And that's because that's all that the child knows. It's also because the elders, such as the siblings, always tend to uphold the dead-beat parent, which confuses the child. It's when the child become an adult that they start to realize that their parent didn't treat them right!
@@paytonbf1 Sometimes outside people are basing their 2 cents on what the traditional idea of a mother is, like one who is actually raising their child(ren) and making sacrifices for them. They may say that standard saying "you only get one momma." My dad raised me and my brother due to our mom being unfit due to crack, alcohol, and other personal issues. It took years after becoming an adult for her to stop the guilt trips, including sporadic voicemails saying "I'm still your mother. " I thank God those messages have stopped. 🙌🏽 I love her and I truly wish her the best in her life. I don't think I resent her anymore - if I do I hope it leaves me. Anywho, my point of this comment is other people's comments are usually based on the traditional ideas of the mother role. So if they don't actually know or experienced it themselves, they don't understand the physiological and emotional need to maintain a healthy distance from your mom so you can have some inner peace in your life in regards to communicating with her. It's like a thin line to have a balanced relationship - being open and guarded at the same time. An inner protection mechanism. Maybe I'm not using the right words, but Lord knows I know what I'm trying to say. Unfortunately, there are others who know what I'm trying to say. Grace and Peace to you all 💗🕊✌🏽 OneLuv
I'll just add that after decades of being clean and sober, some still don't know how to be a mom. Yes, they are biologically. But sometimes it's like they just don't have the capacity to actually BE a mom. And this is after decades of no crack/ drugs. I think a lot of the time there are some underlying issues that they don't address. Not saying this as an excuse, just an understanding
@@keeshabrown7353 I totally understand where you’re coming from, and I personally went through a similar situation with my mother and father, in that they both didn’t step up to the plate when I was coming up, at all. I grew up motherless and fatherless, and my grandparents on my mothers side raised me. So I know 1st hand what having deadbeat parents feel like. And I totally agree with your statement: parenting isn’t for everyone! Just because your parent is there, doesn’t mean that they are there! You feel me?
If I was at foster home only ONE TIME due to same thing my momma did them I wouldn't let my mom back in my life at all, I don't care if she was clean for over a year. People get relapse easily
Foster home since age three...Let that sink in people. At 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 and on you cannot defend yourself against bullies, molesters, and harmful acts while in someone's care over 30 homes. No remorse from the mom, only harassment sending DCF workers to constantly bother her. Sad, very very sad.
Thank you for saying this. I was thinking this same thing...the freaking audacity. I'm a lover naturally and try my best to communicate effectively, but thinking about the daughter plaintiff in foster homes from 3yrs-15yrs old, pretty much her entire life an orphan. That mom made me wanna skip words and be violent towards her. Sheesh.
Ex foster kid here; it is as terrible as it sounds😔 I was in ONLY 10 different homes before age 10!! Can you imagine going to school in the morning and coming home at 3pm, to find your bag packed and your social worker there to take you to the next unknown home!! It affects you your ENTIRE life!! Two kinds of people come out of these situations, Tough, a fighter or you become broken, a perpetual victim!! Thank God, I am a tough one, but with invisible scars😔💜
I’m sure the daughter has made her share of mistakes. She said she “ got into it with her brother,” But she sure has better values then her mother and tried to do right by her siblings.
daughter started out saying “i love my mother. “ and told her testimony. her mother started off “we never got along, we always bumped heads” chileeeee thats why judge was on her case from the get!
That young lady, despite having a worthless mother, has done a good job trying to make a worthwhile life for herself and her kids. I applaud her and wish her the best.
She needs to get an restraining order against her. I know thats her Mom. But she needs to stay away from her. She can find a better Mother Figure everywhere easily
People who abuse drugs for So long end up becoming heartless and can't feel any feelings because of brain 🧠 Damage. They put the poison in Their brain for so long. Evil thinking seems right. It's totally biology. You can't keep putting poison in your body & expect no side affects or permanent emotional and behavioral Damage.
She needs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Dysfunction doesn't disappear because you Quit Drugs or Alcohol. People are destroyed because of lack of knowledge. Her Addiction Destroyed her Family!!!
Hahaha. Don't diss librarians. She is trying to evoke support and sympathy like most narcissi what a sad piece of humanity. I pray for the rest of her kids.
