Unacceptable Arranged Marriages! IMPORTANT - Mufti Menk
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In india, everyone including bro, sis, cousins, far far relatives, neighbors, cats, neighbor's cats are asked if they agree over the proposal except the bride!
haha really?
@@ThexXxXxOLOxXxXx oh you have no idea😂
Exactly!! Even if the 2 are agreeing with each other , if some aunt says no , then the marriage is scrapped.
@@shak11uk This's some household politics right there xD
Soooooo true 😄😄😄😄
Desi parents who care more about culture than Islam: *I'm going to pretend I didn't see this video*
Mike Wazowski I know right lol, the same nonsense happened in my family. It’s gonna stop from this generation onwards, deen over culture. 💯
😂😂also alot of arab parents
'Desi' refer to?
@@fuadfuad2780 South Asian - so like Pakistan and Bangladesh
@@ExtremeSpeedMewtwo thank you
I guess I will never understand those who are being forced to marry someone they dont want to. But if you're in that situation. I hope Allah guides you and makes it easy for you.
When children are conditioned from childhood to accept orders whether they are comfortable or not ie parents abuse kids by ordering and not having any care what children feel or at least listen to their feelings. The children learn to not listen to their own thoughts and do what parents want even if their own feelings are conflicted.
@@mmoghul1 You are very right. Good explanation. I feel like , this comes with a lot of confidence issues , since the child is always finding a way to please his or her parents , instead of following the gut feeling.
Once upon a time and i agree with your point too... unfortunately these parents would be proud that they have well disciplined children and wont realise that their child is not able to deal with the world as they haven’t been allowed to think or chose for themselves. Actually i note that such parents micromanage or have ocd tendencies 🤔
@@mmoghul1 Hey , that's some new stuff. Thanks.
@@mmoghul1 are you crazy? No real parents abuse any child. Parents are a blessing. You are just stubborn and you have this inner ego inside you that misleads you. Allah says in Quran
[31:14] - GIVE THANKS TO ME AND TO YOUR PARENTS
Why would Allah say this? Because we know all parents are loving. You disgust me by saying parents abuse childs.
What a legend, i literally think the same way but its sad that people get spoiled by culture... May Allah guide them inshaAllah
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My parents are forcing me marry a guy who I don't like... Since they started speaking abt my marriage with that guy I lost interest in my studies and everything... I've been crying and begging to my parents 💔 but they didn't even listen to me... But This made me closer to Allah (Alhamdullilah) ... He is my only my friend to share my problems with... I making lot's of duas , praying thahajjud , doing lots of dhikr , being humble with my parents and siblings ... I'm having a strong hope on Almighty ❤️... I know that he could change anything... So please make dua for me ... I need to do higher studies and not to marry someone I don't like...😭😭😭... I know that Allah is with me... He'll surely help me through this... Plz make dua for me
Subnllah sister tell your parents its haram for them to force you like that tell them with a sincere way inshllah and may allah help you:)
@@TrendingCryptoPulse jazakallah khairan brother... I've told them as much I can but they're not ready to listen to me😔... But u know something my engagement has been cancelled 2 times due to some reasons ( covid-19) ... And of course It happened with the help of Allah ❤️😭...I still have hope on him... I'll keep begging and make dua until Allah ends this marriage 😭😭... Plz make dua for me... All the doors are closed but I hope he'll open a door where I haven't even imagined... In shaa Allah... Don't forget me in ur duas😭
Hi sis, can you not get good relatives into this matter to support you? If not, I would suggest calling childline or the police as this is not only haram but also illegal. Your parents are just filthy backwards animals in this situation who deserve jail time & hell. Forget about their reputation and live a better life for yourself and your future children one day In'Shaa'Allah, if you get married to him or anyone forcefully, it will just become worse, if you ask the police to help out, they can get others to help you with getting an accommodation/house to stay in for your safety, please do not listen to your 'parents' in this situation at all sis, they will be punished heavily for doing this to you, In'Shaa'Allah.
@@TrendingCryptoPulse Ameen ya Allah
@@t.ayeshasiddika2020 just do not obey.do not marry a person you do not like.try to ask someone to help you,seek every and each halal opportunity.
My marriage was arranged by our parents. We never met yet engaged and happily married with 6 kids. Alhamdulillah.
