Worst Husband FINALLY Notices His Wife Is Miserable (She Blames Herself)
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Reacting to TLC Seeking Sister Wife where Garrick and Roberta are planning their wedding and Danielle finally starts to realize that she's miserable and unhappy about all of it. Of course she blames herself instead of the worst husband ever.
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So how do you guys think this all ends?
Well I'm hoping she comes to her senses and leave the bastard
She's definitely gonna leave him. (Hopefully)
With Garrick getting another wife to replace large wife
Hopefully with Danielle living her best life
At the bottom of the ocean... 😂🤷🏻♀️
Gonna arrange a boxing match between Buff and Garrick. Who's buying tickets?
Hell yeah, count me in
Garrets head has seemed to fly off with one upper cut.
the horror
Everyone cheering as a 12 year old catches the stray head.
What a day
let's goooo
100%
Yes, how much? 😆
Buff: "I kinda hope he ends up at the bottom of the ocean in the series"
_Everybody liked that_
Don't let this distract you from the fact that I get bullied because my classmates think my videos are the worst. Please don't agree, dear j
@@AxxLAfriku I agree with them. Now stop begging for people to watch your content. That’s why it’s not that great. 💞
@@AxxLAfriku do you have them on CDs?
Yepppp
Same
Years of gaslighting and emotional abuse made Danielle revolve her world around Garrick that she doesn't seem to understand how messed up this arrangement is. It's just so sad. :(
Also, she was probably raised to think she should obey him, no matter what. And if there was a problem, SHE must have caused it.
@@NoOneReally111 Gaslighting for real.
I hate Garrick sooo much!
I've convinced myself that it is all fake 🥺
Oh she understands- 100% lol. She just let this idiot keep pushing boundaries
I am so uncomfortable with them calling eachother "husband" and "sister".....dude is starting a cult
Mormons, Mennonites,Muslims and Amish all officially recognised religions with “sister wives”
@@RoarofdalioN Privately funded cult, then?
I dont want him calling her large wife but at least first wife or wife
@@InversifyA at that point, he might as well call them best and worst wife.
‘During her interview, Garrick heard Danielle and got worried” sounds a whooole lot like “Garrick eavesdrops on her interviews to make sure she doesn’t say anything he doesn’t approve of on camera”.
He’s an absolute control freak, typical of narcissists. Can’t even let her be alone for an interview because it’s a risk.
Just thinking the exact same thing!!
Wanna bet that he’s seen the show and the backlash and that’s why he is pretending to care. So obvious by the way he is grinning while Danielle cries that he doesn’t care at all.
He's a sociopath
I get vibes he's trying to start a cult harem but is struggling with just 2 women. What a creep!
I seriously don't understand how TLC keeps getting away with paying for and highlighting these abusive relationships on their shows. It's gotten REALLY bad
i cannot stand how he refers to them as wife and sister and himself as husband. this bothers me so heavily this is actually a fetish for him and danielle really just loves him WHY shes GREAT please get out of this danielle!!!
No in polygamy relationships the wives are called sister wives but this relationship is nothing like a typical polygamy relationship.
@@Naturefan354 its like polygamy without the polygamy somehow
@@Naturefan354 Sister wives would be if the wives have no real marriage to each other. Technically in this situation they seem to want it to be that the women would be married to each other. So wouldn't be sister wives as much. Just from my understanding if this episode.
@@lilrobin8769 I'm just explaining why he calls her "sister" because it's derived from "sister wife" which is a real term in poly relationships.
@@Naturefan354 I think it just feels more like a fetish to use those terms over their actual names consistently. Calling them just "wife" and "sister" all of the time seems dehumanizing.
My best guess is this guy doesn’t have the guts or decency to break up with Danielle and will push her to her limit until it becomes “her decision” to leave.
They should both leave him he’s disgusting.
It already is her decision to leave but she willingly stays like a fool.
Seems to be going that way yea...
Worst is she blames herself even.
@@Naturefan354 She is clearly being abused. Hes literally used her religion against her, who knows what hed say to her when the cameras are off
Ugh I know the type. Frustrating af no balls men smh
Danielle, those aren't insecurities, those are RED FLAGS.
(Purity culture has entered the chat)
@@k-chan4842 What is that?
@@k-chan4842 what are you on about??
@@JoJo-zx9sc ...Do you need an explanation on purity culture in general, or why her self-destructive need to please her husband is rooted in purity culture?
@@k-chan4842 I don’t know if you’re trying to be patronising because I didn’t understand your comment or if you’re being genuinely helpful, but I’ll give u the benefit of the doubt as I prefer to see the good in people.
No, I have never heard the term “purity culture”, so if you could explain what it means that would be great…
Garrick makes Big Ed look like almost halfway decent human being.
Facts
And that's a tough job
@@UrbanwarriorTheSOV true
@@Darkshade_01 yep
facts
She doesn't realize it yet, but him divorcing her is the best thing that could have happened. Now she just has to gain the courage to walk away from this turd.
Its takes alot of courage to do what she's doing. The girl needs to grow self esteem and self love. Also stop the denial about her life with him not going as planned
Yeah, they don't have to go through an ugly divorce because this is ugly enough already. She needs to do what will make her happy and this dude is not it. This would be terrible for the kids too. It wouldn't be a very happy household, ya know?
Phaedra Remington I don’t even want to know how they explained this to their sons. It’s tragic. They’re probably pre-teens so I’m sure they’ve snuck online and watched this trainwreck somewhere.
