Online dating rules for talking to guys online | 6 rules for online dating

[@devan6127]

Until a man gives you a reason to take him seriously, don’t take him seriously 👌

[@cokeke78]

"Don't get mad, get unavailable" - Kev Hicks

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Less NEEDY.

[@alishainc]

that was my fav line too!

[@franceshernandez6726]

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[@rubycubez1103]

Honestly, I feel if a man doesn't approach you first, he's not interested to begin with. Great video!

[@reeses_unicorn]

I agree. Men are, naturally, hunters.

[@reeses_unicorn]

@Juanita Wright That's not really what I mean. I'm talking about how, many centuries ago, a lot of men would do the hunting for their families. Hunting's a natural instinct men tend to have.

[@sicksadworld6221]

FACT 🎯

[@flyandshy00]

I approached 2 men, both were catastrophes. Many years ago when I had very low self esteem, now I would never text first even.

[@maggief1851]

Maybe he hasn't seen your profile

[@jetw9522]

My takeaways:
1. Don't get mad, get unavailable.
2. Get rid of aimless men in all dimensions of your life.
3. Don't take him seriously until he gives you the reasons to.
Thank you so much Kevin, these advices are golds!

[@thcu]

Rule#1: Don't. Desperate means danger

[@Jubileejones]

Right!

[@adrianafayad6774]

You give great advices...
This week, a guy from a dating app, in the first talking to me, asked if we could meet for a coffee. I said yes, then he asked "And if there is chemistry will it be only coffee?"... I answered: "No, you can order a cupcake or cookie too". He blocked me. I simply don't have patience for those guys who seem to have totally forgotten how to talk to women.

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

ROFLMAO!!!!! GREAT COMEBACK!!

[@adrianafayad6774]

@@SonjaElizabethTeal Thanx 😄

[@Ellie-bo9uh]

Love it🤣

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Adriana, I don’t mind telling you are really given a lot when I read your comment and you were 100% spot on you can go get a cupcake or a cookie! You did the right thing. Always remember this, YOU Will be a lady! You can’t expect to get a good gentleman unless you first act like a lady and vice versa for the fellas. I liked your post I sure wish you the best.

[@deanna6742]

😂 smart I love the way you handled it

[@Jtaime03]

After watching your videos, I’ve realized I’ve literally never had a guy genuinely interested in me.

[@winning3329]

Yeah same here.
Guys are so fake these days.

[@pynki08]

Same here smh

[@faceofglam]

SAME. It’s sad

[@Jtaime03]

@還在進MÅRÎÖ步級版面包 no. I literally do not play games. I’m as honest as they come. Online dating is pit for loser guys. Like you who comment dumb shit to try to bring a woman down.

[@maisade]

I think I’m in the same boat.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Don't rush to MEET. Exchange at least 5 messages. Exchange numbers. And TWO phone calls before you meet. Never organize a date ONLINE or with a TEXT. He must call you... TWICE. And PLEASE meet in a Public place. 😉

[@ashleyware82]

I agree!!

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

why would you come on another dating coach's channel ? and with this bs that doesn't work..who has time on their hands to keep score and count messages and keep up with that shit just to date ...you are insane..you would NEVER get my money....be real!!!

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@@Mindful.Movement.01 Well 84 people agree with me. And Kev is a GREAT coach...just joining the convo.

[@bthomas1851]

@@CrystalDatingCoach right that was so weird how she came at you. Are you not supposed to be allowed to have an opinion?

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@@bthomas1851 Thanks darling....WE don't worry about others. :-)

[@patiencesanelisiwesiwe8164]

Who else is lonely for years but still listen

[@wshelby83]

Me lol

[@deepalil1085]

I never dated. I am 26, will probably go for arrange marriage.

[@jasminearmah8078]

it’s embarrassing how much i allowed or didn’t notice in the past i’m so happy i found ur channel

[@stephaniemccaulley4433]

Right!

