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i've been talking to this guy for a month and he seemed rly intersted and i rly like him but now he's only asking for nudes how do i get him to stop without ruining our relationship Edit: I've blocked him on everything since he wouldn't stop and i wont see him for some time because or quarantine. Thanks guys :)
Because there is the stereotype of a woman freaking out and going crazy on him. They believe BS stories from their friends and decide, instead, to ghost or string you along.
Frustrating thing is....guys who do this are often the ones who initiate contact with you, ask for your number etc... I've come to the conclusion that they simply collect phone numbers to feed their ego
I lost my fate . Been single and no interested on any one . I finally met someone . But he’s seems to be complicated in some areas and i find myself confuse after every date we have . There many red flags but the feeling i get when i think of him or see him i know i like him and haven’t feel this way for years. But theres somethingnof with this guy. I’m ao confused and my brain is telling me to run. What do i do??? I want to live this feeling ! I want to keep getting to know him. So fucked up! Why does this happens?!!!
Agree. But I hate the thought that the guy is getting off the hook so easily if the woman just stops texting him. She should at least blast him to let him know he's a jerk, then be done with him.
@@DistortedV12 I’m insanely busy 24/7 but if I like someone back, I’ll be enthusiastic in my response or get back to them within a few hours. I expect the same for someone who reciprocates my level of attention, otherwise-not interested.
Hey I’m a guy and I’m watching what the “other side” experiences because all the advice from men’s channels have failed me. Are you right that almost all girls are actually like that they want guys to reply as soon as they actually can???
Blocked 3 guys. Removed myself from dating apps. Now comfortable in my 17+ years of being alone (though not enjoying it). This dating crap is pure nonsense.
Dating apps are full of cluster B's . Men also trying to get with woman way younger than them it's gross honestly. I'm 40 why can't I meet a guy my age it's so frustrating. I was in a long term relationship got left for a baby. It seems all men want this so mad.
I did the same but a friend of mine told me that he would think that I really care about him and what he did hurt me, but I don't mind. That's his problem and he can think what he wants. But my mental health is in peace right now and I don't change that for anything. Though, I sometimes miss him, but anyways.
What if he still initiate convos, just that when I reply,he rereplys really late and sometimes no reply at all? These things are so confusing….why can’t life be simpler
@@airishviscara2326 Thank you❤️. I wanted to believe, but I suppose it's time to accept the truth.... I just haven't figured out if I should try to get him to like me or just accept this and move on.
He just initiated when I decided to move on weeks ago and then we started talking again. He just checked on me, asking if I was okay. Then suddenly all of my hope goes up again. After he initiated for the first time, I got the courage to talk to him again and then now, I'm still hoping that he would do the first move for us to talk. We just met online, I am the one who did the first move to talk to him because I find him rlly interesting. I'm so ready to forget about everything before, I didn't mind that I may probably ghost him because I thought he doesn't even care about me but after he initiated for the first time, all the thoughts that I should forget him backfired me. And until now, I'm still waiting for him because if you would see our last convo you might be ready disappointed at me. Sorry if my English is not perfect, just want to vent out :D
@@peytongomer2305 Perhaps, perhaps not. All I can say is that I've lived most of my life trusting my gut feeling or intuition, if you will. It has never let me down yet.
Miss Madeline's adventures even though--I do recall my ex falling super hard, super fast for a girl immediately after we broke up--but I don’t think it was just a sexual thing. So maybe it’s not always just for booty. Not sure. That messed me up baddd
I take my time and take precautious steps i dont flirt off the bat but doesnt mean i dont like the girl i see if shes authentic or just wants a Nsa drama relationship i dont have time nor the energy for that.
Me too. I'm an older woman, quite enjoy being single, but find these newer dating coaches so interesting. It's so interesting to me learning about how different men and women are, how different our psychologies are, and how the same behaviour can mean totally different things to men and women. Also good to know for if I do meet someone I'm interested in.
Sad when even older men that you would think would be a bit more serious about not wanting to play games, are behaving like this while leading you on and feeding their ego.
Lol I love it ....if a guy doesn't like you he will come at you with sex , if a guy really likes you he won't even try sex because he is so scared he will mess up and lose you.
I was dating a guy for 6 weeks who displayed at least 5 of these signs. When he moved away for a job offer, I thought I had lost a decent guy. Watching this video CONFIRMED that he was not the right guy for me. Thanks Ryan! ☺️🤟🏼
Awesome, Catharine! Thanks for sharing that! 😉Decent guys aren't afraid to put in the work with you or show you interest pretty quickly. I'm hoping this video helps folks avoid wishy-washy guys who either don't know what they want or maybe are afraid to level with you about their lack of interest 👌🏽
They dont want to hurt your feelings or they dont want to stop the attention. People will never be really honest dating. That's why action means more than words.
I've encountered this several times & I'm the type to stop talking to a guy in a week. The second I see any little thing that seems off I will cut all contact. Life is too short to get one's feelings all caught up for someone who isn't worth it.
very strong 💐🌻 i got caught up and learnt my lesson. I have now taught myself boundaries and to not ignore red flags. I have worked on my issues from why i was willing to take such disrespect and now i honour who i am... love and light to you 💗🌞🙏
@@dustersinternational221 That is wonderful! It is never easy but once you are able to decipher between what's good for you & what's not you'll be fine. I have been through a lot & those lessons prepared me for how & who I am today.
That's why it's important to talk. If a guy texts and never calls you, you're an after thought for free time. Texting does not require undivided attention and you'll never know if you are the only one he's entertaining someone else simultaneously... or not.
@Juairia Jahin my bf did. Apparently you can be 'busy' playing video games & watching movies but at the same time miss me but not enough to call me before bed.... I'm honestly at the last straw now, he's walking a thin line.
@Juairia Jahin thank you, sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant earlier. Thanks so much I hope you are happy in your life & have people around you who support & love you for who you are.
