where the guy is younger, shorter and just over all smaller than the girlfriend. I sometimes feel like he's a bit conflicted, because when we're with our close friend group, he's almost flirting constantly, but when there are people he wants to "impress" in a way, then he doesn't really talk to me that much. He's still staring tho, so I really don't know. Or he just doesn't like me like that ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
It has barely been 24 hours since my crush and I actually became official, and after watching this, I realized he exhibited a good most of these signs. I guess I made the right decision to be the one to reach out!
Ahh I couldn't be more obvious!!! I do all these things!!! I wanna be more open and not be in an awkward state with them anymore! This is something I gotta work on!! Even if we don't become anything romantically I feel like even having them as a good friend can make me become a better person. ❤️
I have a feeling that some people here watched like 28472 animes about a protagonist being clueless that other girls around him like him but all of them are shy. Then these people wrote an entire paragraph about how that protagonist is so dense that he cannot recognise it. And now those same prople are watching this video with complete awe and being full-on ready to never-ever apply any lesson that they learnt here.
take it from me, truly shy people are good at hiding it. That's the problem. I'm good at hiding it, which makes it so they don't know, so if they're also shy, they won't have the confidence to express their feelings, so I won't have the confidence to express mine, and the cycle continues...
I just wanted to watch this because I was curious. I don’t think I have anyone romantically attracted to me, I am not the type of person someone would moon over. (I mean, I literally have pimples all over my forehead and barely anyone knows that I exist.) I hope I do end up with someone though… it would be sad and depressing to be all alone when I grow up
Dude don't even worry. God will find someone for you if that is was you truly need. If He has other plans for you, follow them with all your heart. Just know that He will always love you no matter what you look like. 😄
Don't be so hard on yourself... would you ever let go an amazing person just because they had pimples?..you are worthy of all the love and happiness..and surely one day you will meet someone who will love you just for who you are..till then pamper yourself and do whatever makes you happy..
my goodness i love this reply section its so wholesome 🥲 keep your head up king u got this!! hope you find someone that loves you for the inside and not just the outside! :D
A crush? Undetectable! (Inconcievable meme) It's better to play it safe and assume that ppl aren't crushing on ya, lest u annoy them after all. I've went out for years for example and if I dance, it may trigger ppl to be amused IN THE MOMEMT but that's it. Don't get your hopes up, and you'll never be disappointed. It's more important to be self actualized with your hobbies and do whatever boosts your endorphins. What ppl think matters not, negative or positive.
I have a crush on this guy and he seems really shy around me so he speaks to anyone except for me. And we've made a lot of eye contact so this video is for me 😳
This is literally me but I’m shy too that’s the thing but I keep to myself at work that’s the only thing but I find her a little bit more talkative around other people sometimes but if I’m close by she will sometimes turn away fast or she will try not to look at me and it can sometimes be a little bit stressful at for me because knowing I don’t have guts to talk to her
It's really hard to know even with this since my crush is always kind and a gentleman to everyone, and also talks fast most of the time. We don't really interct with each other's friends since we don't have a reason to. I've held his hands before since he's pretty playful most of time, (even with other people :)) He looks pretty interested in another person though, but that 'person' (let's name person A) already has an admirer and our whole class knows about it. And about the wanting to spend time together..uhh..he did compliment me in the gym about random things like my hair and stuff but we just awkwardly laughed it off. He also sneaked into our group in a class even though he was assigned to another, (but person A is also in our group so idrk.) That boy is damn complicated.
Yeah, all of this applies to me right now, except for the friends one because I haven't told my friends yet (and I'm planning to soon). So yeah, this video is me. The problem is that we don't have any classes together which is a pretty major inconvenience, but I'm trying to set up a situation where maybe we can talk to each other. I've had some opportunities that have either naturally failed or failed because I was too nervous to do or say anything and by the time I had the courage it was too late lol. Good luck to anyone in my position!
I casually asked my crush for their number, she was bluffing so much! She said; “I would give it to you, but I forgot it.” She must’ve been so sad! The next day, me and her talked a lot, and it was a Friday, so I said to myself; Why not ask her to the dance? I gave my friend a sticky note with the question on it, my friend gave it to her, and her face went completely red. I was just standing to left of her, sipping my hydroflask, smiling. She said; “Well, I was planning on going with my friends.” Everyone at school knows, and I honestly don’t care. My one question is, why can’t they mind their own business? My friend told me that she was talking to her, and that my crush is sorry, and if she didn’t have plans, she would’ve gone with me. If she was sooooo sorry, she would’ve changed her mind. Don’t say sorry for something you’re not sorry for.
I had a similar story like how she said she forgot her number, but then she would lose interest rapidly and multiple times I wanted to talk to her, she would just deny it or cut it very short. Then I never saw her again...
She seems very awkward, so maybe she's insecure of herself and/or just wanted to watch you from afar? Sometimes people simply don't feel ready for a relationship.
this guy (who at first I didn't like) in school exhibits like 5/6 of these.... but I never would think he'd ever be shy because he's actually really popular and like he's kind of known for being very extroverted and outgoing and plays all these sports, goes to parties, I don't know... that's why I kept denying he liked me but idk he does seem more nervous or like cautious around me? He's also always asking me to help him with math or quiz him before a test so I thought he may just be using me in that sense, but his friends definately are showing that something's up bc they're always like snickering or saying he got riz around me lol idk what to do with this because I think I'm catching feelings too now :')
Similar thing with this girl who often asks me for help with math/physics. I just realized something: She often asks me for spare graph paper. I thought nothing of this,but I just realized that it's weird for her to ask me when she sits next to other people that probably have spare graph paper, while I'm behind her, making it awkward trying to pass graph paper to her...
How do I send this to my crush without actually sending this to my crush? Also another thing I do is try to avoid them or not speak to them because I’m so nervous because I like them. I think that tho stems from my anxiety so that may be the extreme side aha 😅 and then my crushes think I hate them or dislike them lol
Well nothing can actually happen if we don't change and move forward and do things we normally don't! Usually it's in all our head so I don't think they will hate u! We got this!! Spend more time with them or chat about stuff u dislike or like! ❤️
Storytime: One day in the starting year of high school I was about to get asked out by my crush, but her friends pushed her away from me then I moved away from my hometown, and I wanted to get back in contact with her but I couldn't find her on and social media, and she was very popular and had tik tok and other social media platforms. it was a HUGE bummer because I had a feeling in science she was going to ask me out. I just got that feeling, years before we would do all of these things and we would even hold hands in elementary school, and hang out during recess, I miss those days so if you are watching or scouring the internet to find me or whatever, crush Just know I'm looking too and now you know who I am if you remember.
I always wondered if my crush watched these videos. If so, it would be pretty funny if he came across my comments. Yes, he is pretty nervous around me. He is suddenly fidgety when we sit together and when I high-five him or shake his hand, it's pretty clammy. He can't seem to look me in the eye as well. Yes, but it kind of started recently. Whenever I pass by, his friend group goes silent or starts looking at him with teasing smiles. One time, they were eating chocolates and they called me over and gave me a piece (we have mutual friends btw). Then one of them declared that it was my crush who got the chocolate and started making fun for wanting to give it to me. Yes and no here. He speaks very confidently around anyone. Awkward silences are inevitable, and it feels like he keeps trying to fill the air with words. Yes, he is a very good listener. I like that about him because I tend to talk a lot and it's hard to keep focus. But he listens carefully and pays good attention. Yes, I always catch him staring. I remember a time my friend caught him staring at me. God, that made me blush so bad. Yes, I remember a time I constantly invited him to study with me, but he never turned me down. It was kind of scary. *Watches till the end* Ah shit- I said yes to everything. *Fist bumps the air* BOOM! I win! Also, if you're watching this Mr. Crush, you know who you are. I like you a lot
I want to tell my crush how much I like them, it’s like my heart wants to tell him, but my mind tells me that he doesn’t feel the same. And they means a lot to me as well, I’ve been going through sh recently, and when he found out, he’s been helping me ever since, he’s been telling me ways to just distract my mind over the thought of doing sh by doing things I like, and he’s very open towards me and is very appreciative whenever I give him something, he try’s to text me whenever he can and just seems like a great person and I love him for that. I just hope he feels the same, but I don’t have the courage to tell him.
