Nisha is bringing Ben to court to be removed from child support. She says their son is almost 18, she takes care of him, and should not be paying child support to Ben.
How 🤔 the father is a liar if your child walked in with new clothes and shoes you wouldn't ask where they came from just asking if my son walked in with anything I didn't pay for I want to know where it came from or that makes me a bad parent
How 🤔 the father is a liar if your child walked in with new clothes and shoes you wouldn't ask where they came from just asking if my son walked in with anything I didn't pay for I want to know where it came from or that makes me a bad parent
I want to stand up and applaud this mother for going over and beyond to care for her son. She was willing to prove via cash app that she is telling the truth. Great and unique case!
Lets be realistic Mari, most fathers who do pay child support do the same thing so there's not much to applaud here, as many of them in the end are pushed to the side by society. If the mum giving money is such a great thing, then why not applaud the father for taking care of his child and his new family and working too? Why just applaud the mother?
@@Jp-ny3qh it’s not that he doesn’t get an applause but more so just the situation of him saying she doesn’t help more financially like she said she was. Finances are such a small part anyway. I hate what she said at the end. It doesn’t matter what the father does with the child support. He could buy himself some shoes with it but the week before he could have bought his son a pair. Parents start to get so petty about child support. If your child has everything they need and more then who cares!
@@whynot9771 Its not real. They're actors, they even clearly state that in the video and channels profile. Also, the wardrobe department would have been responsible for that choice.
Probably bc he's getting nothing out of the cs. Then she's a fashion designer so she makes most of his clothes and shoes are probably refurbished celebrity shoes..ik son son be fresh asf tho 😅
I wanna know how his father doesn't notice that he has new shoes 2-3 times a month. Something tells me the dad knew something was up but just didn't ask since he didn't have to pay for it.
I'd like to know why you think it's the truth that he was getting new shoes 2 or 3 times a month and not just scamming his mom for extra money that she was to out of touch to know better about.
The kid has it pretty good. He's playing both parents. Seriously, 2 or 3 pairs of shoes a month plus clothing, pizza etc? He's definitely doing alright.
@@raymondsolisjr.1262 what would change according to you if he was a girl, I don't think gender matters here. A cunny person is cunny whether male or female
nah its the dad who's the problem, nothing she does above and beyond is never good enough, sounds like hes just trying to scam even more money from her for HIS 2 other kids, hes lying thru his teeth
She’s genuinely doing her part and more and I applaud her for that. I can see why she would appreciate a decrease in the child support payments. All together she is paying just over $1200 a month
@@rodericksears638 she’s getting disrespected right now too 😂mothers get flamed way worse for not being there than fathers do, and this women IS there ☠️
I could tell in the beginning, the judge was not on mom's side. The dad was not believable...couldn't give a straight answer or give eye contact. The judge made the right decision.
Yeah cause the child support is being used to care for his wife and kids lol which is why she sent to money to her son and not to the dad. If I’m not mistaken equipment is only paid for once a year.
Ima say the mom messed up by giving the son the money of course he gon buy shoes and clothes she should have been sending the money to dad for food housing ect yeah she might’ve sending the money bt it’s not goiin to the responsible parent that’s gon put the money where it need to be
It's refreshing to see that the parents, though separated, are both taking care of the child instead of just one parent. I love seeing this. It might not get enough views as "bad mom" or other videos of yours but this was heart warming to see that parents care for their child
I think the son is taking advantage of situation telling Mom he needs this and then telling Dad he needs this . You gotta give credit to the son for running a game on his parents
Body language is a huge sign I always look for. The mother is paying for everything her child needs and wants. The father was clearly lying. Him and the step momma is gonna be pissy come graduation.
Why assume that the Dad is lying? It might be that the son is double-dipping the parents. And, the only reason the Mom wanted a reduction is because SHE thinks that her ex is using her for his needs. This is a clear case of not communicating with each other
I think this ruling was definitely fair. That mama may not have primary physical custody because of her career but, she spends 2 to 3 days a week with her son and gives almost DOUBLE what she is ordered to give him for child support. She is trying to do right by him. 💜
So you’re telling me when that child comes home with some new sneakers the father doesn’t ask his son how he come by those 2-3 pairs of sneakers per month? YEAH RIGHT! He knows well that the mother is doing over and beyond for her son.
@@DemelicosHelsaint Did you even watch the video? I didn’t say that buying a lot of sneakers is supporting a child. However, shoes are considered “A NEED” and fortunately for this child, he gets more than he needs. As stated by the mother of this child, she pays the father child support and supplies other needs, like clothing and give the child other money than the child support that she gives to the father. So yes, the mother supports her child in every way she can. Nothing wrong with spoiling your child. It’s her child and she can do what she wants. Don’t be mad at him having a lot of sneakers. Stop hating!
The mom sent the money to DIRECTLY to her child without the fathers knowledge. You're assuming this 17 year old kid didn't spend the money on girls/alcohol/drugs and used it for a legit purpose.
It never ceases to amaze me that she is doing all that she can she sees him at least 2-3 times a week along with providing for him financially yet she is looked at in a negative light !! Wow Some men don’t do half of what she is doing and society says to the mother “ you should have made better choices when you laid down with that man! Or that’s on her for letting him get away with stuff!! Pick a side! He pretended not to know that “ she buys him clothing for his activities she isn’t physically there but maintains everything for his well being and yet he shrugs it off like he is Stevie wonder and can’t see anything!! Smt If she was physically there would that have been what the child needed ?! Notice his father shrugged off 80% of what she said!! But I bet you if you revisit this upon graduation things will be completely different cause she will be paying for college and another set of financial stuff for him and his dad will still require help from her for day to day stuff for their child!!
Doesn't matter when he started playing sports...the $700 she is giving is her part if his sports needs... the farther still has to pay his part...Child SUPPORT is to help the other parent support the custodial parent not pay child supoort and fully pay all activities...remember the other parent has to have food & shelter also...all parents should do more than Child support if can but in all actually they are only obligated by the court order..he didn't even want to give her credit for the extra...this goes if it was visa versa...
