Emily wants her baby! The child has been living with dad for the past 5 years but Emily wants the child back living with her so she can get child support from him. Will she get what she wants?
She is in need of money now that she has another with the abuser of her 1st child. So she is requesting the 1st child to help her support the 2nd one. Wow.....till she broke up with the abuser she thought of her other child.
Abusive relationships are sooo complex tho, they’re like their own addiction, unfortunately it’s not about character and more about the psychological impact of abuse
You can tell by the change on his demeanor from start to finish he’s been used to foolishness from her for too long. He went from “here we go again” to “Finally, someone with some sense”. You could especially tell when she asked him about the health insurance, his body language screamed “Let me help you help me”, lmbo 😂… this Judge is a blessing, she brings people back to reality real quick.
THISSSSS! Like what do you mean you just left him 10 months ago he BEAT YOUR CHILD so bad that you lost him over 5 years ago and now that he finally left you you want your child back… Ummmm girl what?
@@nadzrinpuad1283calm down, elon. Us normal people absolutely care about $500/month to help raise our kids. He was already giving her unsupervised visits so it's not like he had completely cut her out and wanted nothing to do with her.
I hear you. I worked for family court for 32 years and we had a judge that was no nonsense and hilarious at the same time. I loved that judge although every once and awhile I would walk to the bench and say we need a 5 min recess so we could go in chambers and tell him what he did wrong. He had a dv case and the mom refused to come to court for hearing. She was the abuser. Judge told his law court to send a message via facebook. 🤦🏽♀️ told him he couldn't do that. Eventually he listened to me and his court officer. Man I miss working with him
Can I just say this man barely had to say anything!!! He just sat there and let her hang herself. He knew that she wouldn't win and that the case was ridiculous. He was respectful and was quiet and didn't speak unless spoken too. He's one of the most well behaved litigant in these cases. I love it.
Maybe its all the years of Judge Judy drilling it into my head listening to her show but the only issue I had with the dad was his "yup" and "nope" answers. If he had answered yes and no, it would've been the utmost respect in my eyes.
@@Kazeshini11 thats because Judge Judy is an actual judge and those cases are real, this show is just an act. I absolutely love Judge Vonda B, but it’s literally just for show u can look it up. So Judge Vonda B doesn’t hold these people to reality standards like Judge Judy does
@@steventaylor6881 Yeah after watching a few more of her vids I realized it was all for show when I saw a guy light a cigarette in her "court room" that nothing in it was factual.
@@Kazeshini11 it is all for show, but that doesn’t mean it’s not based on facts. Everything Judge Vonda B tells these people could be accurate, she just doesn’t hold them to the same verbal standards a real judge would
She was trying to get paid. She unfit mother. Better have CPS take a look at her newborn baby . Maybe that child needs to be taken away too. Good job Houston staying kool. He knew what was going to be the outcome. Got no worries
She just want money that’s why she want her child back. Cause she really wanted her child back she would broke up with the abusive ex 5 years ago when she first lost the baby
So many things she said were red flags but her saying “I want IT back” had me over the edge not to mention when exactly was the child taken because if the baby has been with the father for 5 years and she has an 8month old that means she stayed for several years with the man who abused her son and got pregnant by him. Praying for the 8months old.
Crazy chick just played herself. Houston would have never asked her for a dime even with him having full custody and this girl got the nerve to try to take the child back just as justification to reach into his pockets. I hope Houston gets every dime in support he and the kid is owed from this woman.
The dad has the whole demeanor that he knows how this is gonna end the whole time. He seems "whatever" about it all and I believe it's because he knew from the get go that mom had no chance in hell. Gotta compliment him for his confidence.
This judge has the patience of a saint. I would have had some harsh words for this woman. Her attitude was like that of a disgruntled and spoiled teenager rather than a grown woman and parent.
I am so glad the courts are finding on the side of the father when it is in the best interest of the child. For far too many years, the mother always won the case no matter how bad a mother they were and how much the better off the child would be with the father.
Exactly I believe the child should go to who ever can provide the the best fir him/her and tbh most good dads would not keep the mother from the there kids sometimes it's not always about being a bad parent it could be other things like having a child friendly home or a parent lives close to there school it doesn't always have to be for bad reasons IMO anyways
Keep in mind that this is a tv show and isn't real. Read the disclaimer at the end, She isn't a real Judge but she is doing a good job with showing different situations and how they should be handled but as they are fictional situations we can't say if it will play out the same in real court.
I had to pay my ex over $1100/mo for support and it just funded her drug habit, 9, yes..... NINE CPS cases later they finally give me full custody. She is 6months behind on her support, hasn't seen the child and called ONE TIME for 3 minutes on the phone. Point is it shouldn't have taken all those 2nd chances the court gave her to see the ongoing problem.
@@visiblefrequency7005 Thats Horrible. I’m 14 and live with my father now. He pay my mom $700 a month and she still doesn’t know that I know he’s paying her. It really makes me upset that I can’t really do anything and makes me feel bad for always asking him for stuff when the money is probably going to my brothers on my moms side
@@jaymarie3737 yeah it's a rough situation for the kids like you I know. Here's an update, she is still ghosted, almost 3 years behind on support and has talked to him maybe 30 min total, really nothing has changed but I hope your situation improves.
