Eh it's not necessarily rebellious when you consider how out of shape most Americans are. Being a rebel means going against the grain of society's social expectations. Nobody really expects women to become professional body builders or use steroids. But I do think it's good that she said no, and encouraged other women to say no. And to speak out about how oversexualized the fitness industry is and how it should be focused on promoting health on a deeper level, not just sexuality
@@TopNotch770 even in the plainest terms people believe that you shouldn't use chemicals to alter yourself for non medical reasons and that you should be conscious of what some things do to your health
Former varsity athlete (who is still slim and healthy 10 years later) here! 😊 It's all about eating home-cooked, simple foods, avoiding takeout, and moving around as much as you can throughout the day. For me, this looks like gardening, housework, and going for a 45-minute walk every day on my lunch hour.
Bodybuilding itself is not healthy and probably shouldn't be considered fitness. It's just muscle, muscle, muscle, and sculpting your body. It doesn't even make you stronger. You need strength training to become stronger. Bodybuilders only do hypertrophy and nothing else. It's best to take a holistic or well-rounded approach to fitness. Do some strength, some hypertrophy, do cardio for fat burning and cardiovascular health (and so you wouldn't get tired easily), and do some flexibility. Women do toning as well, which I think is just strength training for women. I think women just need minimal hypertrophy, but I'm open to being corrected on this. Fun fact: women tend to ignore training their pecs just because they have breasts. This is wrong, not just because of muscular imbalance, but also because if they train their pecs, their breasts will be lifted up and look more "full" and perky. It's much better than getting implants. You don't even have to do the barbell bench press to train them. You can do the fly (cable or dumbbell) or the dumbbell bench press.
Please don’t be discouraged about going to the gym and staying truly healthy, everyone. Just don’t get caught up in appearances, instead focus on functional mobility, strength, flexibility and endurance, and staying in a healthy body fat percentage for your body. Do it for you, not for the approval of others.
@@Humble22222yeah you better not abuse others for feeding your ego if you dont want to be beaten hard or shot dead one day ,fair warning,btw im 20 ,and I dont trust people my age
I’m a gym rat and thought about doing amateur body building, but I don’t want to be almost naked in order to win. I take my boyfriend’s wishes into account and I know he wouldn’t like that. I’m already naturally a little muscular but I favor more of a Wonder Woman feminine look. Not a borderline masculine physique where the only way you can tell I’m a chick is if you see my face
There’s different categories of competitions. Bikini, physique, fitness… And those are all still pretty feminine categories. They may look ripped on competition day, but only because they are tanned, oiled, and followed a very strict diet and water intake plan designed to make their muscles pop on competition day. It’s really not healthy at all.
Boyfriend aside because I really am not supportive at all of women not doing things because of some boyfriend who can dump her tomorrow, it's not a good idea to do because steroids and things that aren't healthy.
You Mrs Williams looks like an actress from the 50's :) My husband to be and i love watching your videos. I wish you and your husband a long and happy life together . Diana from Italy
It's awesome to see that more women are waking up to the lies of the fitness and modelling industries, and staying true to themselves. Keep doing what is best for your health, Estee. It pleases God when we take care of our bodies in a healthy way. Body health and spiritual health! 💪🏻🙏🏻
And yet doing the same thing on a different avenue, let's not pretend she's doing something different... She worked for a body and now she's flaunting it for views on TikTok instead, it's the same shit. 90% of the people that watch her clips watch them because she's hot and has huge tits, not because of whatever life she's pretending to live.
Honestly curious. Not judging, you look great. But if you're concerned with showing too much of your body, why do you wear such low cut dresses and not modest clothing?
And according to a previous video, she got implants at 18 behind her parents' backs. In this video she said she would need implants to compete as a bodybuilder, at 19. This isn't adding up.
@@wanderervii she says that most sponsors want the woman to get breast implants. She got her earlier because she wanted to look more beautiful but really she never needed to do it in the first place.
As a woman interested in traditional living. I'm also curious as to why Estee wears low cut dresses. You can't always cover everything up as a lot of dresses don't go up to your neck. Do traditional wives as a rule have to hide everything? Aren't the dresses Estee wears the same as the 40s, 50s or 60s?
What amazes me about you is that you are so young and yet see through all the BS that society feeds us. I really admire that. I wish that I had been more like you rather than walking in the same path so many years your senior.
You have CLASS, My dear. You are simply a gorgeous woman with very admirable qualities. I would like my 2 beautiful daughters to emulate your wonderful qualities and high standards. Again, you have CLASS.
Modeling is always hypersexualized. Good to see there's still some women out there who realize this and choose not to feed into it. Some people act like modesty is old fashioned or something to be ashamed of and promote the opposite. It's such a shame. Good for you for staying true to yourself! You're setting a positive example and showing that women are more than their exterior appearance. You keep doing you and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You look great anyway. To hell with the haters.
well body building IS about body so I don't think it's wrong to show as much body as possible. This is also true for men's body building competition competition where they're on display with the smallest underwear possible. showing off your body doesn't necessarily mean you're invalidating everything else about you. Personally I don't see it being wrong in body building. I think it's more of a problem in sports like volleyball where they should be given better uniforms although I don't like that they don't discourage things like plastic surgery, breast implants, etc just like steroids should be discouraged in men's body building. Those things should be frowned upon
I currently workout at home, for modesty and to save money, I personally dont want to get big either. I do mostly cardio and a little weightlifting to stay slim and trim. I dont want to look like a man! I just want to enhance my feminine figure as well. ❤
You won’t get big from weightlifting unless you are literally taking testosterone. Most female bodybuilders are on gear. I suggest the UA-cam channel Natural Life with many historical examples of what natural female bodybuilders look like, they still look very feminine and proportionate.
