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Need to make another video about army SHARP.
Where you been brother
I need that shirt!!
Glad to see you drop a new video! 👍🏾
Can you bring back the But Sarge t-shirts in OCP pattern
Court: Now even though she cheated on you, it's obviously not your kid, and she stole all your money while you were away on deployment....she's the real victim in all this.
Facts! If you sign that Birth Cert it’s pretty much a wrap
Yes indeed, no logical reason to get married in the service. Wrap your tool, hit it & quit it, Charlie Mike.
@@yushathomas exactly why I got out last year and stay single 🤣
@guyver441 wrapping up part is what got me. Good news is my baby mamma is a POS who walked out so.......no payments from me.
If you even think there's a possibility it ain't yours; paternity test.
He’s back, when we needed him most…
“I don’t care!” 😂😆💀
👀👀👀
Yep 100%
💯
The hero we deserve
Yup. Judge thanked me for my service and then, without even bothering to take a breath began to tell me that my service was the reason why I could not have custody of my son and that my visits with him had to be supervised. I have no criminal record and she cheated, laid hands on me and stole money. Fantastic.
im sorry man
its time for a fucking crusade
Sounds about right.
I'm sorry bro. My ex totally fucked me over as well. She destroyed my Army career, spent my hard earned money on herself and her drug habit. Cheated left and right and took off with another guy to another state. Then I find out through the grapevine that she's been diagnosed as a paranoid schizophrenic so now I have to worry about my kids inheriting that one day
Sorry to hear it mate 😔 I hope things turn better for you
I just retired from the Army this summer and I am literally going thru this now lmao
It gets better man
I wish the best for you
Damn rip
Good luck brother.
Keep your head up Bro!!!
Lack of Father's rights are a problem in this nation.
Nah. Child support helps fund the state. It’s literally extortion. The father is more likely to pay because men are likely to work therefore they can get money. Even if they got to garnish it. It’s more for the state than the child. Especially states with private prisons. It’s a easy way to fill the numbers and make quota.
You have the right to a condom or vasectomy.
@@malcolmboy21 I'm all for child support. I'm talking about father's at the mercy of bitches.
Indeed they are. On the other hand, so is a lack of fathers responsibility.
@@ruthlessone3k absolutely
Sad but true. It’s about money for the state. That’s why we have to be careful who we wife up and lay up with. Let’s teach our sons.
Yup stay away from broke bitches
Stay single, smash and dash. 25 and not a child in sight.
Yep, states get 66 cents on the dollar from fedgov for every dollar of child support that gets funneled through the child support system. Just follow the money.
Finally some accountability 👍🏾
Don’t lay with anyone and you won’t have the fuckin problem bro. I ain’t got pity for women who get pregnant with kids and bitch about it and I ain’t got pity for men who have to pay six different child support checks because they can’t keep it in their pants. If you’re gunna take the risk that comes with havin sex don’t whine about it. Ain’t the just woman’s fault, “Takes two to tango” as my father said.
Something tells me this is hella accurate, pretty disgusting how this country treats the people they owe their lives to.
"Wait, the courts are rigged?"
"Always have been"
Men in general you mean?
"There's a sucker born ever minuet."
Sign on top of the recruiting office.
Bellisima, Its actually correct. I went to court here in TX after my medical retirement to get the child support payment to be reduced and I was immediately frowned upon. Its all good I do what I gotta do...BTW, love the name.
@Jack Stucki preach.
The best response i got from the court when i asked if i can have proof the money is going to the kids was, and i quote, "Its none of your business"
Dam, that hit 😳
Wow that’s fucked up
21 years later and find out that’s Jody’s baby.
If you sign the birthday certificate, the child is your.
@@theblackknight9783 if you deny to sign the baby is still yours 😉
Yooooooo real talk!
That even happened to Charlie Chaplan in 1945..
