@@evilal20 Slow it down, coach. She's still a woman, and you're on the internet openly admitting to committing domestic violence ... If and anything have your girlfriend scrap her insolent tail lol
Right like my abusive ex he was a mama's boy big time he never does wrong 🙄 I'm starting to realize though there's something mentally wrong with the whole family
@@kendellmoore8367 I'm not admitting to DV lmao. If anything she's abused me for 22 years. This year especially since we lost dad. Girlfriend could probably take her tbh. 🤣
Yeah if I remember correctly, at the end of this season, he is the only one that decided to cut contact with his mom for a while and stand up for his wife.
I went down a rabbit hole looking at what became of Robert and Kristy. They took a paternity test that showed that Robert is the baby's daddy. His mother still didn't believe that the child was her son so the couple went no contact with her. Robert and Kristy are still together.
Emotional incest at its finest. The mom said exactly what she meant, “I’m always going to be with him” & “You chose your wife over me?!”. She’s acting like another woman is taking her husband, NOT like her son is grown & started his own family
Imagine un ironically saying “ I hope we learned that my son’s child is not actually his child, and that his wife was unfaithful. Because etc etc etc….” Wow.
Basically she hopes that her son while go through huge emotional trauma. She doesn’t want the best for her son. She wants him to be back in the emotional incestuous dynamic.
And when she found out that their child was his, of courseeee it did absolutely nothing to change her mind. Luckily (and also unfortunately), it took that to make him put some hard boundaries in place. He chose his family, as he should have.
The other siblings will never understand how Robert feels until they decide to finally leave the nest themselves. Then when she's destroying their families, or attempts at love, they'll either realize how toxic it is and be upset, or be stuck at home forever.
Unfortunately I watched the show and the brother said that all of them have moved out but Robert is the favorite. He was happy when this happened because he had a chance to be the favorite and get all her attention
"Your mother goes first before your wife!" In fact if your mother is just plain toxic and disrespectful, she has no right to say and do whatever she pleases. She expects to be treated with respect when she treats his wife like that.
Same for the wife in situations like this. I had a long term girlfriend and one of her parents were extremely rude constantly attempting to belittle me because of where I came from and him and a few cousins justification for my mistreatment was that "it's just an Italian thing" and it's no Biggie. Went on for too long and she just ignored it. Trust me when I say get yourself a woman who loves you. Who respects you. Who stands up for you. Anything less is not acceptable. Majority of men deserve better than that and I'm glad I had enough self respect to leave and stop trying so hard for a hoe. As Tupac said you can't turn a hoe into a wife 😞✊
As a mother of an adult son and two adult daughters, I have no desire to interfere in any of their relationships UNLESS there is someone being harmed. I do not sleep three to a bed and do not to maintain control over adults. This mother needs to get a hobby and find herself a man of her own. She seems to look at her daughter in law as her lost youth and no man wanting to be with someone who is so miserable and aggressive
Oof wish both my parents had the same mindset you have, I'm a fully grown adult yet I have the same restrictions as a teenager :/ don't get me wrong my parents are wonderful people but they seem a little overbearing at times. And the thought of me wanting my own space seems like an idea that they can't seem to grasp or like.
I recently had my dad ask me, "why don't you or your brother come and see me or call?" It took a lot of willpower not to be rude there. I politely said that if we had more positive stories to reflect on, we may want to talk more. It is so true that parents who treat their children this way do not understand how they are the ones who ultimately did this to themselves.
I wish I had that willpower I called him on the phone and cussed him out. Told him he’s a junkie a deadbeat and even borderline abusive physically bc he was def emotionally abusive so I feel you mate sorry you had to deal with that bullshit too
His mother is my grandmother 🤣 My uncles been married like 20 years, she STILL tells him he should’ve stayed with his ex and that his “new” wife is no good. His ex literally used to beat him. Narcissistic parents are NUTS
Even if those kids weren't biologically his, as long as Robert chooses to be their dad, he's dad. Peggy should be proud she raised such a fine young man, not mad he no longer wants to be in an emotionally incestuous relationship because he sees the damage it causes his family. He's not even the one causing the damage but he sees the impact.
To make that choice he has to know, and there are far too many men (studies point to about 5% of fathers) who are raising other mens children without knowing.
I honestly can't stand mothers-in-law or fathers-in-law who treat their son/daughters-in-law like crap cause they think they're not good enough for their precious child whose, now a grown-ass adult capable of making their own decision
It’s usually not about them being good enough, it’s usually they just want their kid to have a spouse that just rolls over and does whatever he or she wants.
If it’s reasonable you’d sit them down and have a conversation just adult child to parent, not just tell an adult to just end it and listen to family. Like no if it’s reasonable I’ll listen and then I’ll decide how I want to handle it as an adult. It’s so disrespectful of the adult child’s intelligence and judgement. If anything it proves that the parent doesn’t value their child’s opinion…
It’s crazy to marry into choose to marry into all that stress, fighting and chaos. WHY?! There are so many other fish in the sea. Marriage is hard enough if there’s this much drama, when your relationship is young, and love is strong, after a couple years when romance has cooled down, and these battles have been draining you for years. the hopelessness and misery must be overwhelming. Especially seeing other happy families making life fun and loving for each other. I know you can’t help who you love , but if they were killed in an accident today, there would be someone else wonderful to love you, without a parent who’s gonna make your life a living hell. Not worth it.
