Dating Over 60 What Do Single Men Over 60 Really Want
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He's looking for a mute cook, maid and nurse. LOL!!
This guy’s living in la-la land I’ve never had an over 60 open a door for me in a fit. And their first questions are about my assets. Men over 60 just want to make sure that you’ll not be any kind of financial burden on them, that you’ll accept always being last after the whole rest of their families, grown up kids esp. and that you require no commitment whatsoever from them. Past that they will dump you in a nano-second for Anybody younger than you.
Some women over 60, look better than women in their 20's. I would agree that this is not easy, not being fat and very fit, but these women exist. I saw them.
Run away from creeps. But you called it correctly for many of these men who just want to use you.
I open doors for women all the time. I haven't had any negative reactions, but i hear that some guys do.
I'm 75 and was married at 69. I was looking for (and found) an equal in intelligence, education and crazie. I won
Congratulations!
Lucky you it's a rare occurrence.
it is really in time at 69, not worth anymore to marry at such age better of alone then, you marry at 25-30 or latest at 50
@@williamvanholder3368 Idiot
Or marry someone much younger.
Men that reach 60 and or already 60 want to reach 70 in peace. Regardless of being alone or with someone.
you act like 60 is 100
Same with women, before we fall apart 🤭
Right, I'm not trying to build a famly. I'm past all that and if they don't fit the program I'm on then they can go get on someone else's..
Right. But that's also what I wanted when I was 30 and 40 and 50.
If I wanted a woman, she'd have to be a gentle, calm, loving presence in my life. I've had enough angry, violent, nagging women to last forever.
So do women.
When I was 61 I dated and got engaged to a 52 year old. I was willing to give up some of my independence, but I will not babysit a drama queen, emotional wreck, therapist's dream or an alcoholic. Also if you are a widow-STOP comparing us to your dead husband!
" Also if you are a widow-STOP comparing us to your dead husband!"
I think they may do that IF You stop comparing these elderly women with Your previous YOUNG girlfriends. However I think You are unable to do that because You NEED to remember them and the time You had with them just as You sometimes need to look at young girls . You have these needs because You need to stimulate Your testosterone production. Young women stimulate our testosterone production more then elerly women do, We men need to have a good testosterone production or we become unhealthy. I think this is also the primary reason we can´t stay away from porn when we do not have a good sexual relation.
By comparing You with their dead husband they are making a statement about how attractive they were when they were young ....
Doesn't have to be a dead guy. They're comparing your shortcomings with a previous guys perfection. You'll always be the lesser prize. The consolation.
At least if he's dead, she can't get him back.
I’m with you on being compared to a widow (ex wife, first love, etc.).
How old is this guy? I think he’s really out of touch with reality!
The implication of his being out of touch with reality is that he'll have to put up with any or all of that.
I'm a super woman my husband passed away for 5 year..I never think to marry ag ain. And suddenly a man from from Facebook said hello and told his divorced 3 times .I've only known him.for 3 weeks and ask me to come to USA..i thought it's a scam. Cant believe...we registered our marriage in Las Vegas..and I found the greatest man in life. God fearing and loving..I'm blessed..🤩we are now 6 years and still going..thank you jesus. 🙏😇😍
I hope you mean he died 5 years ago. "He passed away for 5 years," sounds like he rose from the dead after 5 years.
I am so happy for you but I’m 68 year old woman married for 44 years and if I am ever on my own again I’ll never remarry.
This reminds me of one of Nicole Kidman lines in “The Human Stain” says I’m not your first love but I want to be you last.” It’s tough for women being with men this age. No one wants to be a “caregiver” partner because of bad health.
That's works both ways, by the way.
@@dangerousdanny8290 exactly
@@sethtenrec Actually men healths decline more and you guys think you can still go after much younger women shoot if I am a 60 yo I would still rather be alone!
Works both ways…my ex-girlfriend of 30 years ago is besieged with health problems while I am in very good health… we almost married and I am thankful we did not marry…
I can't afford the groceries that most of these overweight women must eat. 😢😢
I just turned 70, single, never married, no kids…had a good job and saved a lot of money….been retired 6 years and done 15 international trips since… meeting women overseas and having the best time of my life….
Glad you are having fun!
I am in no way interested in Western women. Overseas...the way to go
@@bertposton589 "Overseas...the way to go"
Maybe so ... just remember "no money , no honey" ( as the thai bar girls use to day with a laugh...)
Keep doing that…🎉🎉🎉
Oh boi
Where is this man? I wish. Most seem to want a nurse or a purse.
They exist, we find them with clients all the time.
Love your wording. 🤣🤣
@@EZDatingCoach What PLANET are they on because it damn sure is NOT earth.