Another one that guys who aren't interested say is "Call me any time". That translates to "Because I'm not going to call you". A guy who is into you will call, text, drive, walk, swim, fly, boat, train, bus...whatever it takes to talk to you and see you. No distance is too far because the plan is to move you closer or himself closer at some point if things go the way he hopes. Period! If it that ain't going on, move on.
Texting means nothing. Does he have his own place, his own car, a job? Does he live with a woman? If he can't even take care of his self. Don't go any further.
Two years and 3 months long distance relationship 😔 he just played with my heart. I lost myself 🙁 Eventually he completely left. Thanks 🙏 for this advice
Start having a good time with yourself. Learn a new hobby , self care , make new friends ( not love until you know it ) pamper yourself ❤️ lots of love. You're amazing.
Its alright dear....just endure the pain...cry...till it hurts no more...it is better to be miserable now than marrying him and be miserable for lifetime...u r beautiful.....u deserve a man not a boy....
I'm in my 60s. Spoiler alert. If all he does is text and ph, its NOT real, it's all b.s.....simple! Smoke and mirrors....its time to sharpen up , ladies
This actually helped confirm that someone IS interested in me☺️ and it makes me feel so much better. He is super busy on his phone for work all the time but he still makes an effort to text me. He is eager to get together when I was a little hesitant the first time we met. He feels pressure about planning our dates. I learned to be patient because his job does require a lot of focus but even if he’s swamped I always get a good morning or “I hope you had a good day, I have to finish this by so and so.” Or “Good night” with lots of kisses. Finally found a good one!! 😂💕
No. 1 is absolutely true !! You write a whole paragraph telling him stuff and he just comes back with a one ☝️ liner or one word or an emoji !! Totally agree with you on that !! 😂🙄
Girls, in some case we do have to treat guys with the methods that actually belong to men. What l mean by this? Just stop overthinking him and his actions, be more earth connected instead flying away when nothing is actually happens... Stay woman but remember he's your opponent and never forget to fight back. By this, l mean, - he pays no attention to you - do the same. If you don't see him being interested, just say to your feelings NO. This will bring you so much strenth and inner healing and you will sustain yourself for the one who deserves you. I 'm sharing my real situation. This is only one thing that helps...
4. He never texts right back. The irony of it is that, he's always online. Always on his phone and laptop. And when we videocall, he always do something else on the phone or in his laptop. So why is he taking so long to reply?
"If you're not left feeling good then that's your intuition telling you there's something off with this guy" 💯 00:07:39 BEST LINE THAT SUMS UP ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW IF HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU OR NOT.. 😎 Our feelings are correlation to our intuition guiding us something is not right.
I told him that I wanted to meet up again, he told me he was very bussy that he didn't know when he would have time. The innocent me told him 'Don't worry, I am sure we will find time'. The hell. We never talked again, and I WON'T text him ever again. Bye. For ever.
Also one more I’ve found that you could add to this list are guys who will only text back in the middle of the night. Sort of a weird but surprisingly common phenomenon. It’s like they’re not willing to give you any of their valuable daytime and from my experience it will never go anywhere.
Hmmm. Unless he has an overnight job, it's almost like he's doing that because he's banking on you being asleep so that you don't call him or he doesn't feel obligated to text again because he's hoping you won't reply immediately. But yet, he did actually text you so it's another way of stringing you along.
Also, wtf is “No label relationship” with Gen-Z’s?? I’m a millennial too married for 6 years and I’m thankful I’ve found true love before social media. Thankful that I experienced courting where guys take you on dates and be straight up honest with their feelings. women nowadays need a constant validation in social media and a constant ego stroke for men. Girls be half nude dancing in tiktok only to get men’s attention.. and then what? they still can’t get the love the way they want be love they end up being used or just for a good time and there are very few numbers of young men who actually wanna get married.
@@juliettesleeve6763 So arrogant of you to assume I’m a plain house wife? Are you that one of those women who needs a constant validation form men?? The woman who belittle other women for being a housewife?? You should be ashamed of your attitude mam. I run a milktea business my own and my husband is a Navy who comes home once every 6 months from service. I don’t depend on my husband’s income alone. I struggle on my own too. My marriage isn’t perfect and Bold of you to assume I’m like this and that when you don’t know me haha! It’s funny because you got butthurt on my comment did I offend you indirectly madam?? Lmao.
Thanks Ryan! This was exactly I needed to see. I get so frustrated when guys send messages that are either immediately sexual or just a minimal amount of words.
You're so true! I've always been ignoring these signs with all the guys online up until now. Now I met a guy online who asks me questions all the time, wishes me goodnight or goodmorning, sends pictures of his work during work, he wants to meet up etc. Etc. So weird for me to have a guy chase me for once! We have a date this saturday. 🤪
What if you got a guy who does all the above except never initiates plans for a 2nd date. I feel im in a unique situation so general advice doesnt serve me
I'm so glad to hear that😍 someone caring about you, someone sharing his life, someone chasing you Demi😄 so glad as if I were your friend or a sister. God bless..
Going to add something here , a guy will act like he’s interested for a while till you sleep with him once he’s got what he wanted out of you he’ll move on to the next and display these signs ! The trick is if you’re going to be single and have one night stands ,make sure you get to the point, so there is no strings attached! And no mixed signals.
Yes that is true, or he notices that you do all the giving loving etc and he feels you took the bait, hook, line and swallowed the whole f*cking fishing rod. Then you are his, he just have to give minimal effort, and the second he feels that you are getting this and are backing out he throw you a bone and most girls fall for this 😔
please pray for me. i have ben in 4 month online messaging/fake love situationship from fb nessenger since dec 2020 and i think the guy is married or living with someone bc he ghosted me for a week last month so i ghosted him but kept looking at his messages, then responded like an idiot bc ive got feelings for this guy but i think hes playing me for a fool. 4-2-21 hes in the military and now i dont trust him. ive ben too honest nd upfront with him about things nd myself so its all so depressing to me
My man is totally the opposite from all of these. I just met him a week ago on a dating site. We've built connection easily. Everything was so smooth, we are so comfortable with each other that it felt like we are already friends for a long time. I really hope that he's the one. 🤞
Let us know how it goes, Jade! I've got a great video coming out next week that will help you communicate with him best while we're in quarantine to keep em hooked! 😜
Go gently Jade, a week isn't long. Don't invest more time, energy or availability than he does; very important at least for the first month or two. Wishing you happiness.
