summary: 1. They make the bad times a little better 0:44 2. You two are real with each other 1:21 3. They know when to take a step back 1:49 4. You mutually encourage each other’s personal growth 2:22 5. You make each other happy 2:55 6. You defend each other when no one is looking 3:19 7. You stay loyal to each other 3:46 8. You give each other a second chance 4:12 Recommend watching to learn more 🖤
I think this is better than love by looking at the points. Many of them will fail in love relationship with partners. It's funny that this things should have been in true love but ended up being part of best friend checklist.
Oddly enough, my favorite memory w one of my besties is from us at school. There was a heavy storm and we were out where we could see it. She was laying down on her empty laptop bag and I was in the middle of telling her a joke when I realized she was quiet. So, I stopped and we both just sat there, enjoying the sound of rain. After a while, she said "the rain is nice." I just agreed, and even though she probably forgot about it, it was still really special to me.
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” ― Dale Carnegie
It becomes difficult when there are no people to become interested in, which is where you need to start making yourself interesting for others to find you.
@@azzz3212 if you try to change your friends, you ruin the relationship. If you try to hold onto the relationship too hard, youll drive em away. Basically, just enjoy the ride!!
Mhm My first online bff of 3 years Me and her basically got in a fight bc of my depressed ass and I haven't seen her in almost a year now I still cry about it till this day I never said sorry to her and no one could ever replace her
I realized that my best friend is more of just a really close long time friend but one of my really close friends is actually my real best friend. Idk if that made sense but yeah.
Same! My friend never there for me ... I think she talk to me because she was bored she ... she tense to only like people talk to people who is popular and the class president....when ask for help she doesn't help me but i always help her ... i just borrow her a pencil amd she yell at me even though when she ask me i act happy and give her my best pencil... ☹
@@Psych2go becuse you told us the things we don't know and after watching your video i allways try to change the things i was doing ( wrong once ) THANK YOU SOO MUCH I LOVW YOU PsychGo
The sort of drawing used in this video is pleasant for my eyes... So, I'm resonated. P.S. with respect to the best friend topic.. I have friends who are good guys and certainly all of things mentioned in your video exist. I can't talk how is being without them... Maybe this pain like lack of crush?
Man, this channel has really helped me develop into a good and humble human being. I hope this channel continues to grow and touch more peoples hearts. Thanks For Everything You've Done!
DreamyMacaron you never know when you’re going to need each-other especially when life throws you horrible things and to share with them all the nice things that happen like having children dealing with parents passing etc. Good bye and good luck to you and your friends
Odenzie make new ones by getting a new hobby or night school or college or even better do some volunteer work you’ll meet some kind people who spend their spare time helping others less fortunate good bye and good luck and take care of yourself and all the very best of luck
heres a tip to not ruined ur friendships *DONT BE CLINGY NO ONE LIKES A CLINGY FRIEND ALWAYS BE AWARE OF UR BEHAVIOR* (i lost a friend due to my clinginess)
A good friend is rare to come across so don't give them silent treatment and refuse to tell them what's wrong or break up with them cause one day you'll look up and say you lost a good friend and true friendships last forever and take time to grow so be patient and kind with them and remember you have such a rare gift called a good friend
they laugh at the same stupid things we do. they give us honest advice. they will be there for us, even if they're thousands of miles away. they celebrate with us when we're at our best, but still love us at our worst. Who were they?🤔 For me my best friends 😊
You guys are so lucky.. to have a amazing best friend my best friend is just so toxic and i really want to leave but don't know how and i seat next to her ... can you give me some tips to find one? Pls? Since i don't really live in a country that speak english most of my friend just forget me nad bring me down....
The fact that i am watching this vdo after loosing my bestf hurts, so much... and i dont think i will even find a tiniest bit of closure too, so if u are reading this, and u have a bestf...Feel lucky ,beacuse some dont :)
As a person with friend issues, these are true. My best friend is the only person i do these with. Best friends are hard to find because i already have the best one
Sometimes I think that I'm a terrible friend, but honestly, sometimes I have no self esteem. Psych2go helps with that, and that's why i watch these videos! Thank you!
This video just reinforced something my new best friend made me realize: my old BFF from middle and high school wasn't a good friend to me. I wouldn't say she was a *bad* friend per se, but I was made to realize the fact that as a friend, I was doing the best to offer all the things listed above despite suffering through abuse during most of our friendship and also dealing with crippling mental illness. I had so little energy and I'd still take the time to devote what I could to be there for her. To keep a long story short because I almost made this post into a super long vent, she had a tendency to take without giving. I recognized how her Aspergers manifested in how she thought and expressed herself. I also made sure to vocalize concerns of mine I felt like she wasn't seeing to make sure I didn't build up anger towards her for things she didn't know were upsetting me. But in the end, she just didn't treat me right. I'm very happy to say I have a new best friend now. Alongside him, my personal growth and recovery have absolutely skyrocketed at speeds I could not have accomplished without him. He brings out the best in me and actively looks out for my health and wellbeing. The only "downside" is he knows I have trouble figuring out how to express my gratitude (other than saying thank you) and won't let me do nice things for him, haha. He even told me that when I buy him food and stuff, he's been slipping the money back into my purse somewhere that I won't notice so that I can't give it back to him. I'm so thankful to have him in my life now.
