There are things that get better in time but a person's bad character or poor mindset isn't one of them. If from the very first date you notice traits you definitely don't like, don't allow your loneliness and wish to be loved push you into making mistakes like giving it a try hoping they will improve in time. If they can't get you to like and admire them in the beginning when everybody is on their best behaviour and showing their best side, imagine how they will be later on. The things you sweep under the rug, you end up tripping over.
..I dont date really..but I notice traits like they cut you off several times and dont let you talk in details..or dont want to hear your thoughts on what they say!! so many men like that approached me recently..and you actually feel lonely with this..the conversation was off..and even women too..thank god I still have one friend who can let me talk..he also talks a lot but he d let me talk..
A man has to convince you by his best behavior and actions to stop being single and be in a relationship with him. If you are not convinced from the beginning there is something worth it in there, then there surely isn't and you are about to lose a lot of time and feelings building a relationship by yourself, explaining the ABCs of love, care and respect to someone who will not feel the instinctual need to offer you quality time together, flowers, gifts or prove his love to you because he is not the right one for you. And that feels a lot more lonely and sad than being single. "Ain't nobody got time" for raising grown boys.
oui..he needs to make you feel secure..I feel secure and safe alone..but in contact with some men..I feel insecure because they dont acknowledge how I feel or let me express myself..I realise this is why im single for years..few men approached me and right away they wouldnt want to hear me out..something was off..
🥺💛 Bless you and thank you SO much for taking time out of your day months ago to help a woman like me facing this dilemma right now. I truly appreciate your encouragement and wisdom to not think and behave out of loneliness and desperation.
Tony, a-lot of these men don’t even get a second date. They just looking to sleep with you. That’s why I agree with you in reference to paying for your own date.
I feel called out about the ghosting part, and I realized that it is disrespectful even if I feel like I was wronged by the man. I can at least explain myself in a respectful way before I cut it off. Moving forward, I will be more mindful of my actions. I don’t want to be that savage of a woman, that’s not who I am.
I totally agree. Ghosting is something I need to work on. The reason I ghost is because when I express myself again and again and again and it falls on deaf ears……they don’t deserve a goodbye. I’ve said all I could say.
I agree.but only if a man actually bothers talking to you/ I have a friend im the one to contact him each time..and he says yes.but this time he contacts me first to tell me he cant..the conversation is off when we meet..nothing much to talk about and he is not interested...I feel like not contacting him again..I wouldnt say it is ghosting...if a man tries to contact you and is clear and honest and you dont reply..then it is..
@@ameliabeneby2981 yeah but then thats different ..I was ghosted by a man..but I was clear to him and he simply didnt tell me yes or no or his thoughts...about whether he liked me too and wanted marriage...
I’ll just stay single until God sends them. These games men play I’m not even putting myself in those situations. I’m at a point in my life where I have nothing broken nothing missing. I’m so glad I love myself and God enough to where I’m ok until my time comes.
That makes so much sense. Jesus said don't make family with other nations. I get it now. Having different beliefs is dangerous. If you are a bible believer.
I'm glad you mentioned having enough respect to severe ties amicably. An advice to ghost someone was the most overwhelming decision I've ever made. Communication is the best route.
I'm glad Mr. Gaskins will be doing this by different age groups, because (in my opinion) if you're around the age of 40 and you meet someone still selling in the streets, that should be an automatic "no", even though the information is helpful for the younger crowd. Once you reach your 40's, some things should just not be acceptable. You should have already learnt certain things by then.
This is soooo true!! My last relat I went in clueless and didn't want to judge him. I became blind to the red flags bc I had no standards in place and I toured where Satan lives for 7 yrs. I can own I did everything wrong from the start!! I just met a new guy and I feel ready and prepared bc of your videos and advice. I healed & got the new knowledge. Without it I'm sure i would be making the same mistakes over & over.
I'm backdating and I'm noticing the men I've come across are passive with communicating. Some men do ghost and love bombs a lot. I have been working on myself being open and honest with people. Now that I see how I use to be I'm able to verbalize my needs better. Thanks Tony for sharing 👏🏾👏🏾
This was on point! Confirmation for me too! Just had this happened yesterday and me and the guy had mutual respect for the deal breaker. He totally understood and wants to work harder on quitting cigarettes. He appreciated the honesty. No love lost. Blessings!