It's only because I'm fifty years old that I'm already aware of these signs, and it never hurts to be reminded. Thanks for being real with us. This information should be made available in sex ed.
I am 54 and i wasn't aware of ghosting etc, as i did not have phone/social media etc until recently, and i have learnt to not give certain men my number now. I will take back my power and not keep in contact with low value men. I did have to learn the hard way 🌻🌞🙏
This is literally every single guy I’ve ever met or texted or been on a date with or anything lmao literally been single for almost 6 years lol but this describes every single guy I’ve ever come in contact with sadly. That just means no guy ever likes me 😂
@@Mwiizy love will come to you when you least expect it. Don't sell yourself short. Love isn't always obvious. It'll suck a lot less when you start loving yourself. I'll leave you with this: _are you someone you'd be in a relationship with?_
interested? how...with clothes on and off? or is it he like me and has dyslexia (maybe) and texting is not my thing...if it feels good then don't text call, use a phone and speak... 💗🌞🙏
@@moukthikareddy5157 - I'm about to turn 61 next week. I got married at 21, straight from my parents home into marriage. We didn't know all of these things back then. After 34 YEARS of marriage, he tells me that he got married because that was what he thought he was SUPPOSE to do... So how the F do you process that?!?!? I thought a "good wife" supports her husband ( I took my vows seriously) through thick & thin, good times & bad (there weren't a lot of good times) I found out it's called fake love. So yea, he wanted a divorce (he sent me an E-Mail a week before what would have been our 36 wedding anniversary saying he thought we should call it quits) & after my therapy I realized he is a passive-aggressive sociopath. Thank God I'm out of that mess. Life is now peaceful without the drama queen.
@@susanemde9128 omg I hope you've healed and doing well now? Even these days people aren't really aware of what narcissism is. My friend's don't understand it at all. The depth of abuse we underwent only those who went through it can understand or a therapist who specifically has a knack for these issues. I found out because I was so sick of my self. He made me believe I was wrong every time we had a fight. He would fight over the lamest things ever. He was verbally abusive and would blame it on the withdrawals from his smoking. I would keep putting myself in his shoes and make excuses for his behaviour cause that I what I was taught. To always understand where people are coming from and to be understanding and forgiving. I lost all my self respect in that relatioship. I lost all confidence. I used to be so fit and he used to call me fat in indirect ways and I actually put on weight after that. He would pressurise me to lose weight because he wanted arm candy. He would give me courses on communication, self development, Photoshop, etc he would give allll these things telling me it's for my good. I thought he was trying to help fix all the weakness in me to make me strong. Eventually I started feeling like I'll never be enough to him. He's always giving me lectures and courses for self improvement and all kinds of petty things. Like he wanted to control every aspect of my life. He did. Until he started punishing me with silent treatment for the silliest of things. By some miracle I googled "punishing by withholding affection" and that led me to the world of narcissistic abuse videos. It was so shcokimg. And strange to find out everything was fake. I broke up with a few weeks later because seeing these videos helped me realise I don't want him even if I love him. His fragile ego couldn't handle that I broke up. So he treated me well for a few days before going crazy on me and blocking me everywhere. Like he wanted to the satisfaction of making things horrible for me. And in a way being the one to end it all.
@@susanemde9128 I could write a book on our story. He's a charmer. Great IQ but emotional quotient is 0. But I won't. He'll be happy I wrote a book on him He thinks There's going to be movies about him. I'm not going to give a narcissist the satisfaction that they were important enough to me that their behaviour caused such disruption in me and my life
Thanks Ryan for this. Im in the early stages with a guy and he is acting exactly like those points. I felt it in my gut he wasn't right and you just confirmed it. He sent me a generic Hows your day going Beautiful today and im not going to answer it. Be gone #boring. Thanks again Ryan for the wake up call. I'll sleep better tonight.
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Sign #1: you're watching this video 😂
T. B. 🤣🤣🤣big sign
i've been talking to this guy for a month and he seemed rly intersted and i rly like him but now he's only asking for nudes how do i get him to stop without ruining our relationship
Edit: I've blocked him on everything since he wouldn't stop and i wont see him for some time because or quarantine. Thanks guys :)
T. B. 😂 😂
just a double check if he does this 🤣 Lucky, he's doesn't lol
Seriously 😂
Why can’t a guy just be like I’m not feeling this... have a good life.. I wouldn’t even be mad
Because we are often left with petty responses like "wasnt feeling you anyways"
Because there is the stereotype of a woman freaking out and going crazy on him. They believe BS stories from their friends and decide, instead, to ghost or string you along.
Why don't more women go with their gut, accept reality and walk away
Yess fr
we'll never be able to conceive the limits of human stupidity
If a man likes you ..you’ll know ...he’ll make efforts ...if not then screw em 🤷🏾♀️
Thanks ❤
Why I can't do it😭😭
@@rosalinasimpson9023 yes you can ....focus on something else, hobby , interest, travel somewhere....you can do it..! Work on you !! ❤️
@@moons4363 your welcome ☺️
Wow juuuuust wow
Signs he’s not interested: your intuition is telling you, thus you are watching this video
Nah I'm just bored. I've watched THE MOST random videos sitting at home all day😂
Yes! That one never fails. It's a matter of if you'll listen to your gut feeling or not.
Its ok though 😩
😹😹😹😹😹
Hilarious and true
Frustrating thing is....guys who do this are often the ones who initiate contact with you, ask for your number etc... I've come to the conclusion that they simply collect phone numbers to feed their ego
kristin lee Omgoodness. I just mentioned this to a friend of mine. And then they get mad when you stop responding.
