Actually my wife just underwent breast surgery 10 days ago to remove her implants that she got done around 7ish years ago. We had to pay for a breast lift as well because the weight of the implants would have left her disappointed with the results of just removing the implants alone, and even with the current stitching and swelling she is so happy with how they turned out. She got the implants when we were not really following the Lord and since then she has felt like her implants were a remnant of her old life, so she wanted to get them out to close that chapter and start fresh. She would definitely recommend the procedure to anyone who has had implants. 😊
I’m not religious, but I appreciate modesty and healthy bodies! I’m glad you guys found a path that works best for you. Wishing your wife quick healing.
@@archivez101How do you know when she got the implants? Even if they were married it was ultimately her decision. Don’t talk about someone’s life that you know nothing about.
I appreciate your openness about having breast implants. So many women lie about having breast implants and make other women wonder why they don’t look like that, mad respect for not trying to deceive people into thinking that your body is naturally like that. I definitely would watch a video where you talk more in depth about it as I am curious about your breast implant illness experience is.
Imagine having real large breast and people accusing you of them being fake because they think J cups are freakisly large and you can be skinny and curvy at the same time. I wish her breast were real and there are woman who do have her weight or are skinnier and have larger breasts naturally. But I respect she's willing to admit that they arent real
@@EsteeWilliams Could you please make a video about this and your experience? I reckon it could help.I know I could really use it. At the last minute, i walked out of my breast surgery before they cut me open. Something inside of me was telling me it wasn't right
Thank you for the transparency, Estee. I won't lie, when I initially found your channel, I found myself a little envious of your chest area. I have a smaller chest and thought you looked so beautiful and feminine. Luckily I have ruled out augmentation for two reasons - I trust that God has made my body perfectly and I had a close friend go through BII and I promised her I would never get an augmentation. I pray you will make the right decision for you and your family and find good health.
My compliments to You Loving Yourself as God made You A real man loves his woman as she is created or made Likewise she should love him for as he is Aside from either one neglecting themselves as slobs Blessings to You on Your Journey thru Life
You are naturally beautiful. Most guys are going to tell you, or at least think secretly that you " leave those implants in!" I am a guy and I am a traditionalist. I love what you represent. The lack of it is what's wrong with America today. Respect, morality, and structure begin at home! Take them out! Do everything you can to live a long, full life! We need you to help influence wives and mothers for generations!❤
I agree Brad. I do think that most guys over 25 do actually prefer or at least appreciate a non-augmented woman. Being in my 50’s, I also appreciate when a woman ages gracefully instead of resorting to injections, etc. in an effort to look younger. I think naturally aging women look classier than those that fight it in unnatural ways.
I have breast implants since my 21 birthday, it literally changed me as a woman lol (no regret) , I am now 28 and i ve never had any problem (thanks God) but sometimes I wish I went smaller . I am now re thinking to get them replaced by a smaller size..
You're so right. Short story on breast implants, my mom got them in the 80's and one burst leading to her developing fibromyalgia in her thirties. You are beautiful just the way God made you.❤️ ❤❤
It's so nice to see women admitting the consequences of implants, most people are trying to normalise them now. Also, with your hair, you might want to try treating your hair as if its curly and see where thay gets you. "frizzy" and "dry" are common descriptions of curly hair thats treated like straight hair. It could take a few years for the curls to fully come to their full potential especially if you use heat on your hair regularly. Love your videos🤍🤍
right! Even I had this so called dry and frizzy hair and hated it but then i realized that i was just treating my curls wrong! I would have so much hairfall at that time and my hair would be so dry but then I changed my routine and products and now my hair has the natural curls and I love them! :)
Some people don’t admit consequences though because perhaps they haven’t had any , going 5.5 years with them and I feel no change , everyones body reacts differently. I still think it was the best gift to myself no regrets and noooo I didn’t do it for a man I just wanted to be able to fit in a bra and be comfortable
Oil your air with coconut oil once a week or so or use rice water! It works well for all hair types (I’ve heard) and is really popular for hair care in Asia.
@@GummyIsNotArtsy may I ask how you treat your hair?? ❤ I have wavy thick hair and it’s awful every time I brush it after. Looks like a broom. XD Any products you recommend? Thank you so much ❤
@@ChristinaLoveletting exactly what used to happen with me. I'll just state the things I do. There are a lot of curly hair care tips all over youtube you can watch them. I use products from a brand called Curl Up. I use their shampoo, conditioner and curl cream. And I comb my hair with my fingers or use a wide toothed comb when I am shampooing to detangle. I never comb my hair apart from then bc if I do as you stated it'll turn into a broom lol. This works out for me and has reduced my hairfall a lot but ofc the same may not be for you so you can always experiment around and see different reviews! I hope it helped!! :)
I want a story time about the breast implants! Also, 100% agree with you on ditching the low-fat, diet foods. I did the same, and the more real, whole foods I swap back into my diet, the better I feel and look! Love your channel!❤
Sugar free foods are just as processed as regular food. The truth is we add sugar to most of our food because most of it is processed. So sugar free foods are no different, aside from the fact that they offer you an escape from the typical overindulging Americans have with sugary foods. It's meant to taste like food while being healthier. It's not healthier because it's less processed. It's healthier because too much sugar is really bad for the body and most food has too much sugar. She said she went back to maple syrup. Maple syrup is really processed already. She failed a diet that she had after her body was already used to excess sugar. That's on her, but she's blaming the diet and food. She is inherently wrong. It's not the food, it's the consumer. Also, she was already overweight before the fad diet. The reason people tend to crutch on fad diets is because they are uninformed and can't create their own diet plans. She hadn't the knowledge she needed then about sugar and she obviously doesn't now. Also no traditional wife had breast implants. Not to take an extreme objection to her claims but She is a walking hypocrite with alot of her statements. That being said I respect her choices. But she's spreading misinformation. She should be stating opinions for what they are and not pretending they are fact
Sugar free foods typically use artificial sweeteners, which is worse than sugar. I used to get horrible headaches and had stomach issues. Gave up all artificial sweeteners and those issues were gone as soon as all that junk was out of my system.