@Daphne Van Zant happened to me In the marine corps, luckily the magistrate thought I was a solid guy had my test covered for free by the state and (I knew this part) the baby came back not being mine! 0 percent connection plus the baby was Mexican lol. I dodged the whole armory
State of Texas:
Your BAH counts as part of your income. This court recognizes that the child in question is now 15, and you had no knowledge of his presence prior to discovery and this hearing. Therefore, we are assigning the MAXIMUM of child support arears, which for the State of Texas is 3 years. Furthermore, as this is your rightful first born child, he is entitled to the larger sum of the child support. The state assigns 33% of net pay.
My total child support was $1,600 a month. I was an E-5. I was married for 10 years before this hearing to a woman that I had three kids with. When I asked the judge who was going to give me 15 years of my sons life back, he said without a beat, "That is not a matter for this court to decide."
Women: They want the authority of a man, the privilege of a woman, and the accountability of a child.
That last part bruh
@@kok2805 Chans, you know it brother. I want you to take it, embrace it as your own, and speak it to every man you mentor, because it's the goddamn truth, and each man deserves to know it.
I have been paying attention to MRA's, MHRA's, Anti-Feminist for close to 10 years now and MGTOW content for maybe 5 years now. They have said the same thing in your last sentence. "Women: They want the authority of a man, the privilege of a woman, and the accountability of a child." It showed it's face starting with first wave feminism when they got all the same rights as a man but with none of the responsibilities. It supersized itself when second wave feminism hit the scene in the late 60's going into the 70's. They wanted to divorce themselves in all ways from men and marry the government. They used to have to negotiate with men and they didn't like that. With government they get more of what they want and not have to give much back in return. The government covers its losses by extracting it from men. The government grows ever more larger and more powerful.
I'm a woman and I agree big time with that last part
@@moderatecanuck you are smarter than most. Please pass that message on to other women so they know
What a sad ending for Drill Sergeant Backbone…
Rumors has it he walked into traffic after child support court
@@yushathomas Smart! No more child support! Now Jody baby mama gotta get a job.
and then they are surprised people don't wanna get married and shit
"But, Your Honor" 😂🤣😂🤣 I hope that makes it on a tshirt
I'm a female veteran who while in the military paid child support and this is exactly how the civilian courts treated me. Changed my whole perspective on what men go through. They tried to have me pay child support to 2 different states for the same 2 kids. Told the judge "but your honor, how or why should I pay 2 different states when my kids only live in one state, and the order is for the state they live in not both where they live and where I live. And as a transitioning vet I can't afford $1200 a month times 2. The Judge promised to hold me in contempt. Even the lawyer for the child support agency tried to object and was promised the same. SMDH!!
"But your honor, if you hold me in contempt, you will also have to hold Deez....."
@@FOX3114 deez badass female vet nuts
Dam
Glad at least one woman knows what men all men go Thur in family court
Man when even opposing counsel is like "Wtf that's wrong."
Child support usually screws over dude first, then investigates. 2 years after they get you for child support, they’ll finally getting around to seeing that you’re not the daddy! Dirty!!!!
Why do the men wait? Why don't they do it at birth or do a court order for paternity on their own?
And after that, you can't get the money back!
@@TriniLush7
In many states it is very difficult to get a paternity test without the consent of the woman as well.
And when it comes to paternity tests - the sisterhood is real, most women will close ranks and protect cheating 304's.
I was a reservist on the tail end of title 10 orders with no civilian employment to fall back on when my divorce was finalized. Judge saw my E6 pay with BAH and BAS and set child support at $1300/mo. I went broke a few months after I came off of orders and was remanded to jail until my family could come up with the $4k I owed in arrears. I got a job that paid $17/hr after that, but was lucky to take home $250/week after being garnished. It took 18 months after filling a motion to modify before I finally got a modification hearing that dropped it down to a more reasonable $600/mo.
Shit sucks.
Wow
Wow... Telling you men never get married
Wow, sorry to hear that. What state was that in?
What?!
