i just got off a very toxic and haram relationship, mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah mufti
Same situation here love. I was with a Muslim man for over a year, who was controlling and manipulative. Thankfully the end result was opening my eyes to the beauty of being Islam.
Please never ever accept this behaviour from any man, whether he be Muslim or not. This is a sign of further violence to come and a very severe lack of respect. I hope you're feeling better now, at least a little. May Allah make it easy for us sisters to have halal marriages@@starcherry6814
Remember women: any man that is interested in you for marriage, he should NOT hesitate one bit when meeting your mahram/your parents/your caretakers/your wali ❤ it's really hard in the times we're in now, May Allah make it easy for us to get married in the right way
She cut off our relationship. And I understand her no matter how hard and painful it is. May Allah reunites us again and grant us to be halal. I did step up a lot of times wanting to talk to her parents for us to be halal. But she always stop me saying it’s not the right time because I am not yet ready. We are both muslims, I am a revert for 1 year now. But another factor is because, we are different nationality. I trust Allah, and leave everything to him. I don’t know what she thinks of me now, maybe just like Mufti said, I am not acceptable by her parents.Or maybe it’s what I think that I am not rich, I am not arab… I am only a decent muslim with a pure intention to their daughter. She is always on my prayer. May Allah forgive us all 🤲🏻
Insha Allah Allah will grant you that person in your life just be loyal and wait for sometime everything will be alright you are doing a very great job for being kinder to her ❤
Alhamdulilah. Left my haraam relationship today. I feel sad Ofcourse. But I know Allah has a better plan for me. A good plant can not come from a bad seed.
I just broke up yesterday and feel low. My iman is fluctuating and has been kinda low recently and now i cried and now these videos keep showing in my feed. Allah is probably giving me a sign because this has happened multiple times today. At first i got a reel reminding me to do shalah, and when i went out with my friend she gave me a praying gown...and then a video saying 'this is a sign from allah" before ended up to this video. I think Allah is trying to soothe my tears and heart ache because there is no thing as coincidence. Make dua for me so i will be able to be close with Allah again and hopefully he will grant me a good spouse and children. 😇😇
I can categorically say from experience that 99% of women are the ones who end up suffering. Guys are perpetually creating fitna and seeking haram relationships. The women have to stay strong stand up for themselves. You are worth it!
Haram relationship is the root of all the chaos in the world, which the Young Generation has a lot of trouble understanding, the world is a trap of Satan for a short time, this Haram relationship, in my opinion, Haram relationship is going directly against Allah and His Messenger, so everyone is Allah and His Messenger. It is a request to follow the path shown by it, O Allah, grant everyone understanding.
Indeed, now when some us being oldest siblings having learnt islam, when your trying to teach and tell and help your family members, due to their own haram relationships, they fought be tooth and nail. it's unfortunate that they don't seem to care. it's a horrible world where they themselves suffer from the consequences of having gotten married after having a haram relationship.
It is clearcut in Islam, if these practices are prevalent, then it is the beginning of the end. The major signs of the day of judgment and turmoil will coincide with the immorality of MUSLIMS.
So true. I’ve been in one and my life went downhill… I suffered from a lot of anxiety, stress and hardship but it bought me closer with our religion so it happend for a reason
me and him, we've stopped talking for the sake of allah alhamdulillah. but we're not too old yet both of us are 18 at the moment. so my brothers and sisters in faith, i request you to pray for us and pray for our early marriage and that allah reunites us in the near future in sha allah. jazakallah khair
Amen sum Amen ❤ ..plz pray for us as well ...we are going through same situation ....and wanna get nikkahfied as soon as possible ... May Allah unite as in best relationship called nikkah with his mercy Amen sum Amen ....i really want to make our relationship halal in the form of nikkah ❤
That is why Allah made relationships haram , he knows what kind of harm they do to us. And I believe when it's time Allah will bring someone who's good for us The perfect one for us💗
I am in tears right now brothers and sisters and I can’t breathe. I was in a haram relationship with a man and he was so toxic towards me I had to distance myself from him. I really wish I hadn’t got myself involved in this kinda relationship which was 2 years ago. Please keep me in your duas 😭😭
May Allah bless you girl just be happy and you are worth it I'm saying by heart and stop complaining yourself everything happens for reason may be he was a lesson for you just be sure that you will worth something one day and from now on don't let anyone show you your worth ❤✨
Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah mufti i got married my father fixed my marriage when i finished my medicine degree listening your lecture today I messaged him thank you for such a nice man and protected me from suffering etc etc situations
I just cutt of my 2 year old relationship cause I realised how much sin I'm commiting throuh it. So I wanted to be separated untill we marry,but my bf didn’t want that,he wants to live togather untill marriage. So I broke up.But I love him so much. I feel my heart stabbing. He also loves me so much I know that,he can't live without talking to me. Pray for is to heal properly!
Did you do zikr today? No? Okay, let's do it now, it won't take long! Astaghfirullah ×5 SubhanAllah ×5 Alhamdulillah ×5 Allahu Akbar ×5 La ilaaha illaAllah ×3 Subhan Allahi wa bihamdihi ×3 Subhan Allah al'adheem ×3 Allahumma inni as'alukal jannah ×3 Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3 Allahumma salli alaa Muhammad wa'ala aali Muhammad wabaarik wasallim × 3 Subhanallahi wabihamdihi adada qalqihi wa-ridaa nafsihi wazinata arshihi wa-midaada kalimaatih × 3
Brother it is: wa midaada khalqihi* please correct this so our brothers and sisters read the dua the correct quranic way. Jazak Allah hoe khair my brothe.