@@budlightcrew5463 this has absolutely nothing to do with being perfect people who say that are the same people that be in court and tell people to prove it
@@budlightcrew5463 look being a shitty person / mom/dad has nothing to do with being perfect and if you cant understand that I dont know what else to tell you
Yeah I found nothing funny about this episode. The audience was cracking up whole time I'm thinking about a 3 yr old being in foster care likely subjected to sexual, physical and mental abuse
@@mel...s exactly Can you imagine what this poor child went through while their mother chose to smoke crack and sell drugs that mother should be in jail for years and years
@@YAHsaves777 what good is a death bed Confession when she calls years and years of pain and torment on her kids I mean dang are you that simple minded
Mom isn't just a crackhead, she gives me big psychopath vibes. Cool, calm, collected. The sweet innocent granny looking ladies can be some of the most dangerous ones. 🤔🤔
She sure is and a she scapegoated that young woman, bad thing is the mother will be revered in communities and the daughter will be looked down on for being a different person that psycho that had her.
This woman might be the most evil person I’ve seen on the Judge Mathis show. She is heartless, no remorse, is smiling every time the judge calls her out and says she has no shame for what she did. She is not a mother she is a horrible person.
And had the nerve to have 8 children without a motherly bone in her body on top of all the other things you listed. It's always those types who have way too many children and ruin their lives. Then we wonder why there are so many broken people walking around.
I agree. Evil is the best way to describe this "mother". She's disgusting. I pray her young son doesn't ruin his life because of the pain of having her for a mother.
The mother is envious of her daughter and she doesn’t love herself, therefore she could never love her offspring. I hope the daughter keeps the boundaries in place, and never looks back ✌🏽
Yes boundaries! That's the word I was looking for in my earlier comment. The line between being open to a healthy relationship and guarded for self-protection, peace of mind and sanity. Boundaries!
Exactly. Cause the mothers washed up she oh she done and and that’s why she is jealous of her own young beautiful daughter which is a shame she is the worst type of mother you could ever even look at
She calls her mom by her first name “ Linda.” The mom traumatized her in her childhood and in adult life’s she was selfish and self involved, even today. While her daughter was taking care of her children she was calling CPS to put not just her own children on they system but the daughters children as well. She worked hard to protect her family and the mom was playing games.
“Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.” The mom: I’m glad you won daughter. She can go her way and I can go mine. The daughter: “it’s been like that my whole life so who cares.” 👏👏👏
I commend that young lady for trying to break the cycle, do better and try to keep her family together. That wasn't her job and its messed up that she even had to pay any rent to that monster. She conducted herself like a professional. The defendant is a pathetic human being who only cares about herself. Sad.
i hate when i tell people i don’t like my parents and they pull that “but they’re still your parents” crap. so? obviously that didn’t mean anything to them, so why should it mean anything to me? i realize that those people just lack the mental capacity to look at things from a different perspective, though. just because you had parents who loved you and raised you right doesn’t mean that everyone else’s were the same.
@@comet_vomit I used to experience this, and have been in a 2 year deep healing journey. Ultimately you must forgive those abusers to set yourself free. Long, difficult journey. For a bright future, you have to release the past. Greatest of luck to you. Do yourself a favor, and free yourself from them. 😊
I was thinking the same thing. The situation is very sad, not a drop funny. If it was 1 or 30, the female (a mother wouldn't have done that) didn't have her kids. May God be with the young lady and give her strength.
The mom says "we didn't see eye to eye" I wonder why!? She expects her daughter to be happy being a foster kid for ALL her childhood life AND doing her job by adopting her siblings.
Everyone always talks about why he always jokes about crackheads, but this is a sad example of the destruction that being a dope fiend has, especially upon the children. I hope they do this as a throwback episode so they can follow up with the Plaintiff.
I am going to go into a long thesis, but some people do HATE their own children/child for a variety of reasons. I know many of you people don't understand it, but it does happen.
@@Imissyoulou Sadly, it's true. I've stopped talking to my mom bc of the hateful and hurtful things she would say to me; it's been may 3 months now. I will always be here if my mother ever truly needs me but the pain she causes me and the hateful attitude towards me is what keeps me from calling her. Even at 47, I still wish I had the love of a mother.
@@Imissyoulou I understand it very well. At times I felt /feel like my mother hate me. It’s something it’s hard to reconcile with for a child. But for me I can see it better because I have children.
I tried to understand thé mother's side , but she was selling drug when she was sober and clean. She didn't Care about her clients life or her own children seing that. She was harassing thé daughter who had no obligation to try to save her siblings . That stopped me being empathic towards her . I just know she IS human , but as Tes Bundy maybe
She's not a mother. She's a breeder and a narcissist. Good mothers nurture, love and protect their children. Kudos to the daughter for creating boundaries and holding to them because that narc will never change.
