What a lovely mother you have! My father died when I was four years old causing us to live in poverty for many years. My mother always looked beautiful even after having seven children. She had perfect posture and carried herself well. She was petite but no one noticed because of the way she carried herself. She was able to sew and made clothes for us and herself. My sister and I learned to sew doll clothes with scraps when we were seven. We both grew up to sew a lot of our clothes. My mother had her own sense of style. There were three main things I learned from her. The first one was that beauty and style are in the person not entirely in the clothes. I learned to wear my clothes not let my clothes wear me. I learned to sew and be thrifty while getting the best I could afford and lastly to have my own style and wear it with confidence.💕
I want to thank you for your kind words about my mother. The best things she taught me were by example. She taught me to be cheerful and grateful in adversity. She taught us to appreciate and love life in all circumstances. My life has been beautiful because of these lessons. I am fortunate to be her daughter. Thank you for a chance to talk about her.💕
Really touchy story. And beautiful. I could relate to many parts of it. Maybe you should also try to write books or short stories because when reading your post for a moment I was moved entirely to your place, your family, your bubble. Amazing! 🥰
All of this is so motivating. Even though my mother had a pretty serious birth defect she looked elegant. People couldn’t even guess what her arm and hand really looked like. When they did find out they were sometimes very cruel. They didn’t want people to know publicly that in fact their had admired a handicapped woman, and her 2 daughters enough to give them awards. I remember her glee when my father brought her an electric sewing machine. She kept the treadle machine to teach my sister, and me. Mother sewed left handed due to the loss of her right hand strength. Treadles can be used extremely slow- like slow motion. She would pump the treadle very slowly while we guided the cloth under the presser foot. All of your stories are very motivating, and thanks for sharing. I am now inspired by this UA-cam to learn how to use a serger type machine. I have changed all my younger styles into usable older styles.
what a lovely story. You sound like a very nice person and yes, you are right when you say that one should wear the clothes and not let the clothes wear them. Gosh, I'm feeling so inspired by all of these lovely messages.
Such a lovely tribute to your beautiful mother. Though my mother didn’t have much money, she did her hair and makeup daily and wore a pretty dress when my dad arrived home from work. She emphasized this to me as I grew up. I try to follow her example even though I’m not wearing a dress. My dad gathered everyone’s shoes on Saturday and polished each pair. After all, we needed to go to Mass looking our best.
Georgia, my beautiful mother, gave me the most important style advice that a woman can receive. To stand tall with confidence , respect and love myself with grace and integrity. My mama is my hero. 💗
I have accidentally turned on the cold water before I get out of the shower...it will definitely wake you up!.... I wish I had a mother who taught me about style, but my mother was not at all interested in these things. That is why I watch your videos!
I have loved this video more than any other. Such good advice, and so nice to see you passing on what she taught you. It is a very touching tribute, and as a person who is sentimental about the ladies who were influences on me, I feel lucky to have this glimpse of one who was an influence for you. Thanks, Marie-Anne. (and thanks to my mother, Teresa, and her mother, Elmerilda, especially.)
Your mother is lovely. I never had a woman to help me with style, ever. I watch and try to pick up advise, etc from women like yourself. I always hang up my clothing. Thank you for the heel demonstration. It is amazing. Thanks so much. What a tribute to your lovely mother. You are amazing.
I enjoyed this touching video also, but I am concerned that the advice on the correct way to wear heels may be misleading. I have read articles by podiatrists and general fitness experts who contend that the wearing of high heels throws off nature's millenia-evolved balancing of the stresses placed on weight-bearing joints and muscles from neck to toe. The unnatural distribution of the weight of certain body parts on muscles, tendons, vascular passages, and joints which have not evolved to bear a particular weight puts undue pressure on them while other muscles, etc., can atrophy somewhat because they are not used as much as they evolved to be. I understand that digestion can be adversely affected because of the misalignment of internal organs caused by unnatural weight shifts necessary for heel-wearers to keep their balance while moving. Please comment. Thank you in advance, Ms. Lecoeur.
My mum used to wear very conservative and “sensible” clothes (she was a librarian!) , but always looked well put together in good quality suits and tops. She looked after all her clothes and accessories and had them for many years. She passed away many years ago, and I wish I could tell her now how much I admired the way she always looked nicely dressed!
I learned from my mom to always make an effort wherever you went. She didn't have much money but she was always stylish and well turned out. Lessons to live by.
I learned as a teenager not to throw clothes on the floor - my cat taught me! For my 15th birthday, I got a fabulous dove-grey wool coat with an enormous collar of Arctic blue fox. I threw it on my bed. It slid off and I left it on the floor. The cat had her kittens on it!!!
I’ve worn red lipstick forever. My sisters used to tease me and call me Lucille Ball! 💄😂 My favorite shade is Very Cherry (635) in matte by Maybelline. For a warmer red, I like Carnal (‘Pure Color Envy’ 370) by Estée Lauder. Although I’m brave enough to wear red lipstick daily, I’m NOT brave enough to take a cold shower! Thanks for another great French Chic video. You and your mother are truly lovely ladies with exquisite style.
Oh the things my mama has taught me! Regarding style- whether one is home doing chores or out and about- always look presentable. Clothing, hair, makeup and jewelry must be given thought and effort to be feminine and chic. And when we look put together, we feel put together and we act accordingly.
I just had my monthly phone conversation with a former coworker. She must be close to 80. She was mentioning that her older gal pals dress up for playing cards, dancing, socializing, going to the senior center, etc. What great role models !
I learned style tips from my grandmother. I always remember what she said about dress heels- invest in good heels and you only need three pairs. One in black, one in cream and one in navy. She said that would work with your wardrobe. She's been gone for many years now but I always remember her style advice!
You are beautiful like your mother, Marie-Anne. I was lucky enough to have both a stylish mother and grandmother. Both women always believed in fixing their hair and having a good haircut. They also both believed in owning a good watch, a lovely ring and nice earrings and wearing them everyday. They loved silk scarves and wore them often under coats or jackets. They truly loved good outerwear. They had lovely coats because they said it was the first thing people noticed. They both wore lipstick all the time because they believed, “ Everything would be alright, just put a little lipstick on. “ I miss them both every single day and keep them close by putting on both the tea kettle, some lipstick and some good jewelry.
I always knew my Mother was in a good mood when she put on her red lipstick. She wore Revlon’s “Cherries in the Snow” Before she picked up my Father at the train station she applied her red lipstick and felt more like a beautiful woman than the mother of 4 little kids.
My mother also wore "Cherries in the Snow". I bought it recently and I just tried it the other day. I think I could wear it in the winter. She would also use a tiny bit on her cheeks if she didnt have rouge handy. I have one of her handkerchiefs that has her lip color on it. I cherish it.
The one about choosing wisely is particularly relevant today for ecological reasons. Sustainability is essential to save resources. Vivian Westwood preaches it all the time, too.
Your mother is lovely and the wedding photo is beautiful. Thank you for sharing all this great advice. My mother chose wisely because she could not afford a lot (she was in her 20's during the depression) but she always looked good and well groomed. When I was a teen during the 1950's, I didn't have a large wardrobe but it was nice and I felt stylish.
Hi Marie-Anne. I was able to watch at a decent time today. Your mother is stunning.....just as you are. I love everything you teach and I do 99% of it. EXCEPT FOR THE COLD SHOWER. I tried this several times and I cannot tolerate it. I think I would rather eat a worm. Your such a beautiful, elegant lady. ❤x❤x❤x❤ My mother was fantastic. She taught me: The manners and etiquette of the British people. The style of the French people and their natural approach to skin care. And the the passion, romance and the way they eat in Italy (my family roots are from Italy.) She also taught me about art, classical music, and ballet etc etc. I know that you are a great mother and teacher. Take care Marie-Anne💜x
Oh Marie-Anne, I always love your videos, but this was so beautiful and moving. Your mother looks beautiful and she sounds very wise too. My own mother was always a Tom boy and never interested in style, fashion, skincare or makeup. But her mother, my beloved Gran Margaret, was such an elegant woman. She was born in 1913, and lived until she was 95 years old. She taught me all of your mother's style lessons except how to walk in high heels, because she only ever wore flat or low heeled shoes! (she was 5'7" tall and my grandad was only 5'8" tall so she said it was rude to wear heels! 😂). She also taught me to sit up straight and never slouch. She hated jeans, but was the first woman in her family to wear trousers (she had long shapely legs and an hour glass figure!). She had a beautiful tweed trouser suit. She liked to wear a hat for church on a Sunday. She hardly ever wore makeup, but loved her red lipstick and had her hair "set" at the salon every week. She taught me how to shave the bobbles off woollen sweaters and how to tie a scarf. I could go on forever! She would have loved your videos too Marie-Anne!!! ❤️😘💕
You look marvelous! Beautiful outfit!💗 Lovely video and tribute to your mother💐💗 My mom taught me to love myself...she tried to give me confidence I lacked. When we’d shop, she’d pick out things for me or she’d buy me things and say “It’ll look good on you!” I can wear pretty much anything bc she gave me confidence.💗
I have worn pale, pink lipstick all my life because I am very fair with blonde hair. I have always wanted to try red lipstick because it looks so beautiful on everyone else. I have tried it several times but always feel painted and self conscious that the color is too bold and makes me look even more pale. Is there a shade of red that I should consider that does not have a blue undertone since I have porcelain, peachy skin tone.? I am now in my early '70's so don't want to look like a painted clown! The lipstick you wear looks fabulous on you but I think it's too dark for me.
