I Was Given The Family Business and I Don't Want It!

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 478

  • @onebridge7231
    @onebridge7231 Рік тому +531

    Anytime someone gets defensive about not opening the books to an owner means the other partner is stealing from the company. He most likely is pulling out equity from them. They are not all paid for. She needs to hire an audit firm to investigate the books or at least a CPA to review the books and lawyer up.

    • @cb9d90
      @cb9d90 Рік тому +15

      yes!!! i agree.

    • @Iamcherese
      @Iamcherese Рік тому +8

      Exactly

    • @TheWebcrafter
      @TheWebcrafter Рік тому +16

      Wow. Good call. I'm not a 'real estate' professional but I am a student of human nature. I believe, like you, that the poor woman's brother has 'dipped' into the value of the business and he's either ashamed or afraid to share that info because he's probably 'forged' her signature somewhere along the way.
      She's probably hearing her husband go on about her needing to "sort this s**t out with your brother" but he's not willing to get involved. So she's stuck between a rock (her brother) and a soft place (her husband).
      Look, she's called into the show because she's at a loss regarding what action to take. It's taken a decade and this is the furthest she's taken things.
      'Option Two', getting her brother to buy her out is no-brainer. I suggest she date and write the following... "Brother mine, I love you. You say I don't trust you when I ask for information due to me. Well actions speak louder than words and your actions are shouting from the rooftops that you don't love me, that's blatantly obvious. This deeply saddens me. So I've made a decision I should have made some time ago and my actions over the next seven days will be dependent on your Yes or No answer to my following question... 'When we inevitably enter the courthouse to compel you to buy me out, ALL financial details of the business will be revealed (by law), so my question to you is this. 'Would court-driven investigations into the business reveal you've done something that could put you in jail - Yes or No?' - If no, then come and talk with me, I forgive you in advance for any mistakes you've made regarding the business. If your answer is yes, then get a lawyer and face the music, as I can no longer bear the unreasonable stress you've inflicted upon me, my husband and the kids."
      She's welcome to create a variation of this note,or leave it as is, just send something to change the status quo because her brother won't.
      Good luck, lady.

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому +9

      Truth. I worked in a camp office a few summers. I worked hard to get their charity Navigator score up. CFO said they were working on certifications but never finished. Turns out he was using camp money to fund his house.

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 Рік тому +1

      He is gutting it so she doesn't get anything if it is dissolved as it has no assets and he keeps the money. Scumbag and I agree an audit can prove damages she can sue for

  • @justincrasi4638
    @justincrasi4638 Рік тому +468

    this girl needs to get an attorney. not getting dividends on 500k is literally absurd

    • @mambofuego5101
      @mambofuego5101 Рік тому +25

      I bet there is more money involved. They have bank accounts and other assets to make this business work…

    • @mike7933
      @mike7933 Рік тому +11

      Dividends are not required by law, but shareholders should get some sort of payout at the end of the year if the company is in the green. Unless the owner decides to put retained earning back into the company, which is doubtful for ten plus years in business.

    • @toya1374
      @toya1374 Рік тому +10

      Exactly for 10 years that plus interest

    • @wbawba4275
      @wbawba4275 Рік тому +13

      Problem is her brother is pocketing all the money that's what it sounds like to me. Because if this real estate was bought from their Grandma it was probably bought 10 20 years ago so the values of increased along with rents at very minimum she should be receiving a check every month for at least $500

    • @michaelwoods4495
      @michaelwoods4495 Рік тому +15

      @@mike7933 Dividends are not required, but reports are. As a CPA, I'd be all over this like stink on sh*t!

  • @hollyb6885
    @hollyb6885 Рік тому +334

    So they’ve all had this business together for 10 years and there’s been NO profit that can be distributed among the owners? Something is not right.

    • @279Blackcat
      @279Blackcat Рік тому +28

      That’s the one thing I don’t get. There’s 7 of them and no one else has approached the brother?

    • @D0yLexxxx
      @D0yLexxxx Рік тому +3

      Outrageous and wrong esp since the homes are paid off!!

    • @greensleeves8095
      @greensleeves8095 Рік тому +10

      This may not be the full story. I guess we can only take her for her word.

    • @user-ot7jd9dt7t
      @user-ot7jd9dt7t 2 місяці тому +1

      All the other cousins 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐

  • @offgridjack5779
    @offgridjack5779 Рік тому +217

    He's been siphoning off these properties all the while and probably using the money to "fund" his other business. He will freak when he hears from any lawyers. Get started yesterday.

  • @wickedbird1538
    @wickedbird1538 Рік тому +93

    😮😮I worked for a 3 generation family business. There was an annual third party auditor that sent records to all members.

