I honestly feel like men don’t really put in the effort to date or approach women Anymore. I hardly ever get approach by men even when I’m by myself. It’s really just a weird time for dating people.
Me too. Used to happen back in the days like the early 2000 /2015 to me but not nowadays. They rarely approach I don't know why because I would consider myself reasonably attractive.
women are approaching them I believe ..the decent looking and good men..at least decent..I have had men approaching me..including men that are separated ..and I realise there was a reason why they were free..all about them..etc
I started feeling that way also but, suddenly there was a change. Just maybe as single women( Men as well because I don't want to appear to be bias) begin to really enjoy life one day at a time our focus changes. Then there is that suddenly moment.
I started feeling that way also but, suddenly there was a change. Just maybe as single women( Men as well because I don't want to appear to be bias) begin to really enjoy life one day at a time our focus changes. Then there is that suddenly moment.
It’s hard to date right now but I have noticed I get a little more attention from men when I do get out the house! A healthier disposition and growing my Christian character in God is the reason why. I owe it all to him because I belong to God!
I had a man ask me “how you look under that mask” at the grocery store, without a proper greeting or anything. I thought it was so disrespectful and I wasn’t having it. SN: I have a gorgeous smile, dimples and straight white teeth. I assumed everything else about me externally fit his check list, but I refused to take my mask off to be “criticized or judged” by a man at the grocery store. It’s wild out here.
I don't blame you one bit,that was completely disrespectful. Some men have some nerve like they all that, most men these days are so silly and immature they don't even have the sense enough to know how to approach a woman in a decent manner.
The same thing happened to me at the grocery store. A guy approached and then asked me to lift my mask to see my face and then said “hey take my number”. I took his number, so he would go away and then I deleted it as soon as I got into my car smh.
I’ve been going out(mostly alone) for the past month and Tony is definitely right. Men will approach you, especially if you’re properly presenting the three b’s.
@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect What I did to feel more comfortable was go out to lunch on weekdays because it’s less crowded and other people likely eat lunch alone too. Also don’t be scared to sit at the bar and chat with the bartender or the person next to you. Make conversation about the area or the menu. I’m a shy person but I find most people to be friendly. Bakeries and coffee shops are good places to visit alone as well.
@@DarienMLake Great advice! I do end up making small talk sometimes and guys have purchased drinks and/or food for me recently while just sitting at the bar, but I feel like going solo all the time is limiting. If I had company, I'd be out at least once a week vs. once per month.
Ive found that the more normal ones want you to approach them or at least look super approachable [simple], and the crazy/undesirable ones approach way too often, especially if you are looking your best 😂 I hate it out here. But it is what it is. Gotta deal with the cards you were dealt.
I'm single and ready to mingle myself, but I'm not trying to go anywhere to try to meet any man. When God sees fit for me to have a man in my life, I believe with the utmost confidence, God will lead that man in my direction.
@@msalmond1975 I do go out places, I'm saying like walking around hanging out all day trying to attract male's attention that's a no no, or going to clubs and what not that's also a no no. But I'm not a complete homebody. And I'm not going to be out trying to dress overly sexual looking with my butt checks and thighs and breasts hanging all out, that's another no no.
God is divine and can do any and everything. So, I do believe that God could send the man that's meant for you, her, or any woman to your house. She might need some repairs done or the yard mowed and there go that man.
I don't go out much but when I do. No one approaches me. Maybe I'm unapproachable. Nothing happens until its time. When my time comes, I will meet someone.
Girl I met someone at target during the thick of the pandemic mask on and everything. But I was looking cute and my energy matched that. We took 2 seconds to pull the mask down real quick and exchanged numbers 😂 he wasn’t the one but it helped me get over that “how am I gonna meet guys now🙄” hump 😂
“Everybody look good in the sight of the lord” 😭😭😭 I real deal watch TG videos for a good laugh the first time then watch it a 2nd time to take him serious (barely) lol love this guy
Loving this series! I would definitely consider myself single & ready!! What I’m learning: I need to get out more! I will be putting this into practice ☺️ Updates coming ladies… lol 😆
Yes, us as women often times make it difficult for a man to approach us. But truth be told, a lot of the men in our generation are not coming correctly AT ALL. Many don't put in effort and many just don't care. What's wrong with just being straight up and honest. Boom...you like a woman, approach her, respect her, SHOW HERRR THAT YOU CAREEEE and MEAN IT! It's not that hard. Then if you also don't like her, BE STRAIGHT UP and don't waste her time. I mean, come on fellas. (p.s.- us women have to get it together sometimes too though)
This "You are too quiet, come over here and sit with us" lady is soo cute, I think in the future I would love to be just like her. Hope I could remind another young woman/man that they are not alone. i just love your message, and I feel so inspired and happy right now. Thank you, Tony.