Damn this react hit home, I had to kick my parents out of my house a few months ago for disrespecting my wife and unborn daughter, have t spoken with them since and my daughter wife and son are finally at peace
I heard of a phrase called "emotional incest" that describes this well, basically the mom had disappointing relationships with men and sees her son as her partner in some sick sense, so she subconsciously treats him as if he is
Why can't these people understand that the love between parents and children and the love between partners/spouses hits different. One doesn't (or shouldn't) replace the other.
Usually parents that had an "incestuous emotional " relationship with their kids dont see the difference because they treated their kids has a second spouse their whole life.
Yep, mom is speaking about this guy like he’s her boyfriend, not her son. It’s creepy. I think she’s fighting so hard and hoping the kid isn’t his so she can swoop in and “comfort” him after he presumably leaves his wife. Women who act like this with their sons need mental health help immediately. It’s very Oedipus and feels wrong.
This makes me grateful for mother in love. Yeah my husband is very close to her but heck so am I! She introduces me as her daughter not husband's wife. My bonus mom is a blessing! I feel bad for this son and his family.
MIL problems don’t exist. It’s always a spouse problem. If they don’t protect their spouse from their toxic abusive parent, they have no business being married. And staying together ‘for the kids’ is literally always a bad thing. You’d be teaching your child that it’s acceptable and normal for their spouse and in-laws to be abuse them.
My daughter looks identical to myself as a kid. She looks NOTHING like my partner. However, when she opens her mouth and talks, you can see my partner shining through.
Im literally working on it rn. She just wont stop and is aggressive, demanding and just a straight up demon. I grew up in a abusive single parent home. I figured she would grow out out of it. shes almost 60!m and still going strong. Im on that thin line of totally disowning her.
@Pentaclown He's the one who pushed for the DNA test because his mom wanted him to have one despite knowing his kid was his. Context is important and he dropped the ball long before this fight.
@@Pentaclown84 tbh it would be good if it was mandatory. That way the dad would never have to worry, they could have the best relationship in the world but one day he just starts worrying about it. I be worrying about random shit all the time
Lol I'd give Robert an ultimatum as soon as his mother asked for a paternity test. So disrespectful. Only person allowed to ask for that is the father.
I'm dealing with something similar to this right now... A bit of a story, I see this video and pray that our families do not reach this level of toxicity. My boyfriend's mom freaked out and accused me of trapping her son because we got pregnant while I was on birth control. She called me up drunk and accusing me. Even now she refused to have us over for the holidays but made it a point to say she invited his gf (who had been cheating on him) instead of his pregnant girlfriend lol it's bad... they are not on speaking terms ATM. She even went as far as to trash talk us to my own mother, that ended with my mom blocking her of course. I don't understand why moms are like this sometimes. I was never disrespectful to her... But when she started arguing with him about me coming with him for Thanksgiving, of course I expressed I was hurt and worried for our soon to be family's future. I don't get this mentality at all... Children are their own people, and eventually will have their own family, why is that so hard to accept?
watching the synopsis at the end of ken saying " if you act like this. and your kids don't want to be around you. THEY LOVE YA but they don't wanna be around your crazy ass." felt this personally for my paternal grandmother.
Jeez, I'm widowed with an only son. He's 6 but I've already introduced him to the reality that when he gets married he and his wife are gonna make their life and I'll still be here to watch grandbabies if they need a break. Sons are supposed to leave their mothers and cleave to their wife. A marriage can't work if they don't.
Thing is I’d be okay with living with my partners mom as long as she isn’t acting like this bc then I have another mom and that will make me happy since my father is an absolute asshole.
I feel badly for his wife because the stench of a bad mother like that is something that'll be there for their entire lives. It isn't like he'll ever forget his mom either, and he will always harbor that guilt. It's absolutely terrible how some mothers use their sons emotionally, they're more like husbands than children to them.
Actually dated a guy with a mom like this. He was NOTHING like the guy in the video, whenever her and I would get into it over something she did he would just tell me to “let it go” and how that’s his mom. It was annoying so I left him. In his eyes, she could do no wrong even after she egged my car, stole money from me and wanted to get some girls to beat me up.
Okay, that should have been the dealbreaker right there: if grandma keeps demanding a paternity test and hoping they aren't her son's kids, the wife should just leave and take her kids with her!
What about the dad? He cares about the kid clearly and defended his wife. That’s sad youd take your kids away from a father who loves his kid and his wife all bc the mom. That would be absolutely evil to do if the father never did anything bad
@@beepboop4016 It's his mother and he's only now taking a stand. Obviously dad's who are good don't deserve to lose their kids, but he should move them to another state if his mother is going to abuse his family. Man up and all that.
So damn creepy! Most people want to have their children find loving partners and not have these weird obsessions over their children or even have this weird incest like relationships
Wow, this was like watching a reenactment of my own past… My mother-in-law has gotten better over the years, but too often everything boils down to being all about her. I hope these two and their child stay strong as a unit. I’m always grateful that my husband stood up for me and made sure his mom understood that he’d always back me.
My bf and I live together, and recently found out I was pregnant. Unexpected, but we’re really happy and excited. We were getting ready to tell his parents, and I was worried they would be upset (I overthink a lot) and I asked my bf “so if they get mad and start saying we’re not ready for this, and call what we did stupid, what are you going to say?” He said “I would tell them to get tf out of my house. They have no right to say that, it’s our life.” It’s nice to know he’s on my side ❤
Both my parents and my in-laws are so incredibly toxic that my wife and I have no contact with them and we keep our children as far away from them as we can. Break the cycle. You don’t have to deal with toxic people just because they’re your family.
Y’all just wait until the results come in because it gets a LOT worse. I feel so bad for his wife and kudos to him for actually standing up for HIS FAMILY.