She sounds like such an amazing mom!! I can tell dad is just mad he isn’t getting what he wants in the equation ! This mom deserves so much love and gratitude because she’s doing such a good job I just wanna hug her
BOTH parents are doing great. He's caring for his child just as she is. The son is very likely going to both parents saying "I need this or I need that". All 3 need to have a sit down. My brother did this to my parents until I ratted him out and they had a sit down with his spoiled butt. Dad is doing a great job, he just needs to monitor what his son is doing a bit more closely bc I think the kid is pulling the wool over his eyes
I'd say she's a good mom. An "amazing" mom would tell her 17 year old "No, I won't pay $400 a month for two pairs of shoes. I'll instead put that money away for you for college"
The favoritism is insane here… Nowhere did I get the impression that he’s mad. He literally did not put up a fight whatsoever for the lowered child support. He looked tired from a long days work and was ready to go home. My personal opinion I think they are both good parents. I’d argue that the child support amount should have been kept the same as there only a couple payments left and sneakers/pizza are not necessities… BUT I’m not disagreeing that the lowered amount isn’t fair either because it is since she sees him half the week etc.
@@elyhenu8449 right!! I remember when 25 bucks was a heck of a lot of money for a pair of shoes! And we were lucky if we got new Payless shoes they were usually hand me downs. ☺️ I wouldn't change a thing though it makes me grateful for everything I have.
I’ll be honest… if my son’s father was actually active in his life without needing to be told by the government or anyone else, I DEFINITELY would not put him on CS. Heck… he hasn’t been in my son’s life since birth (he’ll be 4 this year) and I’m JUST NOW petitioning for a DNA to receive payments.
@@mogetit5999 I appreciate it thank you. I really tried because he is 2 years younger than me so at the time he didn’t even turn 21 yet when I got pregnant.. so I somewhat get it.. but cmon now… at some point you have to grow the hell up. I wasn’t ready either but I put myself to the side and became the best mother I can possibly be. Not perfect but I try with my night
I agree. I never asked for child support in the beginning because my sons dad was there 1000%. But when I refused to get back with him he stopped doing for our son. So after trying for a long time to compromise with him with no luck I finally took child support out on him.
You're a good person for that. Ive always felt the same way.. and I did the exact thing you did. Waited til 4 years of him being inactive in my son's life. Now he's going on 8 and he still ain't around and neither is that child support 🙄
My youngest son went to stay with his Dad and I was put on child support. His Dad thought he was gonna continue to collect child support AFTER our son dropped out of school. Nope, didn't happen. So I was taken off of CS. But I continued to give our son money when he needed things. His Dad was pissed because HE wasn't getting the money.
I can see it if they are specialized for track and basketball. Sometimes they wear out, you need different street shoes and court shoes, and sometimes if you play hard enough, those shoes wear out fast.
Actually, it doesn't make sense for the judge to require the dad to produce written evidence to prove the mom is not paying extra and then accept the mom's assertion that she is paying extra without the mom producing written evidence to support her claim. If anyone is in the position to produce physical evidence to support the extra payment, it's the mom. I tend to think the mom is lying and is upset about the dad having a new woman and having moved on with his life. Also, there is a reason the dad was awarded sole custody of his son. There should not have been a reduction based on an unsupported verbal claim that the mom was paying extra. This judge's ruling leaves a lot to be desired. I have worked in juvenile law for decades, and I have never seen a judge accept a person's word without corrobarative evidence to support it.
If the dad paying for equipment and uniform and stuff. The momma paying the money directed to the son and stuff for those things. What’s the son doing with the money if the dad still paying for the uniforms and all that stuff.
He's probably using that money to purchase more shoes while his father has just purchased uniforms and shoes. Kudos to Judge Vonda for stopping the childishness between them in court. Glad that the father didn't face Judge Judy with all of the looking around that he did with Vonda. She wouldn't play that.
@Jaila Primm because the parents aren't together and the kid goes between 2 different homes....if you have to go to one home to see your father, and a different home to see your mother...that is a broken home lol
it’s not like she wanted to stop providing support, she just wanted to stop giving the money to the dad. She wanted to be able to just send money to her kid…he’s 17 years old, that seems fair to me.
I disagree. Child support also covers food and shelter for the child. Pretty sure the kid isn't taking the money from Mom's cash apps and throwing it on the household bills.
Honestly this is why people need to have connections and contact with their parenting partner because kids realize then there is a disconnect and if they can get out of it they will
Exactly I do not speak my exhusband however my is a manipulator and I know that he thinks because we do not connect that he can manipulate situations. I have learned that that my son tries it
Mom only only has 6 months payments left which she can handle....good job....jerk knows he and so called fiancee was usin that 700 for themselves and their children.....KARMA
I’m 27, my father has always been on child support. The state let him get so backed up in CS that the judge told him more than likely he’ll never get off it for me because he owes so much in back pay. It’s truly refreshing to see even tho the kid is hustling both parents which is common at that age, they both go above & beyond. That’s what they should be doing.
My parents got divorced while my dad was making about $38 an hour so the child support wasn't an issue for him until he got laid off and wasn't able to get a job or a stable one. He wasn't able to pay child support so it just kept stacking up and he lost things like his drivers license so he wasn't able to even drive to get a job. I was about 8 at the time and now I'm a full grown adult over the age of 25 and this year my dad was able to finally pay off the rest of the child support. Keep in mind I spent every summer with my dad and ever day I could with him and in my mind he was supporting me more than my mom
Whoa! $700 a month….I hear so many men complain of 200 a month! No wonder the mom wants a reduction since he’s almost of age. But like the judge, I don’t think she’d take dad off if roles were reversed. And most people would agree. But…700 yeah I don’t blame her
Baby I had 3 minor kids and was only given $146 per month for all three! Not they are 28, 26 and 20 I just started getting child support last month from 2017!
