Unfortunately us Muslim do not follow this advice, we are too caught up in status, caste , complexion etc.....deen is only a minor detail. May Allah protect us. Ameen
In These days in muslim countrys is it often so they look after House, money etc. And what did the other People could say when they dont have money etc. Its sad
Alhamdullillah I have found and married an amazing man who is both devoted to his deen and who has amazing character. I’m so grateful to have you my love 💕
Farida Khan when u will become parent to understand ur children's .. N now at present you understand ur parents ...they never want you to be in trouble. ..
Mufti is absolutely the good preacher he inlighten the young generations. Barakallaho feek Ya akhi. Everytime i have things that i don't understand in my life Mufti is always have fatwa to it and Alhamdulillah.
Unfortunately only the rich can get a wedding now. No one cares for a poor man like me. The priority today is wealth and not religion or character. May Allah make getting married easy for us all. Ameen
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh. I may have a tips that might help you, Inshallah. It is possible today to earn money by internet (dropshipping, online trading, etc.) and many others ways to gain money in real life by trading or selling in your free time, if you can easly speak to people. Maybe you could try, it mays help you. Pray Allah to have wealth, make duas and spend in zakat (as much as you can, zakat is a very good action). I wish my tips may help you. (Sorry if I made mistakes, English isn't my mother tongue).
I am sure you will feel very comfortable with Menk The Dajjaal in Jahannam!!! Read my comments elsewhere on this comment section!!! DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY AND MISLED BY THIS AGENT OF IBLEES AND DAJJAAL!!! PLEASE!!!
ya Allah subhanawatala....i am jusz falling to all ur lectures as soon as i listen to those ....one thing I like about u is u support evryones opinion no matter teens or adults mashallah ♥️
Beautiful advice ! May Allah SWT bless each and every daughter in this world with a loving , respectful caring , responsible , honest , well settled and a pious husband / companion . To make it easy a person who believes in Allah and has a kallb e Saleem a Pious Saleem heart ! .
According to studies, the conclusion is on the contrary. Girl's parents look for wealth, complexion and physical characteristics rather than conduct. And these are the characteristics seeking from a groom especially by the bride's mother. These high expectations and standards are the reasons for the delay of marriages in the contemporary world. Good to hear the hadith but sorry to say this, it seems obsolete in the present in most of the times.
I don't see how that makes the hadith obsolete? It's only said that the Prophet advises people to look for character and piety in spouses as the necessities in a marriage. If people are looking for wealth or other unnecessary qualities for marriage then that's doesn't really make it obsolete. Obviusly the two potential spouses have to like each other before they decide to marry, and in this way physical appearances and personality are important, but this is a different topic abd wasn't the point of your comment so I don't wanna digress.
@@hiphop4eva374 good agree to disagree. Hadith is the truth. And I am not denying Hadith. I am saying people ain't following it in practical life. But in reality it's on the contrary. That's what I mean. Seriously, so according to you physical appearance is very important to you. I pity you as u said that. Seems your world is a perfect world. You don't know middle class and upper middle class people it seems. So according to you, physically challenged person is not eligible to marry? Come to practical life brother. I talking about practicality according to studies conducted.
When you like a person get married if parents disagree but they must agree with their child because they will face problems ⚠️ . I know someone there are facing many problems they are not. happy with each other. May Allah protects Ameen.
Thats the problem, parents does not understand, they think liking someone is bad! Well idk about other people but my parents will never understand this so
Assalamualaikum... Please post videos in urdu, bcoz my parents not understand english... If they listen this in urdu, may be some chances to ease my life... Allah bless u & make everyone life's easy to move in way of deen ameen
Brown parents totally do different what their children want? It's a truth? Their ego is higher than their child happiness... To keep the fake ego of parents children follow them ND as a result they r not able to speak infront of injustice...they r afraid to raise their voice....plzz talk to ur children plz take care of their happiness.. Our Islam is a best religion don't make it complicate with ur ego
I started looking for a husband and actually before even doing it I was making duaa to Allah to bless me with a spouse that is practicing, someone that will love me and respect me. Al hamdoulillah I've met someone that corresponds to what I'm looking for. I have been making istikhara to find out if he's the one or not... My gut is telling me it is, for the first time in my whole life. But Allah knows best.
@@aqqq9053 wa aleykoum assalam wa rahmatu llahi wa barakatuh. it's done BEFORE making a decision brother/sister. You're asking Allah to guide you. What's the point of making a decision before? You don't know what lies ahead of you. Only Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala knows. That's why you're asking Him.
