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КОМЕНТАРІ • 207

  • @beverlytaylor1745
    @beverlytaylor1745 10 місяців тому +232

    Firstly, you look amazing at 7 months pregnant. Congratulations to you and your husband. Secondly, I grow as a person, and a woman, every time I watch your channel. Love your 'one - on - one' approach. 💖

  • @tigerpaws111
    @tigerpaws111 9 місяців тому +17

    What has helped me is to actually talk to the people that you’re jealous of if you can. Usually you’ll find out flaws and realise they’re not as “perfect” as you think they are. I’ve had it a few times that they’ve revealed they’re actually jealous of me too and usually for things I’ve not noticed or taken for granted.

  • @christinakala5612
    @christinakala5612 10 місяців тому +149

    Your insights have helped me heal my anxious attachment so much. I used to have cheating dreams (for no good reason) that would haunt me the whole day, and I’d get so insecure towards my partner. The other day I had one and it did NOTHING to me. Realized I’ve gotten to a place where I’m secure, confident and unbothered. Thank you!!!

    • @coach_amy
      @coach_amy 10 місяців тому +3

      What is your partner's attachment style?

    • @erikagilbert9866
      @erikagilbert9866 10 місяців тому +5

      More more!! I need more of this topic but broken down for anxious attachment jealousy versus what avoidant attachment jealousy looks like

    • @angelslove13
      @angelslove13 10 місяців тому +5

      my "cheating dreams" were true..maybe you are seeing something in your dreams that your physical eye can't see? :)

    • @christinakala5612
      @christinakala5612 10 місяців тому +6

      @@angelslove13 my anxious attachment would tell me this too. Unless I can prove it, I will choose my happiness

    • @mikepiccolo32
      @mikepiccolo32 10 місяців тому

      ​@@christinakala5612Is Lizzo jealous of Oprah because she can buy more food?

  • @Store-ko7jj
    @Store-ko7jj 10 місяців тому +22

    '"In a way you've already won in this world, because you're the only one who can be you." -Mister Rogers

  • @rachelfredell3056
    @rachelfredell3056 10 місяців тому +43

    There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and will be lost.
    Martha Graham

  • @amelasinanovic9714
    @amelasinanovic9714 2 місяці тому +5

    PLEASE DO EXTENDED VIDEO ON JEALOUSY AND INSECURITY IN a marriage/relationship more on the self development and ways to overcome that deep insecurity and hyper vigilance

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @Jordan.1208
    @Jordan.1208 10 місяців тому +39

    I feel like it would be really great to see you do an emotion series - so episodes on bitterness, passion, contentment, fear etc :)

  • @twittwit1227
    @twittwit1227 10 місяців тому +8

    the way she GETS TO THE POINT!!! Bless

  • @anahinata28
    @anahinata28 10 місяців тому +36

    Thank you, Margarita for talking to us, esp women. You don’t know how much comfort and encouragement you give to the world. I’ve been broken up with and it was a 5 year relationship. I was in pieces and your videos really helped me to pick myself up and realize my self-worth. God Bless you and your family. Always looking forward to your new vids!❤

  • @mohittiwarii20
    @mohittiwarii20 10 місяців тому +17

    Hi Margarita. I have had to go through a lot in my life ever since I was a kid. I was extremely anxiously attached and very reactive and emotional. I have always been in my masculine energy. But, your content has helped me become the best version of myself. I have stopped chasing people. Realized my power and constantly focusing on myself. Guys listen to her. It works for sure!

