Most generic self improvement advice tells you to just grind 100% and neglects having fun and doing cool stuff. Following that advice made me distance from my friends and made me feel much worse. It's really refreshing to see Hamza say all this. We all need balance to some extent
How to get a girlfriend? Act high status. Build high-status social media profiles. Approach girls. Go to approachable places. Go to social events. Be the fun gun. Show your intention without showing neediness. Attire high status. How to get a boyfriend: Be beautiful. Respect him.
@@frog6054it's supposed to be that way tho, why do you think you should just get the pinnacle of life easily, nobody would ever have motivation to work for anything You can't just be a nobody and fuck hot chicks
yep. hamza tells the truth, but there are minimums which you need to have first. first. be atleast 174cm, (atleast) (5ft9) be atleast average looking. you NEED to have atleast 4 or 5 good friends . who are on your same "level". and who are not afraid to talk to girls/strangers..., life is hard. life is all about luck. and more important also your looks. you cant expect "playboy" lifefrom a guy who looks average. not everyone is supposed to have anything. just imagine some people loose their legs,some are born without legs/arms....
@@serefinesicdimineir it's even worse if you are extremely introverted, socially anxious and have autistic traits. Not everybody can be this extremely social butterfly who seems to have a good relationship with everyone they encouter. Life is hard, but I guess you can either accept the challenge or crumble under it.
Nearly 22 years old and soon will be celebrating one year of a solid relationship with my girlfriend, a couple years before this I was an absolute loser who felt like he had nothing to strive for. Starting running and working out, learning chess, getting better grades, etc. Ive never been more happier striving towards my goals and she looks up to me with utter admiration. Never quit boys 💪😁
@@maxwill043What’s the best way to learn basketball? Like Michael Jordan you practice unrelentensely . Chess is a game on the same plane as video games cut it out anyways
@@edwinmalias I'm from Ireland, she was only here a year when I meet her, it was at an audition for a musical. Just goes to show, you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situation to better yourself and connect with others!
Yo Hamza I just wanted to say that I really respect and envy you for the fact that you're also giving away a free program, next to your paid Adonis Protocol course. It really lowers the entry level, and helps younger guys like me test the waters before fully diving into self-improvement. Thank you. ❤️
hy Hamza im a guy from Belgium and i just wanna say your videos help me out a lot, im still struggling with addiction and other things but ive started to run everyday, read books and pray more. i just want you to know that i was a compleet loser, but now im getting my self back cuz of your videos. Thanku sm
This year, I will turn 33 without having been in a relantionship or sex. What Hamza is saying is 100% true. Take advice from someone that is way older than you. You have no idea how lucky you are that you are working on yourself this young. When You will turn my age all your other peers will have beer belly and mostly unatractive, living in a flat that they can hardly maintain. Stay positive and keep working, you got this fellas.
@@Anonymous-qj4wn we will see, this year I’m going to start my own company and reap the benefits of 2 years of training. Just seeing my colleagues at work getting overweight or my friends staying at home because they always complain about money.
I’m about to turn 22 next month and I’m still single this Valentine’s Day. But I will say, I feel I’ve definitely improved my confidence with girls over the past year. Over 2023, I had a lineup of many 21sts. I’m not the type of guy who goes out my way to approach girls minding their own business on college campuses to tell them their beautiful, so I relied on these 21sts as an opportunity to develop my confidence with girls. And honestly, it does feel like I’m different from before. I feel way more confident in my interactions with girls, know better how to make them feel good and comfortable in conversation, and have discovered a neat party trick to make girls swoon (making napkins roses) and have been complimented as “handsome” by certain girls. Last week at this girl’s 21st, I made her a napkin rose and for that she gave me a cheek kiss. In the meantime, I’ve gotten stronger at the gym, have become a god of calisthenics (with many people even telling me they want to be just like me when it comes to doing weighted pull ups and chin ups) and also I was told by a mate that genetically, I have a 1 in a million physique. 2024 is my time to further level up. It’s time I better put myself out there.