I know I don't know you but I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and I pray you will soon be able to heal. Look inside your heart and mind for the wonderful memories that you had with that person and I hope that will give you some comfort. Smile along with your tears and know even though that person is no longer with you in the flesh, they are with you in spirit and memories you will always carry with you. Give yourself time to grieve then live your best life as that person would want you to do. Take care.
Good for the guy for actually standing up for his wife and not making excuses for his mom shit behavior. I hope him and his wife life a very happy life together
that guy is so well spoken, mannered, and aware. He speaks directly to her, clearly stating whats going on and where he stands. Its sad his mom is not reciprocating and forcing him into a spot where, for the sake of his family, he'll have to distance from her. Judging by how she acts, distancing from her probably means distancing fro everyone else too which is terrible. parents should never put their kids in these situations yet it happens so often
I've been in this situation before as the wife. It sucks. Besides defending myself I tried to stay out of it, she dug her own hole to lie in. She tried saying our daughter wasn't his because I had male friends, and hung out with them 1 time before I got pregnant, bit I was all twitterpated and literally on the phone with my husband the entire time I was there and we were playing magic the gathering. This woman told anyone who'd listen that she wasn't his kid. Never to my face though but would say it to him all the time. We all got DNA tests done for fun when 2020 happened and wanted to see how our genetics divided out between our daughter. Never received an apology, but it was so satisfying to shut her up. My response always was "if it's not his, it's immaculate conception and I'll convert to Christianity"
Finally one where the guy stood up for his family. I love my parents, I always will. I appreciate everything they have done and do for me. I can't and don't want to imagine a life without them around, but the family you make comes first. And a huge part of growing up I think is realizing that sometimes parents harm you, even though they think they are helping. Boundaries must be set and if they cross it past a limit, you have to make a stand. I know I wouldn't have the shit ton of childhood trauma, if my dad had just stood up for himself and my mom. His family took him for granted way too much and still do. It took too long. His mom basically left me hungry and starving, while having gotten food for herself and her daughter. Then he finally realized. I know it haunts him. And it definitely has affected us all. All I know is that I will make sure that this never happens to my future family (even though I'm quite sure my parents would never ever hurt someone I care about. They have been kind to my ex-girlfriends) Sorry for the rant. But man this show really makes me think of stuff. I'm glad he stood up. I hope more guys do that for their family.
Seeing things like this always solidifies how happy I am my "mother-in-law" was already a deadbeat and a witch long before our relationship and I don't actually have to speak to her.
She has a point, I wouldn’t leave my kid with someone that see them as the only obstacle as the only thing preventing her from getting her son back. I wouldn’t feel like my kid is safe and taken care of properly.
The only way this kind of attitude from the mother is going to stop is if he cuts her off altogether. My mum was the same as her and I had years of abuse, she never liked me having friends and the when I met my husband he was the wrong man etc. we had a broken relationship to the point that she never came to my wedding and even accused him of having a child from a previous relationship it was all a mess. Then I cut her off never spoke to her told her what I needed to tell her that my man will always be in my life and if she can’t accept it then I will choose him over her. Anyway fast forward 4 years (it took that long) then I got a phone call off her apologising for her behaviour and now we’re rebuilding our relationship. This guy in the video needs a sincere apology and until he gets it and she realises what she’s doing to him it’ll never stop. I really hope you continue this series I’d like to see where it goes.
Oh boy. "You're going to have your mom apologize to your wife?" Yes, and if she doesn't, we out ✌🏼 My dad actually had to have a similar conversation with his parents soon after he and my mom got married. He essentially told them that he has his own family to take care of now, and that if they can't respect it, they can choose to not be involved anymore. 45 years later, my parents are still happily married and my Grandma still tolerates my mother😂
Ken gonna be surprised when his kids start off like Mary and develop into him lol. Light hair can darken, and those eyebrows are the strongest in the genetic pool. Bless up both yall
Im so fortunate to have lucked out with my mother in law. Shes one of my best friends, she also exepts my twins from a previous marriage as her own grand babies.
Me and my bf aren't married yet we got a bit for that. But his mom really took me in and when I was going through stuff with my own mom she let me come to her and talk to her about it. And hell, if me and my bf are arguing she always takes my side anyway lmao love her so much. And his whole family always be telling him how much they love me and telling him to never lose me
Knowing how this ended with the child being his and him choosing his wife and child over his mother deciding to go no contact with her just heals me so much going through this type of mother in law relationship with my husband I’m so happy for his wife
I love hearing Dane talk about his kids. For some reason I always thought he was single and living in his mom's basement. I have done a complete turnaround and I bet he's an awesome dad
5:48 in this situation I think of the passage in the Bible that talks about a man leaving his father and mother and becoming one unit with his wife. They become a whole. The honor for the parents is transferred to the spouse. you know even if you aren’t religious there is a lot of wisdom to be found in a variety of religious texts. This dude is doing what so many partners on these shows fail to do. He is honoring his spouse and the commitment he made to her. If his mom was any kind of decent person she would respect that.
Ideally you want the family to get along, but it's so vindicating when a grandparent questions paternity and then it is their son's. Then mom is like, you never get to see your grandchild because of all the drama.
This is so triggering, my mom was the same way. Coming to my house, always blaming my partner for things… it’s always the same and I hope others can find the strength and courage to leave these nasty bully ppl behind.