    • @darkvader2889
      @darkvader2889 10 місяців тому +1

      Really? I want to believe😊

  • @suziandchopstix
    @suziandchopstix 10 місяців тому +14

    Wow the end really hit me I never realized how much I’m living in my head and you always bring me back to reality ❤

  • @user-ky9zq5kg2v
    @user-ky9zq5kg2v 7 місяців тому +2

    You are now part of my morning routine...❤I exercise and motivate my mind with you😊thanks

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @EmpressEpisode
    @EmpressEpisode 10 місяців тому +4

    I needed this advice so bad... I love how you deliver your message, cause you're not talking too fast nor too slow. You're not shouting and you know when to pause and breathe. The way you talk is so comforting. I feel better after I watched your video. Thank you! You just gain a new subscriber! ❤️

  • @juliaburke3620
    @juliaburke3620 10 місяців тому +8

    Wow I hadn’t experienced jealousy recently but this video really hit so deep, made me tear up. Thank you 🤍

  • @spacequeenruby
    @spacequeenruby 10 місяців тому +11

    Once again Margarita, you hit everything right on the head!

  • @leslie.dixon.
    @leslie.dixon. 10 місяців тому +12

    This is so incredibly validating and beautiful! Thank you! ❤

  • @patricia2007
    @patricia2007 10 місяців тому +7

    I just love to hear your take on everything... while i really don't need a confidence boost, most things you say resonates with me deeply.

  • @anyaf.6946
    @anyaf.6946 10 місяців тому +8

    I love that you touched on the two types of jealousy. Margarita you’ve helped me and many others, more than you know. Thank you for everything you do ❤

  • @luvspaces
    @luvspaces 10 місяців тому +7

    Your videos always feel like I'm getting honest/compassionate advice from my wiser big sister.
    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @pascallethinks
    @pascallethinks 10 місяців тому +7

    Impeccable timing as always 🤩❤️

  • @shaydelre1898
    @shaydelre1898 10 місяців тому +5

    Thank u , I am currently suffering from jealousy,,, she’s gorgeous and I know I’m pretty but she’s literally a model. She posts a picture and within ten minutes he likes it. Never misses a beat. I am so jealous I need out of my brain I need serious help 😰

    • @MariaMaria-rw8ui
      @MariaMaria-rw8ui 10 місяців тому +9

      That’s a natural reaction babe. Your man should NOT be liking other girls pics. It’s so highly disrespectful

    • @melissaharding
      @melissaharding 9 місяців тому

      @@MariaMaria-rw8ui I agree, it's a conversation I had to have with my bf too, he didn't get it, but I had to explain that's not ok...your bf might not think it's harmful but I feel like it's giving that woman too much attention and validation and not thinking about your feelings...but Margarita might think differently and to be un-bothered...after all we girls like other girls pics and it doesn't mean anything, but then again I wouldn't go like a man's pic, but that's just me..

    • @Val.Kyrie.
      @Val.Kyrie. Місяць тому

      He is the problem, not her. Get rid of him.

  • @jlina
    @jlina 10 місяців тому +6

    About people leaving, just today I was trying to decide if it was the biggest mistake I ever made or the best thing that ever happened to me that he left. 2 hours later you tell me I have no control over it and to let it. I will do my damndest, girlfriend!

  • @Luccccccccccci
    @Luccccccccccci 10 місяців тому +8

    YOUR INTUITION IS AMAZING BECAUSE IVE BEEN
    S T R U G G L I N G

    • @la4894
      @la4894 10 місяців тому +1

      Tell. Me. About. It

  • @lasantuzza777
    @lasantuzza777 10 місяців тому +3

    great video 🩷 i see a lot of people destroy their relationships because of unchecked and uncontrollable envy. it’s like a self fulfilling prophecy. best thing you can do when you feel envious is to keep that inside and use it as a guide towards your path and purpose. the second you start acting up over a beautiful woman walking by your man the prophesy begins to unfold. stay aware ladies 🙏🏼

    • @melissaharding
      @melissaharding 9 місяців тому

      it's definitely true...the instinct in the moment, especially if they look is to get hurt and pissed off, like it feels like disrespect and you want the man to recognise this and behave better/only have eyes for you...but one camp is oh they're a man, they can't help themselves bless them, and then the other is they're not the man for you/me- but I agree, getting visibly pissed off only gives them more power and also makes us feel worse, less confident and less attractive in the eyes of the man

  • @brandyhunter932
    @brandyhunter932 Місяць тому

    I woke up this morning looking for this video..Thank youuu!! You’re like my own personal therapist that I carry around and pull out my pocket as needed.❤❤❤

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @alexamunoz2457
    @alexamunoz2457 10 місяців тому +5

    Very wise and powerful words. Thank you.

