The Golden Rule before Marriage | Islamic Marriage Advice - Mufti Menk
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I'm Christian but I still salute to this man he is really a good speaker
May u get wisdom to know the true religion!
Thats lovely😁😁😁
Please study Quran.its something we can't imagine.sure it will give u what u want.may Allah bless u
Sister accept the islam you will find peace both in this world and here after.
Do some research on Islam and also ask God to guide towards correct path..you will find ...
I am 26 and my family searching for a man. But I am sacred because now a days we have no Moral values in relation and that's life line love, respect and gratitude is hard to find. May Allah bless every women with a golden heart man. AMEEN
Ameeeeen
Ameen
I m 19 my parents wants to marry me early but I m worrying how to become a good lady before marriage.
I would like to share some information with best of my believe,
Two things only.
Be respectful and be honest by ur side. Regardless of response. Because what u r doing is for the sake of Allah.. Then u will see inshallah, Allah will always put u among good people.
"Hasbunallah hu wa ni'mal wakeel "
Ameen
One of the best scholar in our time.
May Allah protect you from evil.
What a noorani face he has. MashaAllah
Iqra Akhtar indeed...I also see it...MashaAllah SubhanAllah
Iqra Akhtar but he is na mehrum to u i think alll females should concentrate on lecture instead of face or the appearance
Shemail Arif
There is nothing wrong with her Comment.
Allah knows the best
+Shemail Arif assalamualaikum i dont think the sister said something bad! sometimes people take things far!
I am hindu but i really want to become a Muslim. I want to accept Muslim religion. I really don't have any problem with any religion
Inshallah may Allah make your muslim 🙂 , please visit the nearest mosque and talk with imam there he will guide you to become Muslim
i wish you all the best , i wish if the girl i loved converted...
Mufti sir more I listen to you my love and respect increases for you
Not that much...
Mufti tariq masood ko b suno.
O b mashallah accha bolte hai
brother r u hindu?
You always speak truth from the bottom of your heart ❤️. Many people like me were once a victim.😥 May Allah reward you.
I wanna to talk to you
Insha-Allah Allah will reward him with great things here and here after.
Same to me😭
Aameen summa aameen
Sorry sister.
The moment when he said “PING” 😂😂
Really appreciate you brother! The way he explains something, directly hits our minds and hearts! MAY ALLAH (S.W.T) GIVE HIM AND EVERYONE OF US JUNNAH! In Shaa Allah
Don't say inn shaa Allah after dua or with dua..say Aameen
Inshallah
Ameen
15 Years of my life could have been save, if i have watched this video before.
That is so true, i am really damage into parts.
Cobra Teeth may Allah guide you and gives u happiness...
Yeah this is needed in childhood!
You can always make it great Allah knows best
Sorry is very too late
It's not too late when it is about to turn to Allah...May Allah forgive you and ease your situation
My heart only for my allahh💚❤
It should be for friends as well. We started loving our friends more than our family and then they break our hearts too.
It should be for family too. My parents get divorced and they stop taking care about me and my siblings, to take care about them and their new couples!! Don't give your heart to anyone, even ur mother or father, they're also humans... I just trust it Allah
@@sofiaperez3322 yup you are right
Spot on
110% right.....!!! I have experianced....!!!not with Me...but with my other Muslim brths and sisters..°It makes me very strong by the will of Allah...and Taught Me not to believe in anyone without Almighty Allah....!
May Allah bless you
Indeed. No one truly loves besides ALLAH Almighty.💖💖💖
We are same
Yes, indeed! My mind used to be all over the place but now I am very focused. and believe in the oneness of Allah; everyone around me notice it. It’s 0300 and am still up praying for everyone to be healed by the power of Allah. And a special prayer for you sheikh.
😔😔 when you want to marry but you can't find righteous man to get married.
It's sad
Yes Absolutely correct, but vice versa too.
Don't lose hope sister Allah will bless you soon
Sister Pray tahajjud
So sad
I feel you
I am a Hindu but you are speak above religion.
I like your teachings.
Try to be became a muslim you may find peace bro
He is an orator of the era, isn’t he?
He speaks in the boundaries of Allah
May Allah Guide you towards truth.
God bless you.
