Kimberly is bringing her granddaughter's mother, Nikki, to court for child support. She says Nikki does not provide any financial support and barely visits with her granddaughter, Sterling.
Unpopular opinion here...I think she got pregnant and was going to abort it. The son and his mom convinced her not to. Now the son is deployed and Grandma is holding the bag.
Frfr my granddaughter 18months and she remember if she having a cuts up spend a nite an tell her it can be such a and such nite she be remembering😂 she talks like sailor and her memory is something else lol That’s a shame I help my son and his finance go to working and my son having a little business and her she work and go to school I help them but they take they baby home I’m just the grandmother and do what grandmother to and do to help them
Me personally they should have dismissed the case because they needed to.found out how much that boy that's in the army or Marines is making first not just put everything on the mom ........
You saw this. I saw a mother who fell pregnant too soon in her life. I saw a mother who hesitate to give birth because of a very good reason, she was too young. I totally believe in the agreement. I totally believe the young mother has been convinced by this agreement to give birth, thinking the grand-mother would keep her word. There are chances without this agreement, the baby wouldn't see the daylight at all. It happens a lot, certainly more than we know. In this case, the mother would be right and the grand-mother would be wrong. The problem is now the grand-mother is struggling with this agreement and want the mother to take the responsibility she didn't want to have in a first place to help her. She said it herself, the mother is having fun partying, living her youth as she wanted and it upsets the grand-mother as she can't on her own.
Nope. Unless a child support is filed then they will take it out of the paycheck. I watched my grandkids while both parents were on deployment. Parents paid the child care only.
Hope isn’t totally lost. Me and my partner had our baby together at 19. We are now 23. Our little girl is with us everyday and we have a very happy life. Makes me so sad seeing parents like this girl
Yes and that's possible. My mom didn't want me either, but she sure loves me to death. If she had made the decision to not have me, I would get that. She's an awesome human but humans have limits. Grow up.
Not wanting a child child doesn't make you a bad parent. In today's western society a lot of people have children they weren't planning on having. Doesn't mean you don't love them once they get here. How you respond when the child gets here determines your parenting. On the other hand she sounds like a bad parent but the two aren't synonymous.
She basically was trying to give mom , her child . The child she never wanted in the first place . There are many forms of birth control . If she is in college she should’ve been smarter then that . That’s sad . And yes the child will remember when mom wasn’t there . We all have are own past experiences.
I was a single dad going to school full time and had a part time job. It’s hard going to school all day, it’s brutal coming home to parent, but it is totally worth it hearing “I love you dad.” I feel for the girl having neither parent in her life, but am glad that she has a seemingly wonderful grandma.
I was a young mom at 17, single, working and school, yes it is hard, one day I was sad, and my daughter was 6 at the time, she hugged me and said, “you’re a good mom, mommy.” I then thought to myself, “this is what keeps me going.” ❤️🙌🏻
How about why encourage children to have a child when their broke. Always screaming this it's good to struggle B.S. this dumb woman told her son to have a baby when they weren't ready. The son was leaving and the girl was leaving to better them selves. Stop telling people you'll take care of the kid when you're broke and can't take care of a kid.
I slept maybe a couple hours a day for 25 years so my kids had what they needed to succeed. While doing that I also went to school and worked my butt off. Do what you are suppose to do you lazy arrogant person
i have so much respect for the grandmother. not only is she raising her grand baby, she’s dealing with the stress of having a deployed loved one. i hope she gets all the great things in life that she deserves!!
The middle-aged woman will return to re-raising children, a job from which she is supposed to retire. Like you, I hope and pray that better days will hurry by. I like your style.
Judge Vonda said "Mom doesn't do anything!" Anything except go to the clubs, drink and party. But she's a "Social Media Influencer"!! Yeah, but she's getting paid too - she just doesn't want to part with that money!! Bet that little girl doesn't even know her mama!! Sad! God bless Grandma for stepping up and raising the child!! At least she cares - it's pretty obvious that mom doesn't!!
Right? Like I don't understand at all!! I didn't have a child in college (I have a 5mo now), but I did work a full-time and part-time job, plus was enrolled full-time for in-person classes. She just wants to party instead of work lol. These parents are something else I swear!
When I had my oldest, I went to college full time, worked, and took care of him as a single mom. I'm glad my dad helped with a place to live while I finished school.
@@tamtamxtamI remember being in foster care. It was for a year I was 2-3 probably one of the worst times of my life😭. You remember your mom not being there
Here's the thing, at 2 you don't remember that at all, but part of you will never forget. Part of my family completely disowned me because for some reason they didn't like my mom, that ruined my relationship I could've had with them, anytime I'm with them I don't feel very welcomed. It's hard for me to be with them because of what they did during the time when I wasn't making memories. I don't remember what happened but I always knew something was wrong there, when I got the full story from my mom with all the documentation to prove it I felt this great sense of relief because I thought there was something wrong with me that I wasn't happy there
This “mother” needs to sign over her rights. She birthed the baby, but is not a mother. I was a single mom for over 4 years. I worked, went to school full time, did all the laundry, shopping illness etc. I did it all! This woman has abandoned her child.
I don't think she did. I think that she was bullied into giving birth, with the We'll take care of her, if you have her speech. She should have signed over her rights at birth.
I feel like it's better for it not to be on TV as when it reaches TV there's so much BS that makes it feel less authentic, like using buzz words, being funny, etc. Watch people's court and couples court and it just seems so disingenuous.
@Robert Fox I recently found this channel, this judge makes decisions based on the law and common sense. This show would probably never make tv eventhough it should because it doesn't fit the narrative that all the fathers are absent in their child's life. Take a half day off from work and go sit in your county family court.
When I heard her say she's an influencer.....I IMMEDIATELY WENT "😮💨🙄🤦🏽♀️" Because any "influencer" that acts and behaves like THAT...poor kid is all I can say😒
As a preschool teacher for kids between 2-4 yrs old…this is completely untrue. 2 year olds have come to me saying: “I miss my mommy. I don’t see her much” and it’s heartbreaking.
My mom had 3 kids went to school and worked full time. My mom was there for everything we did. I look back now and don't know how she did it. She was amazing at 45 I still think my mom Is superwoman..
“I’m an influencer” “And you can send money for sterling *sips coffee* 👀” “And I do” “And you don’t *sips coffee* 👀” I love her 🤣 & the Grandmother is so beautiful & facial expressions have me weak 🤣🤣🤣
When she said 2,000 my heart DROPPED. I get NO financial aid I'm a full time student with bills and I get paid $1,400 a month from the VA. So when I say I have money left over, I do. I had a job and no kid .She is FOUL mother
I was thinking the same till they said NYC. At 2000 a month, she lives in a shi* hole or a place with Many roomates. The average rent there right now is $4000-5000 a Month. It's Insane. I get why she has everything maxed out. The rent issue was in the news. Now granted this was months ago. But even then the average was $2500 to $3500 a Month. So most people don't get that and can't relate. If she was in say, Ohio, or Indiana I'd totally agree though. (Only talking about the lack of money part). But ya, in general, she is still an awful mom.