  • @antoninatserk4250
    @antoninatserk4250 10 місяців тому +1

    Margarita, you are the best!!! Seriously, one hour of your videos or podcasts every day twisted my mind 360*!!! in a couple of days!!!

  • @morganshepherd4757
    @morganshepherd4757 10 місяців тому +1

    "You cannot stop them from doing anything. You can only be the best version of yourself." BOOM 💥

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem 9 місяців тому +1

    This video on dealing with comparison and jealousy is a game-changer! It provides practical advice and a fresh perspective on a common struggle many of us face. Learning to focus on our own journey and celebrate others' successes is so important. Thanks for sharing these helpful tips.

  • @islandabundance
    @islandabundance 10 місяців тому +1

    Divine timing! Just had a trigger with this!! Your so right! Need to write this down so I remember when that old wound comes up!

  • @nanayaa.o
    @nanayaa.o 3 місяці тому

    You have a video for everyone one of my problems! 😭 I’m so grateful ! Thank you for doing the work and being able to explain!

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому +1

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @celinaann6206
    @celinaann6206 9 місяців тому +1

    Your videos help me so much to think about myself in relationship and wow. I got work to do. Thank you so much!!

  • @Foofie2005
    @Foofie2005 10 місяців тому +4

    We love you lots too! 🥰 I’m totally hooked on your podcast.. I often listen to episodes multiple times, and learn something different after hear it for the second time. You have a great voice and a quick humour and I love that Margarita 👏🏼❤️

  • @sarahxo6546
    @sarahxo6546 10 місяців тому +5

    Just made my day seeing you post ❤

  • @Meekoteeko
    @Meekoteeko 8 місяців тому

    Ive been watching you for over a month now and how much I have changed and my life just by tapping into my feminine energy, every time i am anxious i start listening to you and my anxiety goes away 🥹 I am truly really grateful. You are so genuine and amazing telling women what they really need. You are my Guru by all means now.❤ so so much love for you. I am 22 and you're the best thing happened to me in my 20s. Thank you💗 Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰 ❤

  • @Kazouchan
    @Kazouchan 10 місяців тому +2

    Congratulations Margarita. Also, thank you for your amazing content. You're such a beautiful and smart person. I am so glad I found your channel.

  • @souljess.nutri2403
    @souljess.nutri2403 8 днів тому

    Just thank you from Brazil 💓

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @user-jh8ql6pk3f
    @user-jh8ql6pk3f 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this. I will live in my relationship with the attitude of just “letting it be”, and whatever happens, happens. I can only be the best and most confident version of myself.

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @classactlady
    @classactlady 10 місяців тому +4

    I needed this today! Thank you ❤

  • @ThrashBootCamp
    @ThrashBootCamp 10 місяців тому +2

    I have gotten so much out of your videos! Thank you! Would love to see a video on dealing with friendships when you’re in a relationship and have many friendships with opposite gender friends. I find boundaries are blurry here especially when he takes a long time to open up emotionally but has many long standing and even more recent female friendships. I feel it allows him to keep emotionally distant in this intimate relationship, but with female friends he can keep them at arms length, he can control the level of connection. And not acting jealous but knowing what your needs are and communicating that in a confident way. I feel like there’s some unacceptable behavior, but we disagree. Makes me feel like his priorities are online “fake” ish relationships and not the one with the woman who is present, showing up and wanting to do the work together.

