3 Questions to Ask Before Marrying Someone | Mufti Ismail Menk

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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
  • Speaker: Mufti Ismail Menk via @EmanChannelTV
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 92

  • @joshpacker6635
    @joshpacker6635 4 місяці тому +90

    1) Does the person pray
    2) does the person smoke do drugs
    3) is the person a responsible person

    • @shahadinkunnath
      @shahadinkunnath Місяць тому +4

      Anger is also one of it

    • @syedasharimam
      @syedasharimam Місяць тому

      Virginity?

    • @onlychild4332
      @onlychild4332 8 днів тому

      4-
      And the most important
      How does he/she reacts when things don’t go their way ?
      It shows their true colours

  • @abdulazeezbinabdulwahababe8715
    @abdulazeezbinabdulwahababe8715 Місяць тому +18

    Please i need your Dua....... I want to marry before Ramadan

  • @JemimaRuby29
    @JemimaRuby29 Місяць тому +7

    3:17 damn facts how a person reacts when things don’t go their way

  • @ibrahimbabaadams8682
    @ibrahimbabaadams8682 2 місяці тому +56

    Please I need your dua. Pray for me that Allah make me financially stable to marry this girl in 2025

    • @FaSh-di4di
      @FaSh-di4di Місяць тому +8

      Ameen sumaameen.

    • @teddycabana
      @teddycabana Місяць тому

      Do salat İbrahimia sell day with istighfar especially before fajr.. search about this topic on UA-cam.. search coach yusif but idk how much he charges or ask local sheikh imam

    • @owolabiadesolaabass2022
      @owolabiadesolaabass2022 Місяць тому +6

      May Allah make it possible and easy.

    • @ibrahimbabaadams8682
      @ibrahimbabaadams8682 Місяць тому +1

      @@owolabiadesolaabass2022 Ameen

    • @ibrahimbabaadams8682
      @ibrahimbabaadams8682 Місяць тому +2

      @@FaSh-di4di Ameen

  • @JemimaRuby29
    @JemimaRuby29 Місяць тому +7

    Fix ur self b4 u find someone 3:00

  • @wuw385
    @wuw385 24 дні тому +2

    The Prophet ﷺ said to look at their Deen and their Aklakh/character. Great advice that I would say is confirmed when you ask yourself *how that person makes you feel*.

  • @shahnazparvin5055
    @shahnazparvin5055 2 місяці тому +28

    Marriage nowadays is so difficult

    • @MissNourney
      @MissNourney 2 місяці тому +3

      I pray for u ... may Allah bless u with all kindness from Allah... soon...

    • @makiyakabirmoyi2819
      @makiyakabirmoyi2819 2 місяці тому +2

      Very very difficult

    • @صيدرشيد
      @صيدرشيد Місяць тому +1

      Reason??

    • @MissNourney
      @MissNourney Місяць тому +1

      @@صيدرشيد there is No MAN nowadays. SO Woman and Children are suffer the MOST.

    • @aleyaahmad2867
      @aleyaahmad2867 Місяць тому +1

      When you comment like this someone will always ask what is the reason? 🙄🤨
      Now days even if you don't ask why, what reason? you can easily guess and you don't need to ask the reason...
      Astagfirullah

  • @luqcrusher
    @luqcrusher 18 днів тому +2

    Summary:
    - Ask the people around the potential spouse what they are like, because they would know them best
    Questions:
    1) How do they react in anger/things don’t go their way?
    2) Are they responsible?
    3) How is their character?

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    Incontro✔️
    Conoscenza✔️
    Frequentazione✔️
    Approfondimento✔️
    Riconoscimento✔️
    Intesa✔️
    MATRIMONIO❤

  • @istiqithun5439
    @istiqithun5439 4 дні тому

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم...
    Ask your dua for me te get marry soon إن شاء الله

  • @NEXTTOPPERSLOVE0
    @NEXTTOPPERSLOVE0 13 днів тому

    Please pray for me to get financially stable as well as to get married soon pls

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    ALLAH❤ Proteggimi✔️Ti amo

  • @AliImran-un7xm
    @AliImran-un7xm Місяць тому +7

    How can i find a potential girl to marry?

