What Mature Men Want in Dating and Marriage. Love is Possible after 40, 50, 60 and Beyond
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- Опубліковано 15 лют 2024
- Three couples who met, dated and married in midlife share from the perspective of mature men what they look for in dating and marriage. @unapologeticallygray for Tracey
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I've never seen anything geared towards mature people. I love this
Exactly what I was thinking!!❤
Same here . Happy that I found it .
I do too!
Me too ❤
I'm glad people are starting to realize that faces are still youthful and beautiful with grey hair.
I am 70 and still have hope to meet a honest man knows what he wants in a woman.
I'm a 67-year-old man in Phoenix. What you wrote is exactly what men are NOT looking for in a woman. Not trying to be a dick but if you're interest in meeting a man you might consider listening to what men want. All men, every single man on planet Earth for all of human history knows exactly what they want. And that's a problem for American women. You don't like what we want so you insult us by saying we don't know what we want. That crap is coming from other women. The because issue is female "friends". They push you to not settle, to have unrealistic standards. You all call each other 10's and blow smoke up each other's skirts.
So keep insulting men and being solo. You go girl. Have wine parties with your girlfriends and sit around trashing men.
I'll be living in SE Asia with a 25-year-old trim beautiful no baggage woman devoted to me. Most American women ask for way too much and offer nothing to a man. A plane ride away to South America, Africa or SE Asia are countries full of great traditional women looking for us old dusty men you all trash. That's OK with me.
And BTW, men in these other countries would marry old American women too. But American women trash those men too so almost no women seek men in those countries because those men don't have enough money. Crazy standards gets in the way of women finding partners.
Why are you always telling habitual lies; you're a 69-year-old BM Maceo? Why the habitual liars? I will say BM like you convinced me there's no decent BM. Where's those WW that you claimed were perfect that you chased and married for 40 years!_
"You are the last piece of chicken". That's the sweetest thing I've ever heard.
Lord, One thing about black women, they will be fine 😍😍😍 till the end of time and into eternity, especially when they are being loved correctly. Beautiful couples. Great content. I took away so much mental notes.
That is so great. Your comments were well received
I think it not only applies to black women, it applies to all colours.
@AB4Jss No it don't
Agreed. But our daughters have done so much to themselves that I am concerned
Ain't that the absolute truth
I'm in my 70s. A widow but I want to know love again..
Me too but so tired of being disappointed. I gave up. Good luck to you.
Why would you give up? Have you asked GOD? Have you done the work? I just turned 70 and am so excited because with God, it is possible🎉@@audreysmith
Remember you are individuals until you get married that is so important some women think just because I have a man that he has to do everything for them vice versa you are individuals until you get married
@Barbara What steps have you taken? Act as if you already have what you are seeking and watch what happens; as long as you are open to receiving it. If you aren't ready to receive it, you will subconsciously block it or push it away. ❤❤
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I met my husband when I was almost 60 /59. Courted for 1 year and married the following year. This Dec 8 will be 7 years. Both have one child close in age.
All three couples gave me hope.
It's true as a single woman you should be just living your life and opportunities to meet men will come. I met my fiance at Jazz festival. I was not looking to meet anyone there. We ended spending time with each other the whole weekend. So I say ladies just get out and do things that you enjoy doing and don't be afraid to do it alone.
My sentiments exactly!😍 As a single retired banker of 12 years at age 66 I’m enjoying my best life now!🎉😍
I’m 63. Never married or had children. I spent 17 years as a caregiver to my elderly parents and grandmother until their deaths. I love hearing mature adults speak about relationships. Thank you for this video. ❤️
Thank you for your service as a divine caregiver
This was absolutely a wonderful segment. I am 66 and still would love to experience a wonderful God willed relationship...thanks for sharing
You are most welcome. I’m so glad you were inspired
Stay encouraged, I just married a wonderful man 3 months ago. He proposed on my 60th Birthday last year. He's 66.❤
@@user-cm3nx3bc7lcongratulations,,,, wishing you a blessed marriage ❤
I pray you do and God blesses you with someone who deserves you
Amen♥️
I was married for 42years.my husband pass in 2022.it very it different being alone now.but i prays all the time.amen.
May God take you through this time and give you joy.
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Beautiful flow!!!
“Reality” TV shows COULD’NT TOUCH this ☝🏽
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Noticed you were on the video with the couples I agree they all run out some very good points of dating as well as being married. Specially, if it’s cording to the word of God, for that is his desire for us to love one another, and a husband, as God given him to love his wife, as Christ died, given his life for the church, and also enjoy one another while being on earth.
At 47 and separated from an emotionally abusive man, this gives me hope of meeting a man who is loving, kind, and supportive. Praying for a a second chance at real love. 🙏
It can happen. You know what not to look for
I can relate Divorcing a N after 16 yrs❣️🙏🏽
Coffee sounds nice!!
