Stop Trying To Escape Your Reality...This MOMENT Is The Key

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  • @Learn.practice.repeat
    @Learn.practice.repeat Рік тому +213

    So grateful to have an amazing woman that speaks about humility and what it means to value self, focus, and being present in a world full of distractions.

    • @mikepiccolo32
      @mikepiccolo32 Рік тому

      I find it self serving and all about me.Its selfishness she is teaching .me me me

    • @OO-ct4hq
      @OO-ct4hq Рік тому

      Can you explain how you made the connection? @@mikepiccolo32

    • @av3ngers17
      @av3ngers17 Рік тому +5

      ​@@mikepiccolo32then perhaps you didn't understand the message

    • @mikepiccolo32
      @mikepiccolo32 Рік тому

      @@av3ngers17 Thats what im gathering its very self centered

  • @deanagreen7611
    @deanagreen7611 Рік тому +11

    I’m 63, I have this attitude of eternity in my soul. I lost my husband to cancer and have moved on to re train myself.. live my life to the full.. just as full as before. Thank you for acknowledging that this is possible.
    You can be amazing at any age 🎉❤

  • @sarahmakarem3034
    @sarahmakarem3034 Рік тому +6

    This is my season of being single. This is the time I will remember with most love and intimacy towards myself. The time I got to fall in love with friends, hobbies, and dresses. I will look back and envy myself this very moment.

  • @casshagerty
    @casshagerty Рік тому +98

    I never comment but I just have to say this might be my favorite video I’ve ever watched of yours. The peace this gave me and the beauty you are radiating from the inside is something else. Thank you ❤️

    • @chrysrob
      @chrysrob Рік тому +1

      100% agree ❤

    • @samira2283
      @samira2283 Рік тому

      Same here ❤

    • @envision_embody_become
      @envision_embody_become 10 місяців тому

      I have to piggy back off of this comment and say that I came here to say something similar. I watch just about every video of yours, Margarita, and your podcast is basically my religion… but this video, so so powerful. You really spoke life into us and I cried. You are an INCREDIBLE human being and we are so grateful for all of the knowledge you give us & share so graciously. You have changed my perspective on life, saved my relationship with my significant other by helping me go from anxious to secure attachment and heal parts of me that were suffering in friendships/family affairs. Thank you. ❤

  • @ReginaMichaletos
    @ReginaMichaletos Рік тому +41

    Margarita, I lost it and started crying when you showed the toy mess! I've been struggling with some aspects of my new role as a full-time SAHM (after working as a prominent lawyer for 16 yrs) and feeling like a failure because I can't seem to get on top of the mess! What a beautiful video to remind us that the mess is a reflection of the amazing little miracles in our lives and to enjoy every stage of life. This video has me bawling, thank you xo

    • @Margarita.Nazarenko
      @Margarita.Nazarenko  Рік тому +7

      I have SO much love for you and this message. Forget the mess: it’s not what matters. Xxx

    • @skiller7790
      @skiller7790 Рік тому +3

      One day you will MISS that mess! 😢 It’s goes by so quickly

    • @dashka525
      @dashka525 Рік тому +1

      I also cry on this moment. Because my children left it after their game. Thank you, Rita, for remind

  • @Holly_honestly
    @Holly_honestly Рік тому +64

    Just you simply speaking has me in tears about this. You’re so right. I needed to hear this today! Thank you so much! You’re videos really do touch my soul and awaken something in me I’ve forgotten.

    • @Holly_honestly
      @Holly_honestly Рік тому

      @@mikepiccolo32 did I accidentally quote a song? Lmao

  • @SchoolRumble4ever22
    @SchoolRumble4ever22 6 місяців тому +2

    You look so at peace as you speak. It breaths wisdom and honesty. Thank you for this video

  • @shelly6176
    @shelly6176 Місяць тому

    I am 48 and I wish I had your wisdom at your age. I feel like I have always been searching for my true self. I can never seem to let go and just be. Your videos help me immensely. Thank you so much. Have a great day Margarita ❤❤

  • @andreaperezarduna9645
    @andreaperezarduna9645 Рік тому +20

    Like a lot of the other women who have commented on this video, this is the exact message I needed to hear right now. Funny how destiny works. You've left me with a wonderful feeling of peace and acceptance, and for that I am so grateful. Thank you Margarita ❤

  • @paulanderson2963
    @paulanderson2963 Рік тому +17

    Thank you
    Bless you
    Love to you and all those reading this.
    The season of my marriage seems to be ending and I value your words so much.
    It's time for me to find myself and start living again.

