12 Red-Flag Breadcrumbing Texts (And How to Respond)
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- //12 Red-Flag Breadcrumbing Texts (And How to Respond)// What are the biggest red-flag breadcrumbing texts? Learn what they are and how to respond to your breadcrumber.
Want to know what the top 12 red-flag breadcrumbing texts are? You might be thinking, “why do men breadcrumb me?” Emotionally unavailable men can turn to breadcrumbing. And these breadcrumbing text messages are a no-go if you want to avoid dating games. Learn how to tell the difference between breadcrumbing vs genuine interest and breadcrumbing and ghosting, the biggest breadcrumbing signs and how to respond to breadcrumbing. Watch this video and you’ll finally be able to tell if he is breadcrumbing you.
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Have you gotten breadcrumbing texts before? Let me know what your biggest take-away was from this video! I can't wait to see your comments below!
I have been breadcrumbed quite a few times and it's been from someone that I've dated before hand and I find it that I'm the only one who has been making the effort into the starting to build a relationship again. We broke up because of my health problems. But at points I'm being crucified for the way my autoimmune disease has been causing problems. I keep giving them the benefit of the doubt. I take into consideration that I know that I'm a job to be with because of my health problems. I know that's not a good way to be. 😔🤦♂️
@@rossanderson1989 so sorry to hear this 😥 I’m in the process of being diagnosed and find myself pushing people away to keep myself safe from rejection once it’s clear I can’t do all the things a ‘normal’ 37-year old woman can do (be spontaneous, feel confident in never needing to break plans) it’s hard and you’re not alone.
Love your videos and insights! So glad you’re back to making videos btw 🙂
I’ve experienced (and committed) these breadrumbing texts. I’m now trying to be careful not to lead anyone on or turn to someone for a confidence boost with these unsolicited texts when I need one but know I’m not interested beyond that. I don’t want someone to do me like that either, it’s confusing and it hurts!
@@uelueluesue I was 28 when I got the autoimmune disease. It's called susacs syndrome and it's related to multiple sclerosis symptom wise. I have to walk around with a crutch. I'm finding it hard to find a partner who will accept me for being sick.
@@rossanderson1989 I'm so sorry you're suffering. It makes it feel so much harder to date with a chronic illness :(
“HEY” is the ultimate red flag.
YEH
😂 definitely not the ultimate red flag absent other correlated behavior.
Even worse is "U up?"🤦♀️
“Hey stranger!…”
@@JohnM...😂😂
I’d rather block them; so no chance is left for them to restart the breadcrumbing cycle.
OMG! I feel so used and stupid after watching this video! I can't believe I've been bread-crumbed all these years, particularly, #6. IT STOPS TODAY! Thank you, Briana!
Wasting another persons life.!not just on line. Breadcrumbing and Ghosting are both humiliating , disrespectful, and hurting. Hung on for decades, leading nowhere! , but plenty of pain.
Never heard of Bread Crumbing.
But now I see what it is and understand of future plans being shifted in conversation .
I'm 61 going on 62 no time for this crap ...
I’m 27 and happy to know that we never stop learning
I rather be ghosted then lead on. Much better then wasting my time. I find playing there games back will make them loose there mind and move on
I'm better off alone to be honest I've always been mistreated by guys so i done trust them at all.
I agree with her for the most part.
The only problem I see is her calling out insecurity.
If you are truely vulnerable you will be insecure ! We are all fragile, be patient and forgiving
This video was very helpful for even my own texting style. Some of those things I do unintentionally and never even thought about how it coming off!
It's quite sad to realize that I've been doing most of these without even noticing it, it did hit me when I pushed away someone I was VERY interested in, and I realized I might not be as emotionally available as I thought.
Thank you so much for the videos, I'm really willing to change and this channel helps a lot.
This is the majority of "people" today since "smart" devices and addictions to anti-social media. Can we please address this pink elephant in the room for those of us who lived a lot before this era which was actually more human.
Brilliant👏 I'm in too
Yeah, squash all that texting $#!√ by getting a landline with an answering machine. 😂😂😂 If they've shown "old school" effort, consistency, and time; they can graduate to video calls. 🙏🏾 for discernment. Listen to your gut, and Use some common sense!😂😂😂
O.M.G so much of what I'm hearing, has happened to me already. Though I've experienced most of these "red flags 🎌 " during the last 4 years. Sharing to much of yourself gives them ammo to use against you at a later time.