I spoke about how you can meet singles (women meeting men) and I definitely think it’s better to meet people now since everyone is doing what they can to be outside! I like to attend brunch, festival’s, malls, museums, upscale restaurants etc But Tony you know you’re dead wrong about those mask jokes 🤣✌🏿
I can't with Mr. Tony. 😂😂😂😂..God please keep him blessed. We need him..always a good laugh and knowledge in here. Makes learning fun. Stay blessed people. We gonna get there with his help.
Anybody else get turned off when a man asks you to take their number ?? What happened to them asking you can they have your number and if u are a little hesitant THEN they say well take my number and if you change your mind give me a call ?? Soon as they come up to me it’s here take my number .. I feel that puts me in a position to chase from the beginning setting the tone for how it will go idk maybe I’m reaching
It’s a major turn off and weird! I recently had this happened about a week or so ago. A guy drove by me, parked his car, approached me and then asked for me to take his number. I politely told him no and that he can take my number. He took my number and asked when’s the latest he could call me. But now I understand why he wanted me to take his number because he barely communicates with me, only text, and the convo is super dry. Giving my info to him was a waste of time. And girl please don’t get me started on another guy I met a few days ago. Like who raised these dudes?! 😩🙄😭
Lately the past month because of the covid increase & having to mask up again I haven't been getting out much. Before that (without masking up) I was taking myself to dinner, movies, stores, to the beach etc. I made sure to look classy & smell good, lol. I still hadn't met anyone. I believe when God is ready he will send my Boaz to me.
I go out all the time... A guy will stare at me and he will stare back. We are staring at each other for like 7 seconds.. I'm waiting for the guy to say something. I get nothing and we keep walking past each other. Lol this is why I am single
😂😂😂 that's really funny. Don't give up. Keep going out. May be that guy couldn't muster up the courage to approach you. When you meet the one the scenario is going to be different God bless you.
@@dorisfashion I'm introvert l have this problem sometime I'm would walk down to the street a run into a beautiful girl then my mind goes blank. 🤣 It's real.
I make myself approachable and make eye contact. I started going to the mall and a number of men have approached me and asked for my number. But the guys at the mall are not the most....intellectual or stimulating. I started going to business events, chamber of commerce events, networking events, MBA events, fraternity mixers, sports games, etc. I don't get approached at these events for any dates. However, I went to a latin dancing event at a hotel. As I was waiting, I asked a guy by himself "How were the chicken wings?". Wow, he talked non-stop for at least an hour. We talked about everything from travel to business to stopping animal abuse. I liked his conversation so much, and obviously he did too, because paid for what I ordered. Of course, I offered to pay the tip, but he didn't let me. Thing is he's a real estate investor, and he was leaving the city to hang out at his second home upstate. Ladies, be classy, take off the lashes and long nails, look your natural best, and go to upscale restaurant bars, hotel bars, etc. I've met so many well-off men (and I'm well off too), and they can tell that you're on your game. They are out there. Just love yourself, don't be desperate, look your best, and you will meet the right guy eventually.
Tony I want to say you are right! One Friday I decided to take myself to dinner. Before I could get a seat in the restaurant there was another guy who was alone that asked me to join him. No romantic connection but We had a great time!
yeah but yeah no connection lol..I want to eat out by myself too..but its outdoors .and I thought going to a restaurant in the evening alone is a bit strange..not many people do that..especially on Friday nights..its like we have no friends..maybe we dont lol..
Me and the guy had a great time! No connection for relationship though but still proves that Tony is right! Guys are out here eating alone and approaching women still. The girl was just getting off work and so was I. I just moved to a new area so my friends are no longer local
@@nieshalen441 no worries..yes he is right..I prefer to go to a cafe alone during the day..for me Im a foreigner in a foreign country ..friends come and go..I do have some but most are males..its not easy..women dont necessary want to be your friends..on average compared to men ..I find..
@@irlandaise5631 sure no problem! I was taking notes of some things he said that allowed me to see we having different lifestyles. He was more of a party/club goer and drinker looking for a "fun time" beyond dinner. I didn't let him know I picked up on all of this but I just enjoyed the moment and took mental notes
I was told to explore more options, meaning try dating different kinds of women of all race and nationalities. I’m open to it. When I tried it a few years ago I had a lot of white people pissed off at me, when I dated a Puerto Rican, I had a lot of Puerto Rican’s pissed off at me . So i said to myself “ man this is pretty tough”That’s the last thing that I wanted to do
I agree . So many guys approach me with my masks on and I ask how u kno I’m cute and they always say your eyes and literally everything else they see about me lol
I go out to different places and try different things but still have a hard time finding someone where I live. I never come across good looking brothas where I live, no matter where I go. Do u think changing locations is a good idea to broaden options?