This is bye far the worse case I've ever seen a Heartless Mother of 8 children with no remorse or sympathy for anything she has taken her children through...The daughter have the mind and capability of taking on her children and siblings and still facing uphill battles with her own Mother .... A lesson learned and I'm very proud of the daughter for over coming her mother terrible ways and starting her own successful path and blessing for noT ending up like her mother I wish the daughter and her siblings the best of luck and all high blessing🙏🏾
Damn the defendant spent her whole young adult life caring for her siblings. You can her the pain her her voice while she’s telling the story. While explaining her background mom is standing there smirking.
That’s sad!! I know people are quick to say, “That’s your mother; you only get one!” It’s sooooo true; please take it from someone whose mother is no longer here... but, with a mother, such as the defendant, how is possible to honor her? She has caused so much trauma to her children. I pray for healing. 🙏🙏
There are no words to describe the disgust that I have for that mother. Deplorable would be a understatement. Her arrogance and lack of responsibility cannot be measured. I wish the best for the young lady and her siblings.
This is the type of person that you have to love from a distance…it’s just sad that it happens to be her Mother. Blessings to the daughter & her family 🙌🏾🙏🏾
My mother & I may bump heads for petty things but thank GOD for my mother whom I love dearly!! I couldn't imagine having such a nasty mother like her. Pathetic individual!!
I really hope that Judge Mathis took this young lady to the side and helped her and some type of way even get a nice place to live or a vehicle or something... I hope that he blessed her
I hate this for her. Out of all the moms one could have, she got this donkey. I don’t even know what it feels like to not have a mother who cares for me and loves me unconditionally. Heartbreaking isn’t the word. Proud of this girl, she is the $hit for coming out so wholesome 🔥❤️
The mother must be jealous of her own daughter, because even after being a crack head and dead beat mother, their is no reason she should treat her that way. They could’ve revived their relationship. Smh
@@stayhydrated8321 thank you sweetie I accept all of Gods anointed prayers and blessings. On a lighter note these UA-cam streets has help me get through some of my darkest times
I absolutely love the daughter. This so called mom failed her but in spite of that her daughter decided to make a good life for herself and her siblings. Not everyone should be called mom.
Wow, the judge saw right through that “Suzy-homemaker” look she stood there with. He was right, too! BOOM!!! 🤯 The truth came out….what an unremorseful attitude!
"Its been like that my whole life who cares " It's so crazy when a mother doesn't love her child but that unconditional hate causes pressure and when that pipe bost a phenomenal woman is born. I love that the daughter broke that chain ⛓️ it ain't easy speaking from experience. Be blessed and hug your kids tell them you love them it make a tremendous difference!!!
I have the upmost respect for parents that own up to their wrong doingvto cause hurt in a child’s life. For her to laugh a little about this just makes me angry. She’s beautiful and raising her beautiful children and I hope she’s doing well today ❤️✨
The drugs didn't make her that way that's definitely who she is. I've personally met ppl who were on crack years before I was born and non of them are sociopathic in this way
If you're a parent, the one thing you don't want is for things between yourself and your child to get to the point where your child wants nothing to do with you ever again, your child doesn't want their own kids to ever have anything to do with you ... That's the last thing you want as a parent. In this case, the end says it all. The mother didn't even care that she would never see her daughter or grandkids ever again. The daughter saw no difference between past and future, with her mother not in her life. That's as sad as it gets. The mother in this case had no business having children. The court isn't the only thing the mother had contempt for. I wish there was a way for me to be there for the daughter.
😳 That "mother" is one treacherous individual. My mouth dropped open hearing what she put her kids through with no remorse. I hope that the daughter NEVER allows this toxic person back in her or her kids lives
This was SO SAD!! For a "Mother" so.be nonchalant about her actions of having her kids taken! Then she acts like she's OK 👍 with not having a future relationship with her or her grandkids! God please help them both! 🙏
When people don't care for their children, NOTHING can help them. That instinct just isn't there. However, I know you don't understand it because you never lived it.
It’s good to find some humor in this case. “Your case is dismissed for contempt and for being a crackhead.” 😂😂😂 That mother just short as hell. Waste of space.
I’m trying to figure out what made the mom feel as if the daughter should have paid her & she hadn’t been there for her since she was 3 years old. That’s so sad 😞
I just want to say a prayer for all the little kids just like her that did not ask to be brought in this world but yet they were abandoned and let down. Sending you so much love sincerely.
The plantiff is a beautiful person and God will bless her for her kind spirit and respect for her mother. Thank you JM for keeping it real on the defendant. The defendant is clearly not in denial, she is shameless for her conduct.