Thank you for this video! Messages like the ones you described make me feel that the person is not committed or really interested, but without a way to put my suspicions into words, I couldn't help but doubt myself!
Funny fact: I've done some of those things while REALLY INTERESTED in the guy! My "excuses" weren't lies! I really was occupied etc. And I told the guy: "Look, I really like you. Could you wait a couple of weeks for me to do my obligations? (I was at a time of taking big test on college) and then I will give you my full attention?"Well, he not only didn't believe in me, but he also immediately started to catcall another woman. I just thought: ok, there's an insecure and inconsistent guy. He wants interested in a relationship with ME. But any relation with any woman is just for self-validation. I just dodge a bullet! Sometimes... is not ghosting! The girl might have a life outside the internet! haha
It's not ghosting if you ask politely
I avoid dating apps altogether. I did not go directly to phone, even though I would have met eventually. If they can't keep a good convo, then the phone won't be better.
I just found this channel but this lady is eerily insightful, and gets it. Will watch every video
You nailed it with this video. Highly accurate and brilliant!❤
Thank you for making this video, it was very helpful. I'm going to go over and check out the courses you have on the Anxious Attachment Style, definitely struggle with it and can see some of the unhealthy messaging behaviors from my end which were mentioned in this video. Excited to find your channel :)
You are just so full of great insight! I love all your stuff! The only thing I didn't quite get was the "negging" examples, because I've said things along those lines, but not with any intent to manipulate at all. It was just me expressing my usual taste while recognizing that they don't apply to the current interaction. I wonder if there's a better way I could express that? I mean, I would be okay with someone expressing those messages to me without triggering my need for approval, yet, the examples of negging that I've seen in other pages seem like much more underhanded attempts to trigger that need (once you know what to look for). The other thing is that I tend to use a lot of emojis, but that's also because I'm super expressive in person and feel too limited by text. Plus, text can be read so many ways, that I find emojis help the reader understand the tone it is said in. When I've tried to no use emojis (because I've also felt that point you made about them coming across as nervous/insecure, etc) I've noticed that people tend to read me as serious or upset (insert shrugging emoji here, haha). But I still get what you mean about the overuse of laughing emojis, LOLs or the wrong emojis entirely. I think that one is a bit trickier to figure out because the emoji has to make sense to what is being said and one has to visualize how the conversation would be in person if they were making those same faces. Thanks again for all your awesome info!
This was amazing! I’m saving this, I will be back. Thank you 🙏🏽
I have been wondering what has been going on…I have my answer!! I sent a text this morning that said: “Good morning, can you please answer these three questions:
1) where do I live
2) where do I work
3 what is my job position/title
Anyone who knows me, knows these very basic questions. But here is someone who says I love you but responds with:
“What, you woke up mad or something? The answers were so wrong!! I’m out!! I’m sticking with the old adage: “when someone shows you who they are, believe them”!! ✌🏿
😜🥳🥳🥳🥳😻😉
What a timely recommendation here on YT 😫😭😭😆
Thank you so much ma'am. I literally hate being treated like this!
I’m glad the video was helpful. Thank you for commenting. 🙏❤️
OMG! Insightful . Energy and headaches healed..
Whoa maybe I've been under a rock but your approach to helping people sounds very unique. I'm intrigued 😃
Great video and advices! Thank you so much!💝
This was seriously helpful thank you Brian a
I must say that you are fantastic lady...
I really needed to hear all that 😔
Excellent video. Great examples
Great points, excellent presentation, Thank you
This is amazing. More people need to know about this. And guys need to know that starting a text conversation with only "Hey" or "Hi" and then waiting forever is not the way to start out. On the other hand, some of the bad texting behaviors I have done simply because of anxiety (avoidant attachment). Wish I could have known about these things before, but I'm learning now.
Most of them are also the emotional intelligence or the lack of soft skills, some people doesn't even know how to make a conversation, I experience that as well and I blame social media
Absolutely interesting and intelligent as well as highly gifted person!!! If we could articulate like you, Brianna, no problems most likely!
I’m a follower for life!! Thank You.