I’m sorry but she had her nerve acting like she should have that child back smart mouth trifling gal I like the Dad yep nope that’s all he had to say nothing else yep nope good for him 👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She stayed with the other man for 5 years AFTER he beat her newborn baby, then when they didn't work out she had the nerve to want her baby back smfh!!! She's straight trash!!!!
@@heathernichols7472 She sounds like my husband's ex wife. She wanted support after we got married because I made more money. Guess where the child lived?!?! With us.
Sorry, for the down vote, but she does not seem like a figher (or that brilliant) and abusive people pick up on that. She seems like the kind of person those with those tendancies are drawn to and can take control of for a time. She has some mental and emotional maturing to do. So, I don't think she tolerates the abuse, I think she does not have the self-esteem, mental capacity, or emotional maturity to not only avoid such people and situations, but how to get out quick enough.
@@he-mememan359: Because I have an understanding on how abuse works. It's more insidious than calling someone names or beating on them. Abuse is designed to affect one's inner person. To either break down the strong or to further weaken the vulnerable. And to answer your question more directly...If you are a human being, you would want to have feelings for someone that someone else is chosing to take advantage of.
@@MLIrons Yes, sadly this is also objectively made her unsuitable to be the caretaker of a child. I don't see having a role model that is easily abused as mentally healthy for the child, no? She needs to resolve whatever issues she had first, followed by peace talk to the father into allowing more times with the child after she's cleared, and yes, paid her child support.
@@MrWillypanda88: It does not. It shows that she has taken steps to show she is improving her life. Granted I know these are actors and this is a L&O program (meaning the episodes have some connection to an actual cases, but a reenactments with some liberties thrown in). She may actually have a right to get her child back. ALL role models have flaws, fails, personal demons, etc. that people will see. So, she may be seen as a role model. A woman who was in an abusive situation for a time, but have fought to free herself from it. Parents, ALL of them, can for the most part resolve mental issues on their own OR learn how to handle it and still be their for their children. There are billions of children who have grown to be healthy, well adjusted, stable kids, even if growing up in the care of a parent with mental issues. So, she doesn't have to resolve anything, but ensure she is dealing with whatever issues in a way that reduces the risks to children. Question...Lets take your idea that mental ill people, unless they have resolved their mental illness should not have children (and I do agree in some cases this would be right), how can we not say the same for the physically handicapped who have kids?
To her , her child means money gain only with zero emotional love involved in her actions. She had shown where her priorities to her child was five years ago when she had kept abusing boyfriend and she had second child with him instead of putting her older child first. Judge had definitely done right by older child and the dad. I do fully worry about her second child in her custody with potential of abused dad or future romance partners being involved in this child’s future since Mom is definitely not all there in her head nor she had shown any emotional concerns for her older child in five years by choosing to stay with her boyfriend over her child after he had hit her child.
To be fair some people just call the things they love in the third person or this manner. With her she is trash, however, it took me years to break the habit of "the kids". Glad I did but really thought nothing of it.
I was scratching my head at her DEMANDS. Like... he's cared for the child for 5 years, seems pretty content with how things are. And now you want him to give the child back and PAY YOU for it. When Dad seems to never have asked for payment in the years prior. Even if she DID get the child back, he shouldn't have to pay next to anything for those 5 years he had him
Yeah you say that but we all know the system screws the man. Kudos to the judge calling it out for what it was but if he gave the child back she'd demand 5 years of CS and probably get it.
K Hubbard exactly what I was thinking...I started crying because I saw the anger and disappointment in dads face. It truly is a sad situation because she is determined to be toxic about it. ☹️
I love this lady judge she does not discriminate she is fair and she sees equality from both sides . The lady in the court room clearly thinks she is intilted. We need more judges like this into to days society. Much love and respect for any man that fights and stands up for doing the right thing by their CHILD.
Her child is "Like 8 months" 🤦🏾♀️ Most moms know down to the minute! Nobody: Good mom: My baby is 232 months 5 days, 6 hours, 3 minutes and 21,22,23 secs old 😜😜😅😅 OAN: I can't let this show rob me of my day off.. Just one more episode 😅😅
My daddy raised me from the time I was two months old. My “mother” never paid one penny in support the entire 17 years and 10 months. Now as I am an adult she has the attitude that it’s wrong to say she never paid support.
I feel so awful for both of these children to have a mother who clearly doesn’t care about them. I sincerely hope the younger child is taken from her and given to someone who is capable of actually protecting and caring for them, and the older kid stays with dad.
The sad part is that if the second baby gets taken away from the mother these children probably won't even have a healthy sibling relationship because they would be raised in different families.
Another case of keeping your mouth shut and don't rock the boat because you just might ended up in the water... and the water can be very cold indeed...
Her attitude says everything. She really thought she could have the child back despite all her negligence and get paid on top of that LOL some people are just some else
This story made my day, she went there to only get money and that’s it. The look on her face when she had to pay child support and not him was priceless 😝 that’s the ultimate reserve uno card. This judge is a legend, I love it,.