MaShaAllah
Mashallah
same. The first time we saw each other was on our wedding day. Of course, both our families did research on both sides. Alhamdulillah.
What will you people do if your child asked you questions about the person you wanted to get them married to? And what will you guys do if your child didn't approve of your choice for them?
@@m.arslan257 The children not necessary to agree with the parents' choice. It will be their life partner. Sometimes we have to agree to disagree. As parents, we always wanted our children to have the happiness till jannah. My first two children married their own choice whilst the third agreed with our choice. Most important is the choice is as per guidance by Rasulullah pbuh - the four criteria: Islam, wealthy, appearance, offspring. Wallahualam.
I am 25 years old divorced woman. My parents want to let me get married again as soon as possible but I don’t wanna get married right now because of my previous marriage experience I am so sacred to take this decision again. Maybe in future but not now, I wish my parents understand that I am not ready for marriage now. Please pray for me so that I can convince my parents not to get married now.
That sounds like a very difficult situation sis 🥺 I can see how strong of a woman you are for focusing on your wellbeing first ❤ May Allah ease your heart.
IN SHAA ALLAH KHAIR MAY ALLAH SWT MAKE EVERY SITAUTION EASE ALL OF US...AAMEEN YA RABBUL ALAMEEN🤲🤲🤲
In sha ALLAH you'll find someone who'll deeply love you and make you forget your bad past❤️
You should be again marriage as soon as possible because in this world single person time pass to hard also with out family this life is very difficult.
@@hussainmohammed6407Akhi, I don't think you understand that being in a bad relationship is worse than being single. Sis, don't rush marriage, don't ignore red flags and wait till you're ready. You deserve love not just social acceptance.
Subhanallah! I mailed him today about it and he is doing live, Alhamdulillah.
What is Mufti Menk email please.
As salamulaikum . Plz sister can u also tell us Mufti Menk email. Shukraan.
@@tamannaahmed6622 Hi brother, I just look at Mufti Menk Facebook page, and you can find it in About section.
It is: muftimenk@gmail.com
@@mtahir9181 Aslm, shukraan for ur reply . It's me sister here . My name is Tamanna my surname is Ahmed :)
@@tamannaahmed6622 Oh sorry, I didn't look at your name.
Meanwhile our stubborn Bangladeshi parents: tradition is tradition; don't teach me, I came before you on this earth 🙂
Hope Allah will guide them. Jajakallah khair mufti.
😭😭😭💔 It's not allowed love marriage??? Even they are same Muslims but not same nationality? 😭💔 His father won't agree because not same nationally
Feel broke so much give me advice
I told my parents that the culture is beneath me and that I will have the final say on my potential spouse.
Allah doesn't exist.
@@Paul-ts5qw those words will bite you in the grave.
I love how he apologizes for calling parents who do *forced marriages* stupid
He is so humble❤
*forced marriages...
@@muftimenkofficial 😆yeah.
@@muftimenkofficial i wish my parents can also uderstand but unfortunately they realy dont know real islam and whenever i am watching people doing wrong and sayig its not allow in islam realy its it hurts .
@@sarahkhan4373 May Allah make it easy for you and help you.
He is one of the best role models out there
Gsudi
In Pakistan, 90% of marriages are arranged also known as forced marriage
Thats sad but do you have sources?
@@TrendingCryptoPulse nah im just saying based on how many ppl i know that actually had marriages by their own choice vs their parents choice which is forced
@@gogogojohhny yep
Feel sad for pakistanis
Bhai, you are using your personal experience and circumstances to speak about the whole nation. People do force their kids, not denying that. But those are the same people who are illiterate or do not have enough knowledge about Islam. Cousin marriage is common. And it's not forced. You have the right to say no if you don't like him/her
I cnt thank enough, i was living in guilt for asking divorce from my foced and blackmailed marriage which was done on the basis of wealth...may Allah swt forgive my parents, still they expect me to go to my abusive n sinful husband even though he takes drugs keeps his g.f at home.....my parents are not understanding my emotions, i hv a daughter too living with me, i hvnt worked in my life now trying to find work.... please pray for me....a burden has taken off because i did what my parents told even when they knew how that man was before marriage....now i dnt feel guilty.
May Allah grant you patience, May Allah grant you ease and peace in life and May Allah make it easy for you.
May Allah make it easy for you sister.
@@mehz_zzz4396 JazakAllah khair.