Also, this internet stranger is proud of you. I know how hard the struggle is. I went through it and my oldest is going through it now. But keep fighting the good fight! That finish line will be So, So much sweeter because you worked so hard to get there. 🎉❤
Really sounds like grandma talked her out of aborting the baby or giving up the baby. The daughter kept saying I wanted to wait. I didn't want this. Daughter says grandma chose this.
“i didn’t choose this life” but she did when she had the baby. grandma ain’t put a gun to her head and said “you’re having this baby” ms.gurl need to take responsibility. school is not an excuse to not take care of your child.
She actually had a metaphorical gun to her head when grandmother said she wanted another child and the opportunity was with the grandchild. This girl can easily win this is another court but ethically, it would be shitty for her to do so coz it would mean abandoning the child completely. However, her claim is valid, the grandmother wanted the child as hers.......
@@marzadky4934 "metaphorically gun"....a social pressure or Peer pressure?.. It's an interesting topic I'm not mad but I've been called blunt so excuse me if I come out some what mean But I think regardless if u give in to the pressures of society that responsibility is still on the person that took action .... sure mom [grandma] had input but society is full of input and we still need to make our own choices and she still choose to go with that input over her own judgement That metaphorical gun isnt gonna do anything but add weight to an option she doesnt need to take and it might be hard to go against but hard doesnt mean impossible or she cant ..it just mean you have to put more work then u want to put in.. Ontop of that ....she knows her mom and should had an idea what she would and would not approve And should know how much she values her moms opinion or how Much of a pain her mom can be when she does something her mom disapproves of [ IF that's the case cause I've know some people 😬] And if either way she is a grown woman who had unprotected sex ..when u have unprotected sex u can get a baby and/ or a STD .... that's not uncommon knowledge.. so she is aware of the risk she was making with those action and responsibility that come with either options should something happen and these can be prevent before social pressure can even become a significant part of the equation but people *choose* to be reckless for some quick gratification. But consequence can last longer then the action and ca ripple through other parts of your life ..... people shouldnt choose action on short term gratification or to "avoid" other option cause even choosing to do nothing is a choice but the possible consequences and responsibilities that'll will come with those choices will never be as easy to get rid of as just choosing the action that would be hard to do in the present but have the consequences you willing to take on in the future Consequences doesnt nessercially mean anything good or bad even tho it's used more on the negative side. I mean it more as a cause and effect..
The mother and father should be paying for the 2 Year old’s child’s care not the grandma. You don’t have a child because somebody else wants the child. She’s a lousy Mom.
I mean let the girl finish her schooling and maybe she CAN found a better job or career or something ...... but that grandmother I feel she should have stayed obligated to just pay for everything until she found out how much that boy is making from the army or Marines.......because let the girl go to school and maybe she can try to do something with the degree if she's going to school in New York...to provide financial supporrt through her degree ....... and another thing is the boy that is in the military or Marines ...... they should dismiss the case because they need to found out how much he's making and have him pay child support.......tell him to send a military or marines' notice or something of how much he is making in Marines or army then gooo from there but don't have that girl just obligated
@@wfsweinthere234 she pushed the child out of her and flat out said “i didn’t want the child.” she should be paying CS period. yes the father should be checked out but the mom has to take responsibility as well. she’s not being a mother or taking care of the child. she would not be in court if she was. my mom struggled just like this “mother”did. my mom had 4 kids and was a single mother and still made time to go to school and work and STILL take care of us. it’s possible.
I was raised by my grandparents for the most part my grandmother took on all 9 of her grandchildren for years at a time. All of us thank God for her daily ❤
“I’m an influencer” if I hear that one more time from a woman, I’m gonna lose my hair follicles. Everyone women says this. She sounded like she wanted to “party” more than be responsible. If your daughter was the “best thing” than your actions would say so
I work in daycare. I have served several women/mommies who have several children whilst they try to finish college and work part time. Years later, when they visit daycare just to say hi, I’m in tears because the kids are grown, obviously mommy made it and it’s a beautiful thing. The struggle is real but it’s so worth it!!!
This is along the lines of where my mind was. There are so am h men and women going to school, working, AND caring their children. They sacrifice sleep, getting their nails and hair done, etc because they care about those babies and want to give them a better life. She is fortunate there is a grandmother that is taking the care of the child off of her plate so the very minimum she could do is get a steady job to send money home to help. Oh, and when you say you are an influencer but you ain’t got money rolling in in deals, baby, no, you are a person with social media accounts!!
Judge you have me addicted to your show ! Your favorite southern grandma ❤ God Bless You & you are in my prayers & our prayer group has put you on our list for what all you deal with & I had them all subscribe. ❤
Man, I am so glad that grandparents are there to step up when the parent won't. My grandmother took my younger brother and I in when we were kids and now that I'm an adult with a child myself, I fully realize what she had to do to raise us. What she had to sacrifice for us. And just how uncaring my parents were. I shudder to think what my life would have been like if I had to stay with either one of them
That’s exactly how I feel. I am very grateful for my grandparents when my dad kicked me out in 2020 at night I was terrified and my grandparents rushed from Huntersville North Carolina to Salisbury North Carolina to come and pick me up and they got me back on my feet they you know let me stay with them until I finish my first semester of college at the University and then they helped me apply for healthcare benefits because my dad had cut me off from getting healthcare. They help me get my own phone they show me how to organize my medical bills everything and I was so so so grateful for both of them they took me to go get my teeth fixed because that use of dental damage they take me to the dentist so I can get my teeth fixed and everything and then once a week as well in my mom and stepfather we’re over there Covid and my grandmother was over her Covid then I was able to move in with my mom and my stepdad which was awesome because then they helped me out, so grandparents are awesome.
I was also raised by grandmother and also had 4 of own and helped my youngest daughter raise 4 grandchildren and all of us are doing just fine Thanks To Heavenly Father and Mother.
This judge and her extra antics DRIVE ME INSANE 😤 And it was completely biased of the judge to not acknowledge and respect the birth mom’s testimony. It may not be conventional, popular, or smiled-upon for a mother to admit such feelings towards her child; however, it is well within her right to have them. If Gma pushed for the baby and mom acquiesced against her own wishes, Gma has to deal with the responsibility that comes along with what she pushed for.
I stg!! She said “ maybeeee $2000 a month” I said OMFG this girl is NUTS! She REALLY, wholeheartedly feels like this lady should take care of her daughter by herself and that she shouldn’t have to do anything for HER baby because she’s in school 😳 & $269/month is literally NOTHING!