Good for the daughter. Sadly mothers like this exist and even worse some kids don’t realize they’re being mistreated.
And that's because that's all that the child knows. It's also because the elders, such as the siblings, always tend to uphold the dead-beat parent, which confuses the child. It's when the child become an adult that they start to realize that their parent didn't treat them right!
Where rest kids GOD BLESS Her DAUGHTER
@@paytonbf1
Sometimes outside people are basing their 2 cents on what the traditional idea of a mother is, like one who is actually raising their child(ren) and making sacrifices for them. They may say that standard saying "you only get one momma."
My dad raised me and my brother due to our mom being unfit due to crack, alcohol, and other personal issues. It took years after becoming an adult for her to stop the guilt trips, including sporadic voicemails saying "I'm still your mother. " I thank God those messages have stopped. 🙌🏽
I love her and I truly wish her the best in her life. I don't think I resent her anymore - if I do I hope it leaves me. Anywho, my point of this comment is other people's comments are usually based on the traditional ideas of the mother role. So if they don't actually know or experienced it themselves, they don't understand the physiological and emotional need to maintain a healthy distance from your mom so you can have some inner peace in your life in regards to communicating with her. It's like a thin line to have a balanced relationship - being open and guarded at the same time. An inner protection mechanism. Maybe I'm not using the right words, but Lord knows I know what I'm trying to say. Unfortunately, there are others who know what I'm trying to say.
Grace and Peace to you all 💗🕊✌🏽 OneLuv
I'll just add that after decades of being clean and sober, some still don't know how to be a mom. Yes, they are biologically. But sometimes it's like they just don't have the capacity to actually BE a mom. And this is after decades of no crack/ drugs. I think a lot of the time there are some underlying issues that they don't address. Not saying this as an excuse, just an understanding
@@keeshabrown7353 I totally understand where you’re coming from, and I personally went through a similar situation with my mother and father, in that they both didn’t step up to the plate when I was coming up, at all. I grew up motherless and fatherless, and my grandparents on my mothers side raised me. So I know 1st hand what having deadbeat parents feel like. And I totally agree with your statement: parenting isn’t for everyone! Just because your parent is there, doesn’t mean that they are there! You feel me?
What a shame and disgraceful example of a mother. Daughter keep your head up.
Rooting for her !!!
She started off “we never seen eye to eye” instead of apologizing or being remorseful! Sad and disgusting!
Sad 😔
ZERO accountability!!! Ugh!
If I was at foster home only ONE TIME due to same thing my momma did them I wouldn't let my mom back in my life at all, I don't care if she was clean for over a year. People get relapse easily
Not everthe rule for lost souls JM
Foster home since age three...Let that sink in people. At 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 and on you cannot defend yourself against bullies, molesters, and harmful acts while in someone's care over 30 homes. No remorse from the mom, only harassment sending DCF workers to constantly bother her. Sad, very very sad.
It is very very sad!!!!!
A child that young having to constantly adjust to new living situations and virtual strangers so often. Just terrible.
Best comment ever
Thank you for saying this. I was thinking this same thing...the freaking audacity. I'm a lover naturally and try my best to communicate effectively, but thinking about the daughter plaintiff in foster homes from 3yrs-15yrs old, pretty much her entire life an orphan. That mom made me wanna skip words and be violent towards her. Sheesh.
Ex foster kid here; it is as terrible as it sounds😔 I was in ONLY 10 different homes before age 10!! Can you imagine going to school in the morning and coming home at 3pm, to find your bag packed and your social worker there to take you to the next unknown home!! It affects you your ENTIRE life!! Two kinds of people come out of these situations, Tough, a fighter or you become broken, a perpetual victim!! Thank God, I am a tough one, but with invisible scars😔💜
The plaintiff came out great eventhough her mother AND father weren't in her life. Imagine how successful she would be if she had loving parents.
I think so too.
Possibly would not have turned out the same! Everything happens for a reason.
@@chemac8471 that is so true! Everything happens for a reason!
Exactly
That daughter is an angel. The mother is something else.
I’m sure the daughter has made her share of mistakes. She said she “ got into it with her brother,” But she sure has better values then her mother and tried to do right by her siblings.
daughter started out saying “i love my mother. “ and told her testimony. her mother started off “we never got along, we always bumped heads” chileeeee thats why judge was on her case from the get!
The term is devil....🤦🏿♂️
@@YAHsaves777 nigga huhh????EVERYBODY gets into it wit the siblings, thts a bum ass excuse u tried
@@iLoveYouShow1 very perceptive. That set the tone for the rest of the case.
