💌 1: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 💌 2: Internal problems need internal solutions- not external ones. 💌 3: Find out where and how the comparison started. 💌 4: Stop comparing others all the time. 💌 5: Don't just focus on external beauty. 💌 6: Jealousy is a disease. Admire without feeling envious. 💌 7: No matter how many people admire you, it won't change anything until you feel beautiful internally. 💌 8: You are the creator of your reality. 💌 9: If someone puts you into a competition, never prove their narrative right by actually competing. 💌 10: There's no such thing as "ugly". 💌 11: Do mirror work. 💌 12: Focus on YOU.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
@@akshitababoria Glad yo hear that, it's way better to be alone and be whoever you want. And the positive thing is that you have managed to clean the surroundings of people who really didn't appreciate your worth. Blessings to y'all
Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
I love the new editing, the little pop up pictures with "magical princess" music - 10/10, I don't know why but it makes the whole video and its' message feel like a talk with an older sister/older best friend.
i had a friend in high school when I wasn't that well off financially, she was financially well off and used to brag about it to me asking me if i was jealous AND I WAS SO HAPPY FOR HER ALL THE TIME. it's insane how people feel good about themselves by comparing then to someone they're not on the same stage with 😭
Socrates would say beauty is objective, the sophists would say that beauty is subjective, Plato would say that beauty is just an ideal form, beauty can be something else for everyone.
this video was just what I needed, just now I've realized I had a trigger. The moment I started my healing journey, once in a blue moon I'd compare my happiness and progress to others, recently it being my cousin.
The timing of this video is divine. I've been feeling so insecure and constantly kept comparing myself to my bestfriend who is just so beautiful. I felt awful looking at myself and I felt like I wasn't good enough. I'm only 15 and I know it's common to have these thoughts at my age but it's just so tiring crying myself to sleep everyday wishing I was prettier.
I never use to compare myself, but started in my 20s, when you ask the Q why (bullying, or parents, etc) you basically hit the nail on the head. For me it was always being the last pick girl in class, but being a kid, and pre-adult thinking innocence I didn’t think much of it. Never been asked out buy guys, ever, and treated either like a ghost, or trash. Had girls tell me I’m ugly in High School, 🤷♀️ Sometimes I wonder if it’s my nose, because it’s aquiline nose (bump), it’s not flattering. It suuuuucks, and it’s sad because I never use to compare myself and when I do it’s always not good enough. So glad for this vid.
I started playing guitar for the first time 2 days ago & it was very frustrating for me I can't even play a happy birthday song & was feeling demotivated but now after watching this video I'm feeling good & now I believe I can do it. Thank you so much.
Needed to hear this. I have always compared myself to literally EVERYONE. It's so mentally draining that i end up being so focused on comparisons i lose precious time and energy that i could spend on my hobbies and get better at them. I also gave up on many hobbies and interests because i felt there's no point in doing them cuz I'm too stupid(+was stupid enough to believe in the mean things people said)
your new editing style made me laugh so much, I ABSOLUTELY love it 💓 I follow your for quite a while now and it is so amazing to see how you embrace yourself more and more, I always loved your content and you but I have the feeling that now you show more of your personality and it inspires me so much and it is just so lovely to watch - you are not only beautiful and smart but so authentic and cute, I literally adore you and your progress. Thank you for letting us be part of it! PS: I think you get prettier every single time I watch you 👑
At first I wasn't convinced about your videos, but I was wrong, you create very valuable videos and the way you give advice on something sounds very intelligent, don't stop creating it, keep it up
last night, i had a conversation with one of the members of the ALESSIA CULT, and we were discussing how fortunate we are to exist in the same generation as you. you help us in ways that you can't even imagine. can't thank you enough for that, mother.
Hi Alessia! This video is very timely and i appreciate you sharing your insights on envy and comparison. Although I have struggled with envy growing up and for a long time now, i know my attempts to tend to my triggers and search for answers in understanding why i feel the way i feel i know i have come a long way and have many tiny breakthroughs that makes sense as i grow older. One of the things i would usually read about envy in hopes to overcome it is reading stuff on social media such as “turning envy into inspiration” or “you shouldn’t be envious of your friends” while it sounds ideal it can also register like invalidation and shaming people who feel envy because sometimes we do feel this stuff not by choice and with unawareness and also societal programming. No one really talks about the “HOW” on this sayings and therefore makes those envious more and more feeling inferior and the envied superior and supported. I appreciate your video because you didn’t say it in a way like pushing it down our throats or making the envious feel wrong for feeling so. You indicated practical examples on the HOW and explain why it might help rewire our brains when we found ourselves comparing. Thank you!