I've been studying with my soulmate (yeah, i prefer calling her as sm, 'cause she is on the another special level of friendship or family) for 4 years, and first 1.5 years we didn't communicate even as friends, only classmates. But, fortunately, after "dating" with 2 guys, we became closer. Now she is my everything. I can rely on her fearlessly. Friend of ours was always saying that we will never be friends, hah, she was surprised when we stopped being real friends with her. I wish everyone could have such a Great Friend, bff, soulmate or whatever you name it. Just remember, someone will love you and all your imperfections❣
I have 2 best friends of 6 years. And now i realize that we do all this to each other even when we're separated miles away from each other. We never stopped supporting each other. I should appreciate them more often
my favorite memory of me and my best friend is this one night we were watching youtube and it was talking about depression and things and it was showing this little light that was always there, in the end, no matter what and after the video, we started talking about our friendship and how we are always there for each other and how it makes us both a lot happier than if we weren't, we both have saved each other's lives and I'm so grateful for that moment we shared because it grew us even closer than I thought possible.
Each and every point reminded me of my best friend!! 💜 Wish everyone out there has such a bestfrnd to make u feel being loved and less burdened... See ya! Have a good day!! 😘
Your voice is phenomenal. Especially when you number off although it’s not as defined in this video you change it up, but it’s noticeable when you say “4.” Hypnotizing really. Excellent niche.
I watch this channel because I like understanding other people, and this teaches me things and helps me to understand different people with different personalities and problems
I'm 57 and I would be lost without my bestie! We met only a year ago and right from the start felt a connection; the rest is history! Oh and we practice all 8 ways to be a best friend. Thank you, these videos are priceless!
I had a pretty good friend who was also my neighbour. We had been friends since kindergarten. She had horses, dogs and birds. I often wanted to spend time with her. I guess I also learned a bit about horses and what to be aware of. She broke her arm falling one of the horses. Unfortunatly someone in the neighbourhood complained over the horses and they had to be moved. After that their family seperated and my friend moved to an appartment in the city.
i do have some frienship issues these days, but i am just greetful that i know the reasons of problems in my relations. Your videos help so much to understand myself and other people. So thank you Psych2Go.
We make each other happy when we are feeling down we never betray each other we never talk behind each other’s back we always come up about our future together we hype each other up she’s amazing I love her.
I love my best friend so much, I appreciate her presence in my life and we've been friends for more than 10 yrs and looking at our friendship, I always feel that we've grown so much.
“Having strong close friendship” Me be like my parents won’t let me hangout with peeps that they don’t know that I definitely have told about but they just forget cuz they can: Well sh** (Is tru before you comment- I have turned down a lot of hangout times with my friends but I have to cancel due to my parents just forgetting that I HAVE talked about these friends; I think they only people they can “approve” for me to hang out is my ex classmates of jr high... When I literally dislike them...)
My best friend and I met when we were 3 years old and now we're both 20. We've grown up together, had some problems when we were teens because I made some stupid mistakes but she never left me. I'm so glad to have her in my life
Hey :D I now know a lot of things about my self and I'm trying too fix the problems like since I'm depressed I've been trying too do more things I like and listening too A LOT OF MUSIC but thank you 🤭💖I also have a best friend who is like this and we are now dating 😙👉👈
My best friend and I know each other so well, we can talk about everything and even know when something is up she’s been there for everything. She’s a mother now and I’m not; but we encourage each other through everything even her son loves me like I’m another mother. Like it’s a little weird not having children of my own but she knows I would never put him any danger.
try watching this after you lose your bestfriend. bet you’ll cry. when you realise that your “best friend” was completely fake and you couldn’t even see it until you watched this video
This just happened to me. She is just a regular friend, the thing that makes her special is the fact that I don't have any other friends. (introvert in a nutshell)
Sometimes I feel like I don't have any Best Friend..but then I remember that I have my childhood friend, were we once fought and distance ourselves from each other long time ago. Now I was really wondering what are his feelings towards me on our friendship, and I don't feel 100% confident, but I feel better. Love this vid 💞
@@odessawales you probably have had bad experiences. I had the same interaction with someone and I'm actually really good friends with them as of now :) If someone did betray you, I hope you're feeling a lot better now
I needed this, my sister sent this to me after leaving a fake best friend. It was really hard. But she never did any of these. I’ve found a real best friend. And it helps so much.