@@cecilyerker thanks! It's honestly so hard to tell what is real or fake anymore, almost every industry anymore survives on lies. There are some that claim not to be taking T, but they look like men so it's hard to believe their claims. Edit: I'm also naturally short and stocky so I was worried about looking more manly than I already do 😂.
I workout at home too and I probably always will bc it's free, it's more comfortable, and I don't like being stared at me it makes me feel weird. I'm not saying every guy in the gym would look at me but if I even feel like I'm being watched in that way it would make me wanna leave. Everything is so sexualized these days that you can't even just be a girl in the gym working out without it being a hassle.
@@brianawhittaker8152 I agree with everything you just said. BUT 95% of women wear tight pants and bend over in front of guys with their boobs hanging out. I respect you for having personal morals for yourself but women are just as bad as men at the gym. They want attention. I'm glad there's women like you who don't do what society wants them to do and just be yourself instead
@@cecilyerker This "big vs small" thing is very relative, specially in women. While men dream about being as big as possible most women want to be smaller or maintain size, thus, that 1 inch plus in some parts may be an undesirable outcome. For ex, I have big arms already due to fat (and doesn't work losing weight, already been 15% bf and they were still bigger then the rest.) so gaining just a little muscle there would look huge.
Good for you. I'm glad you a better path for you. Being a traditional women today is the new "punk rock". It is often frowned upon which is a real sad testament to our times. I'm glad you light a path for other women and young adults.
estee, i appreciate you bringing up that so many things are sexualized these days... i hope you don't mine me bringing that back around to point out that maybe you want to keep that in check even now. as a traditional mother and wife i feel disapointed that your videos show cleavage and focus on your breasts. you wont be attracting people here for the right reasons... and i see you have a good following of men on here. just something to consider out of respect for fellow traditional wives, traditional men (married and unmarried), and most of all, for you and your husband. modesty is a beautiful, traditional virtue!
Thank you for sharing little sis. You can encourage many other women who don't understand that you become sexualized and you start looking like a man with the extreme weightlifting. Thank you for pointing out the inappropriate clothing. Women wearing undergarments (yoga pants, shorts, spandex) to the gym and outside the home. Many women don't even realize they are being sexualized for fashion. Yoga pants and shorts not to mention the bathing suits, for the sake of being fit in front of others. It's none of others business what your nakedness looks like but your husband and if you are a man your wife. Society has gone so far for attention in self obsession and hedonism. We pray that women wake up and stop falling into the trap that satan has set up in these sexualized clothing and activities. God bless you.
Good for you! I was in the fitness industry for awhile, and I also left because it doesn't promote real fitness... and guess what, I left to be a stay home Dad.
I also have left the whole "be as fit as possible, and be that 5:30 am green smoothie yoga girlie" life. I've struggled with an ED for a long time, i was a chubby kid, looking back i just hit puberty at 10 and had the body of a woman whole i was surrounded by my 80lb prepubescent friends, but i felt so huge. I lost a lot of weight rapidly and everyone was a lot nicer to me, and i struggled with not eating or bulimia for a long time, until i got pregnant with my son. I gained weight while pregnant (obviously) and my husband kept telling me how ive never been prettier, how it's so nice to just eat dessert with me, i was snacking for sure haha. After having the baby, I couldn't lose the last few lbs in a healthy way, but i think thats because when i was that skinny before i never ate and worked out a lot (i dont know how i had the energy). I still struggle with "diet brain" sometimes,and I'm ngl if i could lose 10lbs rn i totally would. But i dont make myself throw up anymore, when i workout it's because i want to be active to be able to keep up with our rambunctious toddler, i like how i look (kind of), I'm at a healthy weight now, I'm a stay at home mom so all our meals are homemade, but it's still kind of hard because i grew up with either "be as skinny as possible" or "get a bbl and plastic surgery" people around me/on social media. I'm just trying to love myself as God made me without trying to lose/gain weight to fit the expectations of women's bodies depending on how they feel that day
This was interesting Estee. I knew nothing about the body building industry, and from your story, I wouldn’t have wanted anything to do with it either.
Only thing better than a tradwife is a SWOLE tradwife. Cooking up HIGH PROTEIN meals, lifting the couch to clean under it... Seriously, though, part of me wishes you'd come away feeling more positive about bodybuilding and fitness, but I respect your decision. Do what's best for you and never compromise.
Agreed, there are countless benefits to lifting weights, just dress modestly at the gym and you're good. I will admit I do focus on glutes a lot but only because it enhances the feminine figure 😅
There is truly nothing terrible about having a lot of naturally built lean muscle. It will serve you well into your older years. Take it from me. I am 46 years old this year and happy for all the years I was an athlete. I do not look my age or feel my age. Think about it now while you are young. You do not have to do it for the gram or fitness modeling or competing. Just do it for you and your family. Longevity not aesthetics. That's what it is all about.