I am a nurse with a purse and am NEVER giving up either. You want medical assistance? Pay me. Reality folks.
@@annmariemarino2003 my gf is a nurse, I get my medical care from my medical provider, not her.
I've been single for a while, I am 69. I would like to meet a good man and his age is unimportant to me, younger would be nice. I notice many men in my age group are unhealthy, depressed, drink too much, and talk endlessly about the terrible marriage they left. Or they seem to think that if they buy dinner I owe them sex. It's difficult to meet good men who could make a good partner. Oh well. The good news is..... I love my life, friends, and am fine if I never meet anyone!
Hi Debbie. Thanks for leaving me a comment. Yes, there are a lot of men in that age group that are unhealthy and depressed. It certainly can be overwhelming weeding through all those guys. Many of my clients have felt the exact same way. But, what they have found is that if you have a good filtering system and a strategy you can get to a great guy efficiently. If you would like my help in showing you how to do this, book a call with me here: www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Mike, I have the added stress of having to start over financially. I'm cleaning homes right now at age 61 and living with and helping my 90 year old mom. I just don't have the money to work with you let alone go travelling with a guy. This makes me feel ashamed that I didn't set my life up better in the first place. I live in Canada so the exchange rate doesn't help. I know my shame about lack of money is a huge barrier to being my best self. I need to deal with this before I can even think of attracting the right man. I want to end by saying that I think your videos are superb and I appreciate them very much even though I've never acted on them. You make a huge difference in the world!
Thanks for the kind words. Keep going, you got this!! 👍👍
❤My situation is similar…I have all the freedom of retirement and I know what I want and love…at this stage of life I want someone fun to travel and play with. Unfortunately, I am on a fixed income and am totally burned out on the theme of most relationship coaches Who empathize “How to manipulate a Man into Loving You”….So I chose to just continue loving and improving myself and being my own best friend…I have No Interest in the Dating Game…My hope that while I live my best life, my Partner will show up at the Dog Park, the Golf Course, the Horse Show, Ski Slopes or a Card Table. Either way…I would rather live alone…then make another costly or embarrassing mistake.
@@MaMaGTUrbo
I absolutely agree with you.
I don't know how to put it together but there is something unnatural about this service.
I think such meetings should take place without the participation of a third person and the involvement of money.
I have already retired and was thinking how I could find someone to just take a walk in the park, go have a cup of coffee, talk.
I'm thinking of going to houses where people of my age gather.
They have all sorts of activities and interest groups .
If anyone else will follows my steps,then wish you the best.
I'm 60 and stay single I couldn't imagine going down on a 60+ set of meat flaps.😢
No need to be ashamed NJ. You can do everything right, and still end up with a pretty lousy life.
I really enjoyed this; thank you. I'm a 61-year-old widower this year after 35 years of marriage & children. She went through a three-year, extremely difficult illness with complications and I was there for her throughout. But before that happened, the years working and rearing kids took a toll on the "us" side of the relationship and on emotional and physical intimacy. We woke up to an empty nest and two people sharing a house and a financial life, but not really knowing who "we" were anymore. We had just started to re-engage and do the fun exploring you spoke about, when the illness cut that short. I feel a bit cheated by fate to be this age, and the person who was my lover, best friend, and life partner and whom I expected to grow old with, is gone. The future I always expected was "our" future and what "we" had planned. That's gone, and now I'm figuring out "my" future and "my" plan. I'm sitting here with time and money and not sure what to do next.
Although I welcome the peace and autonomy that's mine right now after so much trial and heartache, it's difficult to visualize myself long-term as a loner, as I'm finding that I crave the feminine spirit in my life. I think men are meant to spend their lives in the company of a woman. But it's scary at this age to contemplate a new love, because there's the visualized ideal and of course the reality of taking on someone else's heavy life baggage, potentially dysfunctional family, and the potential for health crises (which to be honest, I've been there and done that, but which I would do again for anyone I deeply loved). What's needed is someone who pretty much has it together, who's not a train wreck, and who can bring stability and positive growth rather than chaos, conflict, and atrophy to the relationship.
What you call The Great Love could not be more on target for a stable and mature man my age. The song "Big Love" by Little Village speaks to me the same way. At this age, I am looking for a woman to expose my soul to, to trust, to wrap my arms around, and to melt with. It's an old cliché, but a man can cling to a woman and their flesh - and souls - become one. Her body is my body and vice versa. I'm looking for that woman who can become the highest value in my life and from whom I feel inseparable.