It's sad to say but I will turn 25 this year. Never talked to women, never had a girlfriend and never had an intimate relationship/sex. I don't even have any male friends at the moment. Some people might describe me as an incel or whatever. But I don't identfy with that bullshit. I think that I am just different, different to other people, different to what society thinks is normal. I am pretty sure that I have a serious case of "social anxiety" and maybe I am a bit autistic and have adhd, who knows. I live socially isolated since the pandemic hit in early 2020. Living as a NEET (not in education, employment, or training). I don't think I could handle a job and a boss, besides that I don't wanna move out and be on my own. I would probably have no friends in a new place anyway and just be miserable. I try to better my life now, but I just came to this realisation in the last couple of months. In all my school, apprenticeship time I was always the quiet kid. The kid that was too scared to rise the hand during class. The kid that was bad at physical education and got mocked at it. I was kinda fat when I was young and got called names like "fatty and fatso". Kids really can be mean. I never stood up for myself, never fought back. I just froze and let it happen. I really hated kingergarden, school and physical education. And during my apprenticeship and higher education it just continued, well I guess it got better since I didn't get mocked as often and physical education was only once a week. But I just had one colleague during this time. And now I have nothing anymore. I am pretty introverted and really don't care about friends, girlfriend anymore. I wastet nearly 3 years or so since March 2020 in my room at my computer. I started to eat healthy and do some physical exercise and I got into trading forex and crypto. I still feel this anxiety of people everywhere I go. I usually get very quiet and don't talk much. It's like my brain goes into "fight or flight mode" and my brain shuts down and I can't even think and talk something that is interesting. But I kinda learned to love myself and be thankful of everyhting I have. I am healthy, I can breath, I can walk, I can see. I have high quality nutritious food to eat and a roof over my head. But I'am rotting in my room, some would say "monk mode (If I was productive and did the good habits)" for last couple of years. Procrastinating on youtube.
Get off your phone, stop trying to skip steps, there's no reason to be on your phone for literally anything other than calling/texting your family if your in your position, you need to be thinking about how your gonna fix your life and the social media algorithms can easily distract your thoughts and fill your brain with stuff it doesn't need.
Develop a ego brother. Watch this series Spartacus (it's about Roman slaves uprising). Develop pride and start fighting back. Ask that girl out, she is there waiting to be asked. Remember men shame other men for asking girls out because they themselves are scared to do so, it's a competition. Survival of the fittest, and the best thing is mindset is enough. I am a 22 yr old guy from India, here dating doesn't work that way like in the West. I am 6'1, skinny asf, no muscles, still fucked quite a few girls time to time, cauz I am a cocky arrogant mf. The thing is I have major childhood traumas and shit, so I don't even think of getting in any relationship. There r things I need to cure. But fucking girls is easy acc to me.
look up exposure therapy or something like that, basically those fight or flight moments will disappear after you get used to being around people, i still have them, but i'm less anxious, you can do that just go out
You’re still young brother. I’d be concerned if you were 30 and still haven’t been in a relationship or anything but you’re sort of still on that growing age and young mindset, you’re not entirely wise and haven’t experienced everything, the time will get there just be patient and don’t rush.
That's a cope lol how come 90% of guys have experience by this point, dude has serious issues in his life and needs to look hard at himself as to why exactly he struggles to form those connections, its in your biology to form connections with women it's supposed to be easy, I dont know what could possibly go on in someone's life to make them that way past say 18 or 19 imo, even then you missed out on critical social development years at 15, 16, 17 I genuinely wonder what these guys spent those 1000+ days doing
@@Brandonhasgritig it’s not really cope, even tho I’ve been in relationships at a young age, there are plenty of things like religions which tell you to only go in a relationship to marry, meaning way older in your life. It’s a completely normal thing. It mostly depends on the person. If they WANT to have a girlfriend then they should go try
@@toxic_narcissist perhaps, I just think people try to dodge accountability and avoid feeling shitty about themselves when they should, if your one of these 20+ year old virgins there's a really good chance you deserve to feel depressed
This is great advice Hamza but the main question that's been ruminating in my mind is that do you think someone could do the weekly adventure with people who aren't necessarily on self improvement as long as it isn't degenerate? I'm extremely strict with the people I spend time with now that I took a HUGE step back from all the low quality people I was once 'friends' with during highschool and university after I had a realisation about how they've affected me
Some of the greatest minds amongst us have "Jeffrey" traits and do degenerate stuff. If learning from them means going to a bar, I'm all for it. I'm not missing out on valuable insights and knowledge due to some sort of elevated moral high ground because I believe in self-improvement...
