How To Feel Like The Most Stylish Person In The Room: 5 Secrets
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2024
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Personal style is a true form of self-expression, but putting an outfit together well can be challenging and intimidating. So how do you do it?
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0:00 // Intro
- Charlie Coveralls, Eggnog, Size 2 rstyle.me/+5F9vkxktVjveiK4o01...
- Striped Shirt, Sezane Size 2 rstyle.me/+RNoj14NgogBtzlLXll...
- Trench “Gerard”, Rouje (Get $40 OFF with this link: rouje.refr.cc/dearlybethany)
0:57 // Create interest with textures
- Knit Tee, Sezane XS rstyle.me/+c7YMbCg8HMT3AmjPt7...
- Leather Pants (Vegan), Aritzia Size 2 bit.ly/Aritzia-Babaton-V-Leath...
- Boots, Mango TTS rstyle.me/+C4ohQWdz8bMDKC8R2t...
- Boots (Patent), Aldo TTS rstyle.me/+1urgwBNP1XlLq0Upr1...
- Navy & Black “Aldo Blouse”, Rouje (Get $40 OFF with this link: rouje.refr.cc/dearlybethany)
- Navy Pants (Similar) rstyle.me/+xQnUcjiPDRRSW4Jn_n...
2:13 // Wear a hero piece
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- Boots, Steve Madden TTS 6.5 rstyle.me/+09Y0ygjhI0tthyhTzz...
3:38 // Start collecting accessories
- Black shirt, ANINE BING rstyle.me/+akRT8nKIoqhNG41fyr...
- Cheaper rstyle.me/+ItEpPvZnkiqx7w5uOJ...
- Jeans (dark), AGOLDE rstyle.me/+qD_Mfl4xbrM8KHvtkI...
- Cheaper rstyle.me/+q_ChQDYnMXBB3_V37u...
- Hat, Gigi Pip XS rstyle.me/+bSHLmtSLpTD5ZDhNdZ...
- Jewelry listed in “What I’m Wearing” section below
6:03 // Embrace Juxtaposition
- Jacket (Recycled Leather Moto), Deadwood Size 34 rstyle.me/+PIQkV03cU2DPbfZ1SP...
- Dress (white), Everlane 00 rstyle.me/+uS6gxoC0Z8bLU6lDND...
- Boots, Aldo TTS rstyle.me/+A5fzpH-eR7pLx2SsFw...
- Blouse (Similar) rstyle.me/+kFysmBM49crl2jf2T9...
- Jeans, Agolde 24 rstyle.me/+WEEBMsglZh56IwBSCX...
- Cheaper: rstyle.me/+KNaLcJaL4JsTDvOvQR...
- Tee (Hollywood), ANINE BING XS rstyle.me/+_RkHscsKRrUlZwWj7b...
- Pants (Brown, Similar) rstyle.me/+IUXcaf1DavwNvMC18K...
- Tee (Brigitte Bardot), ANINE BING XS rstyle.me/+td3JhOMnnOM8xMbQf-...
7:24 // Don’t Fear Being Bold
// What I’m Wearing //
Jacket (Similar) rstyle.me/+_IPH1Y7cECwZ9uPwHz...
Jeans, Agolde Size 24 rstyle.me/+WEEBMsglZh56IwBSCX...
Tee (Similar) rstyle.me/+iTww_Ldr9sH8lQGpmH...
Hat, Lack of Color rstyle.me/+35K-82LubzUl5yy7zi...
Necklace - Pearl & Gold (24k Gold Plated, 16”) rstyle.me/+rK388e9mXKL2Tbd_3l...
Necklace - Coin (tiny) (24k Gold Plated, 18") rstyle.me/+5FaenKhxBNeoIIu3vA...
Necklace - Vase (24k Gold Plated, 24”) rstyle.me/+oMyoGJCFW7C0mt60Uo...
Rings:
- Snake, Pamela Card rstyle.me/+28KmQNKzMiIkkjnr4D...
- Rose, Pamela Card rstyle.me/+B-VfIt6qBxILW_3pQO...
- Wedding Ring, J.Hannah rstyle.me/+md7xvG_2_DjdyYt-Me...
- Other Rings, Mejuri youtube.mejuri.com/dearlybethany
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wow what a grown up statement, when you express yourself boldly you give others permission to do the same!! so insightful!