Stay Happy.
@@Indianfxtrader brother, pls do not ask anyone to convert. Let everyone follow their own religions. Respect all religions.
This man is speaking truths!! I fell in love with this girl in high school who didn't like me back. I told myself its ok, once I show her who I am, how tough I am, what I'm capable of, I will get her to like me and inshallah we can possibly get into a deeper relationship, maybe even get married.
Unfortunately, I didn't even get that chance. It put me through deep depression, and it took awhile for the pieces to connect back together. Alhamdulilah I'm happy it didn't work out, but never commit to someone and allow your emotions to take control of you until you are sure that this person will be with you.
💙💙💙
I'm still into my ex , any suggestions to come out ?
@@ibrahimlodi8949 I can give ....r u still ?!
Thanks so much may Allah reward you. Ameen
Assalamualaikum...my parents are in distress because we are two sisters getting aged day by day ,but we are not getting a suitable person for marriage. Please make dua for my family. The reason for not getting married is we are not good in money & status . I request everyone who is reading this please make dua 🤲😢😢..
Make dua in sujood of farz namaz
Surely Allah is saving you from some evil. Have faith. Not all marriages are happily ever after... Allah knows and plans best... just pray for aafiya
@@iffatjamal3966 yes I do that after every farz namaz
@@sadafyasir1193 Indeed He is The Best Planner....make every single person gets righteous match Aameen
Zainab Asslamualaikum how old are you ? I'm looking for life partner in search of very understanding partner allah shayad mujhe yaha tak bheja
CALIPH UMAR'S SON MARRIES A MILKMAID
One night, Caliph Umar as usual went in disguise with his companion Ibn Abbas to see the condition of the people. They strolled from one quarter to another. At last they came to a colony where poor people lived.
While passing by a small house, the Caliph heard a whispering talk within. The mother was telling her daughter that the amount of milk fetched by her for sale that day was very little. She told her that when she was young, and used to sell milk, she always mixed water with milk, and that led to considerable profit. She advised her daughter to do the same.
The girl said, "You adulterated milk, when you were not a Muslim. Now that we are Muslims, we cannot adulterate milk." The mother said that Islam did not stand in the way of adulteration of milk. The daughter said, "Have you forgotten the Caliph's order? He wants that the milk should not be adulterated." The mother said, "But the Caliph has forgotten us. We are so poor, what else should we do but adulterate milk in order win bread?" The daughter said "Such a bread would not be lawful, and as a Muslim I would not do anything which is against the orders of the Caliph, and whereby other Muslims are deceived."
The mother said, "But there is neither the Caliph nor any of his officers here to see what we do. Daughter you are still a child. Go to bed now and tomorrow I will myself mix the milk with water for you." The girl refused to fall in with the plan of her mother. She said, "Caliph may or may not be here, but his order must be obeyed. My conscience is my Caliph. You may escape the notice of the Caliph and his officers, but how can we escape the notice of Allah and our own conscience." Thereupon the mother remained quiet. The lamp was extinguished and the mother and the daughter went to sleep.
The next day, Caliph Umar sent a man to purchase milk from the girl. The milk was unadulterated. The girl kept her resolve. CaliphUmar turned to his companion and said, "The girl has kept her resolve in spite of the exhortation of her mother. She deserves a reward. What reward should I give her? She should be paid some money," said Ibn Abbas. Caliph Umar said, "Such a girl would become a great mother. Her integrity is not to be weighed with few coins; it is to be measured in the scale of national values. I shall offer her the highest award in my gift, and which shall also be in the highest interest of the nation."
The Caliph summoned the daughter and the mother to his court. The mother trembled as she stood before the mighty ruler. But the girl faced the Caliph boldly and with great equanimity. She was beautiful, and there was an impressive dignity about her. Then before the gathering, Caliph Umar related how he had overheard the mother and the daughter, and how in spite of the exhortations of the mother the daughter had kept her resolve.
Someone suggested that the mother should be taken to task. The Caliph said that ordinarily he would have punished the mother, but he had forgiven her for the sake of her daughter. Turning to the girl the great Caliph said, "Islam needs daughters like you and as a Caliph of Islam it devolves on me to reward you by owning you as a daughter." The Caliph called his sons, and addressing them said, "Here is a gem of a girl who would make a great mother. I desire that one of you should take this girl as wife. I know of no better bride than this girl of sterling character. In matters of wedlock, it should be the character and not the stature in life that should count."