@@wavewatcher_ The people in the video might not be the real people, but a lot of the cases on the channel are actually based off real cases, taken from court transcripts & I think cases that VB actually did.
I think Dad should not only get the child support but he should take her back to court for back child support and also to have the mother pay half of the after school extra curricular and stuff.
Cutting ties is all he wants. My father was like that. He didn't go after child support when my mom told the courts she didn't want me. He was tired of the abuse he was going thru. The courts asked if he wanted it but he said no.
This is one of the most satisfying episodes I’ve seen. This woman was just totally insane. I’m so glad Judge Vonda made her pay dad child support. Thank you, Judge.
I never imagined becoming a fan of a judge. Well, it happened 😂😂😂 I really wish there were some judges like you in Brazil - here, she should have the child back and the father would be obliged to pay for all the period HE took care of the child, probably. Thank you for being awesome, Judge, and love from Brazil 🙌
The face of "i fucking triple told you not to take this court" the guy has is so relatable... also he is completely sure she is not going to pay a dime ever at the end
It Seems To Me That "Mom" Was Looking For A Payday.. And, Didn't Give Two Squats About The Care And Well Being Of The Child.. Because IF She Did? She Would Have Left Well Enough Alone.. However? Justice Prevailed.. But? I Don't Think She'll Pay The Money Ordered.. She'll Find Away Around The System.. She Seems Like That Type.. And, If I Were The Father? I'd Just Let Sleeping Dogs LIE.. Literally...
She won't have a way around the system, now that the State is involved. She has to prove to Child Protective Service that she can provide for the child. Not just child support. She needs to jump through hoops to ever get her child back. The child is safer with father.
@@trekgirl65 I Understand That.. I Should Have Phrased My Post Better.. What I Mean Is? She'll Find A Way Of Getting Out Of Paying Child Support.. She's Lost The Kid.. And, Listening To Her Circumstances? She May Lose The Ones She Has Now.. The Father Should Just Let It Go WHEN NOT IF She Stops Paying Child Support.. Because She Seems Like The Type That Will Be A Burden In The Child's And The Father's Life If They Stays Too Close.. JMO...
commonman80 I've seen men arrested on their job's and jailed for not paying child support the same will happen to her and should. She went to the wrong court and I don't think the court that child away will send him back to an unstable home where he might be abused again. If they do something is very wrong.
So loving this. My ex wife tried to take me to court to up my child support, cause she was having a baby by another man and needed help supporting that child as well.
That’s so cute. She thought she was gonna come in here, get her baby back, and get child support she’s not entitled to. On top of that she wound up paying child support her damn self. Ya love to see it 😂
Exactly, it's like choosing two options. Having a mother that see you has cash flow only, while having an abusive "ex" boyfriend or having a father that loves you and provides a stable income. Like what is wrong with her???? I feel bad for her second child.
I like watching her videos. She gives attitude and kindness to those Good/Between/Crappy Parents equally. Especially how she can spot BS from a mile away 🤣
So many women truly believe that child custody is an automatic in divorce cases. This woman learned a hard lesson. Changing custody isn't like giving a puppy away. I'd bet the mother doesn't even visit her son.
I LOVE just how chill this dude is! You can hear him thinking 'Why am I here?' after every statement. Hes got better things to do... Well, now he can afford to stop for a cup of coffee! lol
This lady is crazy to even think that this judge would listen to her claims and immediately give her the child back after she was negligent to her child concerning that boyfriend who abused her child. Glad the judge wasn’t buying her excuses and sided with the biological father.
If your child is being abused by you or someone you’re with the kid will be placed with the other parent if they are fit but don’t expect to get the kid back that’s a different court
@@fergie2011cf She is not suspecting abuse, she just want the child support for herself, not her child. She could care less about the child. She will never get the child back for she had to be found unfit to parent to lose custody of her son. She was the abuser.
She keeps calling IT and that is stupid and I think she should give up the other one as well cause I think she is on drugs and her suppose to be ex boyfriend as well.
She shoulve just not go to court, the father of a child was too cool now hes getting child support that he didnt even ask for...Judge you are my hero
I know right. That shit backfired really bad on her 🤣🤣🤣
She's a nut...nuts don't plan for something to backfire
The nerves of her though
HE should have been granted the back pay from those years.
On God 🤞🏽
He looked like he had a headache wondering why he was there. I bet he ended up happy he was there
When he said she visits unsupervised and through his hand up🤣🤣🤣🤣 dudes like "wtf does this girl want shes got the best deal ever"
@@aidenharper6013 Yup and she actually thought she was gonna have him pay child support and take his child away from him... lmao...
Yeah, i dont think he was happy bruh.
I'm pretty sure he would be happy not getting the child support if it meant not having to deal with that chick ever again.
@@Tonyplat98 The vast majority of women in that position think that.
Love how the dad just sits there as cool as a cucumber and lets mom dig her own grave, knowing she doesn’t have a leg to stand on.
He knows she's unhinged, after over 5 years, he's seen her in action.
Still pretty risky considering how biased these courts are agianst men.
He knows she's not getting a penny!! She should be paying support to him!!
Love how the father was just big chillin. His “yup” answers were hilarious 😭
He reminds me of the Pony in My Little Pony. “ehhyup.” 😂
Even if that is not really how you behave in a courtroom.