Very true
Absoltly agree on dis fact
kristin lee It's definitely true about the ego issue and I've even heard it from the horse's mouth, so to speak. 🙂
THIS...he texted after mths,and when I reached out he ghosted the call and sent it to voicemail.
This dude knows what he's talking about...as much as I don't want to hear it😞
yeah I didn't want to hear it either cuz the truth hurts , but there it is and I can't deny it
@GuessWho lol r u saying he's gay n I don't agree that gays give best advice anyone can give great advice jeeez
#2 -#8 -#9 ended up blocking him ...
time & energy waster 😒
I agree :( my current situation
Girl show that you desever better
When he doesn't text back in quarantine. There. That's the sign.
*Edit June 8th* Wow. So many comments/likes! Thanks ☺️
That's a big one 😪
Haha haven't texted him for this reason exactly!!! No point as I know he won't respond!
That’s so true.
Alexa Likes indeed 🤣🤣
Alexa Likes yuppppp!!!!
C’mon women, we already know this. We tend to make excuses, but that needs to stop. We deserve so much better!
And the minute you realize this, you're single forever. They're all like this
I lost my fate .
Been single and no interested on any one . I finally met someone . But he’s seems to be complicated in some areas and i find myself confuse after every date we have . There many red flags but the feeling i get when i think of him or see him i know i like him and haven’t feel this way for years. But theres somethingnof with this guy. I’m ao confused and my brain is telling me to run.
What do i do??? I want to live this feeling ! I want to keep getting to know him. So fucked up! Why does this happens?!!!
Sorry single for 7 yrs
@@tzukhi same type of problem here. May be you r fall in love.
Sugarskull80 .. no, wrong!
I give up! I'm getting a cat and calling it a day. Lol
I got my dogs unconditional love 😂🤣🤣🤣
Yes yes and yep
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lol
keep trying hahahha
All the single lady's, 💘
All the single lady's. 💘
We don't need a man to survive 👌
A real man would not ignore the one he pursued. He would do his best to make sure he gets her time.
Yes we do lmao, we all need a companion and yr a liar if u say no!
Ladies. Smh
Shipa R lol spot on .👍😂💞
Amen
No response IS a response.
It really is..
Love that so true
@@lg2573 lol
Yeah, not coming to a "date" is too i think...
(Yes it happened to me a few hours ago)
Agree. But I hate the thought that the guy is getting off the hook so easily if the woman just stops texting him. She should at least blast him to let him know he's a jerk, then be done with him.
If a guy doesn’t text me back the first time or sound enthusiastic in his response, all desire within me shrivels and dies.
Sometimes we’re genuinely busy
@@DistortedV12 I’m insanely busy 24/7 but if I like someone back, I’ll be enthusiastic in my response or get back to them within a few hours. I expect the same for someone who reciprocates my level of attention, otherwise-not interested.
Hey I’m a guy and I’m watching what the “other side” experiences because all the advice from men’s channels have failed me. Are you right that almost all girls are actually like that they want guys to reply as soon as they actually can???
@@americohagim1131 How long a woman should wait? If you are interested, you will contact them when you can. When you are not, you procrastinate.
Blocked 3 guys. Removed myself from dating apps. Now comfortable in my 17+ years of being alone (though not enjoying it). This dating crap is pure nonsense.
Dating apps have really bad quality guys tbh
It’s such a waste !!! I tried to start dating after my marriage ended and it’s been three years of time wasting with dating apps !!!
Lovecove4 it’s all bad
Dating apps are full of cluster B's . Men also trying to get with woman way younger than them it's gross honestly. I'm 40 why can't I meet a guy my age it's so frustrating. I was in a long term relationship got left for a baby. It seems all men want this so mad.
I’m 48 and separated 6 years and started dating sites in 2017 and I’m still single
this made me block someone. and i feel relief. thank you
Right, I think it’s the best thing to do😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I did the same but a friend of mine told me that he would think that I really care about him and what he did hurt me, but I don't mind. That's his problem and he can think what he wants. But my mental health is in peace right now and I don't change that for anything. Though, I sometimes miss him, but anyways.
Very good
😅😅same to me...huh!! 🚮Let what flows flows
😂😂
When he doesn’t initiate the convo EVER.......don’t continue reaching out.
Ok😂😂
What if he still initiate convos, just that when I reply,he rereplys really late and sometimes no reply at all? These things are so confusing….why can’t life be simpler
@@甄鸣斐 maybe he is busy
@@airishviscara2326 Thank you❤️. I wanted to believe, but I suppose it's time to accept the truth.... I just haven't figured out if I should try to get him to like me or just accept this and move on.
He just initiated when I decided to move on weeks ago and then we started talking again. He just checked on me, asking if I was okay. Then suddenly all of my hope goes up again. After he initiated for the first time, I got the courage to talk to him again and then now, I'm still hoping that he would do the first move for us to talk. We just met online, I am the one who did the first move to talk to him because I find him rlly interesting. I'm so ready to forget about everything before, I didn't mind that I may probably ghost him because I thought he doesn't even care about me but after he initiated for the first time, all the thoughts that I should forget him backfired me. And until now, I'm still waiting for him because if you would see our last convo you might be ready disappointed at me. Sorry if my English is not perfect, just want to vent out :D
So true. Don’t chase a guy that is not interested. Move on. It only leads to heart break.
I wish I can forget this guy whose name is Dan levik I just want to forget about him and I wish I never mentioned anything to him about a fair ride
how to move on without having any heartbreak
Yeah ,its legit
I hope I can forget my ex Nabil 😔
The best part: "If you're not left feeling good, that's your intuition telling you that there's something off with this guy".
Yup..so right..
If you leave feeling good, do you think it means they feel good too?
@@peytongomer2305 Perhaps, perhaps not. All I can say is that I've lived most of my life trusting my gut feeling or intuition, if you will. It has never let me down yet.
ItsAllBeenDecided thanks :)
Usually a narcissist
This just felt like a slap on my face.
it's better to get that early than later
Same here
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same
yeah
I hate when a guy is interested too quickly. It's scary and feels like too much pressure to fall in love
That’s love-bombing 🤮🤮 stay away
Too quick in love too soon disappear..it is really painful.
