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  • @SundaySpeaks
    @SundaySpeaks 17 днів тому +154

    You are the first Muslim who’s sermon I listened to the day before Ramadan 2023. I took Shahada 19 March 2024 🤲🏾🫶🏾

  • @sidikatisa-yusuf7442
    @sidikatisa-yusuf7442 17 днів тому +66

    Either 'arranged introduction' or 'love marriages' ,May Allah grant our youths grace to marry the right person who will help them in their deen🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻

  • @zayana6398
    @zayana6398 17 днів тому +106

    I’m super stressed right now walahi 😢😂as a lady it’s super hard to make decisions without being judged for it
    My family wants me to marry a guy that I don’t like, I don’t know why I don’t like him 😢😢I can’t see Myself marrying him walahi
    If you come across this comment pls make dua for me I really do it prayers 😊

    • @adhilmuhammad5421
      @adhilmuhammad5421 17 днів тому +12

      رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

    • @Mdua80
      @Mdua80 17 днів тому +13

      Tell them , you have to want to marry him, make Dua and Istikhara, ask Allah to guide you, Istikhara is done not before sleep, no need to dream, shaytan comes in dreams, trust your instinct it never lies!!

    • @adam4025
      @adam4025 17 днів тому

      listen for your heart !

    • @somebody_55
      @somebody_55 17 днів тому

      ​@@Mdua80well said brother Ma sha Allah

    • @zayana6398
      @zayana6398 17 днів тому

      @@Mdua80 thank you

  • @shalizamohammed868
    @shalizamohammed868 17 днів тому +39

    Daily Dhikr Reminder 💚,💚.🌹.Bismillah
    1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
    3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

  • @corneewols8542
    @corneewols8542 9 днів тому +11

    A arranged meeting/marriage sounds really interesting and appealing for me. For whom meeting and dating woman is really difficult.

  • @Sulthxnaahh._
    @Sulthxnaahh._ 6 днів тому +5

    Whatever the marriage it is! Stay happily with that partner. But i always prefer love marriage because of both know each other is a great thing. But the parents is not agreed to marry the person whome loves you most we cant do anything. But dont lose the hope in 'Allah'. Pray, cry to him for the person whose love you. Allah will give you oneday. In sha allah🙂

  • @FermieRidzka
    @FermieRidzka 17 днів тому +28

    May The Almighty Allah(swt) make it easy for us and grant to us to get married in a good/righteous spouses and to have offsprings who will be the coolness of our eyes,heart and soul. Ya Mujib accept our dua’s.
    Aameen🤲♥️♥️

  • @habibasangari4260
    @habibasangari4260 17 днів тому +9

    I have long wanted to hear something like this. ❤

  • @travelwithfazah
    @travelwithfazah 17 днів тому +22

    May Allah protect our kids d
    From saitan and give them Hidayat to be always on Right path 🤲

  • @WarishaMondal
    @WarishaMondal 17 днів тому +6

    MY FAVOURITE SPEAKER ❤
    MUFTI MENK 🎉

  • @MdIbrahim-fs5iy
    @MdIbrahim-fs5iy 17 днів тому +30

    Love From Bangladesh ❤🇧🇩🇵🇸

    • @sumiah-tm2dl
      @sumiah-tm2dl 17 днів тому

      assalamualaikum sumi ramadon

    • @Enkei6_
      @Enkei6_ 17 днів тому +1

      🇧🇩 Represent

  • @ashuus946
    @ashuus946 17 днів тому +14

    Yes ,they have to be satisfied each other,its long journey

  • @_Kashmir_313_
    @_Kashmir_313_ 17 днів тому +9

    Light on the Tongue,
    Heavy on the Scale (Dhikr)
    Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) Said:
    The One Who Say
    سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ العَظِيم
    “Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim”
    100 Times
    No One Will Be Better Than Him On The Day of Judgement Except Someone Who Said It More Than Him'
    [Sahih al Bukhari 6682]
    Also in [Sahih Muslim]
    Say It At Least 100 Times During The Day
    While You'Re Fasting
    Also Share With Others

  • @FarhanLifts
    @FarhanLifts 16 днів тому +1

    May Allah Azzawajal bless you sir with immense goodness and mercy. JazakAllah❤

  • @WarishaMondal
    @WarishaMondal 17 днів тому +4

    Your words touched my heart 💜❤🎉

  • @kauserunnisabegum6565
    @kauserunnisabegum6565 17 днів тому +2

    Greatly said and beautifully explained 😊

  • @Finefella
    @Finefella 12 днів тому +4

    Keep making duas for all oppressed

  • @ibrahimzahoor601
    @ibrahimzahoor601 17 днів тому +3

    May Allah increase my happiness and tranquility. May Allah fulfill my wishes. InshaAllah 🤲❣️

  • @kehfilwara1692
    @kehfilwara1692 15 днів тому +4

    Rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata aayun wa ja’alna lil muttaqeena imama.
    Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer.