  • @shancareyg
    @shancareyg Рік тому +26

    Your wisdom never fails to amaze me. At 46 you have given me a lot to ponder. Thank you for this. Very timely. I was in a mode of wishing for the next thing simply bc I feel like love is such a…sigh but I am leaning in and trying to surrender/detach. Not everyday is successful but more days than most are. Thank you for contributing to that.

  • @divu1784
    @divu1784 Рік тому +2

    Coming to this video of yours has been such a moment of serendipity. I have been living so uncomfortable the past few months, having had a glimpse of the life I want, I couldn't stop wishing for the next season as you say. Then a few days ago I found that there is going to be a major delay for something I've been wishing for since a long time. I broke down and that gave me a moment of utter clarity. It pulled back my focus from what could be to what IS.
    I was forced to think about the life I am wishing away to make place for the next season. When in fact the life I am wishing away is just as beautiful with long moments of comfort, peace, safety and love. I felt SOOO guilty for not being grateful for all of that, for focusing on something that will have its own time of the day.
    Your video is reiterating that and your words have come like that of a good friend who wishes nothing but the best for me. Thank you for this.

  • @KarebelleMissKarebear
    @KarebelleMissKarebear Рік тому +11

    INSTANT SHIFT! I needed to hear this right now and I think I'll tab it, maybe remind myself with sticky note. Gratitude for you & your shares & for this moment

  • @grazielasantos952
    @grazielasantos952 Рік тому +2

    I cried at the end of this video's message. I'm at a very painful phase of my life, questioning every decision every experience and it seems like every memory of mine is poisoned. This video helps me see things more clearly. Thank you

  • @lamortelift2031
    @lamortelift2031 Рік тому +2

    I’m so grateful you exist Margarita. Your content has helped me pull myself up out of some darkness and heartache times into healing and self discovery💕

  • @rollierollout
    @rollierollout Рік тому +7

    Thank you, Margarita. I really needed to hear this. Bless you 🙏 ♥️

  • @CucreraJourneyRealTalk
    @CucreraJourneyRealTalk Рік тому +3

    Thank you ! Because I tend to miss my past a lot 😩

  • @georgetor7642
    @georgetor7642 Рік тому +1

    You are a beautiful human being, very conscious, self-aware, and driven. Thanks for your message.

  • @NatashaRaisorGlam
    @NatashaRaisorGlam Рік тому +4

    Thank you for reminding me to enjoy the moment. This time 5 years ago, I wished I could be where I am now. And now all I do is stay in my head thinking how much more I need🌸

  • @pearpo
    @pearpo Рік тому +1

    Beautifully described. I feel like underlying the Mother’s anxiousness about the child’s age is a feeling of being overwhelmed.

  • @veenalakshman9348
    @veenalakshman9348 9 місяців тому

    I love margarita so much. Listening to her makes my day so much more better and positive. I love listening to her so so so much istgggg

  • @mshustler
    @mshustler 8 місяців тому

    After binge watching all your videos of anxious attachment and confidence. I landed on this one 😮‍💨 and god damn I needed this !!! Cause I’ve been spiraling and this brought me calmness

  • @TheAvaRox
    @TheAvaRox 4 місяці тому

    I came across your channel a few weeks back and have been consistently watching some of your videos that pertain to what I am going through - have to say that this one was my favorite. It resonated so deeply, especially the part about not really feeling like your full self at the moment. I feel like there's a big pressure to always have it figured out or that we are made to believe that feeling stuck/lost is a sign that you're not doing enough. To hear you say that this is a time of being on a building/exploration stage and maybe who you are is not meant to be right now really shifted my perspective. I can envision the person I want to be and I feel it coming slowly, but always feel bad about myself that I'm not there yet or that I haven't made enough progress yet. After a damaging relationship and painful breakup, I feel like I lost so many parts of myself after giving them away to another person, and I feel like I am left with pieces that I must put back together and form myself again. Listening to you feels like a big sister and its really comforting. Love your videos on self-esteem, choosing yourself first, manifesting what you want and who you want to be, how to respond to ex's and their smoke signals, and attachment styles. I would personally like to hear more from you about breakups, how to move forward in a healthy way when you are deeply hurt by someone, when your perception of the relationship now feels warped and you can't forgive, how to stop obsessive thinking about situations and replaying moments, how to respond when ex constantly reaches out, what to do with all their stuff, how to be comfortable with someone new when you still feel attached to the past person, really anything in that realm.

  • @mickan.5559
    @mickan.5559 Рік тому +1

    I couldn’t sleep from worrying about my future and this was the exact message I needed to hear. Thank you!

