9 Signs Someone Will be Your Best Friend for Life
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Do you have a best friend? Good friends are hard to find and not all of us are lucky enough to have someone in our lives we can call our best friend. However, all too often do we drift apart from those we once considered our dearest friends because life has taken us in different directions, and when that happens, you can’t help but feel lonelier for the loss. Amazingly enough, though, there are people out there who’ve managed to find true friends and stay with them for the rest of their lives - it’s the kind of friendship most of us hope to find for ourselves someday. So, are you wondering if you’re one of the lucky ones when it comes to friendship? Do you want to know if you and your best friend can stand the test of time and stay friends forever? In this video, we'll talk about the signs someone will be your best friend for life!
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Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa & Ria Parikh
Script Editor: Isadora Ho & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Karen Fong
UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
Have you found your BFF this year?
Found her years ago
Yos
No
Sadly no
Yes :)
"A friend will help you move. A best friend will help you move a body." - Dave Attell
Haha nice quote! Got any more? -Monica
@@wasabi_noob8902 Exactly what I thought
Gotta hide the body from the police xD
Top ten ways confirm your best pal is for the long run
YESSSSS
Lol
It’s hard to find a best friend for life like that, don’t you agree?
Yeah, it's hard. :(
ABSOLUTELY
I agree, that's why I feel very lucky to have someone like that in my life
but you can still be one to someone else.
Yep but it will happen. It did for ne
Warning: the comment section is full of time travelers
T I M E T R A V E L
;-;
Really
Man, you think the time travelers would have better things to do than to comment on a You Tube video!! XD
the doctor? is that you....
not only are these videos helpful, they're absolutely adorable.
Yes. That snuggle scene on the roof. "I got you too." 💖
They must work so hard on these, I love how cute they are
Thank you for your support! What would you like to see next? -Monica
@@Psych2go something involving how stress can affect your job/work would be interesting.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special, and I think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse.
Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them.
With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Romantic relationships are pointless, while platonic relationships are not.
I met mine in middle school. We started off as enemies but now we're lifelong friends.
O my god! same story here
@@rensan5655
I was actually playing a game like that with a similar story except they met up 10 years later.
@@rensan5655 same,I had a friend on the 7th grade and we share almost the same interests and we had fights stopped talking for a few weeks then made up,became best friends then 8th grade happened...
I moved schools and now we dont talk even online
Somehow, my bff/significant other already knew each other without ever meeting. We understood each other perfectly.
Me too! I used to hate my best friend when we were toddlers but now we best friendsssss
This is what I exactly need in my life.
The intimacy in This degree is something I have never experienced and something I want a lot.
Most people around me are just emotionally too distant or even worse they just don't empathize anyone.
I never had a problem with having fun by myself or shouldering something that pushes me to my limit. In fact I'm considering myself to be most resilient person among my family, even the loss of my grandparents didn't affected me that much. Not that I didn't care, I knew that someday they would be gone from this world and I was cherishing every moment that we have spent.
But now I realized how much I want someone to talk, laugh and cry together.
My best friend has all of these signs except the arguing one, only because we’ve never truly “fought” or argued
Yea I know that with my mate tbh
my best friend and i had a big fight 3 yrs ago, but she’s the best person in my life and when we grow up we are moving to italy together because who need to meet new people and get married when we have eachother and enough money to buy cats? :))))
I thought so too, but then we had a massive fight and we fall apart, didn't see her after that. A couple months later we started to see each other again and I dare say our friendship become stronger after that.
@Aleah Talitha yes! my friend and i didn’t talk for a year, i mean we were still friends but not close. and then last year we became the bestest friends ever. i love her so so much (i would die for her tbh). i’d give anything for her to be happy, even my own happiness. she’s the best.
I've got a friend who does all these things to literally everyone except the arguing/fighting
I had all of these with my old best friend but then they replaced me
im so sorry that happened D:
Mine told me to f*** off. Then he had the audacity to come up for a visit by where I live. And not seek me out. He lived 4 hrs away. And our friendship stretched back to the early 2010s. F*** Austin!!!😠😭
s a m e
Same
If i had a penny for each time a friend replaced me then i’d have so much that trees would be extinct
I already found and lost such a friend
Mee to😣
Go have a conversation with them? If you can.