  • @farhanaanis8382
    @farhanaanis8382 17 днів тому +3

    Aameen 🤲🏻🤲🏻 MASHA ALLAH well done speech 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    LAA HAWLA WALAA KUWATHA ILLAA BILLAA whatever it is , we have to accept our QADR which is pre-written by HIM ALLAH SWT... MAY ALLAH SWT make it easy for our children and ease our affairs and grant peace. Aameen 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻

  • @fatimakhan3067
    @fatimakhan3067 17 днів тому +5

    Some time I relate everything Mufti menk say is according to my situation

  • @Raha4848
    @Raha4848 15 днів тому +2

    Subhanaallah❤❤❤❤ live long mufti shekhi

  • @AbcDef-jh7rw
    @AbcDef-jh7rw 13 днів тому +4

    Regarding marriage I feel like I am in such a horribly awkward situation.
    I am so confused on this topic man

  • @abubakarkoroma8770
    @abubakarkoroma8770 17 днів тому +5

    Alhamdulila I'm greatful ❤

  • @samarsaa6757
    @samarsaa6757 16 днів тому

    May Allah Almighty gives us steadfast in our Deen.Aameen.may Allah Almighty bless mufti Menk sahib with health,happiness and may Allah Almighty protects mufti Menk sahib from evil eyes and from jeolous people.Aameen.

  • @GhGh-js3el
    @GhGh-js3el 17 днів тому +1

    ربنا هب لنا من ازوجنا و ذريتنا قرة أعين و جعلنا للمتقينا اماما

  • @user-wd9bn8bw4k
    @user-wd9bn8bw4k 16 днів тому +1

    GOD bless y'all 🤲🏽 🥰

  • @learnprogramming3272
    @learnprogramming3272 17 днів тому +9

    I love a girl, please keep me in your prayers. I want a Hilal relationship. But her parents are not interested in me 😢😢😢😢. Please remember in your prayers. As it's stated if you like a woman marry her. But due to sect 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @asmauadri
    @asmauadri 17 днів тому +2

    Would love to view the full episode

  • @your11minutes98
    @your11minutes98 17 днів тому +2

    Finest video on marriage.

  • @ariyankhan8200
    @ariyankhan8200 17 днів тому +10

    Love from BANGLADESH 🇧🇩❤❤❤❤❤

    • @haytoxs
      @haytoxs 17 днів тому +1

      Love from morocco brother ❤‍🩹❤‍🩹🤝🤝

  • @zuzanna3823
    @zuzanna3823 17 днів тому +1

    Masha Allah. True. Alhamdulilah

  • @kinsiismail-jv1pj
    @kinsiismail-jv1pj 17 днів тому +1

    Sheikh mufti menk masha Allah ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Top._10_Editz
    @Top._10_Editz 17 днів тому +1

    Love from Kashmir ❤❤❤❤

  • @mhizzraihan3486
    @mhizzraihan3486 17 днів тому +5

    I was going to get married to a guy who already paid my dowry but unfortunately his parents arranged a family marriage for with another girl and he was forced to marry her and since then which is 3yrs now I haven’t found a man yet and I don’t know why but Allah knows everything hmmm

  • @ALDCEDITSSS.
    @ALDCEDITSSS. 17 днів тому +1

    Asalaamu aleykum sometimes don’t say no to your parents without knowing the person he can be the one give a chance

  • @durranaybachey4555
    @durranaybachey4555 17 днів тому +1

    Back in the old days during my grandparents time line people used to do parents decision arrange marriage. Then in 80S-90s era people used to do love marrage.. This era its all about money status people dont fall for love anymore. People look at how much you earn.if you have money$$$ status anyone can marry you will find the best proposal.

