3 Questions to Ask Before Marrying Someone | Mufti Ismail Menk

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  • @joshpacker6635
    @joshpacker6635 3 місяці тому +54

    1) Does the person pray
    2) does the person smoke do drugs
    3) is the person a responsible person

  • @ibrahimbabaadams8682
    @ibrahimbabaadams8682 28 днів тому +22

    Please I need your dua. Pray for me that Allah make me financially stable to marry this girl in 2025

    • @FaSh-di4di
      @FaSh-di4di 11 днів тому +6

      Ameen sumaameen.

    • @teddycabana
      @teddycabana 10 днів тому

      Do salat İbrahimia sell day with istighfar especially before fajr.. search about this topic on UA-cam.. search coach yusif but idk how much he charges or ask local sheikh imam

    • @owolabiadesolaabass2022
      @owolabiadesolaabass2022 10 днів тому +4

      May Allah make it possible and easy.

    • @ibrahimbabaadams8682
      @ibrahimbabaadams8682 2 дні тому

      @@owolabiadesolaabass2022 Ameen

    • @ibrahimbabaadams8682
      @ibrahimbabaadams8682 2 дні тому +1

      @@FaSh-di4di Ameen

  • @JemimaRuby29
    @JemimaRuby29 4 дні тому +3

    Fix ur self b4 u find someone 3:00

  • @abdulazeezbinabdulwahababe8715
    @abdulazeezbinabdulwahababe8715 3 дні тому +1

    Please i need your Dua....... I want to marry before Ramadan

  • @JemimaRuby29
    @JemimaRuby29 4 дні тому

    3:17 damn facts how a person reacts when things don’t go their way

  • @shahnazparvin5055
    @shahnazparvin5055 Місяць тому +17

    Marriage nowadays is so difficult

    • @MissNourney
      @MissNourney Місяць тому +2

      I pray for u ... may Allah bless u with all kindness from Allah... soon...

    • @makiyakabirmoyi2819
      @makiyakabirmoyi2819 25 днів тому +1

      Very very difficult

    • @صيدرشيد
      @صيدرشيد 17 днів тому +1

      Reason??

    • @MissNourney
      @MissNourney 17 днів тому +1

      @@صيدرشيد there is No MAN nowadays. SO Woman and Children are suffer the MOST.

    • @aleyaahmad2867
      @aleyaahmad2867 7 днів тому +1

      When you comment like this someone will always ask what is the reason? 🙄🤨
      Now days even if you don't ask why, what reason? you can easily guess and you don't need to ask the reason...
      Astagfirullah

  • @AliImran-un7xm
    @AliImran-un7xm 12 днів тому +2

    How can i find a potential girl to marry?

    • @User8v45-1s2
      @User8v45-1s2 9 днів тому +3

      Bro its getting harder everywhere 😢 may Allah help us

  • @faizajaved7070
    @faizajaved7070 9 днів тому

    what if some one has point of view that
    If A person is not wine addicted but does weed on daily basis
    So is it legal thing and consumption of weed aggravating psychotic issues like aggression ,short temper,intolerance ,impatience and insomnia and many more stuff. And in result hindrance in healthy relationship .and truth is that they cant even realize that addiction is driving live towards destruction.

  • @firdousgaonkhadkar8175
    @firdousgaonkhadkar8175 Місяць тому

    Ameen Summa Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen

  • @tosinkukoyi7609
    @tosinkukoyi7609 Місяць тому +1

    Ameen

  • @AmnaBhatti-l3m
    @AmnaBhatti-l3m 3 місяці тому +15

    Ahhh I m so confused 😕 to see this video.......if a person is praying 5 times a day or read Quran earning halal but.....some time he react rudely and s*x style which not permissible in Islam but he follow how can I do ? Can I marry with him??? He doesn't take a time with me but he want from me all things that he need from me but he doesn't text me etc he want a marry with me why Yrr what can I do

    • @abdullahibaru6309
      @abdullahibaru6309 3 місяці тому +6

      1) Ask him to reduce his rudeness and check if you do trigger him to be rude as well.
      2) Tell him to stop his sex lifestyle because if he doesn't stop now, he might continue when you married him. How sure are you that he will stop when you get married to him? What is the motivation for him having sex outside? Can't he find other ways to control his desires?
      Based on the above answers, you can decide to marry him or not.