Dear Estee, I love the bubbly way you told your story. Imagine! "Tinkerbell-Estee" lifting tons of weight!! You are the lovely Tinkerbell of the traditional wife trend!! Have a wonderfully weekend! Sincerely... 💕💕💕
Happy to see you in my feed. I would love to hear some longer form content from you like your journey into femininity and how it has benefitted your marriage. Were you always a feminine wife or is that something you learned from marriage? Or whatever you want to talk about. I could hear you talk all day. Or not... you do you. I really enjoy your content and I'd just love to get to know you more. God bless!
I coached female bodybuilders and fitness contestants. NONE of them were pressured to get implants and yes some of them either won or placed in competitions. BTW the men's contests have speedos that are barely there as well, so it's NOT that it's "sexualized", it's that they want as much of the BODY that is being built, exposed to be able to judge for the contest. It's not for everybody. I did myself for sports goals, not to compete in contests.
To be fair most sports have an extreme and unhealthy end to them. Bodybuilders do ridiculous cutting/bulking, get implants and take steroids, fighters risk things like concussions and also do extreme cuts, and powerlifters often eat WAY too much. I competed in the 60kg and was one of the two smallest lifters there despite that being a pretty healthy muscular weight for my height. You kind of have to decide if the sport is worth the risks involved. I have no chest so I compensate in glutes and shoulders, plus strong glutes are just necessary for good overall health.
What does that have to do with fitness? What does showing your cleavage and telling stories for online validation have to do with being a modest "trade wife"? You haven't changed you just shifted audiences. Do your lifestyle without the public eye. This is just a continuation of the life you left you're just aiming at a different crowd. The makeup, the cleavage revealing, the promenading around on camera. Its not for your husband. This shit never ceases to amaze me and the dumbed down masses praising it ice the cake. Its for attention, the bad and the good, and its what narcissists crave.
I agree with some of what you say here but I do enjoy weight lifting for myself because it makes me feel strong and capable and helps me stay healthy. I do also do Cardio and workout classes. Like you said in another video I only go to the gym with my husband unless in a female centric class. I don’t think weight lifting makes you look manly, for me it’s helping tone my feminine body after giving birth to 3 kids. Be blessed and keep telling the truth! 💜
I love working out, I love mountain climbing, rappelling, etc. But my work outs or specifically designed for women. I used to be a competitive cheerleader and my shoulders tend to bulk up easily so I basically do the equivalent to physical therapy w shoulder work outs lol. I have an aunt that was a body builder for years! She’s lives distantly from me so I’ve only met her a few times but she and I have exchanged letters throughout life. Fortunately, she is very feminine and not into the sponsoring part, just the competitive part. Day to day, you would see her and NEVER know. She dresses modestly but I’ve seen her comp photos 🤩
What a sexist and disgusting thing to say. Women academically outperform men and are naturally higher in emotionally intelligence according to scientific studies. Maybe stop being prejudice and stereotyping people based on how they look.
I've been lifting seriously for close to 20 years, and the gym atmosphere has changed drastically in that period of time. Hardly anyone works out for themselves anymore.. it's all for attention.. "for the 'gram", so to speak. I've also noticed the percentage of females in the gym go from absolute 0 to around 20-30%.. While it's great to see women be interested in fitness, I wish it were for the right reasons, but sadly I know that most of them (and men included) would not be there if their pics and videos weren't being posted online for the attention of others.
Honestly thank you so much for being honest about your experience. I’ve been lifting for a while and I also have been experiencing the persistent sluggishness you’ve brought up and I thought that was just my “laziness” smh it turns out yeah maybe my body and my brain actually are trying to let me know it’s just not for me
Good for you that didn't fail deeper into the fitness trap just feeding the narcissistic side of it. You look beautiful regardless. I also was succumb in the fitness trend but was absorbing my whole time making everything else less important until i also realized and lowered my fitness goals now working out unfrequently with the HIT system getting good results
I loooove your videos and shorts, you are just so amazing in every way and hopefully you can reach out to more women, empowering them, because people need to understand that this is what a woman empowerment actually looks like, especially when it comes from a woman and seeing that recently woman empowerment is actually totally opposite from what it should be, I highly doubt that behind all that is a woman........ All I can say is God bless you and those around you, you are a real gem and keep doing what gems do best: shine, spreading beauty to everyone around and hopefully if their hearts are still human hearts, your rarety and softness will touch theirs.... . Much respect and appreciation to you, combination of beauty and brains, a true queen..... 👸🏼
“Just not for me”, wow, how much I miss hearing that. Not all sports are good, not all bad, but ‘not just for me’ is such a pleasant way to put it. My best to you young lady.
Thank you! loved hearing that. I'm glad you stayed off the roids and hopefully stay away from injuries. As a teenager I got addicted to lifting it took a long time to get off that addiction
Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. Also that is a really really cute dress. I think you and I have similar tastes in dresses because you wear some really cute ones that I could totally see being in my wardrobe.
I am a fitness professional and I completely agree with you. I had many clients over the years and I always warned my female clients about this persona. I inspired them to understand the health benefits of being in check but warned them about what they might face from an outside perspective. I've always been big into modesty while maintaining Scriptural standards, and I held that every single day in the gyms. I'm glad you saw through the exploitation of the fitness industry.
Ok as an x body builder the food,diet n dishes were THE HARDEST part,im glad you figured out the REAL fitness industry,ether way you look great,and your dedication and focus is spot on,cheers!