  • @sabeensadaf1795
    @sabeensadaf1795 17 днів тому +3

    Its so bad that i cant even share this video with them

  • @Asad-2166
    @Asad-2166 17 днів тому +9

    Just follow the Qur'an and sunnah you can't go wrong 👍 now free Palestine

  • @sodiqafolabi3093
    @sodiqafolabi3093 10 днів тому +1

    Mashallah tabarakallah

  • @ameemusaa
    @ameemusaa 17 днів тому +1

    Saallaallhu alehi wasalam Saallaallhu alehi wasalam ❤❤

  • @MDAlom-rs9qe
    @MDAlom-rs9qe 17 днів тому

    Mashallah ❤❤❤❤

  • @azidbarbhuiya7689
    @azidbarbhuiya7689 15 днів тому +1

    Assalamualaikum Mufti ... Can you please explain this in Hindi I wanna share this with my relatives and friends their parents and all they are doing soo wrong 😢

  • @l.d769
    @l.d769 17 днів тому

    Assalaamu alaykoum wa rahmati Allah wa barakatuh love marriage is preferred the most the most women wouldn't marry a man that they don't want or love for several reasons they don't agree of what family presents for them they emotionally shuts down or have eating disorder staying in their rooms/ homes all day or walks away to other places but when she does love she is flourishing she is happy all day talks more and takes most of her mother and have an attitude of responsibility at start even for some men in different situations it depends on their background or culture but this is a beautiful dua's for the one whom want to marry in the night prayer tadharo'an/in supplications with pure intentions 1. inni li ma anzalta ilaya min khairin faqeer 2. Allahoumma Hablana min azwadjina wa dourriyatina qurat ayoun wa dja'alna li muttaqeena imama these supplications are in the quran ameen ameen ameen ya Rabb Al'Alameen and by the way in the dua connect e-book pdf. of mufti menk from muslim central i recommended it very much ma sha Allah tabaaraka Allah Arrahmaan so many dua over there top and many more love it Alhamdoullilah wa soukroulillah

  • @MahiraKhan-qz2rj
    @MahiraKhan-qz2rj 17 днів тому

    O Allah except our good deeds ameen

  • @thefoodicon7919
    @thefoodicon7919 15 днів тому

    SubhanAllah SubhanAllah SubhanAllah

  • @saminafardosejuthi6218
    @saminafardosejuthi6218 5 днів тому

    ALLAH bless us all

  • @munawaranoor9635
    @munawaranoor9635 8 днів тому

    Parents choose for us and if we deny they tell us we know nothing they dont allow us to choose what we want only them can choose for us plz I need to know if this is right.
    And why if we try to choose for ourself they are wishing us bad thing abt our choices.

  • @candicecole19
    @candicecole19 17 днів тому +1

    So remember me; I will remember you 🤍
    ▫️Subhanallahi wa Bihamdihi
    ▫️Astaghfirullah wa atubu ilaih
    ▫️La hawla wala quwwata illa billah

  • @mohammedaqial2270
    @mohammedaqial2270 5 днів тому

    He never married her but has a daughter from my ex- wife I’m lucky to be alive he was in love with her I’m in a wheelchair because of his actions…

  • @SunlessShang
    @SunlessShang 16 днів тому

    Subhan Allah

  • @adibkhan8782
    @adibkhan8782 17 днів тому

    Mufti i've a question regarding the status of Kabah and Grave of the prophet Muhammad which has higher status do clear please..
    and i've also read that the Grave of the prophet is even better than Arsh Kf Allah ...please clear me ?

    • @serventofAllah01
      @serventofAllah01 9 днів тому

      Bro it's really such a vegue n absurd question. However the holy KABA is house of Allah SWT then how the grave of prophet Mohammed(PBUH) can have a higher status

  • @mohammedwaheeduddinafsar9482
    @mohammedwaheeduddinafsar9482 17 днів тому

    Bismillah subhanallah Alhamdulillah La ilaha illallah Allah Hu Akbar

  • @allfact4612
    @allfact4612 3 дні тому

    Please upload it in urdu my parents don't understand english😭

  • @amiduumor6002
    @amiduumor6002 17 днів тому

    Ameen 🤲

  • @Candymuslim
    @Candymuslim 17 днів тому

    This is Real Islam ,this is Shariaa❤❤

  • @ArbitraryZer0101
    @ArbitraryZer0101 17 днів тому

    It's a silly question, always "it depends".