If he’s putting in that much effort, it’s probably a sign that he likes you. He definitely at least thinks about you. You should tell him. The worst thing that could happen is he says doesn’t feel the same, but even if he doesn’t, he clearly still cares a lot about you, and honestly having a friend like that is a really beautiful thing on its own. Express your feelings :)
@@galacticman3376 heyy So my friend said to my crsuh do u have feelings for her and he said idk and then she said would u get with her tho and he said maybe and he's been showing signs that he likes me but like idk
I noticed that sometimes my suspect's friends are just teasing at my suspect, but yes her friends always talks about how she "likes me". Of course I took this as teasing, like obviously. (I need more evidences, lots of it.) This video helped me a step further, thanks.
I had a crush on one of my friends in middle school once, and I acted out most of these towards him. But he was completely oblivious and thought I was just being weird😢
I had someone in my uni class final yr, showing all the signs mentioned above. I even saw him indicating about me to his friend but acted as if I didn't see anything. Later, after almost 3-4 yrs one of my bestie told me the entire class knew about this rumor. I wasn't shocked but still shocked cause I did not expect everyone to know about this and keeping to themselves. He was a nice & good looking guy i would say. 🙂 And no, we have never dated yet!
I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional.
so there is this girl that likes me and I like her back and we both know. one of the things she does around me is either gets SUPER shy or runs off whenever I come to her to hang out. Whenever she does a game or conversation with my friend who currently is into someone else, she stays calm, but when she is around me she gets super shy whenever she is near me. I need some pointers or tips that might make her stay. I've known her for over 2 years and after a few weeks after meeting her, I keep catching her looking at me. like one time we were in choir and it was being recorded for facebook, then when I watched the video I caught her staring at me for 10 seconds straight, that was TWO YEARS ago.
I'm getting to know a guy I share 2 classes and 2 labs with. He's really nice, but seems to prefer talking in a few sentences at a time. We always say goodbye or exchange a quick smile if the other is busy, and usually ask how the other is doing. I can't tell if he shares my feelings, anytime we chat he rarely meets my eyes, instead he's looking at my shoulder area, or he glances are quick. When he does meet my eyes when we first see each other in the morning he seems to light up before glancing away quickly. He's generally shy with everyone though, I don't know😅
1, 3, 4, 5 is spot on. It's quite a hard situation for me to tell. I am bisexual and I met him through part-time work, he's in the university right now. I can't tell number 2 because I don't know much of his friends. And number 6, sometimes he would be cancelling plans because he is stressed from studying. But we see us often in the gym and we just recently went to watch a movie in the cinema. I don't even know what he is interested in and it's kind of driving me insane and I would really like to know if he is into guys or not. But I am scared of losing a good friendship. Any advice?
With guys it’s honestly hard to tell cuz of the whole “bros before h*es” thing or going out with “the bois”. Many have good friendships and only see their friends as friends. U won’t know unless u bring up the topic about dating with him. If there’s a situation where u can bring up romance or what’s his type then go for it.
As a trans masc, I'm one of the boys but I'm into girls (even though I also have a boyfriend who I love). Some of my guy friends are into me and they know I'm not into them because we often talk about sexuality (and I have a boyfriend). So, just spark the conversation naturally
I'm introverted, but everyone around me these days probably thinks I'm extroverted because I'm good at pretending I am, and I can talk to the person I like just fine, but would never be able to admit my feelings...
I know that he likes me back and all of my friends know and they always make really big deals about it so I’m scared to even look at him bc then our friends would push us together or make fun of us
I found someone like that. I don't know why he is so different just in front of me. But not with the others. It's difficult to handle someone like that.
Probably got a crush on you so even if you don’t like him/her, you should feel glad 😊 I mean you’re probably romantically loved by someone which is pretty flattering, isn’t it?
@@AlextheHomo That would also mean you cannot judge how ugly they look or how you are treated. Your statement of yours would require someone who you don't feel attracted to you but is obssessed with you. You will get that a lot almost everywhere because they will have a problem hiding their behaviors. You will encounter many who cannot even stay away from you. People like this can also be people who do anything to get close to you even at the cost of faking accidents to get your attention. You might say you want them to have a crush on you and you don't like them back. It can also mean unwanted attention. What if that ugly person were to refuse to practice social distance in the year 2020? You will encounter many people like that in grocery stores. What if you have someone who wants to stalk you? This means that person may have a crush on you. These type of people may not be the type of people who learns to respect. They might even be people who acts too entitled to have you. They may even pick up creepy behaviors. You might wish something like this, but what if this turned out to be a person who does not respect you?
@@hp2546 I mean, I'm the unattractive one, so I would like some positive reactions from people when they see me. Ofc I wouldn't like someone to have a crush on me to the point of stalking me, nobody does.
@@AlextheHomo Then the theme cannot be having any person to have a crush on you while you don't like that person back because that is like an unwanted attention. It needs to come from a person you find attracted. If you don't like that person back, you are not attracted to that person. Having just anyone can also mean an ugly creepy person stalking you. For that person to give you that attention, it needs to come from a person you are actually attracted to. It needs to be a person that you like back.
This is me too, but I don't go to her every chance I get because it's too nerve-wracking. Despite that, I ignore every opportunity with her, which has now led to her disliking me, even though she used to like me. That's my story."
I've never understood how someone is too shy to tell their crush, but not to tell their friends. I'm too shy to tell either. Maybe because my crushes are all in my friends group...
Everybody says he likes me - he’s so extroverted usually but when we are near or talking he goes all shy and quiet. I also overheard one of his friends teasing him about SOMEBODY, that SOMEBODY went to put something away (hint, that was me) and he just said that SOMEBODY went away..
For that joking about it point, that’s kinda what keeps with random people in my school who keep saying that this one person who’s a grade below me likes me, but it’s been happening WAY too much and I’m starting to think their bluffing, especially since I asked her about it and she said she didn’t, so I’m not sure what to believe at this point
maybe she denied it because she don't want to be rejected upfront by you! it's really the fear of rejection often. how about looking at her body language? is she nervous around you? or probably blush something? looking from afar?
yeah, look at her body movement, body language. Does she like try to laugh it off, does she not like stay in one place, does she twiddle with her fingers, does she braid her hair? if she really does like you, she most likely does the one where she tries to laugh it off and fake it
@@jilyyyyy. considering that we don’t have any classes together at the moment and that we don’t see a each other much since we aren’t friends or anything, kinda hard to say. Not saying we hate each other, if that’s what it seems from my previous sentence by saying we aren’t friends.
Everybody is shy when it comes to someone u find attractive, even though im not as shy as my crush, but i still feel really awkward and blushed when he is around 😆
I watched this out of curiosity. I honestly don't know how I would be around a crush. I have never had one in my life. But I do know that I will try my very best to get close to them when I get one. I will not miss my chance by not talking to them if we don't know each other that much. I know its gonna be hard since I can barely talk to a cashier because of my social anxiety but I will give it my very best when that person comes.💪
It's just easy guys! I know the feeling and you're afraid because you are afraid of being instantly rejected. Instead approach like this : Talk to her, she's your crush ok, but talk to her. Try getting to know each other. If she won't reciprocate then move on. You might obsess about her, but you are wrong. You are obsessed about the emotion you don't want to lose. Learn to lose that emotion when someone else doesn't want to give it back to you. Trust me, it becomes easier. When it's all cool, she reciprocate be good eye contact ans enjoy
Heyy just a query, hope u'll answer! It's been few months since this started. So basically, In my school a guy stares at me whenever I'm around him. Till now we had so much of eye contacts but still we both are too shy. But Idk how to approach him cuz Idk. But I keep myself reminding that he'll approach one day. Whenever I see him I get so much of butterflies n I totally get nervous.. But the thing is even he is too nervous whenever around me. He does adjusting his clothes, touching id card, touching his hair. Idk how this is going to end..