I love your videos, I’m new to embracing my feminine energy especially when it comes to dressing! I was always in yoga pants and guess what I attracted low quality men. Can you tell me where you get your dresses?
Wow!! 😳🙃 I am so happy for you 🙏🏻🌠 You made the right choice for sure. You are absolutely adorable and seem most importantly very loving, intelligent and so kind.💜
I've seen a few of your videos and I really respect your honesty and the message you're trying to put out to the world. Keep doing you and ignore the naysayers.
I'm glad you did not continue down that rabbit hole. You really have a lot of self respect. Thank you for sharing your experience and for so eloquently giving us the positives and negatives of the fitness industry.
I really love your path... I wish and pray you prove the haters wrong and keep it up. You are a healer of the mother earth and people like you should be protected by all means necessary! So I send through protection for you and your fam and future "5" children 😂.
I'm sorry but the nudity in bodybuilding doesn't have a sexual element to it, you are misrepresenting things. It's a necessity in order to see how much bodybuilding was done, and the men barely wear anything either. I'm sure there's people who get off on that and sexualize it, but that's not what it's (supposed to be) about. I can understand it makes you uncomfortable though, no judgment there. The implant thing is a different issue. I didn't know women were pressured into those but I have heard many choose to because they lose most of the fat tissue in their breasts ... you know because bodybuilding is as much about low fat percentage as it is about muscles. Which is really unhealthy, and a difficulty balancing act. Nobody can be shredded all year round, so participants are constantly jojoing their diet, which is also unhealthy. More so for women then for men. Even if you did feel comfortable with the things you mentioned that would be a perfect reason to het away from it sooner rather then later.
That's fine by me. I was a whole lot wilder in the '70s than I am today. I was a successful salesman. I quit. I left the company, flew to the deep South Pacific, married the daughter of an island chief, then offered his daughter in exchange for me presiding as high chief. It was fun for awhile, but I quit that, too. Mrs. Williams is smart enough not to continue in that particular modeling industry and to stop living for the moment. People change. At least it's a change for the better, at least from my anti-Weimar Republic perspective. Tolofa Lava und Salud!
It takes a lot of strength in todays society, as a very beautiful woman just as yourself to stop and say “this isn’t right…this isn’t the way to live my life.” It takes a mass amount of self respect. I must admit that I did not always have that “self respect/love” but I’m finding it and was fortunate enough to find an amazing man after I stopped feeding into society and how it represents women.
A real Lady. You ma'am are a very rare individual and should take great pride in who you are. As a man I can tell you that some if us are still Gentleman looking for a Lady.
Almost every industry is now sexualized. And some how they see it as empowerment.
I'm really proud of you for the choice you made❤️
Thank you I really appreciate that!
For real, how is revealing every inch of ur body empowering? With some of these outfits I would feel pretty much naked 🙄
@@scrabalites based and wholeheartedly agree
even lego
I agree 100% It’s sad to see how the world is becoming stuff like this
Who would've thought that being rebellious in the 2020s would mean NOT butchering your body and/or injecting it with drugs.
Eh it's not necessarily rebellious when you consider how out of shape most Americans are. Being a rebel means going against the grain of society's social expectations.
Nobody really expects women to become professional body builders or use steroids.
But I do think it's good that she said no, and encouraged other women to say no.
And to speak out about how oversexualized the fitness industry is and how it should be focused on promoting health on a deeper level, not just sexuality
It doesn't a lot people are against it or think that people shouldn't have or need to
@@sugarzblossom8168 I was being intentionally hyperbolic.
@@TopNotch770 even in the plainest terms people believe that you shouldn't use chemicals to alter yourself for non medical reasons and that you should be conscious of what some things do to your health
@@sugarzblossom8168 - I really think Brandon already knows all this stuff. He was exaggerating for humour’s sake.
I would love to hear more how you maintain healthy weight and energy without major body building.
no secret lol beside eating healthy and moving a bit everyday
Former varsity athlete (who is still slim and healthy 10 years later) here! 😊
It's all about eating home-cooked, simple foods, avoiding takeout, and moving around as much as you can throughout the day. For me, this looks like gardening, housework, and going for a 45-minute walk every day on my lunch hour.
She's young. Far easier to get results than if she were twice her age. Still stunning though!!
Bodybuilding itself is not healthy and probably shouldn't be considered fitness. It's just muscle, muscle, muscle, and sculpting your body. It doesn't even make you stronger.
You need strength training to become stronger. Bodybuilders only do hypertrophy and nothing else.
It's best to take a holistic or well-rounded approach to fitness. Do some strength, some hypertrophy, do cardio for fat burning and cardiovascular health (and so you wouldn't get tired easily), and do some flexibility.
Women do toning as well, which I think is just strength training for women.
I think women just need minimal hypertrophy, but I'm open to being corrected on this.
Fun fact: women tend to ignore training their pecs just because they have breasts. This is wrong, not just because of muscular imbalance, but also because if they train their pecs, their breasts will be lifted up and look more "full" and perky. It's much better than getting implants.
You don't even have to do the barbell bench press to train them. You can do the fly (cable or dumbbell) or the dumbbell bench press.
I also wanna know where she gets her clothes! I love them! 🥺
Please don’t be discouraged about going to the gym and staying truly healthy, everyone. Just don’t get caught up in appearances, instead focus on functional mobility, strength, flexibility and endurance, and staying in a healthy body fat percentage for your body. Do it for you, not for the approval of others.