I can’t believe her mom would even charge her rent . What an awful woman .
I also can’t believe the mother tried to evict her, knowing that it can make it hard for her to rent elsewhere.
She is a sorry human being!!
I can’t believe she through her daughter and grandkids things away. Thank God the eviction case was dismissed. That’s terrible 😢
Her mother was still doing crack and needed the money thats why she was charging her daughter rent .... Smh
Can't believe it either but like JM would say those are crackish ways🥺
That young lady, despite having a worthless mother, has done a good job trying to make a worthwhile life for herself and her kids. I applaud her and wish her the best.
Ikr, made a grown man cry for her
She needs to get an restraining order against her. I know thats her Mom. But she needs to stay away from her. She can find a better Mother Figure everywhere easily
The daughter is dressed classy for court, and carries herself well. Stay Strong Young Lady. Sorry You Had To Endure This.
The mom is truly disgusting and has no remorse. My heart goes out to her daughter and other kids. Im glad JM called her out on her crackish ways…
Mothers like her hate their daughters
Exactly
People who abuse drugs for So long end up becoming heartless and can't feel any feelings because of brain 🧠 Damage. They put the poison in Their brain for so long. Evil thinking seems right. It's totally biology. You can't keep putting poison in your body & expect no side affects or permanent emotional and behavioral Damage.
She needs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Dysfunction doesn't disappear because you Quit Drugs or Alcohol. People are destroyed because of lack of knowledge. Her Addiction Destroyed her Family!!!
I totally agree
And the " mother" has nerve to be dressed like a librarian. 🤣
And tried to talk like one too
Right 😂😂😂
Hahaha. Don't diss librarians. She is trying to evoke support and sympathy like most narcissi what a sad piece of humanity. I pray for the rest of her kids.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m weakkkkkk by this comment
Lmmfao
The mama is out of pocket- what a poor excuse of a mother.
and whats crazy ive seen worse
Not right to say that about someone mother cause sure you not perfect
@@budlightcrew5463 this has absolutely nothing to do with being perfect people who say that are the same people that be in court and tell people to prove it
@@theinvaderblankman4226 nobody is perfect
@@budlightcrew5463 look being a shitty person / mom/dad has nothing to do with being perfect and if you cant understand that I dont know what else to tell you
She do not care what a selfish hateful vile woman her daughter just wanted to be loved this is the saddest jm I've ever seen
Yeah I found nothing funny about this episode. The audience was cracking up whole time I'm thinking about a 3 yr old being in foster care likely subjected to sexual, physical and mental abuse
@@mel...s exactly. I felt the same way. The laughing was ridiculous. The saddest situation ever.
I wish I could be her mother, she is a beautiful young lady
@@mel...s exactly Can you imagine what this poor child went through while their mother chose to smoke crack and sell drugs that mother should be in jail for years and years
One of the saddest cases I've seen.
A dog can have babies, but it takes a mother to raise them! I'm glad Judge went off on her.
Ive seen better mother dogs than this woman
I literally was going to write that!! My aunts used to say it all the time when I was younger. Sad sad case.
JM was hilarious today. I feel bad for the plaintiff. The nerve of the defendant. I hope she sobers up and realizes the damage she is still causing
Too late.
If she didn’t realize as of now it’s too late
@@DayanaLashaee it’s never too late. Ever heard of death bed confessions? However she is proof that you can get older and still not get wiser ☹️
@@YAHsaves777 what good is a death bed Confession when she calls years and years of pain and torment on her kids I mean dang are you that simple minded
Judge Mathis was in a good mood to put up with that lady's attitude too.
Mom isn't just a crackhead, she gives me big psychopath vibes. Cool, calm, collected. The sweet innocent granny looking ladies can be some of the most dangerous ones. 🤔🤔
Yes and selling drugs when you are clean sober tell a lot about her true character
Agree or narcissistic
OK
On god they should watch her 💯 all she care about is money and crack she will take anybody out for that 💯
She sure is and a she scapegoated that young woman, bad thing is the mother will be revered in communities and the daughter will be looked down on for being a different person that psycho that had her.
This woman might be the most evil person I’ve seen on the Judge Mathis show. She is heartless, no remorse, is smiling every time the judge calls her out and says she has no shame for what she did. She is not a mother she is a horrible person.
She’s a demon in flesh
And had the nerve to have 8 children without a motherly bone in her body on top of all the other things you listed. It's always those types who have way too many children and ruin their lives. Then we wonder why there are so many broken people walking around.