@@aishwaryalakshmy hello! Never thought that my comment got attention. Btw, as a male, we like being approached first. It's one of best feeling that we can have. In your case, since you said that he get's nervous too and stairs at you, just talk. There is no better way to approach. If you play games you waste time and you wouldn't like it. I don't say approaching him like, kiss him or everything must be perfect ecc.. just talk to him. Showing that you are interested in him is just a very wonderful thing for us. Just talk and see how it goes. If you notice he reciprocate ,Good. Make a good base on your relationship, not in the sense of being together, cause don't rush things. If you become together. That's a win for you, have a good day
@@LambdaPsi Yeah but idk what to talk.. Though some of his gangmates do follow me on ig, I'm sure he knows my id too but doesn't follow nor me too! I'm good at initiating talk through ig but idk how to in school! But It's like he only stares and sometimes smile n stare and does nothing beyond that.. So I'm also confused whether it's a red flag like he's staring just cuz i'm pretty. But also he's super nervous. Anyways i don't think he'll approach nor me too..Even I've noticed in a hall of girls he was only staring at me! But Is there any other way to make him approach ?
I wanted to check this video to see if I could see one of these signs with my crush but instead I discovered that I was the one who had these signs. And I'm happy to know it
Ya know, there's this one person from the other section of my class who does this to me and honestly, I have a crush on them too. I've tried talking myself out of it. In fact, I even had my sister tell me that she was probably just being "nice" to me and so on but the thing is, the more I try to convince myself that is the case the stronger my intuition argues the otherwise. It's maddening really.
We both kept staring at each other, her friends act weird whenever I'm around, and most importantly, she took a picture with me a week agooooo (and I would have never thought of crushing on her if that didn't happen at all). However, these following days she's seemingly been avoiding me for some reasons that I cannot say I'm fully aware of.
Nevermind, I'm the one who's gonna end up heartbroken at the end. It's just, idk, I wish I never said yes to the moment. I kinda allowed you to make me vulnerable and now I really am. You're taken yet you....haaaaaah...This is tiring. I want to move on so bad. You'll never be mine anyways and what's the point of this exactly? Nothing. It will all end in vain even when I know that you probably like me back.
I'm not gonna approach you either because I mean, as previously stated, there is not much good that will come out of it. You're just making me more confused and I barely even know you haha.
It's been few months since this started. So basically, In my school a guy stares at me whenever I'm around him. Till now we had so much of eye contacts but still we both are too shy. But Idk how to approach him cuz Idk. But I keep myself reminding that he'll approach one day. Whenever I see him I get so much of butterflies n I totally get nervous.. But the thing is even he is too nervous whenever around me. He does adjusting his clothes, touching id card, touching his hair. Idk how this is going to end.. ❤🥺
@@joeysmith7296 Thanks for your reply but.. I've found that he's committed with a girl 🙂 But still he does like that.. So yeah no more hopes for this!! 😊
Dont get me wrong P2GO is brilliant.. worst thing about this sight though is that ever time this subject is discussed I have to learn that my crush isnt into me. And... im always reminded of my weakness because I'm holding out hope.... still... DC!
So I have a crush. She is nice, we speak a lot. We became friends, and i felt so good with her. We both like metal which would be good for me. So my story about this: so we speak a lot in breaks, but if her friends is around, she is not speak to me. And this time is increased and i started missing her. That hurted a lot, the next move of my life was: ✨a short depressed time✨ what lasted to 3 days. I can't deleted her from my mind, i felt myself weak, and vulnerable. I was too shy to ask her out. I wanted to tell about this thing to a friend, so i chose my classmate. I told him that i like her et cetera. Everytime she looks at me I feel that weirdly good feeling in my stomach. I like her, but not that intense, than before, what is okay. I love her so much, and I hope i will get the chance and the bravery to ask her out. Maybe at the end of the year. Uhh i wont wrote again i love her so much BUT I DID HUH! Any tips to stronger my relationship with her. I'd tell her, but my biggest fear is getting rejected by her. You guys will prolly say "oh give it a try" but she means a lot to me, and i don't want to lose this friendship. I've been through two relationships, one ended because she got angry to me for no reason, the second, i think it was obsessed love, and she was wrote to me like never anyone before. Felt good, that someone caring about me, but tbh she was pretty mid. Both relationships was started by a girl, but its my turn So i changed my lifestyle, started to do exercises, want to live a healthy lifestyle, because this will probably increase my happiness. I am not fat, i just have some excess fat. 14
I got rejected a moment ago. She was the first ever girl to care about me. I cant describe my pain in words. At least i can say: i tried but it didnt work
I have a crush that is very shy. He stares at me alot, but we have never talked to each other before. And my friends tell me that I should just say something to him. The problem is, I'm very shy as well and not very good with having conversations with new people and I'm definitely not gonna be good at talking to a crush. So I was wondering if I should try and talk to him anyway and if so what should I say?
I’m the same way and recently I’ve learned that talking to people can actually be kinda easy. Start by introducing yourself or asking his name. If you have similar interests you can start there but if you literally know nothing about him you can talk about shared classes/ teachers, current events, or even literally the weather. The most important thing is that you seem comfortable. Try not to overthink responses and just say whatever comes to mind. The more comfortable you seem the more comfortable he will be and the more he will open up. Make sure to smile too. Easier said than done right? But this worked like a charm on me earlier in the week. It was my first real in person class of college and before class this girl walked up to me, introduced herself, and just started talking. Now it takes a lot for me to like someone but her friendliness was infectious. I found myself talking back in a way that I have never really done with someone new before. Sure it was a little awkward but that was the last thing I was thinking of. We are just friends now but that’s where it starts. This should work even better on somebody who you suspects already likes you! Good luck!
@@Nigel_BC You're right. It is easier said then done I've tried to talk to him a few times but it made me so nervous and I felt like throwing up( even just being by him makes my heart race so that definitely makes it harder), so I just decided I would try another time. I guess I should push my self a little more because I always let my anxiety get the best of me. Thanks for the advice.
one time when i have to present at the front, he was full awake and has his ears open for me but when other people's turns, he pit uis head back on the table and fell asleep... so what does this mean
But like..anyone I'd ever consider dating are all good friends of mine so there's not really any sort of nervousness or differences in how we act around each other and I can never tell if they'd actually like me back or if they'd only want a platonic relationship, plus a lot of my friends that I'd consider dating and ace/aro so ehhhhhh TwT
Being shy and not being able to confess can strain someone's mental health. Especially when they see the person they like get confessed to by someone else. If you're on the receiving end looking for clues whether the shy person likes you, this video is for you. Help make someone's life easier by confessing to them instead. :D
Yep
Yep.
I'm the shy person so I don't think many people approach me I'm ok once i get to know someone I hope I make sense
i love seeing these two characters, they remind me of myself and my friend
and i already watched this video 4 months ago lol
We're both shy and don't talk to each other, what do I do? 😭😭
I am *extremely* careful in looking at my crush. I’ve relaxed about it a bit, but it’s insane how careful I am. It’s like my heart is pushing to look, but my brain is trying to hold me back.
Facts dude I get the same thing especially when they don't feel the same way
Sooner or later, you will have to take that leaf of faith.
@@Psych2go idk if it was a mistake or not but “leaf” for PSI was clever. And my pfp of Miles Morales also plays into “leap of faith” :)
YOWWW FORREAL, the countless times my brain resist myself from looking at my crush but my heart yearns to look
@@Psych2go Yeah but this leaf (or leap idk) of faith usually ends up with my crush rejecting the flipping hell outta me :/
when you're both shy people, it can be hard to tell whether you actually like each other... or just that the other person's nature is being nice and sweet towards everyone.
Faxxx or I will just feel like that hate me but it’s hard to read each other when y’all are both shy it be stressing me out literally
Real.