We made it Halal by marrying each other. We now pray for the mercy of Allah. It's quite disheartening to share that only way to be with each other was to indulge in such relationship. May Allah have mercy on us and forgive our sins.
Thank you Allah...for showing this video... I was in love with a Hindu guy and since then I ve been dealing with sufferings and now I realize that it's Haram so I'm letting go of it... I know at the right time Allah will send the right person to me... Alhamdulillah ❤
being a hindu i love islam teachings and modesty mentioned in qaran even i did ramdan fasting to work on self . truly it bring me peace whenever i listen allah prayers it put my soul at ease and bring peace to my soul . i feel i dont need to be a muslim just to please God or allah . thank you mufti sir for the teachings . love from india . i pray may allah bring peace to my soul and heal my heart . ameen
Thank you Mufti for reassuring me in my position. I’ve always refused to have a boyfriend and most of the people I know and some member of my family don’t understand why. They know it’s a haram relationship but they say that in the world today you can’t find a husband if you don’t develop a haram relationship. I always stayed firm in my decision and what Islam said about it Al hamdoulilah. Pray for me ask Allah to grant me and all the muslim who preserve their chastity to have good husband and wife ❤
We both loved each other for 6 years and before 2 years I talked to my dad abt him and we got broke up and he came back after a year and now he wants to marry me and we talked to our parents my father is in a lost he asked for sometime to talk about and now he dnt want me and went , bt i want him to be my husband make dua for me pls🙏🏻
Don't let them play with your feelings, be a queen, have value for yourself and keep your head high. If He was/is right for you, he'll come back and Allah will bring him back but if he is not for you then there's someone who is far better than him and will definitely come for you. In sha Allah, may Allah give you a happy life in here and hereafter ❤
It's same as my story no matter everything is in front of me but I desperately want him I know that once the person leaves he can leave me again also but knowing everything I can't move on the... I know there's no other girl in his life but he leave me without any closure and without telling me the reason. Although our families were also involved one month was left in our engagement and one month before he left I am praying tahajjud also I want him back but we never cross the limits yes we liked each other love each other but we never did anything wrong . Please everyone pray for maybe one day we reunited.❤
This showed up in my recommendation just when i needed it. Presently i am at a stage in life wherein i have been deeply indulged in emotional breakdowns. And it is all emerging from something that we, in this generation, call situationship. I definitely cannot do justice to explaining the matter as clearly as Sheikh Mufti did in this video, but i must say that as people of this generation, connections like these are so common and appealing between boys and girls. It is only later when this bubble of ur extravagant fantasies breaks, and you finally understand that the person you thought to be your forever one is the one who causes you so much pain and suffering. Do not let yourself slide in these types of connections. Islam teaches love, but only the type of love that brings happiness and harmony to you and your family within the sanctity, chastity, and teachings of the Quran. May Allah grant us the wisdom to differentiate between the halal and the haram. Always seek refuge in Allah. He is the all Knower. Aameen.
Mufti menk you're speaking the truth because I was involved in a haram relationship what you are saying it exactly happened like this I watched your UA-cam video and cut the haram relationship thank you so much for guiding to the straight path I make dua for you and your family ❤
wow mufti menk humbled me. I was going through a rough time and he broke up with me because "i was too much" but he wanted to ask for my hand in july. I prayed for him wanting him to start praying and wanting him to have a better life. now I see him out with other girls. I just wanted it to be halal. he left me at my lowest and i never been so depressed. I trusted him to ask for my hand but he didnt even fear Allah. He couldnt even do the bare minium and anytime i pray i couldn't be a prayer without mentioning him. It seemed like allah swt gave him this dunya. Allah swt is the best of planners i wish i never did this. he was such a good person and he took care of me when i was depressed but then "I was too much". no explantion and i embarassed myself. I wish allah swt put it in his heart to apologize for the pain he caused me. I lost 15 pounds. He never disrespected me in the relationship it wasn't until the end where his true colors showed and he left me because it was "easier" i truly loved him for the sake of allah swt and tried to make him pray, but don't trust a man that doesn't fear allah swt. i make duaa that allah swt reunits us but the longer i wait the more i realize that he wasn't my naseeb because why would my naseeb leave me in my most depressing time. why would he make me not get out of bed for 2 weeks, talk to other girls, and not care im crying to his face that i love him. how could he be so heartless. a man of allah would never do this. he has taught me that i want a man of religion and would do things in a halal manner. Allah swt made me go through this to be a better muslim. Everything is in his hands, i just wish men weren't liars. I have to forgive him and move on.
I hope Allah grant you happiness and peace my beloved sister. Sometimes it is written so we learn from these mistakes and InshaAllah Allah forgives us. ❤️
Sir i was in a haran relationship for last couple of years many promises were made between us !! And then the guy became toxic for me he blamed me for each and every reson ! And then i finally end up my relationship since i thought that i did too bad to him but then for the sake of allah i broke his heart!! 🙂 Because i know my parents will never be agree for all this stuffs !!