  • @aminaqamar3997
    @aminaqamar3997 15 днів тому +2

    I have a question:If someone's marriage is fixed with someone in a few months(by the will of parents) can she message the person to get to know about him??

    • @aminaqamar3997
      @aminaqamar3997 15 днів тому +1

      Like it does come in totally halal courtship right?

    • @aminaqamar3997
      @aminaqamar3997 15 днів тому +1

      Because if it is completely arranged(forced) it will be a problem

    • @aminaqamar3997
      @aminaqamar3997 15 днів тому

      @mufti menk please reply

    • @serventofAllah01
      @serventofAllah01 9 днів тому

      Sister it's better to avoid speaking with each other before marriage

    • @linah.939
      @linah.939 8 днів тому +1

      You can meet and talk in person WITH the attendance of a Mahram. It’s better to avoid messaging because that would be khalwa and shaitan will be the third of you

  • @mdrumaan9123
    @mdrumaan9123 17 днів тому +73

    Sir you mistakenly wrote mutfi in title

    • @whysthat123
      @whysthat123 17 днів тому

      Didn't you hear him talking about Palestine?

    • @mdrumaan9123
      @mdrumaan9123 17 днів тому +1

      ​@@whysthat123yes I did so what

    • @rayyanshobowale7110
      @rayyanshobowale7110 17 днів тому +2

      😒there was no need for what you said.

    • @aa-fw2pw
      @aa-fw2pw 17 днів тому +4

      Focusing on the content of the video should be the main aim. Not nitpicking spelling errors

    • @whysthat123
      @whysthat123 17 днів тому +4

      @@mdrumaan9123 manners, or get lost.

  • @jawadulkarim8877
    @jawadulkarim8877 4 дні тому

    Maybe or maybe not, both ways can lead to end of staying together. I would suggest to skip it, rather travel the world or do anything that you find peace in.

  • @mohammadnazeer661
    @mohammadnazeer661 17 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @novelscornerworld
    @novelscornerworld 14 днів тому

    But the problem is a girl can't like someone and can't propose him and can't able to tell her family members.

  • @syedachubby
    @syedachubby 13 днів тому

    But as a pushtun we marry a guy we never met and see him on day of nikkah or after going to his house (ruqsati)

    • @ayezashadaz3113
      @ayezashadaz3113 7 днів тому +1

      During my Nani and dadi times this used to happen

  • @WonderWoman-pf6nq
    @WonderWoman-pf6nq 17 днів тому +4

    How to send this to my parents without sending .🙂

    • @universeandbeyond3576
      @universeandbeyond3576 16 днів тому +1

      Send the video to them but say it was sent in error😅

    • @aminaqamar3997
      @aminaqamar3997 15 днів тому

      ​@@universeandbeyond3576will they see it then or ignore it?

    • @WonderWoman-pf6nq
      @WonderWoman-pf6nq 15 днів тому

      @@universeandbeyond3576 great idea JazakAllah

    • @imranshaik9228
      @imranshaik9228 3 дні тому

      Save your freind's number in your parents phone and tell your freind to keep a status so that your parents can watch it.

  • @riyaqahmed24
    @riyaqahmed24 17 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ahhasib9439
    @ahhasib9439 17 днів тому

    ❤️🌺

  • @user-oc1wo6mv3v
    @user-oc1wo6mv3v 17 днів тому +3

    That's exactly what happened to me
    After years my ex said to me I only married you just for my father, to make him happy 😢

    • @dawaashukri6104
      @dawaashukri6104 17 днів тому +2

      Oh I'm sorry. I hope you moved on.

    • @SayadaBano-uq9ko
      @SayadaBano-uq9ko 17 днів тому

      Don't make any girl life hell for you father happinesse
      How nonsense or selfish he is ??😢

    • @fridawsbamba1641
      @fridawsbamba1641 16 днів тому

      ​@@SayadaBano-uq9koexactly

    • @razamughal4582
      @razamughal4582 7 днів тому

      They say that anyway. It means nothing. Anyone can say anything even made up.

  • @SamtheShazam
    @SamtheShazam 16 днів тому +2

    How do you married someone who don't know well. even i'm to also a muslim 😅😂

  • @Mohammedsufiyanalic7
    @Mohammedsufiyanalic7 7 днів тому

    What is that small screen pop on to the screen??