Me and my crush are both introverts, but she seems more introverted than me. She gave obvious signs that she liked me and I was right when I confessed my feelings for her.
@@airtiger4577 And how did it go?
@@manovonor Well, I asked her out after like 15 mins of awkward silence when she knew how I felt about her and she said "sure" Our first date was well... interesting... And our 2nd date happened yesterday and it went kind of better than the first time. We're slowly getting closer to each other overtime. She also wears a mask still and I've never really seen her without it. But, she's still beautiful to me nonetheless.
Literally the fact that these things are the things that both me and my crush go through. Like, we both got nervous around each other, we both looked at each other from afar and when we caught one staring at the other we just smiled shyly and turned away in embarrassment. Today, at school, one of my classmates said that he liked me but i shrugged it off as a joke, and then one of my friends (who is always honest) confirmed me that by asking him herself. Then, after P.E., he confessed to me and bro, he was so polite, he even apologized to me on his friends behalf who were annoying _him._ He's literally the best.
Sounds like your friend saved the day!
@@Psych2go Oh absoutely!
congrats! :)) huhu can't relate about friends because i don't have them? well in school. i often looks at him and him to me i remembered him looking out for my seat when somebody's there standing because he's at a left side and im in the front, i know he always stares at me but im often the one that looks away, yes i do like him ¼ bwhaha, i think he likes me because brooo who would stare that often but ill let it be fate plus it's yet the 2nd month we have more year, still goodluck to both of you!! may i ask what's your plan about him? haha
Girlll, you're so lucky!! I hope you said yesss!!😌😃✨
@@shikhasuman871 Well, he really didn't ask me out, we still have to know each other properly, but i'm sure that if he asks me, i'll say yes ^^
If you feel peace In your heart and you feel peace in your soul...then that's who you need
That's powerful. Sounds like self actualization to me.
But with my luck probably wont get.
That’s deep. I like it.
Umm, not everyone feels calm around the person they like, you mean when you're actually used to your partner right?
@@Viivlet yes that's what I meant.
I recently confessed to my crush but was rejected. I wasn't surprised as I expected it. This is the 12th time I have failed, feels like most of them are one sided but life still goes on. To those who have crushes, don't let your shyness prevent you from confessing, even if it fail, at least they know you like them.
I would, but he's straight :(
dw bro i failed 3 times you can still try
@@AlextheHomowell.sorry dude most guys like girls
@@desireonigwe807 i know, but well I can't give up on finding my soulmate :)
Confessing is supposed to only happen once after your crush rejects you. Multiple times is like being creepy around your crushes because all these attempts of try again is like refusing to take no for an answer. Getting at least 1 rejection is supposed to be enough to move on.
This channel has made me realize that no one other than part of my family has ever loved me
Oh wow thats gloomy. Are you OK?
@@rangerkanootsen6832 yes
@@savinggrace2750 really? you don't sound it :\
Same! I can't relate to what she said. I don't have any other than my family. 😔
@Pinky Mermaid list of people who love me:
-My mom
Thanks for reading my comment!
Seriously though, I can be happy I got someone... Maybe in the future I'll get close friends but I'll see what the future brings
As an Ambivert my shy side really comes out when I'm around someone I find attractive. So it's pretty hard to find out someones full feelings when you are even too afraid to complement them. I need to get over this.
Ur are my buddymate bro common , I'm ur or ur my exact copy.
We were twins in previous life 😅
Love u bro❤
But I'm only 15 😅
i’m on the spectrum and struggle so badly with recognizing social cues and signs such as these so ty for this LMAO
Yeah, I struggle with non-verbal signs and social cues and am also on the spectrum. If I did end up having a crush again, I wouldn't know how to go about or how closely I would have to try and focus on non-verbal cues. Some of this is why I wish it was better to be told because I can't pick up on those cues. Multiple rejections and I've faced basically similar issue for that
No worries! Hope this was somewhat helpful.
1: They're very nervous; only around you. [ 0:31 ]
2: Their friends hint that they like you (and joke with them about it.) [ 1:01 ]
3: They’re a bit awkward and trip over their words; only around you. [ 1:39 ]
4: During conversations, you have their full focus. [ 2:08 ]
5: They look at you from afar, then turn away quickly in embarrassment. [ 2:46 ]
6: They don’t turn down a chance to be around you and are very kind. [ 3:16 ]
Happened to stumble upon this while it was unlisted, so I wanted to leave timestamps like other people do in these videos.
Have a nice day/night!
4 months ago? Bro what the heck boi
Tysm !!
4 months uhmmn UA-cam u okay? (˘･_･˘)
YALL I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME LOL-
bruh im being too obvious
You know what? I always enjoy watching these videos especially when it's about crushes and blushing and sweaty palms around people you like. I have been crushing on someone for quite a while now, and I can't seem to find the courage to confess. I don't want to ruin our great friendship and have my heart broken again, so I get inspiration through this channel. I may not be able to confess how I really feel now, but I might. Soon. Thanks as always, Psych2Go! More contents like this, please, so I would know how to act around when we eventually meet. :D
I know the feeling. My ex and I are still friends and I wouldn’t change that for anything because they are really important to me but sometimes they give me mixed signals. One moment I’m the most approachable, fun, and respectful guy in the world who would never hurt a fly and the next I’m boring, gross, or even scary.
I’m relatively sure that I’m at least slightly attractive but now that I think someone has a crush on me (and let’s be honest, have a crush on her too) I can’t really bring myself to make the first move. I’m paralyzed by the fear of making her uncomfortable and losing her friendship.
Luckily Psych2Go has videos like these to boost our confidence and help us at least consider it!
I find comfort in the thought that someone as reliable as @Psych2Go is out there, uploading these contents so I could at least know how to act normal and not weird my crush out.
I hope you find the courage to tell her, Nigel. I hope we all do find the courage to tell them what they mean to us.
You will be classified as demisexual. Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. They can be gay, straight, bisexual, or pansexual, and may have any gender identity. In this case, you had this long friendship with your partner and overtime, you developed crushes around that friend. That person is someone you know for a long period of time and eventually, you felt enough connection to feel attracted to your friend. You may not have the courage to confess, but the way you feel the attraction. I mean I don't see anywhere in your comments saying you can be attracted to anybody else other then your best friend. So it is understandable to feel attracted to someone closest to you because you know them the longest.
@@isaidimapotterhead Once you get the courage to tell your crush, hope you don't complain about Psych2Go exposing you. I mean a lot of people who finally got the courage to confess did not want to accept the responsibility. Remember that once you confess to your crush, it is your decision alone and nobody else.
@@hp2546 oh I don't blame Psych2Go or anyone at all for that matter. We are no longer talking, the one I had felt a connection with. I confessed, and it did not turn out so well. Our story might not have been what I had expected it to be, but I'm sure that I'm not putting the blame on Psych2Go. They simply helped me convey.
2:51 Love that animation of her panicking and looking away hastily.
lol it's hilarious
This is literally me. My crush better take a hint
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I hope you eventually realized that if your crush isn't into you the same way you are, then they will never 'take the hint'
Confess first after building good rapport, there's a chance they might develop feelings for you and if not then the greatest weight will be lifted off your shoulders
@@kingstondaking7877 That's good advice. Thank you!
@@kingstondaking7877Now I wouldnt say "never". Maybe they'll notice and now *know* they like you, but they still don't like you back
These animations depict love as something so straightforward, simple, innocent, and sweet. If only it were like this in reality and individuals who were mutually attracted did not torment each other endlessly.
I'm not sure if my crush will stumble upon this video (I think she watches quite a few of your videos!), but if she ever does, I'm leaving it here to say that I like her.
She's everything in this video, but only missing 3 points as we have never met in person before since we've met online. We're also in the same community and share similar habits!
So yes, if you're here, I like you by a lot.
Dam
Your crush might! The video is now released. Best of luck!
man lives 4 months ahead of the rest of us
Hi
Hol up how was this 4 months ago?!?!?
it really says something about me when I click before reading the title
I've never been shown genuine affection my entire life. As a result, I just assume everyone is just being nice to me.