I think the grandmother is paternal. She didn't raise Nikki. Most military people being deployed cannot have their children with them, so someone else takes care of them. I hope she stays with grandma and when the father comes back or retires from military, he can take custody .
I hope her daughter NEVER sees this episode 😩😭 mom is basically saying I never wanted this kid and then refuses to help take care of her. Heartbreaking 💔
I believe her when she says that her mother asked her to have that baby and she framed it like this is a blessing, I'll take care of her you can still accomplish your goals blah blah blah. I think the grandmother hoped that she would change her mind want the baby and then do more, but that girl is doing what they agreed to. I believe that 100%. Where She Went Wrong was at the end of the day you still had that baby, so if you didn't want to be involved you should have just completely relinquished your rights
Thank you! I was saying the same thing. I’m sure the grandmother convinced her to keep the baby knowing the girl didn’t want it at the time. Smh but the mom is definitely wrong for not giving something towards the child at all.
I totally agree. I had a baby for someone and got left with it alone. She didn't want the child and they begged her to have it and take care of it now they are mad because she's holding up her end of the bargain. I actually feel sorry for the mother
That arrangement could have worked had the mom not been a deadbeat. My mom and paternal grandparents did this exact arrangement for me when I was born up until I was 4. My mom was in college and would get me on the weekends and leave me with them during the week. She helped out still and WAS STILL MY MOM at the same time
I feel like she's saying had grandma not made this "agreement" she would've chosen to have an abortion. She seems like she's too focused on her own life. I don't know if once she finished school she was going to take the child back. If yes, then the child support payments are warranted. If she has no intention of that then she should give up parental rights. She seems to not want the responsibility and wants to tag in when it's convenient. That's not healthy for children
Correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t think you can just give up your rights and end up not paying support. Because the judge isn’t there for you but the child so no one cares if you don’t want the kid…. The point is it exists. I mean men can’t even choose abortion she could have so she really doesn’t have an excuse.
I was like Lord if she says “I’m a full time student” again. I wanted to knock everything over! Lol! I remember my freshman year in college some girls had their babies in the dorm room with them every once in a while. And my junior year when I got pregnant, my mom wanted me to go back to school while she took care of my baby. I just couldn’t bare the thought of her doing that. I’m her only child. She raised me already. Then to raise my child? No way. I moved back home and continued school there.
my mom would always tell stories of her rocking me to sleep during her classes while she was finishing college. She said it was ok tho cus i was a quite baby so i was pretty chill and never really cried. she HATED the idea of me being raised by my grandmas. love her for that
That mother was a horrible , Self centered, person. I don’t want to say what I truly think of her. But thank you Judge ,you did an amazing job. The Attitude coming out of this woman’s mouth, with the physical gestures, I wanted to scream .
It’s entitlement. Part of the blame for her behavior is her parents and this is true for many millennials and gen Z. She takes zero responsibility even after the ruling she rudely tells the woman who is raising her child “are you happy now?” It’s so disrespectful. Being abandoned and emotionally rejected as a baby stays with you and even if her daughter won’t remember everything her subconscious will and she will have have to deal with those feelings later in life.
How I see it. Homegirl didn’t want to have a baby but the grandma begged her to keep it. You can’t force someone to be a mother when they tell you they don’t want to be.
I'm pretty shure grandma told her she will help her and she is twisting her words. She need to be clear and tell the judge and grandmother that she will give up parental right and grandmother can adopt baby ,She need to stop pretending she is a good mother ,or a good human, and our taxes need to stop paying this stupid woman students loan,that is in college and and can even put a coherent sentence together , is a lier ,and most like it taking grands as a struggling single mother ,Stop enabling bad women behavior or bad behavior despite of gender ,She is a disgrace for women, mothers and humans .
Recruiter for the Navy here… depending on the branch, the father should’ve been placed on child support in addition to health insurance. In some cases, even if the member gives up temporary custody they are still required to pay child support. Both parents should be placed on child support in my opinion, and I’m glad the judge made them both pay.
@@Bennimiir I watched it. However, having been in the military for 20 years, its rare for a service member to leave their kids for training or a deployment and not have monthly payments setup for the child's caregiver.
" 🥴 Im studying fulltime && having fun as an influencer while my mother in law does all the work being a mother to my kid while the father is in military 🥴 && im a great mother" This mother is woooow !! Thank you to everyone that does take these kids in 🙏
To all the teens and young adults watching this video, or been dealing with situations like this in their lives,, don't let your parents coerce/guilt you into having a kid you do not want. Sometimes parents get so caught up in wanting to be grandparents, they will "PURPOSELY" ignore the fact that you're in no financial and/or emotional position to have the child in the first place.
To the young teens who don't want to have a child...make sure you and your partner are using contraceptive to avoid a unwanted pregnancy. Contrary to popular belief, dismembering a innocent unborn is not the answer. Prevention is.
I was in school full time, being a mother, and had a full time job. After a time it seemed things were tight and I knew I had to give up something, so school was put on hold since my child was more important! Mom is horrible! Pray for the grandma!
This lady is amazing (the biological mother) I was in college when I found out I was pregnant dropped out and went back when my son was in kindergarten and was a ft student plus I worked several jobs. I can’t imagine being recorded saying several different ways I didn’t want my child. 🤦🏾♀️ I just found this show I love how you keep accountability for the men and women. Stay blessed!
Exactly. I was in school full time, with newborn twins and worked a part time job. I'm thankful my grandma watched them while I was in class but you can definitely raise kids and be in school.
I really hope her child never sees this because I can promise you that child will never want anything to do with that mother or at least never feel that maternal relationship
Yup! I got pregnant straight out of HS. Waited til kiddos were in school worked and went to school and still made time for my two boogers. Now they are teens and we have a great dynamic I have a good job and although we aren’t rich we live with a roof over our heads and a decent job that I enjoy.
my mother went through college when my brother and I were little and after divorcing my father (he paid child support and was around to support us but work would take him overseas) and she always managed to put food on the table spend time with us and make sure we got an education and now she has her own private practice as a therapist for children and teens. goals and schooling can be achieved even with children.
i LOVE it when the cup comes into the picture ;) on the one hand because i can perfectly imagine what is going on in her head. on the other hand because i would have needed EXACTLY such a judge myself ;)
She's a bad mom. When the judge drinks her tea, you are in trouble.
I love your little pomeranian. I have a black one.
I know that's right
I still think Judge Vonda has a mug full of Vodka :D :D just kidding Judge V :D :D
At that moment in the script it says (Judge sips tea).
Tell tail sign that someone is in some very deep shit when the judge sips her tea.
IF I HEAR “i AM IN SCHOOL FULL TIME” again. she is so irritating
I would have added "yeah and you're not any smarter than you are !"