There is shade called Russian red, it's warm red, Elizabeth Arden used to have it. Also Pupa has red shade that is transparent, so it's not that intense and will suit your pale skin.
Spoly .... go to the department stores and ask for a "quiet red" - tell them you are scared to wear a loud red and they will show you some . If you find some sales ladies "indifferent" , just move on to another counter .... you are the one with the money!!! Good luck and have fun with it !
I’m Scandinavian so I know the problem, Chanel ultra hydrating lip colour in the colour 444 named Gabrielle is a orange red and you can play around with the intensity
I love this! Your Maman is beautiful! My father wore a uniform also. My mother taught me so many things. She dressed well until her final year and the staff at the memory care unit called her The Queen. She wore Love that Red lipstick. I wear it sometimes but I feel self conscious in it for daily wear. I remember lessons on taking care of my clothes, wearing little makeup, polishing my shoes, buying the best you can afford. She said cold water would make your hair shiny and close your pores so you didn’t have breakouts. She didn’t want me to wear heels because of my height. (I am 6’ and she was 5’3”. )However I did get some lower box heels in the 70’s and was so happy. She also sent me to a local department store for a course on being a young lady. We learned makeup, walking correctly, manners and flattering hairstyle. I miss her daily.
How lucky you were to learn from your mother ! I don't remember any type of discussion of any kind about fashion or appearance from my mother . I had to figure out most of the things you are discussing on my own . Watching your videos has helped me to know I'm on the right path . I've been wearing a couple of shades of red lipstick more often the last couple of years - one is a little more orange red and the other a blue red . Previously I kept to more nude shades of lipstick . It's way toooo late for me to learn to walk in heels but I really enjoyed seeing the instructions !
My mother taught me how to walk in high heels... she taught me to take care of my clothes and shoes and respect them.... I was NEVER allowed to have clothes on the floor... my mother taught me to always blot my lipstick... just a few memories from what you shared.
High heels are a terrible idea for feet. "Knowing how" to walk in high heels can't negate the foot, knee, tendon and even hip troubles caused by stupid high heels. These days, high heels appear desperately stylish or simply stated... not very smart looking.
All great lessons! My mother taught me what elegance and femininity was, like yours, my mom had her signature red lipstick lol She was a stay at home mom for 5 kids and yet I never recall seeing her looking frumpy or like a slob, she is my female role model.
What I learned from my mother: 1. I shop alone. Shopping with my mother when I was a teenager was an exercise in frustration. She tend to poo poo my choices and there was always conflict. Therefore I couldn’t make up my mind because I had no confidence in my decisions. It wasn’t until my 40s that I began to develop that confidence. I’m not into shopping with friends. I don’t need anyone’s opinion. If I make a shopping mistake, it’s my mistake. 2. Don’t buy a too-small outfit thinking it will motivate you to loose weight. My mother did this years ago when she struggled with her weight. I tried it once. Of course it didn’t work. 3. Don’t buy ugly shoes. I don’t know what my mother was thinking. Year’s ago (1970s) My mother special ordered a pair of oxfords. Black wet-look leather with a chunky heel and round-toed. They were well-made and comfortable, but they were butt ugly and frumpy. She still has those shoes. A friend calls them Mean Teacher Shoes. Actually my mother was a fashionista in younger years! She made most of her clothes!
Valeria Martin You did make me laugh. I’ve never heard patent leather being called wet-look leather! That makes it sound horrible but I really like patent leather, if used in a stylish shoe. Maybe in the traditional black isn’t for you. It was a bit out of fashion for a while but seems to be around more now and there are some nude court shoes that look perfect in patent, in my opinion anyway. You might like those. I agree about shopping with friends. Some people find it helpful but I don’t generally, unless they’re particularly stylish themselves.
Sugarplum K Actually, I love, love, love, black patent leather shoes! Especially flats! During the 70s with the wet-look, the leather had a crinkly shiny texture as opposed to the smooth sleekness of patent leather. My mother’s sensible oxfords were just plain ugly.
Valeria Martin Valeria Martin Hi Valeria. I’m not familiar with the crinkly patent. Sounds, um, different I must’ve missed that trend. Not that i was trendy 😂
Marie-Anne Lecoeur You’re welcome, Marie-Anne! Another thing I learned from my mother: she taught me how to wash my face with my hands instead of using a washcloth. Also use a separate soap for the face. From my pre-teen years thru my 20s I had a battle with super oily skin and acne.
I have problems walking in shoes never mind heels. If I don't wear trainers made for running I'm agony due to arthritis. So I always look a bit scruffy.
Aurora, I have the same problem. Arthritis in my toes bunion on my right foot. Walking for any length of time is painful I bought $200 walking shoes and they helped tremendously. I can wear 2 inch kitten heels but that's it. It kind of goes with my style anyway I love clothes from the fifties and early sixties. Then the late thirties and forties. They didn't wear high heels back then. I always wanted to be able to and did when I was skinny and in my early twenties. I would have had Marie-anne back then I would have known how to walk in them.
My mother taught me to always take care of my clothes and everything else. She said that a V neck and A- line shape dress or skirt are the most flattering. She told me I don’t look good in chartreuse. Also that after five clothes are for evening wear only. At that time it was true, no bling during the day. She hated to see evening wear in a daytime casual setting. I do always wear lipstick. However red makes me feel like I stand out. I have always felt that red lipstick is too bright for me. I do have dark brown hair and eyes. I have never heard of the cold water rinse, perhaps in summer I will try. I have short hair. It is very special to have such sweet lessons from your Mom.
I don’t wear high heels because I have a growth defect in my spine and also 20 years of illness has made my muscles very weak, but I do wear 2”” heels a couple of times a week, so I’ll try your tips and see what happens. I’d like to look incredibly elegant for the tiny bit of walking I can do in them! I don’t really have a mother figure for style, more like sister figures, including you and my friend D. I had a nice experience yesterday encountering a lady trying on dresses who is the same size and body type as me. We had a fun time advising each other and swapping dresses. I didn’t buy one but I did find a beautiful White Stuff skirt in a charity shop that is still on sale on their website. I think my love of a bargain did come from my mum, though! Love your parents’ wedding photo, so elegant and beautiful!
Just in general, if a person decided to use a cane. It would seem like a cane that is designed by an artist could be just as elegant of an accessory as heels. I'm imagining inlays and with a beautiful handle and tip. Just for ideas sake, very fancy pool cues could give an example of what an inlay is. Then a good metal color that suits you as part of it too, perhaps. I would also consider crystal as part of a handle. Consult an artist to find something perfect. I would find this accessory to be very impressive.
@@peaceonearth8693 There are some really nice vintage/antique canes out there, too, so it might be worth looking at Ebay and some of those vintage/antiques/bric-a-brac places, too. (My Nan nearly always wraps her walking stick with tinsel at Christmas just for the fun of it!)
Hello Marie-Anne. My mother did not teach me much about style or fashion because she was an orphan and grew up without her parents. So I saved my money and when I was 16 years old I went to modeling school. It was wonderful to learn all about fashion and makeup. I even taught my mom some things about fashion too. We were best friends together. ❤ 💋💋💋💋
All very good advice! I especially love the red lipstick, storing clothing properly, as it is an extension of you, and the walking in heels. I received none of these lessons from my Mother, so I am still a work in progress, even at age 51 💗
Loved this video. I think you look like your mom. Those were wonderful tips. It has me thinking of my mom. She too always wore lipstick. Getting her hair done was a treat for her. She also would try to keep in shape and eat as well as possible. Wearing colors that were attractive for your coloring was important. 😎
my son does the cold shower at the end of his shower, he says it is good for your immune system, my mother made our clothes and we had beautiful clothes , she also taught us about skin care cleansing, toning and moisturizing , thanks for the good advice
Marie-Anne, Thank you for your videos. I have just started watching them and find that I can relate to them quit well, though I was raised in the Southwest part of the country, USA, where things are very casual. As I watch I find that this style is what I have always been attracted to. Could be because my Grandfather was French and my Grandmother was part French. My grandmother and my mother both loved their lipstick, (lipy sticky) as my grandmother called it. My mother was very big on caring for her clothes, she always emphasized never throw your clothes on the floor. Caring for your shoes was a must, never going out without your earrings and lipstick. I do slack in many of these aspects however I am excited to get back to caring for myself. Thank you again.