Just as Alessia said "comparison kills creativity" I get an ad saying "have you ever wondered why some people are blessed with a natural talent for art" literally the universe giving me an example 😂😂
I find great value in your content and would very much appreciate a video about your experience with disordered eating and how you've managed to overcome it. ♥️
Alessia, your work has spoken to me - so much so I’ve binged almost all of your videos! This one convinced me I was meant to find your channel ❤ Thank you for sharing
thank u so muchhh! I tried the lesson 8 today, there were some youtubers that I was very jealous of because they got thousands subscribers faster than me, I commented on their videos that their content were good and then they thanked me, Idk how but it made me feel so happy!
13:04 tbh I never saw an ugly person in my whole life. Ever since I can remember I always found it awkward, out of place and weird when someone said „this person is ugly“
Such a powerful message! Comparison can be so toxic, but it’s something we all face at some point. I’ve just shared my thoughts on this in a new video, and I think it might offer some additional perspective. 💐 Let’s keep encouraging each other to grow beyond comparison! xx
I needed to hear this today ! I compare myself sooo often or even feel worthless because I’m 22 and still had no braces yet so I always think and compare why is everyone so perfect and I am not , but your video really helped me ! I really think about it know a different way! And I feel that part with the eating disorder I have one too since i was only 8 years old it’s an endless cycle of comparing and thinking oh I will happy when I have that number or I will be happy if I look like that or that person it’s the worst doing this and comparing to others 🥲 I love your videos ! They always come up to the right time when it’s needed the most ! You always save us 🫶🏻❤️🌹 Also I know this has nothing to do with this but can you maybe show is someday your hair Routine and how you got your hair so long and healthy?🥰 Love you and Salem 🖤🫶🏻🌙🥀
I love you with my entire heart,I’m literally going through the worst time of my entire entire life of living. I am so close to ending my life and you’re the only person helping me. I have no family. I don’t have any support and I can’t even put into words and say what I’m going through but girl nothing is keeping me hopeful other than you. Your mindset is everything that I used to be before people destroyed me and left me with trauma. I’m fighting every single day to gain my self esteem again.
Alessia you are my favorite content creator, it’s so obvious that you put so much effort into your videos and you are so well-read and well-spoken, you clearly have a lot of knowledge and know what you are talking about. Also you have an undeniable lovely and captivating aura and energy, watching your videos is my safe space in social media 💓💓
And like always the divine timing, I don't even know how. I will listen to this for at least 3 times tomorrow... now I have a lot to study for. When I'm done a little and relieved, I'll watch this with a pure mind. ✨️💓💓 (I am treasuring your every video, ain't none going to waste 💅🏻)
Thank you so much for being yourself. It felt like I was watching a part or reflection of me in you. It finally felt so good. And I've always wanted someone to talk about this subject. Thankyou.
Will you make a video about how to hold a conversation with someone and maintain friendships? Also about boundaries in friendships and how to be myself and at the same time become interesting for others
I want to give this Video 1000 likes or even more, thank you Alessia I really aprechiate you and your intuition is always right, that is the thing that i needed to hear today, i really much needed it. Also your cat Salem ist really really cute 🩷🫶🏼
You and your contents are really helpful.They give me the crucial things about life and also improvement of learning English since you put the subtitles clearly.