Im happy you see your value. You deserve more and keep getting stronger for the sake of your happiness and your kids!
Salam Alikum sister, Never ever give on hope Allah is with this that are right and you will always be guided. You deserve better than that, I just pray to god that parents becomes more understanding inshallah. keep praying sis and live happily.
My Husband is from India, and I am from Philippines. We met in the middle east. When I told my family I want to marry this man, the only thing they asked if he's a Muslim.We've been married for more than 10 years now with 8 children.Alhamdullilah.
Masha Allah 💗pls pray for our children to get a best of partner in marriage. As a mother am always praying for a Faithful and complete person for my children, Aameen ya Rabb!!!
Allahumma Ameen
Ameen
Ameen Yarab
ALLAHUMA AMEEN
I am so relieved to listen this. Thank you so much, my parents are forcing me to marry my cousin, its been more than 3 years since they have decided, and I am reluctant to do marriage, I talked to that person, got to know him and we are not compatible, but no one understands that. If I display my reluctance to marry him or said "No" so many times, they go like, it would be okay after nikah. With every passing day, my belief of not choosing that guy for marriage is getting firm and my parents are dragging it to Nikah, because they think I am wrong about it. They dont want someone outside our family to marry, because they think we wont be happy, I dont understand, how could someone guarantee that who is going to be happy or not. I am very disturbed for these 2 n half years, ever since i have decided not to marry him, because no one listens to me. But this video, it gave me strength to fight for my right, and I will, as it is haram to bind into marriage we are not willing for. May Allah grant us ease and hidayah, Ameen.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Keep fighting! And stay strong
Please and make the right decision for yourself because remember this is your life. You’re the one who’s going spend your life with him not anyone else.
@@ZZ-uo7ht Thank you, please pray for me and people like me
Have things improved for you sister? It's tough for South Asian girls who hail from so called traditional families.
@@Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount I got married to the boy of my parent's choice. I am trying my best to accept this relationship, I hope for the best. But, things are difficult. I hope no one goes through same thing I went though.
Thank you so much for asking. ❤️
@@ha_fsa What I'm about to say is difficult to comprehend for South Asian communities but it's important you and your husband discuss where you are going with this marriage. If there is absolutely no chance you feel that there's no way you can build a family with him, it's important you let him know. If he isn't aggressive or pushy in any way, he'll understand insha'Allah. You absolutely don't need to have kids to see if you will get along better because eventually it could turn disastrous for yourself and every party involved. Don't allow any lives to be ruined because your parents pressured you into this. Stay strong sis!
Parents have usually ego issues in marying their children with the one they want !!
True
May Allah guide and protect you all and to those who are sick May Allah heal you inSha’Allah
Ameen
People always mix up the meaning of arranged marriage and forced marriage 🤦♀️
Yah
It's the same thing almost tbh.
Funny how A LOT of muslim parents think of their child as still children, even when the children have become adults.
11:25 thank you for mentioning and acknowledging how some parents do emotionally blackmail their children.
12:55 "The child belongs to Allah, not to (parents)". Guess how many parents genuinely think that their children belongs to them and to them only?
My parents (and family as a whole) don't even allow me to have a favorite colour, eat lots of vegetable, have my own harmless opinion on anything or even wear a bigger hijab because it's not to their liking. All because I'm the youngest (I'm 27 this year) so I don't know anything about the world, and they only wish for the best of me so they have every right to decide everything about me. Even taking my belongings without my permission. When I say no to them (in a calm manner, no cursing or yelling), they accused me of being possessed by syaitan and drag me to see an ustaz to exorcise me. Guess what, the ustaz said there's nothing wrong with me, and my family just laughed it off. No apologize given.
And they keep on pressuring me to get married asap since I started college. I've done my very best to please my parents and family, but everything I do are wrong in their eyes. Even getting sick is also burdensome to them and my mother always complain "taking you to the doctor is such a waste of money and time" or "taking you to school is such a waste of time". And they are the ones who are so proudful of my educational success eventhough they are against me the most in pursuing higher education overseas with a full scholarship. It's like they are hypocrites. Being so presentable and friendly in front of society but acting the opposite behind closed doors.
People always speak about how children shouldn't be against their parents/family, but what about the other way? What should children do when the parents/family is the one being emotionally/mentally abusive?