I swear
Man’s been through it and can’t be bothered anymore by it.
he looks like he worked overnight or something like that, didn't even have the energy to be pissed of
The fact she uses the word "It" shows how much of a mother she is
Ikr, I was like wth
Was coming here to say just that. Like girl “you just came here to waste Vonda B.’s time” 😂
Very
She is in need of money now that she has another with the abuser of her 1st child. So she is requesting the 1st child to help her support the 2nd one. Wow.....till she broke up with the abuser she thought of her other child.
i heard that and my mouth dropped!
Every time she says I want my baby back, I think about baby back ribs 😂😂
same here !!! Chili's LOL
@@DoktorSick 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooooo!! I’m glad I’m not the only one singing “chiliiiiii’s....baby back ribs.” 😂
🤣🤣🤣lmao
JAILLLL girlll😂😂😂😂
The fact she kept the bf and lost the kid as a result is a tell tale sign of her character.
Right!!! & conveniently when they finally spilt she wants to uproot her 5 y/o “baby” from what he actually knows
Exactly to pick an abusive man over your child in my opinion is unforgivable
Abusive relationships are sooo complex tho, they’re like their own addiction, unfortunately it’s not about character and more about the psychological impact of abuse
@@GloballyGorgeous715 sure is
Says a lot, she chose a man over her child, I have zero respect for her
You can tell by the change on his demeanor from start to finish he’s been used to foolishness from her for too long. He went from “here we go again” to “Finally, someone with some sense”. You could especially tell when she asked him about the health insurance, his body language screamed “Let me help you help me”, lmbo 😂… this Judge is a blessing, she brings people back to reality real quick.
I don't think that her other baby is safe
The fact that she stayed with the abusive bf FOR FIVE YEARS after he was the reason she lost her child is beyond me
And then had a child with this same man and left him before the second child was born allegedly. Whatever lady, pay up 😂
THISSSSS! Like what do you mean you just left him 10 months ago he BEAT YOUR CHILD so bad that you lost him over 5 years ago and now that he finally left you you want your child back… Ummmm girl what?
@@AveryAlston-c3psomething tells me she and the abuser never split up.
I thought the same thing
@@matthewlindsey9344 Looks like the judge had that same thought.
I love the dad's demeanor. "I'm in here wasting my time" hahaha
Yup
Noope
Yup
Thank you.
Well, he and his son got nearly 500 a month for his trouble
He must have enjoyed the result though. Terrible karma
@getthelyricsright3889 nah I don't think the Dad really want the money.. he probably don't care 500..
@@nadzrinpuad1283calm down, elon. Us normal people absolutely care about $500/month to help raise our kids. He was already giving her unsupervised visits so it's not like he had completely cut her out and wanted nothing to do with her.
The fact she thought she could just walk in, ask for a 5YR OLD BACK, and put the father on CS is beyond me 😂
well she is a woman so i expect it1
@@malbarlow4991 not really she stay with man who hit the kid bozo KIDS ALWAYS COME FIRST please stop reproduce
Yeah,. Just in time for the little boy to go to school..... less trouble for her. Also, is she getting child support from the other baby daddy?
Probably not which might be the reason she wanted the 5yo back.
Some people don't think before they act
I could never keep my composure with her attitude, this judge is amazing at handling situations professionally and fairly. Love her
I hear you. I worked for family court for 32 years and we had a judge that was no nonsense and hilarious at the same time. I loved that judge although every once and awhile I would walk to the bench and say we need a 5 min recess so we could go in chambers and tell him what he did wrong. He had a dv case and the mom refused to come to court for hearing. She was the abuser. Judge told his law court to send a message via facebook. 🤦🏽♀️ told him he couldn't do that. Eventually he listened to me and his court officer. Man I miss working with him
We must protect Judge Vonda B, At all cost. She's not just giving anyone something they don't deserve or letting them take advantage of the system l.
Real shit
She is doing good but this isn't real it's just a staged show. read the disclaimer at 7:05
California needs her ASAP
they are actors
She’s a real attorney though. I smile all the time when I see that bill board in downtown dallas. She is the epitome of brains and beauty
Can I just say this man barely had to say anything!!! He just sat there and let her hang herself. He knew that she wouldn't win and that the case was ridiculous. He was respectful and was quiet and didn't speak unless spoken too. He's one of the most well behaved litigant in these cases. I love it.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Maybe its all the years of Judge Judy drilling it into my head listening to her show but the only issue I had with the dad was his "yup" and "nope" answers. If he had answered yes and no, it would've been the utmost respect in my eyes.
@@Kazeshini11 thats because Judge Judy is an actual judge and those cases are real, this show is just an act. I absolutely love Judge Vonda B, but it’s literally just for show u can look it up. So Judge Vonda B doesn’t hold these people to reality standards like Judge Judy does
@@steventaylor6881 Yeah after watching a few more of her vids I realized it was all for show when I saw a guy light a cigarette in her "court room" that nothing in it was factual.
@@Kazeshini11 it is all for show, but that doesn’t mean it’s not based on facts. Everything Judge Vonda B tells these people could be accurate, she just doesn’t hold them to the same verbal standards a real judge would
She was trying to get paid.