This!!!!
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No the gym is for rich spoiled people. Blue collar work is all you need.
This is something I wish I would’ve learned younger I’m 23 and the ego is hell of a drug.
@@Humble22222yeah you better not abuse others for feeding your ego if you dont want to be beaten hard or shot dead one day ,fair warning,btw im 20 ,and I dont trust people my age
I appreciate how kindly you talked about this. Not putting down or shaming anyone else. It’s refreshing.
It's really refreshing.
she is pretty isn't she, gorgeous looking girl
I’m a gym rat and thought about doing amateur body building, but I don’t want to be almost naked in order to win. I take my boyfriend’s wishes into account and I know he wouldn’t like that. I’m already naturally a little muscular but I favor more of a Wonder Woman feminine look. Not a borderline masculine physique where the only way you can tell I’m a chick is if you see my face
My boss here in Washington state is a ipbaahg champion. Yes, when I saw her in competition, i couldn't unsee her again. Crazy.
You won’t achieve that appearance without steroids anyway
There’s different categories of competitions. Bikini, physique, fitness… And those are all still pretty feminine categories. They may look ripped on competition day, but only because they are tanned, oiled, and followed a very strict diet and water intake plan designed to make their muscles pop on competition day. It’s really not healthy at all.
They should be ashamed of themselves
Boyfriend aside because I really am not supportive at all of women not doing things because of some boyfriend who can dump her tomorrow, it's not a good idea to do because steroids and things that aren't healthy.
You Mrs Williams looks like an actress from the 50's :) My husband to be and i love watching your videos. I wish you and your husband a long and happy life together . Diana from Italy
aww thank you so much ❤ I wish you and your soon to be husband the best🥰 thank you for the support and kindness ☺️
It's awesome to see that more women are waking up to the lies of the fitness and modelling industries, and staying true to themselves. Keep doing what is best for your health, Estee. It pleases God when we take care of our bodies in a healthy way. Body health and spiritual health! 💪🏻🙏🏻
And yet doing the same thing on a different avenue, let's not pretend she's doing something different... She worked for a body and now she's flaunting it for views on TikTok instead, it's the same shit. 90% of the people that watch her clips watch them because she's hot and has huge tits, not because of whatever life she's pretending to live.
Dear Sister you looks so beautiful. I pray for your happiness.
Honestly curious. Not judging, you look great. But if you're concerned with showing too much of your body, why do you wear such low cut dresses and not modest clothing?
she is only cosplaying a conservative woman for the social media loot
thats a good question
And according to a previous video, she got implants at 18 behind her parents' backs. In this video she said she would need implants to compete as a bodybuilder, at 19. This isn't adding up.
@@wanderervii she says that most sponsors want the woman to get breast implants. She got her earlier because she wanted to look more beautiful but really she never needed to do it in the first place.
As a woman interested in traditional living. I'm also curious as to why Estee wears low cut dresses. You can't always cover everything up as a lot of dresses don't go up to your neck. Do traditional wives as a rule have to hide everything? Aren't the dresses Estee wears the same as the 40s, 50s or 60s?
What amazes me about you is that you are so young and yet see through all the BS that society feeds us. I really admire that. I wish that I had been more like you rather than walking in the same path so many years your senior.
You look so much healthier now, and most importantly, you're happier! All the best
You have CLASS, My dear. You are simply a gorgeous woman with very admirable qualities.
I would like my 2 beautiful daughters to emulate your wonderful qualities and high standards.
Again, you have CLASS.
Everytime I see her she reminds me of a better time in humanity. I can't tell you how inspirational you are. 🙏🇺🇲
Modeling is always hypersexualized. Good to see there's still some women out there who realize this and choose not to feed into it. Some people act like modesty is old fashioned or something to be ashamed of and promote the opposite. It's such a shame. Good for you for staying true to yourself! You're setting a positive example and showing that women are more than their exterior appearance. You keep doing you and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You look great anyway. To hell with the haters.
well body building IS about body so I don't think it's wrong to show as much body as possible. This is also true for men's body building competition competition where they're on display with the smallest underwear possible. showing off your body doesn't necessarily mean you're invalidating everything else about you. Personally I don't see it being wrong in body building. I think it's more of a problem in sports like volleyball where they should be given better uniforms
although I don't like that they don't discourage things like plastic surgery, breast implants, etc just like steroids should be discouraged in men's body building. Those things should be frowned upon
@@AyushGupta-wn6zd good point. I also 2nd your statement about volleyball--especially beach volleyball.
I currently workout at home, for modesty and to save money, I personally dont want to get big either. I do mostly cardio and a little weightlifting to stay slim and trim. I dont want to look like a man! I just want to enhance my feminine figure as well. ❤
You won’t get big from weightlifting unless you are literally taking testosterone. Most female bodybuilders are on gear. I suggest the UA-cam channel Natural Life with many historical examples of what natural female bodybuilders look like, they still look very feminine and proportionate.
@@cecilyerker thanks! It's honestly so hard to tell what is real or fake anymore, almost every industry anymore survives on lies. There are some that claim not to be taking T, but they look like men so it's hard to believe their claims. Edit: I'm also naturally short and stocky so I was worried about looking more manly than I already do 😂.