Could you make a video on how to tell if someone is actually being shy or if they are uninterested in you in general?
This video made me realize it's been a very long time since anyone has had a crush on me.
Same
Consider yourself lucky. I've never had anyone get a crush on me and if things keep going this way then it won't ever happen
Time to put yourself out there.
@@Benjamin-gn3ey same
If we can't change our looks, then we can work to face our own internal inadequacies and cultivate desirable character traits that are naturally attractive( and bring fulfillment to the self even if you remain alone). Nothing is free.
Example: you want a girl who is fond of the idea of having kids? Become the kind of guy that she can look at and think "this guy will be a good father to my children, 😊"
I am single, what of it? I need more time to work on not being so bitter and callous after growing up a blacksheep- so that at critical times this doesn't get the better of me and I say things to my loved ones that I will regret.
It may help you too to look deep at yourself, face the truth, choose not to let it define you, then say not "I am alone" but "I need more time." It's helped me, and my increased confidence has followed as a result of the changes that I am seeing. Even if it's taken years, it's worth it, and there are even more years ahead that can be filled with a joy that I could not previously understand.
Atypical neurology should also be considered. Not as a crutch, but to cut yourself slack as you learn it too. Don't beat yourself up, learn your strengths and weaknesses, write them down and keep track (since a bad night and tired brain can forget) 'Know thy enemy? Know thyself' sort of thing.
Good fortune.
I NEEDED THISSSSS AAAAAAAAAAA IM SO IN LOVE GOD WERE BOTH SHY ASF. I'm constantly afraid that he doesn't like me but i adore him, his whole personality even when its a negative emotion he expresses
My crush is a weird one... We were both traumatized as kids by others picking on us about different physical features, and we have a hard time trusting people and opening up to them. I healed a lot almost right before I met him tho, so it was way easier for me to strike up conversations.
For the first time in my life I felt like it could be mutual attraction between us, but he's never really made a move yet.
Like, I caught him staring at me from across the room several times, and I swear to God I've never been smiled at this much in my life. He never really complimented me or anything, but most of the time he's touching me one way or another. When we walk in groups he usually walks next to me, brushing our hands together, and always looks me in the eyes. He also calls me pet names sometimes, he once basically called me "Mine"...
And the funniest thing is that noone really notices anything that's happening, because our friendgroup is usually rather loud and chatty and we're the ones who just sit there and drink and don't really talk much.
When I first decided to text him, he didn't seem like he wanted to have a conversation with me, but as time went on, and we met a few more times, I messaged him again, and he was visibly a lot more comfortable texting me.
But he's not much of a texter, he never really talks in our groupchat either.
Also, he's almost a year younger than me and like 5-7 centimetres (≈2.5-3 inches) shorter, but I really don't mind the difference.
And also I have a bit of a stronger build, and I'm not really a "small" girl if you know what I mean 😅
He did say that he was insecure about his height, so that could be a reason why he didn't make any moves yet. Or he might think that people will make fun of him because I'm a big girl. I really don't know at this point. ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
Anyways, thank you if you read the whole thing, it's really long, sorry about that 😅
But yeah if you have any thoughts please let me know, I'm really lost ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ🖤
My crush and I do this. We were traumatized too, but I'm more healed than her. I am the one that starts texting almost always (1/2 times per week) She takes her time to answer and replies with short texts, but she is willing to hang out with me when I ask her like once per 2 weeks (she tells me that she want to hang out, but she doesn't make the move). I don't ask her more frequently because I don't want her to get overwhelmed.
I noticed plenty of signs that she could be into me, but I'm insecure about it because trauma hits. So I'm planning to give her a letter just telling her that I like her and her personality and I just wanted to know if it's mutual. I just need to know, life us too short and I don't want to regret for not making a move
@@EnaroGenaroX If that's the best solution for you then go for it! I wish you the best of luck🤗
Let him know that it doesn't matter how tall he is, that his height doesn't make him more or less worthy, he'll surely appreciate it!
Bro my face when I pressed the "Read more" button. ([]-[])
@@octane9309 When we were talking about insecurities I did mention that I always prioritize one's personality over their physical features, and I think that he's a great guy. And also I am pansexual (he doesn't know that yet), so for me it's really just his personality, aura, actions and vibes that I literally fell in love with.
(I obviously notice that he's really handsome and has amazing style, but that's not why I like him this much)
I think what could hold him back from making a move is most likely the public and what they'd think about a couple where the guy is younger, shorter and just over all smaller than the girlfriend. I sometimes feel like he's a bit conflicted, because when we're with our close friend group, he's almost flirting constantly, but when there are people he wants to "impress" in a way, then he doesn't really talk to me that much. He's still staring tho, so I really don't know.
Or he just doesn't like me like that ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
I’m watching this because I think a few of my customers feel this way about me. It’s good to know the signs.
It has barely been 24 hours since my crush and I actually became official, and after watching this, I realized he exhibited a good most of these signs. I guess I made the right decision to be the one to reach out!
Congratulationssss!!
Ahh I couldn't be more obvious!!! I do all these things!!! I wanna be more open and not be in an awkward state with them anymore! This is something I gotta work on!! Even if we don't become anything romantically I feel like even having them as a good friend can make me become a better person. ❤️
good mindset ngl
I’m shy around people I haven’t got to know yet. The most time I spend the easier it gets.
I have a feeling that some people here watched like 28472 animes about a protagonist being clueless that other girls around him like him but all of them are shy. Then these people wrote an entire paragraph about how that protagonist is so dense that he cannot recognise it. And now those same prople are watching this video with complete awe and being full-on ready to never-ever apply any lesson that they learnt here.
😂😂, got ur point, but this is real life u know
take it from me, truly shy people are good at hiding it. That's the problem. I'm good at hiding it, which makes it so they don't know, so if they're also shy, they won't have the confidence to express their feelings, so I won't have the confidence to express mine, and the cycle continues...
I just wanted to watch this because I was curious. I don’t think I have anyone romantically attracted to me, I am not the type of person someone would moon over. (I mean, I literally have pimples all over my forehead and barely anyone knows that I exist.)
I hope I do end up with someone though… it would be sad and depressing to be all alone when I grow up
Don’t worry, you can do anything u set ur mind to. As cliche as it sounds
Dude don't even worry. God will find someone for you if that is was you truly need. If He has other plans for you, follow them with all your heart. Just know that He will always love you no matter what you look like. 😄
@@leamia81 thanks for reminding me that God is in control :)
Don't be so hard on yourself... would you ever let go an amazing person just because they had pimples?..you are worthy of all the love and happiness..and surely one day you will meet someone who will love you just for who you are..till then pamper yourself and do whatever makes you happy..
my goodness i love this reply section its so wholesome 🥲
keep your head up king u got this!! hope you find someone that loves you for the inside and not just the outside! :D
I love the animation. Congrats to the team! 🎉❤😊
Glad you like this! We will post more.
This is supposed to be about my crush not me
A crush? Undetectable! (Inconcievable meme) It's better to play it safe and assume that ppl aren't crushing on ya, lest u annoy them after all.
I've went out for years for example and if I dance, it may trigger ppl to be amused IN THE MOMEMT but that's it. Don't get your hopes up, and you'll never be disappointed. It's more important to be self actualized with your hobbies and do whatever boosts your endorphins. What ppl think matters not, negative or positive.
I have a crush on this guy and he seems really shy around me so he speaks to anyone except for me. And we've made a lot of eye contact so this video is for me 😳
This is literally me but I’m shy too that’s the thing but I keep to myself at work that’s the only thing but I find her a little bit more talkative around other people sometimes but if I’m close by she will sometimes turn away fast or she will try not to look at me and it can sometimes be a little bit stressful at for me because knowing I don’t have guts to talk to her
It's really hard to know even with this since my crush is always kind and a gentleman to everyone, and also talks fast most of the time. We don't really interct with each other's friends since we don't have a reason to. I've held his hands before since he's pretty playful most of time, (even with other people :)) He looks pretty interested in another person though, but that 'person' (let's name person A) already has an admirer and our whole class knows about it. And about the wanting to spend time together..uhh..he did compliment me in the gym about random things like my hair and stuff but we just awkwardly laughed it off. He also sneaked into our group in a class even though he was assigned to another, (but person A is also in our group so idrk.) That boy is damn complicated.