She unfit mother.
Better have CPS take a look at her newborn baby . Maybe that child needs to be taken away too.
Good job Houston staying kool. He knew what was going to be the outcome.
Got no worries
Right they need to be checking on the other kids !!!
She just want money that’s why she want her child back. Cause she really wanted her child back she would broke up with the abusive ex 5 years ago when she first lost the baby
So many things she said were red flags but her saying “I want IT back” had me over the edge not to mention when exactly was the child taken because if the baby has been with the father for 5 years and she has an 8month old that means she stayed for several years with the man who abused her son and got pregnant by him. Praying for the 8months old.
Crazy chick just played herself. Houston would have never asked her for a dime even with him having full custody and this girl got the nerve to try to take the child back just as justification to reach into his pockets. I hope Houston gets every dime in support he and the kid is owed from this woman.
And my question is why would she have a baby with an abuser?
4:18 that "hmm" and the slight smile on his face says it all
This judge is on my side and this evil woman of a mom is gonna get it
The look on the mother's face when the judge told her she has to pay child support is priceless
Yeah that was classic
Its pure priceless
they are actors
Emma Helman and you know this is an act? How so?
@@emmahelman3897 no
She just wanted money.
TRUE
Ya think😱
😂
And a dumb guy to to take care of the kids will she go out and make more money. . . . . . I mean baby's.
I figured that much as well.
@@kommando1476 he’s dumb for taking care of his child?
“I want my baby back, baby back, baby back. I want my baby back, baby back, baby back. Chili’s baby back ribs.” 🎼🎶🎵🎶🎹🎷🎸
BBQ sauuuccceeee....lol
I was looking for this to be in the top comments haha
I remember that commercial 😂
BBQ sauce
@@beastly.warner I was gonna comment that very comment as i was saying that in my head lmao.
"You're the one that's going to pay him child support"
"WHAT?"
LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Judge hit her with the ultimate reverse card
*inserts pikachu mouth open emoji*
The dad has the whole demeanor that he knows how this is gonna end the whole time. He seems "whatever" about it all and I believe it's because he knew from the get go that mom had no chance in hell. Gotta compliment him for his confidence.
they are actors
It rarely happens that way
@@emmahelman3897 thank you
@@emmahelman3897 I need proof
@@GreyLeo watch the end credits. they say these are actors. its obvious since the woman would have been much more emotional in real life
She really should have stayed out of court
Josh Powell Karma! 🤷🏻♀️
Or going to a lawyer first!
Exactly
The audacity of it all!!!
LMFAOOOOO
This judge has the patience of a saint. I would have had some harsh words for this woman. Her attitude was like that of a disgruntled and spoiled teenager rather than a grown woman and parent.
Hallelujah! Where do they get this judge? That's justice served on behalf of all men
"Men are not second class parents" *Judge Judy*
the way man say... Nope... is gold.😅
And yup
That just screams.. I won. 🤣. I guarantee he bought their son new clothes, new shoes, Probably a better vehicle.. All on her dime.
Just winning by confirming questions by Nope.... Nope... Nope... 🤣🤣
I am so glad the courts are finding on the side of the father when it is in the best interest of the child. For far too many years, the mother always won the case no matter how bad a mother they were and how much the better off the child would be with the father.
Exactly I believe the child should go to who ever can provide the the best fir him/her and tbh most good dads would not keep the mother from the there kids sometimes it's not always about being a bad parent it could be other things like having a child friendly home or a parent lives close to there school it doesn't always have to be for bad reasons IMO anyways
Keep in mind that this is a tv show and isn't real. Read the disclaimer at the end, She isn't a real Judge but she is doing a good job with showing different situations and how they should be handled but as they are fictional situations we can't say if it will play out the same in real court.
I agree 100%
Sadly it will still take years to change that narrative because too many judges are still biased in favor of mothers no matter what
@Helen Saghy I’m assuming this happened to you?
Wish it went like this for good father's in real life because I swear some of these women are not maternal @ all and down right trifling!!!
I'mBlack&I'mProud X It’s going like this for more father’s everyday, thankfully.
I had to pay my ex over $1100/mo for support and it just funded her drug habit, 9, yes..... NINE CPS cases later they finally give me full custody. She is 6months behind on her support, hasn't seen the child and called ONE TIME for 3 minutes on the phone. Point is it shouldn't have taken all those 2nd chances the court gave her to see the ongoing problem.
@@visiblefrequency7005 Thats Horrible. I’m 14 and live with my father now. He pay my mom $700 a month and she still doesn’t know that I know he’s paying her. It really makes me upset that I can’t really do anything and makes me feel bad for always asking him for stuff when the money is probably going to my brothers on my moms side
@@jaymarie3737 yeah it's a rough situation for the kids like you I know. Here's an update, she is still ghosted, almost 3 years behind on support and has talked to him maybe 30 min total, really nothing has changed but I hope your situation improves.
Amen
You ain't even lyin'.
I wish there would be more judge's like you, life would be a better place for us men's and our kids !
bless you !