I personally feel really insecure because I was bullied and I compare myself a lot to my cousin… she’s the most beautiful girl I know and I wish I was like her
I live in Brazil and here we had so many gorgs influencers with amazing bodies and i was like on Instagram comparing me with others, your video came up to me me in the right time
but sometimes looking into other people things that we dont have can make me really motivated,but sometimes it became stress because i want to achieve anything,but at other point i want to grow up by looking into other people as a motivation😫
Persephone is a goddess who works a lot with shadow and internal light, would you find it interesting to bring a video about the internalization of shadows, human duality, free will and all the energy work of this goddess? After all, you are her daughter 🌹
I felt so insecure I asked a girl how I looked and she told me I was honestly hideous. I've been called ugly my whole life and no one ever told me otherwise so I started to believe it like I get that you must find confidence in yourself and stop caring about what others think but it just feels like you're deluding and lying to yourself.
you may not have the kind of beauty that a lot of people like but the thing is,Alessia said it too,everything has its own beauty. even the smallest things. not everyone will find you pretty and that is totaly okay. even if 1% of the population finds you beautiful,that is still a lot. don't strive for external validation,find it within yourself. love yourself enough,so you can attract people that respect you and find you beautiful.
I had someone who used to like me but choosed someone else over me.. thats where it started and i have healed a lot and that person was shit and traumatised
Since I was a child , my parents always told me about my flaws, which made me genuinely hate myself so much , like I don’t think you get it . I have never been told I’m nothing but beautiful by outsiders. But guess what I have never ever believed it even once not even as a joke have I believed it. I’m 19 years old I act sooo fake , I act like I think I’m pretty or something reality I always cry myself to sleep because I just want to escape my brain. It’s so much going on in my brain I wish I could just take it out. I tried so many things , I’m starting to think maybe I’m cursed like I might live this way or even worse for ever.
💌 1: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
💌 2: Internal problems need internal solutions- not external ones.
💌 3: Find out where and how the comparison started.
💌 4: Stop comparing others all the time.
💌 5: Don't just focus on external beauty.
💌 6: Jealousy is a disease. Admire without feeling envious.
💌 7: No matter how many people admire you, it won't change anything until you feel beautiful internally.
💌 8: You are the creator of your reality.
💌 9: If someone puts you into a competition, never prove their narrative right by actually competing.
💌 10: There's no such thing as "ugly".
💌 11: Do mirror work.
💌 12: Focus on YOU.
THE DIVINE TIMING , I LOVE YOU ALESSIA
YES EXACTLY
YESSSSSSSS
Do you compare yourself?girl you’re amazing ❤
Frr 🥺🤞
THE TIMING WAS LITERALLY CRAZY, (I was just comparing myself recently)
"YOU are part of the universe" is the best parttt
It’s actually beyond crazy how accurate the timing is
Fr tho
Her intuition ain't a joke!!! like PLEASE YOU ALWAYS POST AT THE RIGHT TIME OMG PLEASE I LOVE YOU 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I love your new editing style 😭😭😭
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
"External beauty is the least interesting thing about you!" So real
Happy Ramadan yall
( watching Alessia's video on TV while breaking my fast feels like heaven )
Same but suhoor instead 😭
Thanks to you I have finally left 2 toxic friends who were always laughing at me and crossing my boundaries.
Best wishes, Alessia ‼️‼️‼️
I'm very glad to hear that! You did the most right thing 💕 I know soon you will find new good friends that you actually deserve
Sameeee i left a toxic one then my nice bff also started acting like her and she chose her over me so i had to cut ties wd her
@@akira6389 Thank you so much for your support‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
@@akshitababoria Glad yo hear that, it's way better to be alone and be whoever you want. And the positive thing is that you have managed to clean the surroundings of people who really didn't appreciate your worth.
Blessings to y'all
Bro truee mere sath bhi thi scene tha
Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@bartholetbay412I'm praying for you 🙏🏼❤️
Psalms 34:18 NIV
[18] The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
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I love the new editing, the little pop up pictures with "magical princess" music - 10/10, I don't know why but it makes the whole video and its' message feel like a talk with an older sister/older best friend.
i had a friend in high school when I wasn't that well off financially, she was financially well off and used to brag about it to me asking me if i was jealous AND I WAS SO HAPPY FOR HER ALL THE TIME. it's insane how people feel good about themselves by comparing then to someone they're not on the same stage with 😭
Socrates would say beauty is objective, the sophists would say that beauty is subjective, Plato would say that beauty is just an ideal form, beauty can be something else for everyone.