I'm gonna start going to the art gallery I love and maybe a book store.. they have to be out here somewhere. In fact, we should just enjoy ourselves and let them find us. Maybe we can just make friends and social network. Ultimately, if you have a brain and goals and Christ in you.. how you look on the outside is already 'baracked' by the awesome person inside. Valerie he is out here somewhere...
A man did that note thing with me once. Turned out to be bat 💩 crazy! I can laugh about it now, but he had issues lol It sucks that I don't have more people to go out with, but I've been trying to get back out there recently. I've met a man each time I went to a restaurant and sat at the bar alone. None were a right fit but helps to know guys still approach.
Dang I missed you in Cleveland Tony. God bless you and your family. I agree with you but Cleveland it’s easy for men to talk to you but your lucky to meet a man who even believes in God or anything. Reasons I’m single
Tony I want a man but I dont even want to go through the whole process of getting to know someone and just be let down all over again. Im 34, and attractive but I just have lost hope in all of these men.
Hi. I'm really enjoying your videos. I like how u break things down to there simplest form so it's easy to understand and obtain. And i especially love how u sound almost identical to my cuzin Edwin Durant, so I now you're a Florida boy! 😁. But I'm 40yrs of age, single and have no kids. And what u said about getting out of house and finding a nice lil' hangout spot (gym, local restaurants, ect...) sounds very doable and so I'm actually looking forward to trying it. So thanx for the tip and all your other tips for that matter. 😁 (Also, I am a plus size women, and we tend to get over looked no matter what, and I'm not the "thirsty" type and don't wanna have to get thirty to be approached. Do u have tips or advise on that matter?)
I go out alone all the time and men rarely approach me. I’m not unattractive. I think I’m cute so I’m not sure what the issue is. Wish I knew what to do
Is it appropriate for a man to approach you while you have your kid(s) shooting his shot? I ask because I was out at dinner with my daughter & a man approached me “Excuse me, I don’t mean any harm. I see you’re with your daughter but I wanted to let you know that I think you’re beautiful.” I said “thank you.” He asked “are you single? Taking any applications? Dating?” At this point, we were trying to get ice cream & leave. So I was like “yes I’m single.” He asked for my number. I gave it to him. Went to pay for our meal but he came up & paid for ours, his & his aunts. And then called me like 5 minutes later. I didn’t answer because we were out enjoying our day. He texted & said to call him when I could. I didn’t. He called & texted me the next day. Again, I was busy. I didn’t think it was appropriate to approach me while I was with my daughter but because the setting was very public & I didn’t know how he’d react with my daughter being right there, that’s why I gave it to him. However, I did let him know that I wasn’t interested in communicating with him. I just wanted to know was this appropriate.
I feel like wen i go out with the opposite sex that's wen i get the most attention and stares like its a competition rather than wen i go out with my homegirls
@@irlandaise5631 I try to avoid going out with men(male friends) now that I watched Tony’s video on “can men and women be friends?”. I’m not actively looking for a partner/relationship but I don’t want a possible male friendship to block a potential suitor.
@@kilimanjaro5537 I know same..but im totally alone if I refuse to hang out with them.and its one on one..so its blocking even more..but this time I asked a new female friend to join along so we will be 3..but she may blow me off..but its true some may hope for more..but we arent necessarily good friends..and there can be red flags I noticed..I did try to sit on a banch alone in a park and will do it more..even after meeting them.. I dont talk to them non stop or meet them once a week or so..
Hes right. I met her about 10 years ago in the miami airport waiting for my flight. She was decked out with LV luggage in tow. She is so small and tiny sounding. I sat there and listened to her whole conversation with the dude she was traveling with. I was like this is her lol. Her song persona does not match the actual person.
From Cleveland Ohio there is NOTHING HERE I’ve been divorced since 2007 I met a young man at work in 2012 was in eight year relationship He was very charming from the beginning five years into the relationship I realized. He was a drug addict And a alcoholic He was a functioning individual he drove well lived well had money we travel a lot I later found out that he was bipolar immature and toxic I get out quite often I do not drink or do drugs I’ve met a lot of nice guys here in Cleveland but they’re only nice for 90 days and then the mask falls off and I SEE THAY ARE REALLY BUMS THE RE
Lol.. wow I live just 30 mins away, and I was just saying I’m moving out of Ohio it’s literally nothing here. I never know about anything that’s going on in Ohio i live in Akron Ohio. Can you do a video on how to find out about this stuff?