  • @malena_galvez
    @malena_galvez 10 місяців тому +1

    You are very talented in speaking, I can see you are putting a lot of effort in sharing this. Thanks! Also what a lovely name Margarita.

  • @aysenurozdemir2500
    @aysenurozdemir2500 10 місяців тому

    This video made my soul breathe. Thank you for this. You reminded me of who i actually am.

  • @Sand_sea_
    @Sand_sea_ 10 місяців тому +2

    You are amazing and inspiring.. and congrats for your pregnancy.. 🩵🩵🩵

  • @bridgetteraal7214
    @bridgetteraal7214 10 місяців тому +2

    You crack me up! 🤣🤣🤣
    You have been instrumental in my self-development journey of late. Recently, I had to take a hard look in the mirror and say, "Right, this is enough, but where do I start?" and then I found you. Since then, I have been unpacking all my childhood traumas and past relationships. Thank you for holding my hand virtually while I open the crate of canned worms. 🤣
    One question: if your partner looks at women in front of you, why is that a red flag? More specifically, if there is a level of trust in the relationship and cheating is ruled out, is it something to worry about? If so, what and why?

  • @jainalynrosalesdennis9554
    @jainalynrosalesdennis9554 6 місяців тому

    Este video se ha convertido en mi terapia en las dos últimas ocasiones en que me he sentido ansiosa y celosa con mi pareja. No te puedo explicar lo bien que me hace. Logra que cambie mi mentalidad y deje de enfocarme en él y ponga toda mi atención en mí, en mi crecimiento personal y en mi valor como mujer. Gracias por existir margarita

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @JH-yq1cc
    @JH-yq1cc 9 місяців тому

    Everyone needs a Margarita in their life! Happy pregnancy, you look amazing. Please do consider some kind of face to face workshop for women one day.. I'm in, thanks xx

  • @katelynwarren3691
    @katelynwarren3691 6 місяців тому

    This is exactly what I needed and I’m so thankful you make these videos because they help me so so much ❤️

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @inthedetails5467
    @inthedetails5467 10 місяців тому +5

    This might be a different video request but are you able to talk about moments or relationships where you may have been the “toxic one” due to your codependency/anxious attachment?
    I say this because so often the anxiously attached are labeled as the good guy/victim when sometimes anxious/codependents can confuse healthy/secure people as avoidant/playing games and can become draining/controlling/emotionally abusive as a result.

  • @morganshepherd4757
    @morganshepherd4757 10 місяців тому

    Wow..... This met me exactly where I needed it. As much as I beat up on myself, and feel less than - I would not trade places. I think I might have just started to love myself. ❤✨

  • @marthagamboa216
    @marthagamboa216 10 місяців тому +1

    Love you lots I’m starting the becoming her podcast today .I love your videos on detachment I’m trying to detach from someone but I can’t get passed the reason why they treated me the way they did after telling me I was the person they wanted to be with . The answer must be simple he never really loved me ….harder to get over the lie then the truth . XoXo

  • @saumya__x
    @saumya__x Місяць тому

    Needed this so much :)

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @sparklyblonde241
    @sparklyblonde241 9 місяців тому

    Margarita you are an absolute vision. I have enjoyed every video you've put out. I am on a journey of becoming a secure and self loving woman in this difficult dating world, and your words are so encouraging and soothing to my soul! Please continue sharing your thoughts and words of wisdom! ❤

  • @ivastoianova7453
    @ivastoianova7453 10 місяців тому

    I really appreciate your existence and your wise words! You look amazing ❤

  • @flourishorji6681
    @flourishorji6681 10 місяців тому +1

    You just gained a new subscriber, margarita!❤ My name is Flourish and you are thar big sister I have been looking for 👌🏾🥺

  • @k00ki3izkrazy
    @k00ki3izkrazy 8 місяців тому

    I needed to hear this thank you for putting it in this perspective 💕 tired of being in low vibration mode