Abdullah and Abdur Rahman the elder sons of the Caliph were already married. Asim the third son was yet unmarried, and he offered to marry the girl. Thereupon with the consent of the milkmaid and her mother Asim was married to the girl, and milkmaid became the daughter-in-law of the Caliph.
From this union was born a daughter Umm Asim, who became in due course the mother of Umar bin Abdul Aziz. Umar bin AbdulAziz was elected as Caliph and served for a short period during 717 - 720.
While other Caliphs of the Ummayad dynasty reveled in luxury, Umar bin Abdul Aziz as a Caliph set up standards for austerity and simplicity following in the footsteps of Caliph Umar, the second Caliph of Islam. It is said that if ever there was a noble Caliph after the first four Rightly guided Caliphs,such a man was Umar bin Abdul Aziz. And he inherited the noble qualities of the milkmaid who married the Caliph's son, and those of Caliph Umar Farooq who had the eye to discern the nobler qualities of sterling character in a poor girl.
Taking parents advice will always bring happiness.
Wow mashAllah 👍
Men like Umar and women like her are hard to find.
That was beautiful. I didn't know of this before subhanallah. Thank you for sharing with us all
Abdulalim Omar Jazaka’Allah
Never heard this part
Thanks
May Allah bless you mufti menk
Omar Trawally tamil la solurinhala
SUBHAN ALLAH.....May ALLAH (SWT) Guide us all....ameen
high piece of advice MashAllah it's so meaningful
I love mufty menk and his lectures very much. I love him for Allah and his massanger prophet md. sm. And hope his long life.
Amin
JazakALLAH khairum ...mufti Sab may ALLAH swt protect u and ur family
May Allah bless you Mr. Mufti!
Masha Allah.may Allah reward you mufti.
Mansh aa Allah May Allah guide us to the right path.
Subhanallah ...wt an excellent explanation...thank u mufti....love u lots
Yes its very true!! Jazakallah for the knowledge!
Really admirable the way he is talking Masha Allah.he focus on every problem that are common now a days ..may Allah protect us
May Allah protect all of us from the hell fire. I have done so many mistakes in my life. Brothers and sisters please pray for me as i also ask Allah for forgiveness. I made a mistake I never knew it would turn out like this. It's been about 3 months I have realized all my mistakes and have been praying reading Quran fasting and praying Tahajjud prayer in Ramadan and without Ramadan I have never left my prayers. I have been asking Allah for forgiveness, brothers and sisters have me in your duaas. I regret my mistake because I never knew such thing was Haram. And the mistake I made was talking to a guy friend on social media.
My dear sister,
AlhamdulilAllah you're no longer in that situation. AlhamdulilAllah you've moved forward and are trying your best. You're in our dua'as without even asking. My only request is for you to sincerely reflect on what you're doing now and be honest with yourself. Make your relationship with Allah a priority by believing you've been forgiven. This relationship is easier to work on comparer to others. Get to know Him better through the Qur'an and learning His names and attributes. Make Allah your best friend and see your life improve significantly. Don't dwell on the past, but look ahead of you and do your best for His sake. Allah bless you and grant you succeds to His pleasure.. Aameen ya Samee'a wa Mujeeb addua'a 🤲
Masha Allah shaik, Jazakallahu khairan for ur advices for our Muslim brothers and sisters,
Yeah now i know that very well...i have done the same mistakes and ruined up my life...He broke me and my heart into pieces and still he is living happily...on the other hand i'm still struggling hard to keep my mind away from all of this...May Allah(SWT) help me,ease my situation and forgive me... Ameen...
Ameen
going through the same situation for 1/2 months. He invloved me in a relationship and said that he will marry me after getting his uk visa. when he got the visa.. he just moved on from me without any reason. and enjoying his life fully. And here i myself suffering for loving honestly. everyday doing zihad with my mind. please pray for me.
Aameen!
Absolutely right....maasha Allah....Ya Allah fill our hearts with Your(swt) love....Aameen
I wish i watched this when i was 18.