Lol same here. This weekend is the Black College Football Hall of Fame Classic in Canton. Saturday 9.4.21 -11am classic fun fest free entry. -5pm faith gospel concert feat Marvin Sapp free entry (premium seats avail). Sunday 9.5.21 4pm Grambling State/Tennessee State football game tickets $29-$39. Check the info out online sounds like a fun outing that would go with what Tony is saying. Lol 😃🙌
You should not go out somewhere expecting to meet someone, but accepting when it does happen. Tony"s message is what I needed to hear.
I honestly feel like men don’t really put in the effort to date or approach women Anymore. I hardly ever get approach by men even when I’m by myself. It’s really just a weird time for dating people.
Me too.
Used to happen back in the days like the early 2000 /2015 to me but not nowadays. They rarely approach
I don't know why because I would consider myself reasonably attractive.
yes same..and when they approach they only talk about themselves and.or make inappropriate comments
women are approaching them I believe ..the decent looking and good men..at least decent..I have had men approaching me..including men that are separated ..and I realise there was a reason why they were free..all about them..etc
I started feeling that way also but, suddenly there was a change. Just maybe as single women( Men as well because I don't want to appear to be bias) begin to really enjoy life one day at a time our focus changes. Then there is that suddenly moment.
I started feeling that way also but, suddenly there was a change. Just maybe as single women( Men as well because I don't want to appear to be bias) begin to really enjoy life one day at a time our focus changes. Then there is that suddenly moment.
"Ma'am wasn't nobody stalking you" 🤣😂🤣took meeeee 😂🤦🏽♀️
It’s hard to date right now but I have noticed I get a little more attention from men when I do get out the house! A healthier disposition and growing my Christian character in God is the reason why. I owe it all to him because I belong to God!
🤣"ma'am calm down, weren't nobody stalking you"
That’s why I don’t approach much lol
Right. Lol.
@@BlackMamba92233 lol don't let that deter you
@@joiagenae I mean I don’t wanna be looked at like that lol and what if she already has a man lol
Just approach her
Leave the house looking your best Ladies.....today might be your day to meet someone new😇😇
Right. I have a love affair with sweatpants that I must break! 😩
Amen 🙏🏽
I had a man ask me “how you look under that mask” at the grocery store, without a proper greeting or anything. I thought it was so disrespectful and I wasn’t having it. SN: I have a gorgeous smile, dimples and straight white teeth. I assumed everything else about me externally fit his check list, but I refused to take my mask off to be “criticized or judged” by a man at the grocery store. It’s wild out here.
I don't blame you one bit,that was completely disrespectful. Some men have some nerve like they all that, most men these days are so silly and immature they don't even have the sense enough to know how to approach a woman in a decent manner.
The same thing happened to me at the grocery store. A guy approached and then asked me to lift my mask to see my face and then said “hey take my number”. I took his number, so he would go away and then I deleted it as soon as I got into my car smh.
Lol a guy approached me before and asked me to take off my mask. I politely said “No”
@@aalexis112 like you really want me to risk catching Covid for what exactly sir?
@@talkswithjas7959 right?! 😂
I’ve been going out(mostly alone) for the past month and Tony is definitely right. Men will approach you, especially if you’re properly presenting the three b’s.
Rolling solo is cool sometimes, but I need 1-2 home girls to go out with too. I'd get out _way_ more if I had the company 😔.
@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect What I did to feel more comfortable was go out to lunch on weekdays because it’s less crowded and other people likely eat lunch alone too. Also don’t be scared to sit at the bar and chat with the bartender or the person next to you. Make conversation about the area or the menu. I’m a shy person but I find most people to be friendly. Bakeries and coffee shops are good places to visit alone as well.
@@DarienMLake Great advice! I do end up making small talk sometimes and guys have purchased drinks and/or food for me recently while just sitting at the bar, but I feel like going solo all the time is limiting. If I had company, I'd be out at least once a week vs. once per month.
Facts
Girl you're beautiful
I take your advice to heart. It’s always great but you are so funny!
“Ma’am calm down and stop putting all that extra sauce on it.”
That really took me out, lol!
Right..it was the "ain't nobody stalking you ma'am..gon' on"..🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️
Lol he is so funny and full of wisdom!
Tony!!!! I can't!!!! Mam...... nobody is STALKING you!!! BA Ha Ha Ha😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ive found that the more normal ones want you to approach them or at least look super approachable [simple], and the crazy/undesirable ones approach way too often, especially if you are looking your best 😂 I hate it out here. But it is what it is. Gotta deal with the cards you were dealt.