[@DamasMademoiselle]

Me too.

[@lindseywooten2882]

Same your not alone 😮

[@stormysmom222]

Rule #1 :. Don't even do it and save yourself energy and peace. Done.

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

Right bc 98% it’s gonna be a waste of time

[@roxannedelcarmen7495]

💯

[@reeses_unicorn]

I've been using online dating sites for a few years and I have a ton of stories I could tell.
I must have talked to, at least, hundreds of guys and so many of them acted like shit. Plenty of them have been, either, really horrible at holding a conversation or they're overtly sexual. (I've, actually, written on my profiles that I'm not that comfortable talking about sexual stuff!)
I'm sorry about the rant. I just find online dating very emotionally draining and it's really pounded my self-esteem. Actually, I've started to wean myself from online dating and I've been feeling happier. :) I feel more okay with being single, and I'd like to put more energy into meeting people in real life.

[@Youngboss388]

Im sorry for this

[@reeses_unicorn]

@@Youngboss388 It's okay. I've been through a lot worse. 🤷

[@littlelily4]

I'm so sorry
Overly sexual guys are creepy and I always block them. I keep the ones that don't do it. That didn't stop me from getting hurt obviously, but it sure saved me from desperate men and potential psychopaths.

[@reeses_unicorn]

@@littlelily4 It's okay.
I block the overly sexual guys, too, but the truth is I'm kind of afraid of dating, so I've, often, let good guys go, too. I'm trying to work on that, though.

[@angelataylor7799]

same here. its so exhausting and off putting and stressful. some sites are better than others though. pof is the worst.

[@ClaudiasInnanet]

I get annoyed easily. If I give my number to a guy and say “call me” and he texts me, automatically blocked

[@queenofallusa5391]

♥️

[@eagle.driven2583]

Exactly

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

you better than me...when they ask for my number I ALWAYS get their number not the other way around and for good reasons too

[@bripierce5563]

That's too picky, just an outsiders opinion.

[@zelmahenry7300]

Facts

[@ShaniTheBurningTree]

I’ve learned quite a bit. When I don’t respond quickly, there are several ways suitors might respond.
1. They don’t bother to write again.
2. They will write again with some concern and let you know in some way they are thinking of you.
3. They become desperate and/or start criticizing the lack of responsiveness.
If I truly like someone, I will sometimes make myself unavailable, to see how he responds. I’m not into the idea of chasing a man, it should be an ebb and flow. So if it’s too much one sided, there is a lack of match.

[@soshieopath7142]

Cool name

[@terrancecheatham2629]

NOBODY has “time” to play those kind of games though…it’s a display of immaturity to be honest. When a man is serious he is looking for a serious woman to pursue…it’s sad but “games” is what online dating has fostered

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Now in all fairness the girls play a lot of games too. Believe it or not I’m a nice guy I just took a young lady out today for dinner first day she seems sweet nice I think she’s pretty and I enjoyed her company. I wasn’t looking to get anything and I wasn’t contacting her to get sex. What I am interested in, is nice company a human exchange and getting to know one another. I think the your comment is a little biased.

[@SerenityIsComing]

I always tell guys “I don’t take numbers” the look on most of their faces tells me that they have never heard that before and it’s SAD! Hopefully this video reaches a lot of women.

[@pianotnt]

I gotta use that one because when a guy gives you his number they want you to chase them and puts you in the masculine energy

[@SerenityIsComing]

@@pianotnt that’s exactly what they want you do . It puts the ball in your court and unfortunately it’s hard to change the dynamics when you start off like that. The only person I chase down is Jesus . Tuh

[@adj5767]

Sorry but that's silly.

[@stacyfun6065]

I just met someone and I told him I don’t give my number unless I’m comfortable with that person. I normally give my number to friends and family only!
He went nuts hahaha... he said this is so interesting!!! Never heard of that before and he is still texting me on messenger hoping to get my number one day! 😊
I do this every time!!! Don’t give up girlfriend. You own the crown!