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @shahrzadmoadeli
    @shahrzadmoadeli 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi Margarita, thank you for speaking on this topic. Can you please share you experience with betrayal and being cheated on; how you moved on and how you handled the aftermath. ❤

  • @elisabeth9934
    @elisabeth9934 10 місяців тому

    you give big sister energy, love it

  • @honorehabigaelle
    @honorehabigaelle 10 місяців тому

    You look good today.
    Thank you for this video😊
    Have a good one❤

  • @HashtagAPI8
    @HashtagAPI8 8 місяців тому

    I am so happy I found you. You are not trasy or mean like some other female lifestyle/dating creators. We are probably same age but I feel like I never had anyone talk about these things in such reason so it's like I am learning from the begining :D

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому +1

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @SaraJ-87
    @SaraJ-87 10 місяців тому

    Thank you!!!! so much for this video, I’m so grateful you take the time to make them. Also I really appreciate you look straight into the camera I fell like your looking at me and talking directly only to me.

  • @books-and-cats
    @books-and-cats 10 місяців тому

    Congratulations on the pregnancy!!! Wish you all the best beautiful one xx

  • @jennyelena
    @jennyelena 10 місяців тому

    Needed this reminder, post break up. Thank you. 🙏

  • @LisaLovee420
    @LisaLovee420 10 місяців тому +2

    🥹🥹 so needed this ❤

  • @JewlsLittleMonster
    @JewlsLittleMonster 10 місяців тому

    Focus on yourself can help too and remember all the things youve done and had and gone

  • @britiroy9758
    @britiroy9758 10 місяців тому +3

    Can you please make another video for people who are being envied of, & how to deal with jealous frenemirs..?
    I like that you touched this topic from a soul perspective too. But most people are not that lovey dovey anymore. They take pride in being a "dark soul" lmao. Very few people are bothered about what is wrong and what is right. All they understand is convenience.
    Beautiful content anyway. 💜🌸

    • @cheechee2246
      @cheechee2246 10 місяців тому +1

      exactly!! most friendships today are not grounded in genuine love it is all transactional

  • @andrea_0707
    @andrea_0707 10 місяців тому +4

    Hi Margarita! Thank you so much for talking about envy/jealousy in that context and giving insights and reframing thoughts for it. I do have a follow up question: how does one know if the envious feeling is telling something about what you desire vs peer pressure in a sense that one think one desires it because one feels envy/jealous but looking at it deeper one actually doesn’t want that experience, thing or whatever the other has?
    I’ve dealt with my envy feelings for a long time trying to understand it and there are times i end up blaming myself “only” for feeling it. i am aware that it’s only my side of the equation that i can control or respond with, but where can i draw the line between “okay this is probably my self esteem speaking” vs “oh this dynamic is just constantly making me feel envious feelings for some reason maybe this is just incompatible”? Oftentimes, i find myself envious of things or experiences that i think i should be desiring because majority desires it. so yeah my question is in that sense. Hope to hear from you! maybe it’s something you can cover in your upcoming videos. Thank you so much for your helpful contents! 💖☺️

  • @Lovelyme88
    @Lovelyme88 10 місяців тому

    I don’t want to take away from this message but you are soooooo stunning. Absolutely beautiful 😍

  • @MarieAK
    @MarieAK 10 місяців тому +3

    Margarita❤️ I truly love all the information you have blessed us with. Lack of education can make a significant difference in our journey. That being said, do you have any advice or tips on staying in your feminine as a single mom? I know you were raised by a single mom so you might have some insight but I truly struggle with being responsible and taking on that empty male energy to make sure my own is taken care of but I find it hard to employ femininity in my dating life when I’m constantly having to “put out fires” and redirect things

    • @Margarita.Nazarenko
      @Margarita.Nazarenko  10 місяців тому +5

      I hear you and I truly understand. Motherhood really pushes you into masculine energy. But it doesn’t have to. Anyone who isn’t in your life to make it better shouldn’t have a part in it. I’ll make more content on it in the future

  • @clauyeon
    @clauyeon 9 місяців тому

    I'm binge-watching your content Margarita because i find it awesome! Keep going :3

  • @malikbarry7542
    @malikbarry7542 10 місяців тому +8

    Margarita can you do an episode on online dating?