Thank you so much for sharing, I never would’ve guessed you went through all that. Especially getting implants. God made us beautiful the way He intended. May He bless you and keep you. Thanks again! You’re truly an inspiration 😊
Thank you so much for your sweet reply ❤ yes definitely a big mistake I made and I’m trying to be more authentic online with my mistakes to help other ladies. I appreciate your kindness and agree with everything you said ❤
Yes, a story on breast implants would be helpful. So many women get them, & shouldn't, if they make you sick. Women can be beautiful naturally. Thanks!
Life is a learning journey, indeed! I also fell into the almond milk trend and even gave it to my kids. Then I found out about raw grass fed milk. I get it from farmer’s markets and “secret” places along with raw butter, cheese, kefir, etc. The way God intended us to consume it. It’s hard to find, but totally worth it! You are doing great! Keep it up sister. 💪🏼
@@EsteeWilliams it’s wonderful! And keep creating content, Estee! Your positive message is life-giving and encouraging more people than you can imagine to get back to valuing the family. Trad wives are going to save society ❤️
I grew up with our own fresh milk, butter, and eggs. But it was not so rare in those days here. Heartbreaking that our society has become slaves to processed crap. It's also sad that if you gave most people 50 years old or younger the means to have the good stuff, they wouldn't have a clue, the desire, or the physical get up and go to do it.
Thank you for putting some realism into your video! You're using your platform for good when you do so :) I would be interested in hearing more about what health issues came up, and how you managed to deal with them. Topics that show we are all human are much more interesting to me, rather than leaning far right, or far left, which just upsets everyone!
You are courageous, authentic, beautiful, kind, trustworthy. We need more people like you. Please ignore the hate. Continue to shine. Continue to be awesome
Its not just that youre physically VERY attractive but your mental maturity to admit your mistakes AND to have learned and changed from them, ALL of that makes you phenomenally beautiful!
You are beautiful inside and out. Outer beauty doesnt mean a damn thing if you're ugly on the inside. You've mastered the Marilyn Monroe look really well. 😊
You are a sweetie. I am a 57 (on Saturday) year old woman that is independent and single and feel like i grew up a generation late. I would have loved being a traditional wife like my Mom. Fyi, they are 62 years married this September and are still the best of friends. Such an inspiration. Keep up the great work darlin. ❤️❤️❤️
A very beautiful, powerful message for the young women living in this day and age.I hope they learn from your wisdom, which you've learned by experience.
I had implants for 12yrs. I was barely an A cup and went to a full B just to feel more comfortable in my skin. After being Saved at age 41, I felt convicted to remove them. What an amzingly beautiful journey it has been to embrace my body the way the Lord intended it to be. He is also taking my husband and I on a journey regarding biblical roles. He is restoring our marriage in ways I never thought was possible. Sooooooo much healing in being obedient toward His perfect design. I pray that you are able to remain focused on Him as you continue on this platform. I pray for the courage to take the steps with regards to your own body and what He is calling you to do. It may be difficult on a physical and emotional level, but the spiritual healing that is offered is beyond imagination. Grace upon Grace. May the Lord bless you and keeo you.🙏
@@Youwish34 Do you mean the implants? I got implants after I got married. My husband was supportive when I got them and also when I removed them. Praise God.🙌
A story how having morals, & respecting your self, & respecting your husband. I think that would be good for these younger generations to hear from you. Thank you for all you do ma’am.
Excellent episode. I, too, fell into the no fat, no calorie, not real bandwagon in the 80's and 90's. Then I learned the truth. That way of eating leads to medical problems, acne, and an all over weaker physical system. Today my refrigerator holds full fat milk and yogurt, free range eggs, olive oil, fresh veggies, etc. Real is "real" good for the human body! I would love to hear your story of breast augmentation. It could be a enlightening account for many of us in your audience. I love your channel. I look forward to your next episode. And, yes, you are beautiful inside and out! 🤗🌹🤗
I came across one of your videos a couple days a ago and I’m 19 turning 20.I’m praying to have a family and be a housewife. you have inspired me.God bless you ,your husband and your future family of your own❤️
Awesome goals for a young lady. None of my business, but I hope you can find a good husband and get your family started. Please do not fall for the trap of the feminist telling you it’s your right to sleep around with every guy, whether you care for him or not. Each person you sleep with decreases your chance of permanently bonding with your spouse, just a little. Higher hookup numbers, less chance of a happy marriage. Women who are virgins at the altar report their marriage as happy, 85% of the time. Hookup culture women don’t. So sorry for getting into your business, but, as a happily married man for 53 years now, both of us virgins at the altar, I offer my advice. You didn’t ask for it, nor did you pay anything for it, so my advice might be ‘worth what you pay for it’. A toast, “May you find happiness, with a good man, and may you have many children.”
As of seeing this video, there are about 20 comments and so I read them all. I can't add anything to what peoples comments have already said and am glad to see that all of them are supportive and positive to you. We all have problems to overcome, we all have wishes to look better than God made us ............ well, sometimes we do it to ourselves, by improper diet, and habits that we need to change. You're a beautiful young lady and I wish you the very best.
It's so interesting how this beautiful, gorgeous, like for real gorgeous woman , could have been insecure. But I am glad you are learning and growing . And confident. Cuz you are so gorgeous
I love how you are willing to be vulnerable and share what you’ve learned from your mistakes. I love vintage/ ultra feminine fashion, I’m a homemaker and mom of 2, a Christian, and I use to lift weights (got really into it for a while. I feel like I have a lot in common with you and really enjoy watching your videos.
I would love a story time video about your experiences with implants. I always wanted implants when I was younger but (thankfully!) never was able to afford them. Over the past few years I’ve heard more and more women experiencing long term health issues because of their implants…. and I think every video out there could potentially be the one that could change a young woman’s mind before undergoing that procedure.
@@QuinquetPourpre It certainly doesn't look as good as naturals ones that have a good size and shape, but, in the eyes of people, fake is infinity better then naturally big saggy ones or small. Naturals with ideal size/shape are extremely rare, that's why fake is still prefered.