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

o wow never looked at it this way I usually NEVER give them my number when they ask and instead take theirs but the catch is I never call them and if I say no and they still want my number i either give them a google number or i give them my real number (cause now days men like to call you right then which i think to this day is weird as fuck ) and then when they call ...once im not around them I block the number instantly. Has worked like a charm every time

[@honeybwp1]

attempting to get to know someone online is exhausting i find myself relating to some of the things mentioned in this video. Don't get mad get unavailable.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Nothing comes easy. A good job. Finding an Apartment or house. You need a plan. What kind of Man am I looking for. With kids. Divorced. Never been married. Not just a Boyfriend. The type of Man.

[@Balancingcodes]

Some try to "build from lust", 👀well said Kev, well said!!! 👌🔥✔

[@kettanistar]

That's the one that got me-trying to build love from lust. New rules!

[@candacecasey5634]

@Cindy Lou yeah girls do this too

[@kellybrian4285]

@Cindy Lou hey Lou can I get your WhatsApp number?

[@miad.6267]

@@kellybrian4285 you down bad

[@mktkt7456]

I met a guy online only 3 weeks before quarantine.
We had a lot of conversations every day and he said that he'll come to see me as soon as possible.
When the quarantine was over, he started to play games, always had problem when whe had to see each other.
I understood that he had no sincerity he was a big liar an i never saw him.
Its important to be carefull you're right. It can be very painfull when you realize you wasted your time talking with a ghost...

[@Cami9325]

Girl he was just bored during quarantine, i stopped talking to guys during that time..

[@mktkt7456]

@@Cami9325 ikr. These mfs were very confident during that special time. I saw a lot of women with the same experience.
This phenomenon is a good topic lol

[@melc8388]

A lot of guys are bored during quarantine dont date during this time. Also it is cuffing season and trust me, a lot of people right now are getting in relationships not for the right reasons tho.

[@Cami9325]

A lot of men talk to girls when they're bored and have no one to flirt with, as soon as they got out of quarantine, their chances to date multiplied and they stopped talking to the girl. They were just bored and lonely 😂😂

[@kaboomroom33]

And quarantine isn’t over yet! We still need to be cautious and if meeting in person, practice social distancing and/or wear a mask! 😷 I refuse to online date anymore. Too many steps & potential issues w/trife men! 🙄

[@catherinezhu4761]

Majority of guys on dating apps share almost the same intention. But ladies just can't stop looking for diamonds in huge trash dumps.

[@tracyreid1872]

Young Man U are giving this "mature woman" some EXCELLENT advice. I am so glad I subscribed to your channel!

[@LOADING...o.o.o]

Rule 1: expect everyone is dating everyone. So don’t except he is going to commit to you after 3 dates.

[@jeremyreese9663]

I feel like another red flag is when they refuse to talk on the phone and wants to communicate only via text, that’s a red flag in my opinion even if it’s only five minutes I think a voice call is important. Just my opinion I’m guessing a lot will say I’m wrong.

[@anumsehar3589]

What to do if we both are introverts and dating online

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

That is why I dont like online dating you only match with someone based on their looks and you do not know the person's personality. So you are pretty much having to waste a lot of time trying to find someone you are compitable with. Usually the nice guys are the ones who are not in your league and the good looking guys do not want to settle down because he can get any woman.

[@beac8238]

A nice guy is in our league as long as his money & character makes up for his less attractive looks. I need to be physically attracted but I don’t date men within my looks league. Men are more visual & usually feel like they settled if they don’t have a woman more attractive than them.

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

@@beac8238 I just dont waste my time using dating apps anymore I just wasted too much time on them just have to come across too many of the wrong ones to find a descent guy. I rather be single and happy than go through so much heartache.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

TALK to them...have a conversation before meeting.