I'm literally going senile with just living or thinking about them. It's like I'm not even allowed to breathe in my own family's house! I've done the tahajjud for a few years to ask Allah for a solution, and alhamdulillah I even prayed in front of the Kaabah a few times. But my family never changed for the better. Advising or discussing with them never works because they never listen. What else could I have done?
I'd really love to hear Mufti Menk's opinion on a family like mine. It's so funny how my family always pulls the "You're the youngest, so you should obey us!" card on me, but I'm the one who always had to guide them (in life, in mannerism, in Islamic rules etc) since my teenage years... Ya Allah please help me.
Good thinking brother but convince your parents kindly :)
May Allah swt grant you ease
Honestly take the education opportunity and scholarship and go overseas. Things will be hard for some time and they won't talk to you but once you they realize you have a stable job they won't be mad anymore. What common sense can't do money can. Anyway money is what gives people authority these days. And in your heart at least you know you're right.
Are u married now?
May allah guide you and make everything easier on you sister
Dear, whoever is reading this, Smile. Life is too short to be unhappy.
-The Shades
Masha Allah, this is really important topic. I feel 80% of the Indian Parents must listen to this lecture.
99.9 percent not 80
Assalam Alaikum. MashAllah Mufti always gives good advice. I have Pakistani friends who are going through this issues with their parents. It's really sad. Their parents definitely need to watch this lecture. May Allah give us righteous spouses. Ameen.
Ameen ya Allah
LemonLime ameen.
I told my parents about the proposal of marriage and they totally said no and cursed me and now im quite and praying to allah for my best
Alxamdulilah my marriage was arranged but we were given time we got to know each other in a halal way Alxamdulilah we are married for three years and we are happy by the grace of Allah swt
My sisters and I were discussing about this the other day and had a few questions in mind, Ana this popped up, jazakallah khair!!! 🤩🤩🤩❤️❤️
My marriage was arrange by my brother, so I don't know how it's gonna be though I don't love him, but he is so caring and I pray may Allah plant his love into my heart Masha Allah.
Thank you so much for this video. You always post things at the right time. It feels like a blessing from Allah. I will definitely share this with my parents. I’ve been dealing with such difficulties when it comes to marriage as my parents don’t seem to understand certain things due to their culture and old mentality. The emotional blackmail and the constant reminder of my age is so draining. It comes to a point where I feel pressured to look into proposals I don’t really want to but this puts things into perspective and I hope they learn from this. Jazak’Allah khayr and May Allah reward you for the good you do!!
Can you talk about families and their need to uphold a reputation over their child’s happiness in your next video.
I agree this is very important
I also agree! This is a great topic.
Your thoughts are clear and you define everything clearly not just saying but explaining facts and figures ...
Muslim army🤭💖🌷
Excellent message mufti ismail جزاکم اللہ خیرا
Really enjoyed the video!! Was amazing, I dont usually listen to such long vids on youtube but this was different. Jazakallahukhair for making it. Let's pray that everyone gets to listen to it
Any child struggling with this, get up, fight for your right, you are not wrong, Allah is with you, as long as we dont make conspiracies or hurt anyone.
This is such an important issue which is very common in the region I live in and this video is so informative mufti menk is amazing may Allah grant u jannah may Allah grant us all jannah
Jazak Allah khayran Mufti! This has been a long awaited lecture. I can’t wait to share this video with my family. I hope that you could have Urdu subtitles for future lectures because it would make my life a lot more easier. I sometimes have a hard time getting this message across with my parents who are Urdu speaking but Insha’Allah I will try my best.
Please make a dua for my love to come back to me.
As much as people will pray for her to come to you, you should also make an effort to go to her. Whatever happened go and talk to her about it. If she doesn't come back then rem the verse which says "perhaps you may love something but it's bad for you....." say Alhamdulillah and pray to Allah for sabr and a better spouse.. *My opinion*
@@aishamwaks2355 thanks for the strong words. I truly want her back. Ive been praying because she made me better and I did the same for her. I believe Allah (swt) put her in my life to become better and nchallah this is a moment of stress for us to come back stronger
@@charanico in sha Allah kheir
I have been a victim of forced marriages, early last year my mother proposed for me a girl without my consent but I had to accept since I love my mother and wouldn't want to put her in an embarrassing situation. Though the proposal didn't go through because the girl rejected our proposal and I was glad that I can now introduce my preferred marriage partner to my mother. Unfortunately my mum rejected her and she is against me marrying her she has no valid reason except her own personal pride.since then I have been so depressed and sad getting weaker as I cant convince my mum and if I do so she curses me out and I become guilty. I am going through alot and I ask for you duas during this testing times.