It changes everything! 🤗
I’m totally that person who wants to express a delicacy one day and a grungy moodiness the next. I’m excited to put the two together in one outfit! Also I just got a sweater from your closet sale🥰
Aw yay! Thanks Anna! 🤗❤️
Ahaha same :D
i love the fierce advice about saying the critique out loud, and asking who it is directed at. Sing it, Bethany!
Love it! Some things just need to be said. Thanks Pamela! 💃❤️
How many of agree that Bethany looks attractive in hats.
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Who’s kidding, Bethany would look good in a potato sack. She’s a beautiful feminine energy, that would shine through in anything.
Can you do a „what I wore in a week?“ :) would be interesting how you include these tips in your day to day life. ❤️
this is just a random comment, but I want u to know how grateful I am for discovering ur channel💗 thanks for saving me against impulsive buying and inspiring me to make over my wardrobe!! u're such a blessing, u deserve all the love😚
“Dress like the person you want to be.”
-Jordan Peterson
This quote helps me to have the confidence to wear pieces I would consider bold :)
It's a beautiful quote!
And quite useful as well:)
Wow A fan of Jordan Peterson and Bethany.
I love this comment section.
@@maneetabhandari1106 😉👉🏼
I love that she mentioned courage in relation to style. It's courageous to risk criticism for what you value most.
I’ve never related to someone in style more in my life and to top it off someone who is the exact same height and body shape you truly inspire me so much 😭✨
I didn’t expect to have such positive messages come forth from this video (I came for the great style advice as always), but I so appreciate the love of self you are encouraging here. I think beauty and caring for how you look- the effort required- is important to portray for my own self, my husband, family, and my friends. I want them to know it mattered to me to look presentable for them; this is often misunderstood for vanity when it is love for self and others. Thx Bethany. X
Bethany just got real in this video. Man I am guilty of letting people dictate how to express myself through my clothing. I am soo ready to start my journey!
This video is so calming 🥺 I love it! Always looking for ways to up my style game
Thanks Caroline! 🤗💕
I think this is my favorite video by you so far
I always embraced the idea of the "third piece" without being conscious of it -- scarves! Working in a cold office, it was a necessity but also became my 'signature' look. A great fitting jacket also works wonders!
I was struck by seeing those lit & comfortable dresses ideas. There were such a marvelous pieces for me. As I have previously remarked, so inspirational and am delighted. I just wannid to say the explanation was so coherent.
Highlight of my week 🙆🏻♀️ so Glad you’re uploading regularly again Bethany!! Love how you’re adding hats into your outfits ✨ gives such chic edgy vibes ☺️ because of you I’ve been investing in my accessories and now I’m trying to find my hero pieces too! ❤️ loved these tips
Love it, Emily! ❤️🤗
I'm soo in love with your feminine voice ,Thank you for those beautiful advices 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤
Thanks Judy! 🥰
Lovely tips. Thank you for always adding timestamps! It makes the viewing process so seamless and easy.
Your voice is so soothing! Watching your videos feels like meditation
Hehe love this! 🤗
Hi Bethany, just wanted to say that your point number 5 really really touched me. I needed to hear them right now. Thank you so much 💓
As always, your this video was also dreamy , romantic and calming.
And as always I like the music at the end, for me it always feels like an ending of a romantic movie.
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How someone can be such a prefect stylist 😍
It would be great to have it with a visual guide as well
This is the kind of content that beings me confidence and joy! From the first ever video I ever saw of you... Please keep doing what you're doing... What you said in the end is my biggest take away from this-my 25 year old self, is only gonna be 25 for this small while... So why not dress up in a way that I can pull off without being shy... 🌼
Your style is everything
And your voice is muahh ❤❤
Love uhh
I really appreciate how you take the time to add a link in every piece so we can easily access. Thank you
I always love watching you're videos, they're always so calming, yet inspiring at the same time! 🥰
I relate so much to the juxtaposition point, it's so hard having an androgynous "suit" style and a super feminine style at the same time. Thank you for addressing this!