I've had the same doubt for a long time. People I hang out with are not degenerates at all. But they aren't on self-improvement either (e.g. for them it's normal to drink a couple of drinks regularly or to go on instagram as soon as they wake up). But you need to realize that cutting them out of your life is way worse than hanging out with them. Because if you don't socialize with anyone you will 1- definitely feel asocial, cynical and sad (and that will be a downward spiral) 2 - never meet potentially good people that actually share your deep values. I'd even say, your "strictness" with people may actually be a coping response to a lack of social life So in conclusion, yes, socialize with everyone, because you may discover you actually like them even if they're not on self-improvement. We can discuss further if you want
@@tomswiss7128 this is very fair to say, thank you for the insight. Do you believe in the quote/statetment that says 'You Are The Average Of The Five People You Spend The Most Time With'? How does that apply here?
@@Monkaii I believe in that, of course. First premise: everything I say applies to you or not depending on how much you value being social and knowing people. For me, from a psychological standpoint, that is paramount; but there's also another reason you might agree with, I'll say it later) Second premise: I assume you don't know self-improvement people. Yes, you will be the average of the 5 non-self-improvement people you stay with. But "average" doesn't mean equal. You can still keep several good habits in your life, for the most part (you can learn to do that). The key point, then, is that by doing those good habits you will be receptive towards new people you meet that are more similar to you in terms of values (and they will be receptive towards you). So ideally, you could gradually spend more time with them and less with the other non-self-improvement people. The "process" repeats until you are satisfied. On the contrary, by staying alone you could be more virtuous from an "objective" standpoint. But let's imagine you met yourself. What would you say if that person had zero social life? You probably would be like "yeah, I get staying on self-improvement, but no friends? Really? That's a bit too much strictness" And finally, (the reason I was mentioning before) I believe that being social is in fact part of self-improving. And I'd rather miss a couple of workouts to go out and socialize than the contrary. Because you can always train, but if you sacrifice social bonds, then it's actually very hard to create them from scratch. Of course there's more to the conversation. I tried being concise. What do you think?
@@tomswiss7128 I understand where you're coming from and I agree with you. To make myself more clear, I'd like to rephrase and ask a similar question. Let's assume that you know self improvement people and non-self improvement people. You go out with the self improvement people on occasions but let's say that these non-self improvement people you know are gamers. They go out and have social gatherings on a weekly basis (nothing very degenerate) unlike the self improvement friends you know who you meet every now and then. Would you continue to go out on occasions with the self improvement people/gymbro's/friends with similar values on occasions and ignore the other group's hangouts/invitations or would you consider going out with the non-self improvement gamers every week for a more vibrant social life/experience?
So many assumptions and like idk, r_tarded arguments What does the routine have to do with being boring? And what do u do hamza...? Wake up, gym, make sh_t content, whatever else, sleep? And yes yes thx very much for selling me ur adonis whatever thing Idk, it rly seems like u live off of those assumptions (you know very well what I'm talking about) or whatever, you don't teach anything concrete I don't need self improvement bro, whatever these words mean nowadays, give ppl power to find their own solutions, just stop You just repeat urself, ALL THE TIME
All of his followers are naive young guys who can’t think for themselves and listen to anything he says without hesitation. It’s pathetic that hamza has no qualms with scamming these guys. He’s really one of the worst “manosphere” UA-camrs
Thank you Hamza for giving out good advice, but i have to say i couldn't stay consistent on self improvement before i accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour. Everything is way better in my life and doing the good habits is easier plus If i would die right now i would be going to Heaven. Stay strong brothers. 💪🏼❤️💯
You'll find a girlfriend (she finds you, rather) when you're ready. Don't rush it and work on what you should be working on, which is ultimately yourself.