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That mom reminds me of my boyfriends mom. Except I won’t go around them. They treated me like utter shit and kicked us out for calling the cops after his dad started laying hands on him and spitting in my face. so I blocked them on everything. Now she expects me to unblock her and apologize to get the rest of my stuff that’s been held hostage at their place for months. Luckily my bf is NOTHING like them
Been watching you everyday and I cannot wait for my first birthday subscribed to the channel. I’ve been waitin not so patiently for Jan 3rd to hear you say happy bday! 😂😂
This was a great video! I hope you guys do more of these. For real though, you two bring me so much joy. I'm in the midst of college finals and your videos help to ease so much of my anxiety just because they give me a chance to laugh and smile.
I went through this when my first son was born and it was so bad that I thought about going to Maury or Montel just to stop the drama. My son looked identical to his father btw, you couldn't tell their baby pics apart. This was 2002. When I had my second son they kinda calmed down.
This hits home a crazy amount, to the point where practically staring at my partner and my mums relationship to her... Like damn. Exactly the reason why I can't bring myself to phone or, call her and only really stay in contact with my dad. Just extremely toxic, expects to do all as she pleases with no consequences, has said some of the quite frank harshiest most vile things I've ever heard to my partner... All because my partner moved in with my mums consent... thankgod I don't live there anymore. It was extremely draining and traumatic. It's incredibly eye-opening to see this and realise how blinded I really was...
Nightmare mother-in-law's have to realize that their daughter-in-laws aren't a replacement for them they don't want to be his mommy they want to be his partner
I know you only posted this 5 hours ago but I can't wait for the update!!! I see this a lot in my hometown and never understood why they just can't be happy for him starting a new chapter in his life where he's supporting himself and starting a family. Isn't that what every parent want is for their kids to go and be independent and successful in their own right?
It was good to see the guy stand up for his wife and ask his mother to apologize. Too many are too willing to let their mothers interfere.
@@evilal20 Slow it down, coach. She's still a woman, and you're on the internet openly admitting to committing domestic violence ... If and anything have your girlfriend scrap her insolent tail lol
Right like my abusive ex he was a mama's boy big time he never does wrong 🙄 I'm starting to realize though there's something mentally wrong with the whole family
@@kendellmoore8367 I'm not admitting to DV lmao. If anything she's abused me for 22 years. This year especially since we lost dad. Girlfriend could probably take her tbh. 🤣
He wasn’t serious.
Yeah if I remember correctly, at the end of this season, he is the only one that decided to cut contact with his mom for a while and stand up for his wife.
I went down a rabbit hole looking at what became of Robert and Kristy. They took a paternity test that showed that Robert is the baby's daddy. His mother still didn't believe that the child was her son so the couple went no contact with her. Robert and Kristy are still together.
Good, sometimes that's the only thing you can do, as someone who's gone no contact with quite a few narcissists in the family
@@clownsushi there are some people who you just can’t please like Robert’s mother.
Turned out exactly like it should have.
Imagine how that child is going to feel when he watches a video of his own grandmother trying to prove he isn't part of the family.
I know a family like this and it's so sad and inappropriate, even to a grown child.
*she but the point stands! Smh evil to do that to a child.
It won’t matter when they see it- there won’t be a relationship is my prediction
Money can solve that so easily
@@diamcole Thats the problem the grandma is clearly not gay.
Emotional incest at its finest. The mom said exactly what she meant, “I’m always going to be with him” & “You chose your wife over me?!”. She’s acting like another woman is taking her husband, NOT like her son is grown & started his own family
That’s the word, it’s my mother and husband’s mother and I’m glad we live far away 😅
Emotional incest? Wow, that’s a new term.
Yeah it is recognised in psychology. When parents treat their children almost as replacement partners .
@@Infernalhypernova no it's not 🙂
@@clownsushi It is for me
Imagine un ironically saying “ I hope we learned that my son’s child is not actually his child, and that his wife was unfaithful. Because etc etc etc….” Wow.
Basically she hopes that her son while go through huge emotional trauma. She doesn’t want the best for her son. She wants him to be back in the emotional incestuous dynamic.
@@beepboop7090 yep exactly helicopter parenting
@@beepboop7090 He needs to buck up and tell her to get to steppin. I had to with my mom.
And when she found out that their child was his, of courseeee it did absolutely nothing to change her mind. Luckily (and also unfortunately), it took that to make him put some hard boundaries in place. He chose his family, as he should have.
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The other siblings will never understand how Robert feels until they decide to finally leave the nest themselves. Then when she's destroying their families, or attempts at love, they'll either realize how toxic it is and be upset, or be stuck at home forever.
That, or one of them will marry someone that the mom likes out of spite, that she will use to compare to this wife or any other in-laws.
Unfortunately I watched the show and the brother said that all of them have moved out but Robert is the favorite. He was happy when this happened because he had a chance to be the favorite and get all her attention
@@XxraexX1000 that's really disappointing :(
"Your mother goes first before your wife!"
In fact if your mother is just plain toxic and disrespectful, she has no right to say and do whatever she pleases. She expects to be treated with respect when she treats his wife like that.
My husband and my MIL are like, “no, your wife comes first”
Such toxic behaviour from the mom
they’re usually the type to claim they’re good christians too even though the bible says that once a man gets married his wife is his priority 🤣
It's creepy, why do these women want to marry their sons??
@@oren1305 rigghht
@@oren1305 They've shaped them into the man they want.
A man should defend his wife from everyone including his mom
LOL!
Not all the time that is ridiculously naïve
@@godwintalking4724 where did I say all the time I just said who he should defend his wife from.
Same for the wife in situations like this. I had a long term girlfriend and one of her parents were extremely rude constantly attempting to belittle me because of where I came from and him and a few cousins justification for my mistreatment was that "it's just an Italian thing" and it's no Biggie. Went on for too long and she just ignored it.