@@alaskanwhiskey Hey Alaskan Whiskey. Long time man.
Funny how a man who can’t meet his obligations is thrown under the bus.
A feemail that can’t meet her obligations gets all kind of public assistance .
Better tap in bro lol that’s not true
@@lorenzodawkins7500
Yes I should, touched grass, it was green and soft.
The lady is the one with the kids usually.
@@deebunny178 on welfare most of the time, with 7 boyfriends come in and out of the house per week
@@lsxbigblock6524 Or a man with multiple kids in broken homes not taking care of his kids resulting in the women needing assistance.
I couldn’t keep up with my child support payments when I got out after 11 years. My support amount was $900 a month. So it went into arrears. When I tried to ask for a reduction they told me no because I had arrears and then made me pay $1200 to make up for the arrears. I lost my car my apartment had to move back in with my mom and had to leave school just to make up for that. That was like eight years ago. Still paying the arrears off. But I finished school since then and now have a good job. I’ll never ask for anything of the court again. Just gonna pay it off and never speak to my kids’ mother ever again.
"Booty bandits in cell block B..." I just shot coffee out my nose!! Good to see ya back, Sar'!!
"Fresh creampie" 🤣😭😭
The child support system is broken. Having done my 19-years under the thumb of 60% pre-tax deduction, and hearing judges always say "you can get a 2nd job" or "find full time work" when the market was tight, is a relief. Having an ex attempting to push me through the criminal system, and suffering major anxiety and PTSD due to over a dozen false charges and several arrests, I feel for any Veterans who are going through this exact labeling. The system needs a massive correction and overhaul. I believe Florida collects close to a billion a year, with a four+ day delay between receipt and payment. This equals a lot of interest generated for "the department of revenue ". Stay strong, it eventually ends.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Just another reason why I would not want to live in Florida when you are correct they can take up to 60% garnishment of your wages. I am a veteran who served my country then sent to Iraq 100% P&T and total. Hell I don't even know if I'm going to live the next 20 years due to burn pit exposure. Yeah they throw a father in jail and treat him like a criminal what The f*** is wrong with this system
DAMN
My friend was in the Navy and went to court and the judge slammed him with child support and spousal support to the point he had literally $50 a month to live on! Unreal.
He probably deserved it
@@Cienfuegos. you got some issues eh? im guessing people of inspiration for you are criminals.
@@Cienfuegos. No.
I literally had a judge tell recently discharged me, "That's honorable and all, but someone has to pay for these kids".
If their your kids, yes, they're your responsibility.
@@kevinfox1780 Just some background. I recently got out and was in the middle of my divorce. I was giving my ex money, she didn't have a job either. I just started school and the state was ok with me paying at least $200 a month since I was unemployed. The judge had other plans. There was no custody order in place and I would see my children on a daily basis. Instead of requiring my ex to split the responsibility, I was required by the judge to pay $1000 a month based on 90/10. Hence, "That's honorable and all, but someone has to pay for these kids", except my ex of course.
In an astonishing update, she never got a job. I did. I got on my feet, got remarried and bought a house. 2 years later she lost full custody due to her instability. Even though I received 80% custody, the judge ordered me to continue paying child support. Why? Because she still didn't have a job and refused to work.
@@wmcguire1979 And that is absolute fucking bullshit. I'll never get married and have kids. I simply wont tolerate that, PERIOD.
That made me sad. :( I paid child support until I finally gained custody of my son after he went to Juvenile detention. Then I received child support from her for 6 years until he was 18. Sweet justice. My judge was similar. These words stand true.
The welfare of my child should not be determined by the sex of their parent. It should be determined by the competency of their parent.
It's funny, until you realize shit like this actually happens, if not as exaggerated. Then it's sad.
This shit hit me in the feels. Ex tryin to take me to court when I get back from this rotation. Don't understand how people need more child support when if the kid was with me I wouldn't ask for shit.
