“How I Climbed out of Hopelessness” | Oudai Tozan | TEDxUniversityofGlasgow

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  • @ralcesh250
    @ralcesh250 3 місяці тому +5

    “Failure is you taking a break on your journey.” I’m gonna remember that, thank you sir!

  • @danielhemandeng5359
    @danielhemandeng5359 4 роки тому +64

    I am suffering the depression and gradually losing hope toward life but your stories inspired me a lot and helped me realize how grateful I should be towards what I already have now. Thank you

    • @notagain3732
      @notagain3732 2 роки тому +2

      Stay strong and dont give up on your dreams fam

  • @jamesvick1085
    @jamesvick1085 9 місяців тому +3

    An inspiration beyond most! I salute and thank you!

  • @BipinRaviEkka
    @BipinRaviEkka 7 років тому +236

    You gave me a tight slap Bro.....My life is way better & I'm drowned in hopelessness caused by myself...You gave me strength to climb out of it....Thank you.

    • @nickandchrismom
      @nickandchrismom 5 років тому +2

      Beautiful, that you came to this realization. What did you decide to do? What was the outcome?

    • @canabcabdi4845
      @canabcabdi4845 3 роки тому

      @@nickandchrismom m0

    • @desmondsimon6261
      @desmondsimon6261 3 роки тому

      Instablaster.

    • @ApfelFlix
      @ApfelFlix 3 роки тому +3

      @Ekkar I am exactly in the same position! I could have already achieved my dreams but because I was not working hard enough for them I have not. On top of that something really unfortunate happened, making achieving my dream a lot harder. I now nearly drown in hopelessness and regret that I didn’t act earlier. But still my situation is much better than the one the speaker found himself in Syria. If he could make it, I can too!

    • @notagain3732
      @notagain3732 2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing as well

  • @ferasalshwikani4670
    @ferasalshwikani4670 7 років тому +52

    From Damascus,Syria
    From all the students here who are still have been suffering from the same circumstances you had underwent one day,
    god bless you sir we are so proud of people like u to tell our daily story to the world
    and we still waking up every day to achieve our goals and face the world smiling :) regardless of the WAR

  • @bhimkallu
    @bhimkallu 6 років тому +51

    It's so strange how easily we give up and you stand in even worse of a crisis. It's so true we always blame others for our problems instead of taking steps to make life better. Thanks for this lovely talk.

  • @mylilpieceofheaven3622
    @mylilpieceofheaven3622 6 років тому +13

    I felt distressed by failures and now feeling better listening to and writing down your messages even before having my problems solved. Thank you.

    • @nickandchrismom
      @nickandchrismom 5 років тому +1

      This is awesome, write down your goals, write down what is needed to achieve them ( equipment) don't give up, keep going, get UP from hopelessness /depression. The world needs what you have inside of you ( strengths, gifts, etc) . You CAN do it!!

  • @kellymarose4961
    @kellymarose4961 5 років тому +33

    This deserves so many more likes. This guy is awesome. Keep doing what you're doing, Oudai. Thank you for the talk. You're an inspiration!

  • @polyglotornot
    @polyglotornot 4 місяці тому +1

    Funny how similar this hits. Balancing responsibilities with income and language learning. Having to get up at ungodly hours to practice something that you can't practice in your home country. The lack of some basic human necessities like food and consistent shelter. Poverty is nothing like a warzone but in some ways relate to the specific obstacles. Needed this tonight. Also doing it all alone.

  • @jasminejones9058
    @jasminejones9058 5 років тому +28

    What a great man WOW looks like there is hope for the world after all (as long as there is more people like him in this world HOPEFULLY there IS ! )

  • @Risingphoenixx66
    @Risingphoenixx66 5 років тому +14

    My heart goes out to all people in warzônes and i,m sending all my love. Great respect for this man who achieved so much and endured so much. Admire your strenght and wanted to share his story .

  • @ibby421
    @ibby421 2 роки тому +4

    What an amazing person! I lived in Syria for three years. Such a beautiful country with loving people like this man. So sad what has happened there. I'm happy and inspired by his story. I hope Syria returns to safety and peace, but with freedom and justice.