I think our crushes r twins
You're voice is so calming
i want to congrats everyone involved on the making of this video, and Gabriele Garcia for animating such a cute video. I really liked the animation!!
Yeah, all of this applies to me right now, except for the friends one because I haven't told my friends yet (and I'm planning to soon). So yeah, this video is me.
The problem is that we don't have any classes together which is a pretty major inconvenience, but I'm trying to set up a situation where maybe we can talk to each other. I've had some opportunities that have either naturally failed or failed because I was too nervous to do or say anything and by the time I had the courage it was too late lol. Good luck to anyone in my position!
This channel feeding my delulu as always
I casually asked my crush for their number, she was bluffing so much! She said; “I would give it to you, but I forgot it.” She must’ve been so sad! The next day, me and her talked a lot, and it was a Friday, so I said to myself; Why not ask her to the dance? I gave my friend a sticky note with the question on it, my friend gave it to her, and her face went completely red. I was just standing to left of her, sipping my hydroflask, smiling. She said; “Well, I was planning on going with my friends.”
Everyone at school knows, and I honestly don’t care. My one question is, why can’t they mind their own business?
My friend told me that she was talking to her, and that my crush is sorry, and if she didn’t have plans, she would’ve gone with me.
If she was sooooo sorry, she would’ve changed her mind.
Don’t say sorry for something you’re not sorry for.
I had a similar story like how she said she forgot her number, but then she would lose interest rapidly and multiple times I wanted to talk to her, she would just deny it or cut it very short. Then I never saw her again...
She seems very awkward, so maybe she's insecure of herself and/or just wanted to watch you from afar? Sometimes people simply don't feel ready for a relationship.
@@novangqi what do you mean
dang bro.. dont let anyone drain that confidence of yours its great!! hope u find someone good for you
I show the signs more than my crush does, but that's a thing I admire about my crush. He almost never gets nervous, or atleast hides it well.
this guy (who at first I didn't like) in school exhibits like 5/6 of these.... but I never would think he'd ever be shy because he's actually really popular and like he's kind of known for being very extroverted and outgoing and plays all these sports, goes to parties, I don't know... that's why I kept denying he liked me but idk he does seem more nervous or like cautious around me? He's also always asking me to help him with math or quiz him before a test so I thought he may just be using me in that sense, but his friends definately are showing that something's up bc they're always like snickering or saying he got riz around me lol
idk what to do with this because I think I'm catching feelings too now :')
Similar thing with this girl who often asks me for help with math/physics. I just realized something: She often asks me for spare graph paper. I thought nothing of this,but I just realized that it's weird for her to ask me when she sits next to other people that probably have spare graph paper, while I'm behind her, making it awkward trying to pass graph paper to her...
How do I send this to my crush without actually sending this to my crush? Also another thing I do is try to avoid them or not speak to them because I’m so nervous because I like them. I think that tho stems from my anxiety so that may be the extreme side aha 😅 and then my crushes think I hate them or dislike them lol
Well nothing can actually happen if we don't change and move forward and do things we normally don't! Usually it's in all our head so I don't think they will hate u! We got this!! Spend more time with them or chat about stuff u dislike or like! ❤️
@@heilymiranda2713 thank you!! I’ll try!! 💖
@@Epiphany-ct4su 😊👍 good luck! Thanks for reading my comment! Ofc my advice is easier said than done but u got this! Have a wonderful day/night!
Same I’ve had like 6 conversations but they lasted for less or at least a minute 😂😂😂
@@sunflowers_are_awesome894 damn i just noticed now that i only had a small talk for a minute 😰
Storytime: One day in the starting year of high school I was about to get asked out by my crush, but her friends pushed her away from me then I moved away from my hometown, and I wanted to get back in contact with her but I couldn't find her on and social media, and she was very popular and had tik tok and other social media platforms. it was a HUGE bummer because I had a feeling in science she was going to ask me out. I just got that feeling, years before we would do all of these things and we would even hold hands in elementary school, and hang out during recess, I miss those days so if you are watching or scouring the internet to find me or whatever, crush Just know I'm looking too and now you know who I am if you remember.
Im the shy person, and I don’t have friends so…
I can relate- not with friends though.
Have a good day y’all and stay safe 😊
You too 😊😊😊
I always wondered if my crush watched these videos. If so, it would be pretty funny if he came across my comments.
Yes, he is pretty nervous around me. He is suddenly fidgety when we sit together and when I high-five him or shake his hand, it's pretty clammy. He can't seem to look me in the eye as well.
Yes, but it kind of started recently. Whenever I pass by, his friend group goes silent or starts looking at him with teasing smiles. One time, they were eating chocolates and they called me over and gave me a piece (we have mutual friends btw). Then one of them declared that it was my crush who got the chocolate and started making fun for wanting to give it to me.
Yes and no here. He speaks very confidently around anyone. Awkward silences are inevitable, and it feels like he keeps trying to fill the air with words.
Yes, he is a very good listener. I like that about him because I tend to talk a lot and it's hard to keep focus. But he listens carefully and pays good attention.
Yes, I always catch him staring. I remember a time my friend caught him staring at me. God, that made me blush so bad.
Yes, I remember a time I constantly invited him to study with me, but he never turned me down. It was kind of scary.
*Watches till the end* Ah shit- I said yes to everything. *Fist bumps the air* BOOM! I win! Also, if you're watching this Mr. Crush, you know who you are. I like you a lot
Finally!!! Thx because this is what my crush is going though, she blushes everytime she sees me, but she gets embarrassed when everyone knows.
I want to tell my crush how much I like them, it’s like my heart wants to tell him, but my mind tells me that he doesn’t feel the same.
And they means a lot to me as well, I’ve been going through sh recently, and when he found out, he’s been helping me ever since, he’s been telling me ways to just distract my mind over the thought of doing sh by doing things I like, and he’s very open towards me and is very appreciative whenever I give him something, he try’s to text me whenever he can and just seems like a great person and I love him for that.
I just hope he feels the same, but I don’t have the courage to tell him.
If he’s putting in that much effort, it’s probably a sign that he likes you. He definitely at least thinks about you. You should tell him. The worst thing that could happen is he says doesn’t feel the same, but even if he doesn’t, he clearly still cares a lot about you, and honestly having a friend like that is a really beautiful thing on its own. Express your feelings :)
@@galacticman3376 heyy So my friend said to my crsuh do u have feelings for her and he said idk and then she said would u get with her tho and he said maybe and he's been showing signs that he likes me but like idk
@@katieisfab sounds like he’s either shy or back and forth on how he feels. Just give it time and focus on yourself 👍
@@galacticman3376 Thank you👍👍do u have snapp cause if anything else happens i can tell uu and see what u think
I noticed that sometimes my suspect's friends are just teasing at my suspect, but yes her friends always talks about how she "likes me". Of course I took this as teasing, like obviously. (I need more evidences, lots of it.)
This video helped me a step further, thanks.
I had a crush on one of my friends in middle school once, and I acted out most of these towards him. But he was completely oblivious and thought I was just being weird😢
I had someone in my uni class final yr, showing all the signs mentioned above. I even saw him indicating about me to his friend but acted as if I didn't see anything. Later, after almost 3-4 yrs one of my bestie told me the entire class knew about this rumor. I wasn't shocked but still shocked cause I did not expect everyone to know about this and keeping to themselves. He was a nice & good looking guy i would say. 🙂
And no, we have never dated yet!
*_yet.._*
I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional. I am just delusional.