I agree. The divorce is already done. She can walk. She HAS to, this is eating her alive. She is like a shell of a person.
As a Turd am offended you compared this disease to a piece of shitt
Danielle 100% gives off the vibes of a religious girl who got married and Garrick is the only man she's ever slept with, so on top of being religious, there's also the aspect of virginity so she feels extra attached to him and lets him get away with whatever he wants because she wants to keep him in her life. Takes one to know one lol, definitely been there tbh.
That makes a lot of sense tbh damn
Agree
Christianity facilitates abuse on so many levels. Yuck.
@@tracymoreno5994 its not the religion but the people. these people will use anything to manipulate.
@@tracymoreno5994 do you really think christians approve of this kind of thing? stop being so narrow minded, it is obvious that it is the people being plain dumbasses using religion as an excuse to take advantage of ppl
I seriously feel like Garrick just used religion to manipulate Danielle to let him bed other women
So... religion, in general? It’s a tool for weak men to hold sway over people
u THINK?
Ditto
@@mimipardinas7071 😂🤣😂🤣
@@24fretsoffury well said
He is the type of guy to get remarried and then get mad when old wife moves on
Oh totally 💯
Welp thats the whole drama about XD
Absolutely
That’s called narcissistic
Now that's a bit harsh, she's not old wife... she's large wife xD
My soul just bleeds for Danielle. She needs to just pack up the kids and go to her family. They will back her up.
Even Gareth's family disowned him. I don't why Danielle doesn't do that as well. Love is sure hazardous.
I feel like she screwed herself so bad. She's divorced now, they didn't agree on any splitting up of any property, money or assets. No alimony or child support. He's a manipulating and controlling jerk, so I bet she doesn't work and is just stuck at home raising the kids, while he (obviously) does whatever he wants and controls the checkbook as well. I'm sure she only has their shared bank account, no "rainy day" funds or own checkbook. So she's probably stuck in more ways than one. She obviously still loves him, but also probably doesn't have a dime to her own name in order to take the kids and leave since she agreed to all this without protecting herself when shit hits the fan. It's so sad.
@@kristamarie6104 I sincerely hope that Danielle's brother and father make Garrick sign over their house to Danielle. I have a huge feeling that Garrick's family will support them into pressuring Garrick to handing over some money for his kids.
She could easily use this to get full custody of the kids. This is abuse and the only reason hes keeping her around is so he doesnt have to split the marital funds.
They would in a heartbeat. Gerrick doesn’t deserve her. One of their mutual friends recently posted online that they’re still divorced together.
I see Danielle going back to court and getting full custody of the kids and the house. He just wanted a new wife without having to lose the old one without having to give up anything.
Child support and alimony 👏👏👏
@@hey_ashton she divorced and didn't ask for alimony it'll be hard but if she lawyers up she can win the house the custody and everything
PLEASE LET THIS BE RIGHT
@@scarlettsafir3743 I wonder how long until they get popped for marriage fraud.
I really feel bad for Danielle. This kind of thing does not just happen overnight. Garrick's most likely been abusing and manipulating her for a long time. :(
How possessive is it that he was secretly listening to daniels interview though? He’s so manipulative and controlling I’m praying for her
exactly my thoughts ! that is so creepy !
It’s speculated she left him. I don’t know how credible it is but apparently on her Facebook she doesn’t post pics of them and they don’t post pics of her
@@Twiceuponaday that's so sad but I hope she's out and getting therapy
The fact that Ken and buff have so much empathy for danielle is honestly beautiful they care more about her feelings than her husband of 12 years whats more messed up is there kids were there aswell we just don't see that I mean I honestly hope she leaves him.
@@flowerfields2379 very true, i feel like he only went in her room because he heard her saying she was upset and didnt want her showing him up on camera.
They have kids and that dip shit is pulling this ? I don't know how her family hasn't beaten him to a pulp .
@@themadviking5746 yep i get recommend because of watching these and they have two sons, garrick setting an amazing example
@@themadviking5746 Because she is going along with it too!! I mean they can't 100% get mad at him when she is a willing participant. She needs to pull her head out of her ass and wake up
@@Naturefan354 She is being abused! are you just going through all the comments to try to defend an abusive gaslighting person?? Stop commenting this crap.
It physically hurts my soul to watch this.
I know what you mean Monica 😢
@@ahmedyoboiii603 go away
Same. It makes me ill
Same. I’m crying with her, it’s clear she’s struggling
This is exactly how a cult is formed. They speak in the third person. “Husband would not be in here with us” ect...ect ...
In my culture, we speak in 3rd person honorifics. But, hearing Garrick speak in third person is really skeevy, it's the creepy facial expression and certain inflections he chooses for certain words; it's just so uncomfortable to watch & listen to.
@@khmerchef what culture is that if you don’t mind me asking?
@@PatrickRoy30I talk to my cousins and siblings this way as well. It’s cute and mutual, but would probably be weird if my parents called me daughter at the same frequency as I do with the people my own age
When Danielle started to cry I almost did, that's genuine despair in her voice... man I want to FIGHT garrick
SAME he’s such a POS
Let’s create a team!
Shit, let's go
Let's raid Garrick as we tried to raid Area 51! But this time it will be successful!
I'll arrange the fight. You can go after buff
The original wife should bring a date to the wedding and watch her ex hubby get jelous
For real though!!