  • @TheDjcarter1966
    @TheDjcarter1966 Рік тому +71

    There is about ZERO chance the brothers isn't skimming money off this business.

  • @ryansuarez9483
    @ryansuarez9483 Рік тому +128

    Yes, Lawyer it up. Hold him accountable. Dividends need to have been paid out the whole time. He made cash flow, tax benefits, appreciation etc... FOR SURE HIRE A LAWYER!!! Show the Rental rates above mortgage payments and maintenance. He is keeping all the money

    • @makeitpay8241
      @makeitpay8241 Рік тому

      she is a door mat so she will continue to do nothing

  • @mustangthings
    @mustangthings Рік тому +151

    “I’ve tried nothing, and I’m all out of ideas!”

  • @laneyluneva
    @laneyluneva Рік тому +55

    I think Dave is missing a huge thing, that while she doesn't have money tied into the business, she does have risk. If her name is part of this business and brother is doing something atrocious, there could be liability or at least reputation affecting issues at foot. I don't think her burying her head in the sand and staying blind but part of it is an option AT ALL.

  • @MrNatrocks
    @MrNatrocks Рік тому +114

    I can tell from her tone she's not gonna do any of the suggestions... she's too week and unconfident. Her husband hasn't done his job here to protect her from this bully... he needs to take charge and fight for her

    • @makeitpay8241
      @makeitpay8241 Рік тому +14

      spot on, neither one of them have a spine

    • @garret8787
      @garret8787 Рік тому +15

      It’s not the husband’s role to destroy the relationship between his wife and her brother…. Over some found money

    • @makeitpay8241
      @makeitpay8241 Рік тому +12

      @@garret8787 it's not found money it's money from the wife's part of the family business. the brother needs to be in jail for theft & as far as the relationship goes the brother has already done an excellent job at destroying it.

    • @1strights
      @1strights Рік тому +1

      But she’s been persistent in asking. She will step up.

    • @1strights
      @1strights Рік тому +5

      @@makeitpay8241 No it’s not found money. It’s her inheritance.
      If David gave his grandchild half a million dollars and someone kept them from it would he be so okay about it?
      If he gave his son keys to eight cars with the intent he distribute the keys to other family members would he be okay with his daughter not getting her key?
      If he gave Rachel the keys to the family’s supply room with the intent she distribute the stock to herself, his son, and his nephews and nieces would he be fine with her withholding from those he intended to provide some security for?
      I don’t understand his attitude. The woman has a right and perhaps an obligation to protect what was meant to benefit and provide financial security for herself and her own family.

  • @geraldwalker7609
    @geraldwalker7609 Рік тому +117

    Business Guidelines:
    Don't go into business with family.
    Don't go into business with friends.
    Don't go into business with fellow church members.
    Don't go into business with other believers.
    Don't go into business with unbelievers.
    If you go into business, strike out on your own:)

    • @ke6264
      @ke6264 Рік тому +4

      Amen to that 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @earlgarcia2736
      @earlgarcia2736 Рік тому +4

      As a 40 year CPA, I say you are right on the money.

    • @MChagall
      @MChagall 7 місяців тому +2

      Why is religion important, it has no part in business.

    • @MsMak03
      @MsMak03 6 місяців тому +2

      It’s an indicator of values. Which matters. In business

    • @MChagall
      @MChagall 6 місяців тому +7

      @@MsMak03 no it is not. Your fellow Christian could be the biggest sinner there is and your neighbour Atheist/Muslim/Jew/Hindu/.. could be the most trustworthy person around.

  • @aimeec-b6253
    @aimeec-b6253 Рік тому +29

    She needs to get out ASAP because if he’s doing something shady (which he DEFINITELY is!) she could find herself in trouble as well and a judge may not have compassion for her situation or simply not believe she is ignorant of what has been going on. People who dodge and hide are covering up something…

  • @angelaonthego
    @angelaonthego Рік тому +82

    If she loses her brother over this-he’s not worth keeping. That’s like saying-in order to maintain a relationship with this person, I have to let them steal from me.

    • @charlesg7926
      @charlesg7926 Рік тому

      If she doesn’t WANT the business, then she SHOULD give it to someone who WILL continue the family business! And I say this as a guy who STARTED a family biz.

    • @charlesg7926
      @charlesg7926 Рік тому

      Also, you’re acting like she deserves 50% of the profits, but she’s not actually putting any effort into running it. If it was a passive income type of business, like owning a McDonald’s, that would be one thing. But a real estate business requires somebody to do all of the work themselves. So if they’re not doing any of the work, then they don’t really deserve to make much money from the business.

    • @lindakincaid4530
      @lindakincaid4530 Рік тому +8

      @@charlesg7926 , It's an inheritance, she deserves her fair share even if she go's back to what it was worth 10 years ago and collects 1/7 of that.