??Why have friends?if it’s only to be attractive or less boring, you just have to know how to talk to people and yea not be autistic, whatever is meant for you will find it’s way to you.
Anyone have advice on getting Lasik eye surgery in your 20’s? Not an insecurity, I just would love to kickbox, play sport, and have sex while being able to actually see
You're 19 man don't stress out about it. I just turned 20 and I'm following Hamzas advice on living a more exciting life. We need to recognize that we're still in the early stages and most women will not be interested in us unless we're attractive or rich already. But that's the beauty of it, we're growing to become men of value and it will only get better from here.
@@jamesmccloud7535 same shit bro, this made me realize that I stopped having an exciting life because of the grind.. but unless you are rich and popular, there is no other way to attract a girl, you must do some fun things (even better if with high quality guys) in order not to become invisible to women
In summary you need to get your money up first then have fun with a network of guys that gets girls and have money then you get the girls Just learn from Scarface
I was this loser that he described who does nothing but the gym/work/school. I had low self esteem and seemed awkward but I was kind of funny. Then I started working at this minimum wage job with my friends that had no manager and basically no rules. We would fuck around all day, make jokes, and barely work. There was this cute girl who worked there who I started to workout and hang out with, and eventually we started flirting (which funny enough I learned to do from hamza). 3 months later, she tells me that she can’t keep hiding the fact that she likes me. I was mind blown, how could a girl ever like me that much? Right after dating her I read way of the surperior man, and it taught me so much. I learned to appreciate her tests to make decisions. Being with her has made me into this fun guy who is doing stuff all the time, and I almost never play games or consume content anymore. Sometimes you can meet the girl before you become this fun, high status guy as long as you are very open to changing your entire framework.
Most generic self improvement advice tells you to just grind 100% and neglects having fun and doing cool stuff. Following that advice made me distance from my friends and made me feel much worse. It's really refreshing to see Hamza say all this. We all need balance to some extent
True, for starting out you should grind a bit to level yourself up, but after a certain amount of time it's time to live again
How to get a girlfriend?
Act high status.
Build high-status social media profiles.
Approach girls.
Go to approachable places.
Go to social events.
Be the fun gun.
Show your intention without showing neediness.
Attire high status.
How to get a boyfriend:
Be beautiful.
Respect him.
Damn the difficulty level between them is huge
@@frog6054it's supposed to be that way tho, why do you think you should just get the pinnacle of life easily, nobody would ever have motivation to work for anything
You can't just be a nobody and fuck hot chicks
This video made me realise Im never going to have a girlfriend
haha, it's hard man
yep. hamza tells the truth, but there are minimums which you need to have first.
first.
be atleast 174cm, (atleast) (5ft9)
be atleast average looking.
you NEED to have atleast 4 or 5 good friends . who are on your same "level". and who are not afraid to talk to girls/strangers...,
life is hard. life is all about luck. and more important also your looks. you cant expect "playboy" lifefrom a guy who looks average. not everyone is supposed to have anything.
just imagine some people loose their legs,some are born without legs/arms....
@@serefinesicdimineir it's even worse if you are extremely introverted, socially anxious and have autistic traits. Not everybody can be this extremely social butterfly who seems to have a good relationship with everyone they encouter. Life is hard, but I guess you can either accept the challenge or crumble under it.
@@DeepRacer-zr4yp
Or you accept the challenge and crumble under it
@@serefinesicdimineir4-5 good friends? wat is this, kindergarten?
Nearly 22 years old and soon will be celebrating one year of a solid relationship with my girlfriend, a couple years before this I was an absolute loser who felt like he had nothing to strive for. Starting running and working out, learning chess, getting better grades, etc. Ive never been more happier striving towards my goals and she looks up to me with utter admiration. Never quit boys 💪😁
What’s the best way to learn chess in your opinion
@@maxwill043What’s the best way to learn basketball? Like Michael Jordan you practice unrelentensely . Chess is a game on the same plane as video games cut it out anyways
Where did you meet her bro?