I’m sorry but she had her nerve acting like she should have that child back smart mouth trifling gal I like the Dad yep nope that’s all he had to say nothing else yep nope good for him 👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She stayed with the other man for 5 years AFTER he beat her newborn baby, then when they didn't work out she had the nerve to want her baby back smfh!!! She's straight trash!!!!
@@heathernichols7472 She sounds like my husband's ex wife. She wanted support after we got married because I made more money. Guess where the child lived?!?! With us.
Trifling assed heifer
This judge handled her perfectly!
At least the kid is with a parent who won't tolerate having that kind of abuse around the child.
Sorry, for the down vote, but she does not seem like a figher (or that brilliant) and abusive people pick up on that. She seems like the kind of person those with those tendancies are drawn to and can take control of for a time. She has some mental and emotional maturing to do.
So, I don't think she tolerates the abuse, I think she does not have the self-esteem, mental capacity, or emotional maturity to not only avoid such people and situations, but how to get out quick enough.
@@MLIrons He hit the baby, she stayed with him for four years after he hit the baby and had a baby with him. Why the hell would we feel sorry for her?
@@he-mememan359: Because I have an understanding on how abuse works. It's more insidious than calling someone names or beating on them. Abuse is designed to affect one's inner person. To either break down the strong or to further weaken the vulnerable.
And to answer your question more directly...If you are a human being, you would want to have feelings for someone that someone else is chosing to take advantage of.
@@MLIrons Yes, sadly this is also objectively made her unsuitable to be the caretaker of a child. I don't see having a role model that is easily abused as mentally healthy for the child, no? She needs to resolve whatever issues she had first, followed by peace talk to the father into allowing more times with the child after she's cleared, and yes, paid her child support.
@@MrWillypanda88: It does not. It shows that she has taken steps to show she is improving her life. Granted I know these are actors and this is a L&O program (meaning the episodes have some connection to an actual cases, but a reenactments with some liberties thrown in). She may actually have a right to get her child back.
ALL role models have flaws, fails, personal demons, etc. that people will see. So, she may be seen as a role model. A woman who was in an abusive situation for a time, but have fought to free herself from it. Parents, ALL of them, can for the most part resolve mental issues on their own OR learn how to handle it and still be their for their children. There are billions of children who have grown to be healthy, well adjusted, stable kids, even if growing up in the care of a parent with mental issues. So, she doesn't have to resolve anything, but ensure she is dealing with whatever issues in a way that reduces the risks to children.
Question...Lets take your idea that mental ill people, unless they have resolved their mental illness should not have children (and I do agree in some cases this would be right), how can we not say the same for the physically handicapped who have kids?
1:28 she said not ex-boyfriend ex-boyfriend😂😂😂
That man was chill because he knew she had no argument😂👏🏾 Props to you Judge I love the way you work!!
“They took the baby and I want IT back” wow
I caught that too! I was like no one else gonna catch she called her baby an it.
To her , her child means money gain only with zero emotional love involved in her actions. She had shown where her priorities to her child was five years ago when she had kept abusing boyfriend and she had second child with him instead of putting her older child first. Judge had definitely done right by older child and the dad. I do fully worry about her second child in her custody with potential of abused dad or future romance partners being involved in this child’s future since Mom is definitely not all there in her head nor she had shown any emotional concerns for her older child in five years by choosing to stay with her boyfriend over her child after he had hit her child.
She should never be given her child back. She called him IT really dumb ass. You couldn’t work your way out of a paper bag!
@sjwalker1973 I call my child it. Because they're dumb and uslesss.
To be fair some people just call the things they love in the third person or this manner. With her she is trash, however, it took me years to break the habit of "the kids". Glad I did but really thought nothing of it.
What a dope ass f****** judge! Beautiful! Funny, smart and straight to the f****** point. She plays no games.
The way the dude sits in the chair is a metaphor for this whole proceeding.
That mans face when the case was dismissed was golden, good on him.
It’s official. I love this judge and we need like 10,000 more like her in our justice system. Intelligent, cordial, and down right awesome!
I was scratching my head at her DEMANDS. Like... he's cared for the child for 5 years, seems pretty content with how things are. And now you want him to give the child back and PAY YOU for it. When Dad seems to never have asked for payment in the years prior. Even if she DID get the child back, he shouldn't have to pay next to anything for those 5 years he had him
Yeah you say that but we all know the system screws the man. Kudos to the judge calling it out for what it was but if he gave the child back she'd demand 5 years of CS and probably get it.
This judge is a proper judge!! Love her
I have heard it all. She wants that baby for child support not because she loves the BABY 😢
It's not an IT😡.Its a CHILD.
excuse the heck out of me😎
She luvs money. She have something in her ummm in her mind.
K Hubbard exactly what I was thinking...I started crying because I saw the anger and disappointment in dads face. It truly is a sad situation because she is determined to be toxic about it. ☹️
blessed14real I think they were quoting what SHE said when SHE referenced to Her Baby
The back and forth between judge and Emily is funnier than every snl skit of the last year
Thank you. Lorne Michaels, call me!
She wasn't ready 😂. She thought she was going to cash out and she was the deadbeat 😂😆😂
The judge said, "You visit? Congratulations." 😂😂😂😂
I love this lady judge she does not discriminate she is fair and she sees equality from both sides . The lady in the court room clearly thinks she is intilted. We need more judges like this into to days society. Much love and respect for any man that fights and stands up for doing the right thing by their CHILD.