@@childofgodskingdom8403 I just met a guy recently in his 40's he asked if he could come see mind you I just met him two days ago I told him no I don't invite people I just met to my house. So I asked would you like to go eat or something he said he didn't have the funds which ok I get it people have Bill's but then he asked did I want to go to the park in 105 degrees I said no I'm like how old are we yea I give up on dating if it's going to be like this 😂😂😂🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@mstiffthaboss9194 Exactly!! I know people expect us women to have a man but in these days it's strange and difficult to settle for non sense dating JUST TO SAY YOU GOT A GROWN BOY AS A MAN I'm so confused about why will society be teaching this behavior like women is not the PRIZE it's a serious problem if we are going around putting value tickets on mess. I feel you. The same thing happened to me too. He got mad when I told him NO, he has not asked me out on a date the movie and restaurants are back open.
I've learned to take more time in the beginning stage of a social connection to observe a lady's character before I allow myself to become connected to her on a long-term term basis. I am no longer willing to waste time dating for sport or entertainment. As an emotionally empowered lady, I've learned to enjoy my own company. I take myself on adventure dates to explore traveling, dining, seeing movies, cultural and various social events ALONE which is a SUPERPOWER because it builds self-confidence. Confidence is an attractive trait to the healed but it repels the broken 💔. The reality is that I spend longer periods of singleness between relationships. I'm only interested in developing a meaningful committed relationship with the potential to lead to marriage.
Thank you for your videos! Truly I mean it, there are a lot of videos on UA-cam relating to women advice is very emotionally draining. I won't mention any names but you know the youtubers advocating hate towards a certain group of women. Your videos are helping a lot of people like me as you are authentic and kind. The lord is guiding you as you preach. Thanks again Mr Gaskins!
I had to learn to use my intuition. You can tell almost right away if you should keep going. That person might start out saying they don’t want kids or that they don’t drink alcohol. Years later, that could change. So I think intuition will let you know a lot of what you need to know during the dating phase
I've never been single since 13 until 2 years ago I broke up with my ex. I feel so free and have no desire to be in any relationships in the next year at least!
I truly love your vlogs, Mr. Gaskins! I’m glad that you talked a bit, about Muslims. I am a Muslimah, reverted to Islam from Christianity. I respect you, and alway will.🙂
This title relates so much to a matter I just encountered. I'd love to send the information to you for discussion. One that I feel would be a GREAT discuss and knowledge in the dating world.
Solid, Relax, relate, release. We here to live our lives to experience greatness and we still giving all our focus on relationship!?! Pls make it make sense.
That just women nature. Even the most successful women in the world lack somewhere and that is having a successful relationship. I am 25 years old the times have changed but everyone really wants to found love but some people need healing. You can focus on yourself so much but there are going to be times when you are lonely.
@@toileonard6032 you 25? Wonderful that’s what this all about, to start young adults in the beginning so their won’t be any toxic repeats. 1st is to center yourself & have a relationship within & you will never be alone. Life is an experience. Thanks for your feedback ❤️
@@cuniqueness Most definitely!! You have to found yourself and love yourself to know what you want. Even though I am not alone within myself I do crave for a husband/best friend but in all due time. 🙏🙏
What if you met a guy at a coffee shop one day and you gave him your number, but the next time you went to the coffee shop, he was there again and talked your ear off for 2 hours? I went there not for him, but to get my work done, and he said all sorts of absurd and inappropriate stuff to me? While also lecturing me and telling me that "we are meant to be." We never went on a date or anything, and I was extremely overwhelmed. Afterward, he kept calling me and I just ghosted him.
I just dumped my boyfriend, he talks to much, and he talks about crazy things. 8months lost .I didn't listen to that voice in the back of my mind. You did the only thing that you could ,he would have made you crazy.
Hey Everyone I have a question. I am 28 I went on a Date with a guy I have been talking to for a while now ,we went to have dinner I did made up my mind to pay my own bill so after the dinner that's what happened I paid and he didn't say nothing okay. So the second Date we went on I sit to see if he was going to pay the bill but when the waitress came he said separate please 🤔 we were also planning a third Date out of town, but after the second date I went home and I think about it and the next day I told him ist not going to work. Was that a good move from me? I talk to my best friend my sister and my Dad and they all said if a man can't pay for a Date then let him be.