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@@edwinmalias I'm from Ireland, she was only here a year when I meet her, it was at an audition for a musical. Just goes to show, you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situation to better yourself and connect with others!
Yo Hamza I just wanted to say that I really respect and envy you for the fact that you're also giving away a free program, next to your paid Adonis Protocol course. It really lowers the entry level, and helps younger guys like me test the waters before fully diving into self-improvement. Thank you.
❤️
You nailed it with the “one autistic friend you go to the gym with”😂
I felt called out when he said that shii😭😂💀
I felt called out when he said that shii😭😂💀
hy Hamza im a guy from Belgium and i just wanna say your videos help me out a lot, im still struggling with addiction and other things but ive started to run everyday, read books and pray more. i just want you to know that i was a compleet loser, but now im getting my self back cuz of your videos. Thanku sm
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Ben je van Antwerpen?
same from belgium too
What kind of addiction
Don’t know if these things will get u girls
you are so inspiring and motivating, you the only mentor I've ever had that seems to truly care about the people he teaches
This year, I will turn 33 without having been in a relantionship or sex. What Hamza is saying is 100% true. Take advice from someone that is way older than you. You have no idea how lucky you are that you are working on yourself this young. When You will turn my age all your other peers will have beer belly and mostly unatractive, living in a flat that they can hardly maintain. Stay positive and keep working, you got this fellas.
Hey bro you’re only 33 your life isn’t over yet, change it up, give yourself a chance
@@ttazzy of course I am, I just have to work harder to compensate the years lost
Nah bro 33 is far too long. You’ve had no experiences.
@@Anonymous-qj4wn we will see, this year I’m going to start my own company and reap the benefits of 2 years of training. Just seeing my colleagues at work getting overweight or my friends staying at home because they always complain about money.
@@giane7763 I believe in you. In my opinion leaving it till 33 was quite late but to each their own. Good luck g.
I’m about to turn 22 next month and I’m still single this Valentine’s Day. But I will say, I feel I’ve definitely improved my confidence with girls over the past year. Over 2023, I had a lineup of many 21sts. I’m not the type of guy who goes out my way to approach girls minding their own business on college campuses to tell them their beautiful, so I relied on these 21sts as an opportunity to develop my confidence with girls. And honestly, it does feel like I’m different from before. I feel way more confident in my interactions with girls, know better how to make them feel good and comfortable in conversation, and have discovered a neat party trick to make girls swoon (making napkins roses) and have been complimented as “handsome” by certain girls. Last week at this girl’s 21st, I made her a napkin rose and for that she gave me a cheek kiss. In the meantime, I’ve gotten stronger at the gym, have become a god of calisthenics (with many people even telling me they want to be just like me when it comes to doing weighted pull ups and chin ups) and also I was told by a mate that genetically, I have a 1 in a million physique. 2024 is my time to further level up. It’s time I better put myself out there.
Damn, never thought of it this way. Guess my monk mode days need to change and I actually need to do stuff. Thanks Hamza much love bro.
How long have you been doing monk mode?
@@cu11en76since the womb
@@clkgtr12🗿
@@goldenboy0527 💯
It's sad to say but I will turn 25 this year. Never talked to women, never had a girlfriend and never had an intimate relationship/sex. I don't even have any male friends at the moment. Some people might describe me as an incel or whatever. But I don't identfy with that bullshit. I think that I am just different, different to other people, different to what society thinks is normal. I am pretty sure that I have a serious case of "social anxiety" and maybe I am a bit autistic and have adhd, who knows. I live socially isolated since the pandemic hit in early 2020. Living as a NEET (not in education, employment, or training). I don't think I could handle a job and a boss, besides that I don't wanna move out and be on my own. I would probably have no friends in a new place anyway and just be miserable. I try to better my life now, but I just came to this realisation in the last couple of months. In all my school, apprenticeship time I was always the quiet kid. The kid that was too scared to rise the hand during class. The kid that was bad at physical education and got mocked at it. I was kinda fat when I was young and got called names like "fatty and fatso". Kids really can be mean. I never stood up for myself, never fought back. I just froze and let it happen. I really hated kingergarden, school and physical education. And during my apprenticeship and higher education it just continued, well I guess it got better since I didn't get mocked as often and physical education was only once a week. But I just had one colleague during this time. And now I have nothing anymore. I am pretty introverted and really don't care about friends, girlfriend anymore. I wastet nearly 3 years or so since March 2020 in my room at my computer. I started to eat healthy and do some physical exercise and I got into trading forex and crypto. I still feel this anxiety of people everywhere I go. I usually get very quiet and don't talk much. It's like my brain goes into "fight or flight mode" and my brain shuts down and I can't even think and talk something that is interesting. But I kinda learned to love myself and be thankful of everyhting I have. I am healthy, I can breath, I can walk, I can see. I have high quality nutritious food to eat and a roof over my head. But I'am rotting in my room, some would say "monk mode (If I was productive and did the good habits)" for last couple of years. Procrastinating on youtube.