    • @GulMohammad43
      @GulMohammad43 5 днів тому

      This is for deaf people's because they cant listen mufti so this person is helping deaf so they can also understand what mufti has spoking.😊

  • @user-nm2ez9iv9p
    @user-nm2ez9iv9p 2 дні тому

    Arrange marriage is better ❤

  • @Techrewind584
    @Techrewind584 17 днів тому +5

    Arrange or love it doesn't matter for
    women they need money only, My wife had prayed all prayers, completed Qur'an last ramdhan and never skipped Burka but she ran away with some one, this is true Muslims where leading, even i take care of her like small baby and giving her and provide daily needs and gives pocket money for saving and taking her for her mother home daily and all where she wanted I loved her 16years but she not have fear of Allah and I had gone islamic court I have seen my self 150 khulas per months and majority of girls is only demanding money which Mufti Sab told they only marry for money , prostitutes are better than them at least have loyalty for the money ( but it's haram) just for example but still many do like this but women who no non Muslim converted to Islam are very Truth and loyal to there husbands...but isn Muslims mom's they're daughters are destroying marriages , if honey have money she will go there even how many time she married without qula or talak haram relationships
    A boy can marry uneducated girl or poor girl but can a girl marry poor boy or deen boy or uneducated boy prove me wrong .....if you can..

    • @Asad-2166
      @Asad-2166 17 днів тому +7

      This is all emotional, this is your test in life so take it like a man! Can't blame every woman or man for this , my marriage isn't perfect it is what it is !!! Hasbi Allah Wa Ni-Am Al Wakil

    • @Asad-2166
      @Asad-2166 17 днів тому +1

      You should be more worried about what the Hindutwas are doing

    • @Mdua80
      @Mdua80 17 днів тому +1

      Better be single and happy than married and miserable!!!

    • @durranaybachey4555
      @durranaybachey4555 17 днів тому

      In Pakistan Back in the old days during my grandparents time line people used to do parents decision arrange marriage. Then in 80S-90s era people used to do love marrage girlsor boy run away from homes get married. This era its all about money status people dont fall for love run away from home anymore. People look at how much you earn.if you have money$$$ status anyone can marry you will find the best proposal. 4 years a go i was traveling to Pakistan in the Airport of Pakistan I saw the ugliest man he was quite wealthy rich he was with beautiful women she was yonge..I was like on what on earth she accepted him to marry him. Ofcourse she had no option to marry him becuase of money.

  • @jionuman
    @jionuman 4 дні тому

    No marriage!!!

  • @BatMan-hv7xr
    @BatMan-hv7xr 17 днів тому

    So while my friend was ,in her hostel her family back home fixed her marriage without ,her knowledge witout asking her ,without letting her know , and when she came to know about this after months after completing her studies when she went back to her home, she was told by her father that he has already promised and can't backtrack.
    And the worst part for her is that already likes someone else and this someone also likes her and both wanted to get married.
    But now her family is forcing her to get married to the person her father promised , in the name of family honour.

  • @Nusra718
    @Nusra718 12 днів тому

    My parents also force me to arrange marriage

    • @SlayGangster-pj9rs
      @SlayGangster-pj9rs 9 днів тому +1

      I’m so sorry...

    • @tamannanasrin1131
      @tamannanasrin1131 6 днів тому

      Forcing someone to get married against there will is haraam in Islam. I know we live in a judged society where some parents follow culture instead of religion. You must tell them whether you would like to get married or not. I would suggest you to say it now to avoid any future problems!

  • @arefinachowdhury2484
    @arefinachowdhury2484 17 днів тому

    In the case of jihad or war even pork is hallal n some months ago all of u planned us secrecy n elope just joking

  • @user-mv8oy9oe6n
    @user-mv8oy9oe6n 17 днів тому

    Not interested I’m being mobbed by cults
    Dtfl you called him out on a mistake
    Oops I cursed got to goooo

  • @JMI786
    @JMI786 17 днів тому +4

    Arranged marriage is indeed a favorable option when considering the many benefits it brings. However, it is important to acknowledge that there may be challenges to overcome in the process

  • @lusitn9thc760
    @lusitn9thc760 День тому

    Indian family don't allow love marriages at all😢

  • @Alhuda-vm8sj
    @Alhuda-vm8sj 7 днів тому

    Best marriage=No marriage

  • @sani_sumon
    @sani_sumon 17 днів тому

    I am watching from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇵🇸

  • @kikiblessed00
    @kikiblessed00 17 днів тому