We need a break down of this for each decade and ages ! We need one for women in 30 to 35 crew, I say that because even though my younger sister is 28, and I 32 I feel like we have different views on dating lol! I also feel like as a 32 I would never been able to relate to the late 30's 40's crew some of them may have gone through divorce and have kids.
I was talking to this guy, he seemed sweet and all of that. A couple of days of constant communication, told me the f word, at first I thought he made a mistake and sent me a message meant for somebody else, so I asked to verify and to my surprise he only said that it was nothing. Didn't apologize, didn't clarify just left it like that. Now, I'm a lady so I left him off in the most lady like matter, "Well sir, I guess you are having a bad day, I will leave you alone now". The guy kept messaging me but I didn't reply back. Thank goodness it was now and not after.
To Date or Not To Date???? That's the question. It can be nice or a headache. These men are 50 to 65. No communication skills. Ignore you. Makes up lies and excuses. So why bother!!???!!! I just turned"60" so I really don't have time to waste. I grew up with no cursing in my family either and I don't.
"You have the right to walk away from whatever reason you think you should." Do I cut this person off for smelling like they only bathe on Sunday or counting out a bunch of coins & coupons on a date? 😁
Im EU white caucasian but in a different EU country ,I thought this is why but men from the country do look at me though..and other issues are the drinking or the smoking weed etc..if they curse it can be changed..well the drinking and weed too..if they say I d stop all these..
im 38 in 2 days..and have no option...I dont want to go online ..few men who approached would cut me off right away and keep cutting me off..they dont let me speak in details..I feel no real interest /love from them..even women they approach me and the conversation is totally one sided..and it doesnt make sense sometimes too..they tell you things that are incomplete and you need to fish for more information, conversation doesnt flow..etc. but I recently noticed they may not be that clever..its not easy..
TRUE! They always cut me off too. One dude even shushed me while we were on a first date. I was like "aren't we suppose to be getting to know one another?" I wasn't even talking a lot, but when I decided to speak dat fool shushed me. I had to cut him off. He got mad and everything like where they do that at.
@@NekeishaWise It's crazy..the shushing is disrespectful..and on the first date on top of that..I never shushed anybody..I feel it's because they dont agree with what you say or/and aren't open to hear a different viewpoint..or they dont have the capacity to follow.. either way it is a bad sign..
@@irlandaise5631 Definitely a bad sign. The communication is OFF with a lot of guys. Some of them even only want to talk about themselves, and their problems like I am their therapist or something.
@@NekeishaWise same .. I have such new male ‘friends’ and a new female friend same .. and told me after meeting her for a coffee ‘thanks for listening ‘ i play tennis and same some men are latching onto me asking me about myself and straight away taking over back to themselves .. and if you try to interject they ll say ‘let m finish ‘ and I say well I’m just commenting on what you say ..lol ..I have started walking away..
Given that the red flags were present and you heard them(he was online and I never met him in person) why go through texting them? I personally feel all communication should be discontinued, period. I am not rude or cruel; I just think it's better to not further the communication. What do you think, Tony?
Did you smoke and drink with your ex-girlfriend? I don't believe you mentioned it. Because birds of a feather flock together. Oh, and if you were drinking and smoking with your ex, did she influence you or was it the other way around.
This doesn’t have anything to do with this video probably but Is it bad to cook for a guy every now and then? I don’t mean every day cooking but if he treats you to dinner all the time is a good man buys the groceries then is ok to cook for him every now and then?
If he cooks the dinner yes, if not NO..treat him to a restaurant like he does ...There is no need to cook..with the technology nowadays..women can find other things to do..and men too in fact..but they dont bother cooking mostly..only women..so please all women stop serving others..and focus on developing yourself
@@irlandaise5631 I see what you saying I do that as well(treat him to a restaurant) but it gets too expensive eating out all the time. I cook for myself and he eats sometimes bc we kinda live together. He doesn’t know how to cook he tried it sucked. His own sisters said he can’t cook worth a damn. I know what you are saying as well but he says I don’t have to cook I just do it once every couple of weeks. I think when I cook he cleans and does the laundry and stuff.
@@shiracobb3098 it’s good then , that you don’t have to do it .. I don’t eat vegs in my case I cook frozen food /protein only and plain.. so if a man wants vegs he ll have to cook them for himself ..im not making any recipe .. if that s what you Mean by knowing how to cook but good he doesn’t mind if you don’t do it .. and does the laundry .. I believe each can do their own laundry though .. only cleaning a shared space needs to be shared .. frozen food and eggs are cheap .. I d suggest however to close your home until marriage ..as TG also advised
@@irlandaise5631 Thanks for the reply and TG said (he admitted actually in one of his videos I watched )him n his wife now we’re living together and they still married. He admitted it bc he wasn’t happy they did it but he wanted us to know the truth.