Beautiful pictures and sweet words of your mother🌹 I was raised by my fraternal mother ( mami I adore) she was a beautiful, simple lady, never wore any make up and keep her clothes immaculate - but I was told that my mother used to always look fabulous ( I only met her twice 1 I was 14 years old and 2 I was 42 years old) she was petite, slim with very fear skin and red hair - I did love my high heels 👠 and yes I do take good care of my clothes, all black some off white blouses and linen 😊
Bonjour, Marie-Anne. Lucky you learning all of this from your mother. I can’t say I remember any from my mother. I will do the cold water on my face & I really take good care of my clothes. Thank You!💕
Among many tips from my grand mother(she was great dress maker)and my mother ,the best advice they gave me was how to get right bra,it is so ,so important.....my mom had green eyes, blond hear and only make up she was wearing was coper- red lipstick, I am desperate to find that shade and those fine pure cotton, baptist bras,both my grand mom and my mom were paying great attention when my hormones started to work,good bra was must have to give the right ,nice shape to your breasts ,never ever go without the bra, only in the bed, big thanks to them
Bonjour Marie-Anne. I started to watch the video and thought to myself how pretty you look with your red lipstick - clean and classic and youthful. I have fair skin with dark blue eyes and blonde hair. I'd like to wear red lipstick but I'm a bit afraid of it. It's so bold and I'm unsure of the right color of red. Do I go with a blue based or warm orange-red or coral/red? I have blue-green veins and an ivory/very slight yellow tone to my skin rather than red tone. Red lipstick is classic, clean, youthful, fun and on you, very flattering! How can I be sure I'm wearing the right shade?
My mother was adamant about lipstick! She never left home without red lipstick (when she was younger). She changed to a more vibrant pink shade as she aged, which I also wear (red is too harsh for my skin). She always looked beautiful
I rarely use base or other makeup...I do use cold water on my face. Red lipstick...yum, always. I always choose basic classics. Fads...never. I keep my slacks in black, grey, and blue jeans (indigo). I always keep a black dress...one in short sleeve, one in long. I accessorize and even there...I rarely step outside of classics. I keep my clothes hung up or in the laundry...there is nowhere else. I had to give up high heels a few years ago after an accident to my foot. I can use a low (2" heel) or a flat. I always wear at least the low heels in a dress. I don't have a lot of money to invest in clothes...but in classics...so not necessary. As my grandmother used to say: I am not poor; I am merely without funds. She and my mother (like your's) were clever girls. :)
I like burgundy and some red lipstick. I splash my face with cold water three times after cleansing it. I am seventy one and still have good skin. Love your advice.
My mother had a wonderful sense of style and took very good care of her clothing. She always wore lipstick, had her hair "done" and her nails polished. I remember two beauty tips she always told my sister and I. Always wear rubber gloves washing the dishes, because the hot water and soap will ruin your hands. The other was stay out of the sun or at least wear a sunhat. Good solid tips from decades ago!
My mother in few weeks to became 104 years old, she is steal have manicure and pedicure, Love lipstick, use scarf e take care of her hear. She always smell great.My daughter and I trye to keep up with her.
Beatiful tribute to your mother. My mother wore red lipstick which I wear today. The tips for walking in high heels was so useful. Will practice! Thank you Marie Anne
A beautiful tribute to your maman. I grew in Montreal, Quebec. My mother wasn't French but she dressed like a French woman. She looked wonderful. But my father was French and had 3 sisters. And they knew how to dress as well. They would say one has to dress "comme il faut.
My mother was a very devout Christian so anything to do with appearances was prideful and sinful--something to be avoided beyond being basically clean and groomed. All the women in my family were seamstresses, so I made my own clothes, which meant I took good care of them. Expensive clothing? Heels and red lipstick? God forbid! LOL I loved this video. Maybe you could do another one, since you had to pick and choose to limit yourself to five.
Thank you so much and to your lovely mother yes I will practice how to walk with heels , before the wedding next week am a god mother, ....am always out of balance walking with my high heels shoes. Thank you so much Miss Marie, I will pass on to my families and friends your channel...more power to you. Mae ....
First, thank you for your quick and kind reply regarding makeup! I love this video! My mother wore red lipstick - she was always so chic. And she always made sure that I was all dressed up before we went out. I have been wearing red lipstick since my 20s. I’ve also been finishing my showers with cold water for over 30 years. I let the cold water run over my face so it tightens the pores. And I only use cold water to clean my face. I’m 70 now but people say I look much younger and can’t believe I have a 50 year old son! People are always complimenting me on how beautiful my skin is. People always thought my mother was my sister - so guess I got my good genes from her and my father who also looked young for his age (he was French). Where I fail is with my clothes. But your video has inspired me to declutter my closet and take as good care of my clothes as I do my skin! Thank you for your inspiration. ❤️
Lovely video! My dear mother ( 1922- 2016) was not very much occupied with her looks, although she was a natural beauty and always was well dressed. She did not think it to be that important. She did not like perfume and make- up ( she only used lipstick like your maman) and jewelry and she hated silk. At parties she did wear some jewelry though. She could make our clothes herself when we were young and we were always happy with what she had made. It was rather trendy in those days ( 50's/ 60's) so we were very proud ;) My father had a very good job ( dutch railways) and my mother ( who later in life had a good job herself) accompanied him to foreign countries for international meetings. From the Netherlands to France, Italy, Germany and other European countries. She spoke four languages. They had official dinners at these occasions and my mother also often made festive clothes for herself and she looked beautiful. She made one shiny paisley top that her daughters including me later did wear until is was worn out. ;)) She also had a great cognac colored suede jacket that i wore later in life. In daily life my mother looked more casual with much dark blue and brown and burgundy , not my colors. I always wear light colors and pastels. Her mother, my grandmother ( 1895- 1985) , was much more chique and elegant in daily life. She spend much money in expensive shops on clothing and perfumes and jewelry. She always wore high heels. She loved alpaca and cashmere and silk. Her father had textile shops so she was raised with knowledge about good clothing. My grandmother never used any make- up. No lipstick for her. My mother and my grandmother both influenced my taste. I can make my own clothes ( sewing, knitting) and clothing for my children and grandchildren and love lipstick like my mother , but like my grandmother i prefer precious natural fabrics ( addicted to cashmere) and also love perfume ( always Estée Lauder) and beautiful soap like Roger & Gallet ;)) Forgotten: my FATHER also was a role model because he loved beautiful fabrics like tweeds (Harris tweed jackets) and lambswool and he did wear brogues...which i all love too!
Now I know where your beauty comes from...your mother. My mother, too, taught all your mother has taught you, including the red lipstick. She also taught that ironing clothing was a vital part of being well dressed. Never would we be allowed to go to public places in casual clothing. There was "play clothing, day-wear, and Sunday Best". Each served its purpose and was part of becoming a lady. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
So interesting and valuable. I'm going to save this video in a youtube file. Thanks much! (I really like your white skirt too, flattering and interesting.)
I will be 69 in July and can truly relate to most of the comments because our mothers and grandmothers were from a different era. My mother was a beauty queen from New York City and I was a July calendar baby in the most popular calendar of babies that everyone bought in New York City, well mostly mothers. My grandmother worked a department store called Gimbels which was a competitor of Macy's. She was always breast beautifully but as a kid and even as I got older I felt she wore too much makeup. Her clothes shoes jewelry hair everything else about her was Immaculate and perfect stylish and the epitome of a New York City woman. While my grandmother did not wear red lipstick my mother did. She hardly wore any makeup but everyday had powder red lipstick her eyebrows done, her hair immaculate and dressed lovely for the day. I am the oldest of seven. So as my mother had more and more children she didn't dress up as much but always had her hair done and a bit of makeup on and dressed appropriately for taking care of the kids. I remember when she would go out at night and it was magical watching her transform herself into a vision of beauty. I wore red lipstick when I was younger but not a lot. I was a teenager in the 60s when everyone walk hell lipstick and then in the seven days everybody was into Earth Tones. I never like my teeth so I did not want to call attention to them. Although everyone told me I had a nice smile I was self-conscious. Medium pink is darkest I wear. Although my teeth are nicer now I will have to give red a try. Over the years I was very much into fashion until I turned forty and let myself go, due to poor health. So, I am making a comeback! I have my own sense of style which is kind of romantic and feminine just like my mother. Being taught how to sew a hem, buttons that have fallen off a blouse and some basic mending stitches are what our grandmothers and Mother's knew how to do and passed them on to me as I passed them on to my daughter and granddaughters. I was taught everything you shared including how to walk in heels but I quickly forgot and I'm so glad you have taught me now even though I can only wear 2-inch ones it helps. So many wonderful comments that were a joy to read. I could relate to most of them and wished we had some of the old ways more often in our culture. Everyone seemed to be so civilized!
Hello Marie Anne! Your mother is a beautiful woman with the kindest eyes! She must be a wonderful inspiration for you and not just in fashion, I am sure. I hope you will not mind if I mention something regarding the wearing of heels and leg muscles. My physiotherapist told me that wearing heels actually shortens and tightens the leg muscles. To stretch these muscles, you can go up and down on your toes 10 times once a day. This keeps them nice and loose for wearing heels! I do this myself so I can wear my heels at work without pain and I do very well with this simple exercise. Mille mercis for the lovely story about your mother - it’s so nice to hear.
I always wear lipstick. My favorite is Cherries in the Snow by Revlon. It’s a beautiful red which looks lovely on almost everyone. It’s been around since the 1950’s which tells you how popular it’s been.
I have just remembered another vital tip from my mother. Invest in a good coat, the best you can afford. You can get away with less expensive clothes and still feel 'smart' when you put on that coat.
I finally found a red lipstick that I like, Bare Minerals, Intuition. Style lessons that my mother taught me: Check how clothes are made for quality (fabric, cut, stitching). Care for clothing, mend and press clothing. Remove stains ASAP. Hang dry much of your clothing. Maintain good posture and smile.