I’m screaming at the Trina part!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Tony is hilarious 😂
Me too!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm single and ready to mingle myself, but I'm not trying to go anywhere to try to meet any man. When God sees fit for me to have a man in my life, I believe with the utmost confidence, God will lead that man in my direction.
Sis, is God going to send him to your house?
@@msalmond1975 I do go out places, I'm saying like walking around hanging out all day trying to attract male's attention that's a no no, or going to clubs and what not that's also a no no. But I'm not a complete homebody. And I'm not going to be out trying to dress overly sexual looking with my butt checks and thighs and breasts hanging all out, that's another no no.
@@msalmond1975 🤣
God is divine and can do any and everything. So, I do believe that God could send the man that's meant for you, her, or any woman to your house. She might need some repairs done or the yard mowed and there go that man.
I agree God will send him. In the meantime as singles we should get out too.
“Be okay in your peace and quiet.” TG
And that's why I am at.
I don't go out much but when I do. No one approaches me. Maybe I'm unapproachable. Nothing happens until its time. When my time comes, I will meet someone.
Keep going out.and listen to your spirit
Maybe you’re in hiding. Or it’s your energy.
Same here sis, guys don't approach me, but I serve an awesome God! When he's ready he'll send Boaz.
Lord do it for me while I’m at Target 🙌🏾
Girl I met someone at target during the thick of the pandemic mask on and everything. But I was looking cute and my energy matched that. We took 2 seconds to pull the mask down real quick and exchanged numbers 😂 he wasn’t the one but it helped me get over that “how am I gonna meet guys now🙄” hump 😂
“Everybody look good in the sight of the lord” 😭😭😭 I real deal watch TG videos for a good laugh the first time then watch it a 2nd time to take him serious (barely) lol love this guy
Loving this series! I would definitely consider myself single & ready!! What I’m learning: I need to get out more! I will be putting this into practice ☺️ Updates coming ladies… lol 😆
How is it going?
Yeah girl how's it going lol
😂😂😂 "Not the look that I was going for..." -TG (under the mask)..😂😂😂✌🏃
Yes, us as women often times make it difficult for a man to approach us. But truth be told, a lot of the men in our generation are not coming correctly AT ALL. Many don't put in effort and many just don't care. What's wrong with just being straight up and honest. Boom...you like a woman, approach her, respect her, SHOW HERRR THAT YOU CAREEEE and MEAN IT! It's not that hard. Then if you also don't like her, BE STRAIGHT UP and don't waste her time. I mean, come on fellas. (p.s.- us women have to get it together sometimes too though)
Lady:I was at the mall being stalked as I walked around TG: ma'am calm down🤣
I hollered 😂
Crying lol when you started talking about how some folks looked when they take their mask off. Too funny!!
No disrespect tony I feel like your my big brother in my head you speak the truth
The Trina impersonation 😂😂😂💀💀💀
This "You are too quiet, come over here and sit with us" lady is soo cute, I think in the future I would love to be just like her. Hope I could remind another young woman/man that they are not alone. i just love your message, and I feel so inspired and happy right now. Thank you, Tony.
I spoke about how you can meet singles (women meeting men) and I definitely think it’s better to meet people now since everyone is doing what they can to be outside! I like to attend brunch, festival’s, malls, museums, upscale restaurants etc But Tony you know you’re dead wrong about those mask jokes 🤣✌🏿
It’s true. You meet men any and everywhere. Men have approached me while I walking in the park, while I was cleaning out my car at the car wash, etc.
I can't with Mr. Tony. 😂😂😂😂..God please keep him blessed. We need him..always a good laugh and knowledge in here. Makes learning fun. Stay blessed people. We gonna get there with his help.
What God has for me is for me! 🙌🏽
That interior is nice. This must be a sprinter that's done up.I LUVS IT
Masks off like hats off. Sometimes they are improvements and a big disappointments when removed😷😂😂
Lol
Anybody else get turned off when a man asks you to take their number ?? What happened to them asking you can they have your number and if u are a little hesitant THEN they say well take my number and if you change your mind give me a call ?? Soon as they come up to me it’s here take my number .. I feel that puts me in a position to chase from the beginning setting the tone for how it will go idk maybe I’m reaching
Reach
I don’t think that’s a reach.. if I’m not mistaken Tony has mentioned to never take a mans number because of exactly what you said.
It’s a major turn off and weird! I recently had this happened about a week or so ago. A guy drove by me, parked his car, approached me and then asked for me to take his number. I politely told him no and that he can take my number. He took my number and asked when’s the latest he could call me. But now I understand why he wanted me to take his number because he barely communicates with me, only text, and the convo is super dry. Giving my info to him was a waste of time. And girl please don’t get me started on another guy I met a few days ago. Like who raised these dudes?! 😩🙄😭
Facts !