Tony we're not dating anymore until we see some real eligible bachelors. And stop saying they out there we just looking over them. Nope, I don't see any.
Absolutely don't see them.. Are they looking like what they are NOT? I have seen them get hurt then start playing games they switch it up on you.. Trying to hurt a woman now sounds like a grown boy gone bad.. Ladies raise the bar.. Level up attract BETTER.
There are things that get better in time but a person's bad character or poor mindset isn't one of them. If from the very first date you notice traits you definitely don't like, don't allow your loneliness and wish to be loved push you into making mistakes like giving it a try hoping they will improve in time. If they can't get you to like and admire them in the beginning when everybody is on their best behaviour and showing their best side, imagine how they will be later on. The things you sweep under the rug, you end up tripping over.
..I dont date really..but I notice traits like they cut you off several times and dont let you talk in details..or dont want to hear your thoughts on what they say!! so many men like that approached me recently..and you actually feel lonely with this..the conversation was off..and even women too..thank god I still have one friend who can let me talk..he also talks a lot but he d let me talk..
Excellent advice. Thanks!
“If you’re pleasing everybody, you won’t be pleasing yourself.” TG
A man has to convince you by his best behavior and actions to stop being single and be in a relationship with him. If you are not convinced from the beginning there is something worth it in there, then there surely isn't and you are about to lose a lot of time and feelings building a relationship by yourself, explaining the ABCs of love, care and respect to someone who will not feel the instinctual need to offer you quality time together, flowers, gifts or prove his love to you because he is not the right one for you. And that feels a lot more lonely and sad than being single. "Ain't nobody got time" for raising grown boys.
oui..he needs to make you feel secure..I feel secure and safe alone..but in contact with some men..I feel insecure because they dont acknowledge how I feel or let me express myself..I realise this is why im single for years..few men approached me and right away they wouldnt want to hear me out..something was off..
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Word 👏🙌
🥺💛
Bless you and thank you SO much for taking time out of your day months ago to help a woman like me facing this dilemma right now. I truly appreciate your encouragement and wisdom to not think and behave out of loneliness and desperation.
Tony, a-lot of these men don’t even get a second date. They just looking to sleep with you. That’s why I agree with you in reference to paying for your own date.
I feel called out about the ghosting part, and I realized that it is disrespectful even if I feel like I was wronged by the man. I can at least explain myself in a respectful way before I cut it off. Moving forward, I will be more mindful of my actions. I don’t want to be that savage of a woman, that’s not who I am.
I can relate....🤦🏽♀️
I totally agree. Ghosting is something I need to work on. The reason I ghost is because when I express myself again and again and again and it falls on deaf ears……they don’t deserve a goodbye. I’ve said all I could say.
Me as well. Didn't realize that til now
I agree.but only if a man actually bothers talking to you/ I have a friend im the one to contact him each time..and he says yes.but this time he contacts me first to tell me he cant..the conversation is off when we meet..nothing much to talk about and he is not interested...I feel like not contacting him again..I wouldnt say it is ghosting...if a man tries to contact you and is clear and honest and you dont reply..then it is..
@@ameliabeneby2981 yeah but then thats different ..I was ghosted by a man..but I was clear to him and he simply didnt tell me yes or no or his thoughts...about whether he liked me too and wanted marriage...
I’ll just stay single until God sends them. These games men play I’m not even putting myself in those situations. I’m at a point in my life where I have nothing broken nothing missing. I’m so glad I love myself and God enough to where I’m ok until my time comes.
Yes me too! Good for you! 👍😇😁
That makes so much sense. Jesus said don't make family with other nations. I get it now. Having different beliefs is dangerous. If you are a bible believer.
I'm glad you mentioned having enough respect to severe ties amicably. An advice to ghost someone was the most overwhelming decision I've ever made. Communication is the best route.
"They feel a ghost 👻 on yah" 🤣🤣😂😂😂God Bless you Tony I love your content. You teach me and have me rollin.
I'm glad Mr. Gaskins will be doing this by different age groups, because (in my opinion) if you're around the age of 40 and you meet someone still selling in the streets, that should be an automatic "no", even though the information is helpful for the younger crowd.