Votre maman est vraiment adorable, très jolie. You ressemble your mother. My mother sew our clothes, so she teaches us how to take care of it, so the clothes can last. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment of your mother. My red lip stick is YSL Rouge #1.❤️
I never go out of the house without a muted red lipstick on. It has always wakened up my face, no matter my age. Now that I'm in my sixties, I really rely on it to give my face a lift. Votre maman et vous, vous etes tres belles femmes!
As I have watched you, Marie Anne, I realized that my mom, who was Mexican and American with a French/German ancestry, knew the things you are teaching. She even looked alot like you, which makes me smile since she is no longer with us. I remember going to the mall when I was about 12 and having her explain about coordinating colors in outfits and other things that turned out to be timeless, classic and very French Chic style tips. She was often asked if she was French, in fact, and epitomized French Chic in every way. As I grew up and experienced life and some personal tragedies such as my mom's death due to cancer, I forgot alot of the things she taught me and got lost in terms of how I dressed and carried myself. I want to thank you for helping me to remember how to have classic chic style that is timeless and to remember to love and care for myself again. Also, thank you for reminding me of her every time I watch you. All the best and God bless. I look forward to your videos every week when they come out.
Ah! So sweet to remember our mothers! My mother had very good taste, which of course, didn’t listen to until I was an adult. I remember her trying to tell me that clothes should never fit skin tight! And that less is more, and to stick to classics...now I know she was right! She used to knit and sew, and she was very good at it!
Hello Marie Anne such a lovely tribute to your mom . It made me think of my own mo. Who passed away about eight years ago I. Have been wearing red lipstick more sin e finding your channel I prefer warm brick reds Have a lovely weekend 😍
My mother taught me that taking care to be well-groomed and styled was one way to show respect to other people and occasions. She taught me also to arrive on time, and to really listen without trying to think of a clever response. And she was a truly brilliant seamstress!
This was a very bittersweet video for me, because my mother had many of the same dressing/style philosophies as your mother did, and I was always in awe of her fashion and make-up sense. Sadly, she passed and I miss her very much. She was beautiful...as you and your mother are. Thank you!
About cold showers it is true , they help to firm the skin , blood rushes to the surface of the skin and makes it glowing and nourished and firmed . in Russia we go even further - we jump into an ice cold water or snow after sauna:) Your mother taught you right lessons , I admire her advise about how to walk in high heels .
I think my style icon would be my Nan, my mum's mum. She's always dressed so stylishly, though she finds it very hard now because of mobility issues. I would say that the things I've learned from her are: 1. Don't be afraid of colour, but make sure it suits you and that the outfit's colours tie together 2. Make sure your clothes fit well 3. Less is more - don't heap on the jewellery 4. Simple styles are best - too many trimmings and frills and bows just look messy 5. Whatever you wear, it always looks a thousand times better if you smile and are confident and happy And most importantly: 6: Age is a number, enjoy being yourself at whatever age you are!
I am 5’11” so I have never worn high heels because I look like a giant ! I know I shouldnt care but 1 inch or 1 and 1/2 inches is the most I ever do. Luckily I got my shapely legs from my mother but she never has been very stylish. I have learned a lot about style from you and others on utube over the last year. I wore red lipstick last night to dinner with a pink undertone. Perfect at night but being blonde maybe a little too much for day time.
Well, my dear Grandmother celebrated her 100th birthday last year and she owned and managed (together with my grandfather) a big shoe store, focusing on classic style and quality... as a small child I remember running around the store, choosing whatever I liked to wear! We siblings never bought shoes, we always got them from the store... I have SO many pairs of classic and CRAZY shoes from different centuries in my wardrobe, all from my Grandmothers collection... black velvet plateaus, knee-high white laced boots, blood read clogs... you name it! All in excellent quality. I can never ever buy cheap shoes; that’s a huge NON! for me.
Everything you mentioned is sadly not practiced here in Australia. I believe we are a style- less culture which saddens me. When I was growing up, my mother too, taught me how to be a lady and to carry yourself with style , the same thing I taught my own daughter. I’m 52 and still wear my high heels much to the shock of my peers of the same age. Thank you for your video. Xxx lily
This is a beautiful tribute to your lovely mother! I also practice 3 of the 5 rules, but I only wear medium high heels once or twice a week due to painful bunions and my Mother has been trying for years to convince me to wear red lipstick, but at age 49 I think she has given up on the red lipstick, because the closest I get to it, is a medium shade of pink or a more neutral color!! It is beautiful on other people, I probably just need to find the right shade and pigment of red, maybe a red lipstain will be more for me. (Hope to see cute little Coco and his sibling in the next video!) . Thank you for a great video!
@@MarieAnneLecoeurAh, I can just imagine how cute and innocent they look while sleeping next to the warm stove! Thank you for all your inspiring video's!
Good Evening...MarieAnne!! My Grandmother was my maternal influence and she as well never went out without her lipstick on!! She felt finished and turned out and ready to take on the world with those lips. Your Mothee and my Grandmother were of like minds as the rest of your advice was mine too! Thank you for bringing a wonderful memory back to me... along with a smile, I do so miss her! Grandma Rose.... my hero!
I can’t believe it my mother was the same. She never wore any makeup yet so many people commented to me that my mother always looked so good and dressed up. But her secret was red lipstick. She was 83 when she died, I’m 60 this year and I bought my first red lipstick now I need to get brave enough to wear it. Thanks for your videos.
Carla, try patting it on, as a stain, first, and do the tiniest bit of it on you cheeks, too, so it looks cohesive on your face. Sometimes that helps one feel that the lips are not standing out as much because the color is repeated elsewhere on the face. Or, treat your lips with a drier, waxier type lip balm and rub a bit of the lipstick on top, so you only have a hint of the color. (I recommend a waxy, matte balm like the original Chapstick or some of the EOS, not a shiny, slippery one like Carmex or Vaseline. Those will the red look greasy, glossy, and childish, and worse, will likely make the color run out of the lip line.) If you're not used to full intensity red, "diluting" it a bit will give you all the lift and vivaciousness of the color, without making you feel uncomfortable. Third, experiment mixing the red with a nude or "brownish" lipstick that you know flatters your skin. Adding a flesh tone to a vibrant color often makes it more wearable. Once you're more used to wearing red, try applying your lipstick full on, letting it set for a few minutes, and blotting it with a tissue. I think this is a technique that works well for many of us, over 50 ladies. It gives us a "muted" version of a favorite color so it will not look like we're trying too hard, plus it helps the lipstick not migrate into the fine lines we all get around the lips. Finally, when you're wearing red, make sure to wear dark mascara in order to create balance. If you don't do this, it might make you focus too much on the bold color on your lips and make you feel it's just too jarring. Good luck experimenting!
My mother taught me a lot as well, but when I was young I was a rebel. Now I miss her a lot and I'm trying to follow her style, which was simple, but always elegant. Thank you
What a lovely mother you have! My father died when I was four years old causing us to live in poverty for many years. My mother always looked beautiful even after having seven children. She had perfect posture and carried herself well. She was petite but no one noticed because of the way she carried herself. She was able to sew and made clothes for us and herself. My sister and I learned to sew doll clothes with scraps when we were seven. We both grew up to sew a lot of our clothes. My mother had her own sense of style. There were three main things I learned from her. The first one was that beauty and style are in the person not entirely in the clothes. I learned to wear my clothes not let my clothes wear me. I learned to sew and be thrifty while getting the best I could afford and lastly to have my own style and wear it with confidence.💕
I want to thank you for your kind words about my mother. The best things she taught me were by example. She taught me to be cheerful and grateful in adversity. She taught us to appreciate and love life in all circumstances. My life has been beautiful because of these lessons. I am fortunate to be her daughter. Thank you for a chance to talk about her.💕
Really touchy story. And beautiful. I could relate to many parts of it. Maybe you should also try to write books or short stories because when reading your post for a moment I was moved entirely to your place, your family, your bubble. Amazing! 🥰
All of this is so motivating. Even though my mother had a pretty serious birth defect she looked elegant. People couldn’t even guess what her arm and hand really looked like. When they did find out they were sometimes very cruel. They didn’t want people to know publicly that in fact their had admired a handicapped woman, and her 2 daughters enough to give them awards. I remember her glee when my father brought her an electric sewing machine. She kept the treadle machine to teach my sister, and me. Mother sewed left handed due to the loss of her right hand strength. Treadles can be used extremely slow- like slow motion. She would pump the treadle very slowly while we guided the cloth under the presser foot. All of your stories are very motivating, and thanks for sharing. I am now inspired by this UA-cam to learn how to use a serger type machine. I have changed all my younger styles into usable older styles.
what a lovely story. You sound like a very nice person and yes, you are right when you say that one should wear the clothes and not let the clothes wear them. Gosh, I'm feeling so inspired by all of these lovely messages.
I agree
Such a lovely tribute to your beautiful mother. Though my mother didn’t have much money, she did her hair and makeup daily and wore a pretty dress when my dad arrived home from work. She emphasized this to me as I grew up. I try to follow her example even though I’m not wearing a dress.
My dad gathered everyone’s shoes on Saturday and polished each pair. After all, we needed to go to Mass looking our best.