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

@@CrystalDatingCoach they can always change their mind sometimes you are not what people expected you to be.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@@tonitaquetaparks3304 You don't need to be what people expect you to be. Take or leave it. Be your BEST self!

[@msve3730]

Online dating nowadays is pretty people dating someone's profile pic. And making up an imaginary story of their relationship.

[@candacecasey5634]

Lol

[@ladybugradio1988]

And that only leads to disappointment along with being played trust me I was that naive before.

[@aminah761]

Yup

[@angelataylor7799]

guys getting obsessed w/any girl that actually responds and acts like hes in love and like theyre a couple when they havent even met, only to disappear a few weeks later, lol.

[@sexytrinimaryam]

This!

[@mirnahumphreys8488]

I struggle because I am a very open, friendly, extrovert, so it’s hard to restrain myself from talking to anybody and everybody

[@chrysanthemum3464]

I’ve followed you for over a year Kev and I’m very grateful for you. You’re the no nonsense big brother I wish I had. Thank you so much for your insight!

[@jullierose]

Facts❤️

[@Enchanteralle]

Unfortunately a lot of people don't even make the effort to have a real conversation to get to know someone. It's either no response, people responding 1x and then disappears, or people who get right into the lane of hookup. It's tiring after a while. I'm sure there are decent ppl out there, but I still like to get to know someone the organic way. I prob only met one guy who was at least decent or respectful even though we never met 'cause I guess he's talking to someone else he wants to meet, but I did appreciate the respectful closure.

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

If I may be so bold, that situation is on you girls! Let’s be totally honest here girls like the Mysterians guy the dangerous guy I know you guys like the Chads And Leroys of the world. Like I told several people I spoke with, I don’t have tattoos and I don’t have a Harley motorcycle so no you can’t jump on the back of my bike and right away into the sunset. Where do people want to hear this or not a lot of it has to do with some practical issues finding somebody that cares about you and I care about the relationship and you care about them and relationship relationship built on heat do not last.

[@angelyan638]

I feel so stupid now .. I realized that I started giving a lot more guided by his promises that were never fulfilled

[@Dianaloveschiki]

I love this "dont get mad, get unavailable "

[@elenap2215]

This dating scene gets tiring 💀 I’m good!

[@marykalous8400]

I played HARD CORE with a guy and we are having a 2nd date that HE planned. I'm glad to have had these videos!

[@Angelica-vu3nk]

Update pls?

[@JM-ip1es]

Why would you want to dm a guy first 😅😅😅 they will always think you want sex... Idc what you mentioned lol it’s just the way social media branded itself unfortunately :(

[@winning3329]

Well because most site force you to make the first move.

[@shrelltaylor9270]

@@helenarichard very manipulative

[@suspirodelmoro1430]

I’m sitting over here cringing listening to this because it’s like Kev read my online dating convos. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@miamonique_]

I’ve never DM”d a man. I just can’t do it ☹️ and they don’t be in my DM ☹️

[@kumajoey6031]

Same but men swear we getting thousands of dms.

[@potentialrizing1949]

I refuse...too much thirsty masculine energy for me 😩

[@miamonique_]

@@kumajoey6031 they sure do!

[@miamonique_]

@@potentialrizing1949 I feel you there, I can’t do it.

[@soulRegal08]

Same. No one is in my dm’s. Lol.

[@Rebelle07]

"Don't do this dumb shit" 😂😂 why I love Kev

[@AuXus9]

"Don't try to approach him like a gentleman." This is where I screw up repeatedly. I open doors, make all plans, and offer to pay for dates that guys I match with agree to go on but ultimately never show up for. I don't do these things because I need/want to be in control; I do them because they come natural to me. I very much grew up in a 'golden rule' household (treat others how you want to be treated), but I do this to the point that I don't know how to 'rest in my feminity' (has always felt like a foreign concept) and just let a man take the lead. I was taught to be respectful and convenient, but that hasn't translated well in my attempts at online dating; it just left men bored. I'm thinking about trying again soon and seeing if your advice leads to a different result. Cheers!