She is here when we need her. Thank you, Alessia❤
This is literally the most perfect timing 🥹 I was feeling so under the weather recently😭
this video was just what I needed, just now I've realized I had a trigger. The moment I started my healing journey, once in a blue moon I'd compare my happiness and progress to others, recently it being my cousin.
i was feeling insecure about my looks..SHE ALWAYS KNOWS EVEYTHING😭💗💗
Gurl you are literally SOOOO PRETTY 🥹🥹✨✨✨💗💗💗💗
The timing of this video is divine. I've been feeling so insecure and constantly kept comparing myself to my bestfriend who is just so beautiful. I felt awful looking at myself and I felt like I wasn't good enough. I'm only 15 and I know it's common to have these thoughts at my age but it's just so tiring crying myself to sleep everyday wishing I was prettier.
Bro you are genuinely so pretty .
@@mansipal22 aww thank you 😭💗
@@arusha._. ❤️
You're beautiful girl ❤
ALESSIA we need this as a Podcast on Spotify!
I never use to compare myself, but started in my 20s, when you ask the Q why (bullying, or parents, etc) you basically hit the nail on the head.
For me it was always being the last pick girl in class, but being a kid, and pre-adult thinking innocence I didn’t think much of it. Never been asked out buy guys, ever, and treated either like a ghost, or trash. Had girls tell me I’m ugly in High School, 🤷♀️
Sometimes I wonder if it’s my nose, because it’s aquiline nose (bump), it’s not flattering.
It suuuuucks, and it’s sad because I never use to compare myself and when I do it’s always not good enough.
So glad for this vid.
That 10years was hilarious 😂
I started playing guitar for the first time 2 days ago & it was very frustrating for me I can't even play a happy birthday song & was feeling demotivated but now after watching this video I'm feeling good & now I believe I can do it. Thank you so much.
Needed to hear this. I have always compared myself to literally EVERYONE.
It's so mentally draining that i end up being so focused on comparisons i lose precious time and energy that i could spend on my hobbies and get better at them. I also gave up on many hobbies and interests because i felt there's no point in doing them cuz I'm too stupid(+was stupid enough to believe in the mean things people said)
your new editing style made me laugh so much, I ABSOLUTELY love it 💓 I follow your for quite a while now and it is so amazing to see how you embrace yourself more and more, I always loved your content and you but I have the feeling that now you show more of your personality and it inspires me so much and it is just so lovely to watch - you are not only beautiful and smart but so authentic and cute, I literally adore you and your progress. Thank you for letting us be part of it!
PS: I think you get prettier every single time I watch you
👑
mumma putting so much efforts in editing and I'm loving it how cute
At first I wasn't convinced about your videos, but I was wrong, you create very valuable videos and the way you give advice on something sounds very intelligent, don't stop creating it, keep it up
the fact that I have been comparing myself to others so much lately and talking about it to other people and now this video shows up, it's amazing.
last night, i had a conversation with one of the members of the ALESSIA CULT, and we were discussing how fortunate we are to exist in the same generation as you. you help us in ways that you can't even imagine. can't thank you enough for that, mother.
You are too cute 🥹 I love you guys so much and I am so grateful for you. 🙏🏼♥️
let's be friends girlll
@@saarraaa4 girl, what's your un
Queen is always there when we need her the most ❤️
the way this actually changed me ily you're amazing ♥️
I NEEDED THIS, PERFECT TIMING QUEEN OMGG
Hi Alessia! This video is very timely and i appreciate you sharing your insights on envy and comparison.
Although I have struggled with envy growing up and for a long time now, i know my attempts to tend to my triggers and search for answers in understanding why i feel the way i feel i know i have come a long way and have many tiny breakthroughs that makes sense as i grow older.
One of the things i would usually read about envy in hopes to overcome it is reading stuff on social media such as “turning envy into inspiration” or “you shouldn’t be envious of your friends” while it sounds ideal it can also register like invalidation and shaming people who feel envy because sometimes we do feel this stuff not by choice and with unawareness and also societal programming. No one really talks about the “HOW” on this sayings and therefore makes those envious more and more feeling inferior and the envied superior and supported.
I appreciate your video because you didn’t say it in a way like pushing it down our throats or making the envious feel wrong for feeling so. You indicated practical examples on the HOW and explain why it might help rewire our brains when we found ourselves comparing. Thank you!