I admire that trait in your Dad. Marie-Anne knows how to bring back the best in us. Thanks to you both.
Georgia, my beautiful mother, gave me the most important style advice that a woman can receive. To stand tall with confidence , respect and love myself with grace and integrity. My mama is my hero. 💗
I did not have anyone to get ideas from and that’s why am watching and learning from you
I have accidentally turned on the cold water before I get out of the shower...it will definitely wake you up!.... I wish I had a mother who taught me about style, but my mother was not at all interested in these things. That is why I watch your videos!
I have loved this video more than any other. Such good advice, and so nice to see you passing on what she taught you. It is a very touching tribute, and as a person who is sentimental about the ladies who were influences on me, I feel lucky to have this glimpse of one who was an influence for you. Thanks, Marie-Anne. (and thanks to my mother, Teresa, and her mother, Elmerilda, especially.)
Your mother is lovely. I never had a woman to help me with style, ever. I watch and try to pick up advise, etc from women like yourself. I always hang up my clothing. Thank you for the heel demonstration. It is amazing. Thanks so much. What a tribute to your lovely mother. You are amazing.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur You can be my little sister.
I enjoyed this touching video also, but I am concerned that the advice on the correct way to wear heels may be misleading. I have read articles by podiatrists and general fitness experts who contend that the wearing of high heels throws off nature's millenia-evolved balancing of the stresses placed on weight-bearing joints and muscles from neck to toe. The unnatural distribution of the weight of certain body parts on muscles, tendons, vascular passages, and joints which have not evolved to bear a particular weight puts undue pressure on them while other muscles, etc., can atrophy somewhat because they are not used as much as they evolved to be. I understand that digestion can be adversely affected because of the misalignment of internal organs caused by unnatural weight shifts necessary for heel-wearers to keep their balance while moving. Please comment. Thank you in advance, Ms. Lecoeur.
My mum used to wear very conservative and “sensible” clothes (she was a librarian!) , but always looked well put together in good quality suits and tops. She looked after all her clothes and accessories and had them for many years. She passed away many years ago, and I wish I could tell her now how much I admired the way she always looked nicely dressed!
I never had anybody, so thank you for sharing your knowledge, and thanks to your lovely mother too!!
@@MarieAnneLecoeur thank you!!!!
I learned from my mom to always make an effort wherever you went. She didn't have much money but she was always stylish and well turned out. Lessons to live by.
I like that. Always make an effort.
You don't need a million dollars to look like a million dollars :) this is what my mom said to me .
I learned as a teenager not to throw clothes on the floor - my cat taught me! For my 15th birthday, I got a fabulous dove-grey wool coat with an enormous collar of Arctic blue fox. I threw it on my bed. It slid off and I left it on the floor. The cat had her kittens on it!!!
How cute! Maybe not for the coat, but kitty had good taste!
Oh my!!!!!
That's an important use for your beautiful clothes. I'd be honored!!
So sweet !!!!
Minou, Minou, Minou....!!😂😂
I’ve worn red lipstick forever. My sisters used to tease me and call me Lucille Ball! 💄😂 My favorite shade is Very Cherry (635) in matte by Maybelline. For a warmer red, I like Carnal (‘Pure Color Envy’ 370) by Estée Lauder. Although I’m brave enough to wear red lipstick daily, I’m NOT brave enough to take a cold shower! Thanks for another great French Chic video. You and your mother are truly lovely ladies with exquisite style.
Oh the things my mama has taught me! Regarding style- whether one is home doing chores or out and about- always look presentable. Clothing, hair, makeup and jewelry must be given thought and effort to be feminine and chic. And when we look put together, we feel put together and we act accordingly.
I just had my monthly phone conversation with a former coworker. She must be close to 80. She was mentioning that her older gal pals dress up for playing cards, dancing, socializing, going to the senior center, etc. What great role models !
I learned style tips from my grandmother. I always remember what she said about dress heels- invest in good heels and you only need three pairs. One in black, one in cream and one in navy. She said that would work with your wardrobe. She's been gone for many years now but I always remember her style advice!
„ Less is more” my mother told me! And I follow this advice in many ways❗️
You are beautiful like your mother, Marie-Anne. I was lucky enough to have both a stylish mother and grandmother. Both women always believed in fixing their hair and having a good haircut. They also both believed in owning a good watch, a lovely ring and nice earrings and wearing them everyday. They loved silk scarves and wore them often under coats or jackets. They truly loved good outerwear. They had lovely coats because they said it was the first thing people noticed. They both wore lipstick all the time because they believed, “ Everything would be alright, just put a little lipstick on. “ I miss them both every single day and keep them close by putting on both the tea kettle, some lipstick and some good jewelry.
beautiful memories to cherish!
I always knew my Mother was in a good mood when she put on her red lipstick. She wore Revlon’s “Cherries in the Snow” Before she picked up my Father at the train station she applied her red lipstick and felt more like a beautiful woman than the mother of 4 little kids.
I love that!
Wow ! Red lipstick sounds like a real magic !!!!
This sounds so romantical the train station. We do not have trains where I live. I need to try the Cherries in the Snow lipstick.
Carrie Moon-Dupree my mother always wore that color too. Revlon still makes it. It’s my favorite red along with Ruby Woo by MAC. 😊
My mother also wore "Cherries in the Snow". I bought it recently and I just tried it the other day. I think I could wear it in the winter. She would also use a tiny bit on her cheeks if she didnt have rouge handy. I have one of her handkerchiefs that has her lip color on it. I cherish it.
The one about choosing wisely is particularly relevant today for ecological reasons. Sustainability is essential to save resources. Vivian Westwood preaches it all the time, too.
Yes!
Your mother is lovely and the wedding photo is beautiful. Thank you for sharing all this great advice. My mother chose wisely because she could not afford a lot (she was in her 20's during the depression) but she always looked good and well groomed. When I was a teen during the 1950's, I didn't have a large wardrobe but it was nice and I felt stylish.
Hi Marie-Anne. I was able to watch at a decent time today.
Your mother is stunning.....just as you are.
I love everything you teach and I do 99% of it. EXCEPT FOR
THE COLD SHOWER. I tried this several times and I cannot tolerate it. I think I would rather eat a worm.
Your such a beautiful, elegant lady.
❤x❤x❤x❤ My mother was fantastic. She taught me:
The manners and etiquette of the British people.
The style of the French people and their natural approach to skin care.
And the the passion, romance and the way they eat in Italy (my family roots are from Italy.)
She also taught me about art, classical music, and ballet etc etc.
I know that you are a great mother and teacher. Take care Marie-Anne💜x
Wow! A wonderful example for us all
Oh Marie-Anne, I always love your videos, but this was so beautiful and moving. Your mother looks beautiful and she sounds very wise too. My own mother was always a Tom boy and never interested in style, fashion, skincare or makeup. But her mother, my beloved Gran Margaret, was such an elegant woman. She was born in 1913, and lived until she was 95 years old. She taught me all of your mother's style lessons except how to walk in high heels, because she only ever wore flat or low heeled shoes! (she was 5'7" tall and my grandad was only 5'8" tall so she said it was rude to wear heels! 😂). She also taught me to sit up straight and never slouch. She hated jeans, but was the first woman in her family to wear trousers (she had long shapely legs and an hour glass figure!). She had a beautiful tweed trouser suit. She liked to wear a hat for church on a Sunday. She hardly ever wore makeup, but loved her red lipstick and had her hair "set" at the salon every week. She taught me how to shave the bobbles off woollen sweaters and how to tie a scarf. I could go on forever! She would have loved your videos too Marie-Anne!!! ❤️😘💕
You look marvelous! Beautiful outfit!💗 Lovely video and tribute to your mother💐💗 My mom taught me to love myself...she tried to give me confidence I lacked. When we’d shop, she’d pick out things for me or she’d buy me things and say “It’ll look good on you!” I can wear pretty much anything bc she gave me confidence.💗
Marie-Anne Lecoeur You do!! When we wonder, will this look good?- we just remember all u taught us💐 #wiseWoman
I have worn pale, pink lipstick all my life because I am very fair with blonde hair. I have always wanted to try red lipstick because it looks so beautiful on everyone else. I have tried it several times but always feel painted and self conscious that the color is too bold and makes me look even more pale. Is there a shade of red that I should consider that does not have a blue undertone since I have porcelain, peachy skin tone.? I am now in my early '70's so don't want to look like a painted clown! The lipstick you wear looks fabulous on you but I think it's too dark for me.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur That's a great idea...I'll do that...merci beaucoup!
There is shade called Russian red, it's warm red, Elizabeth Arden used to have it. Also Pupa has red shade that is transparent, so it's not that intense and will suit your pale skin.
Spoly .... go to the department stores and ask for a "quiet red" - tell them you are scared to wear a loud red and they will show you some . If you find some sales ladies "indifferent" , just move on to another counter .... you are the one with the money!!! Good luck and have fun with it !
I have a reddish lip tint I use by Burt's Bees. It is easy to use with a little brush. You can layer for more color or dab just a bit.
I’m Scandinavian so I know the problem, Chanel ultra hydrating lip colour in the colour 444 named Gabrielle is a orange red and you can play around with the intensity
Your mother was so beautiful, just like you, Marie-Anne! What a wonderful video xx
I love this! Your Maman is beautiful! My father wore a uniform also. My mother taught me so many things. She dressed well until her final year and the staff at the memory care unit called her The Queen. She wore Love that Red lipstick. I wear it sometimes but I feel self conscious in it for daily wear.