[@tearealdavis2212]

Wow I’m just now watching this . Recently started online dating. I’m nailing this !! I knew I had game!! Lol I’m doing everything he said were supposed to do. It’s easy ladies , just don’t lie to yourself , your worth it !!

[@mayagraves8402]

“One paragraph at a time”
🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

My bro! You were talking to the girls when you mention that stuff at two minutes and 30 seconds. I’m not gonna quit being a gentleman what I mean by that is I want to treat a young lady with respect and I want to get to know them. I’m 58 years out so in the time our grew up what people would call it was I’m trying to score by which I mean trying to have sex. Sex and attraction is a big part of a relationship. However, caring about the person, getting to know them better, being concerned about their needs, In my humble opinion those are the things that make a relationship worth having. Again, I don’t mind telling you have a commonsense video here and for me that’s a big compliment keep going bro and thank you again for making a video.

[@growthmeadow]

Kev, you're the Michael Jordan of dating advice. Thank you!! :)

[@jakelex1194]

What kind of guys attracted you the most ?

[@AngelasTravelAdventures]

Once AGAIN you in my business. Ok God, you are obviously using this man to speak to me, I hear you and I give up. 😔

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

My dude, at two minutes and 20 seconds you are 100% spot on plus I don’t man hating you really made me laugh! Yeah I agree don’t kick somebody’s ass! What part of being honest with another person and getting to know them is such an offense to people? Besides all that speaking as a man most of the spell as what they need is a proverbs 31 gal.

[@real1618]

I wish I knew this in my 20s... wasted time... but I don’t have to continue that behavior. Thank you so much! You shed light on a lot for me.

[@Chaptersaudio]

Love this topic. No other dating guru on UA-cam covers this. Awesome video.

[@msjesethkameta]

It’s the “learn how to walk and talk” for me! This was good👌🏽

[@cheryljones2009]

It's a shame... I'm a 50 year-old single black woman & STILL trying to learn from all this advice & "tips"!!! 😣😣😣

[@judith055interacalcouplesv3]

Sorry 😞

[@tiffanyjohnson4271]

I needed this Kev..These dudes will say anything to get the box..I watch them close and the guys don't understand how I'm moving thanks to Kev..☺

[@glenbutler9611]

Thanks Kev for some very mature insight and wisdom! I am so tired of listening to the problems of toxic and manipulative men and not solutions for handling them! How refreshing❤

[@raventhissel]

One of your best advice videos! All of these things have been working for me. I didn’t know that you weren’t supposed to compliment a man’s appearance though!!! Ugh men are so different, that’s for helping me understand.

[@Jubileejones]

Never compliment his appearance because then he thinks he is the prize and will give minimal effort because you are chasing him.

[@angelataylor7799]

@@Jubileejones but what if youre dating...lol.

[@Jubileejones]

@@angelataylor7799 it's the same! Never compliment his looks. If you want to give a compliment, compliment some work that he's done at home or an accomplishment at his job ie. "Babe you did a great job fixing that leak.", "Congrats on your raise! You deserve it!", etc. Compliment his WORKS and his ACCOMPLISHMENTS and he will want to do more of those things to impress you and keep you.

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Salaam and Grand Rising!
See this is exactly why I keep a few Younger People in my world!
Out of ALL of your videos I've binged on THIS ONE RIGHT HERE was the one I really needed as a Seasoned Woman. I'm very very new to this dating app world and whooooo wheee I wish someone had warned me! 😅 But the good thing is because I am so new and have now watched this video I definitely know what to NOT do! Thanks, Beloved!