Exactly this's what happened with me. My parents don't want me to married me off to the person whom I chose. The man is close to the Deen and has a good character. But my parents are showing non-shariya reasons for not working on it. I tried to convince them with the words of our Prophet Muhammad (s.) But unfortunately it back leashed. They only follow those part where they're privileged but when it comes to my rights... Oh boy!
I feel you sister🥺❤️ I know it’s hard for you to deal with this but we have to show upmost respect to our parents. Try to convince them with love❤️ In’sha’Allah they will get convinced. And if things don’t work out, just put your trust in Allah. He has the best plan for us all.🤍
@@halimasumayya9890 Aoa. So, I wanted to say that those parents who want to marry off their children should watch this video. So that they don't do wrong.
@@halimasumayya9890 Aoa, So, I wanted to say that those parents who want to marry off their children should watch this video. So that they don't do wrong.
Same situation happened with me...I liked someone he is very good person .very religious and decent.I got engaged with him but it was broken after one week just bcs people who I rejected spread rumours against him.abd rumour was that he is from low caste .i an still in deep depression I wish I could make my parents understand that how Deen allows it.i tried my best but they remained unconvinced.I am very much disheartened from Life now.Plz pray that God guide them.i do not want to go to a wrong path for my desire.plz pray
So true. I remember one of my relative passing negative comments about a particular College ( girls college i was interested to join) . She said it's like this like that, the girls there don't really come to study all are spoilt etc etc...and I did not join it. But one year later that relative got her daughter admitted in the same college. I was so heart broken.😭
May Allah make it easy for Everyone, In today's world getting a good person for marriage is nearly impossible.. May Allah SWT grant all of the Ummah a righteous spouse.. Aa'meen..🍁
Ya Rabb bless me a righteous spouse. Fiddunya Wal Akhirah. Allahumma ameen.
Ameen
Ameen
Sakeenah Hud أمين
Allahumma Ameen
Whats ur age if i may ask?
Aamiin Yarabi
Am getting married soon.. please do all dua for me😇♥️🥰
Alhamdulilah got married. Due to corona cancelled all the honeymoon plans. Mashallah♥️
Aaju Nazeer wish you the best and make it simple brother so you will be happy
Akhi are you married now?
@@ibnrohan7765 he is probably in honeymoon now
Make it simple
(I don't understand brother)
Mubarka
Yaa Rabb please bless me with a pious spouse
Ameen
Lady Amal Ameeeeen :)
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen YaRab 🙏🏽
Ameen
May ALLAH bless me & every girl a righteous husband who will lead us to a righteous path by grace of our The MOST AWESOME MERCIFUL ALLAH''''' 💖 Ameen
Ameen. May Allah grant us ease in our hardships and help us in imaan so we can all hopefully meet in Jannah one day Ameen.💕
@@Fatima.x548 Ameen ✌️ by ALLAH Fazal
suma ameen
Ameen
Ami
Alhamdulilllah u have a unique way of explaining things... Allah may reward you Mufti Menk.
Aamiin
Ameen......
Ameen
Unfortunately us Muslim do not follow this advice, we are too caught up in status, caste , complexion etc.....deen is only a minor detail. May Allah protect us. Ameen
Very true! Most family only cares this 'what others will say'
@@monwarabegum25 same with me .may allah guide our parents . Ameen
Monwara Begum omg Yes this is such a big problem we
Amen
In These days in muslim countrys is it often so they look after House, money etc. And what did the other People could say when they dont have money etc. Its sad
Alhamdullillah I have found and married an amazing man who is both devoted to his deen and who has amazing character. I’m so grateful to have you my love 💕
Assalam alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, why are you publicating this?
may Allah swt grant me spouse..having conduct,character,eeman and qualities similar to nabi mohammed rasool( s.a
w)...😇🙄🙄
Aamiin
Aameen
Ameen sum ameen 🙂
Me too Ameen .
Ameen ya Allah
I can't believe what I hear about me so many time but I smile & forgive..
Very well
This video made me cry😭😭 SubhanaAllah such ppl do exist
👍👍parents should understand dis
Farida Khan when u will become parent to understand ur children's .. N now at present you understand ur parents ...they never want you to be in trouble. ..
But they don't
I wish to see you before i die Mufti Menk😢
khadijah Salisu may you dream come true.