I like to hear more!
Thank you ❤ all
It was really nice to hear both sides of this conversation. At 51 and never married it gives me hope for a great partnership and for being accepted for who I am now. Thank you for allowing us access to this conversation. ☺️ ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing. We believe in hope
Thanks for your reply
This conversation is genuine.
Why did you never marry? Did you have children?
I'm 59 and holding out hope too. Love it
This video encouraged my faith. I'm 64, divorced twice, but trust what God has revealed to me. What a blessing this is! Loved it!
I have been single for over 8 years, because I wanted to heal that way I don’t fry someone in another person’s oil. I love this talk it will help me to branch out 😂
I Love Your Analogy.. Fresh Oil INDEED 😂💖
I am a widow at 68. I find this video chat so refreshing. I am ready to start dating again but doesn't really know how. So much has changed in the dating world from 25 years ago. So this was really good to see love so strong and vibrant at the Silver age. This gives me much hope as I cling to God for direction. I enjoyed you guys.
Love truly still exists out there...I met my husband at 48 after being widowed for 19 yrs....and all I can say is "God truly does pick them well when you surrender the issue to Him"
...I moved to a far away country for love...and second time around at love❤❤❤❤
Congratulations ❤
Love is possible! I look forward to finding love at 52yrs old. Woooooohooo!!🥳
All three of those beautiful gorgeous black women are not ashamed of having that grey/silver hair it looks good on them that right there is what you see in a "GROWN WOMAN" 😂😂😂
Yes..they look great. Am 52 and hope to always stay my natural self
This is great. In our 60s this is motivated. These couples tells us that love is still possible.
Of course love is possible. Never went out of style. The question is always the same however...what are you doing?
I'm 51 and have never been married. I am so hopeful now!!!! so many people say it's over for people in their 40s, 50s, 60s,
and beyond!!!! wow, I love this. I have not dated in over 6 years. Thank you.
It's not over. It's just different. I we need and want different things as we mature
Oh my goodness LOL once we have a fulfilling life, what shows up will show up..... when we are chasing our passions.. never ever listen to other people who are not of high vibration❤
I pray you do meet N marry someone special
My husband married me at 51. I was 36 and this is both our first marriage. Jesus Christ joined us, and we thank God for the blessing of having each other in our lives!! 💕🙏🏼
It's not over til it's over, sister. Stay prayerful and be led of the Lord, He can give you the desires of your heart!!
Loved this!! I got married at 42 and it was God's perfect timing for me 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for this video. I'm near 72 years old and still hoping.
It’s possible
Me also
Me too
I pray God's will and way for you to have that.❤
I met my husband when I was 51 and he was 46, we never stopped communicating and easily fell in love, we both believe we are God sent to each other and we have a great friendship and keep God in the center of our live❤love this show there is always hope to keep alive
👵This was/is really refreshing to hear. I am 56 and healed from narcissist abuse and childhood tramas.I am looking forward to true 💚 one day. Thank you greatly appreciated.
I love the celibacy issue. I think it shows a level of maturity and where you are in decency and spirituality, and health consciousness.
Thanks all for sharing your love journey. Love is beautiful and it always wins ❤❤❤
Thank you so much. This was great. I’m 60 and really hope to meet a man that is equally yoke and compatible. I really loved hearing both sides from good women and men.
You can do it!
Me too
As a boomer this is Absolutely refreshing!!! ❤
Thanks so much
54 and looking forward to a great man who believes and follows God as well love does still exist
Old women stop lusing
Same waiting on God.
This is really refreshing… mature love.. so needed to hear this today.
3 Beautiful couples, Happy for you, keep the Love flow going.
Thank you! Will do!
Loving the salt and pepper look 😊
Am 59 and I haven’t lost hope.❤️
I'm 58 and I'm right there with you sis!!
I'm 51 SDA and really hopeful
Me either! I love this. I'm happy with me and God will show him who I am when I'm ready to be found.
I’ll be 53 in a couple of months, divorced for 13 years and have not dated. This gives me hope! Thank you for sharing ❤
Trust me on this. "Everything will come to you at the right appointed time." (Be anxious for nothing! Wait I say, on the Lord)
Love seeing a mature panel, especially heading into my 50's, I have a different perspective.
Thanks for your feedback
I'm a single mom that's 50. This video was so refreshing to watch and it gives me hope because I see alot of the red pill community. Those guys claim that by the time a woman is 35 she's already hit the wall they say. Just because you're in your 50s, 60 and 70s doesn't mean finding love is not possible.
Exactly
Very true,,, everyone deserves to be loved ❤
What is the red pill. Thanking you in advance for your reply.
@essenceofwanda7p456 the red pill is a term that was given to the community of scorned angry men and incels who do support each other in their pain and loneliness, by insulting women and trying to make women stop having standards and they want women to sumbit to them.
