Covert Narcissist & Their Secret Weapon

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    If you've experienced narcissistic abuse, you may feel like you're dealing with lasting damage to your mental health. Narcissistic abuse can leave you feeling powerless, confused, and deeply hurt. But there is hope for healing and recovery. In this video, we'll explore the brain damage caused by narcissistic abuse and show you how to reverse its effects.
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  • @texannadeb5005
    @texannadeb5005 4 роки тому +6

    My covert narcissist told me he loved me in 6 weeks, then begged me to tell him I loved him too. I refused and explained I didn’t throw that word around. He brought it up constantly tell me you love me, tell me you love me for weeks afterward. Eventually, I did say it just to put an end to the begging. As awful as it has been to recover from the discard and as much as I have longed for him, now that the fog is lifting, I can’t really say I ever really loved him. It was more of an addiction.

  • @passionatagreen
    @passionatagreen 4 роки тому +7

    It was shocking to be discarded, finding out he was scheming his disappearance for several years, never intending to be loyal to his marriage. Cruelest person I have ever met. 🚩

  • @rianreese4138
    @rianreese4138 5 років тому +12

    I was married to a covert narcissist for 12 1/2 years, and then reconnected with an old boyfriend after that, and come to find he out is an overt narcissist. But I didn't know till after I left the second one. I have been no contact now for 4 years with the 1st one and over a year with the second one. Each situation was a nightmare.

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 роки тому

      Rian Reese,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🥀,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!

  • @w8what575
    @w8what575 5 років тому +8

    They will always be trying to destroy your life after you are free from a sentence with a covert narc! Still after 10 years my ex husband still sabotages relationships I’m in with his manipulation, slanders me all over, calls me in for such outrageous lies I’m surprised they are believed. One thing to remember, you attract this type of personality! Do not settle for the abuse even in the slightest!

  • @ladyoftheveil8342
    @ladyoftheveil8342 2 роки тому +2

    Every man that’s shown a strong interest in me have been narcissist. The good news is I recognized it quickly in a couple days and dump them as friends

  • @RikkieMulder
    @RikkieMulder 5 років тому +4

    being involved with one is brutal. 6 months after a 6 month relationship and I still slip. The speed at which they just carry on with life is scary!

  • @kevinbrislawn5918
    @kevinbrislawn5918 5 років тому +12

    converts will persue and stalk his lost supply..don't forget that

  • @nancygreydee2608
    @nancygreydee2608 5 років тому +5

    My narcissistic alcoholic ex husband is continuing to be the monster he is trying to coparent with him is impossible. He manipulates every situation to cause a fight. He doesn’t think in his delusional grandiose mind that rules and laws don’t apply to him so he doesn’t abide by parenting plan thus setting me off on purpose . It only costs him more money for lawyers to constantly remind the 5 year old he is to behave or he gets a time out

  • @runwiththewind3281
    @runwiththewind3281 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for helping me understand

  • @joyphillips200
    @joyphillips200 5 років тому +3

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 роки тому

      Joy Phillips,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!

  • @stephanieshawn4002
    @stephanieshawn4002 3 роки тому +1

    I love your videos and you are helping me

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 роки тому +1

      Stephanie,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌷,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!

  • @jodumire9584
    @jodumire9584 5 років тому +12

    the covert im getting over soon hopefully is a ' pillar of society ' he portrays an altruistic.. life coaches etc.......scary!

    • @CarolineStrawsonHealing
      @CarolineStrawsonHealing  5 років тому +1

      Jo Dumire sadly this can often be the case

    • @cristinamagurean
      @cristinamagurean 5 років тому +4

      Jo Dumire They say that if you uncover a covert narc you should "run for your life" ....they might be dangerous in their rage. Be careful and best of luck!