been a neet for 4 years and counting 💪💪
Get off your phone, stop trying to skip steps, there's no reason to be on your phone for literally anything other than calling/texting your family if your in your position, you need to be thinking about how your gonna fix your life and the social media algorithms can easily distract your thoughts and fill your brain with stuff it doesn't need.
Develop a ego brother. Watch this series Spartacus (it's about Roman slaves uprising). Develop pride and start fighting back. Ask that girl out, she is there waiting to be asked. Remember men shame other men for asking girls out because they themselves are scared to do so, it's a competition. Survival of the fittest, and the best thing is mindset is enough. I am a 22 yr old guy from India, here dating doesn't work that way like in the West. I am 6'1, skinny asf, no muscles, still fucked quite a few girls time to time, cauz I am a cocky arrogant mf. The thing is I have major childhood traumas and shit, so I don't even think of getting in any relationship. There r things I need to cure. But fucking girls is easy acc to me.
@@Brandonhasgritighow to start bro, when i'm at home there is no other substitute, and i don't go out much and i have no one to go out with
look up exposure therapy or something like that, basically those fight or flight moments will disappear after you get used to being around people, i still have them, but i'm less anxious, you can do that just go out
The hoeflation is crazy
thats a great word
yes we live in a degenerate, woke society
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Holy shit you played ABD too??
Correct.
Grow up
I acc watched thr full video before I cane to the comments
Anyone from Amsterdam over here?
6:04 Hamza exactly described my life 🙂😷
You’re still young brother. I’d be concerned if you were 30 and still haven’t been in a relationship or anything but you’re sort of still on that growing age and young mindset, you’re not entirely wise and haven’t experienced everything, the time will get there just be patient and don’t rush.
That's a cope lol how come 90% of guys have experience by this point, dude has serious issues in his life and needs to look hard at himself as to why exactly he struggles to form those connections, its in your biology to form connections with women it's supposed to be easy, I dont know what could possibly go on in someone's life to make them that way past say 18 or 19 imo, even then you missed out on critical social development years at 15, 16, 17 I genuinely wonder what these guys spent those 1000+ days doing
@@Brandonhasgritig it’s not really cope, even tho I’ve been in relationships at a young age, there are plenty of things like religions which tell you to only go in a relationship to marry, meaning way older in your life. It’s a completely normal thing. It mostly depends on the person. If they WANT to have a girlfriend then they should go try
@@Brandonhasgritig also 90% of guys don’t have experience that’s a stretch
@@Brandonhasgritig he literally lived only 5% of his adult life.
Do you even know what cope means?
@@toxic_narcissist perhaps, I just think people try to dodge accountability and avoid feeling shitty about themselves when they should, if your one of these 20+ year old virgins there's a really good chance you deserve to feel depressed
When hamza wakes up and chooses violence
I like how less and less people are commenting nowadays on this gamer's channel 😌
This is great advice Hamza but the main question that's been ruminating in my mind is that do you think someone could do the weekly adventure with people who aren't necessarily on self improvement as long as it isn't degenerate? I'm extremely strict with the people I spend time with now that I took a HUGE step back from all the low quality people I was once 'friends' with during highschool and university after I had a realisation about how they've affected me
Some of the greatest minds amongst us have "Jeffrey" traits and do degenerate stuff. If learning from them means going to a bar, I'm all for it. I'm not missing out on valuable insights and knowledge due to some sort of elevated moral high ground because I believe in self-improvement...