Its not good thing stay away😥😥
Miss Madeline's adventures even though--I do recall my ex falling super hard, super fast for a girl immediately after we broke up--but I don’t think it was just a sexual thing. So maybe it’s not always just for booty. Not sure.
That messed me up baddd
I take my time and take precautious steps i dont flirt off the bat but doesnt mean i dont like the girl i see if shes authentic or just wants a Nsa drama relationship i dont have time nor the energy for that.
Anybody else single, not looking and watching this just because
me
Same
Me too. I'm an older woman, quite enjoy being single, but find these newer dating coaches so interesting. It's so interesting to me learning about how different men and women are, how different our psychologies are, and how the same behaviour can mean totally different things to men and women. Also good to know for if I do meet someone I'm interested in.
Me
I'm married watching this to reflect on exes
Note to self: he just doesnt care. Move on
If a guy doesn’t give me genuine attention I lose interest so quick. He has to want to know how I am, how my day was, be sweet, flirty, polite 🤷🏻♀️
Yes, I have just understood it recently, after dealing with some man
SAME
Exactly! I’m so turned off now. We had crazy chemistry but that’s not even enough.
Yea I’m done with even trying anymore. I’m going to focus on myself
Breaks are super healthy and necessary for sure 😉
Samesie!
Yeah I hate being single. Sick of mind games. Older men arent even better.
I am done also!
Yes girl
Interested people ask questions. I like that point.
So do annoying people
If they ask too many questions and reveal nothing about himself ... he is collecting things to hurt you with later.
True
Sad when even older men that you would think would be a bit more serious about not wanting to play games, are behaving like this while leading you on and feeding their ego.
Exactly smh I’m speaking about men between 35-40. Been there
50 and 60 year olds do it too
Yeah. They shouldn't be texting you back if they're not really interested . Bummer
They’re not men...they’re grown boys. 😊
Shoe on other foot mode. Love it.
Last week I actually asked my crush do you have any questions for me and he said NO😂😂😂 blunt and straightforward....
Gotta love a straight-shooter! 🤣
Lol! Sorry, this is kinda funny.
That's messed lol
100% accurate.
I real don't have. A crush. Okay.
Him: I think we should meet
Me: *laughs across the pacific ocean*
wheeze
“Can I have your phone number?”
He texts me instead.
Lol! I should just send him this video and call it a night and just say no thank you.
Lmaooooo
“WYD” all the time is a sign. You can’t get to know a woman with a text saying “WYD” over and over again -
Ikr . lt's soooo annoying
That’s the worst I don’t even respond
@@aminah761 I agree !
Wyd is jus so elementary level n middle school🤣
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In this age of social media, if all someone want to do is text and NOT TALK. You are WASTING YOUR TIME.
What's wrong with just being texting buddy's
Nah das not true mane
@@alexplays9838 Some of us just have better expectations than just words on a SCREEN.
@@redfather5342 What are we in high school? smfh.
That’s not true. I’m personally super shy and I’ll feel uncomfortable talking on the phone. Irl it’s okay tho.
Sign 1* : he's texts are short-
Me : ight .. i'mma head out 😒
LMAO ONG
Short texting ALL the time is sign...
HAHAHAHA FR
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same 😂
Lol I love it ....if a guy doesn't like you he will come at you with sex , if a guy really likes you he won't even try sex because he is so scared he will mess up and lose you.
😶
Oh well been made a fool of again.
But I am back in the game. August 1😊
not entirely true tho
Not always. My first night with my husband was very sexy ;
I was dating a guy for 6 weeks who displayed at least 5 of these signs. When he moved away for a job offer, I thought I had lost a decent guy. Watching this video CONFIRMED that he was not the right guy for me. Thanks Ryan! ☺️🤟🏼
Awesome, Catharine! Thanks for sharing that! 😉Decent guys aren't afraid to put in the work with you or show you interest pretty quickly. I'm hoping this video helps folks avoid wishy-washy guys who either don't know what they want or maybe are afraid to level with you about their lack of interest 👌🏽
Ryan
How can I believe a guy that says that he truly wants to be with you you, but he makes up excuses?
@@jeannettetyge7866 he doesnt want to be with you if he makes excuses as to why he cant be with you
I'm single and not even dating but I'm watching these like a review of past situations 😂
I think that if a guy really likes you, you’ll know. Itll be easy to see that. Mixed signals do not exist. They either like you. Or they don’t
Self Love Ladies!! Self Love!
Why is he literally narrating my life wow man
It’s too bad people can’t just express their feelings, we have to be deciphering things like texts messages.
Ya its weird
Agreed
They dont want to hurt your feelings or they dont want to stop the attention. People will never be really honest dating. That's why action means more than words.
I agree
Am a texting person!
I'm 36 and you schooled me. Thanks. I'm too old to be wasting time
#5
"Busy person makes time to pursue you, when they are interested in you", I still find my own excuses, but this does help to enlighten my thoughts.
true
I've encountered this several times & I'm the type to stop talking to a guy in a week. The second I see any little thing that seems off I will cut all contact. Life is too short to get one's feelings all caught up for someone who isn't worth it.
Man, I used to be this way. I'm working towards getting back to this point 🙌 no time for bs!
very strong 💐🌻 i got caught up and learnt my lesson. I have now taught myself boundaries and to not ignore red flags. I have worked on my issues from why i was willing to take such disrespect and now i honour who i am... love and light to you 💗🌞🙏
@@dustersinternational221 That is wonderful! It is never easy but once you are able to decipher between what's good for you & what's not you'll be fine. I have been through a lot & those lessons prepared me for how & who I am today.
This all so true. You can normally tell when a man is interested, if I have to question it I don't invest.
He usually won't keep you waiting too long if he's into you, for sure 😉
Ryan Patrick 😞😞😞
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Girls.. This guy saying the everything true about guys.. This is your true friend..