I love that you described the "third piece" as a hero piece. I'm not a very "fussy" dresser (i.e. I'm probably practical to a fault). So while I love style and to express myself through clothes, sometimes my outfits have felt a bit lackluster to me because I didn't layer/wear a hat/wear a ton of jewelry, etc. to get that "third piece." But now I try to have more "hero" pieces--a really cool bag, a pair of statement earrings, a really interesting pair of shoes, etc. It makes me feel more stylish and put together :)
Love it Kelly! It really is game changing ✨
Of all your videos, this is by far my favorite! So real. So good!
Definitely my favorite video of yours to date! I wish I had learned these things as a teenager when beginning developing my style. These are fantastic tips, especially the texture and juxtaposition. This was so helpful, insightful, and inspiring.
Thanks Christina! I wish I had thought about them as well back then! 🤗
I loved this video, Bethany! 💕 The intense way you talk about you love and your job is perfect!
Thanks Nathalie! 💕
So glad I stumbled upon your channel! I’m petite as well & desperately in need of styling tips for blazers! Please do one if you haven’t already! ❤️❤️
I love all of your style tips in this video 😍🙌🏼❤️ definitely will take some of this advice
I loved this Bethany! Especially the last point
Really sweet and empowering post. Thank you for sharing. I'm 5ft 2in tall and pear shaped, so your channel is fantastic. There's something incredibly soothing about the color palettes and outfits you create. Very artistic!
The last tip got me! Ever since I started going to church clad in an outfit that would be deemed unusual for most of the members, some of them have also started dressing up more stylishly!
I am not ordinarily a YT commenter but I do wish to say I discovered this channel and after seeing many of Bethanys videos these are the most inspiring and impactful fashion vlogs I have yet to come across. Spent the weekend enamored in the overall style reviewed here. Just arrived home spending a Sunday finding additional key pieces that include linen pieces that will fit into what I already have. My wardrobe feels alive and invigorated and because of these videos discovered a style that I love but did not yet quite know how to incorporate. Thank you Dearly Bethany for allowing me to find a side of my personal style that has been waiting to show itself. Best weekend ever! 💛💛💛
Your comment makes me want to cry. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this, friend! It means more than you know and keeps me inspired to keep uploading ❤️🤗
Your sweet reply gives me happy chills! If there is anything 2020 taught us is to never put off later what you value today. You have helped me see looking amazing is not vanity, it’s becoming the person we were always meant to be. What is seen on the exterior is a reflection of what’s within. You are truly a shining light showing others how they too can find the courage to shine becoming our most authentic self. Xoxo 🥰
This is so deep and SO true. Thank you for truly understanding my heart when I'm speaking on these topics. 💛
Bethany! You wear anything well...some people just do, that's just you..embrace it!!!
Loves the way she says "bye"
It's like "done"
You are one of my favourite people to watch! Always so excited about you videos 💛💛
Aw thanks friend! Means the world 🤗❤️
Great video! I really appreciate your comment on juxtaposition. I tend to wear more basics, because I’m not sure how to bridge the gap between my feminine and bold/edgy sides. As a result, what I wear isn’t much of a reflection of who I am. Thanks for giving me the nudge to start mixing it up!
Liking the video before even watching it ❤️❤️❤️ girl you’re gorgeous!!!
Thank you soo much for working soo hard. Your videos help us in soo many ways to elevate our clothing sense. Love you😘💞
So positive! Really like the video, thank you bethany 😊
Bethany love your 5 secrets,it’s really a game changing for every woman like me.Thank you so much 🥰
Wow, yes. To everything in this video. Especially your message at the end Bethany! 💞
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Thank you for your insightful tips Bethany! I love your videos and your passion for style is really inspirational. :)
Thanks Bethany! Always love your great style/ life advice and your highly produced videos! Keep it up girl! 💕 Do you have a video on fitness/active wear? Would love to see one from you! Stay well and safe !
Your words about juxtaposition and style really resonated for me...thanks! Very valuable...‼️
I always love you videos! I’m in the process of building my wardrobe after having 4 kids. I’ve realized I’ve never really embraced my uniqueness. Being comfortable being bold! That is my biggest take away from this. Thank you
Love this! 🤗
Your voice is so calming❤️
As usual, amazing content!
the hat gives all the vibes!
Your videos are just flat out AMAZING. Thank you for being who you are! I love everything about your style, and just - You!! I feel so inspired after watching your videos. Thank you!!
aw, thank you so much, Bella! Your comment made my day!