I've had the same doubt for a long time.
People I hang out with are not degenerates at all. But they aren't on self-improvement either (e.g. for them it's normal to drink a couple of drinks regularly or to go on instagram as soon as they wake up).
But you need to realize that cutting them out of your life is way worse than hanging out with them. Because if you don't socialize with anyone you will
1- definitely feel asocial, cynical and sad (and that will be a downward spiral)
2 - never meet potentially good people that actually share your deep values.
I'd even say, your "strictness" with people may actually be a coping response to a lack of social life
So in conclusion, yes, socialize with everyone, because you may discover you actually like them even if they're not on self-improvement.
We can discuss further if you want
@@tomswiss7128 this is very fair to say, thank you for the insight. Do you believe in the quote/statetment that says 'You Are The Average Of The Five People You Spend The Most Time With'? How does that apply here?
@@Monkaii I believe in that, of course.
First premise: everything I say applies to you or not depending on how much you value being social and knowing people. For me, from a psychological standpoint, that is paramount; but there's also another reason you might agree with, I'll say it later)
Second premise: I assume you don't know self-improvement people.
Yes, you will be the average of the 5 non-self-improvement people you stay with. But "average" doesn't mean equal. You can still keep several good habits in your life, for the most part (you can learn to do that). The key point, then, is that by doing those good habits you will be receptive towards new people you meet that are more similar to you in terms of values (and they will be receptive towards you). So ideally, you could gradually spend more time with them and less with the other non-self-improvement people. The "process" repeats until you are satisfied.
On the contrary, by staying alone you could be more virtuous from an "objective" standpoint. But let's imagine you met yourself. What would you say if that person had zero social life? You probably would be like "yeah, I get staying on self-improvement, but no friends? Really? That's a bit too much strictness"
And finally, (the reason I was mentioning before) I believe that being social is in fact part of self-improving. And I'd rather miss a couple of workouts to go out and socialize than the contrary. Because you can always train, but if you sacrifice social bonds, then it's actually very hard to create them from scratch.
Of course there's more to the conversation. I tried being concise. What do you think?
@@tomswiss7128 I understand where you're coming from and I agree with you. To make myself more clear, I'd like to rephrase and ask a similar question. Let's assume that you know self improvement people and non-self improvement people. You go out with the self improvement people on occasions but let's say that these non-self improvement people you know are gamers. They go out and have social gatherings on a weekly basis (nothing very degenerate) unlike the self improvement friends you know who you meet every now and then. Would you continue to go out on occasions with the self improvement people/gymbro's/friends with similar values on occasions and ignore the other group's hangouts/invitations or would you consider going out with the non-self improvement gamers every week for a more vibrant social life/experience?
I feel like it's a new meta
I tried to register to the adonis gang and I got rejected. How do you get inside the adones gang community?
I got a girl that keeps calling me honey but im scared to ask her out idk wat to do lol
So many assumptions and like idk, r_tarded arguments
What does the routine have to do with being boring?
And what do u do hamza...? Wake up, gym, make sh_t content, whatever else, sleep?
And yes yes thx very much for selling me ur adonis whatever thing
Idk, it rly seems like u live off of those assumptions (you know very well what I'm talking about) or whatever, you don't teach anything concrete
I don't need self improvement bro, whatever these words mean nowadays, give ppl power to find their own solutions, just stop
You just repeat urself, ALL THE TIME
Womp womp
do I need to call a wahmbulance?
@speedody2127 is truly the height of arrogance lmao.
All of his followers are naive young guys who can’t think for themselves and listen to anything he says without hesitation. It’s pathetic that hamza has no qualms with scamming these guys. He’s really one of the worst “manosphere” UA-camrs
Honestly I deeply regard my slutting of the past. I'm gonna make a video about my personal mistakes. Don't worry brother, your success is coming❤
Time is your friend
Wamza
❤
Goddamn my man recorded this on the 31st of january bro almost has 2weeks worth of videos recorded
It's bold of you to assume that I get matches on Tinder lol
Anyone in Rotterdam West tryna spar every morning?