Tony, it would be amazing to have a FB group where all your followers share stories of what they are doing to meet guys IRL 😃
“Not the look you into for this season of your life” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This content was a good look...Thank you Brother Gaskins...I'm ready to give Love a go again..God bless you..
I’m heading to Miami this weekend so if my future husband is looking for me, he can find me on the beach 🏖 relaxing 😎 😆
Lately the past month because of the covid increase & having to mask up again I haven't been getting out much. Before that (without masking up) I was taking myself to dinner, movies, stores, to the beach etc. I made sure to look classy & smell good, lol. I still hadn't met anyone.
I believe when God is ready he will send my Boaz to me.
I go out all the time... A guy will stare at me and he will stare back. We are staring at each other for like 7 seconds.. I'm waiting for the guy to say something. I get nothing and we keep walking past each other. Lol this is why I am single
😂😂😂 that's really funny. Don't give up. Keep going out. May be that guy couldn't muster up the courage to approach you. When you meet the one the scenario is going to be different God bless you.
@@wonderfullyrenee I'm glad I am not the only one lol
@@frankysuzanne1049 thank you 🥺
@@dorisfashion 😅😅😅 girl you funny.
@@dorisfashion I'm introvert l have this problem sometime I'm would walk down to the street a run into a beautiful girl then my mind goes blank. 🤣 It's real.
he is funny I love it. been out of the dating seen for a long time . looking forward to the next time.
I make myself approachable and make eye contact. I started going to the mall and a number of men have approached me and asked for my number. But the guys at the mall are not the most....intellectual or stimulating.
I started going to business events, chamber of commerce events, networking events, MBA events, fraternity mixers, sports games, etc.
I don't get approached at these events for any dates.
However, I went to a latin dancing event at a hotel. As I was waiting, I asked a guy by himself "How were the chicken wings?".
Wow, he talked non-stop for at least an hour. We talked about everything from travel to business to stopping animal abuse.
I liked his conversation so much, and obviously he did too, because paid for what I ordered. Of course, I offered to pay the tip, but he didn't let me.
Thing is he's a real estate investor, and he was leaving the city to hang out at his second home upstate.
Ladies, be classy, take off the lashes and long nails, look your natural best, and go to upscale restaurant bars, hotel bars, etc.
I've met so many well-off men (and I'm well off too), and they can tell that you're on your game.
They are out there. Just love yourself, don't be desperate, look your best, and you will meet the right guy eventually.
Tony I want to say you are right! One Friday I decided to take myself to dinner. Before I could get a seat in the restaurant there was another guy who was alone that asked me to join him. No romantic connection but We had a great time!
yeah but yeah no connection lol..I want to eat out by myself too..but its outdoors .and I thought going to a restaurant in the evening alone is a bit strange..not many people do that..especially on Friday nights..its like we have no friends..maybe we dont lol..
Me and the guy had a great time! No connection for relationship though but still proves that Tony is right! Guys are out here eating alone and approaching women still. The girl was just getting off work and so was I. I just moved to a new area so my friends are no longer local
@@nieshalen441 no worries..yes he is right..I prefer to go to a cafe alone during the day..for me Im a foreigner in a foreign country ..friends come and go..I do have some but most are males..its not easy..women dont necessary want to be your friends..on average compared to men ..I find..
@@nieshalen441 can I ask , what do you mean by no connection for relationship /marriage ? is it because the conversation is off..or something ?
@@irlandaise5631 sure no problem! I was taking notes of some things he said that allowed me to see we having different lifestyles. He was more of a party/club goer and drinker looking for a "fun time" beyond dinner. I didn't let him know I picked up on all of this but I just enjoyed the moment and took mental notes
I was told to explore more options, meaning try dating different kinds of women of all race and nationalities. I’m open to it. When I tried it a few years ago I had a lot of white people pissed off at me, when I dated a Puerto Rican, I had a lot of Puerto Rican’s pissed off at me . So i said to myself “ man this is pretty tough”That’s the last thing that I wanted to do
Your Trina comment just took me out 😂😭😭
I agree . So many guys approach me with my masks on and I ask how u kno I’m cute and they always say your eyes and literally everything else they see about me lol
🤣🤣….”when they get off work”
Leave the mask on🤣🤣🤣🙈 Tony your too funny. God bless you.
I go out to different places and try different things but still have a hard time finding someone where I live. I never come across good looking brothas where I live, no matter where I go. Do u think changing locations is a good idea to broaden options?
Don't look for men
I'm gonna start going to the art gallery I love and maybe a book store.. they have to be out here somewhere. In fact, we should just enjoy ourselves and let them find us. Maybe we can just make friends and social network. Ultimately, if you have a brain and goals and Christ in you.. how you look on the outside is already 'baracked' by the awesome person inside. Valerie he is out here somewhere...