  • @malena_galvez
    @malena_galvez Рік тому

    I love your No intro, intro. It's so refreshing.

  • @inbetrieb3965
    @inbetrieb3965 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much. I think I am now in this stage this video was sent me from the Universe because today I have a "bad" day. I follow you right now ❤

  • @gypsysundrop
    @gypsysundrop Рік тому +2

    I have to remind myself all the time to slow down and enjoy the moment. Esp as a mom.. I’ve already missed out on so much and time isn’t slowing down.

  • @marpaula1047
    @marpaula1047 8 місяців тому

    I was cleaning the kitchen and there were many moments where I just stopped and paused. Going through a painful season, but also grateful to experience what was and what is yet to come.

  • @Maggietheebaddie1948
    @Maggietheebaddie1948 Рік тому +2

    I’m trying to rid this feeling when on my weight loss journey and enjoying in the moment. It’s hard but doable. So true. Thank you for this.

  • @WisdomClarity
    @WisdomClarity Рік тому

    Thank you so much. As a Russian in an American culture where many of these things aren’t shared or taught I appreciate your wisdom and aura.

  • @whatistau
    @whatistau Рік тому

    i muted most of most social media connections and unsubbed most of yt, but i kept your videos popping up. you talk so much sense, but really collecting my own thoughts and guiding forward, and i need that now.

  • @antoanett.
    @antoanett. Рік тому

    It's funny how it's no coincidence finding this video and the message that it holds. I have been on this path full of confusion, self- sabotaging and not believing in myself for a very long time and even though I know deep down that better things will happen, I doubt everything .. I am sure that this video was a sign from a higher power and your message is a miracle for me ( especially right now). It is a kind reminder that everything is going to be okay at the end, all of the efforts, wandering without a path, trying to be everything without knowing the direction you are heading towards, it is all for a reason that you not aware of, or as you said you were not ready to be this version of you... thank you for sharing your experience, sincerely thank you 🙏

  • @vamoon61
    @vamoon61 Рік тому +3

    You were speaking to me 🙌🏻
    Much respect and appreciation, thank you.

  • @dallassareerat1300
    @dallassareerat1300 Рік тому +1

    i'd just like to say thank you. from watching your videos ab toxic relationships, to getting out of said toxic relationship, to overthinking ab what could've been or what should've been and watching this. it's been so fruitful looking at life through a different perspective. i want to live in the now, and do more things out of love versus falling into mundane and redundant patterns.

  • @gabija5304
    @gabija5304 9 місяців тому

    I feel like the most meaningful and impactful and sublime video of all you have ever made might be this short, essential piece. Thank you very much for this most important of reminders.

  • @KRobs601
    @KRobs601 11 місяців тому

    I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THIS VIDEO. TODAY I NEEDED THIS MORE THAN EVER. I'VE BEEN DEVOURING YOUR VIDEOS. THANKS FOR YOUR WORK AND BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY❤

  • @thatomalebo5338
    @thatomalebo5338 Рік тому

    You couldn’t have articulated it better, thank you. ❤️

  • @myduck27
    @myduck27 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your content Margarita!
    As a man, I can’t believe how much I resonate with your content. Your content interrogates aspects of myself that i haven’t questioned or understood. By reflecting, I have slowly over time become more self-aware about my attachments, energy, values and struggle with ego. Your content is always timely and poignant, and I appreciate the information you are sharing for all. Thank you ❤

  • @rachelmaunder3347
    @rachelmaunder3347 11 місяців тому

    Blessings to you and all the gorgeous people who have commented. Your truth resonates with us all ❤

  • @laureenmariedecastro6345
    @laureenmariedecastro6345 11 місяців тому

    Hi Ms. Margarita, kindly discuss or tackle about how to overcome jealousy and insecurities in a relationship. Thank you. ❤️

  • @bambi-b8r
    @bambi-b8r 8 місяців тому

    You brought me to tears. Thank you

  • @oliviaonode
    @oliviaonode Рік тому +2

    This had me in tears because it hit so deeply home and was EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. Thank you Margarita. Just thank you, for being you & speaking your truth. You are amazing. You are an inspiration

  • @zoecarey-williams5156
    @zoecarey-williams5156 Рік тому

    You're such a natural at this Margarita, it just hits different1 You're like the cool wise sister I never had XX

  • @gograybechic
    @gograybechic Рік тому +4

    Love this!!❤ such an incredible piece of expressing the transparency of womanhood at any age. Thank You!!!🙏🏾❤️

  • @katherinedcfrancisco9347
    @katherinedcfrancisco9347 Рік тому

    Margarita, you are amazing. thank you so much!