Thank you for sharing that you have implants. That makes me feel much better about my body as a woman. I hope you embrace the choice that will make you the healthiest (:
Thank you for the honesty and courage to share! Its so necessary. A woman's body is beautiful just the way God created it. While our breasts are a part of our sexuality, their primary purpose is to feed our young. I think young women get too preoccupied with their maidenhood when our ultimate role is that of motherhood.
My hair has always been mousy brown and I have always hated it. My parents and Brother both had beautiful deep brown/black hair and I had this horrible mousy brown. I started dying my hair beautiful black when I was in my 20s and within two years, my head would react so poorly to the dye that I would break out in sores and blisters all over my scalp and it was SO ITCHY!!! And of course, my hair was burnt and crispy from the damage. I had to give up the dye completely. Now I'm in my 40s and I'm so excited that my hair is starting to turn GREY! I can't wait for a beautiful head of glittery silver hair!
Interesting, in my country it's considered one of the three basic hair colors. Many if not most women have it and nobody cares. The English name for it is just weird.
The most powerful thing in this world is honesty and when you are honest with not only yourself but with the whole world, you become whole. You beauty comes first from your soul, and being that you also have natural beauty, you are most beautiful.
Thank you for being upright and honest. Young women needs to hear this. I made sure and continue to reinforce how naturally beautiful my daughter is. It was God's intention to make a man attracted to natural beauty.
This video made you so relatable, I think you are absolutely gorgeous! I would love to see a video about your experience with implants. It’s an important message to share.
thank you for being so vulnerable with us! i'd love to hear more about your experience with implants. i've been learning a lot about how damaging they are to overall health, curious to know your experience! thanks for being you xoxo 🖤
@@HerMajesty1Making such a massive change to your body literally as soon as you legally can does not speak of a healthy mindset. It would be very interesting to see what changed her and made her the woman she is today.
I have written my story in bits and pieces for 23 years, now, om email lists, then messageboards, and current YT channels. No one is really interested in true stories. If you are, great for you! Many people validate what they want to hear--- and ignore the rest. Short attention spans. "Higher truths are never taught; higher truth is revealed." cc
Ugh I feel all of this. Seriously. I regret my implants too. I also happened to lose all sensitivity with mine as an added side effect. If I could go back I would have just left myself alone!!
Girl, your channel is so nice and God is using your wisdom to help me realize who I am in Him. Just this past week I was feeling it on my heart that I don't need to replace my implants at the ten year mark coming up soon but rather just have them removed. I also have had an unhealthy routine with my hair and have recently felt the need to start caring for it properly. Just wanted you to know you are so appreciated and your videos always seem to come at the perfect time regarding what God is working on in my life. 💗
Aw I’m so different from you (gay, divorced, single mom) but I do like to see women living their most authentic and joyful lives and I truly appreciate that you fearlessly represent who you are and where you stand.
Great insight & information! Thanks - so much - for sharing.🌹 I love your natural hair ! The style, color & length is lovely and perfectly in line with your personal retro style 🤗
What a wise, honest, and very beautiful! young woman. I hope you stay like this your whole life (even beautiful, because age doesn't take beauty away, it transforms it).
I have a recommendation. If your nipples have not been damaged, don't do anything to your breasts until after you have your children if you want to breastfeed. If you take out the implants and need a lift because of the stretched skin, they will move your nipples and you may not produce milk. After nursing you may need a lift because honestly, pregnancy changes your breasts. All from experience here. Never had implants but did have a lift and reduction after my first two children and I produced so much milk with them that I gave half to the milk bank for sick babies. My 3rd surprise baby was after the reduction, and I really stuggled with production and had to supplement.
Don't try to go through pregnancy and breast feeding with implants. I did that and it is a huge regret, so much damage was done to my breasts. Better to explant without a lift before children.... then after children revisit the idea of a lift.
Please take care of your health! My sister got implants too. Story time please! Also, having kids definitely changes your body 😅, especially the top half.
That's very true! I used to be a B cup before my 1st baby, just had my 6th baby and now they are DDD'S lol my hubby doesn't mind lol but ya it def changes!!😂
I became deathly Ill after I got married. It was a really long battle. I had different views of my body, my looks, sex... everything. I was so sick for so long and couldn't hardly eat anything I lost 70lbs rapidly and didn't look like the same person and it hurt to be touched. My husband stood by me thru it, loving me and patience for us both. We grew to love my new body and be comfortable again. We learned a deeper love for one another beyond our flesh. We loved each other even in the vulnerability and nakedness of a failing body. I'm doing better and had 4 good yrs since my last surgery. I don't worry for uncomfortable surgeries because I know I'm loved no matter what happens and even as I age or have health issues it's OK. He likes me aging with him and im slowed down enough now that i dont walk in front of him anymore. He's 12 yrs my senior. I don't feel guilty anymore for my body changing or my physical shortcomings.
I have never ever commented on anything but I think it's Important to say what's truly on your heart. I think you are a wonderful inspiration and influence on our society. I believe that you truly have a gift from God to reach young girls. To show them the truth about how beautiful and happy a life can be when you embrace true womanhood and true femininity. In service of your husband and children. To be the pillar of strength, goodness and truth for them and everyone around you. May God smile down apon you and shower your family with love and good fortune. I love you friend.❤
I have been considering breast implants and I never heard about long term complications, I've heard that they could break open and leak or pop?i think that's rare tho. I've never heard about someone having issues over years. a Video on that subject would be very informative. I'm scared now!
never do it, you're fine the way nature created you. I hate the ''implants" trend. It is always such a let down when I hear of someone who got them bc they're so bad for you.
The body doesn’t like having bags of saline or silicone forced in it. It sees them as a foreign invader, because it is. It can cause massive autoimmune disorder and a host of other illnesses. You should never sacrifice your health for vanity. God made you beautiful just as you are!
I just looked it up and i can't believe I've never heard about this! Does the doctor atleast explain this risk during consultation? This seems like a big deal
this video was short and sweet which I appreciated. Girl, you are so beautiful in body and mind. love when you say "have grace." you are so right about the dieting tip. just eat real food!