I don't have a bff But there's this person who keeps talking to me Use to go to school with me, and we talk everyday Dunno if I should trust them. But basic message, you'll find your bff at some point.
The first one reminded me of something. (Trigger warning.) Back when my family was being very toxic with me in middle school. I used to contemplate suicide a lot. They basically made me believe that I was a mistake, a complete utter failure at everything. I was this monster that somehow caused the problems in the family. And the ADHD meds I was on probably made it a lot worse. I used to be so stressed I would grind my teeth at night, my eyes sometimes twitched, and I believe I even had random heart palpatations because of them. One evening I tried to go through with it, with a kitchen knife, afterall no one would miss me. I sat there sitting against the kitchen counter, mentally saying goodbye. I thought about my best friend. He would be at my funeral. He would probably be crying. He was the one person in my life that cared enough to listen to me when I was upset and tell me that my family was clearly being abusive and that I wasn't some terrible person. Nor was I a mistake, or crazy. I couldn't bare to betray that. He was the one person in my life that actually knew that I wasn't the happy go lucky kid that everyone kinda knew. I gave up and swore that as long as he was my friend I couldn't let him down. Even if things got worse I just couldn't bare to imagine leaving him. This might sounds incredibly corny, but I'm grateful that he was my friend. And, while I hope he doesn't have to go through bad times, I hope to help him as much as he helped me. Even if he wasn't there with me at that very moment. Just knowing he was my friend saved my life.
My short bff(she's a girl btw) : *lays her head down on my lap randomly on the bus* Me(I'm also a girl) : ;-; The people sitting around us on the bus: *_OOOOOOOH~ I SHIP IT OMG I NEVER KNEW SHE WAS LEZ_* Me being the shy kid: *_ima just commit lego_* My bff:
@@redribbon2 Are you a girl or a boy. I also need a best friend. Idc if it's online or offline i just need someone who can relate to me and most importantly *talk to me* everyday because i don't know.. also if you're comfortable then say how old you are.
This makes me think of my friend before they stopped contacting me for 2 almost 3 weeks randomy (nothing in the friendship was wrong and they're still gone)
I have a boy best friend and most of the people who knows us tells us that we are a secretly dating...but we know what the truth is ....our families knows each other and he is the one that i can talk about anything and everything...even if i have period cramps,he just make me so comfortable and in my tougher times he calls me so much and wont hang up until he feels that i am completely fine...he scolds me like he is my mom and even i does the same...he is dating somebody else, but he gives equal importance to me too..and i am kind of tomboy type,so his girlfriend even dont have a problem..he knows my deepest darkest secrets and i know his.... I am truly lucky to have him in my life😊
My best friend always helped me with depression because she was ALWAYS there for me so I had little to no alone time and little to no alone time is when my depressive symptoms would kick in
this video is great ! !! I do love it coz I saw a paper about friendship support yesterday, that is consistent with this video!!! " friends can buffer the effect of negative experiences" and the research demonstrated that friendship is more important than family support!!!
No matter how long and far u and ur best friend r separated, it'll still feel like they nvr left and no distance has been created during the separation when u meet up again
This reminded me of one of my former best friends. Idk, but I always feel like I over thought and looked at things. Even though I felt that I wasn't appreciated, lied too, even though they never kept up to what they said they would do, even though what I wanted wasn't considered. I gave this person several chances and even went back to them and apologized when I shouldn't have myself. This is what I dislike about myself. I'm to forgiving and at the same timr distant. Idk if Ill ever be able to make another best friend. No one seems to put any effort into building a close friendship with me
Me and my friend are always there for each other I’ve known her for 6 years and she’s really nice! But....I don’t tell her a lot cause I just don’t want her to worry...when I feel sad or......Suicidal.... but I tell her one day...........I have tried but i am happy I didn’t succeed on that cause I would miss her or she would miss me!
I don't have a huge friend circle, but I have a few really close friends that I'm glad I have. We're not afraid of. being wakadoos together. I'd say we bring out the best in each other. :)
nobody cares but i have 2 best friends (so like we're 3) and i love them so much :') i wanna buy bff necklaces/bracelets but they're usually for 2 persons only T - T
“Friends are the family you choose.”
― Jess C Scott
"family is not the family you chose"
- me
im just joking help-
then im all alone out here
Monic Monic AHAHAH I FEEL U
Monic Monic BEST QUOTE EVER WE DIDNT CHOOSE OUR FAMILY
@@---gt5sl a little if they adopted you
Understand each other without pushing their expectations on them and growing mutually.
That's a good one! Do you do this with your best friend? :)
@@Psych2go I try my best to. And I am lucky enough to have a few amazing friends who have taught so many great things.