  • @khaliddurrani6432
    @khaliddurrani6432 4 роки тому +8

    ‘’Don’t surrender’’, so incredible, I salute you my friend , I adore your and i envy you.

  • @AHMADSHARAF30
    @AHMADSHARAF30 7 років тому +30

    I am so proud of you oudai, all the best mate

  • @farahsummers1171
    @farahsummers1171 3 роки тому +4

    Wow! I don't know you so this may sound odd but as one human to another I'm proud of you! You are an inspiration truly & I thank you for your powerful words & for sharing your incredible story. Stay well, strong & the beautiful human being you clearly are! Your wife & child are blessed to have you!

  • @goblingunk_
    @goblingunk_ 6 років тому +12

    This is so uplifting. I admire this man and his fortitude.

  • @nagaykei6611
    @nagaykei6611 3 роки тому +2

    you don't need to be in a warzone just to lose hope sometimes it can just be from the bad decisions that you made I'll take these into heart and hopefully get out of the grind

  • @sarfrazshah6604
    @sarfrazshah6604 Рік тому +1

    yes i am feeling motivated ...someone wake me up tomorrow

  • @justiceanderson641
    @justiceanderson641 5 років тому +8

    Your a hero bro, prayers for your family and country ❤

  • @andreiardeleanu650
    @andreiardeleanu650 5 років тому +2

    I don't know if you see this, but - amazing and deeply inspiring talk, Oudai Tozan! Wish you and your people peace & blessings. Thank you

  • @tintunton2330
    @tintunton2330 Рік тому +2

    If you are aimless or experiencing lowness, try reciting "Al Haadi, Al Rahim" 100 times everyday. The creator will guide you in few days InshaAllah.

  • @seanmorrison7415
    @seanmorrison7415 2 роки тому +2

    That bit toward the end... Pulled me up a bit. Thank you for sharing your story with us, I think I'm ready to move a bit farther forward now.

  • @barbaramawinwin5287
    @barbaramawinwin5287 2 роки тому +1

    Everyone deserve the hope and dreams what they want to become. Congratulations for your success . Thank you so much.

  • @jamesvick1085
    @jamesvick1085 9 місяців тому

    This man is an amazing human! I love him!

  • @sab_1055
    @sab_1055 3 роки тому +4

    Around 1915, my tita (grandmother) fled Syria due to war and persecution. Traveling alone and speaking no English, she came to the US. to marry my grandfather. His first wife passed away, leaving him two children. Tita bore him three more. He too died young. Tita provided for five small children through the Depression, loving his children as much as her own until she died in 1985.

  • @tarzana4
    @tarzana4 Рік тому

    Your TedTalk made me cry. Thank you for your message. 🙏

  • @mahtabjahantab7637
    @mahtabjahantab7637 4 роки тому +1

    You are the right hero of your life, that is the most important thing a person can do .. It is so interesting when just a great happiness comes how the long history of hardship disappears just in a moment,

  • @amaralsafwe6385
    @amaralsafwe6385 7 років тому +12

    Proud of you my brother

  • @lindalowe337
    @lindalowe337 3 роки тому

    Know that you are recognized as an important example of enduring strength and determination. So very proud of your achievements!

  • @scott7521
    @scott7521 4 роки тому +3

    Wow, bless this guy. Thank you for helping me gain some perspective; you are a very strong person.

  • @dondressel4802
    @dondressel4802 6 років тому +3

    Thank you for such an amazing talk and trying to make a difference
    Respect from an American

  • @moreadventure3627
    @moreadventure3627 4 роки тому +15

    I just don't know what I want to do with my life. If I knew I would go after it.

    • @alekodimitrov2635
      @alekodimitrov2635 3 роки тому +1

      You don't have to like/love/enjoy what you do initially. Just start something, get good at it and you'll find out whether it is for you.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 3 роки тому

      Same here I don't know my purpose and I feel very lost in life. I hope that you're okay now 🙏🏽

  • @sauravbalodi5178
    @sauravbalodi5178 7 років тому +11

    Really motivating. Hats off to his determination and persistence.