Her child is "Like 8 months" 🤦🏾♀️ Most moms know down to the minute!
Nobody:
Good mom: My baby is 232 months 5 days, 6 hours, 3 minutes and 21,22,23 secs old 😜😜😅😅 OAN: I can't let this show rob me of my day off.. Just one more episode 😅😅
Shit im a great mom but it takes me a second to remember his birthday and calculate how old he is lol
Now that’s do to much
You made my day with this comment!! Anyone else having a rough day at work and a single mom, please read this!!! Lmao 😂
No
Where is the lie? 🤣 nice comment
The fact that she thinks she can just show up and say “I want my baby back” and think that it would work shows the entitlement in her
She doesn't understand the way the law works.
She only wants him back to get money from the sound of it
Seems like she’s talking as though she’s loaned someone a lawnmower and is asking for it back, and *NOT* a child.
The problem is that it often does 😢
Chills baby back ribs…… barbecue sauce 😂😂😂😂
“He makes like three times as much money as I do; I have to give him my money?” It seems like she’s more interested in the money than the child.
I love this judge. We need more like her.
I want her be my judge too to California
I love how your a fair Judge, regardless of gender or roles. We need more judges like you !!
My daddy raised me from the time I was two months old. My “mother” never paid one penny in support the entire 17 years and 10 months. Now as I am an adult she has the attitude that it’s wrong to say she never paid support.
I know a lot of mothers that do not pay child support and they think their mother of the year SMFH
I think she own you money in back child if I’m not mistaken
@@leclercnesifortjr8876 she’s a retired US soldier so I’ve recently contacted the right authorities about her disobeying an order
Well dam, she didn't. She just wants to ignore the truth. Pretend she's guiltless, and live from here on. Sorry mom doesn't work like that.
I have a step-dad but i only met the biological father 1 time, he was an asshole, i'm glad my mom went away from him.
Well done judge... that woman shouldn't be anywhere near kids!
I like the spare, no frills approach to this court show. And I love the judge’s no-drama approach. So efficient.
I feel so awful for both of these children to have a mother who clearly doesn’t care about them. I sincerely hope the younger child is taken from her and given to someone who is capable of actually protecting and caring for them, and the older kid stays with dad.
And she is not done yet
The sad part is that if the second baby gets taken away from the mother these children probably won't even have a healthy sibling relationship because they would be raised in different families.
Don’t feel bad, these are actors
Don’t feel bad, this dad is doing a good jon
Another case of keeping your mouth shut and don't rock the boat because you just might ended up in the water... and the water can be very cold indeed...
She didn't want that baby back.. she wanted the child support. This the shit that pisses me off with these crazy women.
I love this judge.. she's giving guys hope again.. and this mother needed help taking care of that other child... poor thing
I love this channel. Finally a judge that's actually fair.
The dudes face when she asked for custody and child support after she lost the child
This judge is a hero!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 When you think you're gonna make easy bank but common sense steps in and slaps you back to reality
“These kids aren’t raised on air alone”… a whole word 👏🏾 👏🏾
Her attitude says everything. She really thought she could have the child back despite all her negligence and get paid on top of that LOL some people are just some else
"I can't give you your baby back as I never took your baby!" I am completely finished😂😂😂
This story made my day, she went there to only get money and that’s it. The look on her face when she had to pay child support and not him was priceless 😝 that’s the ultimate reserve uno card. This judge is a legend, I love it,.
It would’ve been more incredible if these people were real
@@wavewatcher_ The people in the video might not be the real people, but a lot of the cases on the channel are actually based off real cases, taken from court transcripts & I think cases that VB actually did.
I think Dad should not only get the child support but he should take her back to court for back child support and also to have the mother pay half of the after school extra curricular and stuff.
I think he was at peace with cutting ties with her as much as possible, he probably felt it was worth not dealing with her more.
If the situation was reversed the judge would have ordered back payments and thrown the guy in jail. She got off easy.
My husband has custody of his daughter and trust me when the other parent has other kids and doesn't make shit it's really not worth it
@@baddadjokes9330 imr
Cutting ties is all he wants. My father was like that. He didn't go after child support when my mom told the courts she didn't want me. He was tired of the abuse he was going thru. The courts asked if he wanted it but he said no.
This is one of the most satisfying episodes I’ve seen. This woman was just totally insane. I’m so glad Judge Vonda made her pay dad child support. Thank you, Judge.
I never imagined becoming a fan of a judge. Well, it happened 😂😂😂 I really wish there were some judges like you in Brazil - here, she should have the child back and the father would be obliged to pay for all the period HE took care of the child, probably. Thank you for being awesome, Judge, and love from Brazil 🙌
That mom made me so mad. I love how the judge handled it
LOL! I thought she meant the city of Houston took her child. She doesn't deserve anything!
Me too
@@lynnhardaway7604 In other words, I need some money, so give me my kid back that I lost because I let a scumbag beat my child. Ah...nah!