Oh no, there have been more evil people than this
@@locafly Yes so many angry children and teenagers. They look for love and acceptance from the wrong people. God help us.
I agree. Evil is the best way to describe this "mother". She's disgusting. I pray her young son doesn't ruin his life because of the pain of having her for a mother.
The mother is envious of her daughter and she doesn’t love herself, therefore she could never love her offspring. I hope the daughter keeps the boundaries in place, and never looks back ✌🏽
Yes boundaries! That's the word I was looking for in my earlier comment. The line between being open to a healthy relationship and guarded for self-protection, peace of mind and sanity. Boundaries!
Exactly. Cause the mothers washed up she oh she done and and that’s why she is jealous of her own young beautiful daughter which is a shame she is the worst type of mother you could ever even look at
Having a child does not make you a “Mother” 💯
Most people don't understand that.
She calls her mom by her first name “ Linda.” The mom traumatized her in her childhood and in adult life’s she was selfish and self involved, even today. While her daughter was taking care of her children she was calling CPS to put not just her own children on they system but the daughters children as well. She worked hard to protect her family and the mom was playing games.
“Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.”
The mom: I’m glad you won daughter. She can go her way and I can go mine.
The daughter: “it’s been like that my whole life so who cares.”
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I’m glad the daughter turned out well despite all that she has been through.
That lady is proud of all that mess she caused. What a shame.
I commend that young lady for trying to break the cycle, do better and try to keep her family together. That wasn't her job and its messed up that she even had to pay any rent to that monster. She conducted herself like a professional. The defendant is a pathetic human being who only cares about herself. Sad.
This is why you should be quick to judge if a person says they don't like their parents. There are people out there who can't understand that.
Amen
I agree narcissistic people are excellent manipulaters
i hate when i tell people i don’t like my parents and they pull that “but they’re still your parents” crap. so? obviously that didn’t mean anything to them, so why should it mean anything to me?
i realize that those people just lack the mental capacity to look at things from a different perspective, though. just because you had parents who loved you and raised you right doesn’t mean that everyone else’s were the same.
@@comet_vomit I used to experience this, and have been in a 2 year deep healing journey. Ultimately you must forgive those abusers to set yourself free. Long, difficult journey. For a bright future, you have to release the past. Greatest of luck to you. Do yourself a favor, and free yourself from them. 😊
Exactly
No one should be laughing at this because it’s serious!
Right. The audience is so ridiculous
@@kay22100 the audience is not the problem. The mom is the problem.
@@kay22100 Yes. I havent watched in months.
I was thinking the same thing. The situation is very sad, not a drop funny. If it was 1 or 30, the female (a mother wouldn't have done that) didn't have her kids. May God be with the young lady and give her strength.
The mom says "we didn't see eye to eye" I wonder why!? She expects her daughter to be happy being a foster kid for ALL her childhood life AND doing her job by adopting her siblings.
Yours is Dismissed, dismissed for contempt and for being a crackhead" lmfao that had me dead
I choked on my chipotle 😂🤣🤣🤣
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Haven’t completed the case yet and already I’m shaking my head at the mom for Her countersuit
I know right, but I just wanted to hear what audacity she had with a countersuit.
You can't choose your family, so it's ok to dislike them.
Might been the saddest case I’ve seen. I wish there was a way to support this young lady.
Me to, I’d help
We can Google her too
Perfect example of a toxic parent
The mother didn't give a damn about what she did and she made it seem like she wasn't wrong at all. She was so careless.
Her mother is diabolical. Prayers up for the plaintiff.🌹
That’s right she’s diabolical a demon and flush
Shame on the mother. Your children are priority.
Never try to downplay anybody's experience....this is so sad
Everyone always talks about why he always jokes about crackheads, but this is a sad example of the destruction that being a dope fiend has, especially upon the children. I hope they do this as a throwback episode so they can follow up with the Plaintiff.
Judge be going in..he sure did. It kills me how overcoming drug addicts act like mother Mary after ruining the kids
She act like she hate her own child
I am going to go into a long thesis, but some people do HATE their own children/child for a variety of reasons. I know many of you people don't understand it, but it does happen.
@@Imissyoulou I've seen it plenty times . I have saw many mother's hate there daughters
@@Imissyoulou Sadly, it's true. I've stopped talking to my mom bc of the hateful and hurtful things she would say to me; it's been may 3 months now. I will always be here if my mother ever truly needs me but the pain she causes me and the hateful attitude towards me is what keeps me from calling her. Even at 47, I still wish I had the love of a mother.
@@beb5407 and sons.