Stfg I was hollering the same like da fuck up saying that over and over
"I do what I can" I'm like which is nothing
😂😂😂😂
@@ninaandersons7185 😂
Unpopular opinion here...I think she got pregnant and was going to abort it. The son and his mom convinced her not to. Now the son is deployed and Grandma is holding the bag.
For sure that happened BUT I truly hope her daughter NEVER sees this. Poor baby is being rejected 😩
@@nicolejrobyso true!😢
Yes, that is quite plausible.
I’m sorry the son needs to step up also. He knows what is going on ❤
She should’ve gotten the agreement in writing
Tanner in the military and should be helping financially as well.
That’s why she made him pay child support too.
He was carrying the health insurance.
He gets dependent pay that covers housing, food, and everything for the child. Ta in like 2k a month
Yalll Women just can’t take accountability smh
I believe Grandma must take legal guidance and petition the military for child support.
She nails it every time with " you obviously came here to waste my time"
My favorite line. lol
fr 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Noel Coley. Is there a T-shirt with “you obviously came here to waste my time?”
You came here to waste my time=don’t piss me off 😂😂
That’s my new signature line😂
The way she sips her tea. Gets me every time lol
My favorite part lol
She does it for dramatic effect for the show. The script probably says to do it.
@@md0350 your point?
@@shiestlifesam It's whatever you want it to be.
Thats a prime meme material 😁😁😁
Grandma looks amazing for her age!!!
Before they talked, I thought she was the sister. 😂
What’s her age?
Indeed
Because shes not actually the grandmother. These "cases" are reenactments by actors based on real cases.
“She won’t remember any of these.” WOW
Frfr my granddaughter 18months and she remember if she having a cuts up spend a nite an tell her it can be such a and such nite she be remembering😂 she talks like sailor and her memory is something else lol That’s a shame I help my son and his finance go to working and my son having a little business and her she work and go to school I help them but they take they baby home I’m just the grandmother and do what grandmother to and do to help them
@@Stanfordmom-typical of females to use their own exception to project on the rest of the world.
She won't remember?😮 I remember being switched from breastfeeding to food. I was under 2
Insane 😳 SMH
When the judge says, “You obviously came here to waste my time.” It’s checkmate at that point.
Yup,
She went there because she was being paid by the show to go there because she's an Actress.
She isn't a judge and this is fake.
@@268RG would you like some salt with your salt?
@@RhyperiorRanger 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are dumb enough to believe this is real.
"Here raise my kid for me I'll be back when your done"
Mad respect for the people who take in these kids. They deserve that compensation
Me personally they should have dismissed the case because they needed to.found out how much that boy that's in the army or Marines is making first not just put everything on the mom ........
You saw this. I saw a mother who fell pregnant too soon in her life. I saw a mother who hesitate to give birth because of a very good reason, she was too young.
I totally believe in the agreement. I totally believe the young mother has been convinced by this agreement to give birth, thinking the grand-mother would keep her word. There are chances without this agreement, the baby wouldn't see the daylight at all. It happens a lot, certainly more than we know.
In this case, the mother would be right and the grand-mother would be wrong.
The problem is now the grand-mother is struggling with this agreement and want the mother to take the responsibility she didn't want to have in a first place to help her. She said it herself, the mother is having fun partying, living her youth as she wanted and it upsets the grand-mother as she can't on her own.
Honestly cause it’s not their obligation but they still do it, they least they can do is get support
She wanted to abort and the mom refused to give the doctor consent.
@@wfsweinthere234 oohoobob
If Dad is away in military, i would think the government would be providing some support for the family. Where is that money going??
That's not the point ! 😕 Does not compesate time !
@@karolinam1085that is the point!!!!
right
I assume the mom is getting it
Nope. Unless a child support is filed then they will take it out of the paycheck. I watched my grandkids while both parents were on deployment. Parents paid the child care only.
Influencer who is not influencing the most important person she should be influencing. My God, what a generation!
Hope isn’t totally lost. Me and my partner had our baby together at 19. We are now 23. Our little girl is with us everyday and we have a very happy life. Makes me so sad seeing parents like this girl
“She didn’t want to have the child” but she’s a good mom did anyone else catch that? 🤦🏾♂️
Yes and that's possible. My mom didn't want me either, but she sure loves me to death. If she had made the decision to not have me, I would get that. She's an awesome human but humans have limits. Grow up.
Not wanting a child child doesn't make you a bad parent. In today's western society a lot of people have children they weren't planning on having. Doesn't mean you don't love them once they get here. How you respond when the child gets here determines your parenting. On the other hand she sounds like a bad parent but the two aren't synonymous.
People double talk all the time. U just gotta listen
Mans just stupid
She basically was trying to give mom , her child . The child she never wanted in the first place . There are many forms of birth control . If she is in college she should’ve been smarter then that . That’s sad . And yes the child will remember when mom wasn’t there . We all have are own past experiences.
I was a single dad going to school full time and had a part time job. It’s hard going to school all day, it’s brutal coming home to parent, but it is totally worth it hearing “I love you dad.” I feel for the girl having neither parent in her life, but am glad that she has a seemingly wonderful grandma.
I was a young mom at 17, single, working and school, yes it is hard, one day I was sad, and my daughter was 6 at the time, she hugged me and said, “you’re a good mom, mommy.” I then thought to myself, “this is what keeps me going.” ❤️🙌🏻
My mom worked and went to school 🥺 she had help with my grandmother to take care of me but always provided which I am grateful for
How about why encourage children to have a child when their broke. Always screaming this it's good to struggle B.S. this dumb woman told her son to have a baby when they weren't ready. The son was leaving and the girl was leaving to better them selves. Stop telling people you'll take care of the kid when you're broke and can't take care of a kid.
This is a heartwarming statement you made. Congratulations
I slept maybe a couple hours a day for 25 years so my kids had what they needed to succeed. While doing that I also went to school and worked my butt off. Do what you are suppose to do you lazy arrogant person
If she says I am in school full time one more time I am going to scream
She acts like she's 17. Girl, you look like you are in your 30's. 😂😂
The grandma looks younger!! Lol
@@bordereau1ur smoking
i have so much respect for the grandmother. not only is she raising her grand baby, she’s dealing with the stress of having a deployed loved one. i hope she gets all the great things in life that she deserves!!
I totally agree with you Hailey spot on
The middle-aged woman will return to re-raising children, a job from which she is supposed to retire. Like you, I hope and pray that better days will hurry by. I like your style.
Judge Vonda said "Mom doesn't do anything!" Anything except go to the clubs, drink and party. But she's a "Social Media Influencer"!! Yeah, but she's getting paid too - she just doesn't want to part with that money!! Bet that little girl doesn't even know her mama!! Sad! God bless Grandma for stepping up and raising the child!! At least she cares - it's pretty obvious that mom doesn't!!
