Stranger Danger ‼️ Love Bombing and Manipulation Red flag 🚩 | Clip
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- Опубліковано 7 бер 2024
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This is a huge sign of love bombing, and manipulation.
This can be a huge, rare flag that the stranger you just met is about to try to use you. Women often asked me about signs a man is no good or if he’s love bombing.
This is something you don’t want to miss when you meet a new guy. Men who love bomb, and future project alway need to be scrutinized more carefully. Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated by this.
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Anyone who immediately tries to convince you they're a "nice guy/girl" is a huge red flag. In my experience (as a solo hiker and traveler), this is a manipulative tactic to disarm your intuition. Kind people don't have to tey to sell you kindness, their actions speak to their character.
Absolutely 💯 but it’s not absolute. Some people are just nice and healthy mentally but thirsty for validation too. People are complicated. Sometimes “nice” people have limits. Seeing them reach their limit doesn’t always mean they were being fake.
@@KevHick True
@@KevHick That's true. However, when I doubt someone, I don't fool with them. Safety over being sorry.
@@ButterflyBree absolutely 💯. My base point is just that someone being obviously nice or observably good shouldn’t be a worse red flag than someone being obviously flawed or less well intended. Assuming bad of observably good people programs you to look for obvious flaws as it means to validate and qualify men. It’s why so many women look for men they have to fix. When the flaws are blaring, they think they have a man figured out. They don’t. Observably shitty man also have ways of surprising you.
Just avoided this. Promising vacations, will fund my business for me, future children, joking of marriage after only one date. I called this out that he needs to slow down and that we are still strangers. He blocked me 😂😂 When a narc sees that you can’t be swept off your feet with their lovebombing they will move on to easier prey/supply.
Yeah, he's a 🤡. F Him!
Just experienced this as well!
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 👍
I guess YT blocked my comments calling him a clown. Lol. Whatever.
I just experienced this type of behavior also. Wow The man that I met just stopped communicating abruptly 🤯
Watch out for those narcissistic people who say they love you when they need and want something from you. I call him the bum ass narc
I blocked a guy who I gave my number month before and then called n text n I told him no longer interested then he text from another number n sent a shirtless pic immediately blocked how disrespectful
That’s a turn off I refuse to be rushed and on anything I block you in a minute a week heck no
Hi Kevin!
Your videos come up just in time!! I just recently got “Love Bombed” by a man that I met on a dating site in January. He was separated and going through a divorce. He wanted to meet me after chatting for two weeks , then wanted to spend time with me just about every day and IMMEDIATELY started planning trips, he invited me on a trip to Atlantic City , talked about taking cruises .. he recently moved to a bigger place and acted as though he got the place for the both of us, telling me that one of the rooms could be my office ( I work from home) , asking me which of his two bedrooms would be bigger for the both of us , asking me to stay the night- I thought that we were moving too fast, then just last week, everything came to a screeching halt. He just stopped communicating with me.
That’s why you move at your own pace, despite how he’s moving.
@@KevHick I believe that’s why he decided to stop communicating with me. He eventually reached out to me and told me that he got that even though he enjoyed spending time with me, and he understood that I was being cautious and not running in head first, he felt that it seemed drawn out and distant with us 🤷🏽♀️
Big facts!!!
All Facts!
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What if he took two mornings off work to take me to doctor appts? And took care of me for weeks after my surgery? Then he disappeared and says it’s his bipolar. Haven’t seen him in two months. He won’t let go or say goodbye, just hot and cold texts. I feel like I do owe him some support but also need to move on with my life.
Mental health issues are another story entirely. Bipolar partners tend to come and go with their mental health state.
Let him go, sis. I dated a guy who had mental health issues - and I was very supportive of him - but, one day, he broke up with me out of the blue. Retrospectively, there were signs. As a mental health advocate, I thought my support could help him. It couldn’t. That man needs to help himself before he can help you. Your intuition is correct: move on. 🙏🏾
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