@@1972jojodancer I've been looking for him since 2011
I'm in the same boat as you and plan to move (not to find a man though lol) for a change of scenery. When I go out nobody that looks good are out too.
@@angewinou780 Have faith that he will find you. you are a gem waiting all this time. I admire your wisdom and apparent boundaries.
Tony said .....I had to pause this video...he said "don't tell before they go to work might ruin they work day, hit them after they get off work"
😅😅😅
A man did that note thing with me once. Turned out to be bat 💩 crazy! I can laugh about it now, but he had issues lol
It sucks that I don't have more people to go out with, but I've been trying to get back out there recently. I've met a man each time I went to a restaurant and sat at the bar alone. None were a right fit but helps to know guys still approach.
I feel you sis.
He asked me to walk him to the bathroom! 😂 I cannot stop laughing!
All dressed up and getting chased around the mall.....🏃♀️🏃♂️..
🤣🤣🤣 ❤️🇦🇺
Yeah girl you got it
😂😂😂😂 when you talked about the mask being off I cried🤣😩. Lord bless them and the bottom half of their face
Dang I missed you in Cleveland Tony. God bless you and your family. I agree with you but Cleveland it’s easy for men to talk to you but your lucky to meet a man who even believes in God or anything. Reasons I’m single
Tony I want a man but I dont even want to go through the whole process of getting to know someone and just be let down all over again. Im 34, and attractive but I just have lost hope in all of these men.
I laughed so hard watching this 😂😂😂😂 Sigh..I need to get out more. I like coffee shops tho so I can study or work on my business.
Aww Coach Tony!! You were in my neck of the woods. Hope you enjoyed yourself. ❤️🙏🏽
20:37 I cried with laughter, how is the man asking to be taken to the bathroom 😳😳🤣🤣🤣
I literally cackled 🤣🤣
Hilarious! I couldn't stop laughing 🤣😂
He's gay and was making a down low move on Tony
3Bs
Brand
Body
Brains
You are funny TG.
Nose and lip surprise under mask!😷😂
Caught off guard when the mask comes off… we call that mask-fishing 🤣😂🤣😂
Let em sleep through the night lmao
nah I can’t Tony. I gotta cut em off as soon as I get to my car.
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Don't be like dat sis!! 😫🤣🤣🤣💀
😂😂😂 like as soon as I get in the house BLOCKED *tony voice*
I love your advice, Tony. Time to apply it, maybe tomorrow evening 😉
Man it’s been a while since I really got cute and dressed up and went out 😩 I don’t even know how to interact no more lawd !!!
Same lol
Hi. I'm really enjoying your videos. I like how u break things down to there simplest form so it's easy to understand and obtain. And i especially love how u sound almost identical to my cuzin Edwin Durant, so I now you're a Florida boy! 😁. But I'm 40yrs of age, single and have no kids. And what u said about getting out of house and finding a nice lil' hangout spot (gym, local restaurants, ect...) sounds very doable and so I'm actually looking forward to trying it. So thanx for the tip and all your other tips for that matter. 😁 (Also, I am a plus size women, and we tend to get over looked no matter what, and I'm not the "thirsty" type and don't wanna have to get thirty to be approached. Do u have tips or advise on that matter?)
I’m from Cleveland Tony 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️ welcome!!!
THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE/VIDEO!my best friend and I was talking about this today. Confirmation for me
Yooo Tony is making my morning!😄
5:00 hit skip😂😂😂..I get it Mr. Gaskins, at least get out there.
Not the extra sauce 😂😂
Excellent points!
"The Pandy" 😂😂😂
I want to get out I really do. But this panorama is bad in NC/SC. I don't trust being out like that. Im still getting food to go lol.
Not the look you ready for right now🤣.. this not the season for ugly😂🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣 Lord bless them!! Ay Jesus!! 😆🙃🤣🤣🤣
I go out alone all the time and men rarely approach me. I’m not unattractive. I think I’m cute so I’m not sure what the issue is. Wish I knew what to do
Is it appropriate for a man to approach you while you have your kid(s) shooting his shot?
I ask because I was out at dinner with my daughter & a man approached me “Excuse me, I don’t mean any harm. I see you’re with your daughter but I wanted to let you know that I think you’re beautiful.” I said “thank you.” He asked “are you single? Taking any applications? Dating?” At this point, we were trying to get ice cream & leave. So I was like “yes I’m single.” He asked for my number. I gave it to him. Went to pay for our meal but he came up & paid for ours, his & his aunts. And then called me like 5 minutes later.