Brother what you are doing is not haram, even if your mother is angry with you!
Just remember that allah knows you did the right thing by marrying the girl you actually want:)
@@TrendingCryptoPulse thank you so much brother,honestly like most people advice me that your marriage would lack peace if ur mother is against it and that's the only worrying factor but I appreciate so much and may Allah reward you
@maxi Khan Shukran brother am definitely growing one at this rate
@@amiromar5415 no your marriage wont be cursed in anyway as long as your marrying a muslim girl.. its all cool infront of allah and besides your the one whose marrying the girl your the one whose building a family for yourself not your mama😉👍🏼 ps Iam a sister lol... but anyways good luck inshllah:)
@@TrendingCryptoPulse Owh My😅😅 am sorry my sister may Allah reward you and I will remeber your advice and pray for you too inshaAllah.
I love your valuable advise!!
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Assalamu alaikum pls include my daughter in your dua she is in a very bad and rough situation. May Allah make everything extra easy and smooth for her and everyone that is in a difficult situation.
Subhanallah mashalllah Mufti Menk has talked about everything I had questions about. May Allah bless you ❤️❤️
Thank u for talking about these topics, much appreciated!!
These are the types of lectures that we need... We need to open up our narrow minds that have been shackled by our cultures... Jzk sheikh may u be rewarded abundantly ameen x
"Culture creeps in and spoils the name of Islam"... Truly said. I wish I had the knowledge of using words like you and was able to express myself.
loved this video! I like how you speak so passionately about it! May it help bring positive change, Ameen!
Gratitude. Allah SubhanAllah 🙏
Thank you for posting this, I'm very interested in learning more about other ways of life, and other religious beliefs. Bless you.
Lack of Islam knowledge in parents ruins many life's. And after they forced their children to get married ruins whole of the life.
It hurts when person get dream of getting to the person he/she likes from the 7 years. And Suddenly both get married different people.
It's very painful to get married to whom u don't love with all heart. And die every day inside.
Marriage is that relation, only death separates two person from each other.
I wish, Allah grants everyone desired life partner.
Ameen for all
Aameen
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You just wrote story of my life...
Aww cry babies, blaming parents for their own weaknesses 😏
I am a child of someone and I am also a parent remember parents want always the best for their children but they are not perfect so please forgive your parents if they do mistakes.
May Allah Guide all of us in the right path. Ameen.
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Can’t wait to watch and listen to his advice
Thank you very much this lovely speech! Masha Allah and Alhamdullillah for everything!
Mashallah😍 ur lessons really pleased me... May Allah showers all His blessings upon you... Jazakallah
I just went through this today cant believe this video is coming up now
Cant believe it u said exactly what my mum said .. and what she said was wrong .. wow love u so much wish my mum thought like u
I invite everyone to listen peaceful Qur'an recitation ❤
I can’t read Bengali but my parents were born in Sylhet
@@blockfish5163 you should gp visit there it's beautiful
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Thank you Mufti I commented yesterday to make a video on this topic and today you are doing in live.Jazakalla Khair!!
I love the your explanations mashallah❤️ ima go show and translate this video to my parents.
I was forced to meet two different guys despite me crying so much because I didn’t like them. And I was made to say YES to the marriage proposal or else I would’ve been disowned. They only used Allah’s name telling he’d punish me if I rejected these men. In fear of Allah I put on a show pretending I was interested while I was crying inside because I was also told Allah wouldn’t give me a better man than this.
As Salamu Alaikum Mufti, I wish you'd talk about social anxiety. How one who's affected by it should deal with it daily. Please do make dua for my condition.