    • @mufasahm8238
      @mufasahm8238 10 місяців тому

      That's a good one x

    • @malikbarry7542
      @malikbarry7542 10 місяців тому

      Édit: your thoughts and opinions on online dating whether one can be in their feminine energy and be on the dating apps

  • @beckye8799
    @beckye8799 10 місяців тому

    Margarita, I needed this!!! Thank you❤

  • @socialite8218
    @socialite8218 10 місяців тому

    You deliver angelic lessons.

  • @artemisdea
    @artemisdea 10 місяців тому +6

    Im not sure this applies to my case....I feel this way about the girlfriend of the man I love and I work with since one year, he left me and went with her and she's very beautiful like a model (even tho a bit shallow, maybe...) and younger...how can I not wish I was her, when I see him taking her on trips, loving her, giving her everything...it hurts so much

    • @KL-zg5dn
      @KL-zg5dn 10 місяців тому +1

      🫂 hang in there

    • @melissaharding
      @melissaharding 9 місяців тому +3

      Block them for your own mental sanity, you're worth more than to cause your own suffering (I talk from experience) block so you don't see it and focus on you now ♥

    • @elizabethlaughlin5111
      @elizabethlaughlin5111 5 місяців тому

      Wow I can totally relate. Going through something similar. ❤️

  • @alexandralee5830
    @alexandralee5830 10 місяців тому

    How tf are you reading my mind. I’ve been watching your videos for a while and just realized this one is new and exactly what has been happening with me lately.

  • @hamdaaqilalvi
    @hamdaaqilalvi 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video Margarita

  • @hannamercedes1265
    @hannamercedes1265 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for this Margarita! ❤

  • @zoescah
    @zoescah 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been struggling with seeing everyone around me getting married & having babies. I’m 25 and I feel behind which is crazy because I never felt this way before. But I feel so far from that ever happening for me and I crave it so much. I have to delete my social media every so often because every other day there’s another peer having a baby or getting engaged. I’m so happy for them but when is it my turn? Why can’t I manage to find that?
    Comparison truly is the thief of joy

    • @richradtylr4
      @richradtylr4 2 місяці тому +1

      Kids are expensive, you'll forever broke.....My god with all the inflation nowadays.

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @lovelace8702
    @lovelace8702 10 місяців тому +5

    First I don't wanna be her. I do compare because I'm being compared by men. I suffer with anger that a man can't see beyond looks.

  • @likesky8
    @likesky8 10 місяців тому +5

    The way I deal with jealousy/envy personally is that I end the friendship. If someone's situation makes me feel anxious, unhappy or bad about myself - why keep that person in your life. Let them move on and you move on with your life. That can be a great solution.

    • @beaniebaby1208
      @beaniebaby1208 10 місяців тому

      No it isnt. Youve rejected someone who didnt deserve it thats evil so your envy James 3v16 got in the way. The other person did NOTHING wrong

    • @MuseSunflower
      @MuseSunflower 9 місяців тому +1

      There will always be people who have more or different things than you do though. Are you going to run away from everyone?

  • @KL--------CF
    @KL--------CF 10 місяців тому +1

    You look amazing today

  • @fardawsayusuf4852
    @fardawsayusuf4852 10 місяців тому

    You are amazing . Like an older sister to me.s wise words. Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Youngishh...
    @Youngishh... 8 місяців тому

    I love the way ur vdos r recommended to me at right time with right topic tht I need🤍

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @WoziduranJahemter
    @WoziduranJahemter 10 місяців тому +1

    EXACTLY!!!!! AWESOMELY TRUTHFULLY AND REASONABLY SAID!