Lucy Loo Thank you for commenting. I’m glad the content has been helpful!
You are genius!! I’m floored!! Ty.
Lucy Loo Glad you liked this video! Thank you for commenting.
Late-night booty calls and avoiding phone calls (different people). The person of the second one told me they were too tired to talk, as they had been studying all day lol. He also gave me false surname, never invited me to his place, wouldn't tell me where his work was, only in approximation, never introduced me to friends and avoided giving me personal info. He also asked minimal questions about me.
Great video. Really appreciate it. It took me a while to figure out that this video made all of the messaging sounds. That really stressed me out. .
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you found the video helpful, even though it took a bit of time to figure out the messaging sounds.
I didn't know what breadcrumbing was until now. I was actually friends with a work colleague until I finally realised how she was treating me.
After realising how I was being treated. I was absolutely infuriated! Especially when one thinks you're friends.
I actually thought she was a woman of integrity.
So long story short. I blocked her. I will not tolerate this type of behaviour! Especially when it comes from a woman with an extremely high I.Q.
Great video as well ✌️
To me breadcrumbing is like feeding a dog scraps. Or dangling a carrot in front of a donkey. No matter what way you look at it. It's morally reprehensible!
Guilty of a few myself, but have also been a victim of some. Neither of us are perfect and work to be done.
Some of these sound similar to Avoidants.. how one tell the difference? A video on the 2 comparisons would be helpful
Subscribed. 👍🏻
She is good . Really enjoyed this content ❤
Certainly helps clarify the behaviour of this chick who has managed to get inside my head recently:
(2) Lovebombing followed by a sudden, cold, brutal dumping then a series of (11) "Hey"
Luckily I simply matched her energy on the "hey" texts, eventually forcing her to throw me some bigger crumbs and thus make herself even more absurd.
I ignored these too and eventually she was forced to abandon the breadcrumbing and hit me up for some proper conversations like we used to have, although by that time I was feeling really disrespected and gave her a cold, hostile response.
Can't quite get her out of my head though.......working on it.
Hey, thanks for sharing your experience. It sounds like a rollercoaster of emotions. The behaviors you describe-love bombing followed by cold withdrawal and breadcrumbing-can be disorienting and emotionally exhausting. It's hard to know where you stand when someone is inconsistent like that, and it can definitely get in your head.
You've done a commendable job of matching her energy and protecting your boundaries, but it's clear that the situation has left an impact. Sometimes emotional experiences, especially those that involve inconsistent behaviors, can stick with us for longer than we'd like.
If you're looking for more insights into why people might engage in these confusing behaviors, you might find my video on 'Understanding Love Bombing' helpful: ua-cam.com/users/liveFsLvyTCC5JU
@@brianamacwilliam.attachment Thanks for the response, I appreciate it :)
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None of that will work if you're using modern date techniques, if you're using social media to date, things will remain the same because people using social media while chatting believe that they have a bunch of options and that leads to breadcrumbs or ghosting, there are a bunch of dudes that are outside the toxicity of social media, I hope you can heal your mind, recover your self esteem and find someone that will treat you accordingly.
Hope is the last thing we lose
Wow! I can’t believe how good my bull🤬 detector is! I’ve stopped talking to guys who did these things without realizing they were breadcrumming me. The sad thing is that my recent ex did a lot of these to me throughout our two-year relationship. He always needed to prove that I wanted him more than he wanted me 😢
Huge red flag that you wasted 20 years of your live with such a degen..
I'm glad I am learning 😌
same. things I need to know.
Hi yes, experienced most of it with one guy. Once when he decided to meet me...it was totally as per the script in his head. Right from what I will wear, what I will do, straight about going to bed together...and asking me to come wearing a night suit...when I protested that it is my first date with him... He was not budging easily and protested that but that's how he has always imagined me , meeting him in night suit for the first time. Most of the times..I felt it was all in his head.
I just want to say that some people have feet fetishes. Sending a foot picture might be the sexiest thing you could do for them, so be cautious.
middle finger would be more appropriate
Exactly! A close friends boyfriend actually tried to kiss me out of nowhere when he saw my feet and said they were so cute! I was stunned.
I do agree with you :) glad to have found this Video, its very valuable Adwise.