Nah man , give it a go
Stampede of Emotions is a powerful image and what I imagine a break up must feel like!
so there is this girl that likes me and I like her back and we both know. one of the things she does around me is either gets SUPER shy or runs off whenever I come to her to hang out. Whenever she does a game or conversation with my friend who currently is into someone else, she stays calm, but when she is around me she gets super shy whenever she is near me. I need some pointers or tips that might make her stay. I've known her for over 2 years and after a few weeks after meeting her, I keep catching her looking at me. like one time we were in choir and it was being recorded for facebook, then when I watched the video I caught her staring at me for 10 seconds straight, that was TWO YEARS ago.
2:51 brotip: if they catch you, pretend you were zoning out
Number 5,
I always do this to people I have a crush on just to show them I want them to make the first move. 🙂
This video really gave new hopes to me as I was losing the hope. I am happier after watching this video! Thank you!
First video posted since I subbed, love your channel ❤️
Perfect, now i know how to hide my feelings better
i´m gonna cry
Congrats on almost 10M subscribers! You deserve it!
I'm getting to know a guy I share 2 classes and 2 labs with. He's really nice, but seems to prefer talking in a few sentences at a time. We always say goodbye or exchange a quick smile if the other is busy, and usually ask how the other is doing. I can't tell if he shares my feelings, anytime we chat he rarely meets my eyes, instead he's looking at my shoulder area, or he glances are quick. When he does meet my eyes when we first see each other in the morning he seems to light up before glancing away quickly. He's generally shy with everyone though, I don't know😅
1, 3, 4, 5 is spot on. It's quite a hard situation for me to tell. I am bisexual and I met him through part-time work, he's in the university right now.
I can't tell number 2 because I don't know much of his friends. And number 6, sometimes he would be cancelling plans because he is stressed from studying. But we see us often in the gym and we just recently went to watch a movie in the cinema. I don't even know what he is interested in and it's kind of driving me insane and I would really like to know if he is into guys or not. But I am scared of losing a good friendship. Any advice?
With guys it’s honestly hard to tell cuz of the whole “bros before h*es” thing or going out with “the bois”. Many have good friendships and only see their friends as friends. U won’t know unless u bring up the topic about dating with him. If there’s a situation where u can bring up romance or what’s his type then go for it.
As a trans masc, I'm one of the boys but I'm into girls (even though I also have a boyfriend who I love). Some of my guy friends are into me and they know I'm not into them because we often talk about sexuality (and I have a boyfriend). So, just spark the conversation naturally
every time im talking to my crush, i always lay my face on my desk and cover my face when i smile
I am a very outgoing person, but everytime i talk to the person i like, I get super embarrassed, shy and can't speak normal 😭-
I'm introverted, but everyone around me these days probably thinks I'm extroverted because I'm good at pretending I am, and I can talk to the person I like just fine, but would never be able to admit my feelings...
@@vibaj16 what do you mean never to be able to admit feelings
I know that he likes me back and all of my friends know and they always make really big deals about it so I’m scared to even look at him bc then our friends would push us together or make fun of us
When u text ur crush at 3 am and they respond a minute later
The fact that I look at my crush and she looks at me, makes me happy but even more and more nervous and awkward
I found someone like that. I don't know why he is so different just in front of me. But not with the others. It's difficult to handle someone like that.
Probably got a crush on you so even if you don’t like him/her, you should feel glad 😊 I mean you’re probably romantically loved by someone which is pretty flattering, isn’t it?
@@vincal.3178 Exactly, I would be happy if someone had a crush on me, even if I don't like them back.
@@AlextheHomo That would also mean you cannot judge how ugly they look or how you are treated. Your statement of yours would require someone who you don't feel attracted to you but is obssessed with you. You will get that a lot almost everywhere because they will have a problem hiding their behaviors. You will encounter many who cannot even stay away from you. People like this can also be people who do anything to get close to you even at the cost of faking accidents to get your attention. You might say you want them to have a crush on you and you don't like them back. It can also mean unwanted attention. What if that ugly person were to refuse to practice social distance in the year 2020? You will encounter many people like that in grocery stores. What if you have someone who wants to stalk you? This means that person may have a crush on you. These type of people may not be the type of people who learns to respect. They might even be people who acts too entitled to have you. They may even pick up creepy behaviors. You might wish something like this, but what if this turned out to be a person who does not respect you?
@@hp2546 I mean, I'm the unattractive one, so I would like some positive reactions from people when they see me. Ofc I wouldn't like someone to have a crush on me to the point of stalking me, nobody does.
@@AlextheHomo Then the theme cannot be having any person to have a crush on you while you don't like that person back because that is like an unwanted attention. It needs to come from a person you find attracted. If you don't like that person back, you are not attracted to that person. Having just anyone can also mean an ugly creepy person stalking you. For that person to give you that attention, it needs to come from a person you are actually attracted to. It needs to be a person that you like back.
This is me too, but I don't go to her every chance I get because it's too nerve-wracking. Despite that, I ignore every opportunity with her, which has now led to her disliking me, even though she used to like me. That's my story."
His friends aren’t just giving hints, they literally TELL ME-
I've never understood how someone is too shy to tell their crush, but not to tell their friends. I'm too shy to tell either. Maybe because my crushes are all in my friends group...
Everybody says he likes me - he’s so extroverted usually but when we are near or talking he goes all shy and quiet. I also overheard one of his friends teasing him about SOMEBODY, that SOMEBODY went to put something away (hint, that was me) and he just said that SOMEBODY went away..
Go for him, dude👊🏼
@@Hugh_Yu-Gi-Oh we kinda fell apart😔
For that joking about it point, that’s kinda what keeps with random people in my school who keep saying that this one person who’s a grade below me likes me, but it’s been happening WAY too much and I’m starting to think their bluffing, especially since I asked her about it and she said she didn’t, so I’m not sure what to believe at this point
maybe she denied it because she don't want to be rejected upfront by you! it's really the fear of rejection often. how about looking at her body language? is she nervous around you? or probably blush something? looking from afar?
yeah, look at her body movement, body language.
Does she like try to laugh it off, does she not like stay in one place, does she twiddle with her fingers, does she braid her hair?
if she really does like you, she most likely does the one where she tries to laugh it off and fake it
@@jilyyyyy. considering that we don’t have any classes together at the moment and that we don’t see a each other much since we aren’t friends or anything, kinda hard to say. Not saying we hate each other, if that’s what it seems from my previous sentence by saying we aren’t friends.
Everybody is shy when it comes to someone u find attractive, even though im not as shy as my crush, but i still feel really awkward and blushed when he is around 😆
That is sooo me! Everytime I see a boy that I like, this is exactly me.
I watched this out of curiosity. I honestly don't know how I would be around a crush. I have never had one in my life. But I do know that I will try my very best to get close to them when I get one. I will not miss my chance by not talking to them if we don't know each other that much. I know its gonna be hard since I can barely talk to a cashier because of my social anxiety but I will give it my very best when that person comes.💪
You helped me so much thank you 💕❤️
Glad we can!
It's just easy guys!
I know the feeling and you're afraid because you are afraid of being instantly rejected. Instead approach like this :
Talk to her, she's your crush ok, but talk to her. Try getting to know each other. If she won't reciprocate then move on. You might obsess about her, but you are wrong. You are obsessed about the emotion you don't want to lose. Learn to lose that emotion when someone else doesn't want to give it back to you.
Trust me, it becomes easier.
When it's all cool, she reciprocate be good eye contact ans enjoy
Heyy just a query, hope u'll answer! It's been few months since this started. So basically, In my school a guy stares at me whenever I'm around him. Till now we had so much of eye contacts but still we both are too shy. But Idk how to approach him cuz Idk. But I keep myself reminding that he'll approach one day. Whenever I see him I get so much of butterflies n I totally get nervous.. But the thing is even he is too nervous whenever around me. He does adjusting his clothes, touching id card, touching his hair. Idk how this is going to end..