I remember lessons on taking care of my clothes, wearing little makeup, polishing my shoes, buying the best you can afford. She said cold water would make your hair shiny and close your pores so you didn’t have breakouts. She didn’t want me to wear heels because of my height. (I am 6’ and she was 5’3”. )However I did get some lower box heels in the 70’s and was so happy. She also sent me to a local department store for a course on being a young lady. We learned makeup, walking correctly, manners and flattering hairstyle. I miss her daily.
Would like to see Marie in various colors of lipstick, in addition to the bright red. Maybe we could vote on our favorites.
What about peony rose ? It is a lovely color for a brunet.
How lucky you were to learn from your mother ! I don't remember any type of discussion of any kind about fashion or appearance from my mother . I had to figure out most of the things you are discussing on my own . Watching your videos has helped me to know I'm on the right path . I've been wearing a couple of shades of red lipstick more often the last couple of years - one is a little more orange red and the other a blue red . Previously I kept to more nude shades of lipstick . It's way toooo late for me to learn to walk in heels but I really enjoyed seeing the instructions !
@@MarieAnneLecoeur :D merci
So beautiful Marie-Anne...my Mum definitely passed on well groomed hands and silk scarves
My mother taught me how to walk in high heels... she taught me to take care of my clothes and shoes and respect them.... I was NEVER allowed to have clothes on the floor... my mother taught me to always blot my lipstick... just a few memories from what you shared.
Oh my mom taught me that too! Teens have nothing on our moms...
High heels are a terrible idea for feet. "Knowing how" to walk in high heels can't negate the foot, knee, tendon and even hip troubles caused by stupid high heels. These days, high heels appear desperately stylish or simply stated... not very smart looking.
All great lessons! My mother taught me what elegance and femininity was, like yours, my mom had her signature red lipstick lol She was a stay at home mom for 5 kids and yet I never recall seeing her looking frumpy or like a slob, she is my female role model.
What I learned from my mother:
1. I shop alone. Shopping with my mother when I was a teenager was an exercise in frustration. She tend to poo poo my choices and there was always conflict. Therefore I couldn’t make up my mind because I had no confidence in my decisions. It wasn’t until my 40s that I began to develop that confidence. I’m not into shopping with friends. I don’t need anyone’s opinion. If I make a shopping mistake, it’s my mistake. 2. Don’t buy a too-small outfit thinking it will motivate you to loose weight. My mother did this years ago when she struggled with her weight. I tried it once. Of course it didn’t work. 3. Don’t buy ugly shoes. I don’t know what my mother was thinking. Year’s ago (1970s) My mother special ordered a pair of oxfords. Black wet-look leather with a chunky heel and round-toed. They were well-made and comfortable, but they were butt ugly and frumpy. She still has those shoes. A friend calls them Mean Teacher Shoes. Actually my mother was a fashionista in younger years! She made most of her clothes!
Valeria Martin You did make me laugh. I’ve never heard patent leather being called wet-look leather! That makes it sound horrible but I really like patent leather, if used in a stylish shoe. Maybe in the traditional black isn’t for you. It was a bit out of fashion for a while but seems to be around more now and there are some nude court shoes that look perfect in patent, in my opinion anyway. You might like those.
I agree about shopping with friends. Some people find it helpful but I don’t generally, unless they’re particularly stylish themselves.
Sugarplum K Actually, I love, love, love, black patent leather shoes! Especially flats! During the 70s with the wet-look, the leather had a crinkly shiny texture as opposed to the smooth sleekness of patent leather. My mother’s sensible oxfords were just plain ugly.
Valeria Martin Valeria Martin Hi Valeria. I’m not familiar with the crinkly patent. Sounds, um, different I must’ve missed that trend. Not that i was trendy 😂
Marie-Anne Lecoeur You’re welcome, Marie-Anne! Another thing I learned from my mother: she taught me how to wash my face with my hands instead of using a washcloth. Also use a separate soap for the face. From my pre-teen years thru my 20s I had a battle with super oily skin and acne.
Like me and my new channel. Which is what we would also be talking about...sense of style.
I have problems walking in shoes never mind heels. If I don't wear trainers made for running I'm agony due to arthritis. So I always look a bit scruffy.
Welcome to my world stylish sis.
Aurora, I have the same problem. Arthritis in my toes bunion on my right foot. Walking for any length of time is painful I bought $200 walking shoes and they helped tremendously. I can wear 2 inch kitten heels but that's it. It kind of goes with my style anyway I love clothes from the fifties and early sixties. Then the late thirties and forties. They didn't wear high heels back then. I always wanted to be able to and did when I was skinny and in my early twenties. I would have had Marie-anne back then I would have known how to walk in them.
My mother taught me to always take care of my clothes and everything else. She said that a V neck and A- line shape dress or skirt are the most flattering. She told me I don’t look good in chartreuse. Also that after five clothes are for evening wear only. At that time it was true, no bling during the day. She hated to see evening wear in a daytime casual setting. I do always wear lipstick. However red makes me feel like I stand out. I have always felt that red lipstick is too bright for me. I do have dark brown hair and eyes. I have never heard of the cold water rinse, perhaps in summer I will try. I have short hair. It is very special to have such sweet lessons from your Mom.
This was a very sweet video, Marianne.
I told my husband about the cold water after the shower - he thought it brilliant and offered to put the hose on me outside :O x
That gave me a good laugh.
I don’t wear high heels because I have a growth defect in my spine and also 20 years of illness has made my muscles very weak, but I do wear 2”” heels a couple of times a week, so I’ll try your tips and see what happens. I’d like to look incredibly elegant for the tiny bit of walking I can do in them! I don’t really have a mother figure for style, more like sister figures, including you and my friend D. I had a nice experience yesterday encountering a lady trying on dresses who is the same size and body type as me. We had a fun time advising each other and swapping dresses. I didn’t buy one but I did find a beautiful White Stuff skirt in a charity shop that is still on sale on their website. I think my love of a bargain did come from my mum, though! Love your parents’ wedding photo, so elegant and beautiful!
Just in general, if a person decided to use a cane. It would seem like a cane that is designed by an artist could be just as elegant of an accessory as heels. I'm imagining inlays and with a beautiful handle and tip. Just for ideas sake, very fancy pool cues could give an example of what an inlay is. Then a good metal color that suits you as part of it too, perhaps. I would also consider crystal as part of a handle. Consult an artist to find something perfect. I would find this accessory to be very impressive.
@@peaceonearth8693 There are some really nice vintage/antique canes out there, too, so it might be worth looking at Ebay and some of those vintage/antiques/bric-a-brac places, too. (My Nan nearly always wraps her walking stick with tinsel at Christmas just for the fun of it!)
Hello Marie-Anne. My mother did not teach me much about style or fashion because she was an orphan and grew up without her parents. So I saved my money and when I was 16 years old I went to modeling school. It was wonderful to learn all about fashion and makeup. I even taught my mom some things about fashion too. We were best friends together. ❤ 💋💋💋💋
Your mother is a very wise and beautiful woman!
All very good advice! I especially love the red lipstick, storing clothing properly, as it is an extension of you, and the walking in heels. I received none of these lessons from my Mother, so I am still a work in progress, even at age 51 💗
Loved this video. I think you look like your mom. Those were wonderful tips. It has me thinking of my mom. She too always wore lipstick. Getting her hair done was a treat for her. She also would try to keep in shape and eat as well as possible. Wearing colors that were attractive for your coloring was important. 😎
@@MarieAnneLecoeur My mom didn't care how far she had to travel in order to get her hair done.
my son does the cold shower at the end of his shower, he says it is good for your immune system, my mother made our clothes and we had beautiful clothes , she also taught us about skin care cleansing, toning and moisturizing , thanks for the good advice
Marie-Anne,
Thank you for your videos. I have just started watching them and find that I can relate to them quit well,
though I was raised in the Southwest part of the country, USA, where things are very casual. As I watch I find that this style is what I have always been attracted to. Could be because my Grandfather was French and my Grandmother was part French. My grandmother and my mother both loved their lipstick, (lipy sticky) as my grandmother called it. My mother was very big on caring for her clothes, she always emphasized never throw your clothes on the floor. Caring for your shoes was a must, never going out without your earrings and lipstick. I do slack in many of these aspects however I am excited to get back to caring for myself. Thank you again.