  • @suziandchopstix
    @suziandchopstix Рік тому +1

    You cover areas that I feel a lot of people don’t talk about and it’s really liberating to know you’re not alone. Some of these emotions and state of mind can be really consuming, so thank you❤

  • @deniasolis
    @deniasolis 4 місяці тому

    You're absolutely amazing, Margarita ❤

  • @barefootjamie143
    @barefootjamie143 Рік тому

    Your videos are perfectly timed and on point. My bf of 4 years on the 13th dumped me after he messed up. He has helped me level up and I see how bare minimum he truly is now that he is physically sick. I don't drink alcohol or do drugs so I am exploring the emotions truly free. I highly recommend it ❤🎉
    I am SO glad you decided to be a life coach🎉❤😊

  • @jpn_119
    @jpn_119 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for helping so many people, your videos are a blessing, they're helping me a lot in this chapter of my life ❤

  • @beverlytaylor1745
    @beverlytaylor1745 Рік тому +1

    Hello 🌷 I consider this video a timely blessing. You are articulate to the degree of reaching the things we cleverly buried in the heart. Thank you for the 'map to buried treasures '. 💎

  • @thereel35studio97
    @thereel35studio97 Рік тому +1

    I am obsessed with your work, Margarita! Your videos and podcasts have changed my life and have taught me so many valuable lessons. I want to express my gratitude, much love to you and your family 🤍

  • @lyubomiraruskova6796
    @lyubomiraruskova6796 Рік тому

    One of my favourite videos. Thank you Margarita ❤

  • @bodzakis3265
    @bodzakis3265 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely amazing... you're a pure gold Margarita...... you can't imagine how much you help us, how much effect you have on us, how much visdom you give us and how much we grateful for your videos, even from the other part of the world, in a whole different time zone, country.... thank you so-so much.

  • @untrustjacob
    @untrustjacob Рік тому +2

    my gratitude in this moment is for you and this video- thank you!

  • @tanyasharadamba1264
    @tanyasharadamba1264 Рік тому

    Beautifully said. Thank you❤

  • @Kelsthestylist
    @Kelsthestylist 7 місяців тому

    This was very motivating and reassuring. Thank you

  • @karensnailstudio7171
    @karensnailstudio7171 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this reminder xxx

  • @stoneycreation5263
    @stoneycreation5263 Рік тому

    i neeeedddeeeeddd this. Thank you Margarita.

  • @chrysrob
    @chrysrob Рік тому

    I loved this so much. Such an important message that I am so fully understanding now. Now that the fruits of my desires are ripening and my life is more beautiful and full than ever, i also realize that there will always be more and I will always be missing it if I am not able to appreciate whatever it is I have now. HUGE success takeaway. None of it matters if we can’t even notice it! This is not just a cliche statement. So now I have my ultimate truth written all over the place to remind me when I start falling into go go go mode: “Remember my why.” I wanted success to expand my play, comfort, freedom and joy, so no matter what level of greatness I am achieving, i prioritize feeling/ being/ living freedom, comfort, play and joy. It’s so funny how easy it is to forget that once we get what we want huh lol? So live it now and make it the greatest habit. Success is just an amplifier of whatever mindset we have going on.

  • @nattypnetto
    @nattypnetto Рік тому

    I am so incredibly thankful to have found your channel. These videos speak to my life….you have changed my life. Thank you so much. ❤

  • @annafurer
    @annafurer Рік тому

    Wishing you a healthy and easy pregnancy! This video has such a beautiful message

  • @vanessacarroll2468
    @vanessacarroll2468 10 місяців тому

    You are so amazing! Such a wise and beautiful soul…thank you for your words ❤

  • @abenadickson1660
    @abenadickson1660 Рік тому

    Omg I love love love this message thank you beautiful! And congrats on baby! Xoxo

  • @ssissigui8846
    @ssissigui8846 Рік тому

    You are a blessing. Thank you

  • @AnaFB9696
    @AnaFB9696 Рік тому

    This video brought tears to my eyes. That was how much i needed this. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. Sending love from Lisbon, Portugal

  • @Justkriss17
    @Justkriss17 Рік тому

    Thank you Margarita ❤

  • @klaudistefi
    @klaudistefi Рік тому

    Thank you very much for this video and your wisdom!

  • @esj1315
    @esj1315 Рік тому

    I believe we are currently in the same age and phase of life and I feel this so hard. Thanks for making it.