Regarding the concept of "Super Woman", or let's say a can-do, take-charge, independent woman who is out to prove she's in control of her life and "doesn't even need a man": true feminine beauty in a woman to me lies in her innate humility, her ability to respect and honor me as the accomplished and worthwhile man that I am, and to have a sense of grace in her manner toward me that tells me I'm wanted and appreciated for being the man in her life whom she loves. In return I would show love, patience, gentleness, compassion, desire & appreciation, thoughtfulness, and would be at her service. I'm not saying I don't want an accomplished and intelligent and capable woman, far from it. But I don't want to be treated like a subordinate to be "managed" or to be treated like a rival for "control" of all decisions. I don't want to struggle against her intent to control me. If you're a woman doing it right, I will do what you desire gladly and willingly because I want to please you, as a gesture of my appreciation for what you do for me and mean to me, and will not need to be brow-beaten and driven.
And yes, as a man, I have simple physical wants and needs. I would be happy to have a woman care for and feed me, and to be available for physical intimacy with a reasonable level of frequency, engagement, and enthusiasm. That can be difficult, perhaps, as men's and women's libidos differ as they age, particularly post-menopause.
I'm still sorting things out, but I've got you bookmarked.
Wow! I totally relate to this story. My wife of 45 years died four years ago even though she was seven years younger than me. two years later I met a woman who is 77 years old. I too am 77 years old. we immediately hit it off and have been together for the last 2 1/2 years. we’re both financially independent, but certainly not what you would call wealthy. Neither of us want to get married and we each own our own homes. We see each other two or three times a week and enjoy each other’s company very much. I believe this is truly a very unique relationship as I live in a senior citizen community where 75% of the residents are single females. Before I met this woman, I dated about 10 other women and most had baggage that I didn’t want to deal with. After having been married for 45 years, I’m not sure I can ‘love’ another woman, but we are certainly ‘best friends ‘
@@billmancini7619 I hear you, brother. I’ve heard that it’s kind of a trend to not ‘get hitched’ and intermingle all the complications of life, finance, home, and family…but still have a friend and companion who’s available to enjoy life’s pleasures with you.
Yea yea am a lady 61 fromUganda but my story is separation, you will learn to adjust slowly get friends to chat with life will go on
Now am 15 years out of marriage , feel good etc etc
I only read to the "cheated by fate" part. Cheer up, things could be a lot worse. Life can really really kick you in the teeth.
@@cubiczirconiabeard5366It was just a rational lament anyone would have in the same situation, nothing more. No need to infer anything beyond it or parse it too deeply.
I am 59 and will be 60 in February. My life partner passed unexpectedly in 2020. He was the best man ever in my life. I will be dating again but scared because I was with my partner for seventeen years. If I don't meet a man then it wasn't meant to be. I still miss my partner. Mike your beard is very elegant.
Sorry about that Leslie, lost my wife also that same year, and I miss her also.
I would never date again. The would is full of users and scammers.
Exactly!
I haven’t dated in 16 years and can honestly say I’ve never been happier or more at peace. I’m NEVER giving that up. EVER
@@annmariemarino2003 you can have both
so true
And bloody straight faced Liars…
I've been divorced for 20 years. I tried dating for a while after my divorce, but the women I met were so toxic I said the hell with it. I just want peace and quiet. I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, and how I want. I want to be able to play golf, have a few beers with guys, travel around Europe, and enjoy my grand kids. Now, at 75, sex is not a big deal anymore, so I see absolutely no point in having a woman around to muck up my peaceful life. There is no way that I'd be willing to become the retirement plan for any woman.
What do you mean you wont be a retirement pl an?
If you have money and you find someone who you have a good time with what's the big deal?
@@pearlfeather9326 because I don't trust them.
@@pearlfeather9326 All women have one thing I'm not interested in.... drama. I'd rather go fishing.
@twofarg0ne763
Drama is part of life..
Everyone has drama unless your dead!
@@pearlfeather9326 Ah, sorry to disagree, I have no drama in my life except when I miss a 6" putt. When you live alone and only have other retired male friends there is no drama because men can't stand drama.
Well I just met 3 men over 60.
Allen is a dreamer he texts no followed through on 3 dates we made.
Neil well we met 6 years ago and reconnected again on my birthday and he’s a serial dater will never change.
Ralph I’ve known for 30 years he got severely burnt on his first marriage and holds a grudge.
So I just moved on and seeing what other crap I can find.
I swear I attract wounded men.
I attract amazing men who..... (Fill in the rest and see what you start to attract).
There ARE a lot of wounded men out there. With a 50% divorce rate, and with women being heavily favored by the court system, no wonder men are bitter and “wounded.”
😂 oh wow!! girl you still want to continue? That sound very scary, but I admire your resilience.