I workout at home too and I probably always will bc it's free, it's more comfortable, and I don't like being stared at me it makes me feel weird. I'm not saying every guy in the gym would look at me but if I even feel like I'm being watched in that way it would make me wanna leave. Everything is so sexualized these days that you can't even just be a girl in the gym working out without it being a hassle.
@@brianawhittaker8152 I agree with everything you just said. BUT 95% of women wear tight pants and bend over in front of guys with their boobs hanging out. I respect you for having personal morals for yourself but women are just as bad as men at the gym. They want attention. I'm glad there's women like you who don't do what society wants them to do and just be yourself instead
@@cecilyerker This "big vs small" thing is very relative, specially in women. While men dream about being as big as possible most women want to be smaller or maintain size, thus, that 1 inch plus in some parts may be an undesirable outcome. For ex, I have big arms already due to fat (and doesn't work losing weight, already been 15% bf and they were still bigger then the rest.) so gaining just a little muscle there would look huge.
It all shows you have strength of character and personal integrity. Rare these days!
You've learned so much in a short period of time! You are so young but wise.
Good for you. I'm glad you a better path for you. Being a traditional women today is the new "punk rock". It is often frowned upon which is a real sad testament to our times. I'm glad you light a path for other women and young adults.
estee, i appreciate you bringing up that so many things are sexualized these days... i hope you don't mine me bringing that back around to point out that maybe you want to keep that in check even now. as a traditional mother and wife i feel disapointed that your videos show cleavage and focus on your breasts. you wont be attracting people here for the right reasons... and i see you have a good following of men on here. just something to consider out of respect for fellow traditional wives, traditional men (married and unmarried), and most of all, for you and your husband. modesty is a beautiful, traditional virtue!
Thank you for sharing a tiny bit of your life with us. Keep it up, Estee.
U made the wise decision .. u r a role model for the current generation
Outstanding! Thanks for sharing your life. Peace to you and yours.
Thank you for sharing, Estee! I never knew that stuff about bodybuilding before.
Thank you for sharing little sis. You can encourage many other women who don't understand that you become sexualized and you start looking like a man with the extreme weightlifting. Thank you for pointing out the inappropriate clothing. Women wearing undergarments (yoga pants, shorts, spandex) to the gym and outside the home. Many women don't even realize they are being sexualized for fashion. Yoga pants and shorts not to mention the bathing suits, for the sake of being fit in front of others. It's none of others business what your nakedness looks like but your husband and if you are a man your wife. Society has gone so far for attention in self obsession and hedonism. We pray that women wake up and stop falling into the trap that satan has set up in these sexualized clothing and activities. God bless you.
You don't start looking like a man with heavy lifting unless you are taking something
Good for you! I was in the fitness industry for awhile, and I also left because it doesn't promote real fitness... and guess what, I left to be a stay home Dad.
Thank you for sharing my sister! Just goes to show you're human like everyone else we can improve ourselves if we wanted to!
You go lady. Being talked into things at a young age is difficult to break away from, but you did.
Thank you for sharing! I think you made the right decision.
Seems like every industry is now overly sexualized. Even the trad industry, judging by this video.
I also have left the whole "be as fit as possible, and be that 5:30 am green smoothie yoga girlie" life. I've struggled with an ED for a long time, i was a chubby kid, looking back i just hit puberty at 10 and had the body of a woman whole i was surrounded by my 80lb prepubescent friends, but i felt so huge. I lost a lot of weight rapidly and everyone was a lot nicer to me, and i struggled with not eating or bulimia for a long time, until i got pregnant with my son. I gained weight while pregnant (obviously) and my husband kept telling me how ive never been prettier, how it's so nice to just eat dessert with me, i was snacking for sure haha. After having the baby, I couldn't lose the last few lbs in a healthy way, but i think thats because when i was that skinny before i never ate and worked out a lot (i dont know how i had the energy). I still struggle with "diet brain" sometimes,and I'm ngl if i could lose 10lbs rn i totally would. But i dont make myself throw up anymore, when i workout it's because i want to be active to be able to keep up with our rambunctious toddler, i like how i look (kind of), I'm at a healthy weight now, I'm a stay at home mom so all our meals are homemade, but it's still kind of hard because i grew up with either "be as skinny as possible" or "get a bbl and plastic surgery" people around me/on social media. I'm just trying to love myself as God made me without trying to lose/gain weight to fit the expectations of women's bodies depending on how they feel that day
God bless you Estee. You have so much decency and common sense. 🩷
This was interesting Estee. I knew nothing about the body building industry, and from your story, I wouldn’t have wanted anything to do with it either.
Only thing better than a tradwife is a SWOLE tradwife. Cooking up HIGH PROTEIN meals, lifting the couch to clean under it...
Seriously, though, part of me wishes you'd come away feeling more positive about bodybuilding and fitness, but I respect your decision. Do what's best for you and never compromise.
Agreed, there are countless benefits to lifting weights, just dress modestly at the gym and you're good. I will admit I do focus on glutes a lot but only because it enhances the feminine figure 😅
Good job! Conviction and modesty for the win!
There is truly nothing terrible about having a lot of naturally built lean muscle. It will serve you well into your older years. Take it from me. I am 46 years old this year and happy for all the years I was an athlete. I do not look my age or feel my age. Think about it now while you are young. You do not have to do it for the gram or fitness modeling or competing. Just do it for you and your family. Longevity not aesthetics. That's what it is all about.