    • @strangeroamer3219
      @strangeroamer3219 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@charlesg7926I agree. But if she isn't going to be contributing to the business then the brother still has to buy her out of it and give her share to her. She does after all have an inheritance in it because of the grandmother.

  • @jcarless
    @jcarless Рік тому +193

    "I'm a teacher, so I don't know anything about business" lol checks out.

    • @incognito1427
      @incognito1427 Рік тому +18

      🤣 our education system is in free fall

    • @nickvasquez8054
      @nickvasquez8054 Рік тому +12

      I lost it in laughter at that moment.

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 Рік тому +3

      Sounds about right.

    • @sweetfayce18
      @sweetfayce18 Рік тому +15

      As a teacher, I cringed when she said that.

    • @hrajotte
      @hrajotte Рік тому +9

      @@sweetfayce18 Most of us realize that her level of naivety does not extend to all teachers.

  • @Brigitte-cw1gg
    @Brigitte-cw1gg Місяць тому +4

    I wa sin her predicament 8 years ago. My husband took charge with an attorney (2 Dave Ramsey's - Ouch!) I won. My brother is starting to speak to me 7 years later. It's a risk I took and I am very happy about it. It was eroding my mental health slowly on a daily basis. Once it was resolved I started to live.

  • @diceportz7107
    @diceportz7107 Рік тому +69

    You don't do these confrontations on family trips or at Christmas. You go to his office during business hours WITH your attorney and get the books.

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому +2

      And after you ask politely a few times, you have your lawyer express and uphold her legal rights.

  • @ga6257
    @ga6257 5 місяців тому +14

    He's been keeping the money. It's that simple. No way these haven't made cash.

  • @dialac1
    @dialac1 Рік тому +43

    I won’t be surprised if he’s already sold some of the houses and blown the money

  • @lauvasquez7198
    @lauvasquez7198 Рік тому +50

    Family business always sounded like a dream. Until I grew up and realized that having other players (like this caller and brother) is a possible outcome and it sounds HORRIBLE!

  • @cherylpeterson1
    @cherylpeterson1 17 днів тому +1

    I had to force the sale of property. Hired a good lawyer & dealt with the emotional side. Great friends listened all the way through. Lesson learned by all of us!!
    Judge ruled in my favor & I had total control to sell. Proceeds were split between us & they had to reimburse me for years of property taxes when I paid them in full by myself.
    Don’t let that brother get by with this!!
    But where are all the other cousins in this?????
    Do they know where the money is?

  • @victoriaplourde420
    @victoriaplourde420 7 місяців тому +28

    I would love an update from this call. I hope she made progress!

  • @jimdango123456
    @jimdango123456 Рік тому +48

    My guess is the brother has been using these properties as his personal piggy bank for 10 years. I bet he's been pulling out equity, and all of them are leveraged to the max.

  • @oa5828
    @oa5828 Рік тому +47

    I say go for the second option and make a UA-cam video about it for us all to hear! Her brother is committing fraud and financial embezzlement against the other stakeholders and needs to be put in his place. He is no longer family with how he has been treating her. He needs a court order against him personally for the amount that was owed to her over all this time.

  • @amandawalker1196
    @amandawalker1196 Рік тому +35

    Stories like this make me even more thankful I have wonderful brothers and an amazing sister-in-law all of whom would never let money come between us. We’d rather have nothing physically as long as we have each other.

  • @davidsims5791
    @davidsims5791 Рік тому +57

    She will do absolutely nothing. She couldn't even answer any simple questions - or as I say, "fundamental life" questions. This was like talking to a brick.

  • @davidsensing2664
    @davidsensing2664 Рік тому +32

    I really hope I can sometime run into Dave in public and say, “Aren’t you the dad of Rachel Cruze? She gives out financial advice on the radio.”

    • @user-mf4gz3sp1q
      @user-mf4gz3sp1q Місяць тому +1

      ...and make him extremely proud of his legacy...?...

  • @Chopsuey087
    @Chopsuey087 Рік тому +17

    The brother is definitely stealing money from the business if he doesn't want to share the expense statements.

  • @annarichter9037
    @annarichter9037 Рік тому +14

    In the brother’s mind he owns it all, and he has no intention of sharing the financials. She may as well go on and hire a lawyer because they will inevitably get there.

  • @jonotek
    @jonotek Рік тому +24

    Till to this day, I do not understand the point of "Equally" given shares, it will only cause chaos. I was in a similar situation, As the eldest, I was suppose to take over the family office with equal shares to my siblings, while I have to take all the burden of working fulltime, but my father lied multiple times and I had enough with his style of management and his people. I chose to set up my own group and take my own path. Lost of on millions on inheritance due to this but I came out stronger and more in control of my future rather than having to deal with people I do not trust.... the only thing I regretted was I did not tell my dad why I did not want to be a part of his group in his face before he died.