Thank you Hamza for giving out good advice, but i have to say i couldn't stay consistent on self improvement before i accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour. Everything is way better in my life and doing the good habits is easier plus If i would die right now i would be going to Heaven. Stay strong brothers. 💪🏼❤️💯
Why did Adonis gang get deleted 😢
12:15 💀🙏🏾😭
11:47
8:35 💀🗣
Samhad❤
I’m 20 and 5,4 and never had a girlfriend
same, but im 27
“one autistic self improvement friend” 😂
You'll find a girlfriend (she finds you, rather) when you're ready. Don't rush it and work on what you should be working on, which is ultimately yourself.
??Why have friends?if it’s only to be attractive or less boring, you just have to know how to talk to people and yea not be autistic, whatever is meant for you will find it’s way to you.
I agree. Abundance mindset is the way
Anyone have advice on getting Lasik eye surgery in your 20’s? Not an insecurity, I just would love to kickbox, play sport, and have sex while being able to actually see
what are you guys favorite places to go
Hamza you do great content however would you ever consider switching it up this type of content from Adonis school to Adonis gang
Guys where can I find the Adonis protocol?
adonis gang
@@Marrabu Oh ok thanks
anyone from morocco?
In reality, he has an advantage lmao
What do you mean ?
Okay, We can talk about how we describe wanting a girlfriend means for each of one of us for the whole week if you want to.
Man, of course my life is boring when I dont have any money. WTF. Like DUH?
Why you edit your voice in every video. It's different in every video.
Bro is lucky to have been kissed💀 Me being 20 and didnt even kiss once. I'm 6'5 and never had a GF.
you can literally just make a dating profile with JUST your height, no pics and youll get matches lol
04:05 - 13:15
Approaching girls is possible in Pakistan?
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I'm 19, never had a relationship before, I'm busy working shifts in a factory saving as much money as possible. Tips???
You're 19 man don't stress out about it. I just turned 20 and I'm following Hamzas advice on living a more exciting life. We need to recognize that we're still in the early stages and most women will not be interested in us unless we're attractive or rich already. But that's the beauty of it, we're growing to become men of value and it will only get better from here.
@@jamesmccloud7535 same shit bro, this made me realize that I stopped having an exciting life because of the grind.. but unless you are rich and popular, there is no other way to attract a girl, you must do some fun things (even better if with high quality guys) in order not to become invisible to women
I'm almost 19yo, never kissed a girl, not because i didn't want to
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what about 27 years old without any 👀
you still young and life aint over my bro
In summary you need to get your money up first then have fun with a network of guys that gets girls and have money then you get the girls
Just learn from Scarface
Some here
Go back and breath deep
What else are girls for then fun. WTF I am dying.
how will a woman see your life even if its fun?
Who needs a gf when you can …
What
@@jakovgulic5230 take care of yourself …
What
Oh your one of the new ones😂
I was this loser that he described who does nothing but the gym/work/school. I had low self esteem and seemed awkward but I was kind of funny. Then I started working at this minimum wage job with my friends that had no manager and basically no rules. We would fuck around all day, make jokes, and barely work. There was this cute girl who worked there who I started to workout and hang out with, and eventually we started flirting (which funny enough I learned to do from hamza). 3 months later, she tells me that she can’t keep hiding the fact that she likes me. I was mind blown, how could a girl ever like me that much?
Right after dating her I read way of the surperior man, and it taught me so much. I learned to appreciate her tests to make decisions. Being with her has made me into this fun guy who is doing stuff all the time, and I almost never play games or consume content anymore.
Sometimes you can meet the girl before you become this fun, high status guy as long as you are very open to changing your entire framework.
Focus on the video, don't read the comments(Even if thats what i did to comment this)
Hamza being a dating chanal .... Don't like it
Bro’s trying too hard to make his vc deep
Deeper voice?