That would be amazing
Can you imagine....
If only! Or Danielle and Roberta would push Garrick off the aisle and marry each other.
Haha! But I think they have children? For their sake I wouldn't do that.
Roberta: *blissfully unaware about the underlying tension and doesnt speak his language*
Danielle: *just on the cusp of coming aware of how shit of a person Gerrick is and being manipulated still. Cries everytime she talks about it*
Gerrick: So I have two wives.... 👉😎👉
The essence of the entire situation
Great summary 👍
Basically to highlight how ridiculous Gerrick is being.
Pretty much..
More like gerrick: i have large wife and small wife 🤡🤡
He got no empathy, he really have some commonality with serial killers.
When she says "I have jealousy and insecurities I need to work through" I have a panic attack. NO you being upset your husband is sleeping with another woman is not a 'you' problem honey. What the heck has this man told you child? 😭
The name of the show is Seeking Sister Wife. It's a show about polygamy. She agreed at some point for him to get a second wife. If she made such an agreement and later started getting jealous, it's 100% her fault.
@@jcaique bruh
@@jcaique I think you're missing the fact she was manipulated
Buff: "This is real life and somehow Garrick's gonna win and I hate it."
That's such a mood.
I wish she could find a nice man to replace Garrick the parick
Roberta is so sweet tho, always tryin to include Danielle, even when Garrick is CLEARLY cutting her off
If she was actually sweet, she'd leave Garrick's ass after witnessing the way he's treating Danielle. He'll do it to you too, Roberta, don't be an idiot.
@@Princessbuttercupish She’s still a sweet person just misplaced lol
Awkward laugh for fifteen seconds hahaha
Roberta seems to not understand a word in english! I get the feeling that she doesn't really know what is happining, like they are ex husband and wife, but best friends, that is why she calls Danielle sister, otherwise she would call Danielle her wife or girlfriend... I would like to hear Roberta talking about the situation in portuguese... without tha language issue.
@@Ariellymp yeah, i had that feeling too, he really insists on calling them sisters, and Idk if Roberta really understands whats going on
As a married Christian man, I believe this guy is garage. Regardless of any religious belief, if your chosen partner feels uncomfortable with something that you want to happen, then you need to make a decision between your already chosen partner (and the family you've created) and the selfish desire. Marriage is partnership. That's it. Your spouse's feelings, thoughts, and emotions matter.
He is garage but more like garbage to me.
Every time he said "God told me" I always think "No, the Devil did" 🤦♀️
@@celianunn2070 The bible literally states cheating is a sin and the marriage is broken when you do he's literally cheating!
@@MythicaIl Yea that's what I'm saying...
@@celianunn2070 Honestly did she think This is God showing her his true colors so she can leave?
The sad part is, she’s actually very gorgeous. She could find someone who’s love her.
She so could. There's a guy some where who's missing out since she's busy wasting time on this douche bag
I know right? Too bad she got brainwashed into being a doormat
And she’s so sweet and understanding 😢
That’s what I thought. I saw her on the beach and she has a great body and she lets him call her big wife and that was so awful.
She is pretty
I wonder if Roberta doesn't fully grasp what is going on or if she is being lied to about some things. Roberta's vibe seems off and the way he is acting and treating Danielle makes me wonder about this. I have seen poly couples and I know there are different rules, but this just seems off.
One person in the comments last video was suggesting it might be that Garrick told Roberta that Danielle is his sister not his wife and I honestly wouldn't be surprised at this point
Someone commented on the last video that she might interpret Danielle as literally being the guy's sister. Which with the face Roberta made when Danielle touched his arm is making me get those vibes. I haven't finished watching this video yet, though.
polyamory is VERY DIFFERENT from polygamy, polyamory is when several people regardless of gender all decide to start a relationship TOGETHER. polygamy is something done in some relgious beliefs where a men has several wives and they may or may not live together but the women aren't in any way shape or form in a relationship with each other as that would be a sin in most cases just to clarify there's two types of poly and to me imo the second one is kinda gross and clearly degrading to the females involved.
Yes!! I’m almost convinced! In this video Roberta gives a weird look when Danielle touches her husband’s arm, and it makes a lot of sense if she genuinely thinks Danielle is his sister!! I understand Portuguese and Roberta has been really nice, like she’s being super chill about this dude having his “sister” tag along all the time.
@@stardoll1995 Polygamy isn't technically defined as religious. If you're a healthy poly throuple and you are "married" that's polygamy of the "group marriage" type. You're thinking of Polygyny which is this type of polygamy.
I feel so sorry for Danielle. Her ‘husband’ doesn’t even look at her anymore or even tries to check on her well-being. At this point I hope she calls someone she trusts and goes back home. She’s not connected to him (legally) and gets some help for the mental scars he left on her with the people who genuinely care for her.
I feel so sorry for Danielle. But her xh is just one of the many men in our world that have no respect or care in the world concerning how disrespectful they are towards the xwife. Garrett is mind f--king Danielle. What a narrississt
I don’t feel sorry for her, she made this choice with him. I think she should just leave and focus on herself
@@RoarofdalioN she's a victim. That's a bit harsh. She didn't make this decision, she's been gaslit into thinking she has no other option.
The pure amount of awkward laughter in this series is SO PAINFUL
Bro I feel so bad for her. She is the result of pure manipulation. Honestly so sad that she can’t realize what’s actually happening.