Amazing Bethany, you not only have your only style in dressing, but also your own style in your videos. The music too goes too well with the videos. Love ya.....
Yay, ennea 4 and having "conflicting" styles :) the statement about permitting others to show their uniqueness was a great point (and also a very 4 thought)
Nice song at the end. Just wow! 😃And the video was superb! 💞
Love this, I just tried mixing my styles and it totally worked!
Loved This! And you wore that hat girl!😍
Loved this, especially the pep talk at the end!! ❤️
Thanks Vanessa! ❤️
This was so encouraging and so thoughtful. Thank you. ☺️💕 You are a gift!
Aw thanks, Kayla! 🥰💛
Loved this encouragement!
Can I just say, this video is about clothes but contains a lot more. This is just great content
You will never be as young as you are at this moment.
So true! We should be friends ☺️
Great video! That hat is perfection. 🥰And I love the plants and architecture of the space around you! 🌿👌
Thanks Jesse! 🥰🤗
I was so eagerly waiting for new videos 🥰🥰
I loved all of your style. Not exaggerated its just perfect.🥰
You make the most interesting and thoughtful videos.
Your advice and style are both exceptional. Thank you for sharing!
🥰❤️ thanks so much!
Inspiring as always! Thanks for the tips Bethany! 💕
Thanks Shay! 💕
Love the message Beth❤️
You make me want to change my Major haha, Ive always had an interest for styling and design!
Haha much love, girl! 🤗
You should definitely do it! It's a huge industry and you can be creative!!!!
@@Hollyhock7 uugghh so tempting ;)
I love the background music it's so relaxing and kinda addictive 🥰 love your style and thank you for the tips ❤
Thanks so much ❤️🥰
i liked the video before watching it!🥰😍😍
Everything you say feels magical! ❤️
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Learnt a lot from you!
Thank you so much 💐💐💐
Nice video! Loved it 💖
Very helpful! Thanks dear! Very proud of what knowledge you give to others!)
Those are all really good advices 👏🏼😊 thank you Bethany!
Thanks so much, Francesca! 🤗
Hi I watch your videos like an addict😅. It makes me learn so much and gives me confidence 😊
I fell a sleep because your voice is so relaxing😅
Hey Bethany, loved this video of yours!! I think you said some very deep stuff, if that makes any sense :p
If you could, maybe make a video on how you do your hair/take care of your hair?
Thanks for the message ♥️
Lovely video thank you so much for sharing :)
I love how thoughtful your tips are! And those agolde jeans are so perfectly complimentary- I just wish they weren’t so out of range, price-wise
It’s the philosophy of investing in quality vs quantity. I found that that buying cheap clothes ends up being more expensive because of their durability.
Those rings you're wearing ❤️😍😍😍
I looove your editing!
It’s the best editing I am seeing on UA-cam!!!
Thanks so much! 🤗
Ugh. I freaking love you. 💞🤧 Literally always rocking that denim. You're so pretty, queen. 🙌🥺💘 Appreciate your channel so much. 👑
Aw much love, friend! 🤗💛
@@bethanyleonardo Yes, girl. 🙌👑💞
Omg I love your videos is so full of information and your voice is so pleasant to hear I like to seat back and enjoy your content.
Aw thanks so much, Angela!
I love your videos so much. 💓
A bit late to the video but it was really nice food for thought. I have to admit that even though I really would love to wear certain styles, I've been a bit scared to. Life is short though and I really want to live to the fullest, and that includes not restricting myself on the way I want to dress. Thanks for another great video!
4) and 5) points are really the focal point of this video ♥️ love love love your style and work 👏👏
I saw this video while going to bed and trust me it's by far the best video I saw till date 🙌🙌
Just love this episode!!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹
NOW YOU HAVE TOTALLY BECOME MY FAVOURITE INFLUENCER ISTG
This really was something I need to hear
You know there are videos that you could learn something from get inspired, and then there are videos that you feel ! This the video I felt..
🤗❤️ I love this
Love that hat!!
Enjoying your uniqueness
love your videos!
You actually give a lot of useful information such as textures, combining mat and shiny, pant rise, etc. There are a few of you on here who really have something to teach us, but for the most part, a lot of the girls on here doing this, do nothing more than copy each other. They all say you need the same five things in a wardrobe, and they are all the same thing.
Totally relatable when you talk about yourself at 6:30❤️