    • @jodumire9584
      @jodumire9584 5 років тому

      Cristina Magurean i Will Ty ✌️

    • @MariatSmithers
      @MariatSmithers 4 роки тому +2

      Cristina Magurean I did just that and he upped his game to next level , he is relentless now but I have an escape plan soon , he knows something is going on so now the cycles of abuse are so much quicker. One minute love bombing the next sulking or crocodile tears Or raging stepped up the gas lighting too and started stealing my family photos and shoes and cut up my money lied about it all he wants me to think I’m going crazy I have such intense brain fog I’m starting to believe it

  • @soulnr5966
    @soulnr5966 4 роки тому +5

    best to tell them directly! they will deny everything clearly but "you are free" and anyway they will be very careful next time! the smartest thing is to explain to them that there are several thousand videos on UA-cam that describe them exactly in detail! so the damn time went by, when the victims suffered in silence !! 👀
    Dear covered narcissists, welcome to 2020 !! the new era of communication in which lies have no value anymore! 👁️

  • @mandil905
    @mandil905 4 роки тому +1

    They can also be both I have learned this type is the most dangerous. E. Husband of 23yrs was diagnosed NPD bot overt and covert. Our therapist told me I g im living with him get out run. Also told me he's deadly as far as I go.

  • @oxfordcreekfarm
    @oxfordcreekfarm 3 роки тому

    I’d like to be added to the group. Thank you

  • @marcydrake9159
    @marcydrake9159 2 роки тому

    I would like to join your free and private group,

  • @sunlite2714
    @sunlite2714 3 роки тому

    I know this video is 2 years old, but if u still have a private group, I would love to join. I’m separated from my narcissistic husband & going through a lot of pain. We were married for 20 years.

  • @amylocke1364
    @amylocke1364 3 роки тому

    Would love to join your FB group

  • @MaryCrockett05
    @MaryCrockett05 4 роки тому

    I would love to be apart of the private group

  • @kevinbrislawn5918
    @kevinbrislawn5918 5 років тому +3

    the covert I know has extreme confidence..

  • @MariatSmithers
    @MariatSmithers 4 роки тому

    The smear campaign he did to his family and mine , I caught him in the act with my brother his face was priceless , he was love bombing me at the time and didn’t realise I was listening , made up so many lies about me and my kids to them, I can’t wait to break free from him but I heard it makes them even worse 😌

  • @jenniferdunn4667
    @jenniferdunn4667 Рік тому

    Could I be added to your group please???

  • @ladyoftheveil8342
    @ladyoftheveil8342 2 роки тому

    Is your group on Facebook? I’m not on Facebook. My ex narcissist loves Facebook

  • @ladyoftheveil8342
    @ladyoftheveil8342 2 роки тому

    My ex narcissist boyfriend had his female flying monkeys calling me the narcissist and she called me bi-polar and no she’s not a doctor. She needs in house treatment

  • @mandadean4428
    @mandadean4428 3 роки тому

    Can u add me to the private group?

  • @Alinoah038
    @Alinoah038 3 роки тому

    Am a single father who is fleeing from domestic abuse

  • @itsallaboutnothing2672
    @itsallaboutnothing2672 3 роки тому

    I dream to be discarded My narc family duck all life out of me took everything from me even health but this still not enough for them they demand more and more they keep stalking and harrasing me.

  • @ggdrglas-geveldakreiniging9440
    @ggdrglas-geveldakreiniging9440 4 роки тому

    Hi from Holland the Netherlands.
    Plz privé.

  • @catherineahearne2066
    @catherineahearne2066 2 роки тому

    Can you add me to your group thanks x

  • @runwiththewind3281
    @runwiththewind3281 5 років тому

    DK

  • @reineteksteen98
    @reineteksteen98 4 роки тому

    Please add me to your face book group. Thanks

    • @CarolineStrawsonHealing
      @CarolineStrawsonHealing  4 роки тому

      Reinet Eksteen So a number of ways I can help are firstly I have a free support to connect with others
      facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse/?ref=share
      Secondly I run an insanely affordable membership called The Self Healers Circle where I do weekly live coaching and monthly Self Healing Lessons with an RTT or meditation recording and this months is a narcissistic Abuse Healing Vortex meditation.
      www.carolinestrawson.com/the-self-healers-circle/
      And finally I work with people one to one so if you’d like to explore that as I specialise in PTSD After Narcissistic Abuse then just let me have your email and I’ll send over a list of my healing packages and prices. This doesn’t need to definite you as you can heal after narcissistic abuse ❤️

  • @ladyoftheveil8342
    @ladyoftheveil8342 2 роки тому

    I had to find someone else to date because you were unstable.

  • @stefanieolivares3290
    @stefanieolivares3290 2 місяці тому

    Can you add me to your group? #replay