You know she loves her son very much because even though she's out of town often, when she's back, she gets him and she's been doing much more than what the court's required. I agree with her sending her son cash app. This way, she knows he's getting what he needs and it's not going to others in the house. Bravo my sister. Her son KNOWS he's loved very much.
The only thing she did wrong was not tell her son’s father she was sending additional money to him. The issue was dad said he was paying for basketball etc and mom believed she was paying for it…only conclusion is son was double dipping and lying to mom about needing money for basketball. He’s pocketing the extra cash and probably spending it on his friends/ games etc.
Typically, anything sent outside the child support order is considered a gift by the court and will not adjust the child support order. It depends on the state though.
I don't care what state you in, this is my opinion. If you sending stuff outside of child support, that's not a gift cause at the end of the day that's your child, you help support that child anyway necessary, even if it's outside of child support
I found that out when I provided a list of things my ex was giving extra, even though he was technically behind on child support. The judge thanked me for being honest and explained that if it's outside of the child support order it is a gift. 🤷🏽♀️ And he is still in contempt. I was very surprised...he was shook.
The fact that both parties agreed that he spends 2-3 days a week with her shows there should’ve been an adjustment on CS alone. Regardless of whether the judge was considering the extra money as a “gift” especially since the CS order was likely based on the son living with the dad full-time.
Idk why she told her to not worry about something that's "not even her business" Honey if my son lives there and I'm sending $700+ to that house my son lives in, THEN ITS MY BUSINESS. PERIODT
She was referring to her comment stating “I’m tired of taking care of him and his other kids” which was a tacky comment to begin with but the judge is right his other children aren’t any of her business as long as her child is taken care off that’s all that matters
@@mystery38106 I already know he do. She literally snitched on him. He and his wife don't make enough to dress them as nice as her son. But as soon as that child support being sent, all of a sudden the siblings dressing just as nice? Hell yeah he spending that money on the other kids
I think that a reduction is fair ! So proud of the mother for sticking up for her self . The feeling of not being on child support after a child has aged out is amazing but the support is directed directly to the 18 yo child so 🤷🏽♀️
He’s almost 18…she just need to hang on. Let’s keep it real the issue is the finance. It’s the mom feeling like she’s supporting his woman. Technically it’s true, but thankfully she only have 6 months to deal with it.
Good job 👏 Mom! It's rare to see a parent in Court that is paying more money 💰 than ordered, providing the extras for her son as he goes through HS. It seems as though she has always put her son 1st during his 17 years 👍👍👍 Great job Mom & I hope your son has learned alot of your good morals & taking responsibility. This is a refreshing case to see brought before this Judge 👌
The father has a slow drawl...he is careful what he says ....clever son , playing one off against the other, with the mom throwing in sneekers and pizzas...😂😂😂😂 along with the CS.❤❤❤❤he is living his best life.
That mother was helping to take care, of him his wife and children. That judge was, wrong for that. She know damn well, what that man is doing with that $700 a month. It most certainly, is not all being spent on the son. 🤬
Men go through these BS all the times. Im talking about men that are in the same situation as her. Child support is view by many like punishment especially men. It is not it your responsibility as a parent to do so. Like this woman in court. I paid my child support like I was suppose to. I also handle school supplies , cloths, field trips, school pics, birthday and xmas presents in addition to child support payments because they are my kids too. I see all the support she is getting for doing what she is suppose to do. That said that goes for men too,
He still has rent, water, electric, clothes, food. Sounds like son taking his cash app money hanging out . 175 is health insurance. Soo 700 isn't alot.
The fact that children get to choose where they want to go is absolutely ridiculous. They’re always going to choose the easiest way and that is not always the best way. Their wishes should be heard but the best parent should be granted.
I'll never understand parents that need a court to help like this! Me and my ex husband have NEVER paid child support... We buy whats needed between us! 🤷 Your child should always come before your wants
@@tracyhurst7512 and courts are needed to also account for what ever responsibilities that have and are still being met. People lie and play games with each other.
Alot of adults don't put the child 1st and then want to hurt the other person... especially when jealous and envy is involved.... also a lot people don't have a clue on how to communicate
He Talking bout "So I can live happily ever after" 😂 Get On! Dude You're in HER pockets. && She taking care of her child plus providing an extra income into your home.
I applaud her for taking care of her son and also for paying her child support like she should but if the child support cannot be denied or stopped then for the next few months or whatever until he turns 18 I would just pay the child support and I would not pay anything over that. Let his father take care of the rest of it. If she's doing what she was ordered to do that's all she needs to do for now.
I love how her reasons go from diverse to very narrow for what she's sending money for as soon as she starts actually explaining all of a sudden she's buying him two to three pairs of sneakers a month and that's the total
See and they call me sexist. I feel just as bad for this woman as I would for a man. Imagine ladies, your bady daddy had custody of your child and he taking money from you and the son is also taking money from you. Of course you want a reduction. And it's somewhat reasonable. But time and time again men deal with this and no one ever cares. Anyway I love this show.
Me either because at 1st he said that she send cash app here and there then he turned around and said he knows nothing about her sending the son cash app. And if she paying $700 a month. Shouldn't the dad take that to pay for extra curricular activities? Sometimes some of these parents be getting child support and the child is not be taken care of and the child does reaches out to the other parent for food and other things they may be lacking.
@@chrisrodney79 maybe I missed something.. what wasn’t the mother being truthful about? She had proof that she’s been sending him(son) cashapps and she’s current with her child support payments 🤷♀️
Good morning, I'm watching this between a C-section AND a foot amputation, diabetes she does not look after herself,eighty years old, sweet old mexican lady, love your channel
We are lucky to have Medicare in Australia through the government for low income earners but don’t have to paid back but America seems to be much better at helping both parents with parental rights and visitations. Go Judge Vonda 🇦🇺💜
I believe Medicare gets taken out in taxes in your pay checks and end of year taxes in America. My sons has Medicare bc he’s a baby but I do not bc I don’t qualify
Haha the son is just hustling his parents
Yep.