Yes to absolutely all of this! The one thing I will add is that some people do have to drink alternative types of milk because real milk hurts more (I recently found out that I’m one of them 😅) I try to stick to unsweetened almond milk though, and I personally don’t mind the more watery texture
The majority of humans shouldn't consume dairy products past the age of 3. It's more of a tradition, but northern Europeans and a few other small groups around the world have a low risk of sensitivity through adaptation. Most people do have minor to serious sensitivity.
When my son was a baby, he was lactose intolerant. When he was 20, he wanted to try raw cow’s milk as he heard it was healthy. He’s been drinking raw cow’s milk and raw goat milk since then. No problems and his skin has cleared up totally. We buy it at a reputable local Farmers Market.
Well, I might add that regular homogenized milk smashes the fat molecules into the milk so that some can't tolerate, but then I've heard that too much milk when older isn't good either, so we used unsweetened coconut milk for our smoothies, oatmeal and even gravies.
Anyone who has surgery has likelihood of complications afterwards honestly. I've had 2 c-sections to birth my children and have to have another one this August to give birth to my next baby and I still have tons of pain because of the incisions before, I cannot lift as heavy things as I used to, and I cannot do big stretches otherwise it stretches it out too. I also started having gastrointestinal issues and developed a hiatal hernia after having my second baby. I was in bed and losing weight so much that I lost all my pregnancy weight and more within a month of having my second daughter and she was born 11 months after my first. So I had 2 pregnancies worth of baby weight on me and I lost it within 1 month barely because I was so sick all the time after my c-sections and developing that hernia. I have to take Proton Pump Inhibitors to settle the acids in my stomach and eat a similar diet to elderly people. I'm only 27.
Refreshing to hear someone own past mistakes and consider change! Thank ya sister! The only people who’ll be mad about augmentation removal are creeps and animals anyway. It’ll made dressing modestly easier too! ❤
Would love to hear more about the implants. My mother in law has breast implants and makes fun of my natural breast so I would love to learn more how you prefer your natural breasts to implants. I personally love my natural breasts.
Can't agree more with @villapulla she's definitely projecting her insecurities. Next time she says something, tell her how you're happy with your body and pity her insecurities
Love this. If you haven’t, yes we would love to hear about your experience. I honestly work . I have moved to switched to part time since I now have three littles and have been looking for a positive view on keeping house . I was taught to not like it and dread it. I appreciate that you frame all of this as a choice, first and foremost. I appreciate your comments about budgeting and adjusting lifestyle and looking for a certain partner over a rich man. I don’t like that in the past people attempted to politicize you and don’t let you speak in interviews. Please stay true to you.
You must’ve had a good surgeon because I legit thought they were real. You’re incredible not just because because you have them but you just do as well.
Hey Estee, good morning, could you make a video on how you quit your career (what you were studying, how you realize it wasn't for you) and on how you met your husband and how you knew he was the one? Thank you
You are boldly honest and your truth need to be heard.. Thank you. You are an inspiration. Disregard haters to independent thinking instead of the culture uniform..
Actually my wife just underwent breast surgery 10 days ago to remove her implants that she got done around 7ish years ago. We had to pay for a breast lift as well because the weight of the implants would have left her disappointed with the results of just removing the implants alone, and even with the current stitching and swelling she is so happy with how they turned out. She got the implants when we were not really following the Lord and since then she has felt like her implants were a remnant of her old life, so she wanted to get them out to close that chapter and start fresh. She would definitely recommend the procedure to anyone who has had implants. 😊
Praise God!
I’m not religious, but I appreciate modesty and healthy bodies! I’m glad you guys found a path that works best for you. Wishing your wife quick healing.
Kinda sad that you didn’t love your wife enough or encourage her to self love so that she didn’t need to get the implants in the first place.
@@archivez101How do you know when she got the implants? Even if they were married it was ultimately her decision. Don’t talk about someone’s life that you know nothing about.
@@archivez101 oh please the only sad thing here, is your comment 🙄
I appreciate your openness about having breast implants. So many women lie about having breast implants and make other women wonder why they don’t look like that, mad respect for not trying to deceive people into thinking that your body is naturally like that. I definitely would watch a video where you talk more in depth about it as I am curious about your breast implant illness experience is.
My brothers ex gf obviously had implants but made up a fake story about why she had the scars.
@@SalivatingSteve that's funny what a liar will do. Think they're fooling people but really look a fool. You lose respect for them
Imagine having real large breast and people accusing you of them being fake because they think J cups are freakisly large and you can be skinny and curvy at the same time. I wish her breast were real and there are woman who do have her weight or are skinnier and have larger breasts naturally. But I respect she's willing to admit that they arent real
@FelizNavidad well most of the time you can tell.
@@MarieGattuso-gv4zk Most people are too stupid to tell the difference between real and fake these days
Thank you for being so transparent! Girls need to know the downsides of getting breast implants. You are beautiful!
Thank you for your kindness! I agree it definitely needs to be spoken about so women can make more educated decisions ❤
@@EsteeWilliams Could you please make a video about this and your experience? I reckon it could help.I know I could really use it. At the last minute, i walked out of my breast surgery before they cut me open. Something inside of me was telling me it wasn't right
Thank you for the transparency, Estee. I won't lie, when I initially found your channel, I found myself a little envious of your chest area. I have a smaller chest and thought you looked so beautiful and feminine. Luckily I have ruled out augmentation for two reasons - I trust that God has made my body perfectly and I had a close friend go through BII and I promised her I would never get an augmentation. I pray you will make the right decision for you and your family and find good health.
Can I ask what BII is? :)
@@sssophie9292Breast Implant Illness 😔
My compliments to You
Loving Yourself as God made You
A real man loves his woman as she is created or made
Likewise she should love him for as he is
Aside from either one neglecting themselves as slobs
Blessings to You on Your Journey thru Life
You are naturally beautiful. Most guys are going to tell you, or at least think secretly that you " leave those implants in!" I am a guy and I am a traditionalist. I love what you represent. The lack of it is what's wrong with America today. Respect, morality, and structure begin at home! Take them out! Do everything you can to live a long, full life! We need you to help influence wives and mothers for generations!❤
I agree Brad. I do think that most guys over 25 do actually prefer or at least appreciate a non-augmented woman. Being in my 50’s, I also appreciate when a woman ages gracefully instead of resorting to injections, etc. in an effort to look younger. I think naturally aging women look classier than those that fight it in unnatural ways.