In my own view 90% of Time the best resonse is NONE. The rest of the time a simple: No, thank you. or: No, we are not compatible. is enough. Do not be persuaded to discuss this further. The other persons Life or happiness is NOT Your Responsibility, your OWN is though. neither Ye are or want to responsible for changing their Behaviour, again they are, just like every grown up, so they also are responsible for all consequences thereoff.
This is tricky. How to make a distinction between if they are breadcrumbing & disinterested or simply an avoidant who always so minimal interest?
Excellent question I hope it’s answered
Wait wait... @14:00 what about AOL chatroom geeks from the late 90s who were early adopters of emoticons before emojis was a term? We say lol after everything... lol
LOL 😅😂 literally though
😂 Oh, you go into sassy details. I am nostalgic for times when people communicated looking each other in the eyes. Hey, I write romantically and lengthy and do not copy from the porn site. 😂 Thank you for this one too.
Thank you for commenting and sharing your perspective, Mary N.
Don't
I’m actually 45 and really good at emojis
Although this seems addressed to women, I found it helpful in the situation I have recently found myself in.
Oh my God, I’m staying single. Sounds like a nightmare of mind games.
i almost went off on the emojis thing until you brought up age. it definitely is a factor in emoji use and those fluent in 'moj' use emoji to portray emotions as those can be lost in text
I appreciate your perspective on the emoji debate! It's true that emojis can help convey emotions that can be lost in plain text. It's nice to have those little pictorial expressions to add some extra meaning to our messages.
Your voice is beautiful.
No! Emojis can be really good! I always use emojis to either be a little artistic or share my feelings like these for example 😌🤗😲😅🎉👌 to convey a message,
and things like this 💗🌸💫✨for the aesthetic. And either way I feel like it’s a way to put my personality in the text, just like the way I text is a way to put my personality in the text!
☺
Damn, I m always ghosted like 9 times out of 10. People watched your video too much 😂😂😂
LMAO 😂
Good lord this video hit home….my ex breadcrumbed
Me for a year…until i called her out 3
Months ago and said no more stop contacting me. Its awful and toxic as fk!!!! Run walk away and move on !!! I feel for anyone thats been there …these are terrible traits!!!
Yes, I have. For over a year now.
My ex showed her naked photos at the beginning of the so-call relationship and later to know that she's a narcissist
"hi" the favorite text from my ex spouse, every once six months
Breadcrumbing in a relationship please!
“I want to spend so much time with you” he texted, on day after cutting our first date short to triangulate me with his mother. Idiot and was blocked after playing with me for 3 weeks. We had shared our first kiss before he left to tend to his mother, and he cut the kiss short with an arm cramp 😂 This man was really working hard to leave me wanting, because later in the day he texted “I wish I would have kissed you more” so I asked “Why didn’t you?”. He went quiet then I said “Dangle yourself like a carrot and I’ll eat you whole.” “I’d love to get eaten whole!” he replied so I said “Psychologically”. I ruthlessly thrashed the guy for daring insult my intelligence.
He’s so corny 🤣
💙🙏🏻💙
I would not ever except late calls no matter how I fancy a guy that I was going out with. 👍😇
bruh, her face on the thumbnail got me DEAD💀💀
We are both over 50 and have been communicating for 7 months, we're more like friends but we plan to meet in person.( there are a couple states between us.) I am retired, he is not. I think we are both "old school" and it's hard to wrap my head around all these new terms.
Hmm, I m over 50, I don’t know what a coupla of states means, I mean that separates Mexico 🇲🇽 from 🇨🇦 where I live, but ifs an scrawny east coast state, I woulda made the drive a long time ago for someone I was interested I in. Kinda sus, töts sketch, idk. Js.
7 months of talking ...What the f....k ....THATS JUST A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY
I doubt you guys have met airplanes buses & trains work talking seven months, & not meeting it’s nonsense
But why are people with other people who send these kind of texts? What a waste of life! Ignore and block it!
Thank you for commenting and for sharing your experience, @andersnielsen6044. Sending you well wishes on your journey.
I'm fluent in emojis 😎👍 lol
If a guy effortlessly go on calls with male strangers but not with females does that mean he's nervous talking to them or he doesn't take me seriously?
These people are crazy n void of emotion it’s weird how bored r you to text People you don’t even really like?