@@Psych2go yess i also do
@@shivamnow it's good
Your name is similar to my classmate his name is also SHIVAM
@@bts_army5111 Thank You. Do check out my UA-cam channel as well. I hope you like it.
summary:
1. They make the bad times a little better 0:44
2. You two are real with each other 1:21
3. They know when to take a step back 1:49
4. You mutually encourage each other’s personal growth 2:22
5. You make each other happy 2:55
6. You defend each other when no one is looking 3:19
7. You stay loyal to each other 3:46
8. You give each other a second chance 4:12
Recommend watching to learn more 🖤
Ty for the summary! Seems like it took time
Alegna Anidem you’re welcome 💗
I think this is better than love by looking at the points. Many of them will fail in love relationship with partners. It's funny that this things should have been in true love but ended up being part of best friend checklist.
I love my best friend ❤️
@@elvira1505 I was right. It's more of love than best friends. 😅
A good friend knows all your best stories, but a best friend has lived them with you."
Not when they live in a different country lmao
And i couldnt be with him...but its okay there is still time.
My bff moved last year so we cant live it with eachother and that doesent mean that she is only a friend
it depends. both are very important, though
yes
Oddly enough, my favorite memory w one of my besties is from us at school. There was a heavy storm and we were out where we could see it. She was laying down on her empty laptop bag and I was in the middle of telling her a joke when I realized she was quiet. So, I stopped and we both just sat there, enjoying the sound of rain. After a while, she said "the rain is nice." I just agreed, and even though she probably forgot about it, it was still really special to me.
Damn that sounds nice- and yeah I agree with her. Rain is nice
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”
― Dale Carnegie
That... explains a lot... thank you.
It becomes difficult when there are no people to become interested in, which is where you need to start making yourself interesting for others to find you.
There are a lot of ways to socialize, though, not just friendships. I feel like you are somewhat hellbent on the opposite.
Yes it does what I would like explained is the film shot
@@aasyjepale5210I know you know that all to well I had a friend once but they decided to block me and have sex with half the country
_"Oh its 2am, should I sleep?"_
Nope, got more mental health videos to bingewatch till sunrise.
It’s 4 am where I am and I have online school 😂
@@vee._.reads101 literally me all the time
It’s the thrid day I do this because I barely care for myself but you should get some sleep
@@vee._.reads101 same here 😴
Nice to now I’m not the only one
“If you try to change it, you will ruin it. Try to hold it, and you will lose it.”
― Lao Tzu
Doesn't make sense, lol. Maybe I'm dum
@@azzz3212 if you try to change your friends, you ruin the relationship. If you try to hold onto the relationship too hard, youll drive em away. Basically, just enjoy the ride!!
Just hold loosely, but don't let go! If you hold on tightly, you're gonna, you're gonna lose control!😂
There's no need to change, only do improvement :)
@@janoahj642 eyy you're 38 special to me hahaha
So glad I have a best friend, they've saved my life once from a close suicide attempt, they're incredible ❤
Thanks for sharing! That's good to know that they have saved you! Did you relate to this video? :)
Same same
@@Psych2go yes i relate
there should be a reward for best friends like that
my best friend saved my life too
great now i'm crying again
Damn your life is a mansion full of gold in the meaning of a loved one. I had a suicide attempt and the ambulance saved me 🤣Lol.
Indeed, Great friends are HARD to find, DIFFICULT to leave, and IMPOSSIBLE to forget 🖖
👍🏼 agree with every word!
Mhm
My first online bff of 3 years
Me and her basically got in a fight bc of my depressed ass and I haven't seen her in almost a year now I still cry about it till this day
I never said sorry to her and no one could ever replace her
@@Mikiluvsu Why didn't you say you were sorry? Were you blocked? :/
Very true. Never in my life did I have a "true" friend, but I still hope that I will find one..
Sameee I thought I had friends but they always exclude me so I think I’m gonna move groups
I've never really had a best friend... but I appreciate every friend I have. I just hope to find that special friend who I can share everything to.
I really hope you find a friend worthy of your company 😊
Ikr, same as me
Same dont worry we will find one 😊
@@kenmakozume3492 aww, you too, i have alot friends, but no-one is really close
Same I mean I have "friends" but they don't really know me that well and I've never had a true friend hopefully one day
It is at this very moment that I realised that all my best friends are just normal friends
I realized that my best friend is more of just a really close long time friend but one of my really close friends is actually my real best friend. Idk if that made sense but yeah.
I have much fewer best friends than I thought I had
I'm really close with my bff qnq
Same
Same! My friend never there for me ... I think she talk to me because she was bored she ... she tense to only like people talk to people who is popular and the class president....when ask for help she doesn't help me but i always help her ... i just borrow her a pencil amd she yell at me even though when she ask me i act happy and give her my best pencil... ☹
"A good friend is like a four-leaf clover; hard to find and lucky to have."
This channel really changed my life... like if you agree!
We are so glad that we can help in some way! How did our content change your life? :)
I agree.