This is unrelated but The grandmother is the embodiment of black don’t crack
She was the one pressuring this Girls knew she want ready
I’m in college full time online and I still take care of my baby full time, it’s called being a mom!
& y’all are beautiful , his smile omg 🥰🥰🥰
Right? Like I don't understand at all!! I didn't have a child in college (I have a 5mo now), but I did work a full-time and part-time job, plus was enrolled full-time for in-person classes. She just wants to party instead of work lol. These parents are something else I swear!
right she could make it work if she wanted to.
Exactly I am in nursing school and I work as a aide on a level one trauma floor girl PLLEEAASSEEE
And where is the father ? Who is helping you ? Usually when I hear women say crap like you, they are not doing shit but someone else is.
When I had my oldest, I went to college full time, worked, and took care of him as a single mom. I'm glad my dad helped with a place to live while I finished school.
I absolutely CANNOT believe these people get to talk to the judge like that . 🤨
“She’s 2 and she won’t remember.” YES SHE WILL!! She will remember you weren’t there for the first few years of her life.
be fr who remembers things when they’re that age I remember nothing
The child won't remember in a literal sense, but the effects of a child having absent parents will harm their development for sure
@@tamtamxtamI remember being in foster care. It was for a year I was 2-3 probably one of the worst times of my life😭. You remember your mom not being there
No she won’t but that doesn’t make the mom in the right
Here's the thing, at 2 you don't remember that at all, but part of you will never forget. Part of my family completely disowned me because for some reason they didn't like my mom, that ruined my relationship I could've had with them, anytime I'm with them I don't feel very welcomed. It's hard for me to be with them because of what they did during the time when I wasn't making memories. I don't remember what happened but I always knew something was wrong there, when I got the full story from my mom with all the documentation to prove it I felt this great sense of relief because I thought there was something wrong with me that I wasn't happy there
When she said, ‘I am a good mom.’, she said it so quietly even she herself didn’t believe it. She knows she’s doing wrong.
She likes to pretend to be a _'good Mom'_ while posing on Instagram, Facebook, and OnlyFans...
😂 you right
What you saw was a guilty conscience on the respondent's face.
"You know what, I don't want you to complain about these numbers when I read them off to you ok"
This “mother” needs to sign over her rights. She birthed the baby, but is not a mother. I was a single mom for over 4 years. I worked, went to school full time, did all the laundry, shopping illness etc. I did it all! This woman has abandoned her child.
I don't think she did. I think that she was bullied into giving birth, with the We'll take care of her, if you have her speech. She should have signed over her rights at birth.
I feel terrible for the daughter. No child deserves a mother like this😢
The father is also trash
Dead beat Mum
She dient want to be one
I just started watching these videos and so many of these so called mothers will say, “I didn’t want a child” 💔💔💔
Good thing its not real. lol
How is this not on regular TV? This show is pure gold and Judge Vonda B. is amazing!
I feel like it's better for it not to be on TV as when it reaches TV there's so much BS that makes it feel less authentic, like using buzz words, being funny, etc. Watch people's court and couples court and it just seems so disingenuous.
@Robert Fox I recently found this channel, this judge makes decisions based on the law and common sense. This show would probably never make tv eventhough it should because it doesn't fit the narrative that all the fathers are absent in their child's life. Take a half day off from work and go sit in your county family court.
Because streaming media is the new thing… grow up
@@dujonlogieclyne541 what are you talking about??????????????????!!!
@@dujonlogieclyne541 I mean it's not authentic at all regardless, it's for entertainment, none of it is real
When I heard her say she's an influencer.....I IMMEDIATELY WENT "😮💨🙄🤦🏽♀️" Because any "influencer" that acts and behaves like THAT...poor kid is all I can say😒
I laugh every time she picks up the coffee cup and starts taking long drinks and looks at folks like they are crazy lol
If she's in college, and wants to have fun. She needed to use protection!!!
“She’s 2, she won’t remember any of this” oh my word smh. That’s so sad.
It’s true, she won’t BUT, it would be on the internet forever mom saying it repeatedly so yes that’s not just sad, it’s F’d up
The child may not remember what's going on. But it's been recorded. This generation is horrible.
I remember when I was a baby in a crib and my older brother looking down at me waving and saying, "Hi, I'm your big brother".
As a preschool teacher for kids between 2-4 yrs old…this is completely untrue. 2 year olds have come to me saying: “I miss my mommy. I don’t see her much” and it’s heartbreaking.
Asif she said that !!
My mom had 3 kids went to school and worked full time. My mom was there for everything we did. I look back now and don't know how she did it. She was amazing at 45 I still think my mom Is superwoman..
"what I know is, you about to pay child support" 😄😄😄👏👏👏👏
“I’m an influencer”
“And you can send money for sterling *sips coffee* 👀”
“And I do”
“And you don’t *sips coffee* 👀”
I love her 🤣 & the Grandmother is so beautiful & facial expressions have me weak 🤣🤣🤣
I lost it at that part🤣
The mom is pretty good looking too.
@@RodrigoVargas72 every time she gets in to some tea she drinks and i love it lol
Influencer.. I'd hate to have one of those as a parent.
I can't believe that the grandmother is even old enough to have an adult son. STUNNING!!
When she said 2,000 my heart DROPPED. I get NO financial aid I'm a full time student with bills and I get paid $1,400 a month from the VA. So when I say I have money left over, I do. I had a job and no kid .She is FOUL mother
I was thinking the same till they said NYC. At 2000 a month, she lives in a shi* hole or a place with Many roomates. The average rent there right now is $4000-5000 a Month. It's Insane. I get why she has everything maxed out. The rent issue was in the news. Now granted this was months ago. But even then the average was $2500 to $3500 a Month. So most people don't get that and can't relate. If she was in say, Ohio, or Indiana I'd totally agree though. (Only talking about the lack of money part). But ya, in general, she is still an awful mom.
Also, this internet stranger is proud of you. I know how hard the struggle is. I went through it and my oldest is going through it now. But keep fighting the good fight! That finish line will be So, So much sweeter because you worked so hard to get there. 🎉❤
them nails not cheap either
@@Ki11erKittyoh yeah i don’t know why I didn’t think of rent 😭
@Ki11erKitty I thought she lived in a dorm?? Maybe I'm wrong lol
All I kept hearing is "I go to school FULL time!" And "I never wanted her!"
I love this judge. I love her no nonsense attitude. "You're obviously here to waste my time." Love it.
Hold up! The father should be paying child support too!
He is, but I believe they promised to raise the child, if she had it, and are now backtracking as it's expensive.
"I'm a good Mom" and then proceeds to give every example on why that isn't true. Love it.
Right!
She's a bad mom. Bad, bad, bad.