Women who are dating over a certain age will only attract losers because non losers are either already with the love of their lives or don't want anyone.
Wow. A guy over 60 who texts? I never do that.
Having known one of these guys for over 30 years, you must be close to their ages.
Men who have complete freedom of choice almost never choose women their own age, unless they're still in their 20s.
Any man who intentionally and seriously dates (not just a night.or two) a woman over 40 does so because that's the best he can hope for.
There was a time when this wasn't true, but those days ended a very long time ago.
If you're seriously interested in having a husband in your "golden" years, you'll have to take whoever you can get. Most guys (of any age) will not be interested.
Most 60+ men went out overseas to find love
Yes, and these women are finding citizenship 😂
@@EOrtiz-mr3tv Most of them don't want to come to the States. Yours is an old and tired argument.
EXACTLY! They want “ submissive “ women🙄
@@annmariemarino2003 You missed the mark. But, at least you make yourself believe it so. Watch a few episodes of Kevin Samuels to better understand. Enjoy your cats.
I think men do this, because overseas women are generally more feminine and know what it takes for a marriage to work. Too many American women are so masculine, it’s like living with another guy.
The men in their 60s I have met want a caregiver until they die or want a young girl in her twenties or want both!
a young girl in her twenties is impossible even a woman 45 years old is impossible because you are old 60 is old!! you can only look for a younger woman in her forties in Thailand, the Philipines Africa or Eastern Europe if you have much money and a high salary. But once retired international dating is not possible anymore it is too expensive for a pensioneer so stay alone.
Not true. At 62, with my physical attractiveness and winning personality, I can get women of any age.
But I'm also athletic and in perfect health. No diabetes, no prostate issues, no heart or lung problems. A hearing test said my ears are 37. Maybe partly because I haven't drank alcohol at all since 1995 and never smoked or did drugs.
I think I look younger. Not sure. My age rarely comes up. I don't bring it up, but I don't hide it.
On the other hand, maybe I'm an egomaniac.
@@StuJones-gn7te Most likely, you have enough money that the younger women can smell sugar daddy all over you.
"want a young girl in her twenties" Challenging to get in your forties, still less 60+.
@@r.j.dunnill1465 Who the F wants a girl in her 20's LOL? I'm 65, healthy and wealthy, professional and a gym rat, and still working. I do what I want, whenever I want, and couldn't be bothered to date at this age. I live a bullshit-free existence and need a saggy, wrinkled ,drama queen like I need another nose hole. The day you realize that you don't need a woman in your life to be REALLY happy, my brothers, is the day you enter nirvana.
Women don't know excitement from excrement. I enjoy a peaceful quiet life free of drama and don't dare risk loosing it.
Happy for you!!! 💜💜
Yes, please stay single.
Same diff to women. Non drama is boredom to women.
It's a pity your mum had you!! Don't worry no woman will want a guy like you.
I just came up on this and I’m a widow after being married for 27 yrs and omg how dating has changed and idk if I really want to try again at my age 62 🤨I want compatibility with someone but not sure if I want to be vulnerable again at this time in my life
Take some time for yourself. Maybe down the road you will be open to it.
@@EZDatingCoach So true, I can't tell you how many dates in my 60's I've been on that the women thought they were ready, and they really aren't. What's sad about this is I have developed an "emotional shield" and have learned not to get too attached.
@@Oldguynotbald That is sad. Hopefully one day you will feel comfortable to bring that shield down.
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Interesting teaching, thank you Mike! I wish you had the answers to all our problems 😂 I guess some things just are what they are….and time, I pray in my case, will shake things out.
I'm done looking and waiting. I was too busy raising 3 children absolutely all by myself, creating a career without any assets, I'm so proud of myself. I did have 2 husbands and a few companions. An alcoholic, narcissists and predators and practically No love life 🤣 so before the end (I'm 69) I wanted to find myself a kind loving man and experience a few things everyone else had in their youth, but it seems impossible to find a normal kind person at my age. Lots of liars, traitors (men and women, also aiming just a friendship, that too seems like Mission impossible).
I'm fed up. I guess I'll focus on my own self and my grandchildren. Love is not scheduled in my present Karma. Even though everyone wants me but not in the way I want to....oh well, I guess no-one deserves me and that's that.
There is a great man for you. However, you must believe that. And when you do, you will be able to meet him. 💜💜
It is not easy as a 60 year old trying to date again
No it is not. That is why my team and I are here and trying to help. 💜
@@EZDatingCoach give us more information on those of us dating over 60 and even early seventies please
@@victoriafontana3520 I would love to. What information are you looking for?