Trust me when I say get yourself a woman who loves you. Who respects you. Who stands up for you. Anything less is not acceptable. Majority of men deserve better than that and I'm glad I had enough self respect to leave and stop trying so hard for a hoe.
As Tupac said you can't turn a hoe into a wife 😞✊
Depends.
As a mother of an adult son and two adult daughters, I have no desire to interfere in any of their relationships UNLESS there is someone being harmed. I do not sleep three to a bed and do not to maintain control over adults.
This mother needs to get a hobby and find herself a man of her own. She seems to look at her daughter in law as her lost youth and no man wanting to be with someone who is so miserable and aggressive
Oof wish both my parents had the same mindset you have, I'm a fully grown adult yet I have the same restrictions as a teenager :/ don't get me wrong my parents are wonderful people but they seem a little overbearing at times. And the thought of me wanting my own space seems like an idea that they can't seem to grasp or like.
“I’m not the bad person here.”
Because she always makes herself the victim.
she’s a narcissist and using reactive abuse. hit home too close 🫠
She clearly doesn’t care about her sons happiness, just hers. You are spot on.
Most narcissists do
I recently had my dad ask me, "why don't you or your brother come and see me or call?" It took a lot of willpower not to be rude there. I politely said that if we had more positive stories to reflect on, we may want to talk more. It is so true that parents who treat their children this way do not understand how they are the ones who ultimately did this to themselves.
I wish I had that willpower I called him on the phone and cussed him out. Told him he’s a junkie a deadbeat and even borderline abusive physically bc he was def emotionally abusive so I feel you mate sorry you had to deal with that bullshit too
His mother is my grandmother 🤣
My uncles been married like 20 years, she STILL tells him he should’ve stayed with his ex and that his “new” wife is no good. His ex literally used to beat him.
Narcissistic parents are NUTS
That’s awful!! It’s crazy your uncle can stand to be around her and hear her say that it’s so nasty
Even if those kids weren't biologically his, as long as Robert chooses to be their dad, he's dad.
Peggy should be proud she raised such a fine young man, not mad he no longer wants to be in an emotionally incestuous relationship because he sees the damage it causes his family. He's not even the one causing the damage but he sees the impact.
Exactly right.
To make that choice he has to know, and there are far too many men (studies point to about 5% of fathers) who are raising other mens children without knowing.
Her not believing the test is real when it comes back is unreal
Ignorance at its finest
@@Thisguy2532 It's not ignorance, it's delusion
She wants to be right so bad that she straight up rejects reality
Narcissism
I honestly can't stand mothers-in-law or fathers-in-law who treat their son/daughters-in-law like crap cause they think they're not good enough for their precious child whose, now a grown-ass adult capable of making their own decision
It’s usually not about them being good enough, it’s usually they just want their kid to have a spouse that just rolls over and does whatever he or she wants.
If it’s reasonable you’d sit them down and have a conversation just adult child to parent, not just tell an adult to just end it and listen to family. Like no if it’s reasonable I’ll listen and then I’ll decide how I want to handle it as an adult. It’s so disrespectful of the adult child’s intelligence and judgement. If anything it proves that the parent doesn’t value their child’s opinion…
I always sided with my son's two wives, lol
It’s crazy to marry into choose to marry into all that stress, fighting and chaos. WHY?! There are so many other fish in the sea. Marriage is hard enough if there’s this much drama, when your relationship is young, and love is strong, after a couple years when romance has cooled down, and these battles have been draining you for years. the hopelessness and misery must be overwhelming. Especially seeing other happy families making life fun and loving for each other.
I know you can’t help who you love , but if they were killed in an accident today, there would be someone else wonderful to love you, without a parent who’s gonna make your life a living hell. Not worth it.
Damn this react hit home, I had to kick my parents out of my house a few months ago for disrespecting my wife and unborn daughter, have t spoken with them since and my daughter wife and son are finally at peace
Good for you
You did the best thing ❤
I wish my husband was like you. Good for you protecting them.
Smart move! You’ve built a family with your wife and you’ve got to protect that and yourself. Wishing you the best💜💜💜
I heard of a phrase called "emotional incest" that describes this well, basically the mom had disappointing relationships with men and sees her son as her partner in some sick sense, so she subconsciously treats him as if he is
That’s my husband’s mom and I’m im so glad we live far away
At least there's finally someone standing up for the wife
Why can't these people understand that the love between parents and children and the love between partners/spouses hits different. One doesn't (or shouldn't) replace the other.
Usually parents that had an "incestuous emotional " relationship with their kids dont see the difference because they treated their kids has a second spouse their whole life.
Yep, mom is speaking about this guy like he’s her boyfriend, not her son. It’s creepy. I think she’s fighting so hard and hoping the kid isn’t his so she can swoop in and “comfort” him after he presumably leaves his wife. Women who act like this with their sons need mental health help immediately. It’s very Oedipus and feels wrong.
This makes me grateful for mother in love. Yeah my husband is very close to her but heck so am I! She introduces me as her daughter not husband's wife. My bonus mom is a blessing! I feel bad for this son and his family.
I have that relationship with mine as well and I absolutely love it 😀 💕
I love that! 😻
I wish I had that
Omg I love the term "bonus mom" it's so cute and endearing vs just calling her an in-law
I love how the guy said nothing when his mom was talking shit but as soon as the wife starts defending herself he's like shhhhhhhhhh
I was so surprised when he eventually cut his mom off and started telling her off. His poor wife suffered for too long
he knows how crazy his mom is
MIL problems don’t exist. It’s always a spouse problem. If they don’t protect their spouse from their toxic abusive parent, they have no business being married. And staying together ‘for the kids’ is literally always a bad thing. You’d be teaching your child that it’s acceptable and normal for their spouse and in-laws to be abuse them.