[@angelamwatts]

You're going to find this story strange. I started talking to a guy online. Just small chit chat. So, we decided to meet and we liked each other but I put him in the "just friends" zone. So he asked me if I liked Game of Thrones. I told him that I never saw it. So, I decided to watch it and I really liked it. So we were texting back and forth talking about the show. So I told him that I didn't think that we were a good fit but I thought he was really cool and wanted to be friends (I really do like him more than a friend but he didn't pursue me so I didn't want him to think that I was chasing him).
We both really love the Game of Thrones show and we laugh and have a good time. He's coming over to watch season 7 with me and I'm really excited about it. He's never been disrespectful and he's coming over early evening because at the end of the show, he's going home. I set the boundary that we are just friends. Until he PROVES himself to me, I'm not serving refreshments.
Ladies, be careful out here. Listen to Kev. He's right!

[@lalathescorpion335]

You don't have to cook dinner,but you should always offer guest refreshments.

[@angelamwatts]

@@lalathescorpion335 I meant sexual refreshments 😉

[@quicksilver0294]

@@lalathescorpion335 🤣🤣

[@bugeye8749]

Did he actually come over tho??

[@beac8238]

@還在進MÅRÎÖ步級版面包 she stated in her comment that she told him that they DONT seem like a good fit. how is she playing games when she was honest with him?

[@daniellesullivan5]

Kev is speaking all facts 💯💯💯 thank you for this! I’ve been getting bold and have been reaching out first but I’m good I’m not seeing that real interest there 🥴

[@giselaquevedo8534]

Ive watched this twiceeee, this was soooo needed! Online dating has been driving me crazy during covid and im gonna start by deleting all those who have just not continued to the conversation. What I struggle to understand is that I often find myself messaging back and forth for a week and the conversation is good snd then all the sudden they just drop of the face of the earth? What does this mean and what can I do? Also with some guys you can be messaging for 3 weeks and they dont ask you meet! Why? Would reallyyyy appreciate your input, thank you!!

[@angelataylor7799]

yeah, like you could at least go for a walk or something...especially if youve hinted or mentioned things you like to do but they make no effort, but seem to think or want you to invite them over, or practically invite themselves over...lol.

[@Frenchick]

Damn, wish this was posted earlier this week.haha I did ok though. Thank you so much for posting this!!! You don’t know how helpful it is!!

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

I was a little hesitant to look at this gentleman’s video. However, I must admit I think he’s giving solid advice. Thank you for making the video dude

[@lauraleehenry5657]

Great job. I literally do everything you say instinctively. It's all about knowing your worth and value. It's also important to know what you want, as these are safeguards against entertaining low value men. Keep up the good work. I really enjoy your videos, but the ones with the swearing I have to unfortunately end watching prematurely and try and find ones where you don't swear...LOL.

[@brownsugarglamour]

Such a good video! I feel like when you match/like a guys profile first they already think they have the upper hand. But the bread crumbing, inconsistency, late night texting, bare minimum is so aft & not for me. Goodbye sir!

[@Thegoddesstalk]

Lmao I’ve been watching your videos for about two weeks now. Every time you end them you seem so fed up! 😂 we appreciate you and all your knowledge know that! 🙏🏼

[@TynishaTalks]

Everything you're saying is where I currently am. I feel proud!

[@stefanie0158]

I talked to a guy and we had such a perfect chemistry and the convo never ended and he did ADMIT that our conversations were great . But guess what he left my last call and text on seen sadly it's over🧐

[@modest91]

Sis if he wants to play dead, let him stay dead!!! My recent experience, I met a guy and in my mind we were compatible and had chemistry. After 3 dates he wanted to take it to the bedroom, and I declined I told him I can't do that as I'll get attached and want to get to know him better. Anywho he calls me a couple days later and told me he didn't put in the effort to get to know me.....and didn't wish to pursue courting any further. I thanked him for his honesty, but its funny how few days prior you would have happily slept with me.
Sometimes it hurts but, mans rejection is God's protection. Who we want is not for us but, do not lose hope. Some of these guys are just not worth the heartache or stress.