I hv started praying tahajjud since 5 months continuously without any break which has made me a complete different person..once u start praying it helps us to avoid any wrong doings or haram relation..I had a frnd who was continuously asking for a relationship which was haram.. I told him my conscious does not allow me to do so and for the sake of Allah I will not indulge into it...that guy stopped calling..Allah saved me from doing anything haram...shukar allham dullilah
Love Just Allah ....Almighty Allah....Bas Allah....Only Allah....I Love My Almighty Allah more than ....Anybody. ...There is Only Almighty Allah In My Life AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah
Unpopular take, not defending this either, but I feel that haram relationships have become to feel like the "easier way" because of so much pressure and projections applied onto the youth todays day & age by their parents because they rather stick to the culture and traditional way which makes their son/daughter feel like it's much more harder to get married and get it done the halal way nowadays
Unpopular is correct....and wrong at that. I'd rather tou just spoke about yourself and not "our generation" because I can guarantee you that I'm not in the same position and neither are any friends of mine either. In fact one got married recently Alhamdulilah in the Halal way. Also you should watch a video of Mufti Menk where he talks more about marriage. He clarifies just how easy it is to get married. It's really simple and not a big deal. Instead of venting online perhaps you should go and talk to your parents or siblings to help you find someone or you yourself search and get in contact with their parents and link up. It's not that hard.
Was in a haram relationship from 2.5yrs,i used to avoid most of the things because of fear of Allah despite being in a relationship.. and the moment i introduced her to my family she started to blame me for not doing those things and cheated.. i am in so much pain please pray for me..
i was in haram rltn & blindly in love with him... But now i have realized that i did. Wrong after getting betrayed by him multiple times.... I have promised Allah to not be in any haram rltn till death.... But he has forget me.. I still cry to allah for him.... Plz allahhh give me him in aa btr way make him my naseeb❤😓😓😓
Shukriya, Allah has guided me to come out of haram... alhamdulillah and I am so glad and thankful of getting out of haram relationships. Tauba and astaghfirullah.
The bitter truth 😢💯📌 This is why he's my best sheikh ❤ He says what many sheikh will not talk because this is what is many youths in the ummah is doing. I hope we learn from this
Unfortunately I'm going through all these things (depression, anxiety) just because of my haram relationship. Now i want to end my relationship with him but he's not either keeping me or leaving me. It's been months i cried a lot but he really don't care. Please pray for me to be happy again without him.
I distance my self from Haram.R long ago sooner i realized non of them was for my goodness just harm ,cries ,broken left every time ,no peace i promised Allah no more haram relationship repented sincerely one year later i met wonderful girl we got married she is a fruit of my sincere repentance
Nowadays most of the people start haram relationships through Instagram. They dm each other and share toxic things. And they spoil their destiny .May Allah forgive us
Thank you, Dr. Musty. I succumbed to a haram and toxic relationship by the fact of shaitan. By the grace of God, after several years of suffering from this toxicity, I was able to make the best decision. I got off this relationship and finally got married. I'm praying God to forgive me and grant me a wonderful family.
Well said. MashAllah. My non-consensual “relationship “ story would blow your mind! However Islam is real. HasbiAllah. I’m getting back on my deen, retaking the shahada in a few days, and considering hijab. Haram relationships are for the lost.
I respect the way Mufti Menk keeps it real. 💯 This Brother always uses the Quran. To bring forth his message. In a way that makes it easy to understand. May Allah grant him a long life.
we ended things because it became too draining to displease Allah, it was ruining our connection with Allah. I do pray, to still marry him in the end because ive never loved one like him. If you see this, please make a dua that may allah reunite him and i, when we are better muslims, and ready for eachotherr. Inshallah
Daily reminder Alhamdulillah ×3 Astagfirullah ×3 Allah Hu Akbar ×3 Subhanallah ×3 Bismillah ×3 Allahumma inni asalukal Jannah ×3 Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3 Allahumma ajirni min zamhariri jahannum ×3 May Allah SWT grant us all the highest Jannah ameen.
Alhamdulillah, I brought my sons up before social media became the huge thing that it is today. They know better than to bring shame to my door, Masha’Allah.
I just got off a very toxic and haram relationship with this 15 year old Hindu girl from Chittagong, I did have to break her heart, i hope Allah forgives me. Mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for Allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah Mufti Menk
Asking is next to impossible but I believe that dua can move mountains and Allah's kun can change qadr. I don't know whose dua's will work in my favor. Could you please make a dua for me? May whoever prays for us Allah grants them peace and a place in Jannatul Ferdous Ameen. Jazakallah khair It is said that a stranger's dua is accepted please make dua that she is written for me and I'm written for her. Pray that Allah makes us better for each other and gets us married soon to each other and our parents accept us with love and support us, may Allah make her loyal and obsessed with me till her last breath, May her heart always soft for me and may it be Fid-dunya-wal-akhirah only with her, may we will be satisfied with each other, may we both get blessed with our own children and get the happiness of both the worlds, may we both complete each other's deen and may Allah be pleased with us both Ameen. (My name is raja and her name is nasima, in case you wanna make dua by taking our names. Indeed Im on the halal path
This feels like a message sent by Allah to me who knows what i am doing though and how much I needed this. May Allah forgive us for our wrong doings after getting in traps of sayatin..