@@thecadman68Absolutely, 100%!
I have breast implants since my 21 birthday, it literally changed me as a woman lol (no regret) , I am now 28 and i ve never had any problem (thanks God) but sometimes I wish I went smaller . I am now re thinking to get them replaced by a smaller size..
Listen to Black Sabbath.
Darn tootin! She is my fave influencer as a young woman and fiancee!
You're so right. Short story on breast implants, my mom got them in the 80's and one burst leading to her developing fibromyalgia in her thirties. You are beautiful just the way God made you.❤️ ❤❤
God intends for every woman and trad wife to listen to Black Sabbath and SLAYER.
@@bazzturd9414 slayer sucks though.
@@bazzturd9414 crazy train would be ok for her.
It's so nice to see women admitting the consequences of implants, most people are trying to normalise them now. Also, with your hair, you might want to try treating your hair as if its curly and see where thay gets you. "frizzy" and "dry" are common descriptions of curly hair thats treated like straight hair. It could take a few years for the curls to fully come to their full potential especially if you use heat on your hair regularly.
Love your videos🤍🤍
right! Even I had this so called dry and frizzy hair and hated it but then i realized that i was just treating my curls wrong! I would have so much hairfall at that time and my hair would be so dry but then I changed my routine and products and now my hair has the natural curls and I love them! :)
Some people don’t admit consequences though because perhaps they haven’t had any , going 5.5 years with them and I feel no change , everyones body reacts differently. I still think it was the best gift to myself no regrets and noooo I didn’t do it for a man I just wanted to be able to fit in a bra and be comfortable
Oil your air with coconut oil once a week or so or use rice water! It works well for all hair types (I’ve heard) and is really popular for hair care in Asia.
@@GummyIsNotArtsy may I ask how you treat your hair?? ❤ I have wavy thick hair and it’s awful every time I brush it after. Looks like a broom. XD
Any products you recommend? Thank you so much ❤
@@ChristinaLoveletting exactly what used to happen with me. I'll just state the things I do. There are a lot of curly hair care tips all over youtube you can watch them.
I use products from a brand called Curl Up. I use their shampoo, conditioner and curl cream. And I comb my hair with my fingers or use a wide toothed comb when I am shampooing to detangle. I never comb my hair apart from then bc if I do as you stated it'll turn into a broom lol.
This works out for me and has reduced my hairfall a lot but ofc the same may not be for you so you can always experiment around and see different reviews! I hope it helped!! :)
I want a story time about the breast implants! Also, 100% agree with you on ditching the low-fat, diet foods. I did the same, and the more real, whole foods I swap back into my diet, the better I feel and look! Love your channel!❤
Sugar free foods are just as processed as regular food. The truth is we add sugar to most of our food because most of it is processed. So sugar free foods are no different, aside from the fact that they offer you an escape from the typical overindulging Americans have with sugary foods. It's meant to taste like food while being healthier. It's not healthier because it's less processed. It's healthier because too much sugar is really bad for the body and most food has too much sugar. She said she went back to maple syrup. Maple syrup is really processed already. She failed a diet that she had after her body was already used to excess sugar. That's on her, but she's blaming the diet and food. She is inherently wrong. It's not the food, it's the consumer. Also, she was already overweight before the fad diet. The reason people tend to crutch on fad diets is because they are uninformed and can't create their own diet plans. She hadn't the knowledge she needed then about sugar and she obviously doesn't now.
Also no traditional wife had breast implants. Not to take an extreme objection to her claims but She is a walking hypocrite with alot of her statements. That being said I respect her choices. But she's spreading misinformation. She should be stating opinions for what they are and not pretending they are fact
@@zenraloc Stop it. Get some help.
Sugar free foods typically use artificial sweeteners, which is worse than sugar. I used to get horrible headaches and had stomach issues. Gave up all artificial sweeteners and those issues were gone as soon as all that junk was out of my system.
No traditional wife had breast implants? So you’ve met every traditional wife and know all their stories? Give me a break!
@@kevinm6790 I dont need to know every one of their story, when i know if they did, they wouldn't be following the traditional wife's ideology
Thank you so much for sharing, I never would’ve guessed you went through all that. Especially getting implants. God made us beautiful the way He intended. May He bless you and keep you. Thanks again! You’re truly an inspiration 😊
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Thank you so much for your sweet reply ❤ yes definitely a big mistake I made and I’m trying to be more authentic online with my mistakes to help other ladies. I appreciate your kindness and agree with everything you said ❤
Yes, a story on breast implants would be helpful. So many women get them, & shouldn't, if they make you sick. Women can be beautiful naturally. Thanks!
Life is a learning journey, indeed! I also fell into the almond milk trend and even gave it to my kids. Then I found out about raw grass fed milk. I get it from farmer’s markets and “secret” places along with raw butter, cheese, kefir, etc. The way God intended us to consume it. It’s hard to find, but totally worth it! You are doing great! Keep it up sister. 💪🏼
Raw milk is amazing!!! My stomach has never felt better after consuming it!
@@EsteeWilliams it’s wonderful! And keep creating content, Estee! Your positive message is life-giving and encouraging more people than you can imagine to get back to valuing the family. Trad wives are going to save society ❤️
I grew up with our own fresh milk, butter, and eggs. But it was not so rare in those days here. Heartbreaking that our society has become slaves to processed crap. It's also sad that if you gave most people 50 years old or younger the means to have the good stuff, they wouldn't have a clue, the desire, or the physical get up and go to do it.
I tried to find it in my little NC town for my parents but I could not.
@@JuniperLynn789 thank you
It is so wonderful that you would make yourself vulnerable in order to warn young ladies against unnecessary surgeries. Thank you
Thank you for putting some realism into your video! You're using your platform for good when you do so :) I would be interested in hearing more about what health issues came up, and how you managed to deal with them. Topics that show we are all human are much more interesting to me, rather than leaning far right, or far left, which just upsets everyone!
Here's how to NOT upset everyone:
Listen to BLACK SABBATH.