I agree
@@Psych2go becuse you told us the things we don't know and after watching your video i allways try to change the things i was doing ( wrong once ) THANK YOU SOO MUCH I LOVW YOU PsychGo
@@Psych2go more awareness of the problems in my family life that i didnt know i had
I feel complete when im with my bestfriend
Thank you for sharing! Did you resonate with this video? :)
The sort of drawing used in this video is pleasant for my eyes... So, I'm resonated. P.S. with respect to the best friend topic.. I have friends who are good guys and certainly all of things mentioned in your video exist. I can't talk how is being without them... Maybe this pain like lack of crush?
That's how I feel
My best friend hasn't talked to me in 3-4 months.
My best friend is Loneliness there always there with me
Same
I got my pups and they won't ever betray me like most people I've delt with.
And they always keep secrets , and are always pleased to see you
One day you will find a best friend, trust me on this
Man, this channel has really helped me develop into a good and humble human being. I hope this channel continues to grow and touch more peoples hearts. Thanks For Everything You've Done!
I’m so glad to have a best friend
She was the first person to become friends with me when I transferred schools
Thank you so much for sharing! It's good to know that you have a friend like this :) Did you resonate with this video?
Same goes for me, it's rlly nice :)
I don't have ANY best friends I've lost them.
DreamyMacaron you never know when you’re going to need each-other especially when life throws you horrible things and to share with them all the nice things that happen like having children dealing with parents passing etc. Good bye and good luck to you and your friends
Odenzie make new ones by getting a new hobby or night school or college or even better do some volunteer work you’ll meet some kind people who spend their spare time helping others less fortunate good bye and good luck and take care of yourself and all the very best of luck
heres a tip to not ruined ur friendships
*DONT BE CLINGY NO ONE LIKES A CLINGY FRIEND ALWAYS BE AWARE OF UR BEHAVIOR* (i lost a friend due to my clinginess)
Mr WestSide what if me and my best friend is clingy-
im kinda clingy what should i do to change?
@@DreadfulRain u know what to do
@@makko6541 everytime u have an urge to always talk to ur friend try to suppress the urge as long as u can
Dude, you need better friends. I had a clingy friend, and she was one of my very best friends ever. If you are clingy, you just need the right person.
A good friend is rare to come across so don't give them silent treatment and refuse to tell them what's wrong or break up with them cause one day you'll look up and say you lost a good friend and true friendships last forever and take time to grow so be patient and kind with them and remember you have such a rare gift called a good friend
they laugh at the same stupid things we do. they give us honest advice. they will be there for us, even if they're thousands of miles away. they celebrate with us when we're at our best, but still love us at our worst. Who were they?🤔
For me my best friends 😊
Ahhh.... even one true best friend is already AMAZING.... Great times together no matter what the weather..
@@blank-6222 yea you are right
You guys are so lucky.. to have a amazing best friend my best friend is just so toxic and i really want to leave but don't know how and i seat next to her ... can you give me some tips to find one? Pls? Since i don't really live in a country that speak english most of my friend just forget me nad bring me down....
The fact that i am watching this vdo after loosing my bestf hurts, so much... and i dont think i will even find a tiniest bit of closure too, so if u are reading this, and u have a bestf...Feel lucky ,beacuse some dont :)
As a person with friend issues, these are true. My best friend is the only person i do these with. Best friends are hard to find because i already have the best one
I have a best friends. We really fight sometimes and call each other names. It's the best feeling to know that you can be yourself with someone
What funny is that i was just talking to my bestie, and she does all of this
I love her TvT💞
denki
Yeah same 😀
kim berly Hey
I’m jealous I didn’t have really friends
She proceeds to eats your parents.
Sometimes I think that I'm a terrible friend, but honestly, sometimes I have no self esteem. Psych2go helps with that, and that's why i watch these videos! Thank you!
This video just reinforced something my new best friend made me realize: my old BFF from middle and high school wasn't a good friend to me. I wouldn't say she was a *bad* friend per se, but I was made to realize the fact that as a friend, I was doing the best to offer all the things listed above despite suffering through abuse during most of our friendship and also dealing with crippling mental illness. I had so little energy and I'd still take the time to devote what I could to be there for her.
To keep a long story short because I almost made this post into a super long vent, she had a tendency to take without giving. I recognized how her Aspergers manifested in how she thought and expressed herself. I also made sure to vocalize concerns of mine I felt like she wasn't seeing to make sure I didn't build up anger towards her for things she didn't know were upsetting me. But in the end, she just didn't treat me right.
I'm very happy to say I have a new best friend now. Alongside him, my personal growth and recovery have absolutely skyrocketed at speeds I could not have accomplished without him. He brings out the best in me and actively looks out for my health and wellbeing. The only "downside" is he knows I have trouble figuring out how to express my gratitude (other than saying thank you) and won't let me do nice things for him, haha. He even told me that when I buy him food and stuff, he's been slipping the money back into my purse somewhere that I won't notice so that I can't give it back to him. I'm so thankful to have him in my life now.