Bro I think she realised what's happening after sometime, but she blames herself and tries to cope up with her decision. That's y she said that she is jealous and she doesnt want to show that off.
I feel bad for her because that was her husband so it's not odd to be possessive of him. She should just let it out in front of camera.
Manipulation and indoctrination sadly.
@@bravoboy5518 i feel bad because her religion and him using her religion as an excuse saying Gods want this is just so manipulative
It also has to do with her religion. Idk religion IMO sucks. If she wasn’t super religious I highly doubt she would have fallen for this. In a way religion set her up for this.
I’m totally ok with having multiple relationships but not if you’ve manipulated your partner.
She's probably in denial
Apparently, Danielle left them as people have noticed she deleted all pictures with Garrick from her Facebook and unfollowed them both. Garrick also deleted all the pictures and now only has pictures with Roberta and his kids.
what is their handles?
@@xspacerose well before you could find Danielle on Facebook by just looking for Danielle Merrifield but her account no longer appears... you can find Garrick as Garrick Merrifield. As for the Instagram is not pulling up either
I hope she has support to get through this
Wait he got custody of the kids??? wtf
@@calzonexiv well they did file the divorce during this show and presented it in being a mutual decision. She probably hasn’t taken him to custody court yet, so as of now they both technically still have full custody of the kids.
Roberta: (pays slightest attention to Danielle)
Garrick: We should get out of here, vamoose.
Vamoose 🦌
That’s make me so angry.. it would be more normal if Roberta was ignoring Danielle :/
-Maybe- this would worked if they all cared for each other. :/
I know that's what I hate about it, and I'm so angry about it, I didnt even finish this video because of HIM
She's the SHEEP
DEVIL spoke to him
Roberta most likely doesn't understand the "sister/wife" dynamic and probably believes Danielle is his sister. He's most likely the only one she's talks to for info and when Danielle tries to get close, or share a moment, he pulls Roberta away. He has secrets and this may be one.
That's probably why she grimanced at the touch, Garrick keeps calling her sister and Roberta wife.
Why are you people assuming she’s dumb? She definitely knows and understands.
Nobody said she's dumb. It's not a thing where she is so it could be lost in translation. Especially since she doesn't speak English. @@kiwik2951
I definitely was thinking the same thing. It’s possible he convinced her that his ex wife is his sister…
I don’t agree with the other commenter that she is “dumb” but he seems very manipulative and men will say anything to get their way.
The only was who implied her being dumb was the other commenter 💀😂
If Danielle is reading these comments; Girl, run. You don't have to live like this, you never have to live like THIS. You deserve so much better and you deserve respect from your partner. Your life is your life and you deserve to be happy even if that means you start over. Run, get out, and find yourself a Real Man who only has eyes for you.
She isn't with them anymore.
@@iluvsmokeythecat23 really where can I find that information?
@@amberpasta9379 My guess would be google.
@@LunaDelTuna was looking for it and there is nothing
Nah. Stay. We need content 😂
"I forgot that they were religious at this point" That made me chuckle. 😂😂😂 Yup, easy to forget watching him. Yuck.
The only ending I will accept is Roberta and Danielle running off together.
Also as a Christian, Ken you didn't offend me 😂😂
Same. Danielle and especially Garrick aren’t even Christians lmao, Garrick is just using his faith as an excuse to be a shit person
@@Kaunoe But Danielle is part of the problem. Instead of going against this every step of the way and saying no she does the complete opposite when it's obvious she isn't 100% feeling the polyamourous lifestyle
@@Naturefan354 Danielle is a victim of abuse. She is not part of the problem, she's been manipulated and gaslit into thinking this is right.
@@Naturefan354 Danielle just seems to be in love with him and don’t wanna lose that so she feels like she has to go along with everything
Something tells me Garrick is as "Christian" as those back in the medieval times that were all "Oh yeah! Pay me and all your sins are forgiven LOL!" He uses it as an excuse for really shitty behavior.
A true Godly man is attuned to his wife's feelings and wellbeing, and would do anything to make her feel better, even if it's at his own expense. She deserves a better man
I hope it ends with Danielle and Roberta running off together, platonically or romantically, and leaving Garrick to be a creep somewhere else
Honestly I’m living for Danielle and Roberta to be a couple 👀
I mean... How is small wife not seeing what shes doing? I think she does. And she still does it. So im pretty sure she aint the Best person
@@vaevictis1697 everyone is coming to the conclusion that she doesn’t understand English and that she thinks Daniela is the “sister” of gharret (idk if that’s how you spell it or not)
@@idonthaveacreativename8752 ok that would make sence, but do you think tlc wont tell her? like what, he just told her theres that show, lets go, and she just said okay and no one ever told her the real deal? no one from tlc? i understand your point, but i just cannot believe that she really doesnt know it all, even knowing that theyd do awful shit to make their money... That awful?
@@idonthaveacreativename8752 if thats really it, then id literally cry about what have people gone to
It needs to end with her leaving and putting him on child support. If he really wanted it to be sister wives he’d treat them equally. He’s just trying to avoid the repercussions of replacing her
Truth
Buffs laugh is so contagious your guy's energy is the best
@@kashishjain7163 😬😐Pretty cringe bro
He is the main reason I watch lmao
So agree so genuine and makes me laugh.
Right?!!! It makes me laugh every time XD You just watch it when you're upset & it'll definitely cure you fasho lol!
