I need help at age 36. Ive discovered i was neglected as a child. I was the parent. My fear of abandonment is wrecking my ability to have true love. Im scared to get close to anyone because i get so anxious and sick feeling. Thank you for your videos and vulnerability
I would do some inner child work about recovering your authentic self. When we are afraid of Intimacy it is because we are afraid that our authentic self is flawed. It isn’t
As a teen who is ready to start doing the emotional wounding work, your videos and insights are helpful. But to be honest I feel a bit scattered and overwhelmed on where to start, I can’t afford your course but I want to start doing the inner child/emotional wound work. Do you have any suggestions on where to start or what sort of things I should follow or look into that might help guide me through the journey?
Grab my workbook on Amazon called spiritual fitness by candace van dell. Also think about taking a course called soul lab or self love master class. Both on my website and much much cheaper
How can you heal personally when the only important family member totally turn away from you. I had one older sister who bread crumbed me throughout my childhood and became important to me because she was the only one in a family of eight. When I lost my son she decided to fully try to love me. It ended up where she resented me and ghosted me. She tried to come around again like nothing happened but I am not willing to pretend she didn't hurt me. I haven't heard from her for 10 yrs! This concerns me because sometimes I feel like I get stuck in my personal healing. I have come too far to be stuck!
I thought it resonates great. I'm deep in trauma therapies at this point. Somatic therapy, polyvagal ladder, and nervous system self regulation along with meditation. I found a reparenting course I'm going to take and I also attended the Avaiya Recovering from Narcisscism workshop and watched all of your participation videos there. I'm curious about the approach of your book.
@@CandacevanDell Well, I'm just trying to make sure I'm covering everything lol. It seems there's a lot going into the lower chakras, more than I previously understood. I have more than one original wound and there was an astral situation as well, also a dorsal dissociation system shutdown. That's why my solar plexus had to be completely rewired first, which I mentioned to you in the comments a few months back since you inadvertently played a part in rewiring it, along with my soulmate. I've deleted the comment since then, because basically it's embarrasing. But I'm interested in your book because obviously on that basis alone, your approach to these topics is of great interest and value to me. I'm very determined to heal and always looking for information about the alignment process.
I still react to someone who actually abused me. I do good and move forward when i stay away. Should i stay away or should i be able to deal with this person?
I need help at age 36. Ive discovered i was neglected as a child. I was the parent. My fear of abandonment is wrecking my ability to have true love. Im scared to get close to anyone because i get so anxious and sick feeling. Thank you for your videos and vulnerability
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I would do some inner child work about recovering your authentic self. When we are afraid of Intimacy it is because we are afraid that our authentic self is flawed. It isn’t
As a teen who is ready to start doing the emotional wounding work, your videos and insights are helpful. But to be honest I feel a bit scattered and overwhelmed on where to start, I can’t afford your course but I want to start doing the inner child/emotional wound work. Do you have any suggestions on where to start or what sort of things I should follow or look into that might help guide me through the journey?
Grab my workbook on Amazon called spiritual fitness by candace van dell. Also think about taking a course called soul lab or self love master class. Both on my website and much much cheaper
@@CandacevanDellokay, thank you for the feedback💟
How can you heal personally when the only important family member totally turn away from you. I had one older sister who bread crumbed me throughout my childhood and became important to me because she was the only one in a family of eight. When I lost my son she decided to fully try to love me. It ended up where she resented me and ghosted me. She tried to come around again like nothing happened but I am not willing to pretend she didn't hurt me. I haven't heard from her for 10 yrs!
This concerns me because sometimes I feel like I get stuck in my personal healing. I have come too far to be stuck!
I think your boundaries are solid and healthy! It is now up to her to communicate
Resonnate. Feeling inconfortable to recognize it. But it's the process. Thank you for this helping.
My pleasure 😇
Candace, I am so incredibly happy to have found you. Your words are healing and validating. Thank-you.
Thank you! I’m so glad you are here
Thank you so much as always. The light bulb moments have really lit the way for me 🌟✨
Candace I thank you for you I concur with your statements.Candace you transmogrified me to heal myself.Jerome❤❤❤
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Transmogrifying! Calvin and Hobbes! Love Calvin and Hobbes hehe!
I thought it resonates great. I'm deep in trauma therapies at this point. Somatic therapy, polyvagal ladder, and nervous system self regulation along with meditation. I found a reparenting course I'm going to take and I also attended the Avaiya Recovering from Narcisscism workshop and watched all of your participation videos there. I'm curious about the approach of your book.
Awesome!! What part are you curious about?
@@CandacevanDell Well, I'm just trying to make sure I'm covering everything lol. It seems there's a lot going into the lower chakras, more than I previously understood. I have more than one original wound and there was an astral situation as well, also a dorsal dissociation system shutdown. That's why my solar plexus had to be completely rewired first, which I mentioned to you in the comments a few months back since you inadvertently played a part in rewiring it, along with my soulmate. I've deleted the comment since then, because basically it's embarrasing. But I'm interested in your book because obviously on that basis alone, your approach to these topics is of great interest and value to me. I'm very determined to heal and always looking for information about the alignment process.
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I still react to someone who actually abused me. I do good and move forward when i stay away. Should i stay away or should i be able to deal with this person?
Any difference between men and women here? Doesn’t feel like it tbh
Hi Candace! I’m interested in 1:1 coaching with you. Where can I get the information please?❤
www.candacevandell.com/work-with-me/
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