Beautiful pictures and sweet words of your mother🌹 I was raised by my fraternal mother ( mami I adore) she was a beautiful, simple lady, never wore any make up and keep her clothes immaculate - but I was told that my mother used to always look fabulous ( I only met her twice 1 I was 14 years old and 2 I was 42 years old) she was petite, slim with very fear skin and red hair - I did love my high heels 👠 and yes I do take good care of my clothes, all black some off white blouses and linen 😊
Bonjour, Marie-Anne. Lucky you learning all of this from your mother. I can’t say I remember any from my mother. I will do the cold water on my face & I really take good care of my clothes. Thank You!💕
Among many tips from my grand mother(she was great dress maker)and my mother ,the best advice they gave me was how to get right bra,it is so ,so important.....my mom had green eyes, blond hear and only make up she was wearing was coper- red lipstick, I am desperate to find that shade and those fine pure cotton, baptist bras,both my grand mom and my mom were paying great attention when my hormones started to work,good bra was must have to give the right ,nice shape to your breasts ,never ever go without the bra, only in the bed, big thanks to them
All good advice...one other thing...a beautiful smile will take you anywhere...💝💝💝
Bonjour Marie-Anne. I started to watch the video and thought to myself how pretty you look with your red lipstick - clean and classic and youthful. I have fair skin with dark blue eyes and blonde hair. I'd like to wear red lipstick but I'm a bit afraid of it. It's so bold and I'm unsure of the right color of red. Do I go with a blue based or warm orange-red or coral/red? I have blue-green veins and an ivory/very slight yellow tone to my skin rather than red tone. Red lipstick is classic, clean, youthful, fun and on you, very flattering! How can I be sure I'm wearing the right shade?
My mother was adamant about lipstick! She never left home without red lipstick (when she was younger). She changed to a more vibrant pink shade as she aged, which I also wear (red is too harsh for my skin). She always looked beautiful
I rarely use base or other makeup...I do use cold water on my face. Red lipstick...yum, always. I always choose basic classics. Fads...never. I keep my slacks in black, grey, and blue jeans (indigo). I always keep a black dress...one in short sleeve, one in long. I accessorize and even there...I rarely step outside of classics. I keep my clothes hung up or in the laundry...there is nowhere else. I had to give up high heels a few years ago after an accident to my foot. I can use a low (2" heel) or a flat. I always wear at least the low heels in a dress. I don't have a lot of money to invest in clothes...but in classics...so not necessary. As my grandmother used to say: I am not poor; I am merely without funds. She and my mother (like your's) were clever girls. :)
I lived closed to Perpignan in my youth and red lipstick is adamant. I also like purple which I guess is a reminiscent of the 80 rebel in us.
I like burgundy and some red lipstick. I splash my face with cold water three times after cleansing it. I am seventy one and still have good skin. Love your advice.
My mother had a wonderful sense of style and took very good care of her clothing. She always wore lipstick, had her hair "done" and her nails polished. I remember two beauty tips she always told my sister and I. Always wear rubber gloves washing the dishes, because the hot water and soap will ruin your hands. The other was stay out of the sun or at least wear a sunhat. Good solid tips from decades ago!
My mother gave me the same advice. After she died in 2008 I wrote in a notebook many of the things she told me so I wouldn't forget them.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Don't forget to use hand moisturizer having washing your hands and doing the dishes.
@@annfairfax9797 What a good idea! My mom died in 2009. We must be similar ages.
Priceless advise ! I stay away from the sun too , wearing hat and sunscreen !
Don't forget to buy a dishwasher 😉
Own your walk esp. when one is wearing high heels.Thank you for a lovely video!
Lovely tribute Marie-Anne! Is that your mama in the black and white photo behind you?
I wore red lipstick to my lumpectomy. Made me feel triumphant against the cancer.
My mom taught me how to shop second-hand for stylish clothing. We had so much fun shopping for bargains and buying gifts for others!
My mother in few weeks to became 104 years old, she is steal have manicure and pedicure, Love lipstick, use scarf e take care of her hear. She always smell great.My daughter and I trye to keep up with her.
Beatiful tribute to your mother. My mother wore red lipstick which I wear today. The tips for walking in high heels was so useful. Will practice! Thank you Marie Anne
I loved this so much! Please do more videos with 'how to live' wisdom from your mother :-)
I agree with the cold water tip. I have also heard that It’s important to rinse your hair with cold water to prevent frizzy hair.
A beautiful tribute to your maman. I grew in Montreal, Quebec. My mother wasn't French but she dressed like a French woman. She looked wonderful. But my father was French and had 3 sisters. And they knew how to dress as well. They would say one has to dress "comme il faut.
I was taught all of these hints since I was very young. Thank you Maman.
My mother was a very devout Christian so anything to do with appearances was prideful and sinful--something to be avoided beyond being basically clean and groomed. All the women in my family were seamstresses, so I made my own clothes, which meant I took good care of them. Expensive clothing? Heels and red lipstick? God forbid! LOL I loved this video. Maybe you could do another one, since you had to pick and choose to limit yourself to five.
Thank you so much and to your lovely mother yes I will practice how to walk with heels , before the wedding next week am a god mother, ....am always out of balance walking with my high heels shoes. Thank you so much Miss Marie, I will
pass on to my families and friends your channel...more power to you. Mae ....
First, thank you for your quick and kind reply regarding makeup! I love this video! My mother wore red lipstick - she was always so chic. And she always made sure that I was all dressed up before we went out. I have been wearing red lipstick since my 20s. I’ve also been finishing my showers with cold water for over 30 years. I let the cold water run over my face so it tightens the pores. And I only use cold water to clean my face. I’m 70 now but people say I look much younger and can’t believe I have a 50 year old son! People are always complimenting me on how beautiful my skin is. People always thought my mother was my sister - so guess I got my good genes from her and my father who also looked young for his age (he was French). Where I fail is with my clothes. But your video has inspired me to declutter my closet and take as good care of my clothes as I do my skin! Thank you for your inspiration. ❤️
I wear pale pink,
Darling woman then and now. Some people, as some things, are timeless in look, in attitude, and in perceptions. 💋
I'm 30 and I love your videos. Could you make some general style videos too?
Lovely video!
My dear mother ( 1922- 2016) was not very much occupied with her looks, although she was a natural beauty and always was well dressed. She did not think it to be that important. She did not like perfume and make- up ( she only used lipstick like your maman) and jewelry and she hated silk. At parties she did wear some jewelry though. She could make our clothes herself when we were young and we were always happy with what she had made. It was rather trendy in those days ( 50's/ 60's) so we were very proud ;) My father had a very good job ( dutch railways) and my mother ( who later in life had a good job herself) accompanied him to foreign countries for international meetings. From the Netherlands to France, Italy, Germany and other European countries. She spoke four languages. They had official dinners at these occasions and my mother also often made festive clothes for herself and she looked beautiful. She made one shiny paisley top that her daughters including me later did wear until is was worn out. ;)) She also had a great cognac colored suede jacket that i wore later in life. In daily life my mother looked more casual with much dark blue and brown and burgundy , not my colors. I always wear light colors and pastels. Her mother, my grandmother ( 1895- 1985) , was much more chique and elegant in daily life. She spend much money in expensive shops on clothing and perfumes and jewelry. She always wore high heels. She loved alpaca and cashmere and silk. Her father had textile shops so she was raised with knowledge about good clothing. My grandmother never used any make- up. No lipstick for her. My mother and my grandmother both influenced my taste. I can make my own clothes ( sewing, knitting) and clothing for my children and grandchildren and love lipstick like my mother , but like my grandmother i prefer precious natural fabrics ( addicted to cashmere) and also love perfume ( always Estée Lauder) and beautiful soap like Roger & Gallet ;)) Forgotten: my FATHER also was a role model because he loved beautiful fabrics like tweeds (Harris tweed jackets) and lambswool and he did wear brogues...which i all love too!
Video is nice, your outfit today though is confusing me...it is really wild
Now I know where your beauty comes from...your mother. My mother, too, taught all your mother has taught you, including the red lipstick. She also taught that ironing clothing was a vital part of being well dressed. Never would we be allowed to go to public places in casual clothing. There was "play clothing, day-wear, and Sunday Best". Each served its purpose and was part of becoming a lady. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
So interesting and valuable. I'm going to save this video in a youtube file. Thanks much!
(I really like your white skirt too, flattering and interesting.)
I will be 69 in July and can truly relate to most of the comments because our mothers and grandmothers were from a different era. My mother was a beauty queen from New York City and I was a July calendar baby in the most popular calendar of babies that everyone bought in New York City, well mostly mothers. My grandmother worked a department store called Gimbels which was a competitor of Macy's. She was always breast beautifully but as a kid and even as I got older I felt she wore too much makeup. Her clothes shoes jewelry hair everything else about her was Immaculate and perfect stylish and the epitome of a New York City woman. While my grandmother did not wear red lipstick my mother did. She hardly wore any makeup but everyday had powder red lipstick her eyebrows done, her hair immaculate and dressed lovely for the day. I am the oldest of seven. So as my mother had more and more children she didn't dress up as much but always had her hair done and a bit of makeup on and dressed appropriately for taking care of the kids. I remember when she would go out at night and it was magical watching her transform herself into a vision of beauty. I wore red lipstick when I was younger but not a lot. I was a teenager in the 60s when everyone walk hell lipstick and then in the seven days everybody was into Earth Tones. I never like my teeth so I did not want to call attention to them. Although everyone told me I had a nice smile I was self-conscious. Medium pink is darkest I wear. Although my teeth are nicer now I will have to give red a try. Over the years I was very much into fashion until I turned forty and let myself go, due to poor health. So, I am making a comeback! I have my own sense of style which is kind of romantic and feminine just like my mother. Being taught how to sew a hem, buttons that have fallen off a blouse and some basic mending stitches are what our grandmothers and Mother's knew how to do and passed them on to me as I passed them on to my daughter and granddaughters. I was taught everything you shared including how to walk in heels but I quickly forgot and I'm so glad you have taught me now even though I can only wear 2-inch ones it helps. So many wonderful comments that were a joy to read. I could relate to most of them and wished we had some of the old ways more often in our culture. Everyone seemed to be so civilized!