This man is literally like Batman he definitely know how to play to the crowd one of the best in the game
The Army used to require a soldier under the rank of Sergeant to get his company commander’s permission to get married. We should’ve kept that policy.
That's dumb as fuck cause we have 21 year old Sergeants out there cause they're in an MOS that promotes fast, but we have 25 to 30 year old Specialists cause they either are in an MOS that promotes slow or enlisted later on in life.
@@Orly90 21 year old Sgts in the marine corps also, insanity
@@alaskanwhiskey Don't forget the Air Force...21 yr old Staff Sgts
There was a policy like that in Korea when I was in the Air Force. Never paid much attention to off base stuff I just played wow while I was off from work to keep myself out of trouble. Saw a bunch of young airman ruin their lives there. Even some NCO's.
It is interesting how causality can return to sender. Departed service in 05' and the court denied me the ability to adjust payments. About a year later I became a policeman. 15 years on the force, the same Judge that mishandled my case had his house looted by rioters. We were ordered to stand down and let it happen. Boomerang justice. Plant a foul seed, reap a sour crop.
I feel so bad for skit yusha, he serves his country only for it to deny him a simple request.
I was in Iraq 05-06. And 08. Lost my right leg from the knee down from an IED four months into my second deployment. I was ordered to pay CS at the rate of someone working a 40 hr a week job. I wasn’t able to walk without crutches until the middle of 09. After my surgery. I went into court on crutches and my ex-wife said I was faking it. That I was able to work from home.
Your situation is heartbreaking, however don’t give up folks care. I care 🇺🇸
You only have yourself to blame
Why do I Have myself to blame. I was serving my country so cowards like you can be safe and make negative comments about people like me.
@@Cienfuegos. If you were burning I wouldn't even spit on you. Respect Bigbluenation, it's insane that you could give so much and be treated so lowly still.
@@BlakeKasgaard he “gave so much” and yet made no difference in the world. Why would I ever respect that?
Anytime i see vets getting screwed over i can't help but think of this quote:
"The barbarians didn't sack Rome. It was the expatriates who rallied them."
Its ironic really, thoses who fought to protect It would later see the only alternative to rallie the barbarians and sack the west Empire
That quote doesn’t apply whatsoever lmao
Veterans are treated like animals by the people who sent them into active war zones or deployments. The people of the country have more pride for our men and women past and present. I'm sorry, but any judge that talks like that in a courtroom and on record should have his career taken from him and all cases he handled re-examined. Sadly, it happens more than people think.
It happens throughout all of history and America is no exception.
I mean what glory is there for those who fought on the losing side of the war (and yes we are on that side)?
happens alot here in Bell county, TX. They really hate soldiers out here.
Men get screwed over for CS all the time. This is nothing new. That's why I say don't get married or have kids at this point.
I use to hear about people going away to the military I didn’t think nothing of it until I was older & now thinking about joining that people actually don’t come back sometimes & it’s crazy how they treat y’all RIP to all the veterans & happy Veterans Day again.
Were not on the losing side btw. And there is still glory irregardless if your on the winning or losing side.
Vasectomies are the gift that keeps on giving.
Starting to make more and more sense lol
This video is speaking to me right now. Got out a year ago and still the courts wouldn’t do anything about my child support. I’m $12k in arrears and getting depressed. I wish I can afford the T-shirt.
Reminds me of when Judge Judy revealed that the dumbest judges end up in Family Court.
Judge Judy be pissed off when she hear how trash them family court judges are...
It's a great feeling not having any kids.
Yes it is!
Don’t have any… please
Having children is the greatest feeling ever. You will NEVER know true love until you have a child of your very own. Just because it makes life tough sometimes doesn’t change the fact that watching your children grow is the most incredible and rewarding part of life of a responsible parent. I pity you. Life isn’t always rainbows and unicorns.
@@somepoliticalgamer6459 The children aren't the issue, its the woman and state attached to that child that can take it from you whenever she feels like it.