Just as Alessia said "comparison kills creativity" I get an ad saying "have you ever wondered why some people are blessed with a natural talent for art" literally the universe giving me an example 😂😂
I find great value in your content and would very much appreciate a video about your experience with disordered eating and how you've managed to overcome it. ♥️
"you are a part of this universe" made me realise so many things. I love your videos fr
I love how she edited her videos to make it not look boring and so serious😩❤️
found this right when i was stalking others and watching their stories all while overthinking
Alessia, your work has spoken to me - so much so I’ve binged almost all of your videos! This one convinced me I was meant to find your channel ❤ Thank you for sharing
thank u so muchhh! I tried the lesson 8 today, there were some youtubers that I was very jealous of because they got thousands subscribers faster than me, I commented on their videos that their content were good and then they thanked me, Idk how but it made me feel so happy!
13:04 tbh I never saw an ugly person in my whole life. Ever since I can remember I always found it awkward, out of place and weird when someone said „this person is ugly“
Such a powerful message! Comparison can be so toxic, but it’s something we all face at some point. I’ve just shared my thoughts on this in a new video, and I think it might offer some additional perspective. 💐 Let’s keep encouraging each other to grow beyond comparison! xx
I needed to hear this today ! I compare myself sooo often or even feel worthless because I’m 22 and still had no braces yet so I always think and compare why is everyone so perfect and I am not , but your video really helped me ! I really think about it know a different way! And I feel that part with the eating disorder I have one too since i was only 8 years old it’s an endless cycle of comparing and thinking oh I will happy when I have that number or I will be happy if I look like that or that person it’s the worst doing this and comparing to others 🥲
I love your videos ! They always come up to the right time when it’s needed the most ! You always save us 🫶🏻❤️🌹
Also I know this has nothing to do with this but can you maybe show is someday your hair Routine and how you got your hair so long and healthy?🥰
Love you and Salem 🖤🫶🏻🌙🥀
After I just compared myself to someone in my journal entry? And breakdown this weekday?
I'm starting to believe in Alessia supremacy now
I love you with my entire heart,I’m literally going through the worst time of my entire entire life of living. I am so close to ending my life and you’re the only person helping me. I have no family. I don’t have any support and I can’t even put into words and say what I’m going through but girl nothing is keeping me hopeful other than you.
Your mindset is everything that I used to be before people destroyed me and left me with trauma. I’m fighting every single day to gain my self esteem again.
love! her points are clear and instructions
I looove the way you talk it's so calming
Thank you SO much Queen. Right when I needed it❤ I love youuu
thank you so much for this. all i needed to hear and put it together into one goal, myself.
Thank you for your powerful words of wisdom ❤❤❤
Girl the timing is immaculate
It’s like when I had bratz dolls. I couldn’t say I liked Chloe or Jade better because they were both really beautiful
This came at an incredibly accurate time. Last night I cried comparing myself to someone I'm close to.
I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW I NEEDED THIS , QUEEEN
Alessia you are my favorite content creator, it’s so obvious that you put so much effort into your videos and you are so well-read and well-spoken, you clearly have a lot of knowledge and know what you are talking about. Also you have an undeniable lovely and captivating aura and energy, watching your videos is my safe space in social media 💓💓
I i love how its not too long not in the negative way but my attention span is just 🤯😭❤️
MOTHER ALWAYS KNOWS THE TIMIMG, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭💗
I love you too ♥️
@@Persephonesmind just like women like you thinking that if they meet a "rich man" they will be happy.
u look like a doll. I'm obsessed with ur nails, rings, fit, makeup, and the HAIR!! such a beauty beauty.
MY DAY GOT BETTER BC YOU POSTED
i love this channel so much, please never stop posting. Your videos have actually helped me a lot 💚
I swear,I just needed these videos. You're the best Alessia ❤ilysm
And like always the divine timing, I don't even know how. I will listen to this for at least 3 times tomorrow... now I have a lot to study for. When I'm done a little and relieved, I'll watch this with a pure mind. ✨️💓💓 (I am treasuring your every video, ain't none going to waste 💅🏻)
thank you Alessia, because u made me feel better with myself
Everything you said make so much sense. Thank you for sharing this video, keep the good work❤️
Thank you so much for this, I feel like I’m going crazy by comparing myself to other people, I love you Alessia ❤
Thank you so much for being yourself. It felt like I was watching a part or reflection of me in you. It finally felt so good. And I've always wanted someone to talk about this subject. Thankyou.