Ibrahim Dauda Ameen ya Allah thanks so much
khadijah Salisu you are welcome sister!
I saw him once Alhamdulilla
May you meet him in dunya and in jannah also.
Mufti is absolutely the good preacher he inlighten the young generations.
Barakallaho feek Ya akhi.
Everytime i have things that i don't understand in my life Mufti is always have fatwa to it and Alhamdulillah.
May Allah forgive all our sins
And blessed with good health
From India ..
Sir when u say Subhan Allah
U look MaShaaAllah ..
@Wasif Sikder .. I know brother.. Main unki izzat bht zyadah karti hoon na ..to tareef kar di .. Woh mere abbu ki trah hain
Really true ....MASHAALLAH
You know something i always think i want a hus as like him
Me to India!
@Wasif Sikder bro positive think. ............
I'm getting married soon plz remember me in your prayers. 😇
May Allah bless you
May Allah bless u r marriage
Allah apku aur apke hone wale partner ku hamesha khush aur sath rakhe ameen ya rabbul alaameen
May Allah bless you sister
May Allah s.w.t Blessed uh with rights Offsprng
Unfortunately only the rich can get a wedding now. No one cares for a poor man like me. The priority today is wealth and not religion or character. May Allah make getting married easy for us all. Ameen
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh. I may have a tips that might help you, Inshallah. It is possible today to earn money by internet (dropshipping, online trading, etc.) and many others ways to gain money in real life by trading or selling in your free time, if you can easly speak to people. Maybe you could try, it mays help you. Pray Allah to have wealth, make duas and spend in zakat (as much as you can, zakat is a very good action). I wish my tips may help you. (Sorry if I made mistakes, English isn't my mother tongue).
@@zawarudo5673 Thank you for the advice. Allah Bless you and your family. And also, English is not my mother tongue either. So no problem :)
@@ultrapowerlevel You’re welcome, I hope you’ll soon get married by Allah’s Mercy, Inshallah. May Allah bless you and your family.
@@zawarudo5673 Pray for me too brother...
Here I don't wanna marry someone but due to my dad I said OK 😔.
May Allah pak save me and give better.. 😔
@@zawarudo5673 Very nice of you. Thank you sir. Insha Allah if in it is good for me. May Allah also make easy for you what you wish for Insha Allah.
Mufti menk takes me close to the Almighty! He speaks brave things and breaks many stupidity other people say about Islam.!!
Seeying mufti is a great blesing Alhamdulillah
Mufti menk... is the only person i feel comfortable listening to whn it comes to the word of ALLAH
I am sure you will feel very comfortable with Menk The Dajjaal in Jahannam!!! Read my comments elsewhere on this comment section!!! DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY AND MISLED BY THIS AGENT OF IBLEES AND DAJJAAL!!! PLEASE!!!
Am a Christian girl
But i love to follow all of your teachings
Hows about your marriage
May Allah SWT give you hidayat ❤ Inshallah
May allah bless me with a good spouse me and my brother and sister in islam
Ameen
Aniso abdilatif Ahmed Ameen
You're my favourite Muslim speaker Masha Allah you got a unique way of convincing and explain things
Jazakallahu khairan for all your good works now may Allah continuously renew your strength. ..Aameen
I got rejected a couple of times. Will keep saying Alhamdullilah even if i die single.
May Allah give our children good and God fearing spouses amiin👍
We love your knowledge and energy and positive advice from Allah. Inshallah please keep us inspired! LOVE from the U.S.A Los Angeles Ca
May allah grant him jannah
ya Allah subhanawatala....i am jusz falling to all ur lectures as soon as i listen to those ....one thing I like about u is u support evryones opinion no matter teens or adults mashallah ♥️
May Allah give us good spouses and children. May Allah reunite us with our spouses and children in Jannah. Ameen
Really enjoying listening ur voice May Allah grant you Jannah.
Unfortunetly nowadays days money makes the world go around and the whole world is suffering because of this.
Jazakillah khair for this beautiful video.May Allah grant us all a pious spouse, which will complete half of our Imaan.
Oh Allah, bless me and every other single girl/widowed woman out there, with spouses who will hold our hands to the best of Jannahs.
May Allah grant me spouse having emaan as Prophet Mohammad saww...