No guys pursue me and no guys like me. Excited to adopt a child single and move on with my work and life free of male drama
I hope that changes in the guy department soon, Hannah 🙌🏼In the meantime, congrats on adopting!
Ryan Patrick till I’m 40, this is the way it’ll be LOLZ
All of the decent guys don't like me only mental guys and dirty old men!
@@hannahscott6604 I am 34 and fat do I will be single for life!
Marybeth Langendorf lol...I have almost no men that like me , even the mental and dirty old men . Sometimes but not even those ! Lol
That's why it's important to talk. If a guy texts and never calls you, you're an after thought for free time. Texting does not require undivided attention and you'll never know if you are the only one he's entertaining someone else simultaneously... or not.
But what does it mean when I’m hard of hearing ? I don’t use call often.
I don’t like calls. Nope. Nooooope. Not at all. Texting is fine, thank you
When you really like that person you don’t wanna know the truth about it..
I stopped taking to the guy I liked cuz I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right
@@Shikiyodo do you like him?
this hurts like a bullet 💀
So..so..true
"I'm Busy" is the most overused excuse.....
Heard one say “texting just isn’t a priority to me, it’s verbal communication that I like.” Ok but we are in quarantine and we ft at NIGHT
They never too busy for sports video games or buying some new shoes though lol
@Juairia Jahin my bf did. Apparently you can be 'busy' playing video games & watching movies but at the same time miss me but not enough to call me before bed.... I'm honestly at the last straw now, he's walking a thin line.
@Juairia Jahin thank you, sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant earlier. Thanks so much I hope you are happy in your life & have people around you who support & love you for who you are.
You make time for what you like/love.....there I said it....all anyone needs to hear.........ever...........
Note To Self: "HE DOESN'T CARE MOVE ON GIRLY"
Thank you I really needed this 😭💕
Another one that guys who aren't interested say is "Call me any time". That translates to "Because I'm not going to call you". A guy who is into you will call, text, drive, walk, swim, fly, boat, train, bus...whatever it takes to talk to you and see you. No distance is too far because the plan is to move you closer or himself closer at some point if things go the way he hopes. Period! If it that ain't going on, move on.
You just described every single one of my online dating conversations. I’m not going to even bother with the apps anymore
Delete them sis! Move on with your life!
same
Me neither
Lmao this is so me! Badoo,Tinder! I'm so done!!!
Exactly nobody is that busy not to text someone back they r simply ignoring you
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Texting means nothing. Does he have his own place, his own car, a job? Does he live with a woman? If he can't even take care of his self. Don't go any further.
Very well said!
small things make up a whole
@@elenachiritescu2681 Thankyou
He has all of those. Not in a relationship.
@@sayraflores6595 my guy too but just not initiating texts.
This video is sooooo depressing because this always happens to me 😑
Melanie Jones this is happening to me right now 😞
Me too
Sadly its all true.
I felt this too
So now you can stop wasting your time on them so u can find someone who is not this way
Two years and 3 months long distance relationship 😔 he just played with my heart.
I lost myself 🙁
Eventually he completely left.
Thanks 🙏 for this advice
How often did you meet up during long distance?
I’m interested to know as well.
Mine is 8 years
Start having a good time with yourself. Learn a new hobby , self care , make new friends ( not love until you know it ) pamper yourself ❤️ lots of love. You're amazing.
Its alright dear....just endure the pain...cry...till it hurts no more...it is better to be miserable now than marrying him and be miserable for lifetime...u r beautiful.....u deserve a man not a boy....
This video should be required viewing before you make any online dating account 💯
Haha love that Sarah! 😍
I'm in my 60s. Spoiler alert. If all he does is text and ph, its NOT real, it's all b.s.....simple! Smoke and mirrors....its time to sharpen up , ladies
Yes. I started dating a guy who only asked me out for Saturday nights. I dumped him.
This vid made me feel so much more confident about this. I actually feel like he might be interested in me! He shows the opposite of all these signs
This actually helped confirm that someone IS interested in me☺️ and it makes me feel so much better. He is super busy on his phone for work all the time but he still makes an effort to text me. He is eager to get together when I was a little hesitant the first time we met. He feels pressure about planning our dates. I learned to be patient because his job does require a lot of focus but even if he’s swamped I always get a good morning or “I hope you had a good day, I have to finish this by so and so.” Or “Good night” with lots of kisses. Finally found a good one!! 😂💕
That's good.
I think mine is interesting too but I'm not sure.
He asks about me and he compliments me when he's not busy lol
Good stuff, Ryan. Life is short, ladies. Don't waste your precious time on losers.
Not asking questions - # 1 complaint along with one line responses!
No. 1 is absolutely true !!
You write a whole paragraph telling him stuff and he just comes back with a one ☝️ liner or one word or an emoji !!
Totally agree with you on that !! 😂🙄
😭💔
I don’t even know why I’m watching this video because no one is texting me in the first place 😨
LMAO
Lol, same.🤷♀️😌
This came up on recommended hmm... I am just bored and I stopped even trying 4 years ago.
Ouch 😣😣... he's actually hitting the nail of it's head ..it hurts cause it's so true
Girls, in some case we do have to treat guys with the methods that actually belong to men. What l mean by this? Just stop overthinking him and his actions, be more earth connected instead flying away when nothing is actually happens... Stay woman but remember he's your opponent and never forget to fight back. By this, l mean, - he pays no attention to you - do the same. If you don't see him being interested, just say to your feelings NO. This will bring you so much strenth and inner healing and you will sustain yourself for the one who deserves you. I 'm sharing my real situation. This is only one thing that helps...
You’re absolutely right, thank you!
4. He never texts right back.
The irony of it is that, he's always online. Always on his phone and laptop. And when we videocall, he always do something else on the phone or in his laptop. So why is he taking so long to reply?
Ha ha of course he's busy from something else, (no offense meant )
Liz I been threw this nice to see guys doing this video some guys lie a lot not adll. Man r bad
Maybe you should take a hint at this point?