  • @Chef_Steve
    @Chef_Steve 5 років тому +2

    from isiolo,kenya,when you were needed you stepped up to the plate and most definitely your son will understand .....and now i am needed,to serve God in dreaming and climbing despite the circumstances,its to know why we were created and to what purpose e must achieve,asante bro that means thank you

  • @alisaramirez5967
    @alisaramirez5967 4 роки тому +5

    This has really really helped me

  • @mohamedgaber-bn7iy
    @mohamedgaber-bn7iy 6 років тому +5

    God bless you, we are proud of you.

  • @TheLugi00
    @TheLugi00 7 років тому +7

    Great talk Oudai.
    God bless you.

  • @jmzaid8651
    @jmzaid8651 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this talk. It inspire me to keep on climbing even though it felt difficult right now. I will keep on going.

  • @lordali4821
    @lordali4821 5 років тому +1

    تستحق الاحترام
    اسال الله ان يفتح أمامك ابواب النجاح والخير

  • @almadelacruz3198
    @almadelacruz3198 3 роки тому +1

    What an inspirimg ang motivitional talk! I am so grateful to hear this .

  • @nadaalsayel
    @nadaalsayel 7 років тому +10

    and all Syrian proud of you..

  • @notagain3732
    @notagain3732 2 роки тому +3

    It is talks like this one that make us realise how powerful words can be . A few words in a specific order and here we are getting emotional and motivated , after feeling down or weak just listening to him talk about hos own experience we start to feel stronger and more resilient. Thank you so much for sharing this with us

    • @FROZENQUOKKA
      @FROZENQUOKKA 2 роки тому

      Hearing his stories, seeing your comments makes life's beautiful, the beauty of humanity's motivate me. Thank you, him and the billions out there, lets all go forward with beauty and dignity. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @TheIknowStanShow
    @TheIknowStanShow Рік тому

    This was a great and his speech helped to motivate me to move way from feeling hopeless towards purpose.

  • @dewirizki8206
    @dewirizki8206 7 років тому +4

    Tozan, thanks for telling this! It is a good life story that motivated me to see hopes still and reach those firmly!! I am an Indonesian with very complex governmental issues with social welfare.

  • @chitralekhakachhawa2940
    @chitralekhakachhawa2940 5 років тому +4

    This is so beautiful... I am totally inspired... Motivated. Thank You

  • @lupitatheartopus6088
    @lupitatheartopus6088 3 роки тому +1

    Incredible Human Being, Father and Husband ♥️

  • @omarhammami96oh
    @omarhammami96oh 4 роки тому +1

    Thank You Oudai.

  • @AnnaMaria-nu4en
    @AnnaMaria-nu4en 3 роки тому +3

    My heart goes out to the people of Syria. ♥️ Makes me so sad to hear of their plight. I remember seeing a really good video about what a big tourist destination it was and all the riches it had in the museums and art galleries and ancient landscapes. I can't find it now. I'm feeling really down about how lockdowns have changed the world. As someone who lives alone stuck in an apartment in a city doesn't have much money and can't drive its been soul destroying. I was trying to learn to drive then a year no lessons allowed. Now I get one a week but they may lock us down again in September. Govts cab take the joy out of life. Lockdown and all the media about it has stressed me so much I've become physically sick. I worked in a uni once and there was a Syrian guy and he was so sad. Yet so handsome. He was studying for a degree yet every time he travelled he was treated like a criminal and had to get special permission after interview to go to conferences. I hate racial profiling. And I hope Syria will heal once again and we can learn more about this country.

  • @moaminalgalali1785
    @moaminalgalali1785 4 роки тому

    What a speech, I really admire that guy.

  • @galegreyson4196
    @galegreyson4196 4 роки тому +3

    Fantastic. Very inspirational. Good for you, rising from the swamp.

  • @marylau6813
    @marylau6813 5 років тому +3

    Great inspiration! You are a hero. Well done.

  • @khinthu3845
    @khinthu3845 6 років тому +6

    Thx u for sharing ur journey. You are incredible. I needed to hear this 🙏

  • @shizzle1975
    @shizzle1975 5 років тому +3

    Deserves way more views. Bravo

  • @HAlagoz1
    @HAlagoz1 2 роки тому

    WOW!! The most inspiring, moving & heart-felt Ted Talk I have seen. We need more positive role models like you. Thank you!!

