What Do You Need to Know Before Getting Married? I Islamic Perspective I Shaykha Dr Haifaa Younis

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  • @yul_est
    @yul_est Рік тому +89

    Make sure, the marriage is an act of worship. Keep asking Allah to send you the person that pleases Him ❤

    • @fatumomohamed6141
      @fatumomohamed6141 Рік тому +5

      Ameen

    • @teaforthetiredone5056
      @teaforthetiredone5056 3 місяці тому

      "Oh Allah bestow on us spouses and offspring who will be the coolness of our eyes and make us leaders for the pious. "

  • @aisha26518
    @aisha26518 7 місяців тому +7

    i'm trying to get married from past few years but it's really difficult. but i trust Allah's plan. please pray for me. Allah hears every single dua. may we all get good spouses

  • @inspiringmuslim
    @inspiringmuslim Рік тому +38

    May Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala grant me and all muslim sisters/brothers righteous and loving spouse Ameen

  • @Princeoftale
    @Princeoftale Рік тому +118

    Brothers and sisters make dua for me to find a good woman for marriage

  • @strivingslave5962
    @strivingslave5962 Рік тому +16

    5:06 When it comes to the Deen, don’t compromise. Don’t compromise. It’s a lost transaction.

  • @IslamicMarriageCoach
    @IslamicMarriageCoach Рік тому +3

    Jak sis ❤️ Yes knowing your WHY is so important. When things get difficult, your WHY will push you through!

  • @khalifrashid
    @khalifrashid Рік тому +4

    MashaaAllah! May Allah preserve Sister Haifaa in every goodness. I found this very beneficial, al hamdulillah wa shukrulillah

  • @fjeva1036
    @fjeva1036 Рік тому +5

    Mash Allah, much important speech for all unmarried ❤️

  • @lubnamaitlo9659
    @lubnamaitlo9659 Рік тому +1

    Jazak Allah khairan Dr ,Sahiba

  • @quaraysaahmed4826
    @quaraysaahmed4826 Рік тому +4

    Alhamdulillah very good masha Allah ❤

  • @eshasalim5496
    @eshasalim5496 Рік тому +1

    Jazzaka Allahu Khairan

  • @mimmss6556
    @mimmss6556 Рік тому +17

    Jazakallahu khairan very succinctly put. May Allah grant us righteous husbands and make us righteous ourselves! Aameen ya Rab.

  • @enisa117
    @enisa117 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much!

  • @darwishendalga3529
    @darwishendalga3529 Рік тому +6

    Bârakallâhu fîkum

  • @Bd.user_3255
    @Bd.user_3255 Рік тому +3

    Assalamu'alaikum, thank you for the advice ✔️🌟🌟

  • @mykitty4992
    @mykitty4992 Рік тому +27

    Subhanallah an amazing video..
    Im actually looking to get married , Pls include me in ur duas ..
    May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n someone who will take me to jannah n may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n someone who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah ..
    May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ...
    May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen

    • @Trs0o.
      @Trs0o. Рік тому +3

      Ameen ya rab May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى bless you with a righteous husband who’ll be the coolness to your eyes❤️

    • @mykitty4992
      @mykitty4992 Рік тому +3

      @@Trs0o. Aameen aameen aameen..
      Jazakallah soo much.
      May allah make everything easy for you n bless you in every step of ur lyf aameen

    • @fatumomohamed6141
      @fatumomohamed6141 Рік тому

      Ameen ameeen ameeen ameen ya rab 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

    • @Trs0o.
      @Trs0o. Рік тому +1

      @@mykitty4992 Ameen ❤️ JazakAllah khairan
      Keep me in your duas please

    • @mykitty4992
      @mykitty4992 Рік тому +2

      @AishaKing-md9kl May allah make it easy for you n bless you with a good righteous understanding spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes n will take you to jannah aameen aameen aameen

  • @zarfishantanveer1738
    @zarfishantanveer1738 Рік тому

    Very well said MashAllha....❤️

  • @DemosByDinaOfficial
    @DemosByDinaOfficial Рік тому +1

    Thank you sister❤

  • @ahmadromadhonabdillah6978
    @ahmadromadhonabdillah6978 2 місяці тому

    May Allah always guidance me on my journey to marry.