Yes
At this point, the happiest ending to this series would be Danielle and Roberta throwing Garrick to the bottom of the sea and going off together to live happy lives. ♥️
This is what years of emotional abuse does to a person...it's really sad...
Exactly. People have a hard time imagining how she 'allowed' this. But they dont understand the amount of manipulation, gaslighting it takes. To the point where you believe its what you want.
The look on Garrick's face when his wives embraced after Roberta said, "Oh, come here baby" ... tells me he's not REALLY a religious man
👏🏻 Exactly!!
That's the only thing that gave it away?
I'll one-up you..... he's not really into polyamory. If this is not just blatant cheating, then he's into polygamy. Basically, what that means is that he never intended to share. The women in his life are only there to please him and _his_ selfish desires, nothing more.
Edit: it occurred to me that I got polygamy and polyamory switched in here which may have confused some people. Lol oops :'D
Exactly he uses religion for a evil manipulative tool against his wife. He is 💩💩💩💩
Garrick is the type of guy to make all religion and faith look bad. This guy's a clown using Christianity as a shield against criticism and scrutiny despite knowing he's doing this all for selfish reasons.
I hope Roberta will start to understand how wrong this is, leave Garrick and try to convince Danielle to do the same. Because Danielle doesn't seem to be able do it on her own
*I am hoping Danielle and Roberta both left Garlic, and got with one another instead. Leaving his @$$ in the **_DUST!_*
I really appreciate Ken's take on Danielle. Its like she is trauma bonded with this dude. Its not as simple as "just stop 4head" same thing with most domestic abuse
When Danielle said, “Can I take a minute?” my soul died.
Mine laughed because she's doing this to herself.
@@JacquelynNhi yes but she is also being manipulated by a narcissist when she try’s to leave he will guilt trip her and use anything he can to make her stay even change his ways for a little bit where she wants to dip her feet back in it’s hard getting out of a relationship like that
Fully believe that Roberta *still* thinks Danielle is Garrick's sister.
I just want them to have a 'sisters' day away from him and go explain the whole situation fully and see her shock
They met in Brazil before and messed around
She knows
I wanted to see Danielle and Roberta alone too. They Will spend the majority of their time together so It's only faire that they know each other
Roberta and Dannielle: *have a really sweet bonding moment*
Garrick to Roberta: "Maybe we should get out of here"
Their relationship was in trouble before Roberta was even a thing. I think this give Garrick a chance to cheat without actually cheating.
If someone made a movie about a live-action douche bottle, I know who I would cast to play the lead.
@@ahmedyoboiii603 r/wooosh
Doctor Too-Strange
Jared Leto!
@@androgynousmaggot9389 LOL'd at this one
It’s sad that Roberta seems to care more about Dannielle than Garrick
Plot twist, she did this to have video proofs of being manipulated and win the case when she takes him to court
That would be such a power move.
Honestly idk if child abuse victims can get retroactive court justice, but man I got plenty of physical and mental injuries I could use.
I feel like Danielle’s life plays out like this scene daily. The way he just shut her out of the conversation, she dies a little more inside. She’s trying to buy into what he’s selling but I think eventually she’s going to figure it out. Being jealous is a human emotion, no one wants to be someone’s second choice. She dodged a bullet and now being divorced she has many more options. If these relationships are about more love, why can’t the women take more husbands? I think we would see a whole new level of jealousy. I hope she leaves, she deserves a faithful man and happy life…This isn’t it
This is an unhealthy polygamous relationship, but polygamy is one man with multiple wives and polyamory or polyandry would allow for the woman to have other husbands, boyfriends, or husbands. Many women involved in polygamy don’t want other husbands or men or they would often have chose a different marriage style.
Any time Danielle gets to say anything, Garrick goes out of his way and says "sister" really aggressively. I think that he managed to get Roberta to think that Danielle is HIS sister and therefor Roberta's sister by marriage. He doesn't want R to find out the truth about D and why she's really there.
Would Roberta not wonder why Danielle is always coming on the trips?
@@WhoisKell you would think, but some cultures are heavily family oriented and whole generations of folks can live in the same house. She might just assume that they are really close.
But I guess we’ll never know until something is said in front of the cameras. Hopefully Roberta makes a comment that shows Danielle and us what she really thinks.
@@alyssameenach2075 13:27
I have honestly wondered about this as well. I am sure that Roberta doesn't know everything going on, but I wonder what parts she actually does.
Oh shoot, maybe that's why Roberta had that weird look on her face when Danielle twiddled her fingers down Garrick's arm. Maybe she was thinking "Well that's pretty intimate for siblings."
as a now ex wife who was been in a somewhat similar situation i feel for this women so much! When your so desperately in love with your significant other you will do whatever to keep them happy and keep them in your life. Im so glad i realized how messed up the life i was living was and i pray she see's it soon to!!
Yeah, this really hits home for me too... Glad to see we both made it out okay ☺️ hopefully Danielle can too!
Your husband called you large wife and sequestered himself in a room with a hot Brazilian?
@@blobbertmcblob4888 she said similar situation not exact situation.
It took me 3yrs to leave my narcissistic sociopath of an ex husband... I still gaslight myself... I feel for Danielle
DOES ROBERTA KNOW THAT DANIELLE IS *NOT* ACTUALLY HIS SISTER? Because it reaaaally seems like "Husband" wants "Wife" to only know "Large Wife" as "Sister." And they only speak to her through a translator app.