  • @meleshadgu3230
    @meleshadgu3230 5 років тому +1

    It is inspiring and hope we all find hope in life. Life is always good no matter how difficult is the situation.

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 5 років тому

      Meles Hadgu
      Can you explain this collect a little further please ?
      Thanks

  • @shahedqureshi1836
    @shahedqureshi1836 Рік тому

    Powerful - thank you 🙏

  • @anapaulawauke2462
    @anapaulawauke2462 Рік тому

    Wow I needed to see this talk.
    🙏👏👏👏👏

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 роки тому +1

    Great great talk . Inspiring . Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @anaisanain7355
    @anaisanain7355 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this. I needed to hear this now.

  • @sarah86847
    @sarah86847 2 роки тому +1

    Wow!!! What an inspiring story

  • @doablefilms9380
    @doablefilms9380 3 роки тому +1

    great story and speech, congratulations

  • @muertito8077
    @muertito8077 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @alialhamad6724
    @alialhamad6724 5 років тому

    تستحق النجاح
    اسال الله ان يفتح أمامك ابواب النجاح والخير ومساعدة الاخرين

  • @thewillsfamilyaccount6486
    @thewillsfamilyaccount6486 2 роки тому

    Brilliant my brother! Just brilliant!! 👍

  • @SonPham-re7ku
    @SonPham-re7ku 3 роки тому

    Best Tedx Talks vid i've ever seen. it motivates me alot

  • @meekainc
    @meekainc 6 років тому +2

    BRAVO!!!!! ✨✨✨ Really needed to hear this again - thank you!

  • @Anurag-ib1qz
    @Anurag-ib1qz 3 роки тому

    Thank you do much mate! Your talk will keep me going on in my journey .....!

  • @victoriay.3004
    @victoriay.3004 7 років тому +4

    Very inspiring story. Thank you

  • @Elegance191
    @Elegance191 3 роки тому

    Thank you..I will try to have hope. Thank you.

  • @phyuphyarsoe6919
    @phyuphyarsoe6919 2 роки тому

    Thank u so much.

  • @purnimaaiyer2949
    @purnimaaiyer2949 5 років тому +1

    An awesome talk.May Almighty God bless and help you always

  • @tasneemahsan523
    @tasneemahsan523 4 роки тому +1

    The best ted talk

  • @USSY405
    @USSY405 6 років тому +3

    Very inspiring. I will return to this comment section in 2020 having acquired my L.L.B. Law degree from the University of Edinburgh.

    • @sathikraj
      @sathikraj 5 років тому

      How did it go ?

    • @aokookello5564
      @aokookello5564 4 роки тому

      I hope it went well. Planning to join Edinburgh in 2021

    • @GavleFiske
      @GavleFiske 3 роки тому

      Did it go well?

  • @floribelsamanthaluceno8880
    @floribelsamanthaluceno8880 3 роки тому

    Very powerful speech and very warm. Thank you very much and may God bless you even more!💖😇🥰🧡🧡🧡

  • @leoz8306
    @leoz8306 6 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! Wishing you incredible success ❤️

  • @malakalhussaini6707
    @malakalhussaini6707 6 років тому +4

    powerful and inspired!

  • @saurabhniley4982
    @saurabhniley4982 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the powerful talk 🙏❤️

  • @user-cl6uj5bn2f
    @user-cl6uj5bn2f 2 роки тому

    Amazing and inspiring❤️🙌 Thank you. This is inspiring me on my depression journey🙏🕊

  • @gianninongmaithem6133
    @gianninongmaithem6133 6 років тому +3

    My Salutation to you Qudai, you are a real great to all your countrymen, God Bless you always

  • @chgofirefighter
    @chgofirefighter 2 роки тому

    Some people have better coping skills than others, depression and hopelessness is one of the worst things any human can experience

  • @djensen5691
    @djensen5691 3 роки тому

    Very inspiring!! Wishing you and your family all the best!