You are courageous, authentic, beautiful, kind, trustworthy. We need more people like you. Please ignore the hate. Continue to shine. Continue to be awesome
Continue to listen to Black Sabbath.
Its not just that youre physically VERY attractive but your mental maturity to admit your mistakes AND to have learned and changed from them, ALL of that makes you phenomenally beautiful!
You are beautiful inside and out. Outer beauty doesnt mean a damn thing if you're ugly on the inside. You've mastered the Marilyn Monroe look really well. 😊
Maybe she has... but it's better to master your own look & authenticity than someone else's.
You are a sweetie. I am a 57 (on Saturday) year old woman that is independent and single and feel like i grew up a generation late. I would have loved being a traditional wife like my Mom. Fyi, they are 62 years married this September and are still the best of friends. Such an inspiration. Keep up the great work darlin. ❤️❤️❤️
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A very beautiful, powerful message for the young women living in this day and age.I hope they learn from your wisdom, which you've learned by experience.
I had implants for 12yrs. I was barely an A cup and went to a full B just to feel more comfortable in my skin. After being Saved at age 41, I felt convicted to remove them. What an amzingly beautiful journey it has been to embrace my body the way the Lord intended it to be. He is also taking my husband and I on a journey regarding biblical roles. He is restoring our marriage in ways I never thought was possible. Sooooooo much healing in being obedient toward His perfect design.
I pray that you are able to remain focused on Him as you continue on this platform. I pray for the courage to take the steps with regards to your own body and what He is calling you to do. It may be difficult on a physical and emotional level, but the spiritual healing that is offered is beyond imagination. Grace upon Grace. May the Lord bless you and keeo you.🙏
@@Youwish34 Do you mean the implants? I got implants after I got married. My husband was supportive when I got them and also when I removed them. Praise God.🙌
You’re beautiful inside and out, and I’m glad you’ve grown to love and appreciate yourself just as you are. 😊
Lovely message from a beautiful soul! Thank you.
A story how having morals, & respecting your self, & respecting your husband.
I think that would be good for these younger generations to hear from you.
Thank you for all you do ma’am.
Listen to Black Sabbath.
@@bazzturd9414 which song?
Excellent episode. I, too, fell into the no fat, no calorie, not real bandwagon in the 80's and 90's. Then I learned the truth. That way of eating leads to medical problems, acne, and an all over weaker physical system. Today my refrigerator holds full fat milk and yogurt, free range eggs, olive oil, fresh veggies, etc. Real is "real" good for the human body!
I would love to hear your story of breast augmentation. It could be a enlightening account for many of us in your audience.
I love your channel. I look forward to your next episode.
And, yes, you are beautiful inside and out! 🤗🌹🤗
Homo Milk is great for you :)
I came across one of your videos a couple days a ago and I’m 19 turning 20.I’m praying to have a family and be a housewife. you have inspired me.God bless you ,your husband and your future family of your own❤️
Awesome goals for a young lady. None of my business, but I hope you can find a good husband and get your family started. Please do not fall for the trap of the feminist telling you it’s your right to sleep around with every guy, whether you care for him or not. Each person you sleep with decreases your chance of permanently bonding with your spouse, just a little. Higher hookup numbers, less chance of a happy marriage. Women who are virgins at the altar report their marriage as happy, 85% of the time.
Hookup culture women don’t.
So sorry for getting into your business, but, as a happily married man for 53 years now, both of us virgins at the altar, I offer my advice. You didn’t ask for it, nor did you pay anything for it, so my advice might be ‘worth what you pay for it’.
A toast, “May you find happiness, with a good man, and may you have many children.”
@@dejavu666wampas9 thank you so much!❤️❤️
As of seeing this video, there are about 20 comments and so I read them all. I can't add anything to what peoples comments have already said and am glad to see that all of them are supportive and positive to you. We all have problems to overcome, we all have wishes to look better than God made us ............ well, sometimes we do it to ourselves, by improper diet, and habits that we need to change. You're a beautiful young lady and I wish you the very best.
It's so interesting how this beautiful, gorgeous, like for real gorgeous woman , could have been insecure. But I am glad you are learning and growing . And confident. Cuz you are so gorgeous
Thank you for your honest appraisal of common solutions that lead to destructive outcomes.
Real Purity of soul and mind is really bueatiful.
All I can say is, God Bless this woman and her husband! Both were Blessed. Ess, never stop. You are a Godsend to every human being!
I love how you are willing to be vulnerable and share what you’ve learned from your mistakes. I love vintage/ ultra feminine fashion, I’m a homemaker and mom of 2, a Christian, and I use to lift weights (got really into it for a while. I feel like I have a lot in common with you and really enjoy watching your videos.
Same to all of the above except I have 3 😊
I love all of this message. The positivity and the honesty. You seem like a beautiful person in sand out ❤ ☺️
I would love a story time video about your experiences with implants. I always wanted implants when I was younger but (thankfully!) never was able to afford them. Over the past few years I’ve heard more and more women experiencing long term health issues because of their implants…. and I think every video out there could potentially be the one that could change a young woman’s mind before undergoing that procedure.
@@QuinquetPourpre I think it depends on the time and culture you grow up in… it was the beauty ideal for women to have big boobs
@@QuinquetPourpre you mean Estelle‘s boobs? I think hers are clearly big but to me they still look in harmony with her body..
@@QuinquetPourpre It certainly doesn't look as good as naturals ones that have a good size and shape, but, in the eyes of people, fake is infinity better then naturally big saggy ones or small. Naturals with ideal size/shape are extremely rare, that's why fake is still prefered.
I can really relate to this. Thank you for sharing. Yes I would like to hear more about your health issues with implants.
I would listen to you on the Radio......... doesn't matter what you look like, you have a good message that I enjoy
Thank you for sharing that you have implants. That makes me feel much better about my body as a woman. I hope you embrace the choice that will make you the healthiest (:
Thank you so much for your honesty. You are very articulate and beautiful just the way you are .
You're unquestionably one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. PLEASE, just be natural and be YOURSELF. ❤❤❤
I didn't expect the ending to make me so emotional. Thank you. 😢❤
Thank you for the honesty and courage to share! Its so necessary. A woman's body is beautiful just the way God created it. While our breasts are a part of our sexuality, their primary purpose is to feed our young. I think young women get too preoccupied with their maidenhood when our ultimate role is that of motherhood.