  • @geraldwalker7609
    @geraldwalker7609 Рік тому +21

    It sounds honorable to walk away and tell the brother it's his, but then he is rewarded for his deviousness.

    • @andytaylor1588
      @andytaylor1588 Рік тому +4

      Fraudulent Deceitfulness

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому +3

      Exactly and it completely disrespects her grandmother’s intentions, it was her plan for her money.

    • @mariemaladorno8788
      @mariemaladorno8788 5 місяців тому +4

      She's not honoring or respecting herself if she lets her brother get away with it.

  • @patti9339
    @patti9339 Рік тому +79

    I would not walk away from $500k.

    • @DARTHDANSAN
      @DARTHDANSAN Рік тому +7

      You sell it and put it all in dividend stock s

    • @maureenogorman8740
      @maureenogorman8740 6 місяців тому +4

      I doubt there is 500k. She walked away from 50k 10 years ago. The brother has probably been using this as a big piggy bank.

  • @shumatsuopost
    @shumatsuopost Рік тому +33

    This is truly an unfortunate family conflict. Hope they can resolve it asap!

  • @elainepatterson5587
    @elainepatterson5587 Рік тому +15

    Get a lawyer and demand an audit.

  • @mambofuego5101
    @mambofuego5101 Рік тому +13

    Get an attorney, bring a claim against the brother..(He’s done with you anyway). Make him an offer during the initial conference, demand discovery of EVERYTHING, get a professionals auditor, and take what is yours. If you don’t want it, give it to charity.
    I really dislike bullies…

  • @matts4294
    @matts4294 Рік тому +7

    Bullies need to be put in their place. You let them get away with whatever they have you cornered with, they surely find more people to traumatize.

  • @caseycantrell-gh6fg
    @caseycantrell-gh6fg 19 днів тому +99

    Amazing video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family.

    • @lennoxmutterick6434
      @lennoxmutterick6434 19 днів тому

      Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

    • @caseycantrell-gh6fg
      @caseycantrell-gh6fg 19 днів тому

      @@lennoxmutterick6434 However, if you do not have access to a professional like Clementina Abate Russo, quitting your job to focus on trading may not be the best approach. It is important to consider all options and seek guidance from reliable sources before making any major decisions. Consulting with an AI or using automated trading systems can also be helpful in managing investments while balancing other commitments.

    • @lennoxmutterick6434
      @lennoxmutterick6434 19 днів тому

      @@caseycantrell-gh6fg Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!

    • @caseycantrell-gh6fg
      @caseycantrell-gh6fg 19 днів тому

      @@lennoxmutterick6434 Clementina Abate Russo is her name

    • @caseycantrell-gh6fg
      @caseycantrell-gh6fg 19 днів тому

      Lookup with her name on the webpage.

  • @kathyaakananabluebird
    @kathyaakananabluebird Рік тому +36

    Not to mention how rude the brother is to his own grandmother by sweeping her requests and concerns under the rug as well.

    • @claytonbouldin9381
      @claytonbouldin9381 Рік тому

      He probably has a gambling, or a drug problem. She needs to get a lawyer and get her money from this business including past dividends with accrued interest and everything else that goes with it.

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 Рік тому +28

    She was in real estate management, but knows nothing about real estate?
    Her grandmother wanted to gift her. But did she? And what was the terms of that? A decade and she nerve received one cent?
    Sounds like she is not telling the whole story.

  • @joshfazenbaker5691
    @joshfazenbaker5691 Рік тому +11

    She sounds like she doesn't know, is unwilling to learn, and wants to know what she's entitled to... she's probably gone about it the wrong way by asking through her former employer or whomever and seemed greedy causing the misunderstanding... she should be entitled to her percentage no matter what that is, but she also owes them to go about it properly and understand what she is actually entitled to. They can try to explain it to her, but they can't understand it FOR her. She claims to be a teacher but seems unwilling or unable to educate herself.

  • @Kevin-wj4ed
    @Kevin-wj4ed Рік тому +12

    She may have 10 years of tax obligations.

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому

      She received no income.

    • @Kseb1212
      @Kseb1212 2 місяці тому

      @@kirpdeb that she knows of it could be being reinvested into an account that she knows nothing about that. Somebody else has access to.

  • @BachBeethovenBerg
    @BachBeethovenBerg Рік тому +9

    Brother is probably hiding something from her and taking her share for himself. That's what it sounds like.

  • @Searat7
    @Searat7 Рік тому +16

    There should be some 1099’s or K-1s coming to the caller each year…very suspicious

    • @hckycpa20
      @hckycpa20 Рік тому +1

      I was just going to say the same. Unless it's a C corp, which I doubt, she certainly must have been receiving a K1 each year for her share of the annual activity. Find out who prepares the return and get a copy of the return. She's an owner, she can get copies if she wants.