I didn’t answer because we were out enjoying our day. He texted & said to call him when I could. I didn’t. He called & texted me the next day. Again, I was busy.
I didn’t think it was appropriate to approach me while I was with my daughter but because the setting was very public & I didn’t know how he’d react with my daughter being right there, that’s why I gave it to him. However, I did let him know that I wasn’t interested in communicating with him. I just wanted to know was this appropriate.
Do you know how funny you are?🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for the tips!
Tony you ain't an introvert you funny
I think ima try this lounge or movies solo thing
Tony funny and don’t even know he funny 😂
Tony I hear ya! Going to practice what you speech!!!!!🤣😂🙏🏿
Omg! I told my friend we should have went 😩 and I would have had the opportunity to meet you!!
I feel like wen i go out with the opposite sex that's wen i get the most attention and stares like its a competition rather than wen i go out with my homegirls
same but because most women dont want to hang out with me..I have to hang out mostly with men..all my life is the same..
@@irlandaise5631 I try to avoid going out with men(male friends) now that I watched Tony’s video on “can men and women be friends?”. I’m not actively looking for a partner/relationship but I don’t want a possible male friendship to block a potential suitor.
@@kilimanjaro5537 I know same..but im totally alone if I refuse to hang out with them.and its one on one..so its blocking even more..but this time I asked a new female friend to join along so we will be 3..but she may blow me off..but its true some may hope for more..but we arent necessarily good friends..and there can be red flags I noticed..I did try to sit on a banch alone in a park and will do it more..even after meeting them..
I dont talk to them non stop or meet them once a week or so..
Tony a damn fool this man makes me laugh and that's a ministry within itself. He said I thought you was the baddest B..NY in the house 🏘️
Hes right. I met her about 10 years ago in the miami airport waiting for my flight. She was decked out with LV luggage in tow. She is so small and tiny sounding. I sat there and listened to her whole conversation with the dude she was traveling with. I was like this is her lol. Her song persona does not match the actual person.
Tricky,
Women how you meet a person set a tone, men already put women in categories. So when it’s time it will be all good, until than relax.
19:48 @Davechappelle lol 😆
He said, “…can’t get out there and be scared “-lol no he didn’t!!! Yes, he diddd-uhhh ☠️😂🤣☠️☠️☠️😂🤣
Trina know how TONE IT DOWN😍🥰😘
Tony you were in my city!!!!! ❤️
From Cleveland Ohio there is NOTHING HERE I’ve been divorced since 2007 I met a young man at work in 2012 was in eight year relationship
He was very charming from the beginning five years into the relationship I realized. He was a drug addict And a alcoholic He was a functioning individual he drove well lived well had money we travel a lot I later found out that he was bipolar immature and toxic I get out quite often I do not drink or do drugs I’ve met a lot of nice guys here in Cleveland but they’re only nice for 90 days and then the mask falls off and I SEE THAY ARE REALLY BUMS THE RE
I feel you born and raised here...⛑
@@ms.butterlove9394 yes
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I'm still awaiting Tony's dating service all those single men he got connections with holla!...In the meantime Monday Wednesday Saturday....lol
Mask 😷 on mask off 😆😆. Mask still on? I can’t stop laughing.
Be blessed!
That mask on is like hats on. Make things look a bit better😷😁
Why???... because of Ted Bundy...🙈🙈🙈🙈🙊
would you suggest buying a membership at a datingsite
Nope..not at all
Nope!
@Joyful n Blessed thank you!
Mr Gaskins, I didn’t see an option for Payment Plan for the life Coach Certification training.
This is great advice
Put my phone down…noted
Great student. You have practice tomorrow .😅
Lol.. wow I live just 30 mins away, and I was just saying I’m moving out of Ohio it’s literally nothing here. I never know about anything that’s going on in Ohio i live in Akron Ohio. Can you do a video on how to find out about this stuff?
Lol, me too. Lol I knew nothing about the fight or nothing else for that matter.
Lol same here. This weekend is the Black College Football Hall of Fame Classic in Canton. Saturday 9.4.21 -11am classic fun fest free entry. -5pm faith gospel concert feat Marvin Sapp free entry (premium seats avail). Sunday 9.5.21 4pm Grambling State/Tennessee State football game tickets $29-$39. Check the info out online sounds like a fun outing that would go with what Tony is saying. Lol 😃🙌
@@kriskay2k9 I will definitely have to check these events out. Thank you for sharing! 💗
@@MissPrettySweetC you’re so welcome!!
Girl I'm in Akron too and I didn't think "regular people" could afford tickets lol
Tony is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Took mask off and looked they mask is off, then prayer 😂😂😂