Not true. My ex boyfriend was 62 and I’m 32.
Hello pretty, Why do you say so? Any reason?
Very true good advice thanks 🙏
Thanks. I enjoyed listening to you. The only thing where'd disagree with you is where we say - women and men do it - " I didn't know what I wanted or who I was at the tine, back then" I'll put it another way ...." I was who I thought I was and believed myself to be, AT THE TIME. I DID know what I wanted, AT THE TIME. I DID do what I wanted, AT THE TIME. But, over time, I changed, evolved, discovered new things, new experiences, new people, new parts of ME. NOW, I'M NOT any longer who I was back then. Now, I'm ME , as I am now. Now, what I want and need fits with me, NOW." Personally and professionally, this us what I've discovered about myself and other people. Wisdom with hindsight can he great. But not if we cancel out our past history and treat it like we were wrong, or our spouses were wrong, at the time. It's like when we say, or other people say to us - BE the BEST version of yourself. Well, hold on now. Because, right now, you and me ARE the best versions of ourselves that we can be, RIGHT NOw, in our circumstances, in our conditions, with our resources, with our knowledge or insights and beliefs and needs and hopes and desires.
Right now, we ARE the best versions of NOW. In this NOW. And in 6 or 12 months time, you and I will be a slightly different version of the best versions of ourselves. How4ver, we need to APPRECIATE this right now best version. Because, if we don't, we're NEVER going to ever get to be this imaginary, fairy tale, " best version". I.e. When will you ever be
" good enough" / best version?
I'm 58 years old and I haven’t been in a relationship since 2017. I actually like my freedom. I can't be bothered with sports and I know that would be a serious turn-off to a man. I am also heavily involved in music as I take vocal lessons for an advanced choir and am in my first year of learning to play the trumpet. I honestly don't believe that there is some out there for everyone. I think that it either happens or it doesn't. The men of today do not live up to my standards. Ladies, if you want to get rid of a man who is bothering you, all you have to tell him is that you don't have sex outside of a marriage commitment and that man will dump you so fast, you'll be breathing in dust.
I didn't find a man that was right for me so I bought a trumpet. I'm very happy 😂.
Can only speak for myself , I’m very open to receiving .
I’m not feeling at all like a Super Woman .
I’ve found the guy doesn’t want to give or provide much.
They like their life just the way it is and unwilling to accomodate / compromise to have a new partner in their life . Long term single Men get used to be independent as Women do but Men I found really don’t want to give up any of their independence.
They don't but they still want to chase after much younger women to see if we want to be caregivers smdh men need to date closer to there age group!
Exactly!! He failed to mention that you need to be gorgeous and 20 years younger than them!! This guy isn't dating women in their 50s!!
@@jeannettemagin1500 "you need to be gorgeous and 20 years younger than them" Fact of life: Men are easily attracted by young, fertile, beautiful women but not by elderly women that after menopause has lost most of their youthful beauty. However, your abilities in the bedroom may change that if You got what it takes in sexual experience, attitudes and fitness.
Do You ?
@@jeannettemagin1500 Nope, I'm 64 and I have zero interest in dating any woman over 10 years younger then I. Less in common, more sexually compatible, and no young children to deal with.
I think women should work on themselves to feel great and beautiful inside out .
I have been chased by many younger guys but none of them interest me ..
Could be my traditional value on the way .
I am 55 but looking young and outward exploring many venues to empower myself .
You are not defending by some random guys who do not know themselves .
I am feminine but do not submissive .
Thank you Mike for this helpful information. I have always enjoyed your videos. God Bless you and keep up the good work!!
Thanks for watching Della!!! 👍👍💜💜🙏🙏
@@EZDatingCoach Is there any difference between people who are in their 70's, compared to the 60's, what men look for.
@@dellaholzer1011 - It is very similar in my experience. Possibly the health of the partner becomes even more important in the 70s.
@@EZDatingCoach Thank you, I guess that makes sense.
Im 53 divorced , no kids , i am happy , fitness enthusiast and i need a companion to compliment me ,not complete me . I am not desperate to find one but I do wish to stumble upon one someday.
Love it!!!! We are here to help!! 🙌🙌
@@EZDatingCoach Thats nice of you. But I am from India . I wonder how we could go about it .
@@riyazahmed208 I help people all over the world, as long as they speak English. 🙂 It is expensive with the exchange rate but if that is alright we can setup a free to chat to discuss further?
@@EZDatingCoach Well, that may be a good idea. I dont know if i would afford the commercial part, but can have a free chat with an open mind.