  • @LisaApril
    @LisaApril Рік тому +18

    Geez lady, get a lawyer and Demand or sue your brother for transparent access to the financials and get your share. You may need a forensic accountant to really see where the money is. This is what lawyers are for. I bet the brother has been lining his pockets with the cousins and his sister’s share of the money. He may even have transferred some of the money to his wife in order for it to be untouchable. This is a tactic some people use but it definitely is within reach of the law. Being a doormat gets you walked on. This lady should go see a therapist and learn how to take what is her own. This Story disgusts me, but the cause of the problem rest squarely on the squirmy shoulders of the doormat.

    • @debrav.227
      @debrav.227 Рік тому

      It will take at least two years but forensic accountants can cost as much as 40k… That’s not including the cost of your lawyer

    • @jonhay75
      @jonhay75 Рік тому

      families are horrible....generally

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому

      The cause of the problem rests squarely on the shoulders of the brother. He seems to be a bully with ethical lapses.

  • @critterdude311
    @critterdude311 Рік тому +18

    Another example of why not to mix finances with family members. It’s just not worth the potential headaches and possible destruction of the relationships.

    • @someonethirsty1957
      @someonethirsty1957 Рік тому +5

      Probably an example of why to not _give_ people things rather than have them work for it.

    • @critterdude311
      @critterdude311 Рік тому

      @@someonethirsty1957 I agree, that too.

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому

      Perhaps it just illuminates character traits and fractures within the family that were already present. Ideally, you should be able to trust your family MORE that outside partnerships. How sad is that?

    • @modiste
      @modiste Рік тому +1

      Years ago, my father and his two brothers inherited the family business. My father immediately asked to be bought out and walked away. A few years later, both this brothers were so in debt one of them had a breakdown and the other lost his home. It was a valuable lesson to me and my siblings.

    • @someonethirsty1957
      @someonethirsty1957 Рік тому

      @@modiste
      He’s a genius.

  • @kimmyj9617
    @kimmyj9617 6 місяців тому +3

    The problem with letting him continue to just "run" the business and NOT tell you anything....if he runs up a bunch of debt or breaks laws and her name is on the business as a part owner...then will she also be legally liable? Anything that he has to pay immediately...will he then want to divide that by all the cousins/siblings? Would she want to be responsible for those bad choices because her name is on it? eeks!

  • @Saiyijon
    @Saiyijon Рік тому +16

    She's owned this business for years and hasn't received anything. Either the business is terrible, or the brother is stealing it.

    • @charlesg7926
      @charlesg7926 Рік тому +2

      Why should she “see any money” if she’s not even putting any effort, time, WORK or knowledge into the business? That makes no sense.

    • @nansi113
      @nansi113 27 днів тому +1

      @@charlesg7926she should at least have tax documents whether she made money or not.

  • @ILikeFreedomYo
    @ILikeFreedomYo Рік тому +32

    Imagine a Brother that owes you 10 years of backed compensation and taken food out of your mouth. I'm surprised that Dave doesn't mention that.
    Brother is a horrible entitled brat.
    Scorched earth is the only possible way for your brother to start on a path to accountability and humility.

    • @Andrew-3445
      @Andrew-3445 Рік тому +2

      You're right. The whole "you might lose your brother" thing is crazy because if he's been cutting her out of the money for 10 years then the brother was already lost to begin with. I'd lawyer up and get the cut. The guy clearly has no morals and doesn't care about his own family. He will only give it up if he is forced to.

  • @nicholaslamantia9597
    @nicholaslamantia9597 Рік тому +5

    I really can’t think of any reason why he wouldn’t be sharing the financials other than he’s doing something shady. I’m sorry

  • @kimberly8185
    @kimberly8185 Рік тому +10

    What are the rest of the family members saying? Are they as passive as she is? Are they in the know and involved in the buisness?

  • @texdevildog9174
    @texdevildog9174 Рік тому +3

    She was gifted real estate business with seven cousins, but brother runs it. Fire him, he doesn't own it.

  • @mikemeros1124
    @mikemeros1124 Рік тому +39

    Bonehead move on Grandma's part. Best of intentions I'm sure. Just sell the business and put it in a trust fund for them or a similar concept.

  • @3rddegreeburns494
    @3rddegreeburns494 Рік тому +33

    He is getting something from it and keeping the others in the dark. I bet he's skimming money from the properties (somehow) and there's enough for him but not everyone. A lawsuit should get his attention.