Judge: You get paid so you can send money for Sterling
Her: Yes and I do
Judge: And you don't *sips from cup*😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She kills me sipping each time she makes a point
Bruh you knew that mom hated her child when the Daughters NAME was sterling’
The best part 😂😂😂😂
Iconic.
I was raised by my grandma
And seeing this is so heartbreaking I wish nothing but the best for the child and grandma
I love that you are fair.
She's not real! She's never been a judge and this is entirely acted and scripted.
I flipped when she said " she chose this life " 🤯🤯🤯 she's ridiculously irresponsible, if she didn't want a kid she should have used protection
Amen to that. She justthinks her sense of entitlement excuses her from "Raising Her Child"
Really sounds like grandma talked her out of aborting the baby or giving up the baby. The daughter kept saying I wanted to wait. I didn't want this. Daughter says grandma chose this.
@@tanisharobinson1776no she said I wanted a grandchild she could have explained it wasn't a good time
What about the guy! Did he use protection? Two to tango and stuff...
@@jonelfilipek7848 Can't exactly impregnate a woman who keeps her legs closed, can he? Take some fucking responsibility.
“i didn’t choose this life” but she did when she had the baby. grandma ain’t put a gun to her head and said “you’re having this baby” ms.gurl need to take responsibility. school is not an excuse to not take care of your child.
She actually had a metaphorical gun to her head when grandmother said she wanted another child and the opportunity was with the grandchild. This girl can easily win this is another court but ethically, it would be shitty for her to do so coz it would mean abandoning the child completely. However, her claim is valid, the grandmother wanted the child as hers.......
Preach! 👏
Yeah, she didn't choose this life but chose to have unprotected sex smh. She needs to handle her responsibilities and grow up. So delusional imo.
@@marzadky4934 "metaphorically gun"....a social pressure or Peer pressure?..
It's an interesting topic I'm not mad but I've been called blunt so excuse me if I come out some what mean
But I think regardless if u give in to the pressures of society that responsibility is still on the person that took action .... sure mom [grandma] had input but society is full of input and we still need to make our own choices and she still choose to go with that input over her own judgement
That metaphorical gun isnt gonna do anything but add weight to an option she doesnt need to take and it might be hard to go against but hard doesnt mean impossible or she cant ..it just mean you have to put more work then u want to put in..
Ontop of that ....she knows her mom and should had an idea what she would and would not approve And should know how much she values her moms opinion or how Much of a pain her mom can be when she does something her mom disapproves of [ IF that's the case cause I've know some people 😬]
And if either way she is a grown woman who had unprotected sex
..when u have unprotected sex u can get a baby and/ or a STD .... that's not uncommon knowledge.. so she is aware of the risk she was making with those action and responsibility that come with either options should something happen and these can be prevent before social pressure can even become a significant part of the equation but people *choose* to be reckless for some quick gratification. But consequence can last longer then the action and ca ripple through other parts of your life ..... people shouldnt choose action on short term gratification or to "avoid" other option cause even choosing to do nothing is a choice but the possible consequences and responsibilities that'll will come with those choices will never be as easy to get rid of as just choosing the action that would be hard to do in the present but have the consequences you willing to take on in the future
Consequences doesnt nessercially mean anything good or bad even tho it's used more on the negative side. I mean it more as a cause and effect..
Maybe a girl that's like that needs to take responsibility. But, this girl is an Actress and this was all made up for this show.
The mother and father should be paying for the 2 Year old’s child’s care not the grandma. You don’t have a child because somebody else wants the child. She’s a lousy Mom.
That little noise she makes after taking a sip of tea. Is the indicator she is about to give somebody a huge dose of reality.
I like how she always summarizes the case and her decision afterwards. It kills the foolish UA-cam discussions before they even start. Very well done.
I mean let the girl finish her schooling and maybe she CAN found a better job or career or something ...... but that grandmother I feel she should have stayed obligated to just pay for everything until she found out how much that boy is making from the army or Marines.......because let the girl go to school and maybe she can try to do something with the degree if she's going to school in New York...to provide financial supporrt through her degree ....... and another thing is the boy that is in the military or Marines ...... they should dismiss the case because they need to found out how much he's making and have him pay child support.......tell him to send a military or marines' notice or something of how much he is making in Marines or army then gooo from there but don't have that girl just obligated
@@wfsweinthere234 she pushed the child out of her and flat out said “i didn’t want the child.” she should be paying CS period. yes the father should be checked out but the mom has to take responsibility as well. she’s not being a mother or taking care of the child. she would not be in court if she was. my mom struggled just like this “mother”did. my mom had 4 kids and was a single mother and still made time to go to school and work and STILL take care of us. it’s possible.
“You obviously came here to waste my time!” 😂 RIPS ME EVERYTIME!! 😂😂🤣😂😭😭😭
200 a week forchild care? I was paying over 800!
I think that dad needs to petition for full custody.
Um he's away in the military.
I was raised by my grandparents for the most part my grandmother took on all 9 of her grandchildren for years at a time. All of us thank God for her daily ❤
That’s a loving woman right there ❤
Wow yall were bless to have a grandmother with such a kind heart😮
Wow nine Grandbabies she must have been an incredible woman
Amen
❤❤❤
“I’m an influencer” if I hear that one more time from a woman, I’m gonna lose my hair follicles. Everyone women says this. She sounded like she wanted to “party” more than be responsible. If your daughter was the “best thing” than your actions would say so
It's a legit job
😂 😂
She will spread her legs for many more but can’t tell the man damn use condom it’s ain’t more then $5
@@devinngeorge For insanely successful people "sure" but I doubt this woman has more than 50k on anything she will not make enough money off of that.
😆🤣😂
You know you're in trouble when judge starts sipping from her cup 😅
That grandmother looks fantastic!
I work in daycare. I have served several women/mommies who have several children whilst they try to finish college and work part time. Years later, when they visit daycare just to say hi, I’m in tears because the kids are grown, obviously mommy made it and it’s a beautiful thing. The struggle is real but it’s so worth it!!!
This is along the lines of where my mind was. There are so am h men and women going to school, working, AND caring their children. They sacrifice sleep, getting their nails and hair done, etc because they care about those babies and want to give them a better life. She is fortunate there is a grandmother that is taking the care of the child off of her plate so the very minimum she could do is get a steady job to send money home to help. Oh, and when you say you are an influencer but you ain’t got money rolling in in deals, baby, no, you are a person with social media accounts!!
The son can send money home from the military. I did. Mom should get money from both parents.
After watching many of these, I realize how much love and sacrifice my grandparents put in to taking care of us grandchildren. 💕
Yep done it twice now
Judge you have me addicted to your show ! Your favorite southern grandma ❤ God Bless You & you are in my prayers & our prayer group has put you on our list for what all you deal with & I had them all subscribe. ❤
I feel so horrible for that child. Thank god for grandma.