    • @User8v45-1s2
      @User8v45-1s2 Місяць тому +6

      Bro its getting harder everywhere 😢 may Allah help us

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    Se sento che è la donna perfettamente giusta fatta solamente per me scatta subito il matrimonio❤ Promesso✔️Non voglio più perdere tempo in relazioni malate.

  • @khanzarin8964
    @khanzarin8964 12 годин тому

    People want perfection deen duniya akhrat and money home etc etc thats why nobody wants to marry because nobody is perfect

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    ALLAH❤ Voglio purezza❤

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    ALLAH❤ Voglio benessere❤

  • @faizajaved7070
    @faizajaved7070 Місяць тому +1

    what if some one has point of view that
    If A person is not wine addicted but does weed on daily basis
    So is it legal thing and consumption of weed aggravating psychotic issues like aggression ,short temper,intolerance ,impatience and insomnia and many more stuff. And in result hindrance in healthy relationship .and truth is that they cant even realize that addiction is driving live towards destruction.

  • @tosinkukoyi7609
    @tosinkukoyi7609 2 місяці тому +2

    Ameen

  • @safc87
    @safc87 2 місяці тому +5

    ♦♦♦♦♦♦♦SOME of the previous generation raised their children with lack of accountability as they approached marrying years. let that sink in. excusing their harful-behaviour if it isnt done to the parents then dissmising it as oh "it isnt as bad" breeds men and women who are selfish and think they only need to pray and be responsible under their parents roof and not as a spouse. *LET THAT SINK IN.*

  • @islamhere2937
    @islamhere2937 Місяць тому +1

    I want to marry in my 24 age 😅, just 3year left
    I'm looking for your duwa and the blessing of almighty
    In sha Allah ❤

  • @firdousgaonkhadkar8175
    @firdousgaonkhadkar8175 3 місяці тому

    Ameen Summa Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    31 anni❤ Voglio sposarmi✔️

  • @MohamedJohar-f9p
    @MohamedJohar-f9p 26 днів тому

    Ameeeeeen

  • @pirateguy7304
    @pirateguy7304 7 місяців тому +1

    الحمد لله رب العالمين💚

  • @adamsbah8061
    @adamsbah8061 4 місяці тому

    Alhamdulillah

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    MATRIMONIO ISLAMICO❤ HALAL❤

  • @isaacfoster2820
    @isaacfoster2820 5 місяців тому +8

    The video should have timestamps or state the 3 questions

    • @safc87
      @safc87 2 місяці тому

      wives aren't meant to be "managed" they are meant to be honoured. once you deeply get that you won't need an "answer" to your question.

    • @lilianbakker-si5qp
      @lilianbakker-si5qp 9 днів тому

      Pray for it

  • @cookingtips8948
    @cookingtips8948 3 місяці тому

    Sir sorry to ask do you have 2 or 3 wife can manage them well

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    AMORE HALAL❤

  • @AmnaBhatti-l3m
    @AmnaBhatti-l3m 4 місяці тому +15

    Ahhh I m so confused 😕 to see this video.......if a person is praying 5 times a day or read Quran earning halal but.....some time he react rudely and s*x style which not permissible in Islam but he follow how can I do ? Can I marry with him??? He doesn't take a time with me but he want from me all things that he need from me but he doesn't text me etc he want a marry with me why Yrr what can I do

    • @abdullahibaru6309
      @abdullahibaru6309 4 місяці тому +10

      1) Ask him to reduce his rudeness and check if you do trigger him to be rude as well.
      2) Tell him to stop his sex lifestyle because if he doesn't stop now, he might continue when you married him. How sure are you that he will stop when you get married to him? What is the motivation for him having sex outside? Can't he find other ways to control his desires?
      Based on the above answers, you can decide to marry him or not.