    • @webfreakz
      @webfreakz Рік тому +3

      He's probably taking an income for himself out of it and the rest of the partners doesn't know anything

    • @3rddegreeburns494
      @3rddegreeburns494 Рік тому +3

      @@webfreakz, that's what I think too. I bet he hates that she's poking around and asking questions.

  • @davidsensing2664
    @davidsensing2664 Рік тому +12

    Get with other family behind his back and make a power play. Force him out and hire management company.

    • @jeanlaubenthal698
      @jeanlaubenthal698 Рік тому

      Oh man Ive heard some wild stories about management companies.

    • @davidsensing2664
      @davidsensing2664 Рік тому

      @@jeanlaubenthal698 I know many with rentals that use them for around 14% of rent.

  • @jeremyscott6404
    @jeremyscott6404 Рік тому +13

    Yo Dave at the end killed me with the "it's boomer hour" gotta keep that sense of humor, cause life is hard lol.

  • @mike7933
    @mike7933 Рік тому +5

    She needs a buyout. A CPA firm can value the business and the judge can uphold the decision for the buyout. All is well and done. Get a CPA firm that is an expert in valuing companies and they will get it done.
    -From a local accountant who is working to get his CPA

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex Рік тому +7

    She's not able to asked a straight question how can anyone give a straight answer. He's managing the properties she's doing nothing and looking to just be handed money.

  • @ObeyDaqSwaqq
    @ObeyDaqSwaqq Рік тому +3

    I’m a notary closing agent and I would bet he has cash out refinanced every one of these properties and if they were paid for he probably went and got a HELOC or 2nd mortgage. He probably wasn’t collecting rent during COVID bc of moratoriums and has been living off the the stimulus packages that provided benefits to plenty of landlords. I have had multiple clients do 2 refinances in 2021 and one client did 3 refinances in like 9 mos. I would bet everything I have that he has pulled out all the equity and cash he could from this home and is living high off the hog. He probably got one of Granddaddy’s buddy’s to notarize a POA or put the property in a trust (via a title co) so that he doesn’t need all 7 ppl there during closing. Nothing would surprise me anymore🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @thegreatwhitegoat2882
    @thegreatwhitegoat2882 7 місяців тому +4

    Ohhh i wanna hear the update on this situation so bad

  • @cheryl3898
    @cheryl3898 Рік тому +11

    She could appoint an independent auditor to go through the company accounts

  • @coryblake5623
    @coryblake5623 Рік тому +11

    Wow...I want a follow up on this one

  • @phil3924
    @phil3924 Рік тому +15

    Don't do business with family. Ever. There are just so many ways for it to go wrong. This is a perfect example. People who you think are rationale and sane lose all sense when it comes to this.

    • @aao449
      @aao449 Рік тому

      Oooooweeeee!!!You can say that again!!

  • @amandasutherland626
    @amandasutherland626 Рік тому +15

    I’d be curious if the other siblings and cousins are feeling the same

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому +2

      I would hold a family meeting without the brother. Women have always been easy to exploit because they typically value relationships and family over money. They tend to be more passive and peace at any price. There is NO WAY SHE SHOULD walk away from this “found money” That suggestion was disrespectful for her grandmother’s wishes and this woman’s long term financial wellbeing. It also reinforces these stereotypes about women and money and REWARDS THE BULLY!

  • @LG123ABC
    @LG123ABC Рік тому +20

    "I'm a teacher, I don't know how to communicate". Yeesh.

  • @Dee-Gee
    @Dee-Gee Рік тому +4

    Huh!?!? If these are income producing properties, whose been reporting income to IRS & paying taxes on the income?

  • @mwl41223
    @mwl41223 Рік тому +9

    When you are conditioned in your family to submit and don't try to ask questions, you sense you should have rights but question yourself. Piling on insults doesn't help her. Similar thing happened to me as a teen. As I grew and understood what happened I was infuriated but I was told the statute of limitations expired...too bad for me and my kids. Not so sure!

  • @jefferyhankerson7231
    @jefferyhankerson7231 Рік тому +6

    She isn’t going to do anything I can tell by her responses

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 4 місяці тому +1

    She should had a lawyer involved from day one. She should asked to be sent paperwork’s and financial report quarterly

  • @insightfulfellow4975
    @insightfulfellow4975 2 місяці тому +1

    I don’t like the structure or lack of structure to family companies. I used to work for one. They prefer their own family and in some cases they can take advantage of family members and if you’re not family they treat you like family. It is better to have a business relationship with your coworkers and boss.

  • @Chele-nm4qx
    @Chele-nm4qx Рік тому +4

    She never got tax papers on this over 10 years?? She is part owner, so any profit- she would have to claim that income. Sounds like your brother is screwing her over!

  • @semosancus5506
    @semosancus5506 Рік тому +4

    She needs to understand why she has never received dividends on her part. Maybe they were reinvested into other properties which is fine but that changes her payout.