I couldnt agree more you are very wise and honest man there r still alot of good people in the world , but jm tired of people trying to use each other for the sake of few minutes plessure , and aftee many end up in sidicide and destroying themselves i wish it was like in the old days , genuine and everuthing after marriage im tired of people playing games , so much drama and anxiety 💯
My grandfather fix our marriage between my me and my cxn we got engaged he passed away as the time pass our family crisis was rising and things were getting worsed but after 7 years of my Duas I got married to her we both kept our promise to each other Alhamdulillah I'm not disagreeing with your video because my engagement was kinda we were in nekkah Alhamdulillah Allah helped us Alhamdulillah having a great life now never thought to go for haram ever 😊
Same here i was engaged when i was 15 my grandmother asked my father i want witness the marriage of my children before the death i got married in my 20s she passed away right after 6 days of my marriage im happy Alhamdulillah he loves me he's a great husband 😊
@@dr.faraz.k Haram Is Haram Halal is Halal i distance my self repented sincerely Allah rewarded me Halal wife she is a coolness of my eyes Alhamdulillah
As a revert black American Muslim it’s harder for someone parents to accept it’s like haram relationship against the parents is destined for us reverts in general
I have been in a relationship and broke up few weeks ago. I have repented to Allah for my mistakes. But he wouldn't leave me no matter what i said. I had no other choice than to leave. But this has caused him to give up on life and even to the point where he had no hope in living. He had stopped his education because of me. Now i feel like what i am doing is a mistake. I don’t know what to do in this situation 😢
This lecture is so true, good advice, protect us from Satan, why do these things happen, then its too late, the horse has bolted, yes allowing it, Satan creeping in, please Allah protect us, protect our young people, protect us all. Amen Amen Amen
Thank you for these great video, unfortunately these conversation we don’t have with our brothers and it helps a lot. The halal way, always, I have understood now that woman we suffer more because we are scared to be too hard but not it is the opposite
Kheri InshaALLAH 😢My brother mufti menk...shukran coz it's only ALLAH plans to have dis beautiful words coz we r in difficult inshaallah Allah will give da right spouses ❤AMIIN RABHI AMIN.
I m going through this situation right now and It's really hard for me to cut him off however I tried so many times and I still want to please pray for me for my easiness I really want to come back to My Almighty Allah 😢
alhamdulillah we've come to the end of this beautiful preaching way your word of advice be of benefit to us may Allah for give our shirt comings AMEEN.
i just got off a very toxic and haram relationship, mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah mufti
Same situation here love. I was with a Muslim man for over a year, who was controlling and manipulative. Thankfully the end result was opening my eyes to the beauty of being Islam.
I will pray for you. Pray for me too.
He ended up hitting me
Please never ever accept this behaviour from any man, whether he be Muslim or not. This is a sign of further violence to come and a very severe lack of respect. I hope you're feeling better now, at least a little. May Allah make it easy for us sisters to have halal marriages@@starcherry6814
@@kathrynsueeemcdonald31alhamdulilah it was for a purpose
May ALLAH guide u to the straight path
We left eachother for the sake of allah . I hope allah reunites us again and make our relationship halal ...🥺❤️🩹
But you shuould try and ask Allah for what you want , try to convince parents ask Allah , nothing comes by just wondering and sitting.
Its great that you are away from haram
Aameen
Ameena ya Rahim
May Allah make this happen for you darling ❤️
Ameen
This came like an advice from Allah at the right time 😢❤
Same honestly
Same😢
Same here
true dr
Same 😢bro
pls pray for me & my family. We are hopeless. Our condition is not well. Pls pray for my sister & Brothers for marriage. 😭
In Sha Allah I will pray
Amin amin amin ya Rabbi.
May Allah ease your difficulties .....
May creat ease for ur family Ameen summa Ameen
May Allah SWT bless you with the best
Ya Allah bless everyone with halal relationship ameen
Amin
Ameen Ameen YARUB 🙏
Remember women: any man that is interested in you for marriage, he should NOT hesitate one bit when meeting your mahram/your parents/your caretakers/your wali ❤ it's really hard in the times we're in now, May Allah make it easy for us to get married in the right way
Ameen
Allah protect us from the sin
Ameen
Aameen 💜
Ameen
Amiin
She cut off our relationship. And I understand her no matter how hard and painful it is. May Allah reunites us again and grant us to be halal. I did step up a lot of times wanting to talk to her parents for us to be halal. But she always stop me saying it’s not the right time because I am not yet ready. We are both muslims, I am a revert for 1 year now. But another factor is because, we are different nationality. I trust Allah, and leave everything to him. I don’t know what she thinks of me now, maybe just like Mufti said, I am not acceptable by her parents.Or maybe it’s what I think that I am not rich, I am not arab… I am only a decent muslim with a pure intention to their daughter. She is always on my prayer. May Allah forgive us all 🤲🏻
inshaAllah Allah SWT grants you the person for you.
Astaghfirullah may Allah forgive us all
Insha Allah Allah will grant you that person in your life just be loyal and wait for sometime everything will be alright you are doing a very great job for being kinder to her ❤
Alhamdulilah. Left my haraam relationship today. I feel sad Ofcourse. But I know Allah has a better plan for me. A good plant can not come from a bad seed.
I just broke up yesterday and feel low. My iman is fluctuating and has been kinda low recently and now i cried and now these videos keep showing in my feed. Allah is probably giving me a sign because this has happened multiple times today. At first i got a reel reminding me to do shalah, and when i went out with my friend she gave me a praying gown...and then a video saying 'this is a sign from allah" before ended up to this video. I think Allah is trying to soothe my tears and heart ache because there is no thing as coincidence. Make dua for me so i will be able to be close with Allah again and hopefully he will grant me a good spouse and children. 😇😇
May.Allah proctet you and all our youth Youth from the sins of this world and Satan.
May.Allah proctet our Muslim Ummah Ameen 💜🤲
I can categorically say from experience that 99% of women are the ones who end up suffering. Guys are perpetually creating fitna and seeking haram relationships. The women have to stay strong stand up for themselves. You are worth it!
You’re delusional then.
I do agree it is mostly women but 99% is way too high of a number.