@@BAbdulbasit may Allah fulfill your dream.. Ameen
@@iqrashaikh7150 and your's too. Ameen
Pray for my elder sister.. Ameen
Ameen May Allah guide us to the right path jazkallah kheir sheikh mufti menk may Allah blessed you @
Beautiful advice ! May Allah SWT bless each and every daughter in this world with a loving , respectful caring , responsible , honest , well settled and a pious husband / companion . To make it easy a person who believes in Allah and has a kallb e Saleem a Pious Saleem heart ! .
ameen
Aameen Ya My Rabbi 😍
May Allah bless my daughter with this kind of a person...Aameen... plz make this dua for me.
May ALLAH bless your daughter with the best person for her. Aameen.
According to studies, the conclusion is on the contrary. Girl's parents look for wealth, complexion and physical characteristics rather than conduct. And these are the characteristics seeking from a groom especially by the bride's mother. These high expectations and standards are the reasons for the delay of marriages in the contemporary world.
Good to hear the hadith but sorry to say this, it seems obsolete in the present in most of the times.
Specially when u r the youngest child and an only daughter .
I don't see how that makes the hadith obsolete? It's only said that the Prophet advises people to look for character and piety in spouses as the necessities in a marriage. If people are looking for wealth or other unnecessary qualities for marriage then that's doesn't really make it obsolete.
Obviusly the two potential spouses have to like each other before they decide to marry, and in this way physical appearances and personality are important, but this is a different topic abd wasn't the point of your comment so I don't wanna digress.
@@hiphop4eva374 good agree to disagree. Hadith is the truth. And I am not denying Hadith. I am saying people ain't following it in practical life. But in reality it's on the contrary. That's what I mean. Seriously, so according to you physical appearance is very important to you. I pity you as u said that. Seems your world is a perfect world. You don't know middle class and upper middle class people it seems. So according to you, physically challenged person is not eligible to marry? Come to practical life brother. I talking about practicality according to studies conducted.
Mashallah May Allah guide us on right path...Inshallah
When you like a person get married if parents disagree but they must agree with their child because they will face problems ⚠️ . I know someone there are facing many problems they are not. happy with each other. May Allah protects Ameen.
What if the girl is a teenager..still she can get married 😕
Jzk Allah Khairan to our Ustaz Dr Menk's Ameen
SubhanaAllah! That’s true sheikh 👍
Wish the parents had that level of understanding nature
Ma sha allah.. one of the most favourit person of mine ..❤️
Thats the problem, parents does not understand, they think liking someone is bad! Well idk about other people but my parents will never understand this so
Mine too
I agree with u
Exactly.....
I just found out some people like me in this comment 😪😪
If that ain’t my parents
Bismillah
Alhamdulillah❤
Yes... Mufti..
Accepted
Thank you Mufti and channel
Jazakumullahu khairan
Jazakallahu khairan sheikh May Allah cuntinue to bless you .
But I was rejected by my dearest beloved and her parents due to my poverty. Still remember her. But nothing to do but shed tears.
May Allah make it easy for everyone.. And bless everyone with pious and righteous.. Ameen.. pray for me too🥰
How are u now
MashaAllah...❤
I will keep trying in sha Allah 🥺
I thank Allah for the life which he has given us and I pray to him to help us to find good fearing partners
Assalamualaikum...
Please post videos in urdu, bcoz my parents not understand english... If they listen this in urdu, may be some chances to ease my life...
Allah bless u & make everyone life's easy to move in way of deen ameen
Brown parents totally do different what their children want? It's a truth? Their ego is higher than their child happiness... To keep the fake ego of parents children follow them ND as a result they r not able to speak infront of injustice...they r afraid to raise their voice....plzz talk to ur children plz take care of their happiness.. Our Islam is a best religion don't make it complicate with ur ego
Oh yeah
Jazak Allahu Khairan for this speech.
I always ask Allah for the loyal one ,and he granted me too❤️praying for better future #believe Allah!
Mashallah jazakallah hu khair Allah bless you with success in both the worlds.. ameen
Jazakummullahu bhi khair
Ya Allah please bless me with the right spouse as soon as possible ameen.
You are amazing sir.
I love your speech
I started looking for a husband and actually before even doing it I was making duaa to Allah to bless me with a spouse that is practicing, someone that will love me and respect me.
Al hamdoulillah I've met someone that corresponds to what I'm looking for. I have been making istikhara to find out if he's the one or not... My gut is telling me it is, for the first time in my whole life.
But Allah knows best.
Assalam alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, istikhara is done after having made a decision.