@@riyazahmed208 Sounds good. www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
I will be turning 63 this year, as a man I have been single most of my life, own my home, I'm financial, met a wonderful woman who I stupidly thought liked me, she ended up ending our relationship, now I know it is what it is no more, she did not want the the drama at her age been 61 never felt so embarrassed and stupid putting myself out there never again.
Sorry to hear it. Falling in love and it not working out shouldn't feel embarrassing. I am proud of you for trying. Perhaps if you ever decide to try again it will be reciprocated fully. 👍
Thank you so much 🥰 this is so helpful wow i had no idea about dating a man over 60. So interesting. I appreciate you and all the people that have experienced their relationships.
You're welcome. Thanks for watching. 🙏🙏
Good list. as a guy who just turned 60, I can relate and agree with your list. Less with number 3 than the rest, but a great insight.
Thank you🙏🙏
60 is a bit old to be looking for a great love. If you didn't find it young, you ain't finding it now. I agree with the "not looking to start a family", looking for fun and someone that receives.
Nailed it..
They want a mother with money
First time I'm seeing this! Wow, my story, the man over 60 u describe is what I've wanted my whole life. I am 65yr old woman who did camping, hiking skiing biking exploring! Did it all with my husband and loved it..loved him more than I can describe. He abandoned me. And I found out he was having an affair living a secret life. I am not greiving anymore but. I feel destroyed. I always took cAre of my body never wanted to be the wife that let herself gooo! So I'll be divorced . But.are there men over 60 that would date someone scared this way?
After you heal and make yourself available a man will 100% want you. 👍👍💜💜
Your profile pic looks nice
I’ve been waiting to have men, people really, to get to this place! I’ve always seen relationships as about getting to know yourself and sharing yourself more deeply with another human being to the depths of one’s soul. Early on most people are driven by hormones, expectations, ‘suppose to… ‘ and proving something to self or others! Grace comes with wisdom and wisdom comes with age (be it ‘aging’ 1 year or 20yrs)!
Well said!
Good
Dating after 60 is a total dumpster fire. The women not only hit the wall, but smash into it. When I was 62, I foolishly looked up my once very hot 19 year old girlfriend. She had just turned 62, and we spent some time together that weekend. Frankly, she looked about 72. Was missing teeth, receding gums, wretched breath, and when she forced me to kiss her, I was completely grossed out. For me, I refuse to date a woman over 58. I've never met an appealing 60 year old woman. My preference is a woman in her 40's and low 50's. Women are allowed to have their preferences, like 6ft tall, make 6 figures, six pack abs, well we men are allowed to have standards and preferences. If I never find a woman for a long term relationship, I'm okay with it because at least I didn't lower my standards and be miserable with a woman that I have zero attraction for physically and emotionally.
Thanks for sharing Peter. I love a man sticking to his guns! Also, there are good looking women at all ages my friend. You should see some of my 60 year plus clients, they look fabulous!
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Hi Mike, I am a divorced, black professional, 77 female active,healthy, spiritual not religious attractive, one grown son, financially independent, I am looking for my soulmate, younger than me within 10 years, mature, healthy, active, attractive, no romantic attachments, financially independent,romantic,open communication skills, easy relationship.
@@gwenroberts6330 - You sound fabulous!! Id you want sign up for a call with me and we can discuss helping you find an equally amazing man - Link to setup a call - www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
If you’re even approaching 60… And need someone who calls them self a dating coach, you must not have learned anything in life. Everything this guy is saying it’s just common sense. He should call himself a common sense coach.
Common sense ain’t that common ?
Im a 48 year old empty nester i wouldn't mind being with someone that is a little older I have spent the last 8 years finishing raising my kids and now ready to start the next faze of my life.
Wow, you are so young. You are ready for adventures! How can I help you on your journey?
What do we want ? Loving, thats what.
Men over 60 want women under 30!!
False.
Seriously?
After quarantine I'm happy w 4hrs max
Thanks i found your chanel.i am 63 years i am still single still work as care giver . I need a man who need a true woman.i am a care loving person.need someone who loves me true . Im tired being alone.i am filipina .i still work as a care giver.
LOL I can't even find a date! Don't go to bars, tried online dating but too strange. I've given up
Well when you are ready to try again we are here to help you
There is nothing to chose from, i am in the same boat
nothing out there anymore we come from a different place and time
Hey, I ain’t quite 60 yet, but, I got buddies who are, and they wanted something different than the qualifiers you spoke of. 1) They want to talk to the ex husband. My buddies want to know who it is they are dealing with. Was she a good, loyal wife? Was she trifling? Was she the one who initiated the divorce? 2) they wanna know if she is on any sort of medication, legal, or otherwise. 3) is she physically capable of helping him maintain the house/farm? 4) is her cookin any good? 4) are her kids decent individuals? Those seem to be the big ones my buddies want answered, before they invest their time and treasure into a new relationship. Now those are my buddies, I can’t speak for nobody else’s friends, just my own
Thanks for sharing!!! 👍👍
Not sure where I was supposed to ask for the individualized coaching assistance you mentioned in this video?