I’m so glad to hear that you found something that works for you
Dear Estee, I love the bubbly way you told your story.
Imagine! "Tinkerbell-Estee" lifting tons of weight!!
You are the lovely Tinkerbell of the traditional wife trend!!
Have a wonderfully weekend!
Sincerely... 💕💕💕
Happy to see you in my feed. I would love to hear some longer form content from you like your journey into femininity and how it has benefitted your marriage. Were you always a feminine wife or is that something you learned from marriage? Or whatever you want to talk about. I could hear you talk all day.
Or not... you do you. I really enjoy your content and I'd just love to get to know you more.
God bless!
I coached female bodybuilders and fitness contestants. NONE of them were pressured to get implants and yes some of them either won or placed in competitions. BTW the men's contests have speedos that are barely there as well, so it's NOT that it's "sexualized", it's that they want as much of the BODY that is being built, exposed to be able to judge for the contest.
It's not for everybody. I did myself for sports goals, not to compete in contests.
To be fair most sports have an extreme and unhealthy end to them. Bodybuilders do ridiculous cutting/bulking, get implants and take steroids, fighters risk things like concussions and also do extreme cuts, and powerlifters often eat WAY too much. I competed in the 60kg and was one of the two smallest lifters there despite that being a pretty healthy muscular weight for my height. You kind of have to decide if the sport is worth the risks involved.
I have no chest so I compensate in glutes and shoulders, plus strong glutes are just necessary for good overall health.
What does that have to do with fitness? What does showing your cleavage and telling stories for online validation have to do with being a modest "trade wife"? You haven't changed you just shifted audiences. Do your lifestyle without the public eye. This is just a continuation of the life you left you're just aiming at a different crowd. The makeup, the cleavage revealing, the promenading around on camera. Its not for your husband. This shit never ceases to amaze me and the dumbed down masses praising it ice the cake. Its for attention, the bad and the good, and its what narcissists crave.
You're brilliant, Estee; glad to have stumbled into a couple of your vids. Soldier on, sane, calm woman...
Ms Williams thank you for being a down to earth girl and sharing indispensable information. You're truly an admirable person for your story. ❤❤❤
Estee, I adore you. Thank You for being so respectful of the choices of others and so proud of your own path! ❤
You are stunning. Love the 40s/50s vibe. Glad you listened to your body and dedided what was best for you overall.
I agree with some of what you say here but I do enjoy weight lifting for myself because it makes me feel strong and capable and helps me stay healthy. I do also do Cardio and workout classes. Like you said in another video I only go to the gym with my husband unless in a female centric class. I don’t think weight lifting makes you look manly, for me it’s helping tone my feminine body after giving birth to 3 kids. Be blessed and keep telling the truth! 💜
I love working out, I love mountain climbing, rappelling, etc. But my work outs or specifically designed for women. I used to be a competitive cheerleader and my shoulders tend to bulk up easily so I basically do the equivalent to physical therapy w shoulder work outs lol.
I have an aunt that was a body builder for years! She’s lives distantly from me so I’ve only met her a few times but she and I have exchanged letters throughout life.
Fortunately, she is very feminine and not into the sponsoring part, just the competitive part. Day to day, you would see her and NEVER know. She dresses modestly but I’ve seen her comp photos 🤩
A pretty woman with brains, what??????? What a role model for our young women. Love your channel and God bless you and your family.
What a sexist and disgusting thing to say. Women academically outperform men and are naturally higher in emotionally intelligence according to scientific studies. Maybe stop being prejudice and stereotyping people based on how they look.
You always look so nice in your dresses. Where do you buy them?
Splendid. On many levels.
I really like your traditional style. Reminds me of the 1940’s look.
I've been lifting seriously for close to 20 years, and the gym atmosphere has changed drastically in that period of time. Hardly anyone works out for themselves anymore.. it's all for attention.. "for the 'gram", so to speak. I've also noticed the percentage of females in the gym go from absolute 0 to around 20-30%.. While it's great to see women be interested in fitness, I wish it were for the right reasons, but sadly I know that most of them (and men included) would not be there if their pics and videos weren't being posted online for the attention of others.
Thank you. This is great content for young impressionable women.
Honestly thank you so much for being honest about your experience. I’ve been lifting for a while and I also have been experiencing the persistent sluggishness you’ve brought up and I thought that was just my “laziness” smh it turns out yeah maybe my body and my brain actually are trying to let me know it’s just not for me
I would never have thought you were a bodybuilders.😮
Good on you girl!! You have principles and you're strong minded... don't change !
Hello from South Alabama here in America. Love and light to all ❤.
Your voice is perfect for ASMR. Greetings from Argentina. ❤️🇦🇷
Total RESPECT.
Good for you that didn't fail deeper into the fitness trap just feeding the narcissistic side of it. You look beautiful regardless. I also was succumb in the fitness trend but was absorbing my whole time making everything else less important until i also realized and lowered my fitness goals now working out unfrequently with the HIT system getting good results
I loooove your videos and shorts, you are just so amazing in every way and hopefully you can reach out to more women, empowering them, because people need to understand that this is what a woman empowerment actually looks like, especially when it comes from a woman and seeing that recently woman empowerment is actually totally opposite from what it should be, I highly doubt that behind all that is a woman........ All I can say is God bless you and those around you, you are a real gem and keep doing what gems do best: shine, spreading beauty to everyone around and hopefully if their hearts are still human hearts, your rarety
and softness will touch theirs.... . Much respect and appreciation to you, combination of beauty and brains, a true queen..... 👸🏼
THank you God for protecting her. ❤ You're doing the right thing Estee.