  • @stuarthudson4287
    @stuarthudson4287 4 місяці тому +1

    Lady who inherited real estate from grandmother-if brother is doing something nefarious, isn’t she liable as a partner? She needs to get out.

  • @emilyrogers3271
    @emilyrogers3271 Рік тому +14

    It's a shame family (her brother) treats each other this way, but it seems to happen all the time.

    • @charlesg7926
      @charlesg7926 Рік тому +1

      She seems like the entitled one here. She doesn’t want to do an ounce of work for the business because she think she’s “too good for” but she wants to be paid half of the profits? She’s insane and so are you

  • @steve41557
    @steve41557 Рік тому +10

    Lawyer time.

  • @elchapojr6219
    @elchapojr6219 Рік тому +3

    She needs to lawyer up !!!!!!!!!

  • @egs123able
    @egs123able Рік тому +12

    Agree with Ken. She needs to get what g ma give them.

  • @relentlessenterprises9238
    @relentlessenterprises9238 Рік тому +8

    New drinking game.. take a shot everytime she says "umm"
    .. good luck to your liver lol

  • @brendaababey
    @brendaababey 3 місяці тому +1

    I wish we could hear updates on all this stories .

  • @barryetherton4889
    @barryetherton4889 Рік тому +14

    I would like to know how the other partners feel?

  • @desimo147
    @desimo147 Рік тому +6

    I don't think we're getting the full story here by any means. What would the brother say if he was to be interviewed I wonder? What do the other six cousins know or think about this? Are ALL of them in the dark? Seems unlikely. And the business kicks off zero cash to each cousin and yet nobody has taken action to get answers? I suppose it's possible, but definitely weird. At a minimum, I suspect that the brother syphons off as much cash from the business for himself as he can. And if he's doing all the work, he may feel justified in doing so. At worst, he could be refinancing the properties as they have gone up in value and using the money as a slush fund to provide a lavish lifestyle for himself. That would definitely explain his reluctance to provide any details about the business to the other partners.

  • @Z64dollarsign8
    @Z64dollarsign8 Рік тому +7

    I guess everyone likes a bit of drama, these are the most entertaining call to me. I hope she gets to resolve this issue.

  • @pamwilliams6630
    @pamwilliams6630 Рік тому +5

    What about the other cousins? I'd have a talk with them and then approach the brother.

  • @lillianjoycenesper4030
    @lillianjoycenesper4030 2 місяці тому

    I would also suggest you never be alone with him. And make sure that you have protection with you at all times. Many many people have been murdered because they started questioning where the prophets of a business were going.

  • @neilsmith9066
    @neilsmith9066 Рік тому +31

    If you are a teacher why don't you teach yourself about Real Estate, LLCs and Business??

    • @Jane5720
      @Jane5720 Рік тому +2

      There’s no reason why she can’t learn

    • @charlesg7926
      @charlesg7926 Рік тому

      Because the ✡️ who own the school board want teachers to be weak, feckle and stupid

    • @sabinekoch3448
      @sabinekoch3448 Рік тому

      I’m a teacher. It’s boring.

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 Рік тому +1

      She's incompetent in the extreme.

  • @craigbryan8524
    @craigbryan8524 Рік тому +15

    This is an example of a passive agreeable person who has struggled to not allow people to walk upon her her entire life. I have a 9 year old daughter who has some of these traits and you better believe I'll be teaching her how to be assertive.

    • @colmwhateveryoulike3240
      @colmwhateveryoulike3240 Рік тому

      How do you plan to do that, as a matter of interest?

    • @someonethirsty1957
      @someonethirsty1957 Рік тому +2

      It’s not actually assertiveness that’s the problem. It’s the lack of understanding how to negotiate. Assertiveness is actually negative during a negotiation.

    • @John3.36
      @John3.36 Рік тому +2

      @@colmwhateveryoulike3240 Bullies gonna bully.

  • @steve_Above_and_Beyond
    @steve_Above_and_Beyond Рік тому +2

    There’s three sides to a coin. Heads, tails and the side edge. The truth usually lies somewhere on the middle. I heard the brother has his own business aside from the properties, the sister has no clue about business and the grandmother is still alive. How does anyone on the outside know if the brother wasn’t entrusted to manage the properties until death and the rents go to sustain granny until her passing? No mention of a living trust or anything. I learned long ago, If it’s not in writing, it doesn’t mean Sugar, Honey, or Ice Tea.

  • @JasonGroom
    @JasonGroom 8 місяців тому +1

    If you're not seeing any payments, this is time to get a lawyer involved. Option two is the only way that makes sense.

  • @anthonylawson2893
    @anthonylawson2893 Рік тому +6

    I hate how he cuts people off mid sentence. Have some respect for the people that are asking you for help.