All this 💩🤬 just happened this to me recently ffs.🤬
#11 - could this also go for someone who only texts "good morning" , "good night"? Would you consider this also a ploy for maximum gain for the least amount of effort?
imho it depends on the context. If you are in touch, that sweet, but if you haven't seen them for over a week, you should watch out
Yes of course. It doesn't have to be the specific word "hey", just anything with that sort of energy.
Hey! I don’t know if this is only for me, but the dodododo sound in between the segments are louder than when you’re speaking (too loud!) 🧐
i feel pesonally attacked by some of these 😭
This is great except - how old do you think people in their 40s actually ARE?? 😂 (yes, I chose that emoji on purpose)
They may not know how to text??!! Like what 😂
you got me!!!! LMAO copied from a porn sight! I have a friend who is going through this. I went through it and her daughter went through it, but she won't listen, she thinks we are jealous...How can we help each other, when he's got his grip?
I had someone that has done this while I saw him sporadically.
Thank you for commenting and for sharing your experience, Joanne Domingo. Sending you well wishes on your journey.
My God ,All the games, this all stems from insecure people. A lot of F*cked up people out there siffing out the lunatics! People need to stop these games and work on themselves and insecurities.
Definitely was breadcrumbed by a female, and the dynamics and situations mentioned here assume the breadcrumber is a man.
You're right, breadcrumbing isn't confined to any one gender-it's a behavior that can be exhibited by anyone in the dating world. The underlying emotional mechanics are pretty much the same, regardless of whether it's a man or a woman doing the breadcrumbing. Recognizing these red flags is a positive step toward better understanding what you're looking for and how to navigate the often murky waters of dating.
Thank you for this..I was feeling guilty of cutting off this Dutch psychologist guy I met on a dating site..He wanted to text & text, no video or phone call. Ofcourse , he respectul no sexual messages. He just seemed too relaxed to move anything forward.
no vide call ,,,CATFISHING YOU CLEARLY
@@craigb1232 Very true !
did you stop with him? Are you also in NL? My ex bf is Dutch
Yes, I did. Nope am not in the Netherlands at the moment. But my family stay there. Be safe, be careful too.
What do you do, when they wont set a date at all... We only spend time together as a damily my spouse wont give me alone time. Hes avoidant im anxious we are living in two separate homes, but remain eachothers partners in veey way but intimately or set up a date without the kids.
Damily, veey how did your spell check not see this
Wouldn't breadcrumbing be a deliberate attempt to lure someone to the slaughter?
@matthewpopovich3917 I hear you but I think Briana was trying to point out in general how not to fall for manipulative texts. I do agree breadcrumbing is literally giving very little of something (crumbs) while making the other person do all the work, rack their brain or question themselves.
why we do that to each other??? i would never ever do that . and i know only women who likes to play with lonely mens self esteem and live by playing with his feelings.... i hate to be unloved and alone and i have no power anymore
Yes, anyone that starts a convo in DM, usually goes to the extreme in a few days, like, why havent you responded? Or i get why do yiu take so long to respond, and gi to jealousy,like are you ralking to other peoples. Where im like um of xourse u takk to ither oeople ive known about you the last two days. They go super fast to jelousy, to wanting baked pics.. after a few days of chatting in line ...😮
Your problem is your spelling. All of your sentences have spelling mistakes or weird punctuation errors. It comes across as funny or careless and may be off putting to your potential partner.
I've been texting and talking with this guy who told me that I have to chase him. He requested sexy lingerie photo and said that I have to seduce him because there will be other women that will try to seduce him and he is really great man and that I don't want to lose him. He added that if I don't keep seducing him when dating him, eventually another woman will, implying that he will just leave me for the greater seductress. Ugh.. I said I don't want to compete with other women constantly and I'm not really good at seduction anyway. Is he emotionally unavailable or just plain narcissistic?
Thank you for posing this question. You definitely don’t want to walk but run as fast as you can in the opposite direction from someone like this. It is definitely narcissistic and more than that it’s someone who sadistically likes to play manipulative mental and emotional mind games. It could be a kink that he has, but unless he has framed that from the onset, I do not recommend pursuing this. Good luck.