I've been studying with my soulmate (yeah, i prefer calling her as sm, 'cause she is on the another special level of friendship or family) for 4 years, and first 1.5 years we didn't communicate even as friends, only classmates. But, fortunately, after "dating" with 2 guys, we became closer. Now she is my everything. I can rely on her fearlessly. Friend of ours was always saying that we will never be friends, hah, she was surprised when we stopped being real friends with her. I wish everyone could have such a Great Friend, bff, soulmate or whatever you name it. Just remember, someone will love you and all your imperfections❣
I have 2 best friends of 6 years. And now i realize that we do all this to each other even when we're separated miles away from each other. We never stopped supporting each other. I should appreciate them more often
Thank you for sharing this with us! How many of these points did you resonate with?
my favorite memory of me and my best friend is this one night we were watching youtube and it was talking about depression and things and it was showing this little light that was always there, in the end, no matter what and after the video, we started talking about our friendship and how we are always there for each other and how it makes us both a lot happier than if we weren't, we both have saved each other's lives and I'm so grateful for that moment we shared because it grew us even closer than I thought possible.
Each and every point reminded me of my best friend!! 💜
Wish everyone out there has such a bestfrnd to make u feel being loved and less burdened...
See ya! Have a good day!! 😘
A good friend helps you in any situation...
... right after he laughs at you
It’s 1 am and I can’t sleep
*laughs in insomniac as I text my bff*
Its 4:30 am here😆😆😆
2:50 AM
@TZUYEH SYLVIA TSENG 曾子耶 NEVER
Um my arse that sleep at 2 pm laughing at y'all 🗿✌️
Literally me every night
Your voice is phenomenal. Especially when you number off although it’s not as defined in this video you change it up, but it’s noticeable when you say “4.” Hypnotizing really. Excellent niche.
I've been with my best friend now for almost 10+ years
Gotta love her💖
I have a best friend who’s always there for me and supports me. I know she’s a true friend because of all of these.
Hehe it's 4:16 am. I will regret this in a few hours
I watch this channel because I like understanding other people, and this teaches me things and helps me to understand different people with different personalities and problems
I generally didn’t know this. Because I don’t have friends.
Same
I have a friend there name is loneliness
loser
@@thevzil9462 ur mom said that when u were born
…a hearty knowing laugh with your accomplice best friend is priceless…
I love her voice, it's so calming!
It's so soothing. And, you feel so relaxed when you hear such a beautiful sweet voice.
I'm 57 and I would be lost without my bestie! We met only a year ago and right from the start felt a connection; the rest is history! Oh and we practice all 8 ways to be a best friend. Thank you, these videos are priceless!
I had a pretty good friend who was also my neighbour. We had been friends since kindergarten. She had horses, dogs and birds. I often wanted to spend time with her. I guess I also learned a bit about horses and what to be aware of. She broke her arm falling one of the horses. Unfortunatly someone in the neighbourhood complained over the horses and they had to be moved. After that their family seperated and my friend moved to an appartment in the city.
i do have some frienship issues these days, but i am just greetful that i know the reasons of problems in my relations. Your videos help so much to understand myself and other people. So thank you Psych2Go.
Is it just me or is her voice like ASMR? lmaoo
Yess 💯💯
A friend understands, not judges. If one thing defines a friend.. this is it!
If only I had one of those “best friends” I always hear about
We make each other happy when we are feeling down we never betray each other we never talk behind each other’s back we always come up about our future together we hype each other up she’s amazing I love her.
When you know that you've done everything "bff's do for each other" even if you didn't watch the vid😍❤
That's good to know! How many of these points did you relate to? :)
Probably...all of them for me...but not for him...Idk...I just like him too much that I care so much bout him
Best friends are hard to come by. When you do, treasure it and keep it going.
Do you have any friends:(?
I lost my bestfriend 2 years ago but it still feels like yesterday
same
I love my best friend so much, I appreciate her presence in my life and we've been friends for more than 10 yrs and looking at our friendship, I always feel that we've grown so much.
“Having strong close friendship”
Me be like my parents won’t let me hangout with peeps that they don’t know that I definitely have told about but they just forget cuz they can:
Well sh**
(Is tru before you comment- I have turned down a lot of hangout times with my friends but I have to cancel due to my parents just forgetting that I HAVE talked about these friends; I think they only people they can “approve” for me to hang out is my ex classmates of jr high... When I literally dislike them...)
same which makes me get left out half of the time
My best friend and I met when we were 3 years old and now we're both 20. We've grown up together, had some problems when we were teens because I made some stupid mistakes but she never left me. I'm so glad to have her in my life
Hey :D I now know a lot of things about my self and I'm trying too fix the problems like since I'm depressed I've been trying too do more things I like and listening too A LOT OF MUSIC but thank you 🤭💖I also have a best friend who is like this and we are now dating 😙👉👈
My best friend and I know each other so well, we can talk about everything and even know when something is up she’s been there for everything. She’s a mother now and I’m not; but we encourage each other through everything even her son loves me like I’m another mother. Like it’s a little weird not having children of my own but she knows I would never put him any danger.