@@somepoliticalgamer6459 just wait until you get divorce graped in court. It's not having children that's the problem. It's the woman who uses them as weapons against you and hold them hostage and lies to them to make your children hate you when you work so hard to provide for them. It's not the children, it's the women.
A few ways to beat them at their own game:
Use your EIN instead of your SSN.
Work 1099 jobs only.
Find a PT job and use that when filing.
Start your own business and pay the business most of the company's earnings.
Smart man
True story when I was involuntary separated (honorably) I sent my DD-214 to the court along with my paycheck stubs for my new job. Modifications failed 2x both times my documents were considered hearsay. Seriously how much more official can my original DD-214 be. My child support has been based off income I haven’t made for over 10 years. Fuck Florida
Dude just fucking move Im readying all these and why not move countried and just avoid all this bs?
The misandry of the modern judiciary is being perfectly displayed here.
I wish this was funny, but its too accurate and heartwrenching. I knew a firefighter in Oregon who lost a foot in a forest fire. They prosecuted him for child support while he trying to recover. I watched him in court and they had zero sympathy for him. They took his license and fined him- I mean he wasnt driving anymore anyway- but watching this video reminded of that case.
I retired from the military and I was paying child support when I could have stopped a year earlier. My daughter really didn't want to talk or see me and her mother was acting crazy so I got a lawyer he was more than happy to file the paperwork on my behalf to the court to stop child support because my child was an adult. I got a decade of back history in the military and didn't give me crap. I'm waiting for litigation with the VA which has been taken around 4 years now. I think they wait until you die if they don't give it to you right away
Why doesn't your daughter want to talk to you? What exactly happened?
@@EbonyPope Life happens. Military life is actually great when it comes to the cost of living of having a child. The mother decides to move a thousand miles away so of course the courts have to get involved. You go in naive thinking hey just tell me what I need to do so I can have time with my daughter. It felt like everyone was on a certain team and it wasn't my team. Cool cool cool do it with it and do what you have to do you finally pay all that money you get the paperwork you get The daughter every summer according to the agreement signed off by the judge. If the mother violates the agreement I have to pay more money go back to court and they just tell her next time make sure the child sees his father for the summer according to the agreement. She broke that agreement about six times and when you separate a child, especially when they're young, The child may not feel comfortable with the parent that they do not see. It just grew and it wasn't exactly like I can just drive down the street or drive 100 mi to go see her. I was in DC, California, St Louis and I had to depend on the mother to either meet me halfway driving or put her on a flight and I would pay for the flight. She just really didn't want to do it but she got a child support. The main thing is a child is grown she has never been hungry homeless or needed anything and she didn't get on that pole. Not against anyone on the pole BTW. I did my job and I'm satisfied. If she needs something in the future I'm here but if not That's how life works. I didn't get that as a child so yeah it sort of irritates me but life goes on
Waited five years to see a judge to get a higher rating for my knee. VA completely botched my first c&p exam.
That PTSD should've kicked in and caused you to take the judge down to protect him from an "incoming".
🤣
I know how that feel brother!! Back in '05 when I got out, the judge did not care that I was fresh out of the military, was on unemployment, and waiting for my VA claim to go thru. On unemployment I was only making $1260 a month, the judge still ordered that I got to pay $130 a week/$520 a month in child support for a child that wasn't even mine to begin with. My ex-wife cheated and got pregnant by the other guy, but I still had to pay for 6 months until I proved otherwise.
That’s terrible,brother, here’s a dumb question did you get your money back for those 6 months?
@@Marfoir0303 Nope, at that time since we was still married, neither she nor the state had to pay me back. I complain that I should be paid back for the money I paid out, but they said I was entitled to support my then wife. I know, that was straight BRAVO SAHARA!!!
Me personally I won’t pay for any child support for a kid that isn’t mine. How in the hell are these judges hired in the first place?!
This hit home hard l am still paying child support for 3 grown adults, two of them are married and have children, the last serving in the Navy!!! Go figure!!!!!!