@@Imissyoulou I understand it very well. At times I felt /feel like my mother hate me. It’s something it’s hard to reconcile with for a child. But for me I can see it better because I have children.
Already knew he wasnt about to let her present counter claim lol
But that’s Absolutely horrible! I feel bad for the plaintiff
I’ll be praying for her
Poppycock
I tried to understand thé mother's side , but she was selling drug when she was sober and clean. She didn't Care about her clients life or her own children seing that. She was harassing thé daughter who had no obligation to try to save her siblings . That stopped me being empathic towards her . I just know she IS human , but as Tes Bundy maybe
This case is heartbreaking 💔
Mother is evil.
Just heartbreaking 💔. The mom is disgusting.
I would have been a good mother to that lovely young woman. She didn’t deserve it - no one deserves that B.S.😡
The mother was blowing me like I really wanted to put my hands on her 🤦🏽♀️ I don’t even know her. I can only imagine how her children feel about her!
Right
This episode is a classic example of a dead-beat mom, which is beyond sad!
A straight up egg-donor
And the mother standing there with a smirk on her face like she did a good thing
She's not a mother. She's a breeder and a narcissist. Good mothers nurture, love and protect their children. Kudos to the daughter for creating boundaries and holding to them because that narc will never change.
“Your claim is dismissed for contempt and being a crackhead” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 and was she about to say the judge was kinda like judge Mathis
☠☠😂😂😂
This is bye far the worse case I've ever seen a Heartless Mother of 8 children with no remorse or sympathy for anything she has taken her children through...The daughter have the mind and capability of taking on her children and siblings and still facing uphill battles with her own Mother .... A lesson learned and I'm very proud of the daughter for over coming her mother terrible ways and starting her own successful path and blessing for noT ending up like her mother I wish the daughter and her siblings the best of luck and all high blessing🙏🏾
Damn the defendant spent her whole young adult life caring for her siblings. You can her the pain her her voice while she’s telling the story. While explaining her background mom is standing there smirking.
The Plaintiff you mean, not Defendant.
That’s sad!! I know people are quick to say, “That’s your mother; you only get one!” It’s sooooo true; please take it from someone whose mother is no longer here... but, with a mother, such as the defendant, how is possible to honor her? She has caused so much trauma to her children. I pray for healing. 🙏🙏
Amen
Your comment was a good one. Definitely have to pray.
All mother's aren't equal, and some were never meant to be mothers..
@@anikataylor9419, so true.
@@naliaacevedo2500, thank you. I guess the truth made it good.🙂
There are no words to describe the disgust that I have for that mother. Deplorable would be a understatement. Her arrogance and lack of responsibility cannot be measured.
I wish the best for the young lady and her siblings.
Whew Lord put your hands on these kids 😢
The grace and composure of the plaintiff is remarkable.
Just because you have children doesn't make you a mother apparently the lady has some issues probably something stemming from her childhood
This is the type of person that you have to love from a distance…it’s just sad that it happens to be her Mother. Blessings to the daughter & her family 🙌🏾🙏🏾
The daughter is so beautiful and strong. Go girl!❤
How can that woman not have any remorse for all the damage and heartbreak she has caused her children 🤦♀️
wow MAJOR props to the plaintiff. At surface level she appears to have come out of all this just fine. I wish nothing but the best for her
Lord what kind of mama does this woman have. Some ppl don't need kids
He dismissed her case for being contempt and a crackhead I’m thru
She’s not wrong for suing
Whose not wrong
This defendant is a sorry case for a mother. Not much else to say here.
My mother & I may bump heads for petty things but thank GOD for my mother whom I love dearly!! I couldn't imagine having such a nasty mother like her. Pathetic individual!!
I really hope that Judge Mathis took this young lady to the side and helped her and some type of way even get a nice place to live or a vehicle or something... I hope that he blessed her
I hate this for her. Out of all the moms one could have, she got this donkey. I don’t even know what it feels like to not have a mother who cares for me and loves me unconditionally. Heartbreaking isn’t the word. Proud of this girl, she is the $hit for coming out so wholesome 🔥❤️
Carl, be thankful and GRATEFUL, that you have a mother that loves and care for you. Your circumstances, could have been a lot DIFFERENT.
@@Imissyoulou Amen.
My heart goes out to that angel 😇.
SMH, what bothers me is the mothers response during the case. She had no remorse for being absentee. Glad uncle Mathis put her in her place.
The mother must be jealous of her own daughter, because even after being a crack head and dead beat mother, their is no reason she should treat her that way. They could’ve revived their relationship. Smh
It’s because the daughter doesn’t enable her, she tells her she is wrong, she’s more responsible than her mother… so her mother doesn’t like her.