@@alwaysalady9775 You said that perfectly
Dating while healing helped my healing process. You have to trust yourself. Just enjoy the moment. Watch the touching.
This was awesome! I’m 58 and single. Great advice! Thanks!
Bring back these couples to talk more about finding a partner.
I love this! This year will be 17 years since my husband died very unexpectedly. My youngest daughter was 10, and at that time, I wasn't interested, but now, at 62, I'm keeping hoping alive! This is very refreshing. Thanks ❤
At 67, very fit & youthful ...and still print modeling. l have never run into ANY man who is: available & heterosexual & grounded & spiritually based & in good shape. Have yet to come across anyone even 'close'.
Yup. Billions of men on Earth and none are acceptable. Wow, you must be something unworldly special. This is delusional and a self-esteem defense. Having relationship problems so just raise your standard to the point no man can "even come close". You're literally too good for anyone else. So transparent. I've not seen even a pic of you but saying 67 is youthful? I'm 67, fit, healthy but youthful is not a term I would use. Youthful for 67? OK, I guess. Flexing about being a print model, good for you. Darling even as a man I could get in the heavy makeup and fake hair and do print modeling as a woman.
Glad for all of mankind that you're so awesome no man should come near you.
I agree and I am 67
Thank all of you because this conversation is helping me a lot, you’re never too old to learn something from anyone. God bless 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
First thoughts are what fine looking men and women all these three couples are. They are some lucky ladies to have met some real gentlemen.
The conversation is refreshing. Hopefully God will bless me with love in a companion one day!!
Absolutely!! I believe it’s possible
I’m 37 and been married for 6 years. This vid came up in my algorithm today and I’m so glad I watched! While I’m not looking to find a new mate, I love the idea of keeping things exciting through the years to come with my husband. Thank y’all so much for sharing!
That is awesome!
I am loving this broadcast and will watch until the end. I am 61 and know relationships are important and open for love. My mate is out there and we will meet at the appointed time.
Love looks good at any age. All the best to each couple.
Thank you for this video. I’ve been single for 8 years now after a long marriage, and I am ready to have someone special in my life. This video is so encouraging, and I appreciate your honesty and openness. You’ve given me a lot to think about and a reason to be hopeful.
Me too
Beautiful couples!! This gives hope that love is still out there, to hear from both sides on different views, points and especially on what men want or looking for in a woman. Loved it!!❤🙏🏾
I agree with everything that each one of you has said about relationships and what to look for and, most importantly, be honest about who you are and and what you want from it. Honest Conversation.
This was an interesting discussion. I like the option of the third gentleman on top. At 63 I had to break generational curses and dysfunctionalism through cutting ties with blood relatives who were comfortable in their jealousy - abusive behavior towards me. I have 1 adult son who I educated in Switzerland. I'm not open to dealing with family baggage from a man.
My life led me to date outside my culture since college, live on 3 continents and obtain 4 degrees to be self sufficient in myself. I have always participated and competed in sports.
It is important to me that at this age a man must be aware of his attributes and enjoy being a man as a protector, provider and loyal companion.
Thanks for sharing. I have encountered many women who are exploring options with dating and marrying
When the algorithms deliver a blessing! My take away is embody and demonstrate the qualities of fitness you want to bless your partner with and be blessed with.
Thanks for sharing!!
I'm so glad to see and hear mature love and relationships...lm 65yrs old and I hear you all supporting distance relationships we are grown and trust and communication are the keys....please keep talking I need to hear from this age group...looking for marriage ❤
I am loving this! You all are a blessing and giving me hope. Thank you all for sharing 😊👍👏🏽🙌🙏🏻
This was great! It just showed up in my feed, and I'm glad it did.👍🏽
I know the right person is out waiting for me I leave it in God’s hand. Thank you so much for your advice.❤
As a 40 year old woman yet desiring holy matrimony and children, it was refreshing to hear joy in the wisdom displayed between each couple. I received some timely points of consideration and will heed them as I date with intentionality. Thanks for sharing your content with the world! ❤
Thanks so much for your feedback. Our intention was to inspire others
@jdkincaide Freeze your eggs now if you want kids. You’ll be more relaxed.
I'm 70 and he is 58 but so strong
That was EXCELLENT !!!❤
Wil be viewing as needed!
What a gift! Thank you for this wonderful video and spreading positivity and wonderful insight. I'm 53 and always hoping that it's not too late for me! xx
Also, it's important to take responsibility for your now happiness because if you are not happy, no one can give you that in innate in you .