Because he’s trash
@@mrs.h2725 he litterally left and told the mom to f off so
Moms that act like that give me such weird bates motel vibes so bad.
Definitely how Ed Gein got messed up! Overbearing and possessive mother.
My daughter looks identical to myself as a kid. She looks NOTHING like my partner. However, when she opens her mouth and talks, you can see my partner shining through.
Lmao 😂
Lmaooo !!
Best way to deal with a crazy mom? Move to the other side of the world and MAYBE talk with her twice a month. Worked for me 👍
Im literally working on it rn. She just wont stop and is aggressive, demanding and just a straight up demon. I grew up in a abusive single parent home. I figured she would grow out out of it. shes almost 60!m and still going strong. Im on that thin line of totally disowning her.
Same lol
Twice a month or even just once a month is really generous for parents like that omg XD Id say maybe twice a year, if even that
@@Amandavmmm You took the words out of my mouth. Word-for-word!
More like twice a year if she is crazy crazy like this lady
This mom is just horrifyingly mean to his wife and 99% is on the son for allowing his mom to drive a bulldozer into their marriage
allowing? he told her he's choosing his wife
@Pentaclown He's the one who pushed for the DNA test because his mom wanted him to have one despite knowing his kid was his.
Context is important and he dropped the ball long before this fight.
@@nm2358 a dna test should be made mandatory for every birth. no man should have to raise someone else's child without knowing beforehand
Maybe...i don't think we know that from the clip tho
@@Pentaclown84 tbh it would be good if it was mandatory. That way the dad would never have to worry, they could have the best relationship in the world but one day he just starts worrying about it. I be worrying about random shit all the time
I feel like the mom is stuck in the baby phase, and it’s crazy that the family is on the moms side fr 😂
that's what u get when people give family special treatment and perks over other people. justice can't happen in that skewed way of thinking
Lol I'd give Robert an ultimatum as soon as his mother asked for a paternity test. So disrespectful. Only person allowed to ask for that is the father.
I'm dealing with something similar to this right now... A bit of a story, I see this video and pray that our families do not reach this level of toxicity. My boyfriend's mom freaked out and accused me of trapping her son because we got pregnant while I was on birth control. She called me up drunk and accusing me. Even now she refused to have us over for the holidays but made it a point to say she invited his gf (who had been cheating on him) instead of his pregnant girlfriend lol it's bad... they are not on speaking terms ATM. She even went as far as to trash talk us to my own mother, that ended with my mom blocking her of course. I don't understand why moms are like this sometimes. I was never disrespectful to her... But when she started arguing with him about me coming with him for Thanksgiving, of course I expressed I was hurt and worried for our soon to be family's future. I don't get this mentality at all... Children are their own people, and eventually will have their own family, why is that so hard to accept?
watching the synopsis at the end of ken saying " if you act like this. and your kids don't want to be around you. THEY LOVE YA but they don't wanna be around your crazy ass." felt this personally for my paternal grandmother.
Jeez, I'm widowed with an only son. He's 6 but I've already introduced him to the reality that when he gets married he and his wife are gonna make their life and I'll still be here to watch grandbabies if they need a break. Sons are supposed to leave their mothers and cleave to their wife. A marriage can't work if they don't.
Thing is I’d be okay with living with my partners mom as long as she isn’t acting like this bc then I have another mom and that will make me happy since my father is an absolute asshole.
It's his brother that's jealous because he's not the favorite child haha
nah wait till he gets a gf :D he prolly doesn't realise yet how toxic it is.
@@crackheadlizard8354 that's so sad, but in this day and age, sadly so true.
Why the mom act like a jealous girl best friend that never told him how she felt and wants him and thinks he wants her
That's your son, not your BF. Mom needs therapy
I feel badly for his wife because the stench of a bad mother like that is something that'll be there for their entire lives. It isn't like he'll ever forget his mom either, and he will always harbor that guilt. It's absolutely terrible how some mothers use their sons emotionally, they're more like husbands than children to them.
Actually dated a guy with a mom like this. He was NOTHING like the guy in the video, whenever her and I would get into it over something she did he would just tell me to “let it go” and how that’s his mom. It was annoying so I left him. In his eyes, she could do no wrong even after she egged my car, stole money from me and wanted to get some girls to beat me up.
Okay, that should have been the dealbreaker right there: if grandma keeps demanding a paternity test and hoping they aren't her son's kids, the wife should just leave and take her kids with her!
What about the dad? He cares about the kid clearly and defended his wife. That’s sad youd take your kids away from a father who loves his kid and his wife all bc the mom. That would be absolutely evil to do if the father never did anything bad
@@beepboop4016 I'm saying only if the father didn't back his wife up and draw firm boundaries with his mother, then she should leave.
This is unrelated to the comment but I love your pfp
@@beepboop4016 It's his mother and he's only now taking a stand. Obviously dad's who are good don't deserve to lose their kids, but he should move them to another state if his mother is going to abuse his family. Man up and all that.
If my mother ever did this to my partner, I’d tell her I love her and then whoop her ass lmaoo
Understandable
So damn creepy! Most people want to have their children find loving partners and not have these weird obsessions over their children or even have this weird incest like relationships
Wow, this was like watching a reenactment of my own past… My mother-in-law has gotten better over the years, but too often everything boils down to being all about her. I hope these two and their child stay strong as a unit. I’m always grateful that my husband stood up for me and made sure his mom understood that he’d always back me.