Watching this young woman is like watching society implode in real time...
I wonder if she gave her daughter everything while she was growing up which made her so entitled.
@carmellam.8703 huh?? 🤔
Bingo 💯💯!!!
Ain't that the truth 🤦♀️
Yep! Sad, scary but true.
Man, I am so glad that grandparents are there to step up when the parent won't. My grandmother took my younger brother and I in when we were kids and now that I'm an adult with a child myself, I fully realize what she had to do to raise us. What she had to sacrifice for us. And just how uncaring my parents were. I shudder to think what my life would have been like if I had to stay with either one of them
Tonia Hunter. That’s such a lovely comment honouring your grandparents. Respect to you!
GOD Bless her ❤
That’s exactly how I feel. I am very grateful for my grandparents when my dad kicked me out in 2020 at night I was terrified and my grandparents rushed from Huntersville North Carolina to Salisbury North Carolina to come and pick me up and they got me back on my feet they you know let me stay with them until I finish my first semester of college at the University and then they helped me apply for healthcare benefits because my dad had cut me off from getting healthcare. They help me get my own phone they show me how to organize my medical bills everything and I was so so so grateful for both of them they took me to go get my teeth fixed because that use of dental damage they take me to the dentist so I can get my teeth fixed and everything and then once a week as well in my mom and stepfather we’re over there Covid and my grandmother was over her Covid then I was able to move in with my mom and my stepdad which was awesome because then they helped me out, so grandparents are awesome.
@@Thegamingprofessor2024 You were greatly blessed just like your birthday.
I was also raised by grandmother and also had 4 of own and helped my youngest daughter raise 4 grandchildren and all of us are doing just fine Thanks To
Heavenly Father and Mother.
This judge and her extra antics DRIVE ME INSANE 😤 And it was completely biased of the judge to not acknowledge and respect the birth mom’s testimony. It may not be conventional, popular, or smiled-upon for a mother to admit such feelings towards her child; however, it is well within her right to have them. If Gma pushed for the baby and mom acquiesced against her own wishes, Gma has to deal with the responsibility that comes along with what she pushed for.
She won't remember any of this?
She won't remember you!*
Got the mug in hand and “the look” on her face. Clearly we’re in for a treat
That over the glasses look 😂
Yasss.... let's get ready for the shade 👓🕶
came here to comment that 💀
Judge is trying SO hard not to laugh, lol.
It’s her faces for me ! It’s crazy
I love this judge. " C'mon...Make it make sense" Her delivery is gold
Her choice to not outright murder her own daughter qualifies her as a good mother in her fairy tale!
Thank God for grandmother
When she said “2000 a month “ I fell out 😂😂😂 cause honey you can’t send at least $400 a month
I stg!! She said “ maybeeee $2000 a month” I said OMFG this girl is NUTS! She REALLY, wholeheartedly feels like this lady should take care of her daughter by herself and that she shouldn’t have to do anything for HER baby because she’s in school 😳 & $269/month is literally NOTHING!
How can an "influencer" earn $2,000 a month AND be in school AND be maxxed out on her loans? That makes NO sense!
@@patmccoy8758 cuz not every influencer makes bank
@@patmccoy8758😂😂😂😂 this is not a real family court proceeding 😂😂😂😂
@@mrslywwilliams313of course, but damn it is fun.
I pray that Sterling stays with her grandmother for the rest of her life.
I agree
Well at least until she graduates high school.
Well, you see how she turned out. Hopefully grandma learned from her mistakes, cause clearly mistakes were made.
I think the grandmother is paternal. She didn't raise Nikki. Most military people being deployed cannot have their children with them, so someone else takes care of them. I hope she stays with grandma and when the father comes back or retires from military, he can take custody .
Definitely!
She is a totally BAD mom. Your daughter! Your responsibility!
I love how these defendants get all snarky and Judge B hit them with that snark equivalent to them or greater😂😂😂
When Judge Vonda B sips that tea, it sends me to the floor every single time ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@5:23 is simply endearing and puts a huge smile on my face too the way she does
I would LOVE to know how Tanner feels about his baby mama acting like this about their child. She is ridiculously unbelievable
What I know is... you're about to pay child support 🍵
I hope her daughter NEVER sees this episode 😩😭 mom is basically saying I never wanted this kid and then refuses to help take care of her. Heartbreaking 💔
I believe her when she says that her mother asked her to have that baby and she framed it like this is a blessing, I'll take care of her you can still accomplish your goals blah blah blah. I think the grandmother hoped that she would change her mind want the baby and then do more, but that girl is doing what they agreed to. I believe that 100%. Where She Went Wrong was at the end of the day you still had that baby, so if you didn't want to be involved you should have just completely relinquished your rights
Thank you! I was saying the same thing. I’m sure the grandmother convinced her to keep the baby knowing the girl didn’t want it at the time. Smh but the mom is definitely wrong for not giving something towards the child at all.
I totally agree. I had a baby for someone and got left with it alone. She didn't want the child and they begged her to have it and take care of it now they are mad because she's holding up her end of the bargain. I actually feel sorry for the mother
Or had an abortion. She wasn't forced to give birth.
Nah fr cause she said in the beginning she didn’t want the child.
So that’s crazy.
Exactly!!! She's just holding up her end of her agreement. It's sad for the child tho.
That arrangement could have worked had the mom not been a deadbeat. My mom and paternal grandparents did this exact arrangement for me when I was born up until I was 4. My mom was in college and would get me on the weekends and leave me with them during the week. She helped out still and WAS STILL MY MOM at the same time
This woman should never have custody of this child.
The fact she thinks the kid won’t remember but doesn’t care about her memories with her daughter? WTH.
I feel like she's saying had grandma not made this "agreement" she would've chosen to have an abortion. She seems like she's too focused on her own life. I don't know if once she finished school she was going to take the child back. If yes, then the child support payments are warranted. If she has no intention of that then she should give up parental rights. She seems to not want the responsibility and wants to tag in when it's convenient. That's not healthy for children
@Alex Torres this is a tv show, not actual court. Vanda B. is not a real judge
@Alex Torres this is for entertainment only..also a judge will "make you" drop out. Be responsible for your own kids and you won't have issues 😜
@@DavidUnderhill - She’s a real attorney….& that’s what judges are - attorneys.
Correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t think you can just give up your rights and end up not paying support. Because the judge isn’t there for you but the child so no one cares if you don’t want the kid…. The point is it exists. I mean men can’t even choose abortion she could have so she really doesn’t have an excuse.
@@josephnoonan7647 if another party is willing they can. But they would not be able to fight for them later
This just made me call my kids mother and thank her for being a good mother.. that woman will never let anyone raise her kids
Honestly I think she was forced to keep the baby.. and I think grandma agreed to keeping the baby while she’s in college but now she can’t afford it
@@myajonae nobody forced her to have the child.she could've not had sex in the first place
This judge oh my gosh you are just an amazing woman ❤
This grandma needs to get custody cause this woman does not need any baby's. Also why hasn't dad been paying more than the insurance?