@@brianamacwilliam.attachment Thanks so much for your reply! It gave me.a lot of info about this situation. My mother is also narcissistic and knowing her I pick up on narcissistic behaviors quicker now. Also, I seem to attract narcissistic men all throughout my life. But now thanks to the channels such as yours on UA-cam I'm gaining a lot of info that prevents me falling into this abusive narcissistic trap! Your channel is awesome, new subscriber here 💖
Definitely a narcissist
Just. RUN. !!!
that would make me laugh. Seriously is this guy for real?
What does be a dog with a bone? Mean.
You mean: What does “be a dog with a bone” mean?
Your sentence implies that there was some unkindness in being a dog with a bone! This is probably a distraction to the person you’re messaging. I hope this helps 👍
I thought this was about bread crumbing? Its way more about about txt messages from people who aren't interested in a long term relationship or people with dysfunctional habits. I gotta disagree with her, or at least say her examples aren't always true. I for one am co-dependent and in love with the idea of being in love. But, I do long term relationships and i do not breadcrumb or ghost, I'm an anxious preoccupied attachment style?!?!?! 1st girl i kissed I dated all 4 years of high school, then dated a girl for a decade, then for 2 decades. I also write very flowery romantic messages better than what she cut and pasted, but i try to make them unique for whatever girl I'm pursuing. I admit to have a default template for my intro message, that I will customize per person but before that I found myself stating the same basic stats and facts as an intro. And some stories about my life I've pre-scripted because again I'll often repeat the same stories and typing on a phone sucks. I also have a very debelitating anxiety about using the phone, it has nothing at all to do with not being that into a girl and sometimes if I'm really into a girl, I get anxiety about meeting them and would rather keep it going online then meet and be rejected. Yeah, I'm well aware I'm dysfunctional, but again, I don't breadcrumb or ghost. While this might be useful tips, the title of this needs to be changed.
If I don’t this wise I’m doomed
Every.single.one.
These surly don’t apply if it’s with your boyfriend right ??
Of course! You can still be breadcrumbed while in a relationship with someone.
ok so human with low self esteem should be left alone and isolated ??
Yeah
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Could be full blown narcissist. Appear interested but use intermittent reinforcement. Put you on the back burner. Not a good thing. Let them go. If they grow up then later. You'll find out but if they continue at low level functioning. They think they are putting their best foot forward but if it's inappropriate. If it's over tge top praise it feels good but over tge top that no one has done to you. Press the brakes.
Oh scripted texts -let me throw up. Anyone who ghosts you deserves the same. Denial deflection a ND trying to get you to answer their questions- stop. The over use of 😊 is lazy and they are not using words- indicates lack of ability to speak to you.
I appreciate you taking the time to share your perspective. It's always interesting to hear about different experiences and observations. Remember, it's important to surround yourself with people who treat you with respect and kindness.
I really liked you because you’re doing art therapy. I liked this video until you mentioned Ester Perel. She’s a cheater and she doesn’t regret her bad behavior but makes excuses for cheating. Ester Perel is so immoral and manipulative. I refuse to support any channel that makes reference to her. There are far more respectable relationship experts to refer to.
You can not agree with things certain people say and do, but still accept they have invaluable knowledge
Inflexible thinking. Look into it.
Too overanalysing.
People dont respond or breadcrum just becaus they can.
Text dont mean anything.
Nore do people you Text with.
People break up several year relationships via Text.
No one cares about people on the web or phone!
This woman obviously hates men. It subconscious. She's been burnt too many times. In her case may be 3 or 4 times. Remember you falll off the bike. Get back on. Keep on trying to get the hang of it. In life they are no guarantees.
Way to project your issues onto her.
This man obviously hates women...
I believe she is married. She is a psychologist with a channel is about attachment types and relationship advice. I could see how you would think this person might have been burned many times based on this video alone. She knows too many ways to be burned. But if you know she's a therapist you can guess that she knows from her clients.
@@Didleeios88 It has to do with voice Reflection. I'm also an impact. And she also is a human being. A title does not make you entitled. Do not put people on a pedestal. Because they have a title. They are human beings
@@jillyjill1122 Actually I love women way too much. In general I love people. I am an empath. She is a human being not a God. And Is just like all of us We have a past. Even though there's good intentions. Are subconscious Takes over. Without even realizing it. Listen to her voice reflection
These people are truly insane