He wasn’t worried about how she felt, he’s worried about what she says to other ppl about him which will make him look bad
These are the only CinnamonToastKen episodes that depress me. I really feel so heartbroken to watch this level of manipulation and that the producers likely encourage it for a story. It really is painful. I really hope she breaks through soon because the healing process after this is going to be so difficult for her.
I feel the same I really can’t enjoy these videos
Absolutely.
It's honestly devastating. I've been tearing up since the first one Ken posted because I cannot imagine being in this situation and being *_okay_* with it.
She didn’t “work through it” she talked herself into accepting it and feels like she can’t choose anything :/
Been there done that. Amazing the mental gymnastics we do some days
That's how religious manipulation goes, unfortunately.
She can only lie to herself for so long, but the truth will hit her whether she wants it to or not.
she said she worked thru it but then a couple of clips later she says she wanted these feelings buried down, so yeah for sure she didnt work through any of this lmao
I have a feeling if she wasn’t religious she wouldn’t have fallen for this.
Having multiple partners is ok but manipulating and gaslighting your partner into it isn’t ok.
I think what makes Garrick's "sister" thing so creepy is that what HE wants is for Danielle and Roberta to act like sisters and not be romantic with each other, but he wants them both to be HIS wives and be romantically interested in him. He wants to be the *only* one either of them are interested in.
That technically is a poly dynamic but in this case it’s been done in a VERY unhealthy way
Best outcome: Garrick mysteriously goes missing at the beach, swept away by an unseasonably rough tide, and Roberta and Danielle get together.
*and live happily ever after
I would watch THAT season, girl! 🙌🏻👌🏻😂! 👏🏻MAKE👏🏻IT👏🏻HAPPEN👏🏻PRODUCERS👏🏻😎!
^THIS! I’ll gladly join the “search party” ;)
This, except it’s not a mystery, and it’s twenty small sharks.
Wouldn’t that be beautiful 😍
Conspiracy theory: Roberta thinks that Danielle is just Garrick's actual sister who is helping them plan THEIR wedding.
He infuriates me. 😤😑
Exactly because she doesn’t even understand what they are saying! And when they say sister Roberta might think it’s “sister in law”
Yes. My thoughts exactly!
Lol
No.... she actually knows that she’s joining in hurting Danielle.
Omg
I really hope that Danielle leaves, Roberta uses him for a green card then leaves, and he ends up all alone 🥳
I totally think Roberta is using him for a green card. I do not believe that she's into him at all.
Well gay marriage is legal so Danielle and Roberta could get married and she’d still have a green card. Then they can be happy together without that trash goblin
That is honestly my best case scenario. I personally don't hope for the two gals to elope just cause I feel like that's too unrealistic.
That's definitely what he deserves.
Danielle's face lights up so much when Roberta interacts with her.
I would like for them both to leave garrick with nothing but regret and big Ed.
If Danielle was insecure as she feels her husband doesn’t love her as much, wouldn’t it be wise for Garrick to talk to her alone so his attention is on her entirely? And not have his new girlfriend comfort her instead? This man I swear...
Don't worry, it's all part of God's pLaN 😬😬
@@ram3n_ oh ye. Forgot. Sorry 🤦♀️
The key word here is 'wise'. This idiot ain't it.
I can definitely see where you are coming from. However, with *all* reality shows, you gotta keep in mind that the story is framed by the producers - they stitch together the video clips to exclude certain parts and to highlight other elements/themes. No one can downplay the husband's manipulative behaviors. At the same time, viewers are watching a story that does not belong 100% to the participants.
He is a top tier piece of shit
In a polygamous relationship everyone loves each other EQUALLY. That would mean Danielle and Roberta would share some alone time together or they will all share time together as a polygamous couple. NOT f*cking Garick being the center of it all and leaving Danielle out of everything. That's just called a mess and narcissistic behaviour.
Edit: I'm sorry if I messed up the definitions. My native language isn't English. I didn't mean to start an argument in the comments, neither do I want to discriminate anybody. (Except for Garick).
I wish you all the best, stay safe and healthy! 💕
There is a lot ways of a polygamous relationship working, but they all share the consent. This absolutely does not look like Danielle actually consent to but more like she is getting talk to like a cult. I hate garrick
That’s poly not “sister wives” poly makes sense to me. Everyone happy, sister wives is just sad.
@@mistyk.2152 yes!!!! CNM/ENM is all about consent and ethical behavior and treatment between ALL parties, regardless of type and level of intimacy.
polygamy is where one person in the relationship has other partners that the other is not in a relationship with. polyamory is where everyone in the relationship are together equally. this is technically polygamy but it’s a horrible example of it.
Nah, let's be honest, there is no way anyone can love them equally.
In polygamous relationships, the man will have a "favorite" wife. There is no going around that. Same for polyamorous relationships. You will have one partner you prefer over the others. However, this guy clearly doesn't even care for his other "wife".
At the wedding I see Roberta saying "no", to garrik as soon as the vows are happening, instead of "I do". She runs up to danielle and gets on one knee, and asks DANIELLE to marry her. She says yes. They get married on the spot. They leave garrik literally and figuratively stranded.
👀👀👀👀 would be an epic plot twist
Yea but Roberta isn’t nice either she knows what it is.