My bf and I live together, and recently found out I was pregnant. Unexpected, but we’re really happy and excited. We were getting ready to tell his parents, and I was worried they would be upset (I overthink a lot) and I asked my bf “so if they get mad and start saying we’re not ready for this, and call what we did stupid, what are you going to say?” He said “I would tell them to get tf out of my house. They have no right to say that, it’s our life.”
It’s nice to know he’s on my side ❤
Both my parents and my in-laws are so incredibly toxic that my wife and I have no contact with them and we keep our children as far away from them as we can. Break the cycle. You don’t have to deal with toxic people just because they’re your family.
Y’all just wait until the results come in because it gets a LOT worse. I feel so bad for his wife and kudos to him for actually standing up for HIS FAMILY.
Right? I never yelled at my tv so much as I did with these two. So toxic.
Love your videos guys. I've been down due to the loss of a loved one. And you guys manage to make me smile and laugh.
Thanks for laughs ❤
I know I don't know you but I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and I pray you will soon be able to heal. Look inside your heart and mind for the wonderful memories that you had with that person and I hope that will give you some comfort. Smile along with your tears and know even though that person is no longer with you in the flesh, they are with you in spirit and memories you will always carry with you. Give yourself time to grieve then live your best life as that person would want you to do. Take care.
I've got 2 boys. Both married to wonderful girls. I didn't lose my boys to their wives I gained a couple of daughters and I couldn't be happier.
You sound like an amazing mother in law your perspective is so beautiful and selfless.
Good for the guy for actually standing up for his wife and not making excuses for his mom shit behavior. I hope him and his wife life a very happy life together
What makes Kristy’s “but could you though?” comment even better is knowing that Rob and Kristy are BOTH MMA fighters 😂
im sooooooo glad my wife and my parents have a great relationship i cant even imagine being in this situation
that guy is so well spoken, mannered, and aware. He speaks directly to her, clearly stating whats going on and where he stands. Its sad his mom is not reciprocating and forcing him into a spot where, for the sake of his family, he'll have to distance from her. Judging by how she acts, distancing from her probably means distancing fro everyone else too which is terrible. parents should never put their kids in these situations yet it happens so often
Morning coffee with Ken and Dane, that's how you start the day off right! 🤘😁
I love the guy just eating the sandwich 😂😂😂
I've been in this situation before as the wife. It sucks. Besides defending myself I tried to stay out of it, she dug her own hole to lie in. She tried saying our daughter wasn't his because I had male friends, and hung out with them 1 time before I got pregnant, bit I was all twitterpated and literally on the phone with my husband the entire time I was there and we were playing magic the gathering. This woman told anyone who'd listen that she wasn't his kid. Never to my face though but would say it to him all the time. We all got DNA tests done for fun when 2020 happened and wanted to see how our genetics divided out between our daughter. Never received an apology, but it was so satisfying to shut her up. My response always was "if it's not his, it's immaculate conception and I'll convert to Christianity"
Finally one where the guy stood up for his family. I love my parents, I always will. I appreciate everything they have done and do for me. I can't and don't want to imagine a life without them around, but the family you make comes first. And a huge part of growing up I think is realizing that sometimes parents harm you, even though they think they are helping. Boundaries must be set and if they cross it past a limit, you have to make a stand. I know I wouldn't have the shit ton of childhood trauma, if my dad had just stood up for himself and my mom. His family took him for granted way too much and still do. It took too long. His mom basically left me hungry and starving, while having gotten food for herself and her daughter. Then he finally realized.
I know it haunts him. And it definitely has affected us all. All I know is that I will make sure that this never happens to my future family (even though I'm quite sure my parents would never ever hurt someone I care about. They have been kind to my ex-girlfriends)
Sorry for the rant. But man this show really makes me think of stuff. I'm glad he stood up. I hope more guys do that for their family.
Seeing things like this always solidifies how happy I am my "mother-in-law" was already a deadbeat and a witch long before our relationship and I don't actually have to speak to her.
I'm glad that my lipstick color defines my craziness. I love it. 😂😂
She has a point, I wouldn’t leave my kid with someone that see them as the only obstacle as the only thing preventing her from getting her son back. I wouldn’t feel like my kid is safe and taken care of properly.
The only way this kind of attitude from the mother is going to stop is if he cuts her off altogether. My mum was the same as her and I had years of abuse, she never liked me having friends and the when I met my husband he was the wrong man etc. we had a broken relationship to the point that she never came to my wedding and even accused him of having a child from a previous relationship it was all a mess. Then I cut her off never spoke to her told her what I needed to tell her that my man will always be in my life and if she can’t accept it then I will choose him over her. Anyway fast forward 4 years (it took that long) then I got a phone call off her apologising for her behaviour and now we’re rebuilding our relationship. This guy in the video needs a sincere apology and until he gets it and she realises what she’s doing to him it’ll never stop. I really hope you continue this series I’d like to see where it goes.
Robert is AWESOME for standing up for his wife like that. Every woman wants a Robert ❤
"Regardless" I'm dying 🤣🤣🤣
Whoo! This started at level 100 with the paternity test debacle and continued to escalate 😂. What a weird parent.
Oh boy. "You're going to have your mom apologize to your wife?" Yes, and if she doesn't, we out ✌🏼 My dad actually had to have a similar conversation with his parents soon after he and my mom got married. He essentially told them that he has his own family to take care of now, and that if they can't respect it, they can choose to not be involved anymore. 45 years later, my parents are still happily married and my Grandma still tolerates my mother😂
Facts!!! Currently setting boundaries with my mother. 😢
This is literally how my mom is with me & my boyfriend & its so hard & truly draining how childish she acts towards our relationship
Ken gonna be surprised when his kids start off like Mary and develop into him lol. Light hair can darken, and those eyebrows are the strongest in the genetic pool. Bless up both yall
Dane saying “regardless” friggin killed me 😂 if I wasn’t subscribed already that end of the video would have made me sub 😂😂
This couple gets so good! Please keep watching it!