[@stefanie0158]

@@modest91 u're right about that it's for the best

[@stefanie0158]

Guys update he called me . But I didn't answer for 3 days and then I just left him on seen like he did at first . And It is definitely for the best cause I lost feelings.

[@mur6679]

👍👍@@stefanie0158

[@rebekam9362]

Do you know your face lights up whenever you talk about your wife? 😁

[@candacecasey5634]

It's very cute

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

I know right. I love that about Kev.

[@lilaa7851]

I used to take numbers to just shoo them away because in reality I never call back anyway. I'll just tell them straight away this time

[@Angelica-vu3nk]

Kev's face looks DONE 😂

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

In simpler terms, what is nice gentleman is saying is tread lightly, get to know the other person, and work on having a real relationship and not treating the dating sites like you’re a damn meat market!

[@annetteivey]

Oops I broke them rules I'm so glad you have these you speak well and smooth making listening nice.. (some of these guys are aweful)

[@gelc9041]

Gem of an advice! STOP OVERCOMPENSATING....

[@traceylennon1204]

Paragraphs vs. A few words!!

[@lalathyravong247]

I’m dating a guy long distance and he expects me initiate the conversation. Also if we argue he won’t text back unless I text first. I feel like I’m using masculine energy

[@legacylove3411]

You can’t be dating long distance he’s dating someone else probably

[@refilwemosase]

I needed this PEP talk after what I went through this week!

[@kimiko_111]

I’ve got my notepad and pen, I’m taking down all your notes. Thank you for your advice 😊

[@moniquechampagne6343]

I'd like to know what's with guys who say they're interested and text you in the morning and then nothing all day long until night time? It feels like they're putting in the necessary minimum effort to keep you interested and nothing more

[@moniquechampagne6343]

@Juanita Wright damn... Now you got me thinking

[@lilaa7851]

@Juanita Wright hey fellow scorpio

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

That’s exactly why. Min Effort to see how far your willing to pursue

[@lilaa7851]

@Juanita Wright I know I was saying hi because I'm also a scorpio. Why would you misunderstand that?

[@lilaa7851]

@Juanita Wright this is what I meant:
" sharing a particular activity, quality, or condition with someone or something " I wasn't calling you a man by all means. Maybe grammer differs from where I am from. Since I saw we have something in common that's why I said so, not insinuating that you are a man.

[@TynishaTalks]

"winky face emoji" LOL your dry humor amuses me

[@Candycanecoup]

1. You can DM first as long as you comment on his content, not his looks. Start with substance. Flirting and conversing is different.
2. One paragraph at a time. More than that is over-eager. Let him Fill in the blanks.
3. Never take any guys number unless he’s already asked for yours. He should ask for yours first to chase you. Tell him you don’t call guys.
4. Cut weak convo short. It should grow in complexity. Don’t squeeze water from a rock.
5. Know when you’re being seduced. Stop the sexual tension building. If he’s overtly sexual, you’re wasting your time. He’ll present his mind first, not sex if he’s serious.
6. Don’t over compensate for his low effort. If he takes too long to respond, cut it off.. If he doesn’t address things you’ve asked him, cut it off. Doesn’t matter if he still watches your stories, it means nothing and he’s just “there” but isn’t serious about you.
Don’t take him serious until he gives you a reason.

[@SuperRaduga]

Brilliant. Every single point- spot on! 🍾

[@solarflower5401]

Sir? Did you just use the word "ravish"? The "ravish" that is oftentimes used in romance novels? I'm totally a fan now. Subscribed.

[@saudadenia]

Omg the # one, he literally sent me his # I thought it’s cuz he’s enjoying the conversation but I see that’s not the case 😭

[@katrin6388]

i dont see the point in online dating, especially now during the pandemic, i dont intend in meeting up

[@ronniewagner7552]

How are you doing today my friend.... I hope you're having a wonderful week I guess so 😘

[@katrin6388]

@@ronniewagner7552 i´m fine haha hbu?