My hair has always been mousy brown and I have always hated it. My parents and Brother both had beautiful deep brown/black hair and I had this horrible mousy brown. I started dying my hair beautiful black when I was in my 20s and within two years, my head would react so poorly to the dye that I would break out in sores and blisters all over my scalp and it was SO ITCHY!!! And of course, my hair was burnt and crispy from the damage. I had to give up the dye completely. Now I'm in my 40s and I'm so excited that my hair is starting to turn GREY! I can't wait for a beautiful head of glittery silver hair!
Interesting, in my country it's considered one of the three basic hair colors. Many if not most women have it and nobody cares.
The English name for it is just weird.
You are the first person I know to be excited about grey hair. Well good for you. I am getting a few platinum blondes(grey hairs) in my beard.
Age gracefully
God made beauty in all ways
Life is about learning from our mistakes, forgiving ourselves, repairing the damage, and moving forward with our lives…
Love the honesty. Makes you hotter! 😊
The most powerful thing in this world is honesty and when you are honest with not only yourself but with the whole world, you become whole. You beauty comes first from your soul, and being that you also have natural beauty, you are most beautiful.
God bless you for your honesty Estee!! I strive to be more like you! I LOVE the traditional role!
Blessings to you as you continue on your way to loving who God made you to be.
Thank you for being upright and honest. Young women needs to hear this. I made sure and continue to reinforce how naturally beautiful my daughter is. It was God's intention to make a man attracted to natural beauty.
Great message at the end, God bless you folks.
This video made you so relatable, I think you are absolutely gorgeous! I would love to see a video about your experience with implants. It’s an important message to share.
Also keep up what you’re doing. More women should have that courage
Love that your a Real Women don't listen to crazy people with strange ideas about Women be yourself a stay at home Female God Bless
Great message and thank you for your honesty
You were born Beautiful. God made you perfect, just the way you are.
May the Grace and Favor of the Lord always be with You. 🍀
What an honest, uplifting message. Thanks.
thank you for being so vulnerable with us! i'd love to hear more about your experience with implants. i've been learning a lot about how damaging they are to overall health, curious to know your experience! thanks for being you xoxo 🖤
I think a lot of people do not expect implants in someone following a traditional role like this. It would be interesting to hear your story.
She did it before she was married. At 18.
@@HerMajesty1 yes, that is exactpy what makes a compelling experience to hear about
@@HerMajesty1Making such a massive change to your body literally as soon as you legally can does not speak of a healthy mindset.
It would be very interesting to see what changed her and made her the woman she is today.
I have written my story in bits and pieces for 23 years, now, om email lists, then messageboards, and current YT channels. No one is really interested in true stories. If you are, great for you! Many people validate what they want to hear--- and ignore the rest. Short attention spans.
"Higher truths are never taught; higher truth is revealed."
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She seems like someone who loves to party… is jusr her aura
That took courage and transparency. 👍
Give yourself grace...What a wonderful thought....
What a beautiful, honest fresh breath of truth!
Ugh I feel all of this. Seriously. I regret my implants too. I also happened to lose all sensitivity with mine as an added side effect. If I could go back I would have just left myself alone!!
Sensitivity? As in your breast are now numb?
Girl, your channel is so nice and God is using your wisdom to help me realize who I am in Him. Just this past week I was feeling it on my heart that I don't need to replace my implants at the ten year mark coming up soon but rather just have them removed. I also have had an unhealthy routine with my hair and have recently felt the need to start caring for it properly. Just wanted you to know you are so appreciated and your videos always seem to come at the perfect time regarding what God is working on in my life. 💗
Your beautiful inside and out.....always remember that! 😉😊
Aw I’m so different from you (gay, divorced, single mom) but I do like to see women living their most authentic and joyful lives and I truly appreciate that you fearlessly represent who you are and where you stand.
Dang , you go girl… great job.. stay well and vigilant… 💯🇺🇸😎🌪🌎
Way to go on waking up to wonderful health the right way! ❤
You are a beautiful soul! Your light shines bright.
Great insight & information!
Thanks - so much - for sharing.🌹
I love your natural hair ! The style, color & length is lovely and perfectly in line with your personal retro style 🤗
Wow! That was powerful! Thank you for boldness!
This was so honest! Love you!
What a wise, honest, and very beautiful! young woman. I hope you stay like this your whole life (even beautiful, because age doesn't take beauty away, it transforms it).
I have a recommendation. If your nipples have not been damaged, don't do anything to your breasts until after you have your children if you want to breastfeed. If you take out the implants and need a lift because of the stretched skin, they will move your nipples and you may not produce milk. After nursing you may need a lift because honestly, pregnancy changes your breasts. All from experience here. Never had implants but did have a lift and reduction after my first two children and I produced so much milk with them that I gave half to the milk bank for sick babies. My 3rd surprise baby was after the reduction, and I really stuggled with production and had to supplement.
Don't try to go through pregnancy and breast feeding with implants. I did that and it is a huge regret, so much damage was done to my breasts. Better to explant without a lift before children.... then after children revisit the idea of a lift.
@@hl1377 OK. I was wondering about that. I never had the implants. 😊
I appreciate your candor.
I am amazed by how long you can pay attention to yourself and be consumed by yourself without getting bored
Please take care of your health! My sister got implants too. Story time please! Also, having kids definitely changes your body 😅, especially the top half.
That's very true! I used to be a B cup before my 1st baby, just had my 6th baby and now they are DDD'S lol my hubby doesn't mind lol but ya it def changes!!😂
I became deathly Ill after I got married. It was a really long battle. I had different views of my body, my looks, sex... everything. I was so sick for so long and couldn't hardly eat anything I lost 70lbs rapidly and didn't look like the same person and it hurt to be touched. My husband stood by me thru it, loving me and patience for us both. We grew to love my new body and be comfortable again. We learned a deeper love for one another beyond our flesh. We loved each other even in the vulnerability and nakedness of a failing body. I'm doing better and had 4 good yrs since my last surgery. I don't worry for uncomfortable surgeries because I know I'm loved no matter what happens and even as I age or have health issues it's OK. He likes me aging with him and im slowed down enough now that i dont walk in front of him anymore. He's 12 yrs my senior. I don't feel guilty anymore for my body changing or my physical shortcomings.