    • @shaikhsalimvlogs
      @shaikhsalimvlogs 2 місяці тому +10

      He is not a believer and follower of prophets Mohammad sallallahu allaihi wasalam
      Prophet said a time will come when a person will hold a quran one his one hand and a sword on his second and will force others to follow his own fake aqida and wrong interpretation or will tell him you deserve to die if he won't accept his words
      Like wise if a person who looks religious and practicing that does not mean he is pious and just

    • @shaikhsalimvlogs
      @shaikhsalimvlogs 2 місяці тому +8

      A good person with little knowledge can become pious but a rude and ignorant person are most likely to stay the same even if he knows everything and practicing
      Its has become his nature so he will use his knowledge and sallah as a tool to opress and to demean others

    • @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall
      @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall Місяць тому +3

      do isthilhara swalah then... leave him... if your mind say no... (see omar Suleiman's video... must watch before marriage

    • @Nebuchadnezzar_XXIV
      @Nebuchadnezzar_XXIV Місяць тому +2

      Tell him if necessary guide him towards the islamic etiquettes.

  • @safc87
    @safc87 Місяць тому +2

    ♦♦♦♦♦♦♦SOME of the previous generation raised their children with lack of accountability as they approached marrying years. let that sink in. excusing their harful-behaviour if it isnt done to the parents then dissmising it as oh "it isnt as bad" breeds men and women who are selfish and think they only need to pray and be responsible under their parents roof and not as a spouse. *LET THAT SINK IN.*

  • @cookingtips8948
    @cookingtips8948 2 місяці тому

    Sir sorry to ask do you have 2 or 3 wife can manage them well

  • @pirateguy7304
    @pirateguy7304 6 місяців тому +1

    الحمد لله رب العالمين💚

  • @adamsbah8061
    @adamsbah8061 2 місяці тому

    Alhamdulillah

  • @isaacfoster2820
    @isaacfoster2820 4 місяці тому +3

    The video should have timestamps or state the 3 questions

    • @safc87
      @safc87 Місяць тому

      wives aren't meant to be "managed" they are meant to be honoured. once you deeply get that you won't need an "answer" to your question.

  • @lademonhunter
    @lademonhunter 29 днів тому

    I married a virgen male at 34 did all his prayers but he had so many issues. Couldn’t be open, couldn’t be vulnerable, was a crazy mean driver, didn’t want me to feel safe. Any info on trying to share feelings and they would just gaslight me and play victim. Now I want a relationship before marriage. Bro is the fakest Muslim ever. Astaghfirullah

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 20 днів тому

      So you want to committ zina before marriage? If you can't stand him get divorced. Though I should Warren you, your perfect Prince doesn't exist

    • @khanhamid3744
      @khanhamid3744 11 днів тому

      You though a person who prays is a good man??. There is more to a good muslim than prayers. Prayer is the most important but it is by default.

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 11 днів тому

      @khanhamid3744 she just said that she want a relationship (zina) before marriage. She is not good Muslim either.

  • @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall
    @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall 5 місяців тому +4

    give 3questions need to ask man 😂

  • @SuccessHabbits2042
    @SuccessHabbits2042 2 місяці тому

    Assalam-o-Allaikum
    I want to marry a person who is already engaged i want to ask him to take me in his second nikkah how can i talk to him bcz he is already engaged so i can't involve my family. Can i meet him in a public place I'm already keep sharai prda. So I'm not even going to show my face i just want to ask him. Can you please guide me what can i do?
    Please tell me mufti menk please i want to know please it's very imp for me i don't want to do anything which Allah don't like

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 20 днів тому +1

      Why do you want to be a second wife? 💀💀💀

  • @SuccessHabbits2042
    @SuccessHabbits2042 2 місяці тому

    Assalam-o-Allaikum
    I want to marry a person who is already engaged i want to ask him to take me in his second nikkah how can i talk to him bcz he is already engaged so i can't involve my family. Can i meet him in a public place I'm already keep sharai prda. So I'm not even going to show my face i just want to ask him. Can you please guide me what can i do?
    Please tell me mufti menk please i want to know please it's very imp for me i don't want to do anything which Allah don't like so please guide me it's very important to me i want to give him msg for Nikkah

    • @khanhamid3744
      @khanhamid3744 Місяць тому +5

      He's not the last man on earth. Second nikkah is not easy. Is he financially, physically and mentally capable. You don't know that. Don't waste your time sister. Remember how do you think the other sister feels. They are better men out there. I liked a sister. To me she was the best person in the world. But now I am glad she said no. Love is blind as they say. Imagine you speak to him and you get caught. You have ruined his marriage. Would you like that. You can send your wali to him but we would advise against all what you are trying to do here.

  • @suratunbegum7506
    @suratunbegum7506 26 днів тому +1

    Marriage is very bad.

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 20 днів тому +3

      It can be, still better than haram relationships.

    • @ameentheking8957
      @ameentheking8957 4 дні тому

      @@atiachowdhury3734 XD yeah man people still think haram relationships are better they will regret whole life