Once you reach your 40's, some things should just not be acceptable. You should have already learnt certain things by then.
Hi Mr. Gaskins. We appreciate you.
Happy Monday blessed tribe!
Hey CK....blue Monday 🌞
@@beefaye18 ❤❤
This is soooo true!! My last relat I went in clueless and didn't want to judge him. I became blind to the red flags bc I had no standards in place and I toured where Satan lives for 7 yrs. I can own I did everything wrong from the start!! I just met a new guy and I feel ready and prepared bc of your videos and advice. I healed & got the new knowledge. Without it I'm sure i would be making the same mistakes over & over.
I'm backdating and I'm noticing the men I've come across are passive with communicating. Some men do ghost and love bombs a lot. I have been working on myself being open and honest with people. Now that I see how I use to be I'm able to verbalize my needs better. Thanks Tony for sharing 👏🏾👏🏾
I'm here, listening 👂🏽 and taking notes 📝. Thank you TG.
This was on point! Confirmation for me too! Just had this happened yesterday and me and the guy had mutual respect for the deal breaker. He totally understood and wants to work harder on quitting cigarettes. He appreciated the honesty. No love lost. Blessings!
Thank you Tony for your wisdom!
I am definitely rethinking this dating scene the men are definitely different it's sad
AGREE
@@childofgodskingdom8403 I just met a guy recently in his 40's he asked if he could come see mind you I just met him two days ago I told him no I don't invite people I just met to my house. So I asked would you like to go eat or something he said he didn't have the funds which ok I get it people have Bill's but then he asked did I want to go to the park in 105 degrees I said no I'm like how old are we yea I give up on dating if it's going to be like this 😂😂😂🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@mstiffthaboss9194 Exactly!! I know people expect us women to have a man but in these days it's strange and difficult to settle for non sense dating JUST TO SAY YOU GOT A GROWN BOY AS A MAN I'm so confused about why will society be teaching this behavior like women is not the PRIZE it's a serious problem if we are going around putting value tickets on mess. I feel you. The same thing happened to me too. He got mad when I told him NO, he has not asked me out on a date the movie and restaurants are back open.
@@LA-wv7gf Exactly 😂😂😂
I've learned to take more time in the beginning stage of a social connection to observe a lady's character before I allow myself to become connected to her on a long-term term basis. I am no longer willing to waste time dating for sport or entertainment. As an emotionally empowered lady, I've learned to enjoy my own company. I take myself on adventure dates to explore traveling, dining, seeing movies, cultural and various social events ALONE which is a SUPERPOWER because it builds self-confidence. Confidence is an attractive trait to the healed but it repels the broken 💔. The reality is that I spend longer periods of singleness between relationships. I'm only interested in developing a meaningful committed relationship with the potential to lead to marriage.
Tony.. this is just what I needed 😩
Thanks for this video and series, Tony! 😀 I'm taking notes!
Thank you for your videos!
Truly I mean it, there are a lot of videos on UA-cam relating to women advice is very emotionally draining. I won't mention any names but you know the youtubers advocating hate towards a certain group of women.
Your videos are helping a lot of people like me as you are authentic and kind. The lord is guiding you as you preach. Thanks again Mr Gaskins!
Yes...praying together in the name of JESUS🙏🏼
Love this series!!!
I had to learn to use my intuition. You can tell almost right away if you should keep going. That person might start out saying they don’t want kids or that they don’t drink alcohol. Years later, that could change. So I think intuition will let you know a lot of what you need to know during the dating phase
I've never been single since 13 until 2 years ago I broke up with my ex. I feel so free and have no desire to be in any relationships in the next year at least!
This series is 👩🏽🍳 *chef’s kiss
I truly love your vlogs, Mr. Gaskins! I’m glad that you talked a bit, about Muslims. I am a Muslimah, reverted to Islam from Christianity. I respect you, and alway will.🙂
Right now I’m not interested in dating I’m still healing but love the knowledge! Thanks Tony! 😇👍😁
I’m loving this series
Thanks Tony. I'm 67.
Wow...cool 👍
It’s tight but it’s right .. it’s hard but it’s fair good stuff ! thank you for your wisdom brother
This title relates so much to a matter I just encountered. I'd love to send the information to you for discussion. One that I feel would be a GREAT discuss and knowledge in the dating world.