Hello Marie Anne! Your mother is a beautiful woman with the kindest eyes! She must be a wonderful inspiration for you and not just in fashion, I am sure. I hope you will not mind if I mention something regarding the wearing of heels and leg muscles. My physiotherapist told me that wearing heels actually shortens and tightens the leg muscles. To stretch these muscles, you can go up and down on your toes 10 times once a day. This keeps them nice and loose for wearing heels! I do this myself so I can wear my heels at work without pain and I do very well with this simple exercise. Mille mercis for the lovely story about your mother - it’s so nice to hear.
I always wear lipstick. My favorite is Cherries in the Snow by Revlon. It’s a beautiful red which looks lovely on almost everyone. It’s been around since the 1950’s which tells you how popular it’s been.
I have just remembered another vital tip from my mother. Invest in a good coat, the best you can afford. You can get away with less expensive clothes and still feel 'smart' when you put on that coat.
I finally found a red lipstick that I like, Bare Minerals, Intuition.
Style lessons that my mother taught me: Check how clothes are made for quality (fabric, cut, stitching). Care for clothing, mend and press clothing. Remove stains ASAP. Hang dry much of your clothing. Maintain good posture and smile.
Votre maman est vraiment adorable, très jolie. You ressemble your mother. My mother sew our clothes, so she teaches us how to take care of it, so the clothes can last. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment of your mother. My red lip stick is YSL Rouge #1.❤️
I never go out of the house without a muted red lipstick on. It has always wakened up my face, no matter my age. Now that I'm in my sixties, I really rely on it to give my face a lift. Votre maman et vous, vous etes tres belles femmes!
Thank you, Marie-Anne, for sharing your mother’s wisdom. I would love to know more 🥰
As I have watched you, Marie Anne, I realized that my mom, who was Mexican and American with a French/German ancestry, knew the things you are teaching. She even looked alot like you, which makes me smile since she is no longer with us. I remember going to the mall when I was about 12 and having her explain about coordinating colors in outfits and other things that turned out to be timeless, classic and very French Chic style tips. She was often asked if she was French, in fact, and epitomized French Chic in every way. As I grew up and experienced life and some personal tragedies such as my mom's death due to cancer, I forgot alot of the things she taught me and got lost in terms of how I dressed and carried myself. I want to thank you for helping me to remember how to have classic chic style that is timeless and to remember to love and care for myself again. Also, thank you for reminding me of her every time I watch you. All the best and God bless. I look forward to your videos every week when they come out.
Ah! So sweet to remember our mothers! My mother had very good taste, which of course, didn’t listen to until I was an adult. I remember her trying to tell me that clothes should never fit skin tight! And that less is more, and to stick to classics...now I know she was right! She used to knit and sew, and she was very good at it!
Hello Marie Anne such a lovely tribute to your mom . It made me think of my own mo. Who passed away about eight years ago I. Have been wearing red lipstick more sin e finding your channel I prefer warm brick reds Have a lovely weekend 😍
mary ann Gonzalez I do wish more people today felt this way. Sloppy and disgusting seem to be the norm now.
Linda Riddle I agree 💯
My mother taught me that taking care to be well-groomed and styled was one way to show respect to other people and occasions. She taught me also to arrive on time, and to really listen without trying to think of a clever response. And she was a truly brilliant seamstress!
Your dear mother was a very Chic and Elegant lady Penelope 🙏
This was a very bittersweet video for me, because my mother had many of the same dressing/style philosophies as your mother did, and I was always in awe of her fashion and make-up sense. Sadly, she passed and I miss her very much. She was beautiful...as you and your mother are. Thank you!
About cold showers it is true , they help to firm the skin , blood rushes to the surface of the skin and makes it glowing and nourished and firmed . in Russia we go even further - we jump into an ice cold water or snow after sauna:) Your mother taught you right lessons , I admire her advise about how to walk in high heels .
Wow! Your mom is *very, very* beautiful! No wonder why you're so beautiful yourself. You look so much like her! ❤️❤️
Thank you for these simple and very useful lessons. And thank your amazing mother!
I think my style icon would be my Nan, my mum's mum. She's always dressed so stylishly, though she finds it very hard now because of mobility issues. I would say that the things I've learned from her are: 1. Don't be afraid of colour, but make sure it suits you and that the outfit's colours tie together 2. Make sure your clothes fit well 3. Less is more - don't heap on the jewellery 4. Simple styles are best - too many trimmings and frills and bows just look messy 5. Whatever you wear, it always looks a thousand times better if you smile and are confident and happy And most importantly: 6: Age is a number, enjoy being yourself at whatever age you are!
No cold showers for me. I have raynaud's.
I am 5’11” so I have never worn high heels because I look like a giant ! I know I shouldnt care but 1 inch or 1 and 1/2 inches is the most I ever do. Luckily I got my shapely legs from my mother but she never has been very stylish. I have learned a lot about style from you and others on utube over the last year. I wore red lipstick last night to dinner with a pink undertone. Perfect at night but being blonde maybe a little too much for day time.
Well, my dear Grandmother celebrated her 100th birthday last year and she owned and managed (together with my grandfather) a big shoe store, focusing on classic style and quality... as a small child I remember running around the store, choosing whatever I liked to wear! We siblings never bought shoes, we always got them from the store... I have SO many pairs of classic and CRAZY shoes from different centuries in my wardrobe, all from my Grandmothers collection... black velvet plateaus, knee-high white laced boots, blood read clogs... you name it! All in excellent quality. I can never ever buy cheap shoes; that’s a huge NON! for me.
Everything you mentioned is sadly not practiced here in Australia. I believe we are a style- less culture which saddens me. When I was growing up, my mother too, taught me how to be a lady and to carry yourself with style , the same thing I taught my own daughter. I’m 52 and still wear my high heels much to the shock of my peers of the same age. Thank you for your video. Xxx lily
Ah Lily I think you are too harsh on Australia & Australians.But we agree on the sage advice of Marie-Anne Lecoeur.
This is a beautiful tribute to your lovely mother! I also practice 3 of the 5 rules, but I only wear medium high heels once or twice a week due to painful bunions and my Mother has been trying for years to convince me to wear red lipstick, but at age 49 I think she has given up on the red lipstick, because the closest I get to it, is a medium shade of pink or a more neutral color!! It is beautiful on other people, I probably just need to find the right shade and pigment of red, maybe a red lipstain will be more for me. (Hope to see cute little Coco and his sibling in the next video!) . Thank you for a great video!
@@MarieAnneLecoeurAh, I can just imagine how cute and innocent they look while sleeping next to the warm stove! Thank you for all your inspiring video's!
Good Evening...MarieAnne!! My Grandmother was my maternal influence and she as well never went out without her lipstick on!! She felt finished and turned out and ready to take on the world with those lips. Your Mothee and my Grandmother were of like minds as the rest of your advice was mine too! Thank you for bringing a wonderful memory back to me... along with a smile, I do so miss her! Grandma Rose.... my hero!
I can’t believe it my mother was the same. She never wore any makeup yet so many people commented to me that my mother always looked so good and dressed up. But her secret was red lipstick. She was 83 when she died, I’m 60 this year and I bought my first red lipstick now I need to get brave enough to wear it. Thanks for your videos.
Carla, try patting it on, as a stain, first, and do the tiniest bit of it on you cheeks, too, so it looks cohesive on your face. Sometimes that helps one feel that the lips are not standing out as much because the color is repeated elsewhere on the face. Or, treat your lips with a drier, waxier type lip balm and rub a bit of the lipstick on top, so you only have a hint of the color. (I recommend a waxy, matte balm like the original Chapstick or some of the EOS, not a shiny, slippery one like Carmex or Vaseline. Those will the red look greasy, glossy, and childish, and worse, will likely make the color run out of the lip line.) If you're not used to full intensity red, "diluting" it a bit will give you all the lift and vivaciousness of the color, without making you feel uncomfortable. Third, experiment mixing the red with a nude or "brownish" lipstick that you know flatters your skin. Adding a flesh tone to a vibrant color often makes it more wearable. Once you're more used to wearing red, try applying your lipstick full on, letting it set for a few minutes, and blotting it with a tissue. I think this is a technique that works well for many of us, over 50 ladies. It gives us a "muted" version of a favorite color so it will not look like we're trying too hard, plus it helps the lipstick not migrate into the fine lines we all get around the lips. Finally, when you're wearing red, make sure to wear dark mascara in order to create balance. If you don't do this, it might make you focus too much on the bold color on your lips and make you feel it's just too jarring. Good luck experimenting!
Irai Rod Thank you I’m going to try these suggestions
Beautiful photo of your parents , you have a bit of both of them , I see your Father's eyes and your Mamma's smile .❤️
My mother taught me a lot as well, but when I was young I was a rebel. Now I miss her a lot and I'm trying to follow her style, which was simple, but always elegant. Thank you
A very beautiful lady. You take after her.
Such a lovely wedding photo! Bobbie Brown Parisian Red is my favorite red lipstick.