Oh my lol
Tf!!!!!
Yep, never having kids F that
Damn, how is the possible?
@@chevytheplayer i assume arrears
Been going through my divorce shit for almost two years... Everything is so slanted in her favor it's unreal. It's like the rules don't equally apply.
Thank you for your service sir. It pisses me off how veterans are treated when the get home. My best friend committed suicide after 6 tours. The only thing that helped his family was the police that said it looked accidental in their report.
child support has crippled me for years. im in a hole ill never get out of and always struggling to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I feel his pain. Its hard not to be depressed majorly when you cant afford anything, and trying to get disability to have it denied over and over. I almost landed in jail until i dropped it all and went to work just to pay support. cant even afford my own place.. living with my parents in the 40s.. god bless america.
Ay man you try to file a modify?
@@felixc.3444 problem i had was id have a job for a short period, make 1k a week or so. then lose it or quit, then 0. they refused to revisit it, then when they finaly would theyd just deny me. its ok. i made the bed. im down to 15k.
@@thebetaguy why don’t jobs last?
@@thebetaguy Why don't you try contacting Child Support Survival Services, talk to them and see if they can help you with your case. They don't charge thousands of dollars to help you. You can find their contact information online. I'm sorry you're going through them.
@@EW-uw7dg never heard of that. and uncle google doesn't come up with many results exept a yelp review in california.
I'm so glad I'm single and appreciate my own time and money.
I thought this was supposed to be comedy. That shit was too real. I got told to get a third job 🤣
I was laughing too hard at this until in the last fifteen seconds when it dawned on me just how truthful and freaking sad this is... 😳
My friend, it ain’t just for vets. I know that this is the focus of the channel, but this hits home for me too. Each time one of my kids hits the age to get off, the court somehow raises my child support. I filed for my filed son in June and am still waiting on the day in court. I’m making more money, but I’ll bet they will make me pay more for the last boy. No mercy for dads out here.
This how I feel all day about my service. We ain’t that special in the end. At least to the system.
"Oh you wanna lower your child support payments? I gotchu Private.
HALF RIGHT"
Sounds like a judge under the paycheck of the Office of Attorney General for The State of Texas
They are all under their paycheck.
Got to keep that money flowing, children and marriages are inventory.
Soon those judges wont be able to walk down the street.
As a non-veteran, I feel like this is pretty accurate. Vets don’t get certain privileges or consideration or benefits of the doubt even when they served our great country for multiple years. I also feel like the VA only does so much and only have limited power on things like child-support court cases. But don’t take my perspective and opinion very seriously because I am not a veteran and not a judge so I don’t have the credibility needed here.
Nah, you kinda got it right.
Except...
The VA has power. They just refuse to use it for their stated mission, and hardly lift a finger unless it very clearly will get people pissed off. Invisible wounds do not get addressed. I have sleep apnea, ptsd, hellafied anxiety, and developed bi polar depression. Civilian doctors all have signed affidavits that military service was directly to blame. I have two wrecked knees that took 10 years of rehab to fix, because surgery at my age is absurd. I have degenerated discs in my back to the point it's bone on bone.
But I got my arms and legs, and you can't see my disability from a glance, so they told me to fuck right off. I gave them a 3 inch thick medical record from my service and they said there was no documentation of mental illness, physical ailments, or hearing loss. That's all my medical records are. Knee problems, severe concussions, back problems, visits to DivPsych and my baseline hearing test next to my sep hearing test showing about 40% loss in left across all frequencies, 60% loss in my right. Oh, and persistent tinnitus. Yep, picture of health when a 23 yo can't walk up stairs or a ramp because his knees buckle or remember half his life, dissociate in a hospital or hearing helicopters, 3 day long panic attacks, brushes with psychogenic death, heart arrhythmia, can't hear conversational tone, back spasms, can't sit or stand too long consecutively because of pain...