@@aishwaryalakshmy hello! Never thought that my comment got attention. Btw, as a male, we like being approached first. It's one of best feeling that we can have. In your case, since you said that he get's nervous too and stairs at you, just talk. There is no better way to approach. If you play games you waste time and you wouldn't like it. I don't say approaching him like, kiss him or everything must be perfect ecc.. just talk to him. Showing that you are interested in him is just a very wonderful thing for us. Just talk and see how it goes. If you notice he reciprocate ,Good. Make a good base on your relationship, not in the sense of being together, cause don't rush things. If you become together. That's a win for you, have a good day
@@LambdaPsi Yeah but idk what to talk.. Though some of his gangmates do follow me on ig, I'm sure he knows my id too but doesn't follow nor me too! I'm good at initiating talk through ig but idk how to in school! But It's like he only stares and sometimes smile n stare and does nothing beyond that.. So I'm also confused whether it's a red flag like he's staring just cuz i'm pretty. But also he's super nervous. Anyways i don't think he'll approach nor me too..Even I've noticed in a hall of girls he was only staring at me! But Is there any other way to make him approach ?
I'm not really scared of directly being rejected, more that they're already in a relationship or are lesbian/ace...
I know he likes me, but I'll act dumb and unaware until he say it to me directly.
Such a cute animation. Got me blushing and everything 😭🥹❤
"Do you have this strong, intuitive feeling that someone likes you?"
Well, NO :/
Saaaaaaammmmmmmeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Same I feel ya. :(
no one has ever had a crush on me in my entire life
Poor souls
:(
I wanted to check this video to see if I could see one of these signs with my crush but instead I discovered that I was the one who had these signs. And I'm happy to know it
Saaaaame!
i swear i feel like this is a sign, 'cause i keep seeing vids like these. kinda freaking out tbh
Ya know, there's this one person from the other section of my class who does this to me and honestly, I have a crush on them too. I've tried talking myself out of it. In fact, I even had my sister tell me that she was probably just being "nice" to me and so on but the thing is, the more I try to convince myself that is the case the stronger my intuition argues the otherwise.
It's maddening really.
We both kept staring at each other, her friends act weird whenever I'm around, and most importantly, she took a picture with me a week agooooo (and I would have never thought of crushing on her if that didn't happen at all). However, these following days she's seemingly been avoiding me for some reasons that I cannot say I'm fully aware of.
Nevermind, I'm the one who's gonna end up heartbroken at the end. It's just, idk, I wish I never said yes to the moment. I kinda allowed you to make me vulnerable and now I really am. You're taken yet you....haaaaaah...This is tiring. I want to move on so bad. You'll never be mine anyways and what's the point of this exactly? Nothing. It will all end in vain even when I know that you probably like me back.
I'm not gonna approach you either because I mean, as previously stated, there is not much good that will come out of it. You're just making me more confused and I barely even know you haha.
I think this video pulled an uno reverse card on me
I no longer need this as I have confessed and we are now dating. So be brave and confess!
It's been few months since this started. So basically, In my school a guy stares at me whenever I'm around him. Till now we had so much of eye contacts but still we both are too shy. But Idk how to approach him cuz Idk. But I keep myself reminding that he'll approach one day. Whenever I see him I get so much of butterflies n I totally get nervous.. But the thing is even he is too nervous whenever around me. He does adjusting his clothes, touching id card, touching his hair. Idk how this is going to end.. ❤🥺
Go for him first because there is a very low chance he will aproch you first i can speak from experience
@@joeysmith7296 Thanks for your reply but.. I've found that he's committed with a girl 🙂 But still he does like that.. So yeah no more hopes for this!! 😊
Guys pending thumbnail guys
Lol
Now it's good!
Racist
Crush: *Sees me*
Me: Oh, well I didn't know he knew I exist-
Crush: Gets up away from his friends and sits next to me (Literally almost sat on me LOL)
I feel like my heart is exploding around him
Dont get me wrong P2GO is brilliant.. worst thing about this sight though is that ever time this subject is discussed I have to learn that my crush isnt into me.
And... im always reminded of my weakness because I'm holding out hope.... still... DC!
You'll score one day my good fellow.
So I have a crush. She is nice, we speak a lot. We became friends, and i felt so good with her. We both like metal which would be good for me.
So my story about this: so we speak a lot in breaks, but if her friends is around, she is not speak to me. And this time is increased and i started missing her. That hurted a lot, the next move of my life was: ✨a short depressed time✨ what lasted to 3 days. I can't deleted her from my mind, i felt myself weak, and vulnerable. I was too shy to ask her out. I wanted to tell about this thing to a friend, so i chose my classmate. I told him that i like her et cetera. Everytime she looks at me I feel that weirdly good feeling in my stomach. I like her, but not that intense, than before, what is okay. I love her so much, and I hope i will get the chance and the bravery to ask her out. Maybe at the end of the year. Uhh i wont wrote again i love her so much BUT I DID HUH! Any tips to stronger my relationship with her. I'd tell her, but my biggest fear is getting rejected by her. You guys will prolly say "oh give it a try" but she means a lot to me, and i don't want to lose this friendship.
I've been through two relationships, one ended because she got angry to me for no reason, the second, i think it was obsessed love, and she was wrote to me like never anyone before. Felt good, that someone caring about me, but tbh she was pretty mid. Both relationships was started by a girl, but its my turn
So i changed my lifestyle, started to do exercises, want to live a healthy lifestyle, because this will probably increase my happiness. I am not fat, i just have some excess fat.
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Watched this video, then watched how to tell if someone secretly hates you, and now I'm confused if my crush likes me back or hates me.
I got rejected a moment ago. She was the first ever girl to care about me. I cant describe my pain in words. At least i can say: i tried but it didnt work
For some reason I become 10x more funny around my crush because when I casually talk around my friends I’m not usually that funny
Weirdly enough, I end up making jokes at her expense. All in good fun, but still probably not helping me...
In my experience, them looking at you is a big indicator
I have a crush that is very shy. He stares at me alot, but we have never talked to each other before. And my friends tell me that I should just say something to him. The problem is, I'm very shy as well and not very good with having conversations with new people and I'm definitely not gonna be good at talking to a crush. So I was wondering if I should try and talk to him anyway and if so what should I say?
I’m the same way and recently I’ve learned that talking to people can actually be kinda easy. Start by introducing yourself or asking his name. If you have similar interests you can start there but if you literally know nothing about him you can talk about shared classes/ teachers, current events, or even literally the weather. The most important thing is that you seem comfortable. Try not to overthink responses and just say whatever comes to mind. The more comfortable you seem the more comfortable he will be and the more he will open up. Make sure to smile too.
Easier said than done right? But this worked like a charm on me earlier in the week. It was my first real in person class of college and before class this girl walked up to me, introduced herself, and just started talking. Now it takes a lot for me to like someone but her friendliness was infectious. I found myself talking back in a way that I have never really done with someone new before. Sure it was a little awkward but that was the last thing I was thinking of. We are just friends now but that’s where it starts. This should work even better on somebody who you suspects already likes you! Good luck!
@@Nigel_BC You're right. It is easier said then done I've tried to talk to him a few times but it made me so nervous and I felt like throwing up( even just being by him makes my heart race so that definitely makes it harder), so I just decided I would try another time. I guess I should push my self a little more because I always let my anxiety get the best of me. Thanks for the advice.
Oh wow?! My crush really do likes me, but shy?! Ty for this vid lol
Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here❤️
Yup
lol
Im really like this when im around him at first but when i confessed, he's been showing this all pf these signs a bit.
one time when i have to present at the front, he was full awake and has his ears open for me but when other people's turns, he pit uis head back on the table and fell asleep... so what does this mean
2:51 PLEASE THEY POINTED ME OUT 😭 IM TRYING TO SOLVE MY CRUSH NOT ME
But like..anyone I'd ever consider dating are all good friends of mine so there's not really any sort of nervousness or differences in how we act around each other and I can never tell if they'd actually like me back or if they'd only want a platonic relationship, plus a lot of my friends that I'd consider dating and ace/aro so ehhhhhh TwT
Same. They're all friends of mine, one is lesbian, another I think is already in a relationship...
This is such a chill channel.