Have u married
True ما شآء اللہ عزوجل، جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا ❤️
amazing reminder.... it is 100% true..
Very good advice...
Don't donate your heart to anyone...
May Allah almighty guide our youth Aameen
Really Good advice mashaAllah
I wish I had heard this before!!! These words are amazing !!
Amazing personality,
And amazing message
You Are A Golden Sheikh.
My first inspiration to pray sallah.
May Allah elevate you to the highest place.
In few words....I love mufti menk.....
جزاکم الله خیرا
تبارک الله فی عمرک
ماشاالله
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I wish I heard this when I was 17...
Me too :)
Me too
Me too. A girl I grew up with started liking me in high school and college. Sadly 4 years later I heard she might be married now. It really hurts even though its been a while since I saw her.
Me too
Don't worry your knew it now
Nice advice..
Allah guide us all..
Mash Sha Allah ..what a beautiful speech it is!!! I just love this...😍
ما شاء اللّٰه...بارك اللّٰه فيكم..! 💞💞💞
Best speaker... i m big fan of urs...
thanks alot mufti sb.
yes when we give our heart to germehrm we get broken ....ya Allah plz forgive me i only want to give my heart to u...i love my Allah❤️❤️😍
Masha Allah, may Allah s.w.t continue to bless u mufti menk, Masha Allah this is a wonderful piece of advice.
May Allah grant you jannah.aameen
Great Word...True Respect!!
Yes
Wow MASHA ALLAH may Allah increase your knowledge
We luv u mufti menk for da shake of Allah swA.,masha Allah tabarakallah.
MashaAllah the message is very clear. I pray that we receive benefits from your speeches.
masyaalllah amazing reminder for me and all the sister. now days this words are easy to say..
Ma Sha Allah...Vry nyć..
A great guidance to my brothers and sisters ... that provide a peacefull life.
May Allah guide us. Ameen.
نفع الله بكم وجزاكم خيرا
Exactly alhumdulilah my thoughts are alike. Subhan Allah
Mufti Menk sir from some previous day's I watch ur few videos and I feel so proud on u .. becoz now a days nobody teaches us like that... thanks a lot sir May Allah bless u
Subhann Allah! these all things really means alot for youths 👍👍
Mashallah jazakallah khair sooo nice information excellent topic 👍
mirza najafali Tamil la soluringala
Thank u sir...and it's true...never donate your heart to someone except Allah ❤️
Give your heart to allah not someone else great message
Masha Allah so true thank you for your advice
Thank you mufti menk for this very beautiful lecture. May Allah s.w.t bless you more and your family member as well. Ameen
Aameen .
SubhanALLAH!!
Marium Mullick nice
Great msg...
Absolutely right
Jazakallah o khair
Masha Allah great 👍 sir. May Allah swt bless you and your family members ameen
This person looks and feel so real , he is very inspiring and also very clear, he never try to impose anything rather he sounds cool. Masha Allah
Best speaker ...great advice
What a message and with beautiful face
When you understand the Qur'an.you noticed changes of your character behaviour and ☮️ peaceful life.
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Yes,i still remember that experience
You always say truth may Allah bless you
May Allah give us the best of this dunya and the best of akhirah.May Allah give us good spouses and good children. May Allah reunite us with our spouses and children in Jannah. Ameen.
JazakaAllah sheikh
MashaAllah . true statement ❤️
Allahu akbar.so true.may Allah forgive our sins.ameen
You are a matured man in the true sense . My best wishes & prayers for you sir . Alhamdulillah 🍁
Great words like always, thanks a lot Mufti Menk ❤
Lot of thanks sir your speech is so good
Great stuff
Jazakallah khair
May Allah bless you
Ma Sha Allah
"MASHA-ALLAH"
Jazakallahu kheir
Ya Allah guide us
I wish I have not given my heart and mind to anyone but it’s really late now
Nothing is impossible for Allah b patient ♥️
Oh Allah bless him !
Oh Allah give long life!
Grt. Sir
So good speech❤
Only Allah Contorl my heart Ameen ❤
Ameen
Ameen
Inspirational talk
Hahah Ma Sha Allah, most accurate statements
Apka sukriya