Will you make a video about how to hold a conversation with someone and maintain friendships? Also about boundaries in friendships and how to be myself and at the same time become interesting for others
I want to give this Video 1000 likes or even more, thank you Alessia I really aprechiate you and your intuition is always right, that is the thing that i needed to hear today, i really much needed it. Also your cat Salem ist really really cute 🩷🫶🏼
You and your contents are really helpful.They give me the crucial things about life and also improvement of learning English since you put the subtitles clearly.
Girll my whole arm is cramping up from writing this down but I'm so grateful for this
It was exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much 😊😊🥰
I needed this video. Thank you so much. 💗
When Mother shows up to Guide & Teach We Listens and Become Better ❤
I personally feel really insecure because I was bullied and I compare myself a lot to my cousin… she’s the most beautiful girl I know and I wish I was like her
This helped alot thanks, like this mindset!!
In Germany we say: Schönheit liegt im Auges des Betrachters 😅
i was at my tuition comparing myself to the other intelligent girl and when i came back at home, i saw this video. perfect timing really
Really needed to hear these words. Thankyou☺️💖
thankkkkk youuu smm for your efforts, i really appreciate it. I have learnt a lot from you . Thankk youu
I live in Brazil and here we had so many gorgs influencers with amazing bodies and i was like on Instagram comparing me with others, your video came up to me me in the right time
but sometimes looking into other people things that we dont have can make me really motivated,but sometimes it became stress because i want to achieve anything,but at other point i want to grow up by looking into other people as a motivation😫
timing is insanee😭😭😭 thank you Alessia❤️❤️❤️
Thank you queen. I really needed this video. Love your content so muchhhhhhhh
Really needed it thx Alessia
OML PERFECT TIMING
Thank you ❤
Thank you, queen ❤
ALESSIA JUST RIGHT TIMING! Omg I swear I was ABOUT to ask you to make a video like this! Thank you for existence💞👏👏
Persephone is a goddess who works a lot with shadow and internal light, would you find it interesting to bring a video about the internalization of shadows, human duality, free will and all the energy work of this goddess? After all, you are her daughter 🌹
thank you Alessia, I needed this video so much.
thank you for this! I was just thinking about if someone else's beauty from my judgment makes them more attractive than me.
'Every soul has its right to exist.'
Very wise
I felt so insecure I asked a girl how I looked and she told me I was honestly hideous. I've been called ugly my whole life and no one ever told me otherwise so I started to believe it like I get that you must find confidence in yourself and stop caring about what others think but it just feels like you're deluding and lying to yourself.
you may not have the kind of beauty that a lot of people like but the thing is,Alessia said it too,everything has its own beauty. even the smallest things. not everyone will find you pretty and that is totaly okay. even if 1% of the population finds you beautiful,that is still a lot. don't strive for external validation,find it within yourself. love yourself enough,so you can attract people that respect you and find you beautiful.
I had someone who used to like me but choosed someone else over me.. thats where it started and i have healed a lot and that person was shit and traumatised
ramadan kareem to u darlinggg
You look like an elegant, professional fairy 🧚🏼♀️ ❤
omg alessia i love ur sassy side aaaaa
Since I was a child , my parents always told me about my flaws, which made me genuinely hate myself so much , like I don’t think you get it . I have never been told I’m nothing but beautiful by outsiders. But guess what I have never ever believed it even once not even as a joke have I believed it. I’m 19 years old I act sooo fake , I act like I think I’m pretty or something reality I always cry myself to sleep because I just want to escape my brain. It’s so much going on in my brain I wish I could just take it out. I tried so many things , I’m starting to think maybe I’m cursed like I might live this way or even worse for ever.
THE TIMING IS CRAZY
Love this conversation ❤❤❤ thank you
Perfect timing tho. Today wasn't MY day actually. I felt bad with myself but then i saw you new video❤ keep going girl you are amazing✨️🫶