Thank you ❤
Haram relationship is the root of all the chaos in the world, which the Young Generation has a lot of trouble understanding, the world is a trap of Satan for a short time, this Haram relationship, in my opinion, Haram relationship is going directly against Allah and His Messenger, so everyone is Allah and His Messenger. It is a request to follow the path shown by it, O Allah, grant everyone understanding.
Indeed, now when some us being oldest siblings having learnt islam, when your trying to teach and tell and help your family members, due to their own haram relationships, they fought be tooth and nail. it's unfortunate that they don't seem to care. it's a horrible world where they themselves suffer from the consequences of having gotten married after having a haram relationship.
It is clearcut in Islam, if these practices are prevalent, then it is the beginning of the end. The major signs of the day of judgment and turmoil will coincide with the immorality of MUSLIMS.
@@kb4432 Sure👍
Then why are so many boomers not happy in their marriage?
So true. I’ve been in one and my life went downhill… I suffered from a lot of anxiety, stress and hardship but it bought me closer with our religion so it happend for a reason
me and him, we've stopped talking for the sake of allah alhamdulillah. but we're not too old yet both of us are 18 at the moment. so my brothers and sisters in faith, i request you to pray for us and pray for our early marriage and that allah reunites us in the near future in sha allah. jazakallah khair
May Allah reunite you very soon
Amen sum Amen ❤ ..plz pray for us as well ...we are going through same situation ....and wanna get nikkahfied as soon as possible ... May Allah unite as in best relationship called nikkah with his mercy Amen sum Amen ....i really want to make our relationship halal in the form of nikkah ❤
Ameen
May Allah forgive me and all of us who have made mistakes, whether intentional or unintentional.😢😢😢
That is why Allah made relationships haram , he knows what kind of harm they do to us. And I believe when it's time Allah will bring someone who's good for us The perfect one for us💗
I am in tears right now brothers and sisters and I can’t breathe. I was in a haram relationship with a man and he was so toxic towards me I had to distance myself from him. I really wish I hadn’t got myself involved in this kinda relationship which was 2 years ago. Please keep me in your duas 😭😭
How are u know
May Allah heal you completely and give you better and grant you His forgiveness. Ameen.
May Allah bless you girl just be happy and you are worth it I'm saying by heart and stop complaining yourself everything happens for reason may be he was a lesson for you just be sure that you will worth something one day and from now on don't let anyone show you your worth ❤✨
Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah mufti i got married my father fixed my marriage when i finished my medicine degree listening your lecture today I messaged him thank you for such a nice man and protected me from suffering etc etc situations
I just cutt of my 2 year old relationship cause I realised how much sin I'm commiting throuh it. So I wanted to be separated untill we marry,but my bf didn’t want that,he wants to live togather untill marriage. So I broke up.But I love him so much. I feel my heart stabbing. He also loves me so much I know that,he can't live without talking to me. Pray for is to heal properly!
I'm 27, Never been in any kind of Realtionship Alhamdulillah,I can feel the Piece avoiding that Haram.. Allah Saved me..
Did you do zikr today? No? Okay, let's do it now, it won't take long!
Astaghfirullah ×5
SubhanAllah ×5
Alhamdulillah ×5
Allahu Akbar ×5
La ilaaha illaAllah ×3
Subhan Allahi wa bihamdihi ×3
Subhan Allah al'adheem ×3
Allahumma inni as'alukal jannah ×3
Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3
Allahumma salli alaa Muhammad wa'ala aali Muhammad wabaarik wasallim × 3
Subhanallahi wabihamdihi adada qalqihi wa-ridaa nafsihi wazinata arshihi wa-midaada kalimaatih × 3
could you tell me what they mean and why do we need to repeat them? i'd like to learn if you help
Brother it is: wa midaada khalqihi* please correct this so our brothers and sisters read the dua the correct quranic way. Jazak Allah hoe khair my brothe.
We made it Halal by marrying each other. We now pray for the mercy of Allah. It's quite disheartening to share that only way to be with each other was to indulge in such relationship. May Allah have mercy on us and forgive our sins.