@@arnie3631 A week after I made my comment here, I broke up with him. Realization strikes and it hurts big time. But I am okay now.. Almost moved on.
@@bucket9805 It'll take time to move on, but good on you for realizing your worth :)
"If you're not left feeling good then that's your intuition telling you there's something off with this guy" 💯
00:07:39
BEST LINE THAT SUMS UP ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW IF HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU OR NOT.. 😎 Our feelings are correlation to our intuition guiding us something is not right.
I told him that I wanted to meet up again, he told me he was very bussy that he didn't know when he would have time. The innocent me told him 'Don't worry, I am sure we will find time'. The hell. We never talked again, and I WON'T text him ever again. Bye. For ever.
"It will feel good in your gut" says it all. Intuition...
Get back to Basics ladies, just ask your grandma how it's done!
Just take care of yourself and do what you love. Never compromise. ❤️
I’m for sure dying alone lol
No no no just a little more sorting through the guy pile is needed, that's all 😉
Ryan Patrick Haha thanks Ryan!
Me too
Me too.
Same here!
I really love what this guy is talking he totally nails it😂
Also one more I’ve found that you could add to this list are guys who will only text back in the middle of the night. Sort of a weird but surprisingly common phenomenon. It’s like they’re not willing to give you any of their valuable daytime and from my experience it will never go anywhere.
Yup so true like during those prime "booty call" hours 😂NEXT!
Hmmm. Unless he has an overnight job, it's almost like he's doing that because he's banking on you being asleep so that you don't call him or he doesn't feel obligated to text again because he's hoping you won't reply immediately. But yet, he did actually text you so it's another way of stringing you along.
Total booty call...
Julie Janasiewicz true
Another angle is that’s when his wife or girlfriend is sleeping and he has true alone time to text you 🤷♀️
There’s no such thing as a normal relationship, these days, thanks to social media. Dating seems to be a thing of the past.
Which is sad because I'm a traditional millennial.
Also, wtf is “No label relationship” with Gen-Z’s?? I’m a millennial too married for 6 years and I’m thankful I’ve found true love before social media. Thankful that I experienced courting where guys take you on dates and be straight up honest with their feelings. women nowadays need a constant validation in social media and a constant ego stroke for men. Girls be half nude dancing in tiktok only to get men’s attention.. and then what? they still can’t get the love the way they want be love they end up being used or just for a good time and there are very few numbers of young men who actually wanna get married.
@@juliettesleeve6763 So arrogant of you to assume I’m a plain house wife? Are you that one of those women who needs a constant validation form men?? The woman who belittle other women for being a housewife?? You should be ashamed of your attitude mam. I run a milktea business my own and my husband is a Navy who comes home once every 6 months from service. I don’t depend on my husband’s income alone. I struggle on my own too. My marriage isn’t perfect and Bold of you to assume I’m like this and that when you don’t know me haha! It’s funny because you got butthurt on my comment did I offend you indirectly madam?? Lmao.
This vids hurt like hell. 😭💔
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥ ️ ♥ ️ ♥ ️.
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay💯💯💯.
What sapp him..
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Thanks Ryan! This was exactly I needed to see. I get so frustrated when guys send messages that are either immediately sexual or just a minimal amount of words.
Yup hopefully a bit of a time-saver 😄Thanks Jennifer!
Ugh these videos arent as fun when they hit home...still a fan but I need a walk🙃
Ugh sorry Casy. Walks are good, though! 🙂
Casy 🤣🤣😂🤣
LmaoO
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You're so true! I've always been ignoring these signs with all the guys online up until now. Now I met a guy online who asks me questions all the time, wishes me goodnight or goodmorning, sends pictures of his work during work, he wants to meet up etc. Etc. So weird for me to have a guy chase me for once! We have a date this saturday. 🤪
What if you got a guy who does all the above except never initiates plans for a 2nd date. I feel im in a unique situation so general advice doesnt serve me
I'm so glad to hear that😍 someone caring about you, someone sharing his life, someone chasing you Demi😄 so glad as if I were your friend or a sister.
God bless..
@@skipads9790 not anymore
@@DemiFu, really? 😔
@@skipads9790 yes it was false alarm. After 1 date he was like NOPE.
Going to add something here , a guy will act like he’s interested for a while till you sleep with him once he’s got what he wanted out of you he’ll move on to the next and display these signs ! The trick is if you’re going to be single and have one night stands ,make sure you get to the point, so there is no strings attached! And no mixed signals.
Yes that is true, or he notices that you do all the giving loving etc and he feels you took the bait, hook, line and swallowed the whole f*cking fishing rod. Then you are his, he just have to give minimal effort, and the second he feels that you are getting this and are backing out he throw you a bone and most girls fall for this 😔
@Shanice p you are stating a fact....
Yep I have had this happen and it’s annoying.
@@alexandral6997 so hard to know the difference and by the time you do it’s too late.
The awkward moment when he does all of these..
Smaragda G. 😆✌🏽🙌🏽
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A lot of these match up with the guy I talked to for 2.5 months... he ended up being manipulative and narcissistic. Im so glad I found out so soon.
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please pray for me. i have ben in 4 month online messaging/fake love situationship from fb nessenger since dec 2020 and i think the guy is married or living with someone bc he ghosted me for a week last month so i ghosted him but kept looking at his messages, then responded like an idiot bc ive got feelings for this guy but i think hes playing me for a fool. 4-2-21 hes in the military and now i dont trust him. ive ben too honest nd upfront with him about things nd myself so its all so depressing to me
My man is totally the opposite from all of these.
I just met him a week ago on a dating site. We've built connection easily. Everything was so smooth, we are so comfortable with each other that it felt like we are already friends for a long time.
I really hope that he's the one. 🤞
Let us know how it goes, Jade! I've got a great video coming out next week that will help you communicate with him best while we're in quarantine to keep em hooked! 😜
Go gently Jade, a week isn't long. Don't invest more time, energy or availability than he does; very important at least for the first month or two. Wishing you happiness.