  • @Rfe_Music
    @Rfe_Music Місяць тому

    Thank you❤

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

  • @risperladee5718
    @risperladee5718 9 місяців тому

    I love your teaching's girl ... thanks alot!

  • @Juliana-f4f
    @Juliana-f4f 7 місяців тому

    Oh my god it's so true about the jealousy thing , when i was little and saw a girl that's so beautiful or has something that i want for myself , i always thought to myself even though i really want to be LIKE her , i don't want to be her , i want to be me that have what she has .

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @arilennox1443
    @arilennox1443 10 місяців тому +2

    You are a QUEEN

  • @jessicanameh8243
    @jessicanameh8243 10 місяців тому

    that was great❤ Can we please have a longer detailed videos about the jealousy for a partner? you're really helping us lots and changing us! thank you💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎

  • @malindateal14
    @malindateal14 8 місяців тому

    I love it whenever you do a video I’ve learned so much from you. I always attract cheaters and I’m not sure exactly why. But I’m gonna be a lot more careful in my future.

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @Carmen-yq5pp
    @Carmen-yq5pp 10 місяців тому

    CONGRATULATIONS ❤

  • @tanya2700
    @tanya2700 8 місяців тому

    Your like the mother or close sister I don't have 😢 thank you

  • @azeoo5666
    @azeoo5666 10 місяців тому

    This is a beautiful masterpiece ❤

  • @iremcigdem2519
    @iremcigdem2519 10 місяців тому

    Thank you I love listening you and your speeches touch my life 🤍

  • @Luck123_
    @Luck123_ 9 місяців тому

    This was soo good 🙏

  • @elizabethlaughlin5111
    @elizabethlaughlin5111 5 місяців тому

    This is so beautiful! Thank you

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27

  • @hermione9209
    @hermione9209 10 місяців тому +3

    Hey, thanks for it ❤ How about the guy I just met keeping his ex gf photo on Instagram saying it's a memory? Is that normal to do so? I'm an anxiously attached type of person trying to be secure. And he said " you dont have to be this insecure about it cause of your past trauma" . I'm confused . Someone please help me on this

  • @foggy_brain8665
    @foggy_brain8665 2 місяці тому

    Thank you again . ❤

    • @Jack-fd3gl
      @Jack-fd3gl 7 днів тому

      Jealousy is from satan, satan wants you to compare yourself to others and feel insecure and anxious about yourself and how others look at you. Why would satan want to do that? because God asked you not to covet, and satan wants you to do exactly what God doesn’t want you to:
      “You shall not covet.”
      Exodus 20:17
      Instead ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
      Jesus said:
      “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
      _ Matthew 6: 32_33
      "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
      _ Matthew 6:26-27
      Worry about your ETERNAL life. God knows what you want and He will give it to you if you follow Him with all your heart.

    • @foggy_brain8665
      @foggy_brain8665 7 днів тому

      @@Jack-fd3gl thank you i needed this

  • @mitchducky962
    @mitchducky962 10 місяців тому

    Good morning beautiful day 💪🏾🫴🏾🌞 hello 👋🏾

    • @mitchducky962
      @mitchducky962 10 місяців тому

      Translate English language American for you 🙏🏾👍🏾🌹🆒🫴🏾🔜🆗💬😻🥴🥰

  • @risperladee5718
    @risperladee5718 9 місяців тому

    🇰🇪.. I'm watching you from Kenya

  • @JazUpMyStyle
    @JazUpMyStyle 10 місяців тому

    Great points. I just did a video on this as well and one thing I remind folks is that a lot of us tend to idolize the idea of who we THINK people are. A lot of people only show what they want people to see. Meanwhile, you’re idolizing someone not realizing what goes on behind closed doors. We need to be cautious of the things we wish for and perhaps use what you “envy” as motivation instead of jealousy. 🤍🤍🤍🤍