  • @mumtazvangreunen4696
    @mumtazvangreunen4696 Рік тому +2

    As salaam u alaikum warahmatullahi barakatuhu plz Shekha speak more on the topic of Marriage

  • @HozhinAmir
    @HozhinAmir 6 місяців тому

    Wow it was so good ❤

  • @hanaahanafi532
    @hanaahanafi532 Рік тому

    يا رب خِر لي و اختر لي.
    Oh Allah, make it good for me and choose for me.

  • @worshipthecreator9081
    @worshipthecreator9081 Рік тому +6

    Subhan Allah
    May Allah swt bless the Ummah with righteous praying spouses... Ameen

  • @semsamatanovic5454
    @semsamatanovic5454 Рік тому +1

    ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ESHEDU EN LA IL LAHE IL ALLAHU WE ESHEDU ENE MUHAMMEDEN ABDUHU VERESULLUHU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊

  • @coolyellowtransport5147
    @coolyellowtransport5147 Рік тому

    Top Thnx

  • @khunafina
    @khunafina Рік тому +3

    BarakLlahu fik, dear sister!🌹
    I need books in English about the prophets. could you advise where to get them or could you provide a link, please?

    • @karumrum
      @karumrum Рік тому +3

      A Salaam alaikum Look for a book called stories of the prophets by ibn katheer. It tells the story of each prophet in order. It's a very nice book.

    • @khunafina
      @khunafina Рік тому

      @@karumrum djazakaLlahu hayran!

  • @mh-sif
    @mh-sif 4 місяці тому

    Any full session video for this one? JzK

  • @wahidarahman6278
    @wahidarahman6278 Рік тому +1

    Plz duaa for to find a good man for marriage

  • @malakdadabaeva6404
    @malakdadabaeva6404 Рік тому +1

    My sisters make me dua to get married with who loves me and takes care to seek Allah's love make dua him to spend his maal in the sake of Allah, having children who can serve for Allah's love❤🎉. Many Duas insha'Allah Ameen

  • @noorulhudda722
    @noorulhudda722 Рік тому +2

    Brothers and sisters make prayers for me to find a good man for marriage

  • @schwarzefeen9827
    @schwarzefeen9827 Рік тому +8

    Dear sisters, before you assess your suitors, please assess yourself FIRST! If he is a man of good Deen but you are not a woman of good Deen, it will not work out!
    Know that Allah will judge you on what you've done, not on what your husband has done.
    Allah knows best.

  • @rasheedsaidi10
    @rasheedsaidi10 Рік тому +3

    Brothers and sisters may you please make duwah for me to find a good wife.Insha Allah i will be greatful with your help by making duwah for me. Insha Allah

  • @لاسميحكاية-ج2س
    @لاسميحكاية-ج2س Рік тому +2

    My allah grant us righteous husbands amiiinee

  • @darwishendalga3529
    @darwishendalga3529 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zawadzarif
    @zawadzarif Рік тому

    The level of deen I'm searching for that pleases Allah is very rare to find.
    That's why I'm finding it very difficult to find a religious spouse. I'm getting confused day by day what to do...
    Please pray for me to Allah.

    • @gadoguyo2683
      @gadoguyo2683 11 місяців тому

      Allah will Never let you down... continue asking Him and make sure you are in deen too

  • @queenkhaoula9557
    @queenkhaoula9557 Рік тому

    We won't tradition in Arabic of all your videos. بارك الله فيك

  • @s.h.3622
    @s.h.3622 Рік тому +1

    What to do if you get no marriage proposals, but wish to be married?

    • @Assia131
      @Assia131 11 місяців тому +1

      Do activities you like, attend Islamic lectures, tell genuine friends maybe they know someone pious who wants to get married and don't forget to pray and do istighfar

  • @ShadoOoni
    @ShadoOoni Рік тому

    Kindly, make duaa for me to find a great husban. I am in isrikharah phase with a guy. I feel good about the guy, but he told me I look like his female cousin, who’s more like a sister to him, which may affect how views me or feel attracted to me. I want him.