Thank you all for being so transparent and encouraging ❤
This was really refreshing. I pray we all meet and connect with the one that will be all that we need, prayed for and more 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 purpose filled relationships!!! Thanks
That was a lovely conversation. I enjoyed every moment of it. It was also refreshing to hear the men views about what they really expect from women. Great job guys. Dian Jamaica❤
What she said about Being the Church was so healing bc I know many ladies struggle when feeling they have to find someone at church when that may feel 😏 tough for some.
Thank you all for the good advice, losing someone from a long relationship. Sometimes it’s hard to mend so getting past that is the hardest thing and finding another partner that has lost someone so you all can have something to communicate along with everything else.
I thoroughly enjoyed this.🎉 56 and single, just came to the conclusion that my ideal mate doesn't exist but watching this gave me a lil twinkle of hope. ❤
FREDERICK!!!!!YOU SAVED THE BEST FOR LAST! HEARING FROM THE MEN WAS EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN NEED, AND, DOING WHAT YOU LIKE RATHER THAN TRYING TO 'FIND' A HUSBAND. PLEASE KEEP THESE CONVERSATIONS COMING!
I'M SOOO NOT BRAVE ENOUGH TO GO ON A DATING SITE. I MEAN, IF HE'S A GOOD MAN, WHY WOULD HE BE ONLINE?
Must remember to pray, and ask the Lord to send you your husband or wife. Great Conversation
I am working on myself. Thank you for encouraging me to work on myself. Denise
Chemistry and friendship is important. People need to do what works for them. It differs grom couple to couple.❤
What a delightful conversation!
My last relationship lasted for 10 years, we conscious uncoupled. I've been single for 6 years now, by choice. Working on myself and my childhood issues that popped all over the place in my last relationship. I'm a in better place within myself and due to that ready for a mature relationship. It was extremely refreshing to hear those men talking about working on themselves too.
Thank you! 🙂
This is beautiful...ladies you are blessed..as a divorced person of a 27yrs marriage it's nice to see couples that's on same page and can communicate openly & have same beliefs & put God & family first...I am 56yrs & I know God is not done with me yet In finding my true mate
This was absolutely GREAT! Thx for sharing!
And I believe friendship and compatibility is most important.
All 3 couples are gorgeous!!!
I love this show…. This is exactly what I want to watch, now that I’m this age and looking for a man to enjoy life with. Thank you, guys! Great advice!!
Blessings to you all!!!
"Foundation on honesty "....golden
This was very refreshing. Thank you for hosting.
This is my 1st time seeing your UA-cam channel and timing is perfect. I just began talking on the phone with a childhood friend whos long distanced. This gives me hope!!! I was married for 27 years. Dating is new for me, and I'm excited about the opportunities, learning, growth, and finding love again.
I’m happy for you and hope you will continue to view the content and blessings on your next phase
I really enjoy all the perspectives of each couple. Continue to show, discuss, and display mature dating strategies. Love it❤
Wow how sweet that surprise was, justice of peace at the door
Communication is the key to success...... gain knowledge
That's so good... " You could rule yourself out of a relationship..."
Keeping each other healthy is vital as well.
Thank you so much. You covered so much. Nice to hear the male perspective. Great representation of black and interracial couples. Please share more on healthy, mature relationships.
We did post this week
This was great!! Thank you all three couples!
Thank you guys for sharing this! So delightful! Refreshing, and gives me hope! Much appreciate seeing mature couples like myself! We are still worthy to be loved...💕
Thank you for this lovely real video! Something so real and refreshing ❤
Good conversation. Thank you!🌷
Why are all of them so Gorgeous!!!!!♥️ this was beautiful to watch & listen in God Bless you all & your marriages 🙏🏽They all sound so youthful & look youthful ❤💯🙌🏽
Great feedback ...more commentary needed like this. Splendid ideas..thank you thank you! Keep love and hope alive!!
I needed this so much. Can not express how this effected me. In a positive way.
This is an awesome discussion! Thankyou. I appreciate this so much! Needed and appreciated
Congratulations to all of you as well 🎉💥💃🏽💕🎶
Thank you all for this , God bless you all
This is a wonderful conversation. Thanks for your authenticity.
Thanks to each couple. This was so very refreshing. I believe in mature love. I met my husband & dated by phone in April 2021 while I lived in AL & he was in TX. We meet in person May 2021, he proposed June 2021, introduced him to my daddy & family Fathers Day 2021, planned to marry July, but I pulled back 😊 (circumstances) we dated long distance until December 2021 and got married December 20, 2021. When you know it is meant to be it’s not difficult and it falls in place. ❤❤❤❤
Love that!
Amen. Work on yourself fully. There will be things that come up or come out during the new relationship. Then, support each other through it. If you still need to work on yourself, counseling is also great.
I really enjoyed this session from the all the Husbands and Wives!❤True, Believe and Trust God, work on self, being truthful and trustworthy with Love and Peace are great attributes of God!
Having good conversation and fun is so important too, it can help both to be more intimate especially if you really love one another!!