@@nightorchid5031 I dont have any contact with that person😅
@@nightorchid5031 I tried but she still talks rudely to me, now I don't wanna talk to her 🥴
@@yohatakekakashi1062 Ah.
Im sure you can find another.
I’ve noticed the calling out thing recently and it’s VERY true! It’s very important. And a lot of the time, it’s really awkward, but it needs to happen
POV this applies to your friendship and you met them like 4 days ago and instantly clicked. You also frequently jinx each other without intention.
I fell for someone for the first time ever. Currently wrestling these feelings, as he don’t feel the same no more and will never give a future together a chance. Grateful to have him as one of my best friends at least while I spend near two months and counting healing the heartbreak.
this is off topic but all ur videos are so adorable omg the little drawings are the cutest
I’ve known my best friend for less than a year, but I knew he was my best friend after only a few months when I found myself trusting him. And not only trusting him, but wanting to trust him, which was a first for me. Honestly, I hadn’t realized how much I needed a best friend until I shared a very personal song with him that required me to basically explain my whole story; then i asked him to explain his, and he obliged. We were up at the school until probably 1 or 2 am; there were many hugs and even though neither of us is a crier (let alone in front of other people) we both came very close to it lol. His now-girlfriend, who is a close friend of mine as well, cried a LOT. That night was the first time I had called someone my best friend since elementary school, though I didn’t realize that until well afterward.
And then, the next day, something happened that caused all the painful memories i had shared to flare up even more. Emotionally, I was out of commission for a week and a half (which included exam/performance week), but he stuck by me through it and we both still managed to end the semester with very high grades. Sometimes I wonder why the heck he’d ever want to be my friend. But I’m incredibly thankful to God for placing us in each other’s lives, and grateful that he’d deign to become my brother.
If you ever see this-love you man!
My best friend of 43 years is someone I can trust. We always tell each other secrets and can confide in each other. I hope we remain friends for many more years!
I consider myself to be very lucky for having a BFF. He shows 7-8 signs that you mentioned. Nice video.❄️❄️☺️❤️❤️
Me and my BFF definitely call each other out on our BS!!! We don’t get offended because secretly we know they’re right and we just won’t admit it to ourselves. I think it’s super important to surround yourself with people who aren’t just yes men and will actually tell ya the truth (respectfully ofc)
I met my best friend Matias Gonalez in 2005, I was 14, we were in the eighth grade. When we were Sophomores in High school, I had to move to Tennessee, that was in 2008. The last time I saw him was in December of 2010, seven months after him and I both graduated high school, him from Hernando high school in Florida and me from Tennessee. little did I know that this would be the last time I would ever see my friend, a year later, my mother told me that Matias had moved back to his home country of Uruguay. He is currently Serving in the army, stationed in Africa. We still chat on Facebook when we get the chance, however, we do not end our conversations without saying 'I love you' to one another. Our friendship is still going strong to this day.
i love these videos. the art/animation style is so cute, the voice is so pleasing to listen to, the background music fits the tone, and i learn a lot from this channel!
It says the comment was 4 weeks ago but this vid was posted 7 mins ago.
I love the drawing so muchhh
It's so cutee
And I know my best friend is for life QwQ
My best friend and I met on the first day of secondary school we had all the same classes and apparently we argued all the time but we don’t remember that even thought we’ve only known eachother for two years we feel like we have known eachother for centuries and he is always there to have my back and I’m always there to have his.
Even this year we are still in the same classes but because of covid and my school is shutting down every term so we mostly have online lessons
Every single one of these questions is a yes! I have three best friends and they are lifelong friends! We do All of these
I think I found one... she’s an amazing person who I trust my life with. My BFF, she is what helps me through everything even life sometimes. Me and her, even through the pandemic, i stopped contact with her. I’m sorry for not contacting her, but I feel like it was the right thing to do because of my anxiety. She’s doing well, I know because we met in person again. I hope I’ll see her again.
Through a beautiful graphic novel I have played and another year added to my life I think it is my time to be a better friend to everybody. In the end everybody just wants to be loved and understood.