Solid,
Relax, relate, release. We here to live our lives to experience greatness and we still giving all our focus on relationship!?! Pls make it make sense.
That just women nature. Even the most successful women in the world lack somewhere and that is having a successful relationship. I am 25 years old the times have changed but everyone really wants to found love but some people need healing. You can focus on yourself so much but there are going to be times when you are lonely.
@@toileonard6032 you 25? Wonderful that’s what this all about, to start young adults in the beginning so their won’t be any toxic repeats. 1st is to center yourself & have a relationship within & you will never be alone. Life is an experience. Thanks for your feedback ❤️
@@cuniqueness Most definitely!! You have to found yourself and love yourself to know what you want. Even though I am not alone within myself I do crave for a husband/best friend but in all due time. 🙏🙏
“They feel a ghost on you”! Lol omg that’s funny!
My initial screening is on the phone before I accept a date. I truly don't want to waste any ones time or money 💰.
Yesssssss! Your video's are always on point! God bless you.
That was exceptional, NephewTony. You definitely tell the truth. I appreciate you and your time. God bless you and your family. SDG
Hi Tony thanks again for another great video
I am a little close. But I am just not ready. Still healing.
Thanks again Tony for your wise words!. Yes, definitely stick with what you believe in!
What if you met a guy at a coffee shop one day and you gave him your number, but the next time you went to the coffee shop, he was there again and talked your ear off for 2 hours? I went there not for him, but to get my work done, and he said all sorts of absurd and inappropriate stuff to me? While also lecturing me and telling me that "we are meant to be." We never went on a date or anything, and I was extremely overwhelmed. Afterward, he kept calling me and I just ghosted him.
You did the right thing sis
@@MyMichellle thank you!
Wow! 🤦🏽♀️
I just dumped my boyfriend, he talks to much, and he talks about crazy things.
8months lost .I didn't listen to that voice in the back of my mind. You did the only thing that you could ,he would have made you crazy.
A NUT!!! Run for the hills. Glad you ended things.👏🏽
That's a big NOT for me! After the last relationship almost costed me my life! I'm 100% DONE!
Golden Advice ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Definitely not ready. I am more like my mom and will remain single the rest of my life.
Listening!...
Hey Everyone I have a question.
I am 28 I went on a Date with a guy I have been talking to for a while now ,we went to have dinner I did made up my mind to pay my own bill so after the dinner that's what happened I paid and he didn't say nothing okay.
So the second Date we went on I sit to see if he was going to pay the bill but when the waitress came he said separate please 🤔 we were also planning a third Date out of town, but after the second date I went home and I think about it and the next day I told him ist not going to work.
Was that a good move from me?
I talk to my best friend my sister and my Dad and they all said if a man can't pay for a Date then let him be.
Well explained Sir
Just bought both your Ebooks...
We need a break down of this for each decade and ages ! We need one for women in 30 to 35 crew, I say that because even though my younger sister is 28, and I 32 I feel like we have different views on dating lol! I also feel like as a 32 I would never been able to relate to the late 30's 40's crew some of them may have gone through divorce and have kids.
I was talking to this guy, he seemed sweet and all of that. A couple of days of constant communication, told me the f word, at first I thought he made a mistake and sent me a message meant for somebody else, so I asked to verify and to my surprise he only said that it was nothing. Didn't apologize, didn't clarify just left it like that. Now, I'm a lady so I left him off in the most lady like matter, "Well sir, I guess you are having a bad day, I will leave you alone now". The guy kept messaging me but I didn't reply back. Thank goodness it was now and not after.
To Date or Not To Date???? That's the question. It can be nice or a headache. These men are 50 to 65. No communication skills. Ignore you. Makes up lies and excuses. So why bother!!???!!! I just turned"60" so I really don't have time to waste. I grew up with no cursing in my family either and I don't.
Present 💜
All Facts!!!!
"You have the right to walk away from whatever reason you think you should."
Do I cut this person off for
smelling like they only bathe on Sunday or counting out a bunch of coins & coupons on a date? 😁
Im EU white caucasian but in a different EU country ,I thought this is why but men from the country do look at me though..and other issues are the drinking or the smoking weed etc..if they curse it can be changed..well the drinking and weed too..if they say I d stop all these..
im 38 in 2 days..and have no option...I dont want to go online ..few men who approached would cut me off right away and keep cutting me off..they dont let me speak in details..I feel no real interest /love from them..even women they approach me and the conversation is totally one sided..and it doesnt make sense sometimes too..they tell you things that are incomplete and you need to fish for more information, conversation doesnt flow..etc. but I recently noticed they may not be that clever..its not easy..