Hi! You can chat with me about coaching here - www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
When I die I want to go quietly in my sleep like my grandpa did. Not kicking and screaming like the passengers in his car. “67 “ and sliding downhill into the abyss.
Works better a little shorter:
I want to die in my sleep like grandpa, not screaming like his passengers
Me too.
I know what I want andd it's not an old woman with pains & aches but is still vital in her life. My sun is just coming up NOT setting!
Yes, and we don’t want a self-centered, grumpy old man. You’re just one accident away from being disabled or in pain. Let’s just hope that you have someone to take care of your old ass if you ever need it.
What I used to do all night, now takes me all night to do.😂
I am 62 recently retired on my own finally after a 30+ marriage and want to live life on my own terms for awhile.
Do it!!! And enjoy!!!! 👍👍
This is hilarious
A video on what men over 60 want from a man substantially younger then that🤣🤣
I am happily married. Your video means nothing to me. Why am I here, I just don't know.
You seem like a very nice person but honestly don’t know how you can say these types of relationships are possible. They absolutely ARE NOT! Not sure what fantasy planet you’re living on. Do women really fall for this???
They might. I'm surprised so many men are in the comments agreeing.
This sounds like a guy pondering to a female audience.
As a man in my 60s (62), I really don't see any reason to marry unless I want more kids, in which case, a much younger woman would be involved.
Women like to believe good men will always want them regardless of age. They also seem to think their looks, body weight and sexual history don't matter. None of that isbyrue.
Pandering. Stupid spell check.
How much do you charge?
Peace.
A nurse with a purse!
😂😂😂
I figure being over sixty , basically spent my entire adult life trying to find a woman that I could trust . After all that time I finally realized that such a woman does not exist . I finally smartened up and do not even bother to look any more .
Where do you live? There are so many amazing women that are trustworthy scattered throughout the world.
@@EZDatingCoach Correct , they are scattered through out the world , just not in western countries . Hence the rise of the pass port bros .
@@chetubetcha4404 There are millions of women of integrity and worthy of trust in the US. I help men find them all the time. If you would like some help, let me know. 👍👍👍
@@EZDatingCoach That is amusing , most the women in the USA are gold diggers , no thx . They will monkey branch first chance they get .
What if you are over 70? Do you help those women? I am 73 but most people think late 50’s!
Of course!!!! My oldest client so far was 80. Book a call with me here if you want private coaching ... www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Yes where is this gentleman to be found?
Match.com
It takes 2 to make a relationship and it takes 2 to break it, I have been married for 48 years and why, because I respect him and he respects me. This crap of one has this idea that they should get automatic respect is BS, it is a two way street. Many of these males keep telling woman" you do what I want or I will leave this country""bye"or be happy with your cats, well some of you men be happy with your hand job.
great love? most men i meet who are in their late 50s or early 60s are broken (financially and/or emotionally) . they are looking for someone to take care of them. most of them aren't evolving - they are stuck. never met an interesting 60s man. they are out there but they are taken
You only need one. 💜💜
Seems like all these points are things they should have applied in their previous marriages. U said it baggage.
I'm in awe! An honest man. Thank you for putting your head and heart into your comments; as i am indeed perplexed at this stage and close to ready to throw in the towel. Hope is renewed!! What's your address? Lol just kidding!
🤣🤣 you're welcome... Thanks for the kind words. 💜💜
Men over 60 want to be left alone 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Where is one of these kind of guys? Please send him over to me. Most welcome ❤
Most men become quite different AFTER they get married, so I'm open to a loving relationship but never getting married again. What's the point in getting married after 50? If anything, that legal contract will cause more problems. .... Done working? LOL not in today's world.
👍👍👍
Thanks for this! I'm in my 30s and looking to date older men.
please don't..this ruins lives of the older women...if young girls would stop dating the older guys maybe us women would have a chance at love
@@artsylady3187 no please date older men, before it is too late for you. A man 60years old is not interested in women around 60 years old it was always and will always be
61M - Married 34 years but with no sexual intimacy for past 26 years. Love wife but she started developing health issues 30 years ago...... went on meds that depleted any sex drive. And has packed on a lot (!!!) of weight, also due to how she handles stress and the side-effects of new medications. Don't wish to divorce her, because I made an oath to her 34 years ago. But, I can tell you, if she would die, I would be searching for intimacy with a woman in VERY GOOD health. (Yes. of course a nice personality too, but her health is #1 priority.)