After I get some friend drama out my heart though -.-
Me and my best friend have been friends for a year now, we got close in under a year and we have a very deep bond. I love her so much
Yes she is 🥺🙏🏽❤️
Thank you and Love you my Lord 🥺❤️
I'm glad to say that I do have a bfff. Thank you Mark, you'll probably never see this. But you are my best friend
Thanks for sharing. We happy to hear that! Did you share this video with Mark to let him know?
Me watching this: yes I have my two best friends
I told them I was part of lgbtq first they supported me and are really nice to me, and we tell each other our deepest secrets and never tell ✨❤️
I literally want friends like that, where I can tell them my secrets and trusting them. Trustworthy friends.
I found a best friend. They are the best person I've ever met, I never actually knew what true friendship was until I met them. But they are moving away as soon as I thought they would be with me forever. It hurts but I know she'll meet a ton of amazing people and go on so many fun adventures. It's a bittersweet ending to a chapter in my life I could never forget.
i feel these towards my best friend, we’ve been close friends since 3rd grade which is 10 years ago. we grew apart for quite a while but ended up being close again but i don’t think she thinks of me as her best friend but we’re still really close so i’m good
My best friend is my mirror because whenever I cry it never laughs 😌😊
my 4 close friends tick all of the boxes... i think im extremely lucky wiw
I cried.
I wish I had a friend. Most fade away
Me literally about to cry because all these points point to the friendship me and my bestie have ❤️🥺
We've been friends since we both were 5 ❤️😋
i had a friend and i think if he wasn’t gone then it would’ve lasted forever
I found my bf, and he happens to be my bf too :)
I think I've found mine, we just click, even if we're busy right now we knew and met up right before that and would if we had time in between. I trust her with my life. 💙
I feel a real connection with my best friend and we both love each other so much. We have been friends for 2 years and have had 1 argument, but we don't have anymore. The reason for this is we don't want to lose each other over small disagreements. She is the only person I can be myself with, unlike other friends. And she is someone I can trust, and I mean trust her with things I can't tell FAMILY. I'm on holiday right now and all I want right now is to embrace her...
Honestly, sometimes I feel lonely.. I see lost of people being so close to eachother and it makes me wonder when if I'll ever find someone like that. I have lots of friends and also best friends which I'm grateful for, but it still feels like I haven't found the right one, and that sometimes makes me tear up.
damnnn, I've known my best friend for like 10 years and through this entire video I could only think about her and how much she means to me, and I know it's mutual.
My cousin is my BFF! And I am very happy about that :)
I found a best friend and hopefully will be forever. Me and my best friend couldn’t be more different but I couldn’t imagine my life without her. I sometimes joke how if we ever live together then I wouldn’t be able to stand her, because of all he weird:annoying things she does and how different we are. But I think if she ever stoped doing one of her weird things then I’d probably think something’s wrong. And because I’m such an introvert I thought the person I’d spend the most time with would be somewhat an introvert too. So it was kind of weird to say I couldn’t live without someone who’s so different from me. But after watching this video it make me so happy. That maybe we are bffs^-^
I have 2 best friends. One who's into Disney, and one who's into anime & video games. The one who's into Disney, I've known her since my first summer camp, and the one who's into anime & video games, I met him in the middle of 5th grade. I have both of their phone numbers. I saw my Disney-obsessed friend last week. My anime & video game friend, I haven't seen since my last birthday party.
My best friend checks all these Mark's. He has seen me at my worst and I've seen him at his bad times too. We hell each other out and make sure neither of us feel lonley or sad.
Hes absolutely perfect
These signs show that my online friend is a best friend forever 😊
I already found my BFF but... I didn't accept it because she's a very toxic person. But now that I watch this I never rlly knew that we were this close.
after almost 8 years we are still bestfriends, we grew up with eachother, he moves but we call and play games almost every day! i have lost plenty of friends these years but he stayed with me through everything and im very greatful for having such a good best friend! we plan to go to the same school and have our future ferrets to be best friends!
I love these videos, but they always leave me with an empty feeling.
If you have a friend who you can make jokes with, no matter what they are about, and they laugh. Or you have a friend who is always hyping you up about your interests or passions, even if it's something they're not into, I envy you more than you could ever know.