TRUE! They always cut me off too. One dude even shushed me while we were on a first date. I was like "aren't we suppose to be getting to know one another?" I wasn't even talking a lot, but when I decided to speak dat fool shushed me. I had to cut him off. He got mad and everything like where they do that at.
@@NekeishaWise It's crazy..the shushing is disrespectful..and on the first date on top of that..I never shushed anybody..I feel it's because they dont agree with what you say or/and aren't open to hear a different viewpoint..or they dont have the capacity to follow.. either way it is a bad sign..
Cut them off... 3.9 BILLION men in the world. Don't settle for disrespectful men. Change your entire circle.
@@irlandaise5631 Definitely a bad sign. The communication is OFF with a lot of guys. Some of them even only want to talk about themselves, and their problems like I am their therapist or something.
@@NekeishaWise same .. I have such new male ‘friends’ and a new female friend same .. and told me after meeting her for a coffee ‘thanks for listening ‘ i play tennis and same some men are latching onto me asking me about myself and straight away taking over back to themselves .. and if you try to interject they ll say ‘let m finish ‘ and I say well I’m just commenting on what you say ..lol ..I have started walking away..
AMEN
I’ve been on vacation. Just in case anyone missed me. 😁
Given that the red flags were present and you heard them(he was online and I never met him in person) why go through texting them? I personally feel all communication should be discontinued, period. I am not rude or cruel; I just think it's better to not further the communication. What do you think, Tony?
Why is this person popping up on my menu?!?!
Did you smoke and drink with your ex-girlfriend? I don't believe you mentioned it. Because birds of a feather flock together. Oh, and if you were drinking and smoking with your ex, did she influence you or was it the other way around.
That's hurtful
No
This doesn’t have anything to do with this video probably but Is it bad to cook for a guy every now and then? I don’t mean every day cooking but if he treats you to dinner all the time is a good man buys the groceries then is ok to cook for him every now and then?
If he cooks the dinner yes, if not NO..treat him to a restaurant like he does ...There is no need to cook..with the technology nowadays..women can find other things to do..and men too in fact..but they dont bother cooking mostly..only women..so please all women stop serving others..and focus on developing yourself
@@irlandaise5631 I see what you saying I do that as well(treat him to a restaurant) but it gets too expensive eating out all the time. I cook for myself and he eats sometimes bc we kinda live together. He doesn’t know how to cook he tried it sucked. His own sisters said he can’t cook worth a damn. I know what you are saying as well but he says I don’t have to cook I just do it once every couple of weeks. I think when I cook he cleans and does the laundry and stuff.
@@shiracobb3098 it’s good then , that you don’t have to do it .. I don’t eat vegs in my case I cook frozen food /protein only and plain.. so if a man wants vegs he ll have to cook them for himself ..im not making any recipe .. if that s what you
Mean by knowing how to cook but good he doesn’t mind if you don’t do it .. and does the laundry .. I believe each can do their own laundry though .. only cleaning a shared space needs to be shared .. frozen food and eggs are cheap .. I d suggest however to close your home until marriage ..as TG also advised
@@irlandaise5631 Thanks for the reply and TG said (he admitted actually in one of his videos I watched )him n his wife now we’re living together and they still married. He admitted it bc he wasn’t happy they did it but he wanted us to know the truth.
@@shiracobb3098 yeah I know but he doesn’t recommend it though - best is to close your legs and home until marriage.. this is what I’m doing
It sucks when you really wanted a future with him I'm just being honest
Tony we're not dating anymore until we see some real eligible bachelors. And stop saying they out there we just looking over them. Nope, I don't see any.
Absolutely don't see them.. Are they looking like what they are NOT? I have seen them get hurt then start playing games they switch it up on you.. Trying to hurt a woman now sounds like a grown boy gone bad.. Ladies raise the bar.. Level up attract BETTER.
@@childofgodskingdom8403 It's like a needle in a haystack. Tony act like the good ones are the haystack and the bad one's are the needles.
@@keepsit100atalltime9 😄
There are 3.9 BILLION men in the world... look into and get into different circles...
I feel like there are alot good men out there. Good not perfect!
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