@@truerosie You're right. I should take it easy. Thanks for your advice tho.
I really hope he's the one
Deep down we know what it is but we still hold out hopes! I wish women weren’t such emotional beings😭
okay but like this has made me happy bc either my crush is super polite or he likes me
It's only because I'm fifty years old that I'm already aware of these signs, and it never hurts to be reminded.
Thanks for being real with us. This information should be made available in sex ed.
I am 54 and i wasn't aware of ghosting etc, as i did not have phone/social media etc until recently, and i have learnt to not give certain men my number now. I will take back my power and not keep in contact with low value men. I did have to learn the hard way 🌻🌞🙏
Wish I would've watched this a week ago, would've saved me some wasted time on a jerk! Thank you for your videos!
Thank you for sharing a man's perspective. It is a *REAL* eye opener.
So I was hooked with someone who doesn't even interested in me. LOL. Thanks Ryan!
Lol you bet Mikee! 😄
This is literally every single guy I’ve ever met or texted or been on a date with or anything lmao literally been single for almost 6 years lol but this describes every single guy I’ve ever come in contact with sadly. That just means no guy ever likes me 😂
They don't like anyone, not just you. I'm in the same boat
Just read they will! Because pic istuning! :)
Erica Theviking don’t feel bad sis! Same here! 🤷🏽♀️
No it just means they sucked lol
You haven't met the right guy don't give up yet I hope God will bless you with someone that cares and loves you like you deserve to be
This video taught me so much about men. I instantly delete all communications with someone I was interested in
All your points are obvious
Literally 99.9% of men!
Thank you
Sad but true
Yep.
Exactly
Lol this is like the female version of an incel
"Until you meet him, you'll never really know what it is"
Me as an American talking to a guy from Canada during lockdown: **sweating intensifies**
Lmao
After watching this, I just realized none of the men I am talking to are interested in me😢.
It sucks but thanks for sharing.
@@Mwiizy love will come to you when you least expect it. Don't sell yourself short. Love isn't always obvious.
It'll suck a lot less when you start loving yourself. I'll leave you with this: _are you someone you'd be in a relationship with?_
This really helped me when someone was ignoring me sometimes back ....2021am here healed and enjoying my life.
What if he seems very interested when you meet and in reality, but their texting is dry af?
Some people don't like to text that doesn't mean he's not interested in you. ask him about it
It depends on the guy. Some do better meeting in person vs. Texting
Ikr.
@@AstarionWifey hmm I c..
interested? how...with clothes on and off? or is it he like me and has dyslexia (maybe) and texting is not my thing...if it feels good then don't text call, use a phone and speak... 💗🌞🙏
The fact that he know everything about me hit different
I don't understand how anyone can dislike this post. It is totally rich and informative!
So i once texted a guy i kinda like him and he replied with a thank you. 😂that hurt but I deleted his number
Good for you sister...
So hurtful. Glad you moved on/away from that douche.
@@sharonlee7296 yes some men but we get to learn from our own experience
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Loooooolll just found out my boyfriend of 1 year never actually liked me
Found out mine of 5 years is a narcissist so actually doesn't feel real emotions and was a complete act. Finally out of that abuse.
@@moukthikareddy5157 I'm so sorry Hun :(
@@moukthikareddy5157 - I'm about to turn 61 next week. I got married at 21, straight from my parents home into marriage. We didn't know all of these things back then. After 34 YEARS of marriage, he tells me that he got married because that was what he thought he was SUPPOSE to do... So how the F do you process that?!?!? I thought a "good wife" supports her husband ( I took my vows seriously) through thick & thin, good times & bad (there weren't a lot of good times) I found out it's called fake love. So yea, he wanted a divorce (he sent me an E-Mail a week before what would have been our 36 wedding anniversary saying he thought we should call it quits) & after my therapy I realized he is a passive-aggressive sociopath. Thank God I'm out of that mess. Life is now peaceful without the drama queen.
@@susanemde9128 omg I hope you've healed and doing well now? Even these days people aren't really aware of what narcissism is. My friend's don't understand it at all. The depth of abuse we underwent only those who went through it can understand or a therapist who specifically has a knack for these issues. I found out because I was so sick of my self. He made me believe I was wrong every time we had a fight. He would fight over the lamest things ever. He was verbally abusive and would blame it on the withdrawals from his smoking. I would keep putting myself in his shoes and make excuses for his behaviour cause that I what I was taught. To always understand where people are coming from and to be understanding and forgiving. I lost all my self respect in that relatioship. I lost all confidence. I used to be so fit and he used to call me fat in indirect ways and I actually put on weight after that. He would pressurise me to lose weight because he wanted arm candy. He would give me courses on communication, self development, Photoshop, etc he would give allll these things telling me it's for my good. I thought he was trying to help fix all the weakness in me to make me strong. Eventually I started feeling like I'll never be enough to him. He's always giving me lectures and courses for self improvement and all kinds of petty things. Like he wanted to control every aspect of my life. He did. Until he started punishing me with silent treatment for the silliest of things. By some miracle I googled "punishing by withholding affection" and that led me to the world of narcissistic abuse videos. It was so shcokimg. And strange to find out everything was fake. I broke up with a few weeks later because seeing these videos helped me realise I don't want him even if I love him. His fragile ego couldn't handle that I broke up. So he treated me well for a few days before going crazy on me and blocking me everywhere. Like he wanted to the satisfaction of making things horrible for me. And in a way being the one to end it all.
@@susanemde9128 I could write a book on our story. He's a charmer. Great IQ but emotional quotient is 0. But I won't. He'll be happy I wrote a book on him He thinks There's going to be movies about him. I'm not going to give a narcissist the satisfaction that they were important enough to me that their behaviour caused such disruption in me and my life
Thanks Ryan for this. Im in the early stages with a guy and he is acting exactly like those points. I felt it in my gut he wasn't right and you just confirmed it. He sent me a generic Hows your day going Beautiful today and im not going to answer it. Be gone #boring. Thanks again Ryan for the wake up call. I'll sleep better tonight.