Yeah but what if you are looking for the younger woman with young children
So I am screwed? I am 64, widowed and had back surgery and so I am not in shape to hike, travel the world and mirror a guy's interest. My husband was an outdoorsman and I was not and we had a great relationship. It seems impossible now.
I tore my abdominal at one point in my life. During that stage I was playing soccer 5 days a week and super active. Once, my ab was torn I had to reinvent who I was. Once I discovered new Mike, I dated women that made sense for that version of me. You can do the same.
You can't keep doubting, you have to keep trying
You can still find someone that shares the same interest as you
Hahahaha ya right, explore have you Watched the news lately I don't think your thinking.
The mascuine get bad family advicle. Off-putting. Just want to relax and love and receive. My husband passed away. In 2013.
How to sign up for a discovery call
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What are you talking about? Just be yourself. Of course people can receive, safe, explore. Stop over thinking and be yourself
How do I sign up
Here you go... www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session 🙂🙂
GREAT advice. I AM a super women. You’ve enlightened me. I’ve got to turn it down and receive more. Thanks EZ Dating Coach
Yes superwoman!!! 🦸♀️
Hi Barbara, I wish to have a superwoman in my life
Even if as a friend
Best thing about being over 65? I can smell bullshit before it hits the ground.
Are you open to out of Europe? As I am in Africa.
I help everyone who speaks English. 🙂
Hey, Musk.
My boyfriend is way
younger than you,
and his dx is bigger, too.
Love the Facial hair!!❤
Thank you
These men are hard to find I’m been dating this age and I find very insecure ,stubborn bitter,bossy controlling man not putting with those men
Yes,they are hard to find. That is why I have a job. To help women become more efficient at finding them.
This is a pipe dream. I wish.
Young women
Awareness. Keep it real. Do reality checks from the first date.
Some men
Mike I love the mustache and beard! Very handsome! 😎 👊🍂🍁🌻🍂🍁💙
Thanks 🙏🙏
❤ Fantastic
This is NOT unique to men only. Flip it on its head, its exactly what women are wanting. THIS is the question. Have both sexes healed their past????????? Show me the receipts, show me the changed behavior. That will naturally attract a wonderful partner.
over 60? I gotta a lot of great years ahead of me? Eyestroke, so lost 1/2 my vision (painful shots into my eye), bulging back discs, swollen prostrate, neck hurts, arthritis in my hands and knees and hips, high blood pressure, high cholesterol.....what is he talking about??? he is maybe mid 40's...he knows nothing ! I forgot to add painful psoriasis and eczema
Wow you look amazing with a beard! Please keep it!
Thanks... Will do
What if your in your 60s single but never had a relationship ever in your life?
No time like the present to get your first relationship if you want one? 💜💜
@@EZDatingCoach nah am sent to stay single for life
@@unisangalaxystudio Awesome, go for it! 👍
Divorced x2... not a good match
Yep! This dude has it right! I'm 60, and I feel a lot like this, but I don't live in the US anymore.
A lot of us are widowers.
I wish I can get true love here 60 and above ❤❤
I'm in kenya
I could barely listen to this drivel. You have no idea what you are talking about. I have been trying to date men in their 50’s and now 60’s and each and every one of them only wanted sex. I’ve stopped trying. And don’t say it’s my fault. I’m not taking the blame for their stupidity. One or two maybe but this has been a constant for years. I gave up even meeting them because all they talked about was sex and how I might taste and all that stuff. No they haven’t learned to be a better person or changed or looking for their last love. They say that to get your attention. I’ve had that game played on me soooo many times. Yes I have boundaries. It’s called the door.
If you counsel people for money you better rethink this. Find out what is really going on.
I am very well attuned to what men want, remember I am a man. 🤣
Sorry you keep running into men that just want sex. Any ideas or clues what you may be doing to attract men that just want sex instead of men who want to get to know you?
@@EZDatingCoach Don't gaslight her. Listen.
Cindy, I am not sure about your age, but sex is indeed one of the most important priorities for men. In fact, as a man in his 30s, I find it fascinating that men in their 60s still desire sex.
Nonetheless, as a man, I can tell you that you can make many men fall in love with you by making sex special for them, but before you do this, you need to find out how empathetic that man is towards you and other people. Try to do some tests on empathy without him knowing it.
For the men who pass the empathy tests, you should work to make the sex with them special, it make time but sooner or later they are going to start having feelings for you. But for men with low empathy levels, cut the relationship because they will not even appreciate the good sex you have with them.