Im not the same person i used to be. I have boundaries now and tons of them target me but they definitely mistook my kindness for weakness and now they are seeing my true strength and empathy is a superpower not a weakness.
Spot on, an empath becomes more powerful because of a narcissist, we never needed anything from them, we see through their bs, and we hold no bitterness, because we see their pain. We just don't put up with them anymore, there's a season for everything.
A true empath is probably the only person who can handle being with an avoidant, also because empaths understand taking space, even if it's for different reasons. Avoidants can fix their stuff if they become aware of it; it's not the same as a narc because narcs have huge needs; avoidants are the needless people who very often have survived narcs. Empaths see the avoidant, they know they're seen and heard with an empath, even when they haven't said a word.
I’m an empath and i don’t think I’ve ever had any narcissists try to be in a relationship with me. I wouldn’t have given them the time of day anyway. I call people out real quick on their bs, so even people who are just conceited turn me off. I won’t even be friends with anyone like that.
I don't know about narcissists because I have never dealt with them. I do know about avoidants , however, since I was with one for four years. IMO, they truly do not intend to hurt anyone. My FA was a very kind person who would do anything for me. He was terrified of commitment and began the slow fade after expressing deep feelings for me. That scared the s**t out of him. Their fears are too much for them to handle. He eventually monkey branched to the low hanging fruit and wanted to be friends with me. They make no sense at all SMH. Nope. I walked away without, a tear and let him go. Never again.
In addition, I am an empath, but I am one with boundaries. I make it clear in the beginning. I am also 70% secure and 30% FA myself. I like my space so I had no problem giving my ex FA his. Most empaths that I know can spot manipulation, and don't allow it. I think that confuses folks. Empaths look like "nice" people, but can cut through bs in a heartbeat. That's why folks say"look out for quiet" people.
Im not the same person i used to be. I have boundaries now and tons of them target me but they definitely mistook my kindness for weakness and now they are seeing my true strength and empathy is a superpower not a weakness.
Spot on, an empath becomes more powerful because of a narcissist, we never needed anything from them, we see through their bs, and we hold no bitterness, because we see their pain. We just don't put up with them anymore, there's a season for everything.
A true empath is probably the only person who can handle being with an avoidant, also because empaths understand taking space, even if it's for different reasons. Avoidants can fix their stuff if they become aware of it; it's not the same as a narc because narcs have huge needs; avoidants are the needless people who very often have survived narcs. Empaths see the avoidant, they know they're seen and heard with an empath, even when they haven't said a word.
I'm empath people please no boundaries
I knew a narc who thought he was an empath..I don’t really trust people who give themselves that label.
I promise you honey I damn sure ain't no narc
And also honey I had a thing called reactive abuse. I now no how to control my emotions and that is POWERFUL
@@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht ok
Same i don't get this dumb trend of people wanting to be labeled as unique or special for having basic human decency...
I’m an empath and i don’t think I’ve ever had any narcissists try to be in a relationship with me. I wouldn’t have given them the time of day anyway. I call people out real quick on their bs, so even people who are just conceited turn me off. I won’t even be friends with anyone like that.
I don't know about narcissists because I have never dealt with them. I do know about avoidants , however, since I was with one for four years. IMO, they truly do not intend to hurt anyone. My FA was a very kind person who would do anything for me. He was terrified of commitment and began the slow fade after expressing deep feelings for me. That scared the s**t out of him. Their fears are too much for them to handle. He eventually monkey branched to the low hanging fruit and wanted to be friends with me. They make no sense at all SMH. Nope. I walked away without, a tear and let him go. Never again.
In addition, I am an empath, but I am one with boundaries. I make it clear in the beginning. I am also 70% secure and 30% FA myself. I like my space so I had no problem giving my ex FA his. Most empaths that I know can spot manipulation, and don't allow it. I think that confuses folks. Empaths look like "nice" people, but can cut through bs in a heartbeat. That's why folks say"look out for quiet" people.