    • @shaikhsalimvlogs
      @shaikhsalimvlogs 4 місяці тому +11

      He is not a believer and follower of prophets Mohammad sallallahu allaihi wasalam
      Prophet said a time will come when a person will hold a quran one his one hand and a sword on his second and will force others to follow his own fake aqida and wrong interpretation or will tell him you deserve to die if he won't accept his words
      Like wise if a person who looks religious and practicing that does not mean he is pious and just

    • @shaikhsalimvlogs
      @shaikhsalimvlogs 4 місяці тому +9

      A good person with little knowledge can become pious but a rude and ignorant person are most likely to stay the same even if he knows everything and practicing
      Its has become his nature so he will use his knowledge and sallah as a tool to opress and to demean others

    • @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall
      @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall 3 місяці тому +5

      do isthilhara swalah then... leave him... if your mind say no... (see omar Suleiman's video... must watch before marriage

    • @Nebuchadnezzar_XXIV
      @Nebuchadnezzar_XXIV 2 місяці тому +4

      Tell him if necessary guide him towards the islamic etiquettes.

  • @mohamedrafi9748
    @mohamedrafi9748 16 днів тому

    Voglio godermi il Matrimonio HALAL❤

  • @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall
    @loveyouuuuuuuuuuall 6 місяців тому +4

    give 3questions need to ask man 😂

  • @lademonhunter
    @lademonhunter 2 місяці тому

    I married a virgen male at 34 did all his prayers but he had so many issues. Couldn’t be open, couldn’t be vulnerable, was a crazy mean driver, didn’t want me to feel safe. Any info on trying to share feelings and they would just gaslight me and play victim. Now I want a relationship before marriage. Bro is the fakest Muslim ever. Astaghfirullah

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 Місяць тому

      So you want to committ zina before marriage? If you can't stand him get divorced. Though I should Warren you, your perfect Prince doesn't exist

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 Місяць тому

      @khanhamid3744 she just said that she want a relationship (zina) before marriage. She is not good Muslim either.

    • @mahaalotaibi8352
      @mahaalotaibi8352 Місяць тому

      You must look for his religion and character. Prayers and all that is obligatory as a Muslim but their character you must ask around and investigate.

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 Місяць тому

      @mahaalotaibi8352 marriage is a scary thing in today's generation.

  • @SuccessHabbits2042
    @SuccessHabbits2042 3 місяці тому

    Assalam-o-Allaikum
    I want to marry a person who is already engaged i want to ask him to take me in his second nikkah how can i talk to him bcz he is already engaged so i can't involve my family. Can i meet him in a public place I'm already keep sharai prda. So I'm not even going to show my face i just want to ask him. Can you please guide me what can i do?
    Please tell me mufti menk please i want to know please it's very imp for me i don't want to do anything which Allah don't like

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 Місяць тому +2

      Why do you want to be a second wife? 💀💀💀

    • @Veronica-tn2xc
      @Veronica-tn2xc 18 днів тому

      Why do you want to interfere with his engagement? Think about the first wife. You need a psychiatrist.

  • @SuccessHabbits2042
    @SuccessHabbits2042 3 місяці тому

    Assalam-o-Allaikum
    I want to marry a person who is already engaged i want to ask him to take me in his second nikkah how can i talk to him bcz he is already engaged so i can't involve my family. Can i meet him in a public place I'm already keep sharai prda. So I'm not even going to show my face i just want to ask him. Can you please guide me what can i do?
    Please tell me mufti menk please i want to know please it's very imp for me i don't want to do anything which Allah don't like so please guide me it's very important to me i want to give him msg for Nikkah

    • @khanhamid3744
      @khanhamid3744 2 місяці тому +5

      He's not the last man on earth. Second nikkah is not easy. Is he financially, physically and mentally capable. You don't know that. Don't waste your time sister. Remember how do you think the other sister feels. They are better men out there. I liked a sister. To me she was the best person in the world. But now I am glad she said no. Love is blind as they say. Imagine you speak to him and you get caught. You have ruined his marriage. Would you like that. You can send your wali to him but we would advise against all what you are trying to do here.

  • @MohamedJohar-f9p
    @MohamedJohar-f9p 26 днів тому

    S a w

  • @suratunbegum7506
    @suratunbegum7506 2 місяці тому +1

    Marriage is very bad.

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 Місяць тому +4

      It can be, still better than haram relationships.

    • @ameentheking8957
      @ameentheking8957 Місяць тому

      @@atiachowdhury3734 XD yeah man people still think haram relationships are better they will regret whole life