    • @fnordiumendures138
      @fnordiumendures138 Рік тому +1

      Well, in this case it was kind of warranted. The core issue is that she can't think, act or communicate. Dave sensed that and put it on display.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 Рік тому

      Have some respect for stupid people?

    • @mikehawk9099
      @mikehawk9099 Рік тому +2

      I see your point, he's blunt indeed. Keep in mind though, he's running a radio show here. Nobody wants to listen to her explaining her story at a snail's pace, with "uhh" and "Uhm" sprinkled throughout the rambling. Gotta get to the point or people tune out, understandably so.

    • @anthonylawson2893
      @anthonylawson2893 Рік тому

      @@mikehawk9099 very true

  • @peterrose5373
    @peterrose5373 Рік тому +1

    Don't LLCs have to file an annual report with the Secretary of State's office?
    I don't know if that's public information, but as an owner she's certainly entitled to see what was filed.

  • @TheDeuceofSpades
    @TheDeuceofSpades 2 місяці тому +2

    The brother has been waiting for option 3. He's playing the long game, that's exactly what he wants. I hope option 2 is what she does. Stick it to him.

  • @vanessagarcia3836
    @vanessagarcia3836 Рік тому +1

    "Burn this to the ground....' ❤ it Dave

  • @EdA-bz3bu
    @EdA-bz3bu Рік тому +9

    They have been pocketing the money all along. 😂. With a family like that who needs enemies.
    He is going to show the cooked books. 😉

    • @claytonbouldin9381
      @claytonbouldin9381 Рік тому

      Or have a second set of books that make things look legit.

  • @RachelElizabethTome
    @RachelElizabethTome Місяць тому

    Your brother should GO TO JAIL for what he has been doing for over 10 years. It's called embezzlement. You need to SUE him for your portion of the profits he has been stealing.

  • @megalodon1726
    @megalodon1726 Рік тому +12

    This gift turned into a curse. It's a bad idea to give a whole business (or any other asset that isn't easily divided) to several people and expect them to share it nicely. Should have kept the business to herself, or sold it and split the money.

    • @fnordiumendures138
      @fnordiumendures138 Рік тому

      It could have worked: the properties could have generated a profit to be distributed. Of course, the moment it became clear that this wasn't happening, the stakeholders should have stepped in and taken action.

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 Рік тому +1

      @@fnordiumendures138 a small business with as many as 7+ equal owners, who didn't create or join the business based on their own initiative, had no chance of working well in the long run.

  • @riku3716
    @riku3716 2 місяці тому

    If the other owners have not seen any money in a decade the guy has been stealing all that. Don't just sue for him to buy her out at her current share. Have all the books combed through, take everything he has taken and see if he can be sent to jail.

  • @doompod
    @doompod Рік тому +13

    You should’ve fought for it harder back in the day in my opinion. Have him buy you out and/or force a buy out.

  • @aberdeenrobbins8157
    @aberdeenrobbins8157 7 місяців тому +2

    I’m only 26 and I used to watch the Waltons every night with my family 😂❤️

    • @BabyBenz96
      @BabyBenz96 2 місяці тому

      I'm 28, same here lol

  • @etmoiaussi899
    @etmoiaussi899 14 днів тому

    What about any responsibility for any possible business mispractice that may have happened whilst she was legally a partner.

  • @rthilson
    @rthilson Рік тому +5

    I’m confused who’s paying her taxes on the income?

    • @Flipper86
      @Flipper86 2 місяці тому

      Quite possibly no one has paid taxes. There might not be much income now, if brother has spent/leveraged everything. Brother is “running” the business but not providing and financial information. . .for at least 10 years. Crazy to think grandma who built the business (or inherited it from her husband), her children (who were aware of the value of the company and the transfer grandma made) and 6 grandchildren have put their heads in the sand/looked the other way for a decade while one grandson has “managed” the business w/o ANY accountability to his extended family and business “partners?” What could possibly go wrong?

  • @julieludwig8927
    @julieludwig8927 Рік тому

    As the Owner of Premier Property Management, I have another, & better, option.
    Hire an Independent Property Management Firm.
    You will ALL receive a Monthly Profit & Loss Statement along with an equal Dividend Check.
    End of Conflict.
    End of family concerns.
    End of story.
    Just because someone inherits a family business, doesn’t mean they have the expertise to run it.
    All 7 Cousins should have received Monthly P & L’s along with Dividend Checks for the past 10 years.
    We’re talking MILLIONS of Dollars that her brother stole.
    The final question is: Has none of the other 5 cousins been questioning/wondering either??
    She needs to contact cousins & talk to them.

  • @johnlewis8934
    @johnlewis8934 Рік тому +54

    I'd love to have more follow up videos on some of these situations