Yup I agree
@@stayhydrated8321This is the one.
Dang this hurts. I feel horrible for that young lady. Bless her for finding her way and bossing up!
I'm glad Judge chastised her like that because she had that dang smirk on her face like she was having fun. Sickening
One of the few times where Mathis not liking someone turns out good
JM: “what a shame”
The defendant: “ I’m not ashamed”
Sad
She Should be ashamed
I love Judge Mathis. Watching him gets me through my 4 hours of dialysis
Wow… I used to sit at dialysis with my mom from like 4-9 bored out of my mind! 😩 I pray blessings and healing over…🙌🏾
@@stayhydrated8321 thank you sweetie I accept all of Gods anointed prayers and blessings. On a lighter note these UA-cam streets has help me get through some of my darkest times
I absolutely love the daughter. This so called mom failed her but in spite of that her daughter decided to make a good life for herself and her siblings. Not everyone should be called mom.
Wow, the judge saw right through that “Suzy-homemaker” look she stood there with. He was right, too! BOOM!!! 🤯 The truth came out….what an unremorseful attitude!
“Yours is dismissed for contempt & for being a crackhead”😂😂😂😂
I usually see parents regretful. I never seen someone act this way. wow
So sad. Mom had no mothering vibe about her. Smh.
Dam! This is just sad and pathetic that her mom doesn't seem to be remorseful about anything.
Yup..she is very selfish n cold 🥶
The daughter is a blessing to her brothers and sisters God will bless her
She is a sorry excuse for a mother
"Its been like that my whole life who cares " It's so crazy when a mother doesn't love her child but that unconditional hate causes pressure and when that pipe bost a phenomenal woman is born. I love that the daughter broke that chain ⛓️ it ain't easy speaking from experience. Be blessed and hug your kids tell them you love them it make a tremendous difference!!!
I have the upmost respect for parents that own up to their wrong doingvto cause hurt in a child’s life. For her to laugh a little about this just makes me angry. She’s beautiful and raising her beautiful children and I hope she’s doing well today ❤️✨
All humor aside...this is very saddening.
The drugs didn't make her that way that's definitely who she is. I've personally met ppl who were on crack years before I was born and non of them are sociopathic in this way
If you're a parent, the one thing you don't want is for things between yourself and your child to get to the point where your child wants nothing to do with you ever again, your child doesn't want their own kids to ever have anything to do with you ... That's the last thing you want as a parent. In this case, the end says it all. The mother didn't even care that she would never see her daughter or grandkids ever again. The daughter saw no difference between past and future, with her mother not in her life. That's as sad as it gets. The mother in this case had no business having children. The court isn't the only thing the mother had contempt for.
I wish there was a way for me to be there for the daughter.
This young lady's story is heartbreaking 😢 she got alot of passion and attitude about being sued. Shoulda put the same energy into her 8 kids smh
Judge Mathis roasted the hell out of the defendant
😳 That "mother" is one treacherous individual. My mouth dropped open hearing what she put her kids through with no remorse. I hope that the daughter NEVER allows this toxic person back in her or her kids lives
When the judge start talkin low to the defendant I knew he was bouta get on her lol.. that’s how my grandma do me when she mean business
I love how Judge Mathis be snapping off lol checking they ass, and when the camera person put the camera on them, they face tells it all 💀💀💀💀💀💀
The mother is deplorable
This was SO SAD!! For a "Mother" so.be nonchalant about her actions of having her kids taken! Then she acts like she's OK 👍 with not having a future relationship with her or her grandkids!
God please help them both! 🙏
When people don't care for their children, NOTHING can help them. That instinct just isn't there. However, I know you don't understand it because you never lived it.
It’s good to find some humor in this case. “Your case is dismissed for contempt and for being a crackhead.” 😂😂😂
That mother just short as hell. Waste of space.
I’m trying to figure out what made the mom feel as if the daughter should have paid her & she hadn’t been there for her since she was 3 years old. That’s so sad 😞
With her just being adopted at3, I'm already heart broken for her...."she is Most definitely not her mother"..
Thank the Heavens!
I just want to hug her. 30? I only went to one and I was traumatized. I can't even imagine.
I just want to say a prayer for all the little kids just like her that did not ask to be brought in this world but yet they were abandoned and let down. Sending you so much love sincerely.
The plantiff is a beautiful person and God will bless her for her kind spirit and respect for her mother. Thank you JM for keeping it real on the defendant. The defendant is clearly not in denial, she is shameless for her conduct.
May God bless that lady she has a divine heart.