Im so fortunate to have lucked out with my mother in law. Shes one of my best friends, she also exepts my twins from a previous marriage as her own grand babies.
Me and my bf aren't married yet we got a bit for that. But his mom really took me in and when I was going through stuff with my own mom she let me come to her and talk to her about it. And hell, if me and my bf are arguing she always takes my side anyway lmao love her so much. And his whole family always be telling him how much they love me and telling him to never lose me
One of my favourite quotes is "The villain is the hero in his own story"
Knowing how this ended with the child being his and him choosing his wife and child over his mother deciding to go no contact with her just heals me so much going through this type of mother in law relationship with my husband I’m so happy for his wife
Ken: if you wear dark red lipstick your crazy.
Me:👁👄👁
I really enjoyed watching that! I felt nice to laugh after shoveling literal FEET OF SNOW off my deck after these winter storms.
Ken didn’t have to call me crazy like that
Ken, of course the kiddos look like Mary. She is SuperMaryFace after all 🤣
3:46 My man doesnt need no Netflix. He got his Live TLC show in his Kitchen.
Good morning Ken and Buff! Hope you and the family are well today! 😊
I love hearing Dane talk about his kids. For some reason I always thought he was single and living in his mom's basement. I have done a complete turnaround and I bet he's an awesome dad
Nervously glances at my drawer of 15+ red lipsticks
5:48 in this situation I think of the passage in the Bible that talks about a man leaving his father and mother and becoming one unit with his wife. They become a whole. The honor for the parents is transferred to the spouse. you know even if you aren’t religious there is a lot of wisdom to be found in a variety of religious texts. This dude is doing what so many partners on these shows fail to do. He is honoring his spouse and the commitment he made to her. If his mom was any kind of decent person she would respect that.
Ideally you want the family to get along, but it's so vindicating when a grandparent questions paternity and then it is their son's. Then mom is like, you never get to see your grandchild because of all the drama.
This is so triggering, my mom was the same way. Coming to my house, always blaming my partner for things… it’s always the same and I hope others can find the strength and courage to leave these nasty bully ppl behind.
Ken pointing at the screen and calling me crazy kind of hurt my feelings. I shall now ask for my grandson's dna results and insult my son's wife, brb.
I really want to start wearing red lipstick one of these days… I was like “No… I wanna wear red lipstick” after Ken said that.
@@Sparkle.Glider red lipstick is gorgeous so you should ! And there is a shade for everyone, I love dark reds personally but it is all about trying and finding what works for you
Love you guys, thank you for cheering us up during such dark times
That mom reminds me of my boyfriends mom. Except I won’t go around them. They treated me like utter shit and kicked us out for calling the cops after his dad started laying hands on him and spitting in my face. so I blocked them on everything. Now she expects me to unblock her and apologize to get the rest of my stuff that’s been held hostage at their place for months. Luckily my bf is NOTHING like them
Jeez
Ain’t that theft? Is calling the cops an option?
You can have a deputy escort you to their house to get your stuff. Doubtful they'll do something in front of a cop.
Just because you're his mom doesn't make you right
I wanna see more of this lol
Ken and Dom are too funny with these
Scott's edit with the hand smack down 🤣 Amazing!!
I feel like the only option they have is to move far away from the mom, honestly parents like this don't respect anyone but expect all the respect...
This guy needs to get a damn restraining order against his mother. The poor wife, she shouldn't have to deal with that.
Been watching you everyday and I cannot wait for my first birthday subscribed to the channel. I’ve been waitin not so patiently for Jan 3rd to hear you say happy bday! 😂😂
This was a great video! I hope you guys do more of these. For real though, you two bring me so much joy. I'm in the midst of college finals and your videos help to ease so much of my anxiety just because they give me a chance to laugh and smile.
gl w/ school!
I went through this when my first son was born and it was so bad that I thought about going to Maury or Montel just to stop the drama. My son looked identical to his father btw, you couldn't tell their baby pics apart. This was 2002. When I had my second son they kinda calmed down.
My MIL and husband are both very wonderful! Even my MIL says to my husband, “Your wife comes first, she’s your family” I’m so grateful for her
My dude eating in the back is my spirit animal… Cannoli for life y’all..😂😂😂
The test comes back that it is his!!! The mom is still a you know what lol. Lots of love from Michigan ❤️
This hits home a crazy amount, to the point where practically staring at my partner and my mums relationship to her... Like damn. Exactly the reason why I can't bring myself to phone or, call her and only really stay in contact with my dad. Just extremely toxic, expects to do all as she pleases with no consequences, has said some of the quite frank harshiest most vile things I've ever heard to my partner... All because my partner moved in with my mums consent... thankgod I don't live there anymore. It was extremely draining and traumatic. It's incredibly eye-opening to see this and realise how blinded I really was...
My child would never be near someone like that
"okay but what if?!" got me on the floor laughing
Watching this today on my birthday just to hear ken say happy birthday ! 🥰
Nightmare mother-in-law's have to realize that their daughter-in-laws aren't a replacement for them they don't want to be his mommy they want to be his partner
I know you only posted this 5 hours ago but I can't wait for the update!!! I see this a lot in my hometown and never understood why they just can't be happy for him starting a new chapter in his life where he's supporting himself and starting a family. Isn't that what every parent want is for their kids to go and be independent and successful in their own right?