[@ronniewagner7552]

@@katrin6388 Oh I'm fine... I would like to know you more and be close to you, like to be with you just like bread and butter used to be. I hope you don't mind. Are you married? I'm a single parent and new here also.

[@marinab.8590]

I would rather them give me their number because now you can find EVERYTHING about them just by looking up their number. After l find out everything about them then l decide to call them or not.

[@nicholeflores802]

Can you PLEASE make a video about how to get out of a horrible date ASAP!!! 💛 Thanks.

[@ninafrederick6048]

I'm trying to grasp the words. I didn't want to be with anybody. But this guy I'm talking to seems like a good shot. So I need advice,but I'm lost because I gave up on learning bout guys

[@plantmeroses2346]

Talk about the REAL DEAL 😳 You ALWAYS spittin' facts in a compassionate tone and I can always count on you to blow my mind with REAL LIFE scenarios that hit home everytime!!!!!
I can't say thank you enough. Thank you Kev 🙏 I needed to hear this today !!!

[@user-il4ej3lx3r]

"Get rid of aimless men" - nice ;)

[@makeupbyikra.x3717]

Literally my therapist. Thank you 🙏

[@monicathebeautiful6483]

This is not just great online dating tips but real life dating tips too!

[@nichole4715]

I've saved time and effort and have chosen to do video dates before an in-person date. This is a great filtering tool ....

[@SanctifiedLady]

Don’t give hints or clues on how a man should behave or “what you look for in a man” tell them you don’t look for anything, “I just ppl watch” ….delete them!
It’s a process of elimination either it’s a win on his on efforts or it’s a delete or block!
Sexual-block
Time wasters-delete until you block

[@kathyczulinski1280]

I’m a new subscriber. I love your content and your straight talk. It cuts through a lot of mixed messages. Thanks!

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Welcome to our lil family!!!

[@kathyczulinski1280]

@@SonjaElizabethTeal Thank you!

[@traceylennon1204]

Even effort!

[@mercylineatieno8395]

I just popped into this lovely channel and I'm greatful for the lessons here. "don't get mad get unavailable"

[@davis4132]

Hello Mr. Hicks, What dating site do you recommend for women over 40 and interested in a serious relationship? Thank you in advance 😊

[@Jenjenn1111]

Yes, that’s what I need to know?

[@sarahthevirgo2777]

Your advice is so great every time I have doubt I think back to your videos and know I made the right decision:) thanks again kev :)

[@nancypodbesek8936]

All the things you said in this video were priceless. The part about not addressing what you said in your message was interesting because my ex did this to avoid depth and keep things childish, flirty and superficial.

[@ronniewagner7552]

How are you doing today my friend.... I hope you're having a wonderful week I guess so 😘

[@tisheikarickard-whyte3548]

Thank you Kev for clarifying that because I thought I heard you say that you met your wife online but I was not 100% sure.
So you did!
This was great advice and at least I know that dating online can work! 😀
So this makes me feel so much better now!

[@IGms.shaniel_]

Happy belated birthday Kevin my libra relationship coach! Once again great video. Today is my birthday💝😊

[@LadyChaos1992]

Happy birthday! Today is my younger son’s birthday as well

[@IGms.shaniel_]

@@LadyChaos1992 thanks Hannah! Happy birthday to your son!!

[@natachianegron1726]

hey kev this is gonna be very trending topic I want to hear thank you for the video always excited to hear your on point knowledge .

[@dsandoval2059]

Im binging on these videos. Golden material!

[@tsebosei1285]

You're real glad i found this site!

[@supermommy2717]

I had to run this video back twice! You dropped so many gems in this video 🙌🏾 thank you for this video!

[@caribny0256]

Great Advice, Thank you!!

[@natashamusonda9179]

This is great❤️❤️

[@aie_grv]

one of the best videos you filmed so far. thank you 💕