I've never had a friend I was super close with and still don't.
Most of my friend are fake or toxic, so when someone turns out to actually care, even just and little bit and out me, they mean so much to me. But the friendly affection I give to them, or things I say, make them think that we are closer than we really are. And I hurt myself when I put my whole heart into our friendship and it ends off, even if we weren't even that close.
If you don't have this problem, I envy you to a point where I feel angry or sad when I see genuine and happy exchanges between you and your friend(s).
Loved ones and others I trust keep telling me to be patient, but I don't know how long I can wait for someone like that. I can't wait for a true friend.
And when I find someone who won't push me away, I'm scared that I might go too crazy. Acting like we're best friends now. I have been known to do this.
At least I'm lucky enough to have a great relationship with my perents. Otherwise I might have given up on trying.
I'm still just barely hanging on, but hanging on nonetheless.
Cherish your friends, because there are many out there like me who aren't so lucky. ♥💔💚 sorry this was so long. Congratulations if you made it this far!
I haven't had an argument with my best friend yet. Probably because we only communicate through text because we're long distant friends.
I really love these videos! I found out that me and my friend are gonna be best friends forever :DD
I already found mine🥺💗
I have to people who show these signs and I'm grateful for it🤗 but this kind of friendship, if is the base of a romantic relationship it will thrive😄
I have a sister $ bestie who has all of these qualities...
But she's shifting to another place 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Love you ritta
Good luck finding a best friend bcz the very best one is already mine;)
hi, i’m 14 now btw, when i was 12 i met a girl at school. never thought we would be friends, but look at us now! we are best friends and we have everything in this video) i love her so much
even though she changed schools we still talk like 6 hours a day
My ex bff and i were literally inseparable and all of this was true a year ago... we’d been best friends for 7 years and then we suddenly stopped talking because our lives kinda separated. I really miss her, and i don’t think ill ever find someone like her again. We still talk every now and then, but were not even close to being best friends... dang, now that its written down, it’s a lot sadder than I thought. I guess we weren’t meant to be best friends 😔
I lived so close to my best friend but then I moved away in other country and I’m just seeing her every summer and It’s getting worser cos I’m not able to see her this summer she is my best friend from when we were kids I miss her so much it hurts cos I won’t be able to see her soon :((
This sums up my relationship with my best friend entirely. I'm so happy to have him! but.. is it wrong to love my best friend?
A best friend is someone who if u 2 dont talk for months and then randomly text them its just the same
I hope I'll find one. Thank u for the video :)
Wow I now know that I found my best friend for life...
Thanks!😄
I’ve been best friends with my best friend for 5 years and we’ve never fought, we do disagree but we don’t really care and go along with it
Also, we always punch each other but not to like, hurt each other, funsies
Can you make a video on how to build lasting friendships? That’s really all I want in 2021.
I was professionally... diagnosed? (Idk how to call it) with concealed depression and having friends at a time was hard for me because I felt that I wore a mask all the time around people. But I found this awesome group of girls that literally has done or made me feel like that and I'm so grateful that life got them to me
Hewwo, I love your videos and they've helped me a lot
i really love your videos.... Can you guys make a video about controlling narcissistic friends? My ex has the most toxic friend on the planet... He never allowed my ex to form an opinion for himself and he kept taking up all of his time so my ex wouldn't have time for other ppl.... not even other friends....or himself... when my ex would try and stand up for himself the "friend" manipulated him by screaming or threatening the friendship or playing the victim..a big part about having a best friend is letting each other live life as individuals and still respect one another when you get together.... they have been friends for a decade and ive been my exes first gf since they met...
Randomly came up, I've been bestfriends with my bro since I was 6. I'm 34 now, the amount of fights, adventures, downs ups literally as an only child and he has an older brother. We're more bros than his brother.
I remember having a fight with his bro launched him into a wall and right hooked him, I thought oh shit I'm dead, he put his head down like it's brothers fighting.
I remember us having our only ever argument which escalated intl a fight when I was 17 he was 18, he knocked me the f*ck out picked me up and said what fight kid ?
Love that kid to pieces.