Protect this woman AT ALL COST
“Just not for me”, wow, how much I miss hearing that.
Not all sports are good, not all bad, but ‘not just for me’ is such a pleasant way to put it.
My best to you young lady.
Thank you! loved hearing that. I'm glad you stayed off the roids and hopefully stay away from injuries.
As a teenager I got addicted to lifting it took a long time to get off that addiction
Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. Also that is a really really cute dress. I think you and I have similar tastes in dresses because you wear some really cute ones that I could totally see being in my wardrobe.
Thank God, you respect yourself and i respect you so much for it. Keep sticking to your principles!
I am a fitness professional and I completely agree with you. I had many clients over the years and I always warned my female clients about this persona. I inspired them to understand the health benefits of being in check but warned them about what they might face from an outside perspective. I've always been big into modesty while maintaining Scriptural standards, and I held that every single day in the gyms. I'm glad you saw through the exploitation of the fitness industry.
Ok as an x body builder the food,diet n dishes were THE HARDEST part,im glad you figured out the REAL fitness industry,ether way you look great,and your dedication and focus is spot on,cheers!
Good for you...way to go!
Glad you got out of this toxic part of the industry! Also your story times overall are so interesting and helpful!
I love your videos, I’m new to embracing my feminine energy especially when it comes to dressing! I was always in yoga pants and guess what I attracted low quality men. Can you tell me where you get your dresses?
Wow thank you for sharing! 🙏
Your just great, it's nice to see some hope through all the idiots in the world, God bless
Wow!! 😳🙃 I am so happy for you 🙏🏻🌠 You made the right choice for sure. You are absolutely adorable and seem most importantly very loving, intelligent and so kind.💜
I am impressed with your integrity of not doing what you didn’t believe in! Always an honorable trait
Respect for speaking the truth about this industry - keep up the good content! 💪
I've seen a few of your videos and I really respect your honesty and the message you're trying to put out to the world. Keep doing you and ignore the naysayers.
I can’t stress how gorgeous she is!!
Good for you! Always go with what your conscience and soul tells you! I'm glad you chose to leave it.
Thank you for speaking about this.
Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏾
“I was lifting heavy and felt awful” I’d wear that on a shirt to the gym
Such an amazing story baby ❤️ you did amazing!
Facts! I got into the Pro Wrestling industry at 17 and it was the exact same.
Thank you as a man for not letting the world make you do evil things
I'm glad you did not continue down that rabbit hole. You really have a lot of self respect. Thank you for sharing your experience and for so eloquently giving us the positives and negatives of the fitness industry.
Your just freaking adorable! Love ya vids! ;)😊
This is the best channel I have ever seen in my life
I really love your path... I wish and pray you prove the haters wrong and keep it up. You are a healer of the mother earth and people like you should be protected by all means necessary! So I send through protection for you and your fam and future "5" children 😂.
a You had a great Physique You had glues like a half blood Brazilian
You' have has a crazy genetics man.❤
I'm sorry but the nudity in bodybuilding doesn't have a sexual element to it, you are misrepresenting things. It's a necessity in order to see how much bodybuilding was done, and the men barely wear anything either. I'm sure there's people who get off on that and sexualize it, but that's not what it's (supposed to be) about. I can understand it makes you uncomfortable though, no judgment there.
The implant thing is a different issue. I didn't know women were pressured into those but I have heard many choose to because they lose most of the fat tissue in their breasts ... you know because bodybuilding is as much about low fat percentage as it is about muscles.
Which is really unhealthy, and a difficulty balancing act. Nobody can be shredded all year round, so participants are constantly jojoing their diet, which is also unhealthy. More so for women then for men. Even if you did feel comfortable with the things you mentioned that would be a perfect reason to het away from it sooner rather then later.
u see guys, based off of those pictures, she wasnt always trad, but quite the opposite.
She's still not trad. She's showing her cleavage
That's fine by me. I was a whole lot wilder in the '70s than I am today. I was a successful salesman. I quit. I left the company, flew to the deep South Pacific, married the daughter of an island chief, then offered his daughter in exchange for me presiding as high chief. It was fun for awhile, but I quit that, too. Mrs. Williams is smart enough not to continue in that particular modeling industry and to stop living for the moment. People change. At least it's a change for the better, at least from my anti-Weimar Republic perspective. Tolofa Lava und Salud!
I was so I see the fake through her
You are sensible and very attractive ❤️🔥
Ma'am, you are a class act. We need more TRAD wives like you. Keep doing your thing.
Seems like one of the most sincere and gentle people on this website
It takes a lot of strength in todays society, as a very beautiful woman just as yourself to stop and say “this isn’t right…this isn’t the way to live my life.” It takes a mass amount of self respect. I must admit that I did not always have that “self respect/love” but I’m finding it and was fortunate enough to find an amazing man after I stopped feeding into society and how it represents women.
Interesting story. I'm glad you found your way of life in your femininity. Also, cute dress! It suits you!
Girl is glowing
A real Lady. You ma'am are a very rare individual and should take great pride in who you are. As a man I can tell you that some if us are still Gentleman looking for a Lady.