If u marry each other and make it halal all should be good right if u pray ofc
allahumma mabarak
Just pray ❤ Allah is forgiving
Sometimes the males suffer too...😢
Touched my heart deeply.... 🥺
May Allah bless us ❤
Thank you Allah...for showing this video... I was in love with a Hindu guy and since then I ve been dealing with sufferings and now I realize that it's Haram so I'm letting go of it... I know at the right time Allah will send the right person to me... Alhamdulillah ❤
being a hindu i love islam teachings and modesty mentioned in qaran even i did ramdan fasting to work on self . truly it bring me peace whenever i listen allah prayers it put my soul at ease and bring peace to my soul . i feel i dont need to be a muslim just to please God or allah . thank you mufti sir for the teachings . love from india . i pray may allah bring peace to my soul and heal my heart . ameen
Ameen sum ameen .. May Allah bless You
allah is bringing you closer, take your shahada my brother ,
May Allah bless you ❤
Smile at your mother (multiple times if possible), InShaAllah you will get reward of 1000+ months' hajj in night of Laylatul Qadr
Thank you Mufti for reassuring me in my position. I’ve always refused to have a boyfriend and most of the people I know and some member of my family don’t understand why. They know it’s a haram relationship but they say that in the world today you can’t find a husband if you don’t develop a haram relationship. I always stayed firm in my decision and what Islam said about it Al hamdoulilah. Pray for me ask Allah to grant me and all the muslim who preserve their chastity to have good husband and wife ❤
We both loved each other for 6 years and before 2 years I talked to my dad abt him and we got broke up and he came back after a year and now he wants to marry me and we talked to our parents my father is in a lost he asked for sometime to talk about and now he dnt want me and went , bt i want him to be my husband make dua for me pls🙏🏻
I'm crying 😭 I'm so sorry for you
Don't let them play with your feelings, be a queen, have value for yourself and keep your head high. If He was/is right for you, he'll come back and Allah will bring him back but if he is not for you then there's someone who is far better than him and will definitely come for you. In sha Allah, may Allah give you a happy life in here and hereafter ❤
😢 may Allah give you him ameeen sum ameeen❤
It's same as my story no matter everything is in front of me but I desperately want him I know that once the person leaves he can leave me again also but knowing everything I can't move on the... I know there's no other girl in his life but he leave me without any closure and without telling me the reason. Although our families were also involved one month was left in our engagement and one month before he left I am praying tahajjud also I want him back but we never cross the limits yes we liked each other love each other but we never did anything wrong . Please everyone pray for maybe one day we reunited.❤
Praying for you sister
This showed up in my recommendation just when i needed it. Presently i am at a stage in life wherein i have been deeply indulged in emotional breakdowns. And it is all emerging from something that we, in this generation, call situationship. I definitely cannot do justice to explaining the matter as clearly as Sheikh Mufti did in this video, but i must say that as people of this generation, connections like these are so common and appealing between boys and girls. It is only later when this bubble of ur extravagant fantasies breaks, and you finally understand that the person you thought to be your forever one is the one who causes you so much pain and suffering. Do not let yourself slide in these types of connections. Islam teaches love, but only the type of love that brings happiness and harmony to you and your family within the sanctity, chastity, and teachings of the Quran. May Allah grant us the wisdom to differentiate between the halal and the haram. Always seek refuge in Allah. He is the all Knower. Aameen.
Allah protect me until i meet my better Half InshAllah Aameen
Assalamualaikum
Mufti menk you're speaking the truth because I was involved in a haram relationship what you are saying it exactly happened like this I watched your UA-cam video and cut the haram relationship thank you so much for guiding to the straight path I make dua for you and your family ❤
Do not expose your sin
wow mufti menk humbled me. I was going through a rough time and he broke up with me because "i was too much" but he wanted to ask for my hand in july. I prayed for him wanting him to start praying and wanting him to have a better life. now I see him out with other girls. I just wanted it to be halal. he left me at my lowest and i never been so depressed. I trusted him to ask for my hand but he didnt even fear Allah. He couldnt even do the bare minium and anytime i pray i couldn't be a prayer without mentioning him. It seemed like allah swt gave him this dunya. Allah swt is the best of planners i wish i never did this. he was such a good person and he took care of me when i was depressed but then "I was too much". no explantion and i embarassed myself. I wish allah swt put it in his heart to apologize for the pain he caused me. I lost 15 pounds. He never disrespected me in the relationship it wasn't until the end where his true colors showed and he left me because it was "easier" i truly loved him for the sake of allah swt and tried to make him pray, but don't trust a man that doesn't fear allah swt. i make duaa that allah swt reunits us but the longer i wait the more i realize that he wasn't my naseeb because why would my naseeb leave me in my most depressing time. why would he make me not get out of bed for 2 weeks, talk to other girls, and not care im crying to his face that i love him. how could he be so heartless. a man of allah would never do this. he has taught me that i want a man of religion and would do things in a halal manner. Allah swt made me go through this to be a better muslim. Everything is in his hands, i just wish men weren't liars. I have to forgive him and move on.
I hope Allah grant you happiness and peace my beloved sister. Sometimes it is written so we learn from these mistakes and InshaAllah Allah forgives us. ❤️
Same
We left each other for Allah swt. I hope Allah reunites us…
Assalamualaikum
If your both Muslim, then I hope so
@@kb4432 yes we are alhamdoullilah
Me too bro 😁. Don't judge by my name plz
If u don't mind. Can u share the story ??
Sir i was in a haran relationship for last couple of years many promises were made between us !! And then the guy became toxic for me he blamed me for each and every reson ! And then i finally end up my relationship since i thought that i did too bad to him but then for the sake of allah i broke his heart!! 🙂 Because i know my parents will never be agree for all this stuffs !!
Agree Ya Shykh'ana May Allah protect young buds of this era guide them to the righteous path Aameen
I hv started praying tahajjud since 5 months continuously without any break which has made me a complete different person..once u start praying it helps us to avoid any wrong doings or haram relation..I had a frnd who was continuously asking for a relationship which was haram.. I told him my conscious does not allow me to do so and for the sake of Allah I will not indulge into it...that guy stopped calling..Allah saved me from doing anything haram...shukar allham dullilah
Maa sha Allah .. may allah keep you steadfast in deen.. make dua for me sister ..
Allah hafiz
Pray for us all to get married to love of our life
Love Just Allah ....Almighty Allah....Bas Allah....Only Allah....I Love My Almighty Allah more than ....Anybody. ...There is Only Almighty Allah In My Life AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah AlhamdulillAllah
I needed this. My soul needed this. Thank you so much.
Unpopular take, not defending this either, but I feel that haram relationships have become to feel like the "easier way" because of so much pressure and projections applied onto the youth todays day & age by their parents because they rather stick to the culture and traditional way which makes their son/daughter feel like it's much more harder to get married and get it done the halal way nowadays
Unpopular is correct....and wrong at that. I'd rather tou just spoke about yourself and not "our generation" because I can guarantee you that I'm not in the same position and neither are any friends of mine either. In fact one got married recently Alhamdulilah in the Halal way.