This happens when parents don’t talk to each other
@SaladRostrum ... You nailed it ! ...
especially if she's buying the kid 3 pairs of sneakers every month 🤣
How 🤔 the father is a liar if your child walked in with new clothes and shoes you wouldn't ask where they came from just asking if my son walked in with anything I didn't pay for I want to know where it came from or that makes me a bad parent
How 🤔 the father is a liar if your child walked in with new clothes and shoes you wouldn't ask where they came from just asking if my son walked in with anything I didn't pay for I want to know where it came from or that makes me a bad parent
I want to stand up and applaud this mother for going over and beyond to care for her son. She was willing to prove via cash app that she is telling the truth. Great and unique case!
She's wearing a hat in court!?? ...my goodness...thats not respectful.😳🤦♂️
Lets be realistic Mari, most fathers who do pay child support do the same thing so there's not much to applaud here, as many of them in the end are pushed to the side by society.
If the mum giving money is such a great thing, then why not applaud the father for taking care of his child and his new family and working too? Why just applaud the mother?
@@Jp-ny3qh it’s not that he doesn’t get an applause but more so just the situation of him saying she doesn’t help more financially like she said she was. Finances are such a small part anyway. I hate what she said at the end. It doesn’t matter what the father does with the child support. He could buy himself some shoes with it but the week before he could have bought his son a pair. Parents start to get so petty about child support. If your child has everything they need and more then who cares!
@@whynot9771 Its not real. They're actors, they even clearly state that in the video and channels profile. Also, the wardrobe department would have been responsible for that choice.
@@Jp-ny3qh You are correct; however, I applaud all fathers who support their child(ren). I would never take anything away from a father.
I think the son is living his best life 😂😂😂 buying new shoes 2 to 3 times a month and not telling his dad about the extras
Exactly!
Probably bc he's getting nothing out of the cs. Then she's a fashion designer so she makes most of his clothes and shoes are probably refurbished celebrity shoes..ik son son be fresh asf tho 😅
I wanna know how his father doesn't notice that he has new shoes 2-3 times a month. Something tells me the dad knew something was up but just didn't ask since he didn't have to pay for it.
But wouldn't he see all the things his son has
I'd like to know why you think it's the truth that he was getting new shoes 2 or 3 times a month and not just scamming his mom for extra money that she was to out of touch to know better about.
I love how mama is relaxed because she has PROOF! I love a good mama
Receipts don't lie💯😹😹😹
We never saw proof.
What proof ?.
she’s fine 😮
A good mom would have her kid
The kid has it pretty good. He's playing both parents. Seriously, 2 or 3 pairs of shoes a month plus clothing, pizza etc? He's definitely doing alright.
He's a spoiled punk
As I was reading this comment she was saying that😂😂
If he was a girl would you say the same thing
He's a SCAMARTIST 💰
@@raymondsolisjr.1262 what would change according to you if he was a girl, I don't think gender matters here. A cunny person is cunny whether male or female
Sounds like the child is double dipping between the parents for “uniform and equipment”
I was thinking that. Like so we not gone talk about how dad buys him sneakers then he asks mom to send him money for sneakers? 🤷🏽♀️
nah its the dad who's the problem, nothing she does above and beyond is never good enough, sounds like hes just trying to scam even more money from her for HIS 2 other kids, hes lying thru his teeth
@@vickilee7212, it’s both their problems since neither of them are communicating and the son is playing both of them like a fiddle
@@vickilee7212 that’s a reach
@@vickilee7212 you female always blame the Male
She’s genuinely doing her part and more and I applaud her for that. I can see why she would appreciate a decrease in the child support payments. All together she is paying just over $1200 a month
I've some men pay the same amount that she's paying and still get dragged and disrespected by the mothers.
@@rodericksears638 she’s getting disrespected right now too 😂mothers get flamed way worse for not being there than fathers do, and this women IS there ☠️
@@minaberric4069 I don't here about too many women paying child support.
Men do it all the time but she is a true hero 👍
Men do it and it just called a gift no decrease in support most of the the it’s an increase
I could tell in the beginning, the judge was not on mom's side. The dad was not believable...couldn't give a straight answer or give eye contact. The judge made the right decision.
Yep 👍 t
The mom could not provide a legal basis to back her argument.
But then dodgy dad couldn't back his lies 😂
They’re actors
I don't think he really cared
Yeah cause the child support is being used to care for his wife and kids lol which is why she sent to money to her son and not to the dad. If I’m not mistaken equipment is only paid for once a year.
The dad knows darn well she is giving her son above and beyond child support payment.
He's selfish and greedy
I like it when the roles are reversed 😂😂😂
Can't assume he knows anything
That's on her... he is collecting what the courts ordered.. if she wants to give more than the court orders, why is he greedy ?
Ima say the mom messed up by giving the son the money of course he gon buy shoes and clothes she should have been sending the money to dad for food housing ect yeah she might’ve sending the money bt it’s not goiin to the responsible parent that’s gon put the money where it need to be
It's refreshing to see that the parents, though separated, are both taking care of the child instead of just one parent. I love seeing this. It might not get enough views as "bad mom" or other videos of yours but this was heart warming to see that parents care for their child
I think the son is taking advantage of situation telling Mom he needs this and then telling Dad he needs this . You gotta give credit to the son for running a game on his parents
yup, collecting $ from dad or mum.
But hol up tho lol He has 2 other kids in the house and a fiance... That extra $700 from child support is going to the other kids.
Daddy need 2 step up this is ashame very good mom she taking care r his other kids to
The parents aren't communicating
Most definitely he running a game on both of them
Body language is a huge sign I always look for. The mother is paying for everything her child needs and wants. The father was clearly lying. Him and the step momma is gonna be pissy come graduation.
Yes! Thank you!!!
Why assume that the Dad is lying? It might be that the son is double-dipping the parents. And, the only reason the Mom wanted a reduction is because SHE thinks that her ex is using her for his needs. This is a clear case of not communicating with each other
The son is definitely playing them
or just maybe the kid is asking for stuff from both parents that’s what i used to do 😂😂😂
Nooo the father is busy working long hours.