  •  Рік тому

    I am in love with this video and it's not even half way through. You're an inspiration.

  • @ifeesam
    @ifeesam Рік тому

    I missed the “love you lots like jelly tots.” Great, important and relevant message. Thank you M!

  • @saima119
    @saima119 Рік тому

    Truly amazing video. Thank you so much ❤❤

  • @1chadmon
    @1chadmon Рік тому +1

    I LOVE this. I’ve thought about this often. We think “where did the time go”?? And it’s gone in a flash and all we’ve done is wish it away. Such great points you made. Thank you ♥️

  • @anahinata28
    @anahinata28 Рік тому

    I've been watching your videos after someone important left me and I just felt so lost. Your videos and words have given me a lot of realization and courage to move forward. Thank you so much, Margarita.

  • @hoodie1641
    @hoodie1641 Рік тому

    ur videos actually saved me man, thank you

  • @angie_myhre
    @angie_myhre Рік тому

    Such a wonderful message

  • @joemorales643
    @joemorales643 Рік тому

    Your words of experience and wisdom are so refreshing to me everytime because they sink in deeply. I appreciate your videos so much!!!

  • @ramy-7124
    @ramy-7124 Рік тому

    I totally needed this message!! THANK YOU AND LOVE YOU!!❤❤❤

  • @CamriSuchanskiArt
    @CamriSuchanskiArt Рік тому

    Thank you. This really shifted my mindset of a hardship I’m currently going through.

  • @sf6510
    @sf6510 Рік тому

    Thank you sooo much. I needed this

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince Рік тому

    You're the big sister/ mother I need rn . Bless you 🙏❤️

  • @shanagirl33
    @shanagirl33 Рік тому

    You’re so right. Thank you for this beautiful video, Margarita 🤍

  • @laurenlockridge5583
    @laurenlockridge5583 Рік тому +1

    Idk where I’m going next, thanks for this 🤍

  • @wherestheparty_
    @wherestheparty_ Рік тому

    such a lovely message. I myself am in such a beautiful season right now, so much growth and transformation happening all whils living in the most beautiful place that I manifested for years! so grateful!

  • @HERR2317
    @HERR2317 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for your videos. They have even so useful and I find myself having epiphanies.

  • @xaviersmommy1019
    @xaviersmommy1019 Рік тому

    This is probably one of the best videos I have ever watched. Thank you

  • @sarahsaid2343
    @sarahsaid2343 Рік тому

    I’m so happy I came across ur channel! Ur a blessing ❤

  • @bpdiaryy
    @bpdiaryy Рік тому

    ‘it’s not a mess, it’s a beautiful symptom of life’ … wow

  • @Lisa411_
    @Lisa411_ Рік тому

    i’ve only watched a minute and i know this will be so good

  • @Thewilddwest
    @Thewilddwest Рік тому

    Needed this. Thank you love

  • @kayemm2188
    @kayemm2188 Рік тому

    Forget the toys look at that beautiful view lol ❤❤ congratulations and i love this message !

  • @ksnyde85
    @ksnyde85 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤ beautiful reminder for all of us

  • @voicenotesfromyourbestie
    @voicenotesfromyourbestie Рік тому +1

    The message in this video is everything and the exact reminder that I needed to hear this morning. Thank you so much ❤

  • @georginakaye1021
    @georginakaye1021 Рік тому

    Your wisdom is astonishing. God bless.

  • @kookoo4pandas
    @kookoo4pandas Рік тому

    Thank you; the way you express the need to be grateful in the now made me tear up.

  • @theluschmasterinc
    @theluschmasterinc Рік тому

    Such a refreshing perspective! Embracing the present moment and finding the beauty in our reality is truly a game-changer. Your words resonate deeply and remind me to cherish every second. Here's to embracing the now and unlocking the richness of life. 💙✨

  • @sarabaddest2554
    @sarabaddest2554 Рік тому

    watching your videos is life-changing truly. thank you for everything you make me speechless

  • @livraschkowan
    @livraschkowan 11 місяців тому

    this what just what i needed. Thank you.

  • @terripastor256
    @terripastor256 Рік тому

    Thanks for this Margarita!

  • @GrayHastePictures
    @GrayHastePictures Рік тому

    Such a gorgeous message and one that proves reminding on the daily. Appreciate these newer - more expanded videos you've been releasing. Truly resonates and can feel the natural progression. Thanks for being you and continuing to share

  • @zainabsammy
    @zainabsammy Рік тому

    Thank you for this beautiful piece ❤