@@JessicaSmith-ue7mp she seems to have absolutely no clue of what's going on
Dats not gon happen silly
Whatpadd ?
When Roberta was hugging Danielle and Garret leaned in and hugged them I actually shouted, “get off of them what the hell”
“Awww they’re praying over the food... I almost forgot they are religious at this point..” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL. It’s embarrassing. If they were Christians Garrick and Roberta should not have slept together. He gives me the creeps
@@dittohead7044 exactly, I was just about to say. Garrick isn't Christian he's a future cult leader.
Let me speak for me and other Christian's, this ain't us. Lol
They’re not. This is disgusting.
@@dittohead7044 Right that an exuse
I'm rootin for Danielle and Roberta to fall in love and leave whats his face in the dust.
This relationship is so disturbing and heartbreaking. At what point does TLC have an ethical obligation to stop encouraging this plot, and offer to pay for Danielle to get resources and help or for this couple to go to therapy or something?
Nope. Because they probably signed a contract before TLC STARTED airing these shows.
I agree. TLC is abusing Danielle too
TLC abuses a lot of the people in their shows by documenting their tragedies. In breaking Amish, two barely adult girls who never knew anything but Amish left the community banned and shunned, and then TLC didn't even inform them about documents they needed for their flight. The crew just followed them knowing they'll be stranded. Tbh, I am seriously doubting why I even watch such shows. At some point I feel like an accomplice in their situation by giving TLC incentives to keep producing this crap.
@@0Demiyah0 I agree with the “why am I watching this”.
You know what is sad about this, is that the children are gonna see this someday.
I'm 100% convinced that Roberta literally thinks that's her sister and doesn't understand the dynamic and when she does she'll flip out and leave
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I've been thinking this exact thing! Given how little English she understands and the way they talk to her (or the translator app, rather) is childish -- referring to themselves in the third person as "husband" and "sister". Have they ever been romantic with each other on camera? Because if not, then I'd bet money that Roberta has no clue what's really going on.
@@helenameyer9778 It makes sense, I mean he's lying to one wife why wouldn't he lie to the other?
Doubt it. They have children together and Roberta knows this and most likely has met them. Plus how is he lying to either one of them exactly??
I'm 109% convinced that people don't know how to comprehend and they just want other just as ignorant people to agree with them. They met on a website so yeah she knows 😏
Garrick is only getting away with this stuff because of the language barrier, because as soon as Roberta understands what's going on she will nope out of there. And hopefully she will help Danielle snaps out of the brainwashing and leave him too!
Buff: “I kinda hope he ends up at the bottom of the ocean...”
We all do, Buff. We all do...
Garrick is quagmire from Family Guy irl
Every time he smiled I expected a giggity giggity to follow 😂
He's gonna end up picking up the translator as a 2nd sister wife lmao. But in my opinion large wife should've dipped out after the divorce
From what I can see “large wife” wised up. Her FaceBook just has her & the boys. His FaceBook has just the Brazilian Bombshell who did marry Garrick.Garrick has a picture with her & boys.. no Danielle
or at least once it was final.
Just wait until we get a pregnancy update lol o man
What really bothers me is how they don’t use their names, they say “sister” and “husband” like wtf
Literally
"Housemaid" and "Concubine"
can TLC at least confirm that Roberta knows Danielle is his WIFE and not his SISTER 😂
I'm sure she Bert Knows Because he has both of them calling each other sister,and she knows about the Kids they have met her, the nickname Bert came from the Boys. and Bert must know about incest,
@@gloperez8741 I think he was joking........
@@gloperez8741 well that went right over your head...
@@gloperez8741 duuuuude... what a way to ruin a joke.
😂🤣
Danielle is stuck in this situation out of fear of losing her husband. She knows that if she speaks up, that she will be the one cut out.
Everytime I remember that they have kids I get more upset, it makes the situation a lot worse for Danielle
He's probably manipulated her their whole relationship, and after being controlled by Garrick for so long Danielle lost herself, her identity is just Garrick's wife and now she doesn't even have that anymore (legally).
Having been in an abusive relationship myself, I really feel for Danielle. "Love and lies shine so bright, and I crashed as I looked away." The things you'll do for a person in the name of love... If only you realised sooner how little that person actually cared about you...
Edit: Mac Demarco mood
which mac de marco song? love him. best stoner break up songs
@@sophiescosmicgarden The songs that hit me the most are Brother and No Other Heart. We need more people irl to smoke weed with and listen to indie ngl
@@PopeAbibe oh my same! though recently ive been listening to 'still beating ' and 'wolf in sheeps clothing' to be honest he's best to listen to when im pissed and stoned and giving up on the world lol
@@PopeAbibe and i wish, i live in the uk so it is still a bit taboo to smoke here
@@sophiescosmicgarden I also live in the UK! I feel like in Scotland its a lot less taboo. Still dont get why its taboo in the first place even though alchohol is way more dangerous but hey ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Wolf in sheeps clothing is a blast
My whole thing is - is Danielle going to be working full time while Roberta lives for free? Because she can't work until after marriage, right? This is so sad... D needs a hug and a way out.