Your long distance best friends and still manage to be super close
I'm so glad I'm only in 8th grade, and I already have a BFF! ... We had a pretty big fight last year, but we've put that behind us. I'm so glad I can count on her! Ruth, if you're reading this, 😅 I want you to know that you're my absolute best friend, and I hope we never grow apart! 😊
this is like... both of them need to be more or less mentally healthy
this is not juts bff, this is soulmate
woah I'm early-
I'm not done the video yet but I know that my best friend will alway be with me! :)I love all of these videos and ai enjoy learning all these new things💕
It's so difficult... I feel like an absolute looser.. like the only time I had a true TRUEST best friend was in 2nd grade which is just sad. her name was Monica, and till this day I still miss her even though i have a few friends but it feels like I'm not even that close with them. Monica didnt even feel like a friend, she felt like a SISTER.
i did found one, and i threw the friendship away.
Wow... my best friend and I check off all the boxes.
Found mine in September, then solidified it in less than a month. :D
POV: You've found your best friend but to them you're just a friend.
My best friend just send me this video... I love her so much :)
Me And my best friend always laugh no matter what even if we’re bored we just find a funny word and we’ll laugh for 1000000000000 hours
Well it's strange but we show all the signs...I got a best friend for life 😊
Me and my best friend were like this, literally having all these signs, but still, last months, our friendship kinda.. became damaged a lot. Now... I don't see my best friend to be a lifelong one
Your videos are sooo adorable 🥺
7 signs of 9, and the for the 2 other ones it's just that they don't show themselves yet, so, I think I found my best friend for life n.n
All of these signs fit my best friend, I know hes the one
0:26
Title: _"(9?) signs you have found bfff"_
Psych2go: *"8 signs hmmm"*
Yes I have been with my best friend for 18 years
I have a best friend like that even though we don’t talk a lot between one another it doesn’t seem like any time past when we do talk again and she is a fantastic wonderful friend I will do anything for her as necessary to help her
Some of yall need bestfriend?
In case u do, im here
There IS such a thing as TOO different.
I feel like for #6, my best friend and I would call each other out like,
My friend: “YOU ARE THE WORST MOST MANIPULATIVE PERSON IVE EVER MET!”
Me: “Y-you’re dumb 🤧 IM SORRY!”
My friend: lol
Me and I my friend show like seven of these signs but given time I believe we’ll be best friends also kinda hard to build a freindship with someone during covid
Last year i invited one of my schoolmate to bookfair ,since then we become kind of closer than before.
He sometimes meet me, greet me,we have lunch together, sit beside each other when we in the same class .I can be considered introvert but i like how he always irritated me because he make me feel "exist".
I always considered him as my best friend and tell about my problem, about myself but there some kind of line between us
He once said that he fought with his family but he doesn't want to talk to me bout it ..I understand it's hard but he did talk bout his childhood problem to our another two friends,when i wanna listen to it ,he doesn't seems like wanna me to
As someone who have problem in social life,it makes me feel left out.
There also lot of things that he do make me doubt whether we are really best friend,
Sometimes i think that only i assume that we are..T.T
i still listen to that song you wrote
Feels like I have 4 best friends atm
Why I'm still watching this, I Don't even have "normal" friends
Your crush would love to be your best friend for life.
I hope i have friends like this :)
If I ever found a best friend for life, I would ask her to marry me. Isn't that what marriage is really about, solidifying your Best Friendship til death do you apart?
Am I the only one watching these to make sure I’m a good friend for my friends?
I just had a really weird thing happen... I burnt my whole arm in boiling water because, well I guess I just wanted to. It made me feel better. I feel like I deserved it. It was hurting so bad, but it was like good at the same time. My closest friend asked what I was up to over text and I told her about it because I tell her everything. She got really worried about me and asked if I was ok. I told her I was fine, and that I do this all the time. This time I actually got hurt though, more than just a surface burn. She sent me this
"Well I don't think that's right... Wow, water bursting blood vessels? Okay... Just don't do that again. Promise me. Not to hurt yourself again. As your best friend, I can't stand the thought of you getting hurt. That scares me. A lot. I won't tell *other friend* but you need to promise to not do that again."
I just... idk what to tell her. I've never had a best friend before and this means so much to me. I just met her 6 months ago, but I think I finally found my best friend forever.