I'm happy that those things are seen in our friendship :'>
They listen, give honest feedback and speak their truth!
I wish I had a best friend like these 😔😔
Best friend are there to comfort you when you are afraid, whether it's of something deep or something silly, they will always be there
When you're bestfriends but you don't really share your emotions or thoughts because you're scared they won't take it seriously 👀👍
Reminded me of a few moments with best friends later on, but pointed out to me that I didn't have one in school.
try watching this after you lose your bestfriend. bet you’ll cry.
when you realise that your “best friend” was completely fake and you couldn’t even see it until you watched this video
This just happened to me. She is just a regular friend, the thing that makes her special is the fact that I don't have any other friends. (introvert in a nutshell)
Sometimes I feel like I don't have any Best Friend..but then I remember that I have my childhood friend, were we once fought and distance ourselves from each other long time ago. Now I was really wondering what are his feelings towards me on our friendship, and I don't feel 100% confident, but I feel better. Love this vid 💞
When you have no friends:
👁👄👁
U👄U
😢👄😢
@TZUYEH SYLVIA TSENG 曾子耶 uh huh... you will probably betray him/her... that's fake.
@@odessawales ouch. You never know, there could really want to be there friend..
@@odessawales you probably have had bad experiences. I had the same interaction with someone and I'm actually really good friends with them as of now :)
If someone did betray you, I hope you're feeling a lot better now
I needed this, my sister sent this to me after leaving a fake best friend. It was really hard. But she never did any of these. I’ve found a real best friend. And it helps so much.
Thanks for sharing! How many of these signs did you relate to?
This channel is helping me alot 😀
We're glad we are able to help you in some way! What other topics would you like to watch from us next?
I know my best friend for 7 years already! We do everything from this video ❤️
When you don’t even have friends but still watch this 👁💧👄💧👁
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How did you feel after watching this?
@@Psych2go i felt like i have known knowledge
The quarantine made me realise what my best friend means to me :') I love her so muchhh
What memories with a best friend? Never had one, probably never will.
I don't have a bff
But there's this person who keeps talking to me
Use to go to school with me, and we talk everyday
Dunno if I should trust them.
But basic message, you'll find your bff at some point.
Same because their all fake
I have a best friend it took a while but I found her you will find yours soon 😊
@@vee._.reads101 you may find it difficult to find real people but there is some real ones out there you find them just give it time :)
I gave up on friends long ago I’m mostly a loner now
The first one reminded me of something. (Trigger warning.)
Back when my family was being very toxic with me in middle school. I used to contemplate suicide a lot. They basically made me believe that I was a mistake, a complete utter failure at everything. I was this monster that somehow caused the problems in the family. And the ADHD meds I was on probably made it a lot worse. I used to be so stressed I would grind my teeth at night, my eyes sometimes twitched, and I believe I even had random heart palpatations because of them.
One evening I tried to go through with it, with a kitchen knife, afterall no one would miss me. I sat there sitting against the kitchen counter, mentally saying goodbye. I thought about my best friend. He would be at my funeral. He would probably be crying.
He was the one person in my life that cared enough to listen to me when I was upset and tell me that my family was clearly being abusive and that I wasn't some terrible person. Nor was I a mistake, or crazy. I couldn't bare to betray that. He was the one person in my life that actually knew that I wasn't the happy go lucky kid that everyone kinda knew.
I gave up and swore that as long as he was my friend I couldn't let him down. Even if things got worse I just couldn't bare to imagine leaving him. This might sounds incredibly corny, but I'm grateful that he was my friend. And, while I hope he doesn't have to go through bad times, I hope to help him as much as he helped me.
Even if he wasn't there with me at that very moment. Just knowing he was my friend saved my life.
Me: sees a girl siting on another girl lap
Also me: oh they must be a couple
Them: were friends
Me:🙃
Duh_ ItsNewlyn
yeah 😂😂😂 but don’t worry it’s not
My short bff(she's a girl btw) : *lays her head down on my lap randomly on the bus*
Me(I'm also a girl) : ;-;
The people sitting around us on the bus: *_OOOOOOOH~ I SHIP IT OMG I NEVER KNEW SHE WAS LEZ_*
Me being the shy kid: *_ima just commit lego_*
My bff:
4:52
"Did anything remind you of you and your bestfriend?"