I was like Lord if she says “I’m a full time student” again. I wanted to knock everything over! Lol!
I remember my freshman year in college some girls had their babies in the dorm room with them every once in a while. And my junior year when I got pregnant, my mom wanted me to go back to school while she took care of my baby. I just couldn’t bare the thought of her doing that. I’m her only child. She raised me already. Then to raise my child? No way. I moved back home and continued school there.
Good for you! That’s called not being selfish and putting your priorities in order!
my mom would always tell stories of her rocking me to sleep during her classes while she was finishing college. She said it was ok tho cus i was a quite baby so i was pretty chill and never really cried. she HATED the idea of me being raised by my grandmas. love her for that
Period! U made shit happen LIKE ALL GOOD PARENTS DO!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 BLESSINGS TO U
I had classmates that would bring their kids to class. Now they got 20+ babysitters for the next 2 hours 🤣🤣. But it worked lol
Yes like my mom had two kids did school full time and had a full time job
Her sipping her mug gets me everytime 😂
I can’t believe that she is a grandmother, she looks so young if she told she was a young mother in college I’d believe her
I repeat “YOUR DAUGHTER” 😅 she be be peeping through the BS. Lol
That mother was a horrible , Self centered, person. I don’t want to say what I truly think of her. But thank you Judge ,you did an amazing job. The Attitude coming out of this woman’s mouth, with the physical gestures, I wanted to scream .
It’s entitlement. Part of the blame for her behavior is her parents and this is true for many millennials and gen Z. She takes zero responsibility even after the ruling she rudely tells the woman who is raising her child “are you happy now?” It’s so disrespectful. Being abandoned and emotionally rejected as a baby stays with you and even if her daughter won’t remember everything her subconscious will and she will have have to deal with those feelings later in life.
She should be thanking God that her child has a wonderful grandmother, but she’s too disrespectful and personally I won’t put up with that
How I see it. Homegirl didn’t want to have a baby but the grandma begged her to keep it. You can’t force someone to be a mother when they tell you they don’t want to be.
I'm pretty shure grandma told her she will help her and she is twisting her words. She need to be clear and tell the judge and grandmother that she will give up parental right and grandmother can adopt baby ,She need to stop pretending she is a good mother ,or a good human, and our taxes need to stop paying this stupid woman students loan,that is in college and and can even put a coherent sentence together , is a lier ,and most like it taking grands as a struggling single mother ,Stop enabling bad women behavior or bad behavior despite of gender ,She is a disgrace for women, mothers and humans .
I dont agree with asking or begging someone to have a baby, but homegirl is an adult, could have used birth control or terminated the pregnancy.
@The Growth Factor he should also always use protection!
Momma needs a wakeup call. "I do what I can, I do what I can" with no specifics.
Am student full time, with two kids under 10. I’m raising my kids by myself full time. It’s doable.
Recruiter for the Navy here… depending on the branch, the father should’ve been placed on child support in addition to health insurance. In some cases, even if the member gives up temporary custody they are still required to pay child support. Both parents should be placed on child support in my opinion, and I’m glad the judge made them both pay.
Exactly, I was in the army and we had to have a family care plan in place or we could be kicked out of the military
You are telling the truth. Thanks for your service
@ Jessica Ivory, right!! An allotment should have been setup before his boots left the building!!
@@Bennimiir I watched it. However, having been in the military for 20 years, its rare for a service member to leave their kids for training or a deployment and not have monthly payments setup for the child's caregiver.
I’m glad someone spoke up. This was an off case in my opinion and I know how much TriCare is and that number was off.
" 🥴 Im studying fulltime && having fun as an influencer while my mother in law does all the work being a mother to my kid while the father is in military 🥴 && im a great mother"
This mother is woooow !! Thank you to everyone that does take these kids in 🙏
But she can’t influence to take care of her own daughter
She's influencing me think she's a terrible daughter.
I am going to use “You obviously came here to waste my time" in my everyday life from now on.
Judge Vonda. i stumbled upon your channel this morning. lol your vids are my new guilty pleasure
“You obviously came to waste my time” my favorite line ever lol😂
To all the teens and young adults watching this video, or been dealing with situations like this in their lives,, don't let your parents coerce/guilt you into having a kid you do not want. Sometimes parents get so caught up in wanting to be grandparents, they will "PURPOSELY" ignore the fact that you're in no financial and/or emotional position to have the child in the first place.
That's exactly what this sounds like
To the young teens who don't want to have a child...make sure you and your partner are using contraceptive to avoid a unwanted pregnancy. Contrary to popular belief, dismembering a innocent unborn is not the answer. Prevention is.
Or just dont have sex? Mas ter bating always an option.
@@billylee4460 ew
@@ellemontgomery5210 BOOM! Because shorty was hurnching. No matter what her mother requested...she wasn't assisting her child have unprotected sex.
I don’t regret anything, I regret everything.😂😂😂😂😂
Judge Vonda B, I love your style of judging may God continue to give you wisdom. Blessings always
I was in school full time, being a mother, and had a full time job. After a time it seemed things were tight and I knew I had to give up something, so school was put on hold since my child was more important! Mom is horrible! Pray for the grandma!
This girl is simply sick I can't she thinks. She's better like too good girl get some help I never seen someone do careless it's sickening 😢
This lady is amazing (the biological mother) I was in college when I found out I was pregnant dropped out and went back when my son was in kindergarten and was a ft student plus I worked several jobs. I can’t imagine being recorded saying several different ways I didn’t want my child. 🤦🏾♀️ I just found this show I love how you keep accountability for the men and women. Stay blessed!
Actually this may be good advice for other young parents. Thank you for posting.
Exactly. I was in school full time, with newborn twins and worked a part time job. I'm thankful my grandma watched them while I was in class but you can definitely raise kids and be in school.
I really hope her child never sees this because I can promise you that child will never want anything to do with that mother or at least never feel that maternal relationship
Yup! I got pregnant straight out of HS. Waited til kiddos were in school worked and went to school and still made time for my two boogers. Now they are teens and we have a great dynamic I have a good job and although we aren’t rich we live with a roof over our heads and a decent job that I enjoy.
my mother went through college when my brother and I were little and after divorcing my father (he paid child support and was around to support us but work would take him overseas) and she always managed to put food on the table spend time with us and make sure we got an education and now she has her own private practice as a therapist for children and teens. goals and schooling can be achieved even with children.
i LOVE it when the cup comes into the picture ;)
on the one hand because i can perfectly imagine what is going on in her head.
on the other hand because i would have needed EXACTLY such a judge myself ;)
She is so detached from this child.