@Dark Horse - Jazakumullahu Khair. I'll keep this mind. My condition is worse and it's embarassing to even mention it. If I'm at the center of attention in front of a couple of people, even in front of my relatives who I haven't seen in a long time, my anxiety kicks in. I couldn't speak properly or articulate my words correctly, I cannot make any eye contact with them, & then my head begins shaking/shivering for a couple of mins. It's such a worst feeling. At that point it becomes a fight or flight response. The dua I constantly read in these situations are Rabbish rahlee sadri from the glorious Qur'an, and then Allahummastur Auraatina Wa Aamin Rau'Aatina among other duas, Alhamdulillah. But my condition worries me. I would like to get married. I'm a 27 yo M. I have to sit in front of large crowd in the Masjid for the Nikah and will be the center of attention. To be clear, this isn't an issue at all when I'm going for my 5 daily Salah to masjid, Alhamdulillah. Please keep me in your dua(s).
@Analog foundry i have the same issue..Don't avoid your fear. Go out and try to engage with people. If it is causing too much problem, then please visit a psychiatrist or a psychologist. Download the shyness and social anxiety work book by Martin and Richard. It is a self help book and is available in PDF format. It will help you InshaAllah.
@Faryal Siddique - May Allah make it easy for you. I have memorized some du'a(s) for my anxiety and I recite them often and ask Allah for help. These du'as are from both the Qur'an and from the authentic Hadith that will, In sha Allah, help you.
No. 1 is the du'a asked by Moosa (AS), to help him with his speech, and to open up his chest (for confidence, boldness), and Allah makes mention of this dua in the Qur'an:
[Surah: 20, Verse 25-28] "Rabbish rahlee sadree Wa yassir lee amree Wahlul 'uqdatam Mil lisanee Yafqahoo qawlee"
"O my Lord! Open for me my chest (grant me self-confidence, contentment, and boldness). And ease my task for me; and make loose the knot (the defect) from my tongue, that they may understand my speech."
The next dua is from the Hadith, from Al-Bukhari 7/158. For anxiety, sadness, etc.
"Allahumma Innee 'a'oodhu bika minal- hammi wal hazan, wal'ajzi walkasal, walbukhli waljubn, wa dhala'id-dayni wa ghalabatir-rijaal"
"O Allah, I seek refuge in You from grief and sadness, from weakness and from laziness, from miserliness and from cowardice, from being overcome by debt and overpowered by men (i.e. others)."
This was the exact thing that i was looking for, for the sake of understanding. MASHAALLAH JazakAllah
I really wish there were Arabic subtitles for this because this lesson iis truly needed in our culture...
The older generations are hopeless; they are often unwilling to forgo their lifelong beliefs despite being lectured. Let the newer generations know better and treat their (future) children fairly and refrain from repeating the mistakes of the previous generations.
May Allah make mufti menk heart my comment
InshaAllah ❤️
Himawari Uzumaki why are you getting likes mufti menk has better things to do like make helpfull videos not loving useless comments its not nessecsary bless allah and everyone else
Noob gaming 2,
He can like it if u wants to,
And it’s not haram,
Mind ur own business,
And mufti menk liked other people comments and he liked other people’s comment,
P.S MUFTI MENK JUST LIKED MY COMMENT
Himawari Uzumaki he liked it cos hes nice and listens life isnt about liking peoples comments its not like other people are losers and ask him like u they say something nice
Noob gaming 2,
Mind ur own business
Ma sha allah brother mufti menk jizakumu allah, good advice
So informative and important. Thank you so very much, May Allah SWT bless u🤲
I'm lucky to have very supportive parents. When I was getting involved in a relationship, I included my parents from the very first day and they helped me as much as they could. I've now been engaged for a while, in the sense that our families have been in agreement for almost a year. But the situation still isn't favourable for marriage, and sometimes I get scared thinking about how long it might be and all the things that could go wrong by that time.
Pashtun parents. I know what you’re talking about
Every parent should listen to this
Thank you so much. I have been trying to have this discussion with my parents for a long time. i guess ill just make them watch this video.
Very good Information/advise...hope this msg reaches alot of ppl who are under the clutches of culture n society and start following what is said here..
Assalamualaikum Mufti.
I love your precious lectures✌
Lots of love and dua for you😍
From Bangladesh💚❤
Me too
Me too
Love to see fellow countrymen
Thank you for addressing this issue ...... Many of my acquaintances and I also am facing divorce due to this problem
JazakaAllah khair. Really good topic. MashaAllah.
MashaAllah very good advice...