  • @FunnyFungus
    @FunnyFungus 2 роки тому +1

    I live a FAR more privilliged life, and I have honestly no right to be depressed... but...
    As imspirrering and as heart breaking as his story is - he is telling about the importance of hope; the importance of goals.
    But he touches the essence of hopelessness - hopelessness is losing or having lost visions of a better future.
    That is why I think he misses his own point - because he tells about how he achieved his goal.
    I am not self harming, but I can't find any hope or goals in my present day or in my future.
    He says it himself; he had visions for his life, he had goals.
    I have duties, I have a job and a loving family and friends - but I can't find any future for myself. That scares me and that fills me with hopelessness - and it is a vicious circle - the more hopeless I feel, the more I lose any aight of goals and visions for myself - and the more I lose sight of these, the more hopeless I feel...

    • @stateofflow4550
      @stateofflow4550 2 роки тому

      Will validate that feeling. You are not alone. The future needs you. Follow the breadcrumbs of what brings you joy.

    • @EAlyahya
      @EAlyahya 2 роки тому

      I agree with you, I’m currently in this situation as well. And I guess he too was feeling the same. Just no matter what we keep going. I dunno whether this will work or not. Every move is almost against me.

  • @yahchile7681
    @yahchile7681 2 роки тому

    I've been praying for one thing. To not even wake up anymore. It is excruciating. And no matter what anyone thinks, there are some of us that have entirely hopeless situations, it hurts to even breathe. To take that one more breath.

    • @gyplunk2010
      @gyplunk2010 Рік тому

      I hope you are alright.
      I understand.

  • @waltporter7707
    @waltporter7707 5 років тому +1

    Inspiration at it's best

  • @dennisr.levesque2320
    @dennisr.levesque2320 6 років тому +6

    A very brave try. But, I can tell that you realize it's a continuous struggle, that you're not out of the danger zone yet. I don't know what else to say. Good luck.

  • @tritzispoosa
    @tritzispoosa 2 роки тому +2

    I am so sorry for the suffering of the Syrians and many others in the world. Jeremiah 29:11. For I know the plans I have for you to give you a hope and a future (Thus saith the LORD ) There is grave danger if our mind goes into the pit of despair. The hardest climb is the climb out of the dark pit of hopelessness not Mount Everest

  • @kristylynn1329
    @kristylynn1329 4 роки тому

    Thank you! So powerful!

  • @s-onefreshperception8233
    @s-onefreshperception8233 3 роки тому

    That was incredible. Keep climbing

  • @EXPERTNET1983
    @EXPERTNET1983 6 років тому +3

    Really motivating thank you..

  • @zarinsubha1866
    @zarinsubha1866 5 років тому

    So many useful words.. thanks a lot sir👏

  • @pivko93
    @pivko93 2 роки тому

    wow beautiful, thank you

  • @elkammash
    @elkammash 5 років тому

    I am totally inspired with your talk.
    Thank alot

  • @g.ashwinshiva6578
    @g.ashwinshiva6578 Рік тому

    I seen this before iam this now also, no change ,but will try to change now

  • @thesavagesenior2047
    @thesavagesenior2047 3 роки тому

    Needs many more likes!!!

  • @Paulinenjeri
    @Paulinenjeri 5 років тому

    Thank you

  • @satishchoudhar2565
    @satishchoudhar2565 3 роки тому +1

    Nice .

  • @odapty
    @odapty 5 років тому +3

    ❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You are a héroe!!

  • @Tabkhati369
    @Tabkhati369 6 років тому

    proud of you

  • @ryanagar1114
    @ryanagar1114 5 років тому +8

    I cant pick a mountain :(

    • @tagaway6173
      @tagaway6173 4 роки тому +3

      Well meanwhile try on betteing yourself.
      Like right now I can't focus on a mountain, I'm trying to get out of the swamp.
      I know having a mountain will give me a reason to get out of the swamp faster.
      But my mind don't function like that, I need to get out first, then think of a mountain.😑

    • @liangchristina7919
      @liangchristina7919 4 роки тому +1

      Taga Way I get it! I have two mountain

  • @SamP1888
    @SamP1888 4 роки тому

    This is very good. But what if you dont know what your goal or particular mountain is any more, how do you find that goal?