I'm a 60 year old coal miner in a 35 year old body. I'm almost bald despite no family history, and what little hair I have left is grey.
They do everything they can to ignore or impede veterans because we are a living reminder of the profit wars they waged for 20 years. Afghanistan was mission complete in like 6 months, and only needed stability long enough to gather themselves, but we purposely withheld support to keep them dependent on our security. That's why it shit t the need in 1 day when we pulled out. Iraq was the exact same story. We DID find wmds there, but they were leftovers from round 1 and so the media kept that part quiet and screamed about the no manufacturing wmds part. People I know have nerve damage from the sarin exposure. Imagine proving that to the VA, which is seemingly staffed exclusively by people who hate veterans. But yeah, Iraq was pretty much just an excuse to up spending on defense so they had a reason to buy desperately needed equipment upgrades and new equipment. I fixed radios that were used in Europe to defeat Hitler. Verifiably used in WW2.
The Halliburton and blackwater contracts were just lining pockets for politician friends. It was 100% about money, not oil.
Vets remind the system and the people how badly the system fucked everyone, so they fuck us to keep us quiet.
@@cruss4612 I didn’t know much about really any of that. I pity you and wished you got the medical help you deserved and needed. I also thank you for serving our great country. I did know the VA needs to do much better. I don’t haya what else to say….I apologize on behalf of civilians across the country. I’m a young man, with friends from school who are joining the military and I couldn’t imagine them experiencing combat, coming back with all sorts of medical issues and ailments, and then to not get proper treatment for it. That’s a fucking shame.
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Bro you just gave me ptsd...lmao....this crap is exactly what I went through (did 13 years instead though) , judge treated me like I was criminally insane vet who "better not let nothing happen again and stay on my meds".....all I'm to blame for is living in California 😒
they did me extra dirty, they miscalculated the amount i was supposed to pay by 5x, THEIR mistake, i bring my w2's and stubs showing them how much i make, while waiting for court appearances my shit goes into arrears, by the time i get a court date they tell me they can only modify it if i pay the arrears that built up on their mistake, i couldn't, shit was almost 10G's by the time i saw a magistrate and they put me in for 30 days for THEIR fuck up
😂😂😂😂😂 YO why is this literally what I got 100% for. This one hit to close
*anxiety that is
This happened to my husband and not only was he denied to reduce payments he was threatened with jail time.
In my experience, this is how Veterans get treated 98% of the time when people aren't being nice just to look virtuous.
YO! This skit is so DAY_UM accurate! I did 18yrs, more deployments than fingers, and when I got out on an honorable and was going through transition and severe PTSD with a pitiful VA help at the time, they got me for a child I dienied was mine cause the moment she got home she hooked up with her loser ex and still swore it was mine. Court then went for the maximum arrears and maximum garnishment. I now have 5 sons (all same wife), and the courts and CPS STILL REFUSE to lower or look at my paperwork to adjust. I pay close to $800/mo and live in Texas now. The child is in a different state! IOh they got me FUDGED up! I am counting the clock til the kid is 18. THe custodial mom isn't even in the pic no more. The child is with the grandparents who between the two fo them make 4 times more than I do! WTH! I am 80% disabled from 3 mortar closecalls, 1 VIED that left me with a rod and pins min my leg, scarred eyesight, and too many others from that explosion. Yet the system still treats me like I'm a bum with multi,illion $$.
Bro the half of this video took me out. No bullshit Ill be on court cam If a judge told me my service didn’t mean shit😂😂
Service doesn't mean shit. The government just lies to us and says it does.
They were going to arrest me for not sowing up to court... When I was sitting in court, registered, and had spoken to the agent. One misplaced signature almost landed me in prison!
For all you new recruits, just so you know, your commander can reprimand you for failing to make payments. Whether it’s car payment or loan or credit card, etc. they can come after your leadership which will snowball back down to you.