Me: *Starts emotionally crying cuz I never had a best friend like this*
Yeah..all my "bestfriends" we're toxic, I never really had an actual one
@@redribbon2 Are you a girl or a boy. I also need a best friend. Idc if it's online or offline i just need someone who can relate to me and most importantly *talk to me* everyday because i don't know.. also if you're comfortable then say how old you are.
realizing my best friend is kind of the worst...
Great one to watch after your best friend moves several thousand miles away. Feels great. Thanks universe.
This makes me think of my friend before they stopped contacting me for 2 almost 3 weeks randomy (nothing in the friendship was wrong and they're still gone)
I have a boy best friend and most of the people who knows us tells us that we are a
secretly dating...but we know what the truth is ....our families knows each other and he is the one that i can talk about anything and everything...even if i have period cramps,he just make me so comfortable and in my tougher times he calls me so much and wont hang up until he feels that i am completely fine...he scolds me like he is my mom and even i does the same...he is dating somebody else, but he gives equal importance to me too..and i am kind of tomboy type,so his girlfriend even dont have a problem..he knows my deepest darkest secrets and i know his....
I am truly lucky to have him in my life😊
I'm so lucky 🍀 to have a best friend 😊😊😊
Why brag? 💔
That's good to know! How many of these things mentioned in this video did you resonate with?
@@Psych2go all of them to be honest, especially the making u happy one, it's a big improvement in my quite, introverted life
My best friend always helped me with depression because she was ALWAYS there for me so I had little to no alone time and little to no alone time is when my depressive symptoms would kick in
Everyone: quoting meaningful things
Me: ima go eat mentos
Wait bring me with you-
@@spoon7016 Of course. The mentos love must be shared.
@@kyri193 thank you 💖
Soy Sause :>
Can I have some
this video is great ! !! I do love it coz I saw a paper about friendship support yesterday, that is consistent with this video!!! " friends can buffer the effect of negative experiences" and the research demonstrated that friendship is more important than family support!!!
Family doesn’t require blood, it requires love ❤️❤️
-Dhar Mann
Idc that its from dhar man its a good quote
You are blessed if you have a best friend.
I wonder is it possible to have a best friend that is purely an online relationship?
Fun fact: Everyone else including me who is commenting right now hasn’t even watched half the video yet
No matter how long and far u and ur best friend r separated, it'll still feel like they nvr left and no distance has been created during the separation when u meet up again
This makes me big sad 'cause I have no best friend.
Now's your chance.
@@mohammadhaaziq8663
Alright, I'm slow. What you hinting at?
Same
same, it’s so hard for me to make friends.
Same here.
Ty! Ur videos are so helpful! I watch almost every video and find out more about myself and others! Yall are the best ❤
Hey @psych2go I want to know how do you grow relationship with your friend even if you know you are two different people but have a good connection
Hey @TZUYEH SYLVIA TSENG 曾子耶 thank you, I will try that
“they’re not a family but they feel like a family”
- Jeon Jeongguk
I’ve never had a best friend in my 18 years of life or even a close friend😂😭
Just friends an acquaintances😂😂
Same here, none in 20 years (Whoops that rhymes! 😳😅)
I’m crying from how cute the animation is ❤️
Sadly most friends I made in the past never did this and left me :(
These are all the the things I dreamed in having in a friendship, but never had
Hello 👋 I’m early so idk what to write
Hello and welcome back :)
This reminded me of one of my former best friends. Idk, but I always feel like I over thought and looked at things. Even though I felt that I wasn't appreciated, lied too, even though they never kept up to what they said they would do, even though what I wanted wasn't considered. I gave this person several chances and even went back to them and apologized when I shouldn't have myself. This is what I dislike about myself. I'm to forgiving and at the same timr distant. Idk if Ill ever be able to make another best friend. No one seems to put any effort into building a close friendship with me
Sorry for ranting and posting a sob story. Im struggling to get past this
Me and my friend are always there for each other I’ve known her for 6 years and she’s really nice!
But....I don’t tell her a lot cause I just don’t want her to worry...when I feel sad or......Suicidal.... but I tell her one day...........I have tried but i am happy I didn’t succeed on that cause I would miss her or she would miss me!
i have known my bff for 7 years
i was suicidal for 2 years(i'm getting over it)
and told them in febuary
trust me it REALLY does help
Mary!! I told her after a few months or more... but I haven’t been as bad as I was before
I don't have a huge friend circle, but I have a few really close friends that I'm glad I have. We're not afraid of. being wakadoos together. I'd say we bring out the best in each other. :)
nobody cares but i have 2 best friends (so like we're 3) and i love them so much :')
i wanna buy bff necklaces/bracelets but they're usually for 2 persons only T - T
You can find some for groups of 3 on Amazon!
Or buy a 2 piece for them. There your best friends
Make them ?
go to claires they have a lot
Remembering my bestie of ten years. We are far apart but she's extremely special to me.