I know how the black men do
I think this ruling was definitely fair. That mama may not have primary physical custody because of her career but, she spends 2 to 3 days a week with her son and gives almost DOUBLE what she is ordered to give him for child support. She is trying to do right by him. 💜
Nearly all the extra goes towards gratuitous pairs of expensive shoes. Hardly a necessity.
His daddy is a Playa he's talking real low & not giving and clear info. Mumbles think he's slick.
So you’re telling me when that child comes home with some new sneakers the father doesn’t ask his son how he come by those 2-3 pairs of sneakers per month? YEAH RIGHT! He knows well that the mother is doing over and beyond for her son.
Uh huh... And how is buying an exorbitant amount of sneakers for a kid supporting them?
@@DemelicosHelsaint Did you even watch the video? I didn’t say that buying a lot of sneakers is supporting a child. However, shoes are considered “A NEED” and fortunately for this child, he gets more than he needs. As stated by the mother of this child, she pays the father child support and supplies other needs, like clothing and give the child other money than the child support that she gives to the father. So yes, the mother supports her child in every way she can. Nothing wrong with spoiling your child. It’s her child and she can do what she wants. Don’t be mad at him having a lot of sneakers. Stop hating!
The mom sent the money to DIRECTLY to her child without the fathers knowledge. You're assuming this 17 year old kid didn't spend the money on girls/alcohol/drugs and used it for a legit purpose.
@Stefan C ...NOT all black people waste their money on girls, drugs and alcohol!!! So you sound very foolish for that 🙄
@@DemelicosHelsaint y
She actually seems truthful and like a good momma. That guys eyes were so shifty
“Well go ahead and live happily ever after because you all are dismissed” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😹😹😹😹👩🏾⚖️😍🍿☕
This was a great case , mom is really taking care of her kid!
Financially but shes not there day to day raising him. That would be the step mom and dad.
@@hakeemblake3653 exactly
Half ass taking care of him
She need to be there
It never ceases to amaze me that she is doing all that she can she sees him at least 2-3 times a week along with providing for him financially yet she is looked at in a negative light !! Wow
Some men don’t do half of what she is doing and society says to the mother “ you should have made better choices when you laid down with that man! Or that’s on her for letting him get away with stuff!!
Pick a side! He pretended not to know that “ she buys him clothing for his activities she isn’t physically there but maintains everything for his well being and yet he shrugs it off like he is Stevie wonder and can’t see anything!! Smt
If she was physically there would that have been what the child needed ?! Notice his father shrugged off 80% of what she said!! But I bet you if you revisit this upon graduation things will be completely different cause she will be paying for college and another set of financial stuff for him and his dad will still require help from her for day to day stuff for their child!!
And his other 👪
Wait a sec. He can’t claim that it’s only him that pays for sports when she’s paying 700.00 mo. in child support.
That ALONE had me like..whaaat?
It depends on when they entered the $700 agreement . If the child wasn't playing sport at that time, then the amount doesn't cover the sport.
Exactly
Doesn't matter when he started playing sports...the $700 she is giving is her part if his sports needs... the farther still has to pay his part...Child SUPPORT is to help the other parent support the custodial parent not pay child supoort and fully pay all activities...remember the other parent has to have food & shelter also...all parents should do more than Child support if can but in all actually they are only obligated by the court order..he didn't even want to give her credit for the extra...this goes if it was visa versa...
righhht?! where is all that money going ☠️
She sounds like such an amazing mom!! I can tell dad is just mad he isn’t getting what he wants in the equation ! This mom deserves so much love and gratitude because she’s doing such a good job I just wanna hug her
BOTH parents are doing great. He's caring for his child just as she is. The son is very likely going to both parents saying "I need this or I need that". All 3 need to have a sit down. My brother did this to my parents until I ratted him out and they had a sit down with his spoiled butt. Dad is doing a great job, he just needs to monitor what his son is doing a bit more closely bc I think the kid is pulling the wool over his eyes
Dad is probably using the child support for his own needs!!!
I'd say she's a good mom. An "amazing" mom would tell her 17 year old "No, I won't pay $400 a month for two pairs of shoes. I'll instead put that money away for you for college"
I felt the dad was very respectful. Seems like the son just taking both of them for a run. If dad says no, mom will say yes kind of deal
The favoritism is insane here…
Nowhere did I get the impression that he’s mad. He literally did not put up a fight whatsoever for the lowered child support. He looked tired from a long days work and was ready to go home.
My personal opinion I think they are both good parents. I’d argue that the child support amount should have been kept the same as there only a couple payments left and sneakers/pizza are not necessities… BUT I’m not disagreeing that the lowered amount isn’t fair either because it is since she sees him half the week etc.
The son is playing them 🤣🤣🤣
Hell yes the son is playing both of them
Yup!😹😹😹
He wears $500 sneakers that's ridiculous I remember when we were kids we were lucky if we got Payless shoes!
And Payless wasn't that cheap - i grew up on thrift store shoes and clothing before it was coOol
@@elyhenu8449 right!! I remember when 25 bucks was a heck of a lot of money for a pair of shoes! And we were lucky if we got new Payless shoes they were usually hand me downs. ☺️ I wouldn't change a thing though it makes me grateful for everything I have.
How much is the son and fiancé paying towards household expenses? Who needs 2 or 3 pairs of shoes a month? Vonda didn’t ask the right questions.
@@tree6787 right , kids are so ungrateful now, most feel entitled
For real
I’ll be honest… if my son’s father was actually active in his life without needing to be told by the government or anyone else, I DEFINITELY would not put him on CS. Heck… he hasn’t been in my son’s life since birth (he’ll be 4 this year) and I’m JUST NOW petitioning for a DNA to receive payments.
Good for you! Hopefully you will get back pay as well.