I have never ever commented on anything but I think it's Important to say what's truly on your heart. I think you are a wonderful inspiration and influence on our society. I believe that you truly have a gift from God to reach young girls. To show them the truth about how beautiful and happy a life can be when you embrace true womanhood and true femininity. In service of your husband and children. To be the pillar of strength, goodness and truth for them and everyone around you. May God smile down apon you and shower your family with love and good fortune. I love you friend.❤
True deliverance.🎉 Cheers to you
I needed to hear this to the end. Thank you :)❤
I have been considering breast implants and I never heard about long term complications, I've heard that they could break open and leak or pop?i think that's rare tho. I've never heard about someone having issues over years. a Video on that subject would be very informative. I'm scared now!
Look up breast implant illness
never do it, you're fine the way nature created you. I hate the ''implants" trend. It is always such a let down when I hear of someone who got them bc they're so bad for you.
The body doesn’t like having bags of saline or silicone forced in it. It sees them as a foreign invader, because it is. It can cause massive autoimmune disorder and a host of other illnesses. You should never sacrifice your health for vanity. God made you beautiful just as you are!
I just looked it up and i can't believe I've never heard about this! Does the doctor atleast explain this risk during consultation? This seems like a big deal
@@shadesofpurple7283 nope. maybe some do partially, but it's always in the fine print and now, all over youtube.
this video was short and sweet which I appreciated. Girl, you are so beautiful in body and mind. love when you say "have grace." you are so right about the dieting tip. just eat real food!
Your hair today is incredible.
Yes to absolutely all of this! The one thing I will add is that some people do have to drink alternative types of milk because real milk hurts more (I recently found out that I’m one of them 😅) I try to stick to unsweetened almond milk though, and I personally don’t mind the more watery texture
I think it's called lactose intolerance or something. I'm so glad I don't have it, I love milk.
The majority of humans shouldn't consume dairy products past the age of 3. It's more of a tradition, but northern Europeans and a few other small groups around the world have a low risk of sensitivity through adaptation. Most people do have minor to serious sensitivity.
When my son was a baby, he was lactose intolerant. When he was 20, he wanted to try raw cow’s milk as he heard it was healthy. He’s been drinking raw cow’s milk and raw goat milk since then. No problems and his skin has cleared up totally. We buy it at a reputable local Farmers Market.
That's me. I'm lactose intolerant lol
Well, I might add that regular homogenized milk smashes the fat molecules into the milk so that some can't tolerate, but then I've heard that too much milk when older isn't good either, so we used unsweetened coconut milk for our smoothies, oatmeal and even gravies.
Yes a story would be great.a lot of women have major health issues after breast implants
Anyone who has surgery has likelihood of complications afterwards honestly. I've had 2 c-sections to birth my children and have to have another one this August to give birth to my next baby and I still have tons of pain because of the incisions before, I cannot lift as heavy things as I used to, and I cannot do big stretches otherwise it stretches it out too. I also started having gastrointestinal issues and developed a hiatal hernia after having my second baby. I was in bed and losing weight so much that I lost all my pregnancy weight and more within a month of having my second daughter and she was born 11 months after my first. So I had 2 pregnancies worth of baby weight on me and I lost it within 1 month barely because I was so sick all the time after my c-sections and developing that hernia. I have to take Proton Pump Inhibitors to settle the acids in my stomach and eat a similar diet to elderly people. I'm only 27.
Listen to Black Sabbath.
@@bazzturd9414 What does that have to do with anything? Lmao
@@meganelizabeth772 Megan, my love, it has a LOT to do. For example:
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@@bazzturd9414 I'm not your love, for one. And two, get our of here, troll.
Appreciate your candor. Informative. Thank you!
Thanks for sharing! Love your channel❤
Honest without judgement! Thank you
Refreshing to hear someone own past mistakes and consider change! Thank ya sister!
The only people who’ll be mad about augmentation removal are creeps and animals anyway.
It’ll made dressing modestly easier too! ❤
So nice to be open about Breast implant illness! I hope you get better soon!
You are lovely and intelligent. Yes another story please. 🌸💕
You are amazing!! I wish that both of my sons could find a real woman and dedicated life partner like you!
Would love to hear more about the implants. My mother in law has breast implants and makes fun of my natural breast so I would love to learn more how you prefer your natural breasts to implants. I personally love my natural breasts.
Really immature of your mother in law, she's probably projecting her own insecurities on you
Can't agree more with @villapulla she's definitely projecting her insecurities. Next time she says something, tell her how you're happy with your body and pity her insecurities
Take it from a man who has not always walked straight and true. Your natural breasts are far better...
Darlin, you have something millions of women don’t and it’s something no amount of money can buy. A beautiful heart. ❤
Your Honesty is a Mark of Humility.
You are so naturally beautiful I’m so blessed for the woman god gave me ❤️ I love you baby!
Love your content estee keep it up
Love this. If you haven’t, yes we would love to hear about your experience. I honestly work . I have moved to switched to part time since I now have three littles and have been looking for a positive view on keeping house . I was taught to not like it and dread it. I appreciate that you frame all of this as a choice, first and foremost. I appreciate your comments about budgeting and adjusting lifestyle and looking for a certain partner over a rich man. I don’t like that in the past people attempted to politicize you and don’t let you speak in interviews. Please stay true to you.
You must’ve had a good surgeon because I legit thought they were real. You’re incredible not just because because you have them but you just do as well.
Well done. Keep the good messages coming and remember what my parents told me, 'God made you and God don't make junk.'
Hey Estee, good morning, could you make a video on how you quit your career (what you were studying, how you realize it wasn't for you) and on how you met your husband and how you knew he was the one? Thank you
Respect your honesty. ❤
Bravo for your bravery and authenticity!
You are boldly honest and your truth need to be heard.. Thank you. You are an inspiration. Disregard haters to independent thinking instead of the culture uniform..