May Allah Almighty guide us all Aameen
I was feeling like that you were talking me personally and I had email you regarding ... Thanks alot .. I felt great .... There is request you should introduce your channel in Urdu for the parents of India, Pakistan and Bangladesh etc... That our society also get introduced to you... Please have urdu voice over on your all videos.... That would be really big step to spread right Islam in our countries..❤️❤️❤️❤️
His children are very lucky MashAllah🥺
I just wish my Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱 family will learn a lot from this message.Thank you very much sheik mufti for sharing your knowledge may the Almighty continue to blessed you. Love from Sierra Leone west Africa 🇸🇱🇸🇱
Thank you so much for taking this issue. After watching it I've gained strength to take stand for myself.
Nowadays cultures are powerful than religion! May Allah save us 🙏😢
Allhamdulilah for my parents.. they are so amazing. I have opted for arranged marriage and they ask my opinion on each & every step. They even made arrangement for me meet the guy before marriage (of course in family setting)
Need prayers of u guys in choosing a right partner. 😊
Jazakallah khair for this!
Assalam alaikum Mufti. I can definitely say this is the best advice and my most favorite video of yours. May Allah bless you more and family.
Thank you Mufti for this video. My marriage was a love marriage. And of course before i married her i've introduced her to my sisters and to my parents and she also introduced my family to her family. We've been married since March 7, 2022 Alhumdulillah.
It's so sad😢 that I was left behind not watching the mufti's premiere because 3 days I was sick, pray for me mufti to be healthy again😇barakallahu fiik mufti jazakallah khaiir🙏❤
Pray to Allah yourself. run to Allah for help not his creation.
@@world8550 That's not wrong to ask a pious person to pray for us since they may have more chance to be heard by God.
@@heroe1486 how would you know he is Pious? Do you know what he hides and what does not? Only Allah knows who is pious and who is not! And Allah is hearing of all Dua it doesn’t matter who it comes from!
In many cultures, the line between arranged and forced marriage is very thin, unfortunately.
Even though I am not married yet, but your videos are teaching me important lessons to be prepare when the right moment comes. Thank you.
Masha allah since 2009 im listening to ur lectures it really changing many of our life due to ur bayan.. may shower his blessing upon u and ur family.,and also forgive me and our ummah aameen.
Not Muslim here, but I love listen to you. Thank you so much.
Not everyone who calls themselves a Muslim is actually Islamic! Being Muslim is either a badge or an actual lifestyle in Islamic love. That’s a big lesson I learnt and that’s ok, everyone has a journey. My journey is with Allah as a new revert since Feb 20. I’ve become a Muslim in difficult times covid19 and lockdown etc but that’s ok too, Allah has my back!
Thank you cheikh this was a beautiful subject to talk about جزاك الله خيرا
Always a pleasure to listen to you!.
It's not about arranged Vs love marriage ...it's about values that will keep a couple together
I'm sharing this to my parents and all my aunties and friends. This is so important.
Alhamdullillah to see ur every videos and thoughts... Its very inspired to me
Jazakkalh hair..
Thank you so much this was very helpful
i had my nikah done before i met my fiance.. alhamdulillah happily married almost 8 years now
Kids: *Rules are meant to be broken*
Mineta: *Walls are meant to be climbed over*
Mufti: *Engagements are there to be broken* 😂
*3:27*
Oh yesss. First time I agree with Mineta as well
What he meant about that sentence that if there is a chance of not getting along with each other or one of the two persons suddenly realized they are not right for each other, that's why the engagement period is there for, it is better to realise this in the engagement before realizing it after marriage. At the end the whole point of engagement is to explore things about the other person and getting to know him/her before the marriage.
Areej likes aloe ._. An anime character
@@Ari-vc5lg He is an anime character from My Hero Academia
Mashaa Allah 👌
Very intressting and usefull messages for all off us..Jzk allahu khair Mufti Menk 💘😍🤗
Zazakallah. Thanks for explaining all these things so clearly! May ALLAH reward you.
Maybe it's just me. But I'm overcome with happiness whenever mufti likes my comment. I feel so accomplished honestly. It's just knowing that he has personally read a comment that *I* have written. May Allah bless All.
Yes 👏🏼!!!!!!!!!!! Mashallah, I am so happy that my husbands family and mine where accepting even though we were from different backgrounds. Alhamdullila, may Allah swt bless us all.
I enjoyed this video. Very well said. I hope everyone can watch this.
Assalamu aliykum Mufti. Thank you so much 🙏 May Allah 🤲 bless you and your family.