Also you should watch a video of Mufti Menk where he talks more about marriage. He clarifies just how easy it is to get married. It's really simple and not a big deal.
Instead of venting online perhaps you should go and talk to your parents or siblings to help you find someone or you yourself search and get in contact with their parents and link up. It's not that hard.
Alhamdulillah she left me, may Allah unite us again as Halal way if she's my Destiny Inshaa Allah
Ameen….he left me….may our dua , sabr reunite us by marriage
Was in a haram relationship from 2.5yrs,i used to avoid most of the things because of fear of Allah despite being in a relationship.. and the moment i introduced her to my family she started to blame me for not doing those things and cheated.. i am in so much pain please pray for me..
May Allah help you. May He bring you peace and bless you with someone way way better.
i was in haram rltn & blindly in love with him... But now i have realized that i did. Wrong after getting betrayed by him multiple times.... I have promised Allah to not be in any haram rltn till death.... But he has forget me.. I still cry to allah for him.... Plz allahhh give me him in aa btr way make him my naseeb❤😓😓😓
𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗔𝗠 🥺
Whoever leaves something for the sake of allah (SWT) .
Allah will replace it with something better.
its promise of allah ❤
Subhanallah ❤.
Shukriya, Allah has guided me to come out of haram... alhamdulillah and I am so glad and thankful of getting out of haram relationships. Tauba and astaghfirullah.
May Allah protect everyone Alhamdulillah always choose Halal over Haram enjoying the barakha of Halal
Terima kasih.
Daily Dhikr Reminder 💚,💚,,🌹Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
جعلها الله في ميزان حسناتك
Smile at your mother (multiple times if possible), InShaAllah you will get reward of 1000+ months' hajj in night of Laylatul Qadr
You are always in every comments ❤️ may allah bless you dear💯
@@Umayyads-Qarahemmay Allah swt bless you for saying the dhikr
@@Waheeduddin-ik5wcJazakAllah for sharing. May Allah swt bless you for sharing and saying the dhikr
genuinely found it in the right time alhamdulillah
To slide into the DM’s had me laughing it caught me off guard
Hahahahhaha same
He often says it😂
بارك الله فيك و جزاك الله خيرا ، اللهم اهدنا الى الصراط المستقيم و ارحمنا برحمتك يا غفور يا رحيم ..
The bitter truth 😢💯📌
This is why he's my best sheikh ❤
He says what many sheikh will not talk because this is what is many youths in the ummah is doing. I hope we learn from this
Please pray for me , i am 31years old girl , may Allah grant me a good spouse soon !!
May allah grant you a good spouse inshallah
May Allah grant you a good spouse. Aameen
too late lol
@@oiyajiamv6736 Alhamdulillah
Soon🫂❤
Unfortunately I'm going through all these things (depression, anxiety) just because of my haram relationship. Now i want to end my relationship with him but he's not either keeping me or leaving me. It's been months i cried a lot but he really don't care. Please pray for me to be happy again without him.
Same here❤
How r u now
@raindrops3940 Allhamdulila, Finally left him few months ago and living a peaceful life with my family♥
May Allah safe the youths of Muslim Ummah from the Haram relationships and may He guide everyone to the right path of Jannah Ameen ❤️
I distance my self from Haram.R long ago sooner i realized non of them was for my goodness just harm ,cries ,broken left every time ,no peace i promised Allah no more haram relationship repented sincerely one year later i met wonderful girl we got married she is a fruit of my sincere repentance
Absolutely True Mufti Menk, Selâm
You are the true inspiration for us (youth)
Nowadays most of the people start haram relationships through Instagram. They dm each other and share toxic things. And they spoil their destiny .May Allah forgive us
This came in my recommendation when i am trying to get over this. Thank you Allah❤
Thank you, Dr. Musty. I succumbed to a haram and toxic relationship by the fact of shaitan. By the grace of God, after several years of suffering from this toxicity, I was able to make the best decision. I got off this relationship and finally got married. I'm praying God to forgive me and grant me a wonderful family.
Well said. MashAllah. My non-consensual “relationship “ story would blow your mind! However Islam is real. HasbiAllah. I’m getting back on my deen, retaking the shahada in a few days, and considering hijab. Haram relationships are for the lost.
May Allah guide us All and heal us all❤
May Allah SWT save with these kind of problems to all of us and our brothers & sisters...
I respect the way Mufti Menk keeps it real. 💯 This Brother always uses the Quran. To bring forth his message. In a way that makes it easy to understand. May Allah grant him a long life.
we ended things because it became too draining to displease Allah, it was ruining our connection with Allah. I do pray, to still marry him in the end because ive never loved one like him. If you see this, please make a dua that may allah reunite him and i, when we are better muslims, and ready for eachotherr. Inshallah
Daily reminder
Alhamdulillah ×3
Astagfirullah ×3
Allah Hu Akbar ×3
Subhanallah ×3
Bismillah ×3
Allahumma inni asalukal Jannah ×3
Allahumma ajirni minan naar ×3
Allahumma ajirni min zamhariri jahannum ×3
May Allah SWT grant us all the highest Jannah ameen.
Alhamdulillah, I brought my sons up before social media became the huge thing that it is today.
They know better than to bring shame to my door, Masha’Allah.
Peaceful... after hearing your words!!