This is the perfect example of a couple who started swinging and one of them got talked into it thinking they want to be swingers but wasn’t their idea and they’re slowly realizing day by day that they made horrible mistake agreeing to give it a try , except they went full R word when you never go full R word and Danielle realized she ruined her life
actually this is a perfect example of someone who wants a poly/doesnt want to be in the relationship but doesnt want to loose control of his ex, and the ex is being gaslighted and manipulated into bowing down and accepting this... it’s all about gerrick wanting to have his cake and eat it to, he wants to control danielle and make her pine for him but at the same time wants to get with a pretty young brazillian women who doesnt realize the abuse that is going on... niether of these women deserve this horrible human waste of space in their lives and i hope they BOTH leave his ass
@@matveyxivan7159 couldn't have said it better
Damn I really want to know what full r word is.....
@nun for brains when I looked it up.... only reference I found was "retard" but that doesn't seem to make sense here. 😄 Unless its just a saying for going all out
This is a prime example of a manipulative, narcissistic husband who has gas-lighted and emotionally controlled his wife for years - and has now convinced her she wants something she clearly doesn't. He ruined her life, she'd be out of there if Garret hadn't broken her.
I feel like buff wanted to just go give Danielle a hug and be like “girl you’re not the problem” and then ken in the corner like “yeah girl! Love yourself! Respect yourself!” *cheerin*
It pains me to see a fellow Brazilian suffering with language barrier like that...
Because I honestly have a bad feeling that Roberta genuinely doesn't know the whole truth behind this and, overall, she doesn't seem to be able to pick up on this man's manipulative traits.
I just think she has no idea the hole she's getting herself into.
é a Roberta foi meio jegue de se casar com esse doido kkkk agr parece que toda brasileira se mete nessas tranqueira ai
Pior que "Roberta" é o nome da minha irmã.
Eu também não sei se ela tem ideia do buraco que tá se metendo.
Será que ela não tem família? Ou algum amigo brasileiro pra ajudar?
pois é, cara. E alguma ideia do que é o "vamos see apraiser" que ele fala?
@@kayabressan6551 Ele fala tipo "Vamos, se apresse", ou pelo menos acho que é isso AHSGSHVS
Pq logo antes acho que ele fala "When I want her to hurry up I just tell her 'vamos se apresse'"
@@milareis1464 Então, pior que parece que ela realmente não tem a quem recorrer. Pq se não, acho que ela teria mencionado alguém ou chamaria algum conhecido de vez em quando no programa pra ajudar ela ou algo assim...
Pior que não tem nem como os povo que assiste o programa avisar ela de nada também, porque eu acho que eles postam os episódios só depois que eles acabam de gravar tudo ;-;
he has a sister kink 100%
also i feel for this girl. don’t let him do that to you, you deserve more than that babe!
Love makes you blind to so many things. I was so in love with my ex that I didn’t realize he was losing interest in me and was actually holding me back from my own potential due to his insecurities. I’m so glad I’m out of that relationship- love makes you do stupid things sometimes and it can make you blind to bad things
Love is definitely blinding.
100...
It's astounding to me the things we overlook because " We love h/im/er ...!"
Truth. It's like riding together on a trip in a car with someone else, but watching the driver's face the entire time instead of looking at where the road is taking you. You end up relying on the other person to tell you where you are going.
Same sista! Leaving him was the best thing for me since I now have a loving fiance ☺️☺️❤
@@drewgoin8849
EXCELLENT analogy!
Danielle keeps saying sister wives but this man is playing her off to Roberta like his actual biological sister. He's playing both of them
yeah, the way he keeps calling Danielle "sister" is really creepy, especially when he knows there's a language barrier for Roberta
Roberta is playing both of them for a green card
@Aila Virtanen You really are pretending there aren't large numbers of people who will do anything to get a green card? They meet these women on sites dedicated for that.
I always say, if you aren't hurting anyone else then you do you but clearly, someone is getting hurt in this "relationship" and it is not okay.
In a way its her fault for going along with all this.
@@brosephbroman7564 ikr! She’s dumb asf
@@d.w1278 She could easily find a man on Christian singles.
@@d.w1278 She's been gaslighted for YEARS. She's a victim of emotional abuse. Having your brain reprogrammed by the person that was supposed to be your other half isn't her fault. She isn't stupid for being a victim, especially because no one in her family or friend group seemed to have tried talking her out of it.
@@emberlyncrow3704 he hasn't "moved on to someone else" he deliberately manipulate her by saying he's totally still going to be with her while also gaslighting her. Everyone saying it's so easy to just leave but it's not, it does psychological damage to you. You don't know how hard it is, stop victim blaming.
The words of wisdom I'll like to bestow on Danielle are: "Get that head, get that bread, then leave🏃♀️..."
I feel wen she’s trying to convince everyone else she’s alright with it she’s actually trying to convince herself 💔🖤I just want to hug that woman
I can’t get it out of my head now that Roberta really don’t understand that Danielle will also be her wife i can’t stop thinking now Garrick keeps saying sister and soo Roberta may be 🤷♀️
Well she knows they have kids together and has probably met them so I doubt it.
@@Naturefan354 that part lol 🤦♀️ touche man but idk 🤷♀️ we shall see I know I’m anxious to find out fasho n won’t cheat and go look myself because it ruins it have a bod day or evening Homie thank you for reminding me of that simple yet HUGE FACTOR ☺️
She does.
Roberta is only Garrick's wife, as is Danielle. The sister wife term is used to bond wives in a polygamous relationship, so the husband is not the only common point. The wives are separate from one another, but expected to cooperate and get along for the sake of the husband.
the planner is thinking: "that man has TWO wives? I am surprised he got ONE!"