@@clevestercrittenden2089 damn you replied to this after 2 yrs 😂 I thought they meant that too 😭
@@bandaidboy7806 Sometimes I'm a little late to the party.
The judge is right but I had to laugh when she says "but the good thing is the money is going to your child" lol
LOL
The face of "i fucking triple told you not to take this court" the guy has is so relatable... also he is completely sure she is not going to pay a dime ever at the end
4:30 Judge: UNO REVERSE CARD!!!
Her: I have to give him my money?!?
Divorced dads: welcome to the club.
She brings him to court asking for money and ends up having to pay him. Hilarious 😂
Most relaxed guy I have even seen in this! Didn't give 2 fs cause he knew he was winning no matter what
"Did you need me to repeat it"....Almost choked on my coffee xD
The fact that she refers to their child as my baby really says a lot.
Damn, this guy is super chill and has an amazing voice
“Nope.”
Gotta love that. 😂
Yes he does and not bad looking either.
you can already tell hes sick and tired of her and has dealt with this time and time again and just wants to care for his child, props to the father
That "woman" was so childish. Loved watching her get humbled by reality 😂
It Seems To Me That "Mom" Was Looking For A Payday.. And, Didn't Give Two Squats About The Care And Well Being Of The Child.. Because IF She Did? She Would Have Left Well Enough Alone.. However? Justice Prevailed.. But? I Don't Think She'll Pay The Money Ordered.. She'll Find Away Around The System.. She Seems Like That Type.. And, If I Were The Father? I'd Just Let Sleeping Dogs LIE.. Literally...
She won't have a way around the system, now that the State is involved. She has to prove to Child Protective Service that she can provide for the child. Not just child support. She needs to jump through hoops to ever get her child back. The child is safer with father.
@@trekgirl65
I Understand That.. I Should Have Phrased My Post Better.. What I Mean Is? She'll Find A Way Of Getting Out Of Paying Child Support.. She's Lost The Kid.. And, Listening To Her Circumstances? She May Lose The Ones She Has Now.. The Father Should Just Let It Go WHEN NOT IF She Stops Paying Child Support.. Because She Seems Like The Type That Will Be A Burden In The Child's And The Father's Life If They Stays Too Close.. JMO...
commonman80 I've seen men arrested on their job's and jailed for not paying child support the same will happen to her and should. She went to the wrong court and I don't think the court that child away will send him back to an unstable home where he might be abused again. If they do something is very wrong.
So loving this. My ex wife tried to take me to court to up my child support, cause she was having a baby by another man and needed help supporting that child as well.
She tried to take you to court and make you pay for a child that wasn’t even yours
I get what you're saying but I'd like to know what planet does she come from and what was your ex smoking?
This was Hilarious!!!! I want my baby back is Classic...she thought she was going to get her baby back that day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That guy seems like a cool dude to have a beer with.
That’s so cute. She thought she was gonna come in here, get her baby back, and get child support she’s not entitled to. On top of that she wound up paying child support her damn self. Ya love to see it 😂
This woman is unbelievable. I can assure this child would be abused or severely neglected if she were to get custody back.
Exactly, it's like choosing two options. Having a mother that see you has cash flow only, while having an abusive "ex" boyfriend or having a father that loves you and provides a stable income. Like what is wrong with her???? I feel bad for her second child.
I like watching her videos. She gives attitude and kindness to those Good/Between/Crappy Parents equally. Especially how she can spot BS from a mile away 🤣
I love this dude over here just like "nope" 😂😂😂
I'm ready to see that shit again. I just laughed so hard at this now i got abs. The dad was like "da fuq am i doing here"
🤣🤣🤣
So many women truly believe that child custody is an automatic in divorce cases.
This woman learned a hard lesson. Changing custody isn't like giving a puppy away.
I'd bet the mother doesn't even visit her son.
Lol I bet she wished she never went to court.
I LOVE just how chill this dude is! You can hear him thinking 'Why am I here?' after every statement. Hes got better things to do... Well, now he can afford to stop for a cup of coffee! lol
This lady is crazy to even think that this judge would listen to her claims and immediately give her the child back after she was negligent to her child concerning that boyfriend who abused her child. Glad the judge wasn’t buying her excuses and sided with the biological father.
I'm new to watch this judge and now she by far my favorite. Awesome job judge
I know she did not think it was going to work out in her favor when she let her boyfriend hit the child.
The way they both collectively scratch their heads and rub their faces every time she says she wants her baby back
Fathers are not second class parents and that "mother" has got to understand that
I come back to watch this one from time to time because this mom is hilarious hahaha
Mom wanted the child support not the child but she was tricked
Sick.
She was not tricked, unless it she did it to herself. She is now getting the rude awakening.
If your child is being abused by you or someone you’re with the kid will be placed with the other parent if they are fit but don’t expect to get the kid back that’s a different court
@@fergie2011cf She is not suspecting abuse, she just want the child support for herself, not her child. She could care less about the child. She will never get the child back for she had to be found unfit to parent to lose custody of her son. She was the abuser.
She keeps calling IT and that is stupid and I think she should give up the other one as well cause I think she is on drugs and her suppose to be ex boyfriend as well.
She don't give a damn about that baby! All she wanted was the child support she thought she was entitled to! 🤣😂