@@aqqq9053 wa aleykoum assalam wa rahmatu llahi wa barakatuh. it's done BEFORE making a decision brother/sister. You're asking Allah to guide you. What's the point of making a decision before? You don't know what lies ahead of you. Only Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala knows. That's why you're asking Him.
@@LLLadySSS Assalamualaikum. How is your condition now? Did you find the one? Sorry if I'm being snoopy. Jazakallahu Khayran.
Masha Allah .May Allah bless All with Goodness and Happiness in this life and the hereafter
Exactly this's what happened with me. My parents don't want me to married me off to the person whom I chose. The man is close to the Deen and has a good character. But my parents are showing non-shariya reasons for not working on it. I tried to convince them with the words of our Prophet Muhammad (s.) But unfortunately it back leashed. They only follow those part where they're privileged but when it comes to my rights... Oh boy!
I feel you sister🥺❤️ I know it’s hard for you to deal with this but we have to show upmost respect to our parents. Try to convince them with love❤️ In’sha’Allah they will get convinced. And if things don’t work out, just put your trust in Allah. He has the best plan for us all.🤍
Masha Allah lovly voice of expresing
Needed this 💙
MashaAllah no ads
May Allah grant a good partner for my sister. Ameen
May Allah protect us
I really love u mufti 2 en extend when I hear you talking or c you I cry like a beating Peason insha Allah
My Favvv Mufti Menk♥️♥️
The Parents who want to marry their children should see this Video
(Who want their children to marry) *
@@halimasumayya9890 Aoa. So, I wanted to say that those parents who want to marry off their children should watch this video. So that they don't do wrong.
@@halimasumayya9890 Aoa, So, I wanted to say that those parents who want to marry off their children should watch this video. So that they don't do wrong.
@@naureen5279 okk sis/bro walaikum Assalam :)
@@halimasumayya9890 wsalam. I am sister.
Mashallah!!
Same situation happened with me...I liked someone he is very good person .very religious and decent.I got engaged with him but it was broken after one week just bcs people who I rejected spread rumours against him.abd rumour was that he is from low caste .i an still in deep depression I wish I could make my parents understand that how Deen allows it.i tried my best but they remained unconvinced.I am very much disheartened from Life now.Plz pray that God guide them.i do not want to go to a wrong path for my desire.plz pray
God bless you
May Allah bless me with a righteous spouse...Ameen..
No words to praise
Ya allah bless me a good spouse who is faithful to me
100 percent correct brother
I want too get married please pray 🙏🙇🙌 for me too get married Aameen
Aameen ya my Rabbi 🌼
So true. I remember one of my relative passing negative comments about a particular College ( girls college i was interested to join) . She said it's like this like that, the girls there don't really come to study all are spoilt etc etc...and I did not join it. But one year later that relative got her daughter admitted in the same college. I was so heart broken.😭
So sad....
I found a perfect sister and we like each other soo much , im arab shes Indonesian but my dad won't let me marry her...please pray for me
ew don't say sister
May Allah swt make a way for you and her and if not then know that Allah knows best.
@@popcornto6032 huh....its alright, but some people will take it in a different way 😬
@@nucleardoom7649 Hahahaha
Brother would you like to share what is going on right now after 3 months I would love to know what happened
MashaAllah nice speech 👍👍
This video is so advisable.
May Allah bless u
Abaraka Sheikh Mufti Menk!
In’Shaa’AAllaah
Allah swt give me a pious n religious spouse - Ameen sum ameen please pray fo me too!
May Allah bless me with a pious spouse.. Ameen
menk saheb thanks
May Allah make it easy for Everyone, In today's world getting a good person for marriage is nearly impossible..
May Allah SWT grant all of the Ummah a righteous spouse.. Aa'meen..🍁
May ALLAH give you everything in this world and hereafter ameen.
Please please make duaa for me and the person I want to marry that we marry soon in peace.
Aameen🌼🌺
@@__shammuzz__3289 May Allah bless you
Great man❤
Ya Allah please bless me ❤
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah.
Please make a video about Milad-kiam.
💯 percent true....
Ayesha Balquees Assalamualikum
Abaraka Baake Sheikh Mufti Menk
00:14 How do we know how close a person to Allah. How are they in one or two meetings and those meetings are also between parents.
Blazing 647 Honestly, you ask them 🤔 I pray and read Quran, and fast. I hate liars and weak personality. Are you like that ? Be direct and honest.
Ask his daily routine a'maal and relationship with masjid.
Bismillah
Yes
It would be an honour..
❤