  • @zeenatkamran
    @zeenatkamran Рік тому +1

    my parents are going to choose my husband, im not really going to have any say in it. and getting to know the guy is way out of question here . i would probably meet him when my nikkah is done. i mean my parents arent going to choose bad for me but i know they would go for the worldy established than the one whom prays. but i really want a pious, good, respectful and the one who keeps ALLAH SWT first... so my question is how do i ? like do i just make dua? since i have no say in anything about my marriage ( coming from a pakistani family) pls give me some advice itd be really appreciated. jzk khair

    • @gadoguyo2683
      @gadoguyo2683 11 місяців тому

      Pray Istikhara sister,,,arranged marriage is not bad too but it's better to see your future husband before

    • @zeenatkamran
      @zeenatkamran 11 місяців тому

      jazakallah for this, but lol looking back at this comment i was so naive, like i trust Allah swt so much that i dont this question of mine is a question anymore subhanallah. plus i do get to know about the guy and see his face lol. but ya i truly believe so much good is written for me inshallah, so this questiion isnt worth it anymore, but thank u for replying back, a true muslim. plus your comment made me come back to it and it made me realize how much i grew...even if it was only 4 months. jazakallah khaiir sis
      @@gadoguyo2683

  • @sayedsalah1143
    @sayedsalah1143 5 місяців тому

    I'm from Egypt 38 years and want to get married from a righteous woman

  • @nabilblack
    @nabilblack Рік тому +2

    You should get married to someone who is compatible with you. Being compatible with your partner makes your marriage last longer. Through this relationship of Husband and Wife, the two must implement the Fard Duty to Allah. Be Dutiful to Allah and to each other. Allah has rights over you, your body has rights over you, your wife and children have rights over you, your neighbor and your guest. A marriage is to be consented by both parties agreeing to it with their own will and proceed to follow the Islamic way of marriage. A forced marriage is not a marriage, that is indeed haram and not advisable. And no marriage doesn't have to be for love. But marriage must be agreed upon both parties.

  • @KandR101
    @KandR101 Рік тому

    I want to for the sake of Allah and all other reason has Islam the centre of it. Then started self development by taking courses, learning about Deen but most of the world does not think in that manner hence, people with such mindset gets the shortest end of the stick.

    • @inspiringmuslim
      @inspiringmuslim Рік тому

      May Allah grant us righteous spouse Ameen
      Remember me in ur duas

  • @Mooooon2011
    @Mooooon2011 Рік тому +2

    Yes you are right doctor, but what if the God did not give the woman capability to have children even if she will get married because of her health so what will be the Allah’s Compensation for this woman?
    And Iam asking Allah to send me the person that pleases me yes
    AL Hamdo Le Allah

    • @nightrider6830
      @nightrider6830 Рік тому

      Polygyny is the answer

    • @Mooooon2011
      @Mooooon2011 Рік тому

      @@nightrider6830 thanks for the answer but I can not not everybody can accept it
      Thanks 🙏

    • @nightrider6830
      @nightrider6830 Рік тому +2

      @@Mooooon2011 Yes I know women don't like to accept that. But you should also keep in mind that everyone wants children. So why would a man stay childless when he can easily marry someone else and have kids 🙂
      May Allah give you patience to overcome this hard test. It's a really big test for women.

    • @theecologist10
      @theecologist10 Рік тому

      Adopt

    • @raeve7468
      @raeve7468 23 дні тому

      regardless of the topic of polygamy, men also can sometimes not have the ability of having children​, just saying because you sounded like this can only happen on women's side @@nightrider6830

  • @ZainJahangir-fq1xg
    @ZainJahangir-fq1xg 11 місяців тому

    I this for boy or girl

  • @RS-rc1gn
    @RS-rc1gn Рік тому

    wat if parents r forcing to get married in any case even u dnt have any sexual desires wat should b done plz ans my question

    • @MECHA-DRAINER
      @MECHA-DRAINER Рік тому

      This is haram for them to force you to marry

  • @AboodiNJA123
    @AboodiNJA123 Рік тому

    What if a female
    Has great manners
    Her deen isn’t that good but she’s open to being better
    What can I do/how can someone help her before marriage or what .

  • @aishahussein2122
    @aishahussein2122 Рік тому

    Ya Allah bless me with Muslim husband.

  • @ShafkatSharif-i7r
    @ShafkatSharif-i7r Рік тому

    Bad audio

  • @Faith-May2005
    @Faith-May2005 Рік тому

    In our days ? None !

    • @user15.27
      @user15.27 Рік тому +1

      Don’t give up in hoping from Allah awj

  • @naoufalch9567
    @naoufalch9567 Рік тому

    Mered his kadam pasha oll sendal.... Oll hear think kudubam risk iklas muhamed rasoullallha

  • @nawiabdullah7437
    @nawiabdullah7437 5 місяців тому

    So pathetic?????

  • @dheadzana
    @dheadzana 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