Never forget Uncle Sam gets paid first, BX, Commissary, & The Club,
This guy recruited my wife into the Army in Brooklyn back in 2011. Thanks man, if it wasn't for you I wouldn't of met her and we wouldn't of have a beautiful son together ❤️
We must create a support system for veterans who have been wronged by family courts.
I'm surprised you were treated so well.
This is funny and Yusha has real talent. The reality of it is heartbreaking though. Glad your back man, always solid work.
Imagine you’re Master Chief, doing your favorite thing.. sleeping in space.
Then all of a sudden Yusha wakes you up for a fight against the covenant of child support
This is real right here. Courts do not give a damn
That's very true! Why can not the system be fair!?!?
What suddens amd scares me a lot is that almost everything depicted is accurate and I wonder if society is just bent on making men's life harder and hell
I use child support as a method of "situational awareness" for my sons.
The side eye when the judge said you lied to the VA 😂
My baby mama saw my child support and said “oh nah that’s too much” and took me off. But God!!!!
So glad you’re back!!!! This has been a shit year & I need a good laugh! Sending love from Savannah ❤️
The court's only concern is what's best for the child and if they can squeeze you like an orange, they will.
My brother married a woman with children, wound up paying child support for kids that weren't his, so I know this happens.
I’m so glad to see you’re back. Shaving waiver skit was a classic!!!!
I like how the judge knew that Yusha lied to the VA. 😹👨🏿⚖️
First line got a laugh out of me
My family all work in law and it's often a sad state of affairs for men in many legal affairs involving women and children.
Gotta spring for the lawyer Bruh, it’s better in the long run trust me. I did 15 years and I’m 100%
You're one my top three favorite military youtube channels that I watch religiously. Keep it up man. You're one of the things that influenced me to join the army.
This is so 😭 thank you for putting a spot light on this issue.
Lesson Learnt : Get a vasectomy or lie about having one, and always get a paternity test.
came for the laughs, but left with some sadness - some real shit right here folks
I met this guy today I’m 11 and he is really nice and chill Yusha I was that kid you saw at buckees if you don’t remember
This kind of crap is why I'm glad I didn't serve. Almost did. Props to all who did and for those that did only to come back to this kind of crap I feel for you. No justice in the world.
Bruh that shit is real...I pay 1200 for 2 my VA is only 1500 ...my job is only 2000 a month she won the house cars even my ptsd dog ..because it was accustom to the children... I even used my VA benefits to buy the house ...this shit is real thanks bro imma get one of those shirts when I can afford it haha
Man I wish alot of you fellow veterans got the red pill
@@alaskanwhiskey bruh it is what it is...may fuck around and join the French Foreign legion haha
@@enriqueguerraiii5359 aye man don't make the same mistake twice and I would do it never come back lol
Truer then most people know. Fucking tragic.
Got told me being active duty army was a unstable career & my petition for joint custody was denied during my divorce
By the sound of everything they want you to pay child support so they get paid. It's a lose lose situation because of their greed. They don't care about any of the people they just want to take money out of their paychecks for the rest of their lives.
I’m watching this while sending my last child support payment finally
I always find it funny that she who has the children doesnt need a job, but he who had his kids taken away NEEDS a job to pay for those kids. At this point why even give the kids to her?
Because of the court and laws favoritism of the maternal parent in cases
Yusha, I love your videos. This one hits me hard, this is exactly what happened to me when I got out on medical. After 3 years it finally got fixed though. Gotta love Michigan courts
Glad to see you back brother, please keep them vids coming. Your content is military grade AF!
This is exactly my life perfectly, this guy ain’t lyin!
This is just how it be word for word 😆😆
"A vet with anxiety and PTSD is clearly a menace and unfit to have a family and parenting.
If on top of that refuses to get a job and pay his children's suport he is a leech and should be trated as such.
I bet he got a divorce because he abused his family anyway."
The Judge, probably.
When I went for custody. They used ptsd against me because i was a veteran, even though i was never officially diagnosed or had an episode that had affect my kids in 14 years.