I just got off a very toxic and haram relationship with this 15 year old Hindu girl from Chittagong, I did have to break her heart, i hope Allah forgives me. Mufti has made it clear that my love should be only for Allah but ive fallen for the traps of shaitaan, please pray for my happiness and well being, jazakallah Mufti Menk
Alhamdulillah for everything
I moved on from a 4yearharam relationship may almighty forgive my sins and bless me with a good life partner 😢
Waiting for 2 days...⏳
❤
Whoever involves into Haram Relationship, ALLAH takes away their IMAAN.
May Almighty Allah have mercy on us
I suffered, Alhamdulillah Allah took care of me I am in a good position now He just saved me ,It was difficult but I did🤲🏻💜
Asking is next to impossible but I believe that dua can move mountains and Allah's kun can change qadr. I don't know whose dua's will work in my favor. Could you please make a dua for me? May whoever prays for us Allah grants them peace and a place in Jannatul Ferdous Ameen. Jazakallah khair It is said that a stranger's dua is accepted please make dua that she is written for me and I'm written for her. Pray that Allah makes us better for each other and gets us married soon to each other and our parents accept us with love and support us, may Allah make her loyal and obsessed with me till her last breath, May her heart always soft for me and may it be Fid-dunya-wal-akhirah only with her, may we will be satisfied with each other, may we both get blessed with our own children and get the happiness of both the worlds, may we both complete each other's deen and may Allah be pleased with us both Ameen. (My name is raja and her name is nasima, in case you wanna make dua by taking our names.
Indeed Im on the halal path
This feels like a message sent by Allah to me who knows what i am doing though and how much I needed this. May Allah forgive us for our wrong doings after getting in traps of sayatin..
I couldnt agree more you are very wise and honest man there r still alot of good people in the world , but jm tired of people trying to use each other for the sake of few minutes plessure , and aftee many end up in sidicide and destroying themselves i wish it was like in the old days , genuine and everuthing after marriage im tired of people playing games , so much drama and anxiety 💯
Am going to cut of my relationship and do the right thing although he is the one doing everything for me i believe Allah will provide for me
Woow,May Allah be pleased with you❤
My grandfather fix our marriage between my me and my cxn we got engaged he passed away as the time pass our family crisis was rising and things were getting worsed but after 7 years of my Duas I got married to her we both kept our promise to each other Alhamdulillah I'm not disagreeing with your video because my engagement was kinda we were in nekkah Alhamdulillah Allah helped us
Alhamdulillah having a great life now never thought to go for haram ever 😊
Same here i was engaged when i was 15 my grandmother asked my father i want witness the marriage of my children before the death i got married in my 20s she passed away right after 6 days of my marriage im happy Alhamdulillah he loves me he's a great husband 😊
It was halal you were married to her May reunite all halal couples who are facing disputes in their halal relationship Aameen
@@SaenSay May Allah grant her hightest ranks in jannah Aameen
@@Wissamb0 while performing my Hajj I made a dua on Mount of Arafaa after 6 month of my Hajj Allah reunited us 😊
@@dr.faraz.k Haram Is Haram Halal is Halal i distance my self repented sincerely Allah rewarded me Halal wife she is a coolness of my eyes Alhamdulillah
Allah hu Akbar. May Allah swt guide us young before it’s too late. Ameen
Astaghfir ullah.
As a revert black American Muslim it’s harder for someone parents to accept it’s like haram relationship against the parents is destined for us reverts in general
May allah bless u mufti menk
May Allah forgive us and guide us 🥹🥹🥹
I have been in a relationship and broke up few weeks ago. I have repented to Allah for my mistakes. But he wouldn't leave me no matter what i said. I had no other choice than to leave. But this has caused him to give up on life and even to the point where he had no hope in living. He had stopped his education because of me.
Now i feel like what i am doing is a mistake.
I don’t know what to do in this situation 😢
I don't want replacement i just want that person😭😭😭😭plzz pray for mee😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I also I don't know what to do I am shattered and heartbroken since last one yr
Same.
It's okay totally fine to feel like that ❤ time will heal everything I know things are hard right now
Astagfirullah my condition right now. May Allah guide me to recover🙏
Astagfirullah rabbi min kuli zam bin aznabtu ho wa attubu illayhi x7
This lecture is so true, good advice, protect us from Satan, why do these things happen, then its too late, the horse has bolted, yes allowing it, Satan creeping in, please Allah protect us, protect our young people, protect us all. Amen Amen Amen
❤️❤️❤️لا إله إلا الله محمد رسول❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Mufti Menk. I pray about it and leave it with Allah. I never want to be without Allah.
02:39❤ ... 26/12 thurs
Please pray for me Allah to put me on the right path and good health with long life, honestly I have regret what ever I did wrong
Alhamdulillah, Allah open the way to me finding this video
Thank you for these great video, unfortunately these conversation we don’t have with our brothers and it helps a lot. The halal way, always, I have understood now that woman we suffer more because we are scared to be too hard but not it is the opposite
Kheri InshaALLAH 😢My brother mufti menk...shukran coz it's only ALLAH plans to have dis beautiful words coz we r in difficult inshaallah Allah will give da right spouses ❤AMIIN RABHI AMIN.
Elhamdülillah Sübhanallah we must put Allah Almighty İslam first. We need to learn İslam very well
I am going through a very difficult time in my life. Please pray for me brothers and sisters.
I m going through this situation right now and It's really hard for me to cut him off however I tried so many times and I still want to please pray for me for my easiness I really want to come back to My Almighty Allah 😢
I just don't know how to end my Haram relationship with my bf
All the people in haram relationship scared to click on it 😂
Facts
Fr
😂😂
alhamdulillah we've come to the end of this beautiful preaching way your word of advice be of benefit to us may Allah for give our shirt comings AMEEN.