@@mogetit5999 I appreciate it thank you. I really tried because he is 2 years younger than me so at the time he didn’t even turn 21 yet when I got pregnant.. so I somewhat get it.. but cmon now… at some point you have to grow the hell up. I wasn’t ready either but I put myself to the side and became the best mother I can possibly be. Not perfect but I try with my night
I agree. I never asked for child support in the beginning because my sons dad was there 1000%. But when I refused to get back with him he stopped doing for our son. So after trying for a long time to compromise with him with no luck I finally took child support out on him.
You're a good person for that. Ive always felt the same way.. and I did the exact thing you did. Waited til 4 years of him being inactive in my son's life. Now he's going on 8 and he still ain't around and neither is that child support 🙄
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My youngest son went to stay with his Dad and I was put on child support. His Dad thought he was gonna continue to collect child support AFTER our son dropped out of school. Nope, didn't happen. So I was taken off of CS. But I continued to give our son money when he needed things. His Dad was pissed because HE wasn't getting the money.
Wait......$200 for a pair of sneekers....$600 a MONTH for shoes? What the hell are people thinking?!
Right???? Hell nah.
She is not there like she will like to be for her son because of work. Now she is compensating financially
Get a grip No one needs that
He will need that money when he's 25🤦🏾♀️
I can see it if they are specialized for track and basketball. Sometimes they wear out, you need different street shoes and court shoes, and sometimes if you play hard enough, those shoes wear out fast.
I respect the mom because I can tell she really wanted to snap lol but she held her composure. I believe her
"I send money through Cash App, I even have proof"
Me: Let me see
Yooo 🤣🤣🤣
Right
Right
faxxxx
Actually, it doesn't make sense for the judge to require the dad to produce written evidence to prove the mom is not paying extra and then accept the mom's assertion that she is paying extra without the mom producing written evidence to support her claim. If anyone is in the position to produce physical evidence to support the extra payment, it's the mom. I tend to think the mom is lying and is upset about the dad having a new woman and having moved on with his life. Also, there is a reason the dad was awarded sole custody of his son. There should not have been a reduction based on an unsupported verbal claim that the mom was paying extra. This judge's ruling leaves a lot to be desired. I have worked in juvenile law for decades, and I have never seen a judge accept a person's word without corrobarative evidence to support it.
I can’t stand when grown men talk like he do. It’s like a low growl 😂 ENUNCIATE!!
Slow and smoke weed all day
....like he doES.
NIGGA MUMBLIN..BWAHAHAHA
Texan drawl! Leave him be lmao
@@lionxwarrior3004 has nothing to do with being from Texas. His brain is barely functioning.
If the dad paying for equipment and uniform and stuff. The momma paying the money directed to the son and stuff for those things. What’s the son doing with the money if the dad still paying for the uniforms and all that stuff.
i was thinking the same thing
Good question! I was thinking & wondering the same thing.
He's probably using that money to purchase more shoes while his father has just purchased uniforms and shoes. Kudos to Judge Vonda for stopping the childishness between them in court. Glad that the father didn't face Judge Judy with all of the looking around that he did with Vonda. She wouldn't play that.
🤣 the son is living his best life he can financially
He was lying. That’s why he put his head down when she was answering that question.
If i was 17 living in a broken home, and the parent I wasnt living with was sending me money...I sure as hell wouldnt tell my father that lol
Smart kid.
How you know the home is broken?
@Jaila Primm because both parents are on this show
@Jub_DoubleO how is that a broken home?
@Jaila Primm because the parents aren't together and the kid goes between 2 different homes....if you have to go to one home to see your father, and a different home to see your mother...that is a broken home lol
I love how your bailiff says “you’re welcome.”
It's is good to see parents taking care of their child and not being evil to each other
Mom, your son's playing you for a fool. You're not sending him child support, you're sending him an allowance!
I’m glad she got a reduction and for the dad not knowing about the cashapp is fishy…
Agreed.
Exactly, are you not paying attention, your son has extra money that you did not give him, as a parent , it’s time to investigate
Not even he contradicted himself because at the beginning the judge asked him about outside money and he said yea
She was definitely taking care of his whole family!
@@Nini_473 700 takes care of a family? Please enlighten us on how to do that.....I'll wait
it’s not like she wanted to stop providing support, she just wanted to stop giving the money to the dad. She wanted to be able to just send money to her kid…he’s 17 years old, that seems fair to me.
I think that's very fair.
I disagree. Child support also covers food and shelter for the child. Pretty sure the kid isn't taking the money from Mom's cash apps and throwing it on the household bills.
She is giving her son money, and he spends it on shoes apparently?
Absolutely correct 💯💯 just give the money to her son
@@jenniferhuff4895She also supporting the weed habit😂😂😂😂
This was one of the chilliest and straightforward court cases I’ve ever seen.
Honestly this is why people need to have connections and contact with their parenting partner because kids realize then there is a disconnect and if they can get out of it they will
Exactly I do not speak my exhusband however my is a manipulator and I know that he thinks because we do not connect that he can manipulate situations. I have learned that that my son tries it
Mom only only has 6 months payments left which she can handle....good job....jerk knows he and so called fiancee was usin that 700 for themselves and their children.....KARMA
My thoughts exactly
I was 17 as a Senior, so why would that Suprise the Judge as if she never heard of that??
Right! Lol same here. Birthday in July ‼️
I was thinking the same. Me and my son both graduated at 17.
Maybe because he not even 18 yet, and she's looking to get off of CS. Also in the event he attends college, the CS order can be extended to age 23
@@Iamanitawilliams learn em
Me too..i was born in november.
I’m 27, my father has always been on child support. The state let him get so backed up in CS that the judge told him more than likely he’ll never get off it for me because he owes so much in back pay. It’s truly refreshing to see even tho the kid is hustling both parents which is common at that age, they both go above & beyond. That’s what they should be doing.
I'm gonna need mom to refrain from wearing her cap in court😂
That is part of the Ghetto Fabolous Fashionista ensemble...
It isn't real court. It's acting
I hate that people wear their hats backwards, especially the females. I’m sure they will look back on these photos and think “what was I thinking?”
It's always the "that's just my opinion" parent that's lying lmao
Always love watching this sista do her work enforcing the law as it should honestly be done 🙏🏾🛐💯🙌🏾✝️
When Judge dismissed them 🤣😂😂😂
I feel like you’d be absolutely required to show paystubs, bank records, cashapp and Venmo receipts the day you’re in court for this.
Are these true cases because I've never known this to be done on the word of each parent...have to provide documentation
@@yolandaperry6223 no, they’re not real. At the end of the videos it says they’re fictional and done by actors, or something asking those lines.
@@Oxzilion apparently they’re based on true situations
All actors. HOWEVER, they are based on actual cases.
@@naomiemoore5725 I know. There’s a disclaimer on her videos. I was just saying, you’d think people would know enough to bring receipts to stuff.
The voice of justice.
This judge is human.
God bless you
Amen
My parents got divorced while my dad was making about $38 an hour so the child support wasn't an issue for him until he got laid off and wasn't able to get a job or a stable one. He wasn't able to pay child support so it just kept stacking up and he lost things like his drivers license so he wasn't able to even drive to get a job. I was about 8 at the time and now I'm a full grown adult over the age of 25 and this year my dad was able to finally pay off the rest of the child support. Keep in mind I spent every summer with my dad and ever day I could with him and in my mind he was supporting me more than my mom
Whoa! $700 a month….I hear so many men complain of 200 a month! No wonder the mom wants a reduction since he’s almost of age. But like the judge, I don’t think she’d take dad off if roles were reversed. And most people would agree. But…700 yeah I don’t blame her
He's inmature , inarticulate, pathetic,
irresponsible and using his ex to support him and his family.
Baby I had 3 minor kids and was only given $146 per month for all three! Not they are 28, 26 and 20 I just started getting child support last month from 2017!
I took my child's Dad off support. We were mature enough to manage without court involvement.
You know she loves her son very much because even though she's out of town often, when she's back, she gets him and she's been doing much more than what the court's required. I agree with her sending her son cash app. This way, she knows he's getting what he needs and it's not going to others in the house. Bravo my sister. Her son KNOWS he's loved very much.
Yes smart
The only thing she did wrong was not tell her son’s father she was sending additional money to him. The issue was dad said he was paying for basketball etc and mom believed she was paying for it…only conclusion is son was double dipping and lying to mom about needing money for basketball. He’s pocketing the extra cash and probably spending it on his friends/ games etc.
Typically, anything sent outside the child support order is considered a gift by the court and will not adjust the child support order. It depends on the state though.
I don't care what state you in, this is my opinion. If you sending stuff outside of child support, that's not a gift cause at the end of the day that's your child, you help support that child anyway necessary, even if it's outside of child support
Yes I’m NY they would consider it a gift
@@BiracialWaifuu Right,they only say gift befor a child support order is in place.
I found that out when I provided a list of things my ex was giving extra, even though he was technically behind on child support. The judge thanked me for being honest and explained that if it's outside of the child support order it is a gift. 🤷🏽♀️ And he is still in contempt.
I was very surprised...he was shook.
@@BiracialWaifuu true
A low tone, no fighting, solemn, slow court case. ❤❤
😂wow..this is probably the most calm support court I've seen in a while. Most of it was straight forward and to the point 👍
I love that both ain’t hollering 😭 so civilized
The fact that both parties agreed that he spends 2-3 days a week with her shows there should’ve been an adjustment on CS alone. Regardless of whether the judge was considering the extra money as a “gift” especially since the CS order was likely based on the son living with the dad full-time.
Their son probably asks both parents to pay for basketball and then keeps the money 😂
She asks is there anything further before I move over to the next party an the person always says NO then continues to talk 😂😂 i can't
I love how as she kept asking questions she was like hmmmm cause it was making sense 😭😂
Money she gives the son directly is a gift -
Doesn't matter
Idk why she told her to not worry about something that's "not even her business" Honey if my son lives there and I'm sending $700+ to that house my son lives in, THEN ITS MY BUSINESS. PERIODT
She was referring to her comment stating “I’m tired of taking care of him and his other kids” which was a tacky comment to begin with but the judge is right his other children aren’t any of her business as long as her child is taken care off that’s all that matters
@@waynefoster85 Yeah as long as HE is taken care of. Not his brothers and sisters or his daddy. 👏🏾👌🏾 So I see that comment she made as justified
PERIODT…..
I can bet that he takes care of those other kids with that money
@@mystery38106 I already know he do. She literally snitched on him. He and his wife don't make enough to dress them as nice as her son. But as soon as that child support being sent, all of a sudden the siblings dressing just as nice? Hell yeah he spending that money on the other kids
The son knows Wsup 😂.. hustling both sides 😂😂😂
I've watched a lot of cases and in similar situations the Judge has said if you give extra above what the court has ordered its considered a gift.
Sounds like the son is getting some extra cash for himself 👀 Both parents are paying for the same things at the same time? I don't think so 🤣
I think that a reduction is fair ! So proud of the mother for sticking up for her self . The feeling of not being on child support after a child has aged out is amazing but the support is directed directly to the 18 yo child so 🤷🏽♀️
Binge watched all the episodes awhile back been waiting for new ones.. Thank you 🤪
They both seem like civilized individuals. The son playing them like a fiddle 🥴
This is why UNITY in PARENTING IS A MUST. You have to keep open communication because kids are slick.
I absolutely respect this Woman
He’s almost 18…she just need to hang on. Let’s keep it real the issue is the finance. It’s the mom feeling like she’s supporting his woman. Technically it’s true, but thankfully she only have 6 months to deal with it.
Good job 👏 Mom! It's rare to see a parent in Court that is paying more money 💰 than ordered, providing the extras for her son as he goes through HS. It seems as though she has always put her son 1st during his 17 years 👍👍👍 Great job Mom & I hope your son has learned alot of your good morals & taking responsibility. This is a refreshing case to see brought before this Judge 👌
It's so crazy how the attitude shifted towards the mom after she said she had receipts..... People crazy. I'm glad she was calm about it.
The father has a slow drawl...he is careful what he says ....clever son , playing one off against the other, with the mom throwing in sneekers and pizzas...😂😂😂😂 along with the CS.❤❤❤❤he is living his best life.
Son is def finessin 😂😂😂😂
But a court order is a court order. He ain’t 18 yet
That mother was helping to take care, of him his wife and children. That judge was, wrong for that. She know damn well, what that man is doing with that $700 a month. It most certainly, is not all being spent on the son. 🤬
Says who?
Men go through these BS all the times. Im talking about men that are in the same situation as her. Child support is view by many like punishment especially men. It is not it your responsibility as a parent to do so. Like this woman in court. I paid my child support like I was suppose to. I also handle school supplies , cloths, field trips, school pics, birthday and xmas presents in addition to child support payments because they are my kids too. I see all the support she is getting for doing what she is suppose to do. That said that goes for men too,
So by your logic. Child support money sent to women gets spent the same way. Gotcha....dumb ass statement
He still has rent, water, electric, clothes, food. Sounds like son taking his cash app money hanging out . 175 is health insurance. Soo 700 isn't alot.
@@sandrasimpson216 his bills are not her responsibility, child support is for the child and he has 2 other kids. He has to have a job.
If he is almost 18 why even bring it to court?
I’ll never understand that part.
She wants to save some money. It was 700-450=250 saved per month.250x6 months = $1500 saved.
It seemed like the judge was looking for a reason to deny mom. That man was obviously lying. I’m so glad mom was able to get her request approved
The fact that children get to choose where they want to go is absolutely ridiculous. They’re always going to choose the easiest way and that is not always the best way. Their wishes should be heard but the best parent should be granted.
BIG UPS TO MOM... MAD RESPECT
I'll never understand parents that need a court to help like this! Me and my ex husband have NEVER paid child support... We buy whats needed between us! 🤷 Your child should always come before your wants
It is why it is because people do not want to take care of their responsibilities.
Bitter ppl
Maturity has a lot to do with it and when one isn’t that’s when the courts are called on…congratulations on always working it out
@@tracyhurst7512 and courts are needed to also account for what ever responsibilities that have and are still being met. People lie and play games with each other.
Alot of adults don't put the child 1st and then want to hurt the other person... especially when jealous and envy is involved.... also a lot people don't have a clue on how to communicate
Her paying more is not his problem it is her.
She is paying extra when she wasn’t ordered to and now wants a decrease in her obligation because of that.
9:00 the dad face was like this is how he been getting everything 😂
perfect example when parents don't communicate. for all we know the kid is taking advantage of the situation.
He Talking bout "So I can live happily ever after" 😂 Get On! Dude You're in HER pockets. && She taking care of her child plus providing an extra income into your home.
Son is hustling both parents😂
Mom is doing her legal obligations plus some. That’s so good to see honestly.
700$ a month and two incomes.
I would’ve save that money for him when he turn 18 so he would be set for college.
The mother should be going through the father for all of these extras, not giving it directly to the child, who is clearly working both parents.
Dad needs to talk to his son. I think the son is a hustler!!
I love how it's "My Child" in terms of her care but "he's almost 18" when she doesn't want to pay.
3 pairs of sneakers monthly? Who needs that? Hahahaaha
I applaud her for taking care of her son and also for paying her child support like she should but if the child support cannot be denied or stopped then for the next few months or whatever until he turns 18 I would just pay the child support and I would not pay anything over that. Let his father take care of the rest of it. If she's doing what she was ordered to do that's all she needs to do for now.
I love how her reasons go from diverse to very narrow for what she's sending money for as soon as she starts actually explaining all of a sudden she's buying him two to three pairs of sneakers a month and that's the total
See and they call me sexist. I feel just as bad for this woman as I would for a man. Imagine ladies, your bady daddy had custody of your child and he taking money from you and the son is also taking money from you. Of course you want a reduction. And it's somewhat reasonable. But time and time again men deal with this and no one ever cares. Anyway I love this show.
FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yeah it’s messed up even when the roles are reversed.
My man was like ion even too much care 🤣
Daddy been riding the train long enough....your ride stops here or should I say in May 😂😂
I don’t think he is being totally truthful
Neither of them is.
I agree extra money man please he was getting over like fat rat it take a lot leave your child i just can’t do it but good luck with everything
Not at all
Me either because at 1st he said that she send cash app here and there then he turned around and said he knows nothing about her sending the son cash app. And if she paying $700 a month. Shouldn't the dad take that to pay for extra curricular activities? Sometimes some of these parents be getting child support and the child is not be taken care of and the child does reaches out to the other parent for food and other things they may be lacking.
@@chrisrodney79 maybe I missed something.. what wasn’t the mother being truthful about? She had proof that she’s been sending him(son) cashapps and she’s current with her child support payments 🤷♀️
The son is hustling lol
I like watching these types of videos when I have baby fever!!😄
homeboy flipping packs w moms bread 😭
Good morning, I'm watching this between a C-section AND a foot amputation, diabetes she does not look after herself,eighty years old, sweet old mexican lady, love your channel
Another one yes stay blessed ms.vonda 🙌 😇 🙏
We are lucky to have Medicare in Australia through the government for low income earners but don’t have to paid back but America seems to be much better at helping both parents with parental rights and visitations. Go Judge Vonda 🇦🇺💜
Its the same in America
I believe Medicare gets taken out in taxes in your pay checks and end of year taxes in America. My sons has Medicare bc he’s a baby but I do not bc I don’t qualify
Medicare is for old people yall talking about MediCAID lol
@@aquagrl93 Medicare in Australia is different if you think it’s just for the old you need to open your eyes to the